1.How he feels when he is with you. 2.Understand him. 3.Get him around happy couples 4.Don't act desperate. 5.Help him to grow 6.Be drama free. 7.Be independent. 8.Be committed. 9.Develop yourself. 10.Be open.
@TegaUkonga
3 жыл бұрын
I am glad you like the video 🙂
@elputas
3 жыл бұрын
I know, but it's really not so easy nowadays. 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for men to marry given the above scenarios, is there?
@helenarichard
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything except being drama free. Show your entire spectrum of emotions and see if he pulls away or not. Of course dont be an Amber Heard and manage pmdd and rage, but it's ok to be moody sometimes, to cry, to nag a little. Men are hard to manage and make us very emotional and they need to realise that.
@cheminmoi6524
4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos I really enjoyed watching my Africain sister
@TegaUkonga
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@ufuoma.O
4 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed watching. "when you get married, go back and get it" 😁 oh my goodness. Valid tips!
@TegaUkonga
4 жыл бұрын
Yes ooo, you can get it back later because a small amount of drama is necessary in marriage 💑 😉 😅
@elputas
3 жыл бұрын
@@TegaUkonga Yes, but too much will kill it, and men have had too much from women: 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for men to marry given the above scenarios, is there?
2 жыл бұрын
@@elputas shhhhh they don't want you speak the truth here.
@elputas
2 жыл бұрын
@ I know man...
@terdoogyuse
4 жыл бұрын
Your like a big sister I like how your actually giving more realistic advise and not telling us to go and change ourselves. Love it
@TegaUkonga
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Terdoo, I'm glad you enjoyed the video.
@claudiamarekia5125
3 жыл бұрын
True.. I also support that👍☺️
@fredaamegee185
4 жыл бұрын
Well done! Splendid advice.
@TegaUkonga
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching 👀 🙂
@amysalako5627
4 жыл бұрын
Great job! You did not leave anything out. Looking beautiful 💕
@TegaUkonga
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Amy.
@amysalako5627
4 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
@elputas
3 жыл бұрын
I know, but it's really not so easy nowadays. 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for men to marry given the above scenarios, is there?
@amysalako5627
3 жыл бұрын
@@elputas true I agree. Proposing is one thing working to stay in the marriage is another.
@TheMomLifee
4 жыл бұрын
Very well said Taygaa! Loud it in the back! lol
@TegaUkonga
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Iroro.🙏
@claudiamarekia5125
3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much.. I pray that this works and one day I hope to come back and comment on this video while in a happy and stable marriage 🌹
@TegaUkonga
3 жыл бұрын
I will be looking forward to hearing the good news, 😀 in the main time don't forget to have fun and be happy 😊
@deannairie4825
2 жыл бұрын
Wooow facts!! I agree with everything and agree with no1 how he feels when he he is with you
@TegaUkonga
2 жыл бұрын
😀 thank you Deanna for watching
@yourstrulyjennifer3426
3 жыл бұрын
I wonder why this video has so little likes with such good content... Great advice 💕
@TegaUkonga
3 жыл бұрын
😀 thanks Jennifer.
@claudiamarekia5125
3 жыл бұрын
Me too😢
@claudiamarekia5125
3 жыл бұрын
It's because people hate honesty
@elputas
3 жыл бұрын
I know, but it's really not so easy nowadays. 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for men to marry given the above scenarios, is there?
@UNSRIPTEDBS
3 жыл бұрын
It's because women are men now, unfortunately 😔 Not me!!! I love loving my man and allowing him to be the man!
@theveehx
4 жыл бұрын
This video needs to be viral cause I feel everybody needs to watch, listen to this and learn from it especially the 7th point, the financial draining part with emotional blackmail.
@TegaUkonga
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks veeh , I really want to help some ladies understand the process better.
@fredaamegee185
4 жыл бұрын
veehTUBE I agree! Great points! Let’s make it go viral.
@toyinbabalola9223
4 жыл бұрын
Interesting topic
@TegaUkonga
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Toyin 😊
@customerservice3355
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much more grace.
@TegaUkonga
Жыл бұрын
You are welcome 😀
@jaleesadowling4960
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙌🙌🙌
@CleanSweetHome
3 жыл бұрын
You're such a feminine woman😇 feels great to watch your video's🥰
@TegaUkonga
3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you, that's so sweet of you to say 😘
@CleanSweetHome
3 жыл бұрын
@@TegaUkonga You welcomee😇😇
@kwesidailynews4980
4 жыл бұрын
OmG!😱 this be techniques or what😂 let's gooo of you girls how we gonna do for you girls to propose too😳
@TegaUkonga
4 жыл бұрын
😃😃 who knows, i just might do a video to help guys get their ladies to pop the question 🤔 stay tuned 😉
@jenniferjones1470
2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU for this I am so tired of seeing poor information about this online. You have the right information!! subscribed ;)
@TegaUkonga
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome 😀
@theveehx
4 жыл бұрын
Pack your waterproof to his house?😹
@TegaUkonga
4 жыл бұрын
🙂 😃 yep water proof marriage 💑, not a good idea.
@efonokon6450
Жыл бұрын
I'm interested please
@peachesncreamy9653
3 жыл бұрын
You are very pretty.
@TegaUkonga
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you peaches and cream
@FeliciaAmu
2 жыл бұрын
Watching this in 2022
@TegaUkonga
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching dear
@LadyOnline247
3 жыл бұрын
🙌🙌🙌😍
@TegaUkonga
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Elly.
@ImranKhan-tj3dr
2 жыл бұрын
I m alone Feel very lonely
@TegaUkonga
2 жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the best in love
@ImranKhan-tj3dr
2 жыл бұрын
Plead help me I m S eriousely looking life partner 💑😍❤🌷 Plead plese I m alone life very hard I m feel very sad😂😂
@elputas
3 жыл бұрын
1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for men to marry given the above scenarios, is there?
@TegaUkonga
3 жыл бұрын
doesn't sound fair 😕
@elputas
3 жыл бұрын
@@TegaUkonga Exactly. Once we pay attention to the causes we can understand the effects. Now, can anybody still wonder why men are avoiding marriage in frightening numbers?
@lawrencejenkins8103
2 жыл бұрын
It's not that men don't wanna marry ... we just don't want the STATE in our house either during or after the marriage making decisions for us (most of which men aren't going to like).
@elputas
2 жыл бұрын
@@lawrencejenkins8103 Agree. That's why I said "...given the above scenarios."
@sexylove5235
2 жыл бұрын
I need an advice after 2 kids 5 years with him .he don't want to marry me .what can i do?
@TegaUkonga
2 жыл бұрын
I am sorry to hear that, after 5 years and 2 kids he might feel like he is already married, tell him how you feel, God bless.
@sexylove5235
2 жыл бұрын
@@TegaUkonga we talk about it last night his reply is i don't have money yet. Which i know is a big lie...we live togther in the same house, it just 2 months now after i have birth to our second child...each time i bring the issue he pick up quarrel.
@sexylove5235
2 жыл бұрын
@@TegaUkonga i really feel depress this morning that was how i came across your video
@TegaUkonga
2 жыл бұрын
@@sexylove5235 please don’t be depressed my dear, happiness is finding beauty and contentment in what you do have, you have two beautiful children enjoy your children and family until you get what you want.
@sexylove5235
2 жыл бұрын
@@TegaUkonga thanks
@justiceskillful7134
2 жыл бұрын
😂
@mfriedrich2012
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t get married fellas. Stay single and play the field. It’s way more fun. Especially right now with the gender war going on. Most women want a wedding, but they don’t really want to be wives. So smile and spin those plates.
@TegaUkonga
3 жыл бұрын
😀 lol, but guys some how also end getting married, I think guys want it eventually just as much as the ladies.
@elputas
3 жыл бұрын
@@TegaUkonga Not really. It's not so easy nowadays. 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for men to marry given the above scenarios, is there?
@TegaUkonga
3 жыл бұрын
@@elputas wow that doesn't sound fair to the man, but I think prenuptial agreement should be taken almost as seriously as the marriage vows.
@elputas
3 жыл бұрын
@@TegaUkonga Alimony cannot be included in any prenup.
@elputas
3 жыл бұрын
@@TegaUkonga That is good for very little. When a woman takes the children as hostages to negotiate with the man, it's all over for the father.
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