Make your free 90 Minute Consultation at calendly.com/renesance/free-consultation because you should go through this alone. 3/4 of divorced men seek professional help, why not hire someone that's highly specialized only in divorced men.
@grahamodonnell4980
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video it helped me a lot today!
@stanmoney8470
Жыл бұрын
My second divorce,my wife divorced me. Its hard to move on . Im doing it, but i think about her everyday! I wanted us too keep working on things! She quit!
@stanmoney8470
10 ай бұрын
I unfriended my ex wife on social media. Sometimes I regret, but then I don't feel as bad because she divorced me! That hurted me like hell! It still hurts like hell! I still laugh and talk with others. They just dont know the hurt i feel inside. She is divorced me like I wasn't nothing to her! No respect for our marriage!
@gamrleomord937
2 жыл бұрын
My wife just left me 3 weeks ago and I can’t even bring myself to get the divorce papers! This video was super helpful, I’ve been in the depressed phase and have drank nearly every day since she left but I am seeing now that alcohol is only making it worse, I want to feel positive about myself again and just co parent with her. I know that moving on is for the best I just can’t seem to do it
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Josh, I'm sorry, terribly sorry you're going through this. You're not alone. Please join our free and confidential FB Group. It's for guys and it's to help give you hope. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978 I've worked with so many men and am very confident I can help. Please, for you, for your well being, make a 1 on 1 with me www.mensdivorcecoaching.com I don't "sell" it's an oppotunity for you to be heard and come up with an action plan and first appointment is free.
@patrickdensmore6779
2 жыл бұрын
Damn bro keep your head up and keep putting in the work on yourself !
@MGTOWmademeMillionaire777
Жыл бұрын
Do not be a simp, study mgtow, you are lucky that that para site went away
@stephenhenson7973
11 ай бұрын
Me and my wife of 38 years had just over a year where we slept in Separate rooms and didn't talk. Then 6 months ago I found out she was sleeping with someone when I confronted her she left and went to her parents and is still seeing this other man. I'm devastated and have tried to talk to her but she doesn't want to know me. I just don't know what to do as I'm 60 now and feel life's ended
@beckycarreiro2369
7 ай бұрын
meaning she is not your soul mate
@stanmoney8470
Жыл бұрын
It doesn't make you weak, it's normal.
@gilbertperez1589
Жыл бұрын
My wife just left me after 22 years of marriage and she is filing for divorce . I don't know what the heck happened!!! I want to thank you for your videos they are very helpful!
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Gilbert.. I hear that a lot, guys say it was all of a sudden but signs are always there. A guy once told me his ex left him and that it came out of nowhere. She had cheated on him several times before as he would catch her and he said it came out of nowhere. That's of course an extreme example but signs are always there. I work with guys and caution them about this because they're in danger of repeating the same mistake if they don't know. Relationships, they repeat themselves if no growth has taken place and I'm perfectly aware of this because I am guilty of it also in my past.
@fernandocabanillas8133
2 жыл бұрын
I love your video brother, it’s just so fucking hard after 27 years and 4 children with the youngest is six years old. I really don’t want to have to start over again but I know eventually I have to.
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment and there are 1000s of guys like you so you're not alone. Why don't you join our free and private FB Group? It's the fastest growing group regarding divorce. All I ask is you answer the questions saying that I invited you. Here's the link you wont be disapointed: facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@fernandomacedo9586
5 ай бұрын
Going through a very painful divorce, it's been 5 months since the breakup, it's been hard because I have a beautiful daughter with my ex-wife, and it makes it more difficult because I have to be in contact with her, I don't know how to behave around my ex, if I behave indifferent or like nothing happened, or happy or what??? This videos are amazing and very helpful, keep up the good work, see you on the other side!!!
@andyc3537
4 жыл бұрын
Great advice...my now ex wife divorced me and I didn't know it was coming at all...I threw myself back into training and boxing and I feel better than I have for years... I will not allow her actions to dictate how i will live my life... get busy and do the things you love.. Health and happiness to you all all.
@Mensdivorcecoach
4 жыл бұрын
I love your attitude. It hurts man. I know. Thank you for your comment. I hope you're doing well and thriving.
@andyc3537
4 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach thank you so much I really appreciate your reply and your so so right..Getting busy is the best thing you can do. And I had to laugh at the ring tone and names.. it does help for sure. And most of all. The most important.. dont look for her life on social media or anywhere. I'm embarrassed to say she controlled everything.. her deciding to divorce me without me knowing was the best thing to happen to me for a long time.. She probably hates I'm doing well right now. She loves her job of power.. Proper narcissist behaviour.. Better off without her even though it made me homeless.. Every cloud has a silver lining if you work at it... Great advice for anyone going through a break up whether it be weeks or years.. if your the only person fully committed your wasting your love on the wrong person... wishing you a super day every day...and thank you..👍
@Mensdivorcecoach
4 жыл бұрын
Andy, my pleasure. You're the reason why I started this channel. Hope you join our FB Group. Would love to continue our communication.
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk
2 жыл бұрын
There’s no such thing as being boring are weak minded because you’re upset that your marriage failed. All that says is that you cared about it. I’m not going to pin the blame on women or men but I will say this not everybody is committed to their relationships. This gentleman just pretty good advice in my opinion.
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind comment. I did a study to see what works best. Hope you got the opportunity to see it. It's under 4 ways to get over your ex. The results surprised me.
@pearlfisher2813
4 жыл бұрын
19 years, and still hurting. Years and years of anti depressants, and 15 years of post break up heroin addiction have rendered me an empty vessel. Constant melancholy, darkness, and pain. I can't find a way out apart from the obvious ( which I contemplate constantly ) . I hate being like this but at 59 years of age I couldn't get back into the dating, meeting potential partners game etc, I have neither the inclination nor the energy to go down that route.
@Mensdivorcecoach
4 жыл бұрын
Pearlfisher: Rather than assume what you're going through, instead, under the comment section, there's my FB Group. Join it so we can communicate. Let's talk one to one. I'd love to hear from you and hear your story.
@craignodder6051
4 жыл бұрын
Orr bless you l sore you will get throw this all the best n see a doctor 🙏
@novaheads
2 жыл бұрын
You have to move on for yourself man. You control your emotions
@joaquinfigueroa3640
2 жыл бұрын
Turn to God, my man. Jesus is the way.
@karlaobolanos2178
3 жыл бұрын
I identify with what you said in this video 100% brother, you were talking about me! I only wish I had seen this video three years ago when the shit hit the fan, things would’ve been easier but that only made me a tougher mofo. I’m slowly getting my mojo back and now feel effin awesome about myself and what I’ve accomplished. Kudos to you brother!! Chingao!!!
@Mensdivorcecoach
3 жыл бұрын
What a great compliment Carlos. Men need to work together on this. I hope you joined our group on FB.
@carlmarch9591
2 жыл бұрын
Good to hear mate 💪💪
@Mackonreal
2 жыл бұрын
Going through my second divorce, I appreciate your videos and motivation
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Brandon, curious, which one has been harder for you (put yourself in your situation during your first divorce), your first or second divorce? Please, join our FB Closed Group. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@stanmoney8470
Жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach My second divorce is far much harder!!
@rodjackson5015
5 ай бұрын
Stop getting married
@mysteria5804
3 ай бұрын
Start praying about it. That's the only thing these coaches never recommend. Every woman isn't bad, you have to fix your character so you can be with a good one otherwise you keep running them off without realizing it. I'm here because as a young single woman with no kids, I find that divorced men are scary to date. They're angry, insecure, bitter, in denial and are holding on to all the toxic traits that dissolved their marriage in the first place. All the non-toxic women will run from you if youre unhealed. Because you're a danger to her and yourself. HEAL! Ask God to show you the filth, face it and take it out. Living in denial isn't helping you. Stop running from your ugly, face it and fix it. Ask God to help you, God truly exists, don't wait till you're 85 and finished to find out there was a higher power that could have helped you if only you'd cared to call on Him and do the work
@charlesdial7152
3 ай бұрын
I am going through a hard time right now and it hurts so bad but I realize the part that I played in this relationship 💔, I am getting better but it still pisses me off. I am trying to heal from the past and start to understand my feelings better. I just need to talk with other guys about the situation because I know that I'm not the only one who is dealing with smthg like this 💯
@mattlofty5884
Жыл бұрын
Great vid , it’s been 17 months for me, I’m gonna draw a line in the sand at 2 years !💪
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
2 years for what? To begin living? Why? She didn't die, she left, no need to mourn someone that left
@brelendwiggins7238
Жыл бұрын
Going through a divorce. I was married for 5yrs. Two kids, an I lost my business. I’m starting from scratch. I just got a 3bedroom townhome an I got my kids for now but man I feel like shit.
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
I hope you continue to watch some videos and see the progress you can have. No woes brother. Don't do that to yourself and if you continue with your woes, mark my words, you're going to have problems with your kids.
@YesToTech
4 жыл бұрын
Such amazing advice on how to get over a breakup! This will certainly help many people out! :)
@Mensdivorcecoach
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Marina. As men, we have such a difficult time finding someone who listens because it's not a masculine trait.
@jasoncarnicelli144
4 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video. And it really is Renaissance period that a man must go through as Rene indicates. A man must be willing to give himself permission to be really attentive to himself during this time where he works to find himself, reinvent himself. Rene's insight will help many men, and helps me!
@Mensdivorcecoach
4 жыл бұрын
Jason, you're a Bad Ass my friend. Stay strong!
@CoachKen10
Жыл бұрын
I love this video Coach Rene!
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
Thank you brother. You know what's crazy, this was the video that ultimately made me decide where I was supposed to go. To become a DiVo coach.
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk
2 жыл бұрын
This is the real world! May sound like I’m being harsh but don’t waste your life and people did you not care about you.
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
In the real world you do my friend. It's reality. We're humans not machines.
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk
Жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach Very well said dude in there is something to be said about looking at the cruelties of life.
@Zfaith_fitness_detox
4 жыл бұрын
Love your advice! Getting away from being a victim!
@Mensdivorcecoach
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much. Often we overlook the fact that it is us that do it to ourselves. We really have to look within us and open our eyes. To me, it was arrogance that kept me from believing she would cheat. I just never thought it would happen to me.
@carlmarch9591
2 жыл бұрын
This is gold advice my friend God bless from England 🏴
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Feel free to join our free and confidential FB Group. It's the only Group that actually comes with instructions to help. All I ask is you answer the questions because about 30% of the people requesting access are not accepted.. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@novaheads
2 жыл бұрын
You are the best, realest advice coach. Thank you
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Thank Yoyo12 O. Are you in our group? Should join if not. Appreciate your feedback.
@seahaltura7116
4 жыл бұрын
Great insights. This advice is what many people need to know especially those who are having issues with their relationships.
@Mensdivorcecoach
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Seah, you're correct. Often, we confuse love and limerence. Such a dangerous zone.
@juancarlosalvarado3904
4 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice, it really hit the spots. It took me 9 years to get thru this. I wished I had seen this video back then, it would had help me tremendously. Thank you Mr Renesance man...excellent advice.
@Mensdivorcecoach
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Juan Carlos. That means a lot. It's so important to change your paradigm in life and that's such a challenge to do when you go through such trauma.
@brandonsmith302
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty. It’s very supportive.
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome brother. Hope you requested to join our team my friend. linktr.ee/renesanceman
@NavD1
2 жыл бұрын
thank you for the advice brother
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Bro, I did so much research here it was sick. Feel free to join our free FB Group. Just say who you are to confirm your identity. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@mystic_tacos
3 жыл бұрын
The problem is... We are still friends, we must still be in contact because of the kids anyway. She still loves me, she just isn't IN love with me anymore, the same can't be said for me.
@Mensdivorcecoach
3 жыл бұрын
Why don't you join our divorced group for men. It's free and confidential. It's good and refreshing you 2 have a friendly relationship. I would say, you have to push yourself away from her from friends to friendly. You will be hard pressed to move on if you don't. Can't be celebrating holidays together nor anything like that. It's like telling an alcoholic to have 1 drink. Can't happen. Sorry but that's the truth. Here's the link if you wanna join us. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@karlaobolanos2178
3 жыл бұрын
Same here bro and that’s ok, part of the process of moving on is letting her know that you’re doing great without her, it’s not easy but it can be done with a lot of work!
@Mensdivorcecoach
3 жыл бұрын
@@karlaobolanos2178 I mentioned on one of my videos that I can't say I won because that puts us on the same playing field and we're not on the same league. Instead I like to say I ended up winning out. Glad you're part of the team brother.
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know what to tell you dude. My advice to you is center on your children. The children did not asked to be brought into this world and I’m telling you man to man you over to them to help them ever way you can. Best regards from the state of Kentucky.
@zombiekilledmytoast2655
2 жыл бұрын
i went for a run and it did help im more focused on my breathlessness lol
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Love it. True. Hope you continue doing so
@DjAlexMiamiDj
3 жыл бұрын
Great advice.
@Mensdivorcecoach
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you and hope it helps. Feel free to join our Divorce Men's Group on FB at the link: facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@kristin1533
2 жыл бұрын
A lot of this advice is good for women, too.
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you and you're very much correct. Reason why I didn't address much of this for women is because my research is done on men and I didn't want to represent. If you're going through a divorce, I'm terribly sorry. It's not easy
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Kristin,. I wanted to offer you some guidance just in case you need help. There is a Divorce Coach for females that I trust. Here is FB group link. facebook.com/groups/587034699538031
@roelberador4536
2 жыл бұрын
I finished watching your videos and appreciated how you get over your ex wife. I am 38 years old. Married. We were together for two years and five months. suddenly my wife has infidelity towards me that i only knew later. This time it's almost 7 months since we separated. But it's very painful to me. Until now i still thinking about her. I want her back but i don't know what to do coz she is with the other guy already. How could i get over this feeling and a kind of depression in me.?
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Roel, I'm terribly sorry about your pain. Worked with thousands of men to help them heal. I'd start with joining our FB Group. It's free and confidential. Just make sure you answer the entrance questions because we don't accept just anyone. It helps when you say you saw me on YT. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978 I'd make a 1 on 1 appointment with me. First one is free buddy. They're goal oriented and often cathartic. Here's the link with the price, the way it works, etc. www.mensdivorcecoaching.com I hope to see you at both.
@rivalchavez9250
Жыл бұрын
Try 15 years.
@ortallevitan1
4 жыл бұрын
This video was EXCELLENT! thanks so much for all the information
@Mensdivorcecoach
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind compliment. If you need help, feel free to reach out. I'm always available and join the FB Group for help if you need to. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978/
@julianlloyd9557
3 жыл бұрын
Going through a divorce now
@Mensdivorcecoach
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. You're going to need a good support group. Here, join us. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978/announcements
@j.lee13collins45
Жыл бұрын
Found out my wife of 16 years is now a lesbian. We have 2 kids and she will move out in a few months. It's a weird place to be in. She still loves me as a best friend she says. Makes this hard to move on emotionally.
@yomismo1888
Ай бұрын
How are you doing today?
@johnsantos3392
Жыл бұрын
Gold 💪💪💪💪
@billcross3790
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Feel free to joing our group, it's free and confidential. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk
2 жыл бұрын
Life is just kick you in the balls! Well now, don’t beat around the bush say what you’re thinking be straightforward😀😀😀😀
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
LOL,,,,, as I continue to write and produce I've gotten more comfortable in front of the camera. Ever seen my first video? It's horrible but I keep it so I can show men that it's OK to try and suck and try and suck and try and you get the rest. Now I have fun with it. If you look at a few I'm wearing earpieces because I listen to music to pump me up (while recording) and just enjoy the session.
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk
Жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach Thanks dude greatly appreciate your videos be cool.
@physiciansassist1
3 жыл бұрын
I needed that
@Mensdivorcecoach
3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad to hear. Please, join our FB Group. It's the fastest growing group for divorcing men. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@physiciansassist1
3 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach currently on mi road bicycle riding to the beach. Got to take your first step I guess..
@Mensdivorcecoach
3 жыл бұрын
@@physiciansassist1 Where do you live? What beach?
@physiciansassist1
3 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach Oceanside CA
@physiciansassist1
3 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach I was living in beaitiful Dana Point before the wife left me few months ago
@MGTOWmademeMillionaire777
Жыл бұрын
Mgtow gives you the knowledge to not even have a wife! Mgtow is the best that has ever happened to me!!! Every men should study mgtow
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
Not a fan. MGTOW reminds me of someone that got their ass kicked by a bully and when they run anywhere near that bully, they run the opposite direction. They gave up and threw in the towel. What level MGTOW are you? Are you in the cabin, alone saying you're at peace with the world only to really be alone? It's fine if you chose to live that way. I prefer to live and feel and taste and smell. My 2 cents.
@MGTOWmademeMillionaire777
Жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach jaja no, i have 2 girls, 1 is 18 and the other 22. I told them that they are not my GFs, just fun... I'm a surgeon, i have a 3 floor mansion, sports cars, beach house, several rentals, 0$ in debt, no para site wife or kids 🥳! And monster, but monster bank account. You have a wrong concept about mgtow, mgtow is a blessing and no judge is going to tell me to give the beach house or my mansion to a woman, just for sign a contract where i do not have a chance to win... I do not have to pay to mantain an old wrinkled woman all my life when i change girls when they turn 23. I feel like i would marry if i was poor, or i could not get free sex from young hot girls, or if i was short or ugly, a beta... Life is good. Mgtow, no wife rich life And Remember the huge gap between alone and lonely 😎
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