I really like your accepting attitude towards the black pill. Biology is biology and there’s no point in getting angry over things we can’t control; just make the most out of the hand you’ve been dealt in life. Subbed.
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Thanks man! I appreciate that. I definitely used to be angry years back but now I'm at the stage where I accept it's basic biology like you said.
@Wong-Jack-Man
7 ай бұрын
There is a difference between sub5 and average. If you’re you’re average you’re just invisible but if you’re sub5 you are treated as repulsive and overtly discriminated against and that’s not just in dating it’s anything from employment to service so yea there is a difference.
@levidestin6783
7 ай бұрын
Nah average is seen but sub5 is invisible they’re not sought out after that’s all
@Gaze73
5 ай бұрын
Not necessarily, I'm a 3 and I get the invisible treatment. 5'7, skinnyfat, norwood3, normie face. One guy I know looks even worse than me and he's married a 6 somehow. He has a boring job and personality too.
@user-wj6dt5bq3w
26 күн бұрын
The 5-6 guys will sometimes be chased by ugly girls. At least in the short term they see you as the best they can get.
@leandromacias6461
Жыл бұрын
you are like the sigma version of DBDR, but more positive and putting out nothing more than pure facts out of ur experience, showing the advantages, disadvantages and conclusions regarding looks. Also entertaining to hear you. Keep up the good work!
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Leandro! I appreciate that. I will be putting out more videos now that work has slowed down a lot.
@JokerCat9
7 ай бұрын
He's the goodlooking version of DBDR.
@animequenchers
7 ай бұрын
@@JokerCat9 He's basically DBDR post looks maxing. DBDR says he's "looksmaxed" but is still obese and ginger
@MLD2G
7 ай бұрын
@@animequenchers what does DBDR look like? There's a picture of him out there?
@Pisscan
7 ай бұрын
@@ascended266 you should do a podcast with dbdr, rehab room (itv) and darth hideous (ogremindset) 💀
@newperson9662
Жыл бұрын
Oh man, why is it so hard to come to terms with it? It's like every time you hear about how you're treated differently it stabs you in your heart even though you know it and have heard it 1000 times!
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
I hear ya! Thanks for watching!
@letsbefreeletsbefree7183
Жыл бұрын
Yeah but sometimes i wish I knew about black pill when I was 18 then I wouldnt even go to night clubs like i did and waste money on expensive alkohol. I had a few not so good looking/average friends that I always wondered why they never liked night clubs now I know why they prefered going to the pub with just guys wish i went with them more often than wasting time at the clubs....
@MIchaelSybi
Жыл бұрын
Because those are two separate worlds, and you subconsciously know it. I've been an upper normie in school (7-7.5 I guess), and I still recall how girls liked me and treated me well, like I was special. Then I went NW7 by 22, and the game was over. I became an invisible man. It's comparable to old people treatment by society. I couldn't recover from it even after almost 20 years. Because you still remember warm stairs, smiles, approaches by girls. I lived in the world, where most people sympathized me, but I didn't comprehend it was about looks. I even have hard time with friends now, as looks affect not only females interaction. People are all about looks. But I also realized the girls who liked and approached me were never 8-10s, more like 5-7 maximum. 8-10s were only after hottest and the most dominant men
@RussX5Z
Жыл бұрын
@@MIchaelSybi When you said you went NW 7 at age 22 did you mean you went Norwood 7 bald at age 22? By the way I'm losing my hair too but I'm around a Norwood 2-3 scale, I have mostly pretty extreme diffuse thinning on the top of my head and I use a hair concealer to cover it up and it looks pretty okay looking but when I go with my natural look, I think I look much more older and less attractive looking. Anyways thanks for sharing your story and I'm sorry to hear what you went through. Some people are shallow brutal assholes without even realizing it. By the way I just turned 43 years old a few days ago. How old are you?
@MIchaelSybi
Жыл бұрын
@@RussX5Z I'm in my 40's. Yes, I had the same diffuse pattern, which is the worse you can have, as it goes all in one go, rather than thinning temples etc. But if you went to 40 without much hairloss, you will be fine, as the earlier it starts, the worse the outcome. I started losing hair at 17 I guess, which is awful. But I didn't notice it, until it was too late because of diffuse pattern, and lack of information. It's painful, but SMP helped me accepting it, as it looks "ok'ish". When I went bald, I dreamt about such thing, painting it with a pen, and thinking how nice it would be. I'm grateful I live in such a time, when it's an option. My girfriend still thinks it's my choice shaving, which is hard to grasp, considering she knows me for more than 5 years. I hope AI will hep finding many cures
@Kamisuitendo
Жыл бұрын
Being average doesn't cut it anymore
@Kamisuitendo
Жыл бұрын
@johndevos4669 Confidence does absolutely nothing for your physical appearance. A lot of attractive people are highly insecure, yet we still find them attractive. All that matters is what's physical
@apolloniusbeitsman5444
Жыл бұрын
It does just look around
@strawhat9179
Жыл бұрын
@John de Vos holy shit u actually believe that works lol dawg it’s 2023
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Being average looking will definitely make it much more difficult but you can still have a decent dating life or find a relationship as an average looking guy. You're definitely going to struggle but it's still possible.
@Kamisuitendo
Жыл бұрын
@johndevos4669 Most men don't have money or status of significance. Even so, a girl sees your looks first. If she doesn't like or is interested in what she sees first, which is your looks, it's over. You can convince a girl to like you
@Dannydimes247
Жыл бұрын
Being average in 2023 gets you the same results as a sub 5, which is none.
@slavesystem
Жыл бұрын
You'll get cucked at most
@et5740
Жыл бұрын
If this was true 90% of dudes would be single. When you want to come back to the real world feel free
@Dannydimes247
Жыл бұрын
@@et5740 that doesn’t mean the woman are attracted to them.
@et5740
Жыл бұрын
Like I said. When you wanna come back to the real world, feel free.😂
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
It's definitely much more difficult being a sub 5 male than an average looking male. You definitely have still have a chance as an average looking man. You definitely won't see good results on the dating apps though. You can see fairly decent results through hobbies and your social circle but it will definitely be much more difficult than the chances of a good looking man. Thanks for watching!
@TheNamronTV
8 ай бұрын
These days with social media, their egos are super high. I know I’m above average but the locking eyes thing doesn’t happen as much as it did before social media. I get energy of them trying to act like they don’t notice me even though I know they are kind of checking me out.
@kingtyr
8 ай бұрын
Either social media or just too intimidating
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Agreed! Egos are definitely high these days as a result of social media.
@puglif3708
4 ай бұрын
@@ascended266 yeah I see Averege-Less than averege looking girls having their egos so high and thinking they're Top tier looking when in reality they're the exact opposite and not only that , they talk big too
@puglif3708
3 ай бұрын
im locking eyes with 90% women i see on the street/gym/work/clubs/class it doesnt mean anything bro move on and forget about media's standards they mean nothing they all people that happen to record/take pictures of them from a good side that makes them look good in camera but in reality they averege looking once you think that way im sure you'll be alot happier
@user-wj6dt5bq3w
26 күн бұрын
@@puglif3708 A lot of times its the guy forcing her to lock eyes because staring directly into someone's eyes is an aggressive act. Its only when they keep staring and don't want to break eye contact or they show a subtle smile or eyebrow raise that they like what they see in you.
@CrimsonUniverse22
8 ай бұрын
Well, this confirmed it. I am average looking. I’ve read many comments on this topic and it’s the most logical one. If you truly want to know if you’re attractive or not, observe how the opposite sex treats you. And the opposite sex treats me, well, neutrally. Not overly positive or flirtatious, but at the same time I’ve never sensed disgust or repulsion. It’s been like that as far back as I can remember, until now at age 31. A lot of these experiences you talk about, fits my experiences perfectly…sans dating. I’ve never been on a date. I can’t say I’m not surprised, but at least I have closure. I too lost quite a lot of weight. I too am between 10-13% body fat and gained some muscle. Didn’t help one bit. Only my male coworkers ever complimented my body/muscles. I’m 5’9. Not short, but certainly not tall enough in MOST woman’s eyes. Also being Asian doesn’t help. And specifically being FILIPINO doesn’t help either. We’re the least attractive of the Asians. Being Korean, Japanese, or even Chinese is somewhat better nowadays, due to K-pop being more popular than ever on a global scale. But Filipinos are the Hispanics of the Asian community (darker skin and wider noses), and that doesn’t help. 31, virgin, never been in a relationship. It’s over with women. Actually, it never began. The only thing I have left now is to try and make more money and to try and enjoy life with better material possessions. 😢
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Thanks for your perspective Tony! I'm glad to hear that you lost a lot of weight and gained some muscle. Unfortunately, sometimes it still doesn't make that massive of a difference in a lot of cases but good for you anyway.
@kuruptflip21
7 ай бұрын
Bro it’s a matter of environment. I don’t know what you look like or where you live but you should travel to metropolitan cities. Seattle, Vancouver, Los Angeles, SF, Toronto, heck even Winnipeg. You’ll get looks there.
@frog6054
7 ай бұрын
Have you tried dating other southeast Asian women or any other women on the same level as you?
@SquallSZ
7 ай бұрын
Even though I got some few dates and just some rare sex encounters, I clearly fall under this category (if not less). But the rare attention I get stems mostly from my attitude (I don't know actually). So maybe a change in your attitude might help ?
@bearieroblox6451
7 ай бұрын
Can’t relate, I’m hot.
@boeingfan2479
Жыл бұрын
Yeah you really don’t need a face rating like ever. It doesn’t matter if someone on the internet calls you a normie, if you get treated like you are attractive and can easily get women then you are attractive
@oldfashionedwrx3574
Жыл бұрын
yea feedback is everything, most men are avg or below. true chads/chadlite r rare lol
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, good point. You won't see me selling face ratings. That is one of the reasons I make these "how to know" videos. You can save yourself the money by paying attention to how the vast majority of people treat you.
@MIchaelSybi
Жыл бұрын
There are free AI tests, and I would say they are pretty much constant and accurate. You can easily check it, as there are plenty of faces available
@ascended266
11 ай бұрын
@@MIchaelSybi Good point Michael! Face rating services are just a way for people to make money off of someone's insecurity. I will never do it.
@ryzikx
6 ай бұрын
@@ascended266rehab started doing them because people would keep sending him emails asking to do it for free or with the donation link 😂
@SuperSaverPlays
8 ай бұрын
At the end, it doesn't matter. Good looking or not, as a man, the woman you want will always ask herself what she can gain from you by being with you
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Yes, this is also true. It's not just about looks. Women definitely look for a strong provider when they are looking to settle down.
@Diego-uo3gi
3 ай бұрын
What can you offer her? state? money? food? safety for your children? Happy life? fun life? joy of life? Are you handsome and rich? Her friends would be jealous of her and her value will increase and she will feel the joy? What can you deprive her? At the end of the day you are a man, a human being... what do she gets from you. That's true
@JinnyFallon
2 ай бұрын
by that logic, it’s the same with men… women is not one person, some women may want a provider, but I know there are some hopeless romantics out there that are also women.
@cleanwater3791
19 күн бұрын
Looks will open the door to see what else can they gain for u...
@Kryogh
Жыл бұрын
its over for averagecells
@baldhero6850
7 ай бұрын
So glad I met my girl in high school. Been married for 13 years with 4 boys. I feel for a lot of the guys that won’t make it. Just continue to be strong and always work on yourself.
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Thanks man!
@gcioo-4488
5 ай бұрын
damn bro you're living life
@topy706
3 ай бұрын
thanks boomer.
@aclippa6313
Ай бұрын
cap
@per-andersmalmberg6248
7 ай бұрын
Until I was about 26 I had fairly good hair which likely helped me attracting some girls that I actually thought were out of my league, then at 27 some balding started, my confidence went out the window, and the good looking girls disappeared, though I did eventually get married to a foreign good looking woman. After the marriage ended I spent some years as a sub average, fat, balding and was just invisible. Finally I decided I have had enough of being miserable, got hair transplants, improved my diet, started working out, even picked up salsa dancing and learned some banter. Now I am not invisible anymore so I have definitely experienced both sides of the coin. Finally I wonder what would happen if a female KZitemr would post a similar video? I guess a big part of the sisterhood would react by screaming "No! How dare You ? We are all 10's " 😂
@nomoresunforever3695
6 ай бұрын
Are ugly women still invisible to you, the way you were invisible before?
@per-andersmalmberg6248
6 ай бұрын
@@nomoresunforever3695 Less attractive women with a pleasant personality will always be visible to me, and would rank higher than an attractive woman with a stinky attitude.
@Diego-uo3gi
3 ай бұрын
to women is even more brutal i guess
@sillyguy3546
Жыл бұрын
He man just wanted to say I've really been enjoying your content, its nice to listen to a more seemingly, calm, stable, intelligent and self aware guy within this community, there are others of course, but many of the channels here are just guys speaking from a place of emotional pain with not much else substance.
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Thanks man! I really appreciate that. It definitely helps having a mix of both good and bad experiences. I think if I just had bad experiences, I wouldn't be able to look at my experiences from a humorous lense.
@Diego-uo3gi
3 ай бұрын
based comment
@ellisjackson3355
Жыл бұрын
I admire your attitude as you do these videos. And again, the relative observation is crazy. I understand familial drama, but outside of that i always thought that one relatives should always give them love
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Thanks man! I try to look back on my experiences with a certain degree of perspective and humor. I definitely didn't for the longest time until I really learned about the blackpill years ago and it gives me peace knowing that people treat "you" badly but your appearance that they see in front of them.
@ellisjackson3355
Жыл бұрын
@@ascended266 reminds me of how God is not a "respector of persons" but looks at the heart. Some would call that a cope in a negative way but whatever
@MIchaelSybi
Жыл бұрын
Do you mean relatives are also about looks? I experienced the same after getting completely bald
@easternequinox9324
6 ай бұрын
Good video. Although I've long been aware of how ugly I am I really appreciate this well thought and grounded take about this matter.
@nihilismwithcomcharacteristics
2 ай бұрын
As an average guy with social anxiety disorder, the things you’ve stated are practically what I’m going through. I tend to not be recognized, whenever I glance to a girl they tends to ignore or they give me a neutral look. Sometimes I’ve been unlucky and I’ve gotten repulsive attitudes by women , which detrimentally fucked me up leading to where I am now. It sucks being average with social anxiety.
@aclippa6313
Ай бұрын
I've had both sides. Sadly my autism / social anxiety or whatever it is has caused me to fumble the bag on the rare occasion someone has taken interest, and it has also scared away them from interacting further. I also never initiated in my life which is my biggest problem, and I pick up on cues too late.
@TheLastOutlaw289
9 ай бұрын
Everytime he explained an “average man” scenario I just giggled as it described my experiences almost exactlyyy😂😂😂 I do get women trying to talk to me every now and again😂 I am 6’3, not overweight, not balding.
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Lol nice! 6'3 is a great height so feel lucky about that.
@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
8 ай бұрын
Get lean don’t waste that tremendous potential
@manumons100
8 ай бұрын
Hmm you’ve made some interesting points I’ve never thought off. In general I’ve always thought women of being very kind and nice, and never take it as flirting though (kinda goes above my head if they flirt with me.) To me, there’s a huge difference in culture and preferences when it comes to women. I’m Colombian so my appeal is more toward other Colombian women or just latinas in general 🤷🏻♂️, I have sorta had a thing with white chicks but it’s mainly been Latinas. Only been in a serious relationship with 3 women, all very beautiful as I tend to have high standards for myself ( the current girl I’m with has been in modeling lol). I tend to have fairly beautiful female friends ( I go out of my way to make things as platonic as posible)… idk why they tend to be older too? I’m like 27 and they’re in their mid 30’s, but I do feel a lot of love and appreciation from them. Im not the tallest guy around, I’m only 5’6 but that has never affected me in any way with women. I’ve had a few even tell me I’m intimidating which I try not to be. One girl told me it was because I had an intense stare since I have green color eyes, and another told it was the way I carried myself, that I was really in tune with who I am. Not sure what that meant 🤷🏻♂️. With all these factors do I think I’m an attractive guy? Tbh I have no idea, been told I am by family, friends, strangers. But I don’t always feel like am, I just think maybe they’re being nice? Regardless it’s all in the eye of the beholder, how you carry yourself, and how you treat others. That’s my believe anyway, I’m terrible at taking hints lol. I hope I’m an attractive guy but being average is cool too. I don’t think your height matters, as I said I’m not tall, also I don’t get many tinder matches. Well not here in the US, in Colombia I get like 10 a day. Again personal preference. If you read this long ass message kudos to you! Be confident and work on yourself! You will be attractive no matter what!!
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Thanks man! I read the whole message and I appreciate you sharing your unique perspective.
@ryzikx
6 ай бұрын
you are attractive if thats how people treat you lmao. just listen to sub5s experiences to get another perspective. you dont know because you can only live in your own body
@manumons100
6 ай бұрын
@@ascended266 you seem like a positive dude, that’s really cool. It’s dope how you bring people up, and how you try to be honest at the same time. It’s hard with a KZitem channel trying to please everyone, good shit!
@mr.soundguy968
8 ай бұрын
If you're very handsome, you also will be having a tough time locking eye contact with women but that's more because of them being _nervous_ around you. The rest will be neutral. You won't get negative facial expressions, the worst you receive is neutral when you're a chadlite or chad.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Yeah, I agree with this!
@zermanman9891
8 ай бұрын
Then how do you tell if you are chadlite+ or normie
@chrispekel5709
7 ай бұрын
Asian girls will never make eye contact with me, I'm really tall and bald. They certainly don't find me attractive, and are actually a little scared of me. Got used to it living in Asia, but sometimes it's nice to make eye contact and say hello to random strangers when you're out walking. I'm white BTW
@nathanu.6931
2 ай бұрын
@@zermanman9891A majority of women respond well to you, not just neutrally.
@jaybrick8973
12 күн бұрын
Yeah I noticed women either being neutral or nervous an some making heavy contact with me it's never a disgusted face so that's a good thing I guess
@madshader
7 ай бұрын
You know, i can actually attest to everything you said in this video as I noticed these changes in behavior towards myself recently. I am around 5'11 and I was about 37 lbs overweight when I started a new job recently. The job is very physical so I'm on my feet for 10 hours a day 6 days a weak for peak season. I've since lost about 20 lbs and I noticed that people and especially the females treat me differently now than when I first started. I mean I wasn't ugly or anything at 37 lbs over but now at around 15 lbs over my goal weight I have noticed a marked difference in behavior; not only from others but from myself as well. My confidence has increased over this time I think due to the treatment improving towards me externally as well. Confidence affects how you carry yourself and both men and women respond to confidence better overall. I just ordered some nice cologne and I'm going to see if that even further improves my experiences.
@tahjesue-johnson9795
8 ай бұрын
Certain things you can’t change about yourself definitely wouldn’t take this too serious. Just be you at the end of the day.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
I hear you!
@ley98
Жыл бұрын
If your average you might occasionally get a female to smile at you or even wink at you or even talk to you but they won't throw themselves at you like they would if you are a chad
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Definitely! It will only happen every once in awhile if you're in the average range of attractiveness.
@Thefly142
8 ай бұрын
I have some experience because I had a failed surgery that fucked me over. Before my surgery, I used to make competitions with myself of how quick I could sleep with girls. Let's just say we are measuring in minutes, not days... After that it's quite different. Women just aren't as into me now as they used to. Someone that is me not taking the same risks bow when I have a mortgage, but a lot of is is also just me not being as handsome / sexy
@kereiltutt5769
8 ай бұрын
@Thefly142 what was it, what happened
@somber087
7 ай бұрын
That only happens when you have a likeable easy going personality
@christianlifts9788
Жыл бұрын
Just max urself out before chasing women. This means being educated, physically fit, making money. I’m 5’9 but extremely fit and my facial features help as well. But I never approach women I just focus on myself and the ladies come randomly lol.
@shaktalks
Жыл бұрын
You are on point. Looks max and don’t expect anything. The women will come, don’t worry.
@dimitarivanov7249
Жыл бұрын
Women don´t care about education that much. They will pick dropout chad over phd normie every time. It´s all about looks maxing
@strawhat9179
Жыл бұрын
Yeah looksmax but women won’t always come remember there’s no guarantee when it comes to looksmaxxing even if u do it perfectly u should still try at least tho
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. The more I looksmaxed and focused on myself and other hobbies the more success I had. Thanks for watching!
@Facecel_
Жыл бұрын
I have 10k, I go to the gym daily , I dress good , exfoliate daily and I don’t even get women looking at me , I get ignored everywhere I go
@renehernandez881
4 ай бұрын
You’re goddamn right!!!
@Shiro642
Жыл бұрын
That feeling when those guys pictured mog you 😢
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
I hear ya! Lol some of them mog me too.
@RandomAussieGuy87
Жыл бұрын
Remember, average looks = sub-5 in a woman's eyes.
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
It depends on the woman and the average looking guy's features. Yeah, some girls will look at an average guy and consider him unattractive but some may actually find him appealing especially if he has certain features she likes like good hair, blue/green eyes, tall height, etc.
@chrisruth7057
11 ай бұрын
@@ascended266 Yea I agree cause I don't think it's quite that bad but it's not good either cause I think the perfect mix is black⚫N blue pill🔵 cause personality still matters along with the 3rd scale which not a lot of people talk about which is the nerotypacaity scale⚖ but looks are still #1 but not by a lot personality & nerotypacaity as long as it's good nerotypacaity matters just as much cause that's were your charisma is & communication skills is awsell which I lack I'm about a 4 & my personality is a 6.5 to 7 tops I admit it I'm a decent just good person but definitely a flawed person I'm not a awesome person
@LeadLeftLeon
8 ай бұрын
Good take. We don’t want average women. Can’t expect women to want average guys
@weltrepublik
7 ай бұрын
Yep, I'm an average looking guy. I don't mind it though. Cards are already dealt. Besides, as an average looking man, when you find someone - you know they are there not because of your looks, but kinda despite of how you look. And although it might sound a bit sad, it's actually a blessing. Thanks for the great content!
@granjerojose
Жыл бұрын
these stocks photos are hilarious 🤣
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Granjero! I use a combination of Storyblocks and Freepik lol I try to choose photos that represent the point I am trying to make.
@Aboguaboga
6 ай бұрын
Most of the time, the reaction I get is pretty mixed but sometimes I do get that disgusted look. The peak of it was when I went 2 months without getting a haircut. Normally initial reactions from women are usually pretty warm but later on, they eventually have that repulsed look on their face
@shaggyd00kale58
8 ай бұрын
Ah yep, the no eye contact. It's a killer. Makes you question yourself alot. I don't get the sub 5 repulsion but I know vast majority of ppl don't hold my gaze and women break it almost instantly. That's the best way to put it. They're not creeped out or repulsed but they're also not interested and just wanna move on unless you provide them with something they want.
@lancethomas7603
Жыл бұрын
I like this channel
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Lance! I appreciate the support.
@jumbothompson
10 ай бұрын
It's possible to get above average girls but most likely not 8s or 9s as an average guy. And it won't be a love at first sight type of thing. It won't happen at a club or bar. Don't bother with dating apps. You'll have to have a really good personality or some sort of other angle as mentioned in the video.
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, you're right in that you can still get above average looking girls as an average looking guy but you will need other things going for you such as height, a good body, cool hairstyle, good fashion, status, money, etc.
@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
8 ай бұрын
Proximity is the answer for normies
@targetegrat
8 ай бұрын
Other angle (blue check on social media, exclusive luxury/sports car, high status occupation, celebrity/politician/ceo, etc). Got it.
@LeadLeftLeon
8 ай бұрын
9’s aren’t in most cities anyways. You’re doing great if you regularly layup 8’s and 7’s
@chrispekel5709
7 ай бұрын
No, you'll get average girls who look good because of makeup and clothes. They're still average under that. If you're famous it's a different story but 99.9% of men aren't famous enough for that
@Cameron_David_
Жыл бұрын
LMS is the blackpill standard. I do think guys severely underestimate social status as in being a DJ will have a lot more SMV than a remote software engineer.
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Agreed! Social status is definitely something that can really help as long as you're at least average looking. I don't think status is as important as looks but it definitely makes a huge difference. I will be making a future video covering different types of status and how they influence your dating life.
@Cameron_David_
Жыл бұрын
@@ascended266 Yes the looks threshold is the initial barrier that renders all else moot. The general rule of 6 ft, 6 figures, 6 pack actually guarantees nothing and is the bare minimum to even be considered in 2022. What really sets someone apart is social status which is incredibly difficult to 'self improve'.
@TheNegative1
Жыл бұрын
true however it's a ton easier to climb any social ladder (make friends, become a representative of an association, get into politics, higher management positions, I'd think even to get invited to more events to DJ in) if you have looks on your side.
@techmedia1360
8 ай бұрын
Social status is overrated in 2023, it barely does anything, i would even say intelligence is more important, it can only help you get women if you have top 1% social status, looks is #1 by far
@zermanman9891
8 ай бұрын
@@techmedia1360based on what
@user-ec4yw5hj3r
4 ай бұрын
The best way to tell is be in shape but also be struggling financially because then you'll know when you do get one the reason she is with you for.
@lilbeazy1000
Жыл бұрын
The new goat is back let’s goo
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Haha thanks man! I appreciate it. Thanks for the support and the bode of confidence.
@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard
6 ай бұрын
Im probably a 6.5, 7 on a good day and its still tough out there. Need to be a 7.5 or 8...
@user-wj6dt5bq3w
25 күн бұрын
8 is where the real magic happens. In the 6-8 range, some women think you are good looking but most still find you average or even ugly. At 8, almost ALL women are into you and they react to you like you are hot.
@Texasno420
4 ай бұрын
So funny that this is so true
@dsds3968
7 ай бұрын
I'm an average looking man. Maybe a 4/10 but I had the benefit of a muscular body. Most of the time I'm treated neutrally. A very few times in my life I've had positive facial responses, I remember them well.
@droughty
7 ай бұрын
i can say im defiantly average (i always knew this) but I'm only 15 and who knows mabey as a go through puberty my looks will go up and I'm starting to go two the gym
@nihilismwithcomcharacteristics
2 ай бұрын
Do whatever you can to increase your look. Lose body fat, become fit, etc. despite shit being hopeless in this earth, you somehow have to do something to make life at least easier.
@kohkoh6601
9 ай бұрын
"Tall average looking guy is going to get more matches than average looking guy who is 5'9". Damn, if I get 0 matches at 6'5, I wonder if short dudes get negative matches.
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Lol yeah being tall helps but it' doesn't always save you.
@Jawnson123
7 ай бұрын
Get off dating apps bro lol
@nathanu.6931
2 ай бұрын
You need photos that demonstrate your height, good health/physique, and social status
@Asabovesobelow888
Ай бұрын
5’9” is NOT short!!!
@notorious_diego2446
8 ай бұрын
I tend to diagree on some of these things, the best way you can tell wether your attractive, is if girls compliment your looks
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Yes and no, it depends on the context. If the girl is a family member or a close friend, it's not going to be honest feedback. If it's a random girl who doesn't know you giving you compliments, that's valuable feedback.
@user-wj6dt5bq3w
25 күн бұрын
@@ascended266 Exactly. Women don't typically compliment a man's looks outside of a relationship. It doesn't mean as much if the compliment is from a girlfriend.
@chimpwimp9407
7 ай бұрын
1:49 Not really true when a woman is attracted to you. The toothy smile is a coy way of them trying to not be awkward or uncomfortable. It’s like saying hello to a stranger. It doesn’t mean much and happens in less than two seconds. The genuine smile is not even really a smile but more of a smirk. That’s how you know they are at least slightly attracted to you. Another good example would be the double take. A woman sees you and looks away only to look back at you again. The next one is the elevator look where they see you and look you up and down. The best ones are where they give you all of the above. Hope this helps.
@Nick-mq9vz
6 ай бұрын
Mirrors work wonders.
@Jayynoz.
7 ай бұрын
i would say imma 6 (misssing out on height and wealth💔) and dating is unrealistic for me. dating apps have made it easier but only for me to increase my body count, still have trouble finding a good woman long term 😢.
@jrd3675
7 ай бұрын
This hits way too close to home. I've got some serious looksmaxxing to do.
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Get after it man!
@StrengthScholar0
7 ай бұрын
1. Get a comprehensive skincare regimen. Look up Korean skincare it's done wonders for me. It's not even necessarily about stopping breakouts it's about making your skin glow. 2. Work out and do the research to make sure you're doing it right. Focus on your arms, chest and shoulders. 3. You're white so you're lucky to have the ability to get an awesome haircut, take advantage of it. 4. Get lean 5. Chew mastic gum to improve jaw profile I wasn't sure if you already knew where to start for looksmaxing so I just wanted to give you a few things to start with. Hopefully something in here was helpful.
@lakecityransom
7 ай бұрын
love is a battlefield
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@Rain-ec4jj
7 ай бұрын
You made me laugh! LOL
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Thanks man!
@drop_messages6226
8 ай бұрын
I like how this video is titled Average *looking* man and not average man. I suppose the average man works in some office, lives in a decent apartment, is close to their parents and pays their taxes. The big piece of the puzzle we are here for is is to ask, what does it mean to be an average looking man. I know I am ugly, I can get insulted by different people, different situations while minding my own business, & be a social outcast, even among my own friend group. I suppose average looking guys do not have as many "land mines" as ugly men.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Yeah, it's definitely easier as an average looking guy than a sub 5. Sorry to hear you're a social outcast among your friend group. I would find a new group of friends. You don't need people that make you feel that way weighing you down.
@drop_messages6226
8 ай бұрын
In my 20s, I was confused, I could not understand why I was such a social outcast. I eventually figured out the concept of the social hierarchy (I was very sheltered growing up). I am now too old to care about trying to fit in. In fact, I am at an age where taking care of my health is more important than worrying about making friends. I cannot afford to get upset over peoples pettiness and cannot be bothered to even worry about being popular. Hermit life for m.
@aelfredrex8354
7 ай бұрын
When you look around and see lots of guys that look just like you. But looking average does not prevent you from being not-so-average in personality and energy.
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Yeah, personality definitely matters especially with making guy friends and in your professional life. If you meet the initial attraction threshold, that's when when it matters with women.
@kingcatx2
7 ай бұрын
I look like Clive from final fantasy 16 😂 everyone has been telling me that when Clive is in his 20’s.
@rtSfe67
Жыл бұрын
Another great video. You've lived through it all. Sub 5, average, and chadlite. I'm curious. How are things now for you? Do you still get dates? Is the standard for women now gigachad or nothing?
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Neil! I appreciate the bode of confidence and your support. Things are pretty good for me now. I've concentrated on leanmaxxing and eating healthier the past few years so that has definitely helped with my appearance. Dating has gotten a lot of better and easier since looksmaxing, it's definitely night and day. I plan on highlighting this more in future videos. Luckily, the standard to get women is not Gigachad or nothing or 99.5% would be screwed lol
@TheLastOutlaw289
9 ай бұрын
26:10 Big up Granny for the positive reinforcement 😂😂😂
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Haha yeah she was awesome!
@handsomeX
Жыл бұрын
I started getting a lot of positive attention from women when I had my big glow up around 22yrs old. This is when I started gym maxxing and putting on muscle relatively quickly.
@handsomeX
Жыл бұрын
@Just be , just be broo Correct. I already had the facial structure and I'm 6'3".
@handsomeX
Жыл бұрын
@Just be , just be broo I'm just telling you when I started getting a lot of positive female attention. I didn't say that I NEVER got ANY positive female attention.
@ellisjackson3355
Жыл бұрын
I've seen you comment on Rom Wills videos too right?
@Facecel_
Жыл бұрын
Your handsome already bro , no homo
@Facecel_
Жыл бұрын
@Just be , just be broo okay , my bad gang
@bettyconfettii
21 күн бұрын
The guy in the thumbnail fine asf to me. I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder
@rickc7580
Жыл бұрын
Dang this is kinda brutal. I always thought I was above average, but I guess im just sub 5 since things seem worse than just indifference. Brutal.
@MIchaelSybi
Жыл бұрын
There are free AI tools on the net for assessment
@HCforLife1
Жыл бұрын
If this is your real photo and you are sub5 - I am subhuman 😅😂😂😂
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
If that's you in your profile picture, you're definitely not a sub 5!
@rickc7580
Жыл бұрын
@@HCforLife1 yup, it's me. I think that it's just my height. I was cursed by being 5'5.
@rickc7580
Жыл бұрын
@@ascended266 yeah that's me. I'm short tho, im 5'5. It's over.
@cheekymonkeygirl3378
7 ай бұрын
I am an attractive lady and had many top-shelf men pursuing me when I was younger, but now that I'm 37, average-looking or below-average men my age or 60-year-old men approaching me and it boils my blood. This video is spot-on and I attest to everything mentioned. 😢 I watch many men's channels. 😁
@user-gl8cb8sm4e
7 ай бұрын
Sounds like you had your cake 🎂
@eatinsomtin9984
7 ай бұрын
Well unless you are married, then its over for you. Had your 100 chanes.
@JakobFridfinnsson
7 ай бұрын
37 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mattm.5436
7 ай бұрын
If your so attractive -as your opinion o of yourself seems to be -then why don’t you show yourself instead of hiding behind a avatar picture.
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Glad you can attest to everything mentioned! I would like to have you on for an interview at some point. It would be interesting to hear your perspective.
@your_engineer9492
Ай бұрын
Please make a video on what are hunter eyes and how to identify them. I think i have them, cause they are more horizontal than vertical. When looked from far my eyes seek to be in a straight line. Maybe fox liked eyes.
@mamoud6648
2 ай бұрын
I mean, even being slightly above average, is the new average. I feel like I used to do a lot better on the apps. But I think partially is because these companies want you to pay so that you’ll get the matches. Even Austin Dunham has brought it up a few times. Currently working on my physique
@aclippa6313
Ай бұрын
yeah the apps are a no-go zone for sub8s
@techiskek
Жыл бұрын
average isnt enough anymore
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
It's definitely much harder nowadays if you're an average looking guy as compared to 10-20 years ago when social media wasn't a huge thing.
@brettemerson2147
8 ай бұрын
Most the time when a woman says they like a feature about me it seems like it is out of pity, since my results have never been great or numerous why would I believe their compliments to be genuine?
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Yeah, some women give out general compliments even when they don't have a lot of attraction for you.
@LfunkeyA
Ай бұрын
all of this can be trumped with attitude and how you animate yourself
@eliadugato6644
7 ай бұрын
how tf did I end up on incel youtube
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Haha welcome aboard!
@eliadugato6644
7 ай бұрын
@@ascended266 trust me I ain't stayin' on this boat XD
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
@@eliadugato6644 Haha brutal! It was fun while it lasted.
@brunowilson19
Жыл бұрын
I find that I barely get checked out in everyday life, but when I go to a bar/club I usually get attention
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
I experience something similar now. I don't go out too often but my height and frame definitely help me stand out in a bar or club situation. I would guess that you're probably tall and built?
@brunowilson19
Жыл бұрын
@@ascended266 I’m not that tall. About 5’11 with a decent physique
@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
Жыл бұрын
Me too - cos I’m tall and kinda ugly lol
@brunowilson19
Жыл бұрын
@@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm I think this guy underestimates how subtle many women are when checking a guy out they find attractive
@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
Жыл бұрын
@@brunowilson19 it depends if you're a 6-7 it will be subtle IOIs but if perceived as 8+ it will be obvious most likely - but yea a lot of IOIs do go unnoticed
@FailedChadLite
Жыл бұрын
I always assume service workers are just nice to get a higher tip. It'd have to be a very obvious sign for me to think it's more than part of the waitress act.
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
A lot of service workers are there to get a high tip but some are genuinely attracted to you if you're attractive. Thanks for watching Jim!
@hyemuhyemu8221
11 ай бұрын
I'm a service worker and although i try to smile, make eye contact and treat everyone nicely. Its extremely difficult with ugly people. Trying to hold eye contact and smile at them is like staring at the sun and smiling. It makes you cringe, look disgusted and quickly look away. Its human nature. But i genuinely smile and hold eye contact with people that are attractive. More eye contact than normal too
@ascended266
11 ай бұрын
@@hyemuhyemu8221 As brutal as that sounds, I hear where you're coming from. It's much easier to smile and hold eye contact with an attractive person. I've noticed this myself.
@randomguy2076
5 ай бұрын
@@hyemuhyemu8221Not for me i dont have any problem being nice and smiling to unattractive people cus at the end of the day its not their fault most of the time i think everyone should be treated nicely everyone is human and deserves to be treated nicely
@johnnyespalahento2431
Жыл бұрын
I have had a glow up lately sound weird i dont know how else to put it, anyways i specifically searched for this video cause i dont date or hang out with women at the moment, only work and gym, dont have time but lately ive noticed women will generally notice me, even when im in a car passing by another car and there is a woman in it she will look at my face, and i used to think women didnt really notice me cause theyre in their head alot, lmao how wrong i was, but other than that ive gotten a few smiles and some women i havent tested cause when i look at them they hold eyecontact too long so i just turn away cause this is new stuff to me and it weirds me out, dont know how to act. I was at a busstop and this woman too, were standing in line to get in the bus wating for the person infront to pay she turns around looks at me with this warm smile. Couple of days ago i went into a store and every girl working there was eyeing me up, i got very uncomfortable i go to the cashier to pay for my stuff, she is doing the same, even tried to talk to me by saying is this your item? It was a big line so no time to talk. This is a span of a month. I live in scandinavia, so people here arent very social but they do show interest with eyecontact, its not normal to talk to strangers unless youre in a social gathering. But i digress, Im guessing this is high tier normie feedback or just normie? I dont know cause ive never been chad, so to say. And as youve said i sense alot more energy and effort from women now, as weird as it sounds i can pick up on it even from a short interaction with a cashier, and generally women are in a good mood around me, not bitchfaced. But the thing is some women will ignore me, i guess chad doesent get ignored.
@MIchaelSybi
Жыл бұрын
So what has changed in you life, which could lead to this?
@johnnyespalahento2431
Жыл бұрын
@@MIchaelSybi i started working out so my face looks more muscular and overall healthier, my jaw muscles have grown double in size since i started working out, not fat tho, gained no fat. Also been mewing for like 7 years, seen the most progress lately tho, because mewing results arent linearly escalating they are exponential, so it starts slow then escalates the more you progress.
@johnnyespalahento2431
Жыл бұрын
@@MIchaelSybi yeah since that comment ive had at least two to three women smile at me everytime i go outside, not just a slight smile but full on exited to see me, these are just random women i have never seen before, im still getting used to it.
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
That's awesome Johnny! It sounds like your looksmaxxing definitely paid off to say the least. I noticed the biggest difference when I lost a lot of bodyfat.
@TheNegative1
Жыл бұрын
if you're noticed by most women positively you're definitely higher tier or even approaching chadlite/chad.
@enclavecommunicationsoffic9351
10 ай бұрын
Tbh, I still don't know my looks ranges. I've been said that I look from LTN-HTN, but I don't know if that means I'm average looking or whatever. I'm 20 years old for context.
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
I think the best way is to use your collective experiences overall to determine where you are. I will be making a video soon on how to determine how attractive you are in 1 week.
@isaacshusters1620
7 ай бұрын
According to this video seems like I became above average, crazy since I used to be fugly but nice little ego boost.
@aye_yo_mick
7 ай бұрын
If youre average I suggest getting your passport and dating overseas. Im average in USA 🇺🇸 but im top tier in Colombia 🇨🇴
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Nice man! I have never been to Colombia. I'll be doing interviews in 2024 and would love your insight on dating overseas. I hear it's much easier to date there.
@peraa-_-1113
7 ай бұрын
Bro go to medellin and they will fck you in looks ngl
@aye_yo_mick
7 ай бұрын
@@ascended266 for sure let me know
@carpenoctem775
2 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with looking average. Don’t let the “beautiful people” brainwash you.
@avaliausd.
7 ай бұрын
I disagree with the smiling thing. Even if you are handsome, girls dont just go cheesing at men. Maybe they did in the early 2000s, but they dont now. Alot of women dont necessarily trust the smile of a handsome man. Also, environmental context is SUPER important. Its 95% of it. If you are at Applebee's and you smile at the waitress, shes likely going to smile back with enthusiasm because thats her job, not because you are handsome or ugly. And if you are at a club (Ive never been to a club, but I know what the setting is like), a girl might smile at you because shes tipsy and not completely in her right mind. Using the reactions of random strangers isnt always a good indicator. I mean, Ive been told that Im handsome, cute, good looking by various women my whole 32 yrs of life (and my wife still calls me these things to this day), but I still dont get smiles back everytime I smile at a woman. Heck, some women just flat out avoid looking at me nowadays. 😂 Maybe its just a 2023 thing (people are very socially awkward nowadays), but a smile makes some people freeze up. Id say, the best way to know if you are above average is how often you are told that you are handsome, good looking, or attractive by people outside of your family. And if your wife thinks you're above average in looks, because if you are married, your wife should be the only opinion you care about. Lol (Ps: Also, when it comes to dating apps, if you are a man, youre not going to get a crazy amount of matches regardless. Why? Because the algorithm of dating apps favor men who pay for subscriptions and such. Also, alot of women on dating apps have overfilled requests because alot of men go on the apps and just randomly swipe on every girl until they get one. That corrupts the pool and make it almost impossible for your profile to be seen. Not to mention, the app is a sausage fest. There arent as many women on dating apps as there is men, so competition is much more fierce. So stop looking at dating apps as a measurement of the reality of the dating field. Online and real life are two different statistics.
@user-gl8cb8sm4e
7 ай бұрын
Agreed, usually when a woman is interested she gives me blank stares a lot. She’s usually trying to figure me out, from there she’ll usually open up, but it’s always a blank stare in the beginning… because she’s thinking
@sourceeee
7 ай бұрын
thought that was Jack Harlow for a sec in the thumbnail
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Lol yeah at first glance it does look like him!
@cool-name4475
6 ай бұрын
@Chadlite when you said how being tall might give you an advantage on dating apps, you forgot one very important thing. And that's the fact that most men lie about their height on dating apps just to get matches 😉. therefore I would say height is more of an advantage in the real world and not on dating apps.
@ascended266
6 ай бұрын
Yeah, this is true. A lot of guys fraud their height on dating apps. Height does help you out more in real life I agree with you there.
@satepestage3599
Жыл бұрын
bro upload more
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Will do Sate! Work got insanely busy so I had to put this channel on the backburner for a bit but I am back in full swing. Thanks for watching brother!
@satepestage3599
Жыл бұрын
@@ascended266 of course man you have a likeable personality and good content.
@johnflorio3576
6 ай бұрын
I’m below average. How can I tell? I have a mirror and my vision is perfect. 😆
@taqiyyaconcarne6908
9 күн бұрын
Way to be positive.
@Christopher-side_dude-Murican
7 ай бұрын
This is sad but hilariously narrated - I don't sympathize with men of lesser looks or height because the same guys would smp or throw me under the bus if they could. Have to play with the cards you're dealt and the body and looks you protected or took the time to maximize.
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Right! Lol you have to play the cards you are dealt the best that you can.
@David_Phoenix23
8 ай бұрын
I consider myself above average looking Tyrone-light type. I’m black so i pay a slight race tax, but i speak well like a white dude which doesn’t help with black girls or girls who like thugs but works fine with all others, i am 6’1 so that helps but considering my race, mannerisms and dress style (not thug) i feel like im somewhat niche 🤷🏽♂️ last few times i went somewhere i either got hit on or someone tried to hook me up with their friend
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Nice Dave! Speaking well definitely makes a difference with white women from my experience. I am going to make a video on dating black women from a white guy's perspective. I tend to attract black women that either hang out with white girls or black women that grew up in the suburbs that have a thing for white guys.
@diamondspear3328
8 ай бұрын
Overseas you will do well.Invest is a passport.
@David_Phoenix23
8 ай бұрын
@@diamondspear3328 have one already, looking into Colombia. I already speak Spanish pretty well and have experience dating a Colombian woman.
@antuansconiers8259
7 ай бұрын
“I speak well like a white dude” people say the dumbest things on the internet, you speak like a well educated person, not a white person. There’s a big difference
@shotgunbae
7 ай бұрын
@@David_Phoenix23don’t be a passport bro, that shi is sickening.
@EpicMinecraftFail
7 ай бұрын
It's over
@kalasatwater2224
7 ай бұрын
So glad the black pill exists
@ascended266
7 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@mrw23
6 ай бұрын
What about girls saying ‘you look really nice today’ then coming up and hugging you? How about if she unexpectedly gives you cake for Christmas and then again on Valentine’s Day?
@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319
Жыл бұрын
Neutral replies, conversations even turn downs.
@Conundrum191
6 ай бұрын
5 matches a day on Tinder? In what reality is that happening to anyone under 8/10....
@EmperorAJ93
4 ай бұрын
As a man who’s 6”3 these tall guys are outta control 😂
@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
Жыл бұрын
I’m in the 6-7 range but really need to cement the 7 Chadlite. 85-95% normie reactions and 5-15% Chad depending on the day how well I’m dressed haircut energy etc
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
I found that lowering body fat helped me the most. When you get below 12%, your facial features become much more defined. Even at 15%, most people tend to carry a lot of weight in their face. Good luck!
@elik4004
Жыл бұрын
@@ascended266 this is exactly what I am doing . Currently at around 17% . I want to get to 12% . Previously I was around 25% and still slept with 2 girls in a space of one year . I’m gonna be slaying like crazy 😂. At least I hope so
@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
Жыл бұрын
@@ascended266 Yea right now im the ugliest I ever am cos in middle of a bulk but once I complete this and cut it’s over hahaha
@chrisruth7057
11 ай бұрын
@@ascended266I sure wish I.was a 7 top tier Brad I'd be a much more confident but I'm a 5.5 top tier Normie so I'm lucky if I get a 4.5 low tier Normie woman which I would probably would take if her personality is an very friendly 8 out of 10👍 but I would really like a 5.5 to match my level cause they are fairly attractive👍were a 4.5 is average looking at best cause sadly🥺a great personality doesn't turn people on nearly as much as a great body or face but that's the brutal sad reality😫
@chrisruth7057
11 ай бұрын
@@ascended266With guys it's the face 1st & body 2nd but with women it's body 1st & face 2nd I should know cause Iv seen a woman with a 5.5 face but a Incredible 9.5 body😛 but it was 11 years ago she was 31 back then but she was a volleyball player & a runner so she's very easily a 7.5 but I say just a 8 but if you seen her you would definitely be extremely Impressed with her Incredible sexy fit figure..Holy Moley is all iv got to say😳😯
@Axel_Kei
8 ай бұрын
Damn. The guys weren't kidding. These comment sections are chock FULL of "Just Bro" advice lol. Broooootal.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Lol yeah pretty much! "Do the work bro!"
@TheSunlight74
Ай бұрын
Do people live their lives in the way this video suggests, though? Constantly thinking about looks, weighing people up, looking for potential hook-ups/matches/dates? Could it be that if a woman doesn't lock eyes/show interest, she's just living her life in a different mode at that moment? Thinkign about work/life/health/somethign else?
@AliJr_MetalGames_MetalGuitar
6 ай бұрын
Does being 5'11 like me affect my visibility in search results of womens settings and preferences? Say women set it to 6'0 and I disappear?
@jlprescott7243
11 ай бұрын
The photo in the beginning is an average-looking man. Cheers!
@ascended266
11 ай бұрын
Cheers man!
@poetictriangle1037
6 ай бұрын
I'm 5'7 and i don't have chad facial features, but i do better than my 6 feet ripped friend simply because i fall into the pretty boy long hair archetype.
@bearieroblox6451
7 ай бұрын
Well this confirms it, I’m hot! But I already knew that, I just watch these videos to take y’all souls and fuel myself, Makin me feel better and shit.
@who_we_are______5926
6 ай бұрын
Same!
@blackcat0917
7 ай бұрын
most girls smile at me but i feel like theyre just laughing at me
@bedadays1763
15 күн бұрын
Ascended how badly does glasses create a barrier?
@Options_Trader11
13 күн бұрын
Get contacts if you struggle
@ChristopherDonnerArtist
8 ай бұрын
This is funny, there's some good observations here . However I would say looks don't matter nearly as much as you men think. If you're charming and you have your act together. You're going to be fine! I'm not amazing looking but I can't keep women away from me. Everyone tells me it's because I'm charming and funny . Confidence is key man.
@jeggerlp9852
Жыл бұрын
I got 2 Matches a Week, I don't know why. That's why i deleted these apps.
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
I remember when Tinder came out in 2014 when I was still completely bald and overweight, I literally got zero matches in 3 months haha
@Simon83738
Жыл бұрын
Using dating apps as a men unless your very, very attractive looking, is a big waste of time IMO. The few matches you get will most likely lead to nothing. Your better off not using these services for mental health reasons too.
@josephcieplak8920
Жыл бұрын
Most people tend to fall into the below average looking category. beside most sub5 are outbreeding people with good genes. once a "friend" of mine went to a salda dancing club the woman who he picked to dance with, first told him that before dancing he needed to buy her a cocktail. so he did without even realising that he was starting to being used by a woman. many of those women who he danced with by giving them something in return never asked me to buy them anything, they simply danced with me with no charge in advanced. lol by the wat that was the very same guy who is 11.4 cms shorter than me and the same one with more than 8 congenital issues like achondroplasia, hydrocephalus, and noonan syndrome to name a few , the same guy who used to say that I wasn't "good looking". he was constantly paying for stuff to keep his cheating grlfriend "happy", most sub5 are territorial. Women with never attach to men they're not attracted to. needless to mention that at the very first fail they will not hesitate to leaving this guy rotting in his own misery.
@ascended266
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Joseph! That is a brutal story in regards to your "friend." Yeah, that's definitely a telltale sign a woman is not attracted to you when they ask you to buy them a drink before dancing with them.
@BarriosGroupie
Жыл бұрын
To be fair, your life doesn't seem to be going that well if you're hanging out with this loser guy; but at least you both get to socialize. The CEO, who was a 50 year old, 5'6" and looked like Woody Allen, at a small company I worked, for got divorced so joined a dancing club. Eventually he was so traumatized by the constant rejection from women in their 30s, even believing that it was just down to his face, that he ended up getting aggressive towards women on the phone calling the company. If your 'friend' has all those genetic problems, then the fact that he's dating shows he's a narcissist unable to accept that his genes need to be taken out of the gene pool.
@josephcieplak8920
Жыл бұрын
@@BarriosGroupie Well, I'm not friend with him anymore but now that I come to think about it, most people who I've been surrounded by are pretty much lilk that guy I mentioned earlier. it's not his fault. beside it's not only him but nowadays, most people are overweight if not they just one step away to be in that condition. but this type of guys tend to wrongly think that life owes them something they're missing within them but still do not know what since they haven't been entirely capable to figure it out by their very own. but nature seems to be extremely wise becuse he ans neither of two other brothers will ever have any offspring. and yeah rejection after rejection can drastically affect you psichologically.
@MIchaelSybi
Жыл бұрын
In my country women just refused to dance with me when they didn't like me. One was feeling very awkwardly, because I then went into the same school, so she had either to ignore my turn, or accept it, being embarrassed. I didn't like her as well though in return. I always feel that cold stare and tension in groups from some women. I didn't see any girls asking anyone to buy a drink, as it's not the culture thing here to drink before dancing. But I've seen rejections for some males, including me. The reasons are different: mediocre dancer, a short one, a drunk one etc. I know if she rejected you the first time, it's about your looks probably. I never approach such females again. If she knows you from the salsa group, she will probably accept the offer, just because she knows she will see you again in the class. But some refuse anyway, haha. I think I'm 5, and I don't approach women. I just know I'm not good enough by looks.
@HCforLife1
Жыл бұрын
@@josephcieplak8920 the issue is that halo effect is literally dictating many people lives. The attractive people don't realise that a lot things in life are given to them. Unattractive people on the other hand are screwed up as they are constantly treated as subhuman. Average guys are just invisible. No disgust but no looks as well. One thing people should know from the beginning - life is not fair
@hyemuhyemu8221
11 ай бұрын
26:57 My sister who i hadn't seen in 2 years litteraly asked my mom yesterday what why did i take so long at the grocery store. That if i have girlfriend or girlfriends i talk to there. My mom told me she said that. That's something strange asf to say. Nice to you assume😂
@ascended266
11 ай бұрын
Haha that's hilarious! Like I said, this stuff even effects how your family treats you. Thanks for watching!
@SurrogateActivities
10 ай бұрын
i was in haiphong and once a cashier girl screamed like im a celeb
@ascended266
10 ай бұрын
Haha that's awesome man! Good for you.
@person19863456
8 ай бұрын
This brother is sticking to the FAXXXX
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Thanks man!
@magnum0pus982
Жыл бұрын
Do you have any advice for getting rid of eyebags?
@TheNegative1
Жыл бұрын
more rest, less screen time, more physical activity, less calories I'd say
@paperplane00
8 ай бұрын
sounds like racial preference is high (# of white women in clips) on the scale. I think race plays a major role. If you're a non-white male be sure to also be in the company of others races of women closer to your look. Outcomes can differ quite a bit.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
I use stock footage from Storyblocks and there are just more clips of white women. I definitely think you are correct in that Non-white men will typically do better with women of their own race.
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