I believe the ideal time to pursue a relationship is while you still down and developing yourself. People tend to want to first be financially secure before they pursue a relationship. That path unfortunately can lead to lacking the will to develop other traits required to maintain a successful relationship. If you can pursue and sustain a relationship while broke, there's an increased chance you will thrive in relationships when you've secured the bag. (This is tailored more specifically to men)
@pensonmlotshwa
6 ай бұрын
I hear you... And agree to some point... relationships are tough, and we all know that there's no blueprint to them... but I don't know about the "while broke" part tbh...
@karabeloshole
6 ай бұрын
Will try dating while broke mfanakhithi but it's not for the week hearted.
@nkatekomhlari
6 ай бұрын
Andrew tate says the same things just in a more provoking and hardcore way. I agree with everything you say.
@pensonmlotshwa
6 ай бұрын
Andrew Tate says a lot of things we agree with.. the problem for most is how he delivers his views...
@shemaneexpressdeliveriespt8869
6 ай бұрын
Everything that's been said here is 💯 accurate. Unfortunately you can't advise the person who is in love or who's p***y hungry, I've been there... We've been together for 10 years and for that decade she was in driver sit since I hadn't figured out the destination. When I finally came up with the plan we immediately found ourselves in loggerheads, in limbo she was in control but as soon as I got coordinates right she was going to be the follower. Relationship died immediately 😢
@pensonmlotshwa
6 ай бұрын
Yho! I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope you're in a better place.
@shemaneexpressdeliveriespt8869
6 ай бұрын
@@pensonmlotshwa Here's my top 5 Playlist that kept me alive during hard times; Date half your age plus seven: Penson Do for self: Penualism Impregnate the land first then a woman: Maponga J. Man who's admired by other man he's a catch to the ladies: Kevin Samuals Take responsibility: Jordan Peterson.
@karabo-b2c
6 ай бұрын
I feel that the merging of the 2 ideas / thoughts is ideal. Whereby you're focusing on the 5 pillars while at the same time your heart and intentions are clear to you and pure. The thing is, I feel, the metric to measure the 5 pillars can be screwed up by our egos and all sorts of emotions as people that we don't know when to decide that we're good enough or ready BUT at the same time, to your point, as a broer or as a hun you need to have some bare minimums eg. cannot date unless im hitting the gym 4 days a week / I have assets or investments of 300k to my name.
@karabo-b2c
6 ай бұрын
Side note: Please keep up the content bro, much appreciated. It's like a virtual man cave with a lot of value and substance 👊🏽
@pensonmlotshwa
6 ай бұрын
This makes perfect sense! It's a tricky one...and one that we as society need to truly unpack... We cannot keep messing each other up in relationships because we don't know what we want.
@pensonmlotshwa
6 ай бұрын
@@karabo-b2c Thank you so much Karabo! Truly appreciate your kind words.
@saneleonly
6 ай бұрын
I feel like it's point 2 but also when you get in a relationship and maybe you are 1/10 in some or most or all of the pillars, you must also ambitiously or enthusiastically be looking to improve all those pillars to what you deem as your standard and that's when i think you'll have a great relationship with that person and also yourself cos as much as you hold that person accountable, you must also hold yourself accountable to your standard... Cos it seems ngathi people wanna get in relationships to be lazy about finding a partner
@andronicajohnson007
6 ай бұрын
The patient never stays with the nurse… They always leave the nurse at the hospital FULLSTOP
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