Don't fall in love with potential. People don't just change
@amyk6028
11 ай бұрын
Amen. Loving the “idea” of him, not him
@lauriediandrea715
7 ай бұрын
Don’t ever get with someone that is broken and hasn’t done the work to repair themselves. Because no matter how much you love someone you can’t fix them, it’s not your job. Pick somebody that you don’t want to change….
@rarebird_82
7 ай бұрын
Wow... I needed to hear that.
@teresawelcome8354
7 ай бұрын
Exactly. Or to hope that they'll eventually believe the way you do. Faith is one primary factor in relationships and if two people are not walking in the same direction, those two will end up pulling each other back and forth until at least one breaks. Ask those questions on the first date, and walk away right away if you can't walk their beliefs.
@palapalak.8907
7 ай бұрын
Fact!
@MrPretends
Жыл бұрын
It’s incredible how there’s so many women going through toxic relationships and thinking their dude’s actions are normal because they’ve never experienced a true good man
@debbielockhart7762
11 ай бұрын
There are just as many toxic women ruining men's lives. Don't kid yourself.
@bluetickbeagles116
8 ай бұрын
There are no good men. Men are taught to control women and are treated like superiors from the day they’re born.
@StrizzyBlizzy
8 ай бұрын
This 100%... I can't believe this toxic guy was weaponizing her affair. It's his fault she had the affair to begin with. It never ceases to amaze me how toxic men are.
@irockuroll60
8 ай бұрын
Same for men with toxic women who never experienced a good woman.
@lauriediandrea715
7 ай бұрын
It happens gradually and continuously seems more & more normal
@krystalgardiner5591
10 ай бұрын
Niki, LEAVE. It doesn’t get better. I’m still in it and my mental health is horrible now. My self esteem doesn’t even exist. If I could go to sleep and never wake up I’d be fine with that. Don’t ever let a man make you feel like your trash. EVER.
@leahsiblerud9537
2 ай бұрын
Hi. I’m so sorry for the way you’re feeling. Please please know that no matter how hard, scary, messy, complicated, you CAN find freedom and start over. There’s hope and peace and safety out there ❤️
@sabrinastratton1991
Жыл бұрын
I knew my marriage was over when I realized I was going through the motions. The toxic environment and abuse didn't help either. We had 2 kids together. I finally pulled the courage and filed for divorce. That lead to 3 months of escalated DV but I always made sure the kids were somewhere safe during this time. August 2018 got divorced and we are much happier for it. For some reason it blindsided my ex but I was working 3 jobs, going to school, raising two kids and doing all the errands, cooking and housework. He did nothing. I remember he once started crying clining to my legs begging not to leave and in hindsight this was him panicking because he was losing a meal ticket, I said I said I was still going for the divorce and he stopped crying and called me every name you can think of, I didn't react I just walked past him and out the door to walk alone.
@boston312
Жыл бұрын
the 2 of you made vows in front of God to stay married till death. You need to make amends with both your husband and God
@sandravargas9082
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations! You deserve a real quality man to walk beside you or at least rid yourself of a ball and chain pulling you down. “A “man” who doesn’t provide for his family is worse than an infidel.” You are raising your children to command RESPECT and kick losers to the curb and live their best life in good company. Be so blessed in your future!
@MaryEavey-dc3sk
Жыл бұрын
This comment is for @boston 312: making vows before God to stay married till death. If the husband refused to work on the marriage also, it is abandonment. I was married for 37.5 years to a verbal abuser who saw no need to change whatsover . I thought very long and hard on this decision to leave . He has never made amends to ME. I have forgiven him but there is no continuance of our relationship because he doesnt think he has done anything wrong. My 3 children have thanked me for leaving. He was abusive the them also. They respect me more for finally leaving and stop being his doormat. I come from a family that divorce is not an option, so I didnt do it for a very long time.
@isay207
Жыл бұрын
@@boston312 🤮
@pamgodsoe9076
Жыл бұрын
So proud of you. I know my husband is happy with our marriage. Yes, he does cook. Other than that, he doesn’t work, drinks whisky and plays games. I am getting older with nothing saved because of life choices, including putting him through 2, degrees. I work 50 plus hours per week and so tired with nothing saved
@shirk_slayer
7 ай бұрын
Every marriage will be tested to the point of failure; the ones that survive are only the ones where BOTH spouses are committed to never giving up, no matter what.
@nodramamomma2777
7 ай бұрын
Amen
@shirk_slayer
7 ай бұрын
@nodramamomma2777 people to day think they don't need their partner to survive so they are quick to throw them away
@nodramamomma2777
7 ай бұрын
@@shirk_slayeryes. Selfishness and me first attitude has unlived so many partnerships.
@michellemorrow7
6 ай бұрын
BUT….. one can’t just stay and go through the motions to have an actual good marriage. There are tons of bad marriages out there where people “never gave up”. Just because you stay doesn’t mean you haven’t given up. Sometimes that’s exactly what it means.
@shirk_slayer
6 ай бұрын
@michellemorrow7 some pretty have a pretty high bar for what they consider a good marriage, unfortunately. If it's not a 90's RomCom they bail.
@mistysmith8513
8 ай бұрын
OMGEEEE! This is the episode you told her to write "Cheater" down and mail it to you and then on another episode you got it and had no idea why! LOL!! She actually did it! Go Aleisha!!!
@shellthemagicdragon4646
7 ай бұрын
I saw that episode last week so that part was funny to me, too!
@shanlijerome2736
7 ай бұрын
Which one is that?!
@snarv003
6 ай бұрын
😂 I’m dying right now. That’s funny 😆
@Angela-kiss1xs
5 ай бұрын
I remember that episode too and it seemed so creepy. I hope Dr John realizes this too. It would be super unsettling to receive that thinking it is an accusation of some sort.
@nordikcajun5417
5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 bahaha. 😹. Now I remember it too. In one episode 😂😂😂.
@wallacesmallwood1465
7 ай бұрын
When they hurt you & no longer show concern for you .
@jpf2121
5 ай бұрын
It’s 12:39 am. Going through this right now 💔
@jessicay6692
5 ай бұрын
4:22am 💔
@Ninjasnail1926
5 ай бұрын
1:41 am 🤨
@SG-gl8ey
Ай бұрын
7:54pm sitting in my car because I dont want the kids to feel tension because thats and fighting is all thats left and if I stay gone the trauma is less
@sarahsavesit
3 жыл бұрын
"I can do anything for a day..." amazing words, John! CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR SOBRIETY!
@shelleykapp9637
Жыл бұрын
I love this....I'm going to steal it!! I can do anything for a day....lunges and squats here I come 💪
@spookmagooked3017
7 ай бұрын
It may sound stupid but I never fully understood exactly what it is about "take it one day at a time" that makes a challenge easier to overcome, until it was laid out like that: "I can do anything for a day" and better yet when he said, "I can do anything for an hour, for a minute." Simple yet empowering!
@amandaredeagle9572
8 ай бұрын
I hope watching this he is 11 year sober😊❤ so kind
@c.j.valentine3027
3 жыл бұрын
If the mother of those 2 small children lives in the Phx area, I will gladly clean house, do laundry, etc., to help. Praying for her!!!
@theweirdosdts
3 жыл бұрын
Me too! I'm in Peoria.
@kimsmith819
3 жыл бұрын
You are a very kind person ❤
@livingtheaz_life2029
3 жыл бұрын
I'm I'm Peoria AZ too... what can we help with? I'm part of s huge church willing to help others in need and my family
@normastrong3053
3 жыл бұрын
What a Good Samaritan you are !
@elizabethbetsy1
3 жыл бұрын
Praying for her!!!
@carnivoreRon
2 жыл бұрын
I understand what the young man is going through. I'm 70 and I learned to walk again. For me the worst part was when the braces were strapped to my legs and I was made to stand up in paralled bars. I fell quite a few times. Over 40 years later, I'm doing crossfit and yoga. Don't give up. Please, don't give up.
@Jkaye13
8 ай бұрын
You are an inspiration! Keep on keeping on!
@Christian-gb8zf
8 ай бұрын
Yes this! I have a similar story ❤ Andrew can do it
@aprilchow-chee5281
7 ай бұрын
I hope he reads this 🙏
@saeedahugie8395
6 ай бұрын
What a beautiful simile. I ❤it
@SarahBurnette1007
5 ай бұрын
My heart goes out to the 2nd caller who had his feet damaged and is disabled. Prayers for your healing friend 🧡 ❤
@sterterous
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations James on staying sober for 9 years! Loved that you rang John. So cool.
@heidibonjour
Жыл бұрын
To the young man, I became disabled in my 20s. Doctors stuck needles in my feet , tried all sorts of therapies, and I am still (in my 50s) an ambulatory wheelchair user. I walk, I use scooters, knee scooter, wheelchair as needed. My feet get better and worse, but I am limited. I have had to find work and income streams that work with my body. Also, I DO NOT DISCUSS MY HEALTH WITH MOST PEOPLE! I ONLY discuss it with people who LISTEN TO ME! Other people do NOT know what I need! Grieve and be angry as long as you need to! Find a therapist! Create your own life
@blueseptember2174
Жыл бұрын
Such wonderful advice here. Thank you ❤
@suadasuehuseinovic2472
22 күн бұрын
Great advice, and yes I’m definitely rooting and praying for him 🙏🏼 ✨
@SandraStachowiczLtd
Жыл бұрын
Andrew, my man, your innate value as a human being does not end where your legs end You have so much more to offer to the world than just your legs You have value simply because you exist
@elizabethramos1325
6 ай бұрын
Nikki, my love, after a 20-year relationship and him emotionally abusing me just like your BF is doing to you. Is not ok leave baby leave for you for those babies it's the best thing don't waste another second on him. Because he will find someone else and leave you when he can't take anything else from you. You are a beautiful mother and you deserve the world! You can get through this and more. ❤❤❤
@crazeekids9744
3 жыл бұрын
It’s doesn’t take 6 years to figure out if you want to marry someone. On a side note, I tell my girls ALL THE TIME to be careful who they have babies with. If you marry someone, you can always get a divorce. If you have a baby with someone, you are stuck dealing with them (in most cases) for at least 18 years.
@unnamedchannel1237
2 жыл бұрын
It may not of taken you that long but everybody is different and everybody is in different circumstances.
@milenarivera4956
11 күн бұрын
Actually, it’s forever. That person will affect your children’s lives forever.
@illuminaci3077
7 ай бұрын
Nikki laughing probably cause she didn’t feel like she could cry is so sad. I wish her and the other callers the best of luck 💙
@melraggedy
6 ай бұрын
Cheating on somebody really hurt it’s hard to forgive someone
@nicholelesassier1799
3 жыл бұрын
Nikki, I lived your life. I stayed for 15 years. It doesn't get better. LEAVE!! For yourself and your boys! By staying you are showing your boys that this is a way a man treats a woman. Trust me my kids are now 26,24, 22 and I see how staying hurt them. We all want WHOLE relationships, this is not one. Please trust me on this. Leave and don't look back. Wishing you all the best.
@aimeerebecca1
Жыл бұрын
Perfectly said. Tragically, I stayed for a few more years, even knowing that. It is unfathomable how far we will let this go. So very sad.
@blueseptember2174
Жыл бұрын
Can you tell how staying hurt them? I want to know I made the right decision and it helps to hear from those that have been there.
@lmiller1413
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. I regret staying. I showed my kids poor role models for marriage. And his actions, his lack of support, and criticism wasn't good for me or the kids. I regret marrying him, and I regret staying.
@lmiller1413
Жыл бұрын
@blueseptember2174 the kids have very little self esteem. They talk about walking on eggshells around their dad, even as adults. I know my son treats his fiance like buddy, not like he should. My daughter is depressed and has a hard time getting out of bed, even as an adult. Me too. I eventually went and got another job and got my own place. But still return from time to time for business. Every time I'm back, I can't get my work done because it's all about him. He prioritizes himself with access to the bathroom etc. he gets upset when things don't go as planned. He is yelling even when I'm on a business call. It's just a reminder that I was very young and stupid, even at 30, when I got married.
@ashleejessop1293
8 ай бұрын
I am still in that life, I hope Nikki ran far, far away
@ldaniel2023
6 ай бұрын
When you hear other people’s problems, makes you realize your own problems aren’t that bad. Grateful for this channel. 🙏
@vixxcottage
3 жыл бұрын
Andrew I am an old nurse. I had thousands of different patients. I had a patient that was run over by an 18 wheeler. He had so many problems with nerves and bones and unable to walk. After 2 years he returned working his business of home improvement and construction. In fact when I visited him for wound care he was trying to assist me with a kitchen remodel! Keep your mind focused on the prize. Compartmentalize your pain. Believe me I understand. John gives such excellent advice. By the way the guy I sited was only 3 years older than you.
@LoveLove-pj8oi
3 жыл бұрын
Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately
@LoveLove-pj8oi
3 жыл бұрын
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@LoveLove-pj8oi
3 жыл бұрын
massage him on WhatsApp
@blueseptember2174
Жыл бұрын
Nurses are so wonderful. Thank you for your service ❤
@vixxcottage
Жыл бұрын
@@blueseptember2174 thank you.
@martinab2055
3 жыл бұрын
Nikki is a kind of friend who asks for advice but never acts on it. Know your worth girl 🤦🏽♀️
@neogbfe3587
6 ай бұрын
Never understood individuals that stay tied to an ex partner. Heal and separate, have integrity, and respect for yourself and others. No breaks, space or trial separations, take a risk and develop some courage to move on.
@MS-ns4ki
6 ай бұрын
Co dependency 911
@Averybean98
5 ай бұрын
🍪
@miguelhernandez7652
2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Incredible part when he speaks with battling PTSD, Anxiety, & Depression after becoming disabled in an accident. I pray for him. Stay strong brother. Love you from Wisconsin.
@angeliquemarquez6549
8 ай бұрын
Omg the last caller I'm crying . I'm in a similar situation. My husband says I looked better before I got pregnant . He constantly tries to tell me what to do. No respect. His advice hit me hard. Thank you John
@Sarah-bn1hg
7 ай бұрын
This is why I’m scared to start a family
@shashamarie4760
6 ай бұрын
Leave him now. I'm 7 months into a marriage. I wish I didn't spend a second.
@woboznz
6 ай бұрын
Just curious did he show any signs of this kind of behaviour towards you or this type of misogyny towards other women before you got pregnant, or did the pregnancy flip a switch in him?
@angeliquemarquez6549
6 ай бұрын
@@woboznzNo he didn't show this before I got pregnant. He doesn't have a great relationship with his mother because she put him and his siblings through hell. When I had the mood swings while pregnant he would say I was mean to him and honestly I wasn't . He didn't care to understand what women go through when I tried to explain it
@angeliquemarquez6549
6 ай бұрын
@@shashamarie4760It'll be 8 years of marriage this year . 10 years together total.
@DNICHOLEP
Жыл бұрын
The last caller is 1000% not leaving her baby daddy. Good luck to her.
@bobbylacy2374
Ай бұрын
She doesn't believe she deserves better...yet. She's young. She will have enough one day and finally believe she deserves better. I was her. 😊
@JS-tv8sf
2 жыл бұрын
I hope the mother with the two kids listened to every word you said and left that creep.
@Christian-gb8zf
8 ай бұрын
I was 28 and had my foot and ankle were crushed by a car. It was just one of them, not both. It took 5 years. I will never run again. But I can walk normally, I wear compression socks and I currently work on a farm. You can really do whatever you believe you can. Move more and more! It takes YEARS. You can do it! I believe in you.
@tinam761
3 жыл бұрын
Dear One with the two little ones ... 2 children & 6 years is long enough. It doesn’t appear he wants to be in it for the long haul. PLEASE recognize your worth! And your kids too. Wishing he’d mature and respect you will not make it happen. I know this from experience... I’m completely embarrassed to say I stayed with a man that promised he wanted to marry me for 9 years! Don’t make the mistake I made. His lack of ability to see your value is NOT your fault. You CAN have respectful love in your life. It will be hard ... but you CAN do it! My love and prayers are with you. 🙏🏼💕
@nancyorkeithm1518
3 жыл бұрын
☝️
@marvinanthony1172
3 жыл бұрын
I can never understand why you women expect men to see this so called value in you. You are not seeing you from his perspective. Perhaps he does not see the same "value" you see in yourself. Instead of assuming that you're valuable to him, try asking him pertinent questions about how he sees you and perhaps you will find out that you are not as valuable as you think, or he's not seeing what you think you are projecting. Coming from a good place. Stop assuming. Ask questions.
@salma_Nella22
3 жыл бұрын
@@marvinanthony1172 facts! You cheapen your “value” when you stay with a man based on assumptions. Always figure out what their intentions are and don’t assume that you are beneficial to everyone. You are not entitled to appreciation from someone that doesn’t appreciate you
@marvinanthony1172
3 жыл бұрын
@@salma_Nella22 I concur. "you are not entitled to appreciation from someone that doesn't appreciate you". Well said!
@Danny-sx6cj
2 жыл бұрын
John handled this call well
@rachelgooden9981
3 жыл бұрын
I love how Deloney dealt with Andrew’s case. I feel so sad for Andrew’. I heard the pain in his voice. I’m sending positivity his way . I hope he catches a break. Sigh. I hope he’s with the Ramsey programme and doesn’t have financial issues to make things worse.
@Danny-sx6cj
2 жыл бұрын
💯
@debbielockhart7762
11 ай бұрын
People don't have to follow Ramsey to be financially well. I disagree with a lot of Ramsey's methods.
@gabriellacallahan2649
Жыл бұрын
I greatly empathize with the man who has been injured. I have dealt 20 years of pain from an automobile accident. My ❤ goes out to his situation.
@joanntebo2835
3 жыл бұрын
I felt for Andrew because I have watched a family member who was vital, active and a force to be reckoned with, deal with a spinal cord injury that has left her a quadriplegic. She has fought pain, depression, doctors and caregivers who did little. Some even told her she would not live 5 years - she would likely die of infection. Fast forward, her husband takes great care of her. She has a few good doctors. They travel. She has an ATV that is rigged with a harness and adaptive tech to let her few arm muscles that work let her drive off road. She has done a tandem sky dive. (Her former spinal cord advisor did too, and asked, "What's gonna happen? I already broke my neck!") Her good advisor told her to get well over the next two years. Then, have something to do and to work for. Andrew, there is life ahead! It can still be an adventure.
@nikicrowe2768
7 ай бұрын
Nikki in Seattle-if you ever read this I really really hope you got far away from this manchild! The seven minutes that you were on air on this episode showed more of your soul and personality than anyone I’ve ever heard. Please know that you deserve better, much much better. My kid are now 16 and 11. My house is still a mess half the time..ok MORE than half the time. You deserve somebody to come home from work and see you and his beautiful children and know that is what really matters. Not the clutter, or the dishes, or the toys… that’s probably one of those guys that says he’s “babysitting the kids tonight “… No.. that is called raising and feathering children, not babysitting them. I’m so sorry for the pain that you had in this episode. I hope by now you are far from it.
@shirleyscott8879
6 ай бұрын
I stayed much too long with my ex. We didn’t have a relationship for years (and he was emotionally and verbally abusive) In my mind I was staying for the children. I know now that it would have been better for my daughters if we had moved out earlier.
@LOADING...o.o.o
7 ай бұрын
@29:41 Writing down is such a great advice. My sister told me to write down my trauma backward/opposite. I used to have trust issues. I wrote down, "I'm healthy, I trust in men, and I trust my boyfriend." Now it helped me a lot.
@danikathacker8549
7 ай бұрын
The man in the wheel chair is so anointed and called by God. And those suicidal dreams are an attach from the enemy. He needs to pray like Job, and then heal and start working in his calling. That’s how you KNOW you’re called by God is when the enemy tries to take you out.
@sweetyukibo
3 жыл бұрын
To Nikki: He WILL leave you for a younger, fitter model. GET OUT NOW. HE NEEDS YOU, until he finds some other chick to take care of him
@constancemiller3753
3 жыл бұрын
I respect how Andrew and John had a real conversation about moving on versus sitting down. 🐢
@fromthedeskofAngieEmm
3 жыл бұрын
If Nikki ever reads these comments, I hope she realizes that she deserves more than that poor excuse of a boyfriend! Someone who’s worth your time will not talk to you like this!!! You CAN make it away from him. You can’t burn brightly if someone is always putting out your flame. ❤️
@janettetimms8650
3 жыл бұрын
💯
@Danny-sx6cj
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Dude seems like a scumbag. Why hasn’t he proposed?!
@OfPsalmsandHymns
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! 💯
@jamidouglas4083
2 жыл бұрын
Preach!!
@shady1234shady
2 жыл бұрын
It was so hard to hear her tearing up on the call! Poor girl, and the laughter is almost nauseating too like she doesn’t understand the gravity of how he treats her
@laurahano7448
3 жыл бұрын
Andrew in Los Angeles: Wishing you luck in finding your new purpose.
@nancyt6895
3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Deloney is doing some really good work. He keeps getting better and better.
@frumpusnumpus
3 жыл бұрын
Nikki, what are you doing??? I felt so sorry for her! Move on. The second you move on, you will gain motivation for yourself and your kids. Some of these 'men' are so selfish its mind boggling. Jocko will 100% disapprove.
@veronicamoo6380
5 ай бұрын
He needs deliverance. The enemy is trying to oppress that young man. Prayers for him !!!
@mariee.5912
3 жыл бұрын
Nikki, GET OUT!! John is right.
@roxybaaybee
3 жыл бұрын
I feel for Niki. No one deserves this from any one, especially a guy whose sole purpose is to make you and your kids feel happy and safe. it’s true that kids will absorb their environment, I grew up with parents that never separated but they should’ve. I would prefer to have seen both my parents happy apart. It ruined all my siblings views on marriage and our relationships, and consequently our relationships with our own kids.
@splash6267
3 жыл бұрын
Same, i feel that so hard.
@Butchic1129
3 жыл бұрын
😥😥😥
@champagne4bfast
3 ай бұрын
Ah ha. The algorithm brought me to the origins of the pink note that simply said “cheater” and Dr. J couldn’t remember why it came in the mail 😂
@HPB1776
9 ай бұрын
I would so much rather be with a person with any type of disability who is so open, honest and a good person than half the men out there who are not loving and kind. Your wife loves you! Most women like to be "carers" in some way and what they give you, you can give back to them with love and affirmation which is a rare thing for us and makes women feel happy and fulfilled. Please be positive. You have great future ahead of you. Wishing you all the very best from the UK. XxX
@imjussayn7936
7 ай бұрын
BLESSINGS, COURAGE & STRENGTH to Andrew ❤❤❤❤
@jessicadominguez1315
3 жыл бұрын
They had kids to try to fix their broken marriage. That never works. I feel for these girls.
@Songbird36able
3 жыл бұрын
WOW her situation is crazy!!
@jarelchico
3 жыл бұрын
Not they. Do men ever have kids as an attempt to fix a marriage?
@jessicadominguez1315
3 жыл бұрын
@@jarelchico hm. Good point
@christianrapallo9850
3 жыл бұрын
@@jarelchico it takes 2 people to make a kid lol
@wolfpack3812
7 ай бұрын
Massive congrats James. I truly hope by now it is 11 years… 💪I can do anything for a day. Love love love it
@kerry-annmcpherson1011
3 жыл бұрын
The tears are just rolling down my face as you called James. So awesome. Such a therapeutic show
@usmanojochenemiamina3086
3 жыл бұрын
Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately
@usmanojochenemiamina3086
3 жыл бұрын
Text him on WhatsApp
@usmanojochenemiamina3086
3 жыл бұрын
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@rachelhelman2098
3 жыл бұрын
Super emotional listening to Andrew's story. John, you are so amazing, getting into the problem, emotion and mapping out the rout to the solution. I'm so inspired listening to you. How incredible, you have the ability to change people's perspectives so that in turn they can change their path. What a gift you have x
@Jkaye13
8 ай бұрын
I completely agree!! 👍🏻
@Soydulce3581
6 ай бұрын
Smh that poor woman with the 2 kids and the jerk. I hope she left he doesn't love, adore, protect or provide for her. I hope she listened.
@johnnypineappleseed
2 жыл бұрын
Hey James! Happy almost decade of sobriety man. I don’t know if johns gonna call you again this year, but we’re all still out here rooting for you man ◡̈
@charlotteboyett-napper4780
2 жыл бұрын
It never heals. Move on and don’t make that same mistake again.
@jamidouglas4083
2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to Nikki. Now being a mom myself. Oh my goodness is it hard being home with not only 1 but two little ones...Sister..GO LIVE YOUR LIFE. There is so much more for you.
@potluck712
Жыл бұрын
I’m not yet on Nikki’s story but am seeing this comment. Whats more than being a mother and loving your children? As in, why are you implying they are ruining her and her ability in life?
@BigE-qx1jb
7 ай бұрын
I was married for 14 years we divorced 5 years ago and I jumped back into a relationship, as this relationship went on I realized that I was the reason for the divorce and I’ll never change and now 4.5 years later this relationship is over and I’ll never change, I’m not a cheater or anything like that I just have problem with communication so I think it’s time for me to be alone I’m 52 and I learned life does go on and spend time with me
@gmoney1089
2 жыл бұрын
I picture Nikki's boyfriend coming home from work, walking in the door, holding a clip board and grilling her about what she's done all day, as he marks off pass/fail boxes he's making qrunting noises while looking over his glasses that he's wearing at the end of his nose, and disappointingly shaking his head back and forth like a supervisor at work... 🤦♂️
@tgsharp2838
Ай бұрын
My heart and prayers gobout to Andrew i know exactly how he feels. I became disabled from a work accident and it changed .y life forever. Lost my confidence, my husband and my control on my mental health 😢
@kimm5555
3 жыл бұрын
I love how you inspired the young man who became injured. I was inspired.
@graceseward2217
6 ай бұрын
The gentleman that called in about his feet ran over and disability my ears hear him .Thank you for being so brave I feel like you do .I have herredity angiodemia and is life threatening daily .keep going my friend you got me to reach out .thank you .
@timmy5948
Жыл бұрын
Omg alieshas story is my own currently! Seperated still living together. There are so many feeling still floating around. We have the best days sometimes and the spark comes back. It's so tiring. I want to be worthy of someone's love.
@NaeK188
6 ай бұрын
You ARE worthy. Even in the moments you don’t FEEL it, feelings can be misleading.
@mlovespring7892
3 жыл бұрын
Dr Jonh Daloney is doing a miracle work. We are all so appreciative for all that you do. God blessed you! 🙏🙏🙏
@jessicaneal8553
3 жыл бұрын
My to do list includes feed baby, make lunches, eat lunch, make dinner, change nappies (diapers). Then I have the optional things after that if I can: read books to kids, clean, do dishes, tidy toys, laundry on, laundry dry, laundry folded, laundry away. It helps a lot to cross things off, and write what else you do as it comes up- that way you know, and others can see exactly what a day looks like.
@vr8921
Жыл бұрын
Omg that poor girl at the end, I sure hope she left that jerk
@LivingAble
3 жыл бұрын
I don't know if this would be of any help and I can't deal with it from like the PTSD part but my KZitem channel is where I show how I do things from a wheelchair. It may help the gentleman with the hurt feet to do some things sitting. I live independently I can work and completely take care of myself from a physical standpoint (pun intended) all from sitting. He will obviously need help to deal with the pain physically and mentally but from a task perspective there are ways. And I'm more than happy to talk to him or his wife and be of encouragement
@callmecordelia7181
3 жыл бұрын
Good for you! I hope he checks out your channel!
@chezlou812
3 жыл бұрын
Such a lovely offer 💖 I hope he sees this and checks out your channel!
@LivingAble
3 жыл бұрын
@@chezlou812 thx I hope he will reach out to me
@hend6475
10 ай бұрын
The last lady reminds me of the song lyrics "free is just another word for nothing left to lose"
@thesecretlifeofwonderwoman
4 ай бұрын
Andrew, I wish we could talk. I got a near fatal illness years ago and almost died. I didn't (spoiler alert!) but my brain took a terrible hit. My neurologist told me that my brain looks like the brain of an elderly Alzheimer's patient. That knocked the wind out of me. I have had to work my way through fear, doubt as well as the very real disability that the illness gave me. I feel your fear and I want you to know I'm cheering you on. If there is any way I can be a support for you, let me know. You are close to the same age as my youngest son. I am willing to be a support to you on your journey. God has taught me so much, Andrew. I'm here for you
@mariee.5912
3 жыл бұрын
Andrew, keep going. You can do it. You have a story to tell. You don't need to get up from that chair to be amazing. Don't give up you sound amazing.
@jnikibbons5606
3 жыл бұрын
Nicky, girl, this man has failed his job interview, his training sessions and failed to meet his job expectations. Fire him and run the business yourself.
@beezymommy7888
Жыл бұрын
I am now a fan. This show must be seen by many people. John is a good coach ❤️
@misharamage5529
7 ай бұрын
Omg! Run for the hills Nikki!!!! You are worth more than that sister! It’s him mama…not you. You are doing fabulous. Big hugs mama. ❤
@Songbird36able
3 жыл бұрын
She left and went back. That means you can leave. LEAVE LADY!!! He keeps saying "wife". She's a girlfriend if he acknowledges her as that.
@jessicadominguez1315
3 жыл бұрын
Lol bc she's playing the part of a wife with no legal protections. Now she won't get any part of their house or any alimony. I hope she goes to her father's house again and stays this time. I hope Dr. Delony's words stay with her. It's a big deal imo that he flat out told her to leave, he doesn't say that.
@Songbird36able
3 жыл бұрын
@@jessicadominguez1315 Absolutely right!
@SaystheTruth3
Жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to Andrew... I pray he's starting to feeling more positive & achieving his goals. ❤️
@nmc1859
3 жыл бұрын
I really feel for the young man who talked about the accident and also the loss of his brother. And also... have a feeling things are going to go well for him. What obstacles to overcome they are.. somehow I believe he can. 💖
@dianethompson6804
7 ай бұрын
So much pain in the world that is self inflicted! No one can make us happy or miserable--we do that to ourselves! I'm sorry for the ones that feel they can't leave the misery! The unknown is better than the painful now!!
@whistlepiglet
3 жыл бұрын
Aleisha in North Carolina: I wish you healing and much love in your future. Take care of yourself and your babies.
@Dutches-so3di
8 ай бұрын
I just want to say how happy I’m to have found this channel. I love the way Dr. John gives advice in all the shows. Great Job!!!! We all need this free therapy❤
@thenutrientwhisperer3700
7 ай бұрын
Wow John, you really outdid yourself this time. Nice wrap up to this video. Holding mothers up high the way you did. Thank you for your support. You are one of a kind.💝♥️
@tomdrummy4984
3 жыл бұрын
Your soul will tell you when relationship is over. Think of the person, and your soul will tell you. Oh yes, it’s real......deep, but real. Your soul guides you when you are quiet, and listen
@Brenduh03
2 жыл бұрын
I would have to disagree…
@Dannniellleee
2 жыл бұрын
I agree. Once you learn to listen to it!
@rachelann724
2 жыл бұрын
How can I tell the difference of my heart, mind or soul when asking questions?
@voltatech7772
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed! I so enjoy when he’s gone and dread seeing him driving up. Time for him to go!
@evalisabowers8898
7 ай бұрын
Agree! I love that you made this comment. It speaks to me. I often get clarity and perspective about my situation in the small time after I wake up in the morning. If I don’t write it down, things get clouded again as the day progresses and I don’t understand my situation again. I have wondered what that phenomenon is. You explained that very succinctly. Makes sense. Thank you commenter
@lauragonzalez-ramognino3792
Жыл бұрын
Nikki I notice uses laughter in place of crying or laughter in place of hysteria or sadness…makes it even more heartbreaking 💔 because she doesn’t have enough self love to let that narcissist go…
@lynncbryan
3 жыл бұрын
Praying for you, Andrew!
@TomiaMacQueen
3 жыл бұрын
You can do it Andrew!!! Keep living and loving! Find your God given purpose and go for it. Often, finding someone else for you to help makes a tremendous difference in ourselves.
@Thegracemade
Жыл бұрын
Love how Dr John challenges and encourages Andrew! God still has a plan for you and can still use you sweet Andrew your testimony can change lives and touch so many❤ God Bless you - all the best!
@KManwarren
2 жыл бұрын
I hope Andrew let's John's strong words really penetrate his heart. I knew before he said it their was a religious element. I am a very strong Believer and follower of Christ, AND we have done ourselves a disservice by thinking that God will heal every broken bone or relieve all suffering. That is not the message of the Bible. We are not guaranteed health, but we are guaranteed the Lord's goodness and closeness when we go through difficulties. In the last year, we have experienced so much that people have had the nerve to say that we were in sin...if they knew the Lord, they would have seen clearly that our hearts were filled with joy, we had opportunity to pray with people who hurt us because their lives were broken, and God provided without fail the whole time. I am now walking, in nursing school, my husband is working, and our children have witnessed the truth of God's word be evident in our lives. We aren't promised easy, we are promised His word and His presence. I pray that Andrew would remember that God's grace and mercy have followed him and his wife ALL the days of their lives...even in the accident. He endured the cross. He won't run from your pain, sweetheart. Lord, restore joy and peace to their home, please. In Your powerful name!
@jenniferchiang8759
3 жыл бұрын
If I was the one run this talk show, there would be 10 boxes of tissues on the desk.... Amazing Dr. John and very very good wishes for you Andrew, so sorry, you will feel better day by day.
@Shan0714SLS
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Delony for your brilliant approach to tough issues and help people answer their mountain. I love your direct approach, direct solutions and how you call people to their own action. Absolutely brilliant, beautiful, inspiring! Thank You! ❤🙏🏻
@Mrs.Buttercup_
3 жыл бұрын
I have to say... every time I wash dishes I say to myself it's time to listen to Delony.😂
@Dwights_trash_can
3 жыл бұрын
Me too! Haha!
@Jane_1994
3 жыл бұрын
It's a vibe!
@Ajay4kay
3 жыл бұрын
Same! Lol
@taleeco2977
3 жыл бұрын
I do this but with cooking lol
@thegamergame3851
3 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@brendarewan7441
6 ай бұрын
I almost cried hearing what he told the lady with the live in ex and twins. I like his directness. I need him as a counselor.
@godslove8767
7 ай бұрын
I love this dude. John God bless you brother!!
@sherrikins3557
3 жыл бұрын
For the guy that had the accident: I knew a guy in a wheelchair.. Vietnam war got his legs. He was the manager of a brokerage in freight..a boss.. Had alot of $, trucks, ran the whole dept, like owned it.. He had alot of big accounts. Alot of women liked him, too. My friend worked for him so I would see him when I went for lunch.
@pattythomas9405
3 жыл бұрын
It would be cool if for once you didn't feel insecure about naming the show after yourself. Or being forced to name it after yourself or whatever. You have earned the title of doctor. We tune to your show for that reason.
@janegrey4374
3 жыл бұрын
YOU control your dreams, they don't control you. In the midst of a bad dream, or a nightmare, YOU can remove yourself from that bad dream or YOU can change the dream. It takes a few times before you remember while in the midst of the bad dream, but you get to a point where you do remember, and you change the dream. I KNOW because I've done it anytime I've had a bad dream. It becomes easier after a while to change those bad dreams to good dreams.
@findingaway5512
3 жыл бұрын
Congrats James!!!! Huge! 9 years! Congrats on the marriage and the baby on the way!
@djlazylee
3 жыл бұрын
I agree, I love your show. For someone with so many credentials, you are so down to earth and easy to relate to. Good luck and I wish you continued success.
@Jacqueline967
9 ай бұрын
I related to Andrews story so thank you for calling, and thank you for the advice!
@strangeaslife
3 жыл бұрын
Does anyone ever follow up with Delony like he asks and Delony film the checkin? I'd be so curious to hear how some of these stories play out months down the line...
@droptozro
3 жыл бұрын
I can't remember if that's happened yet--maybe once? I know on Dr. Cloud's show it's happened a few times. But you're right, it's more interesting to hear how it plays out down the line sometimes.
@calibrial
3 жыл бұрын
John, you are FAR from terrible at podcasts... as someone who rarely gets into podcasts... yours is by far my favorite!
@LoveLove-pj8oi
3 жыл бұрын
Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately
@LoveLove-pj8oi
3 жыл бұрын
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@LoveLove-pj8oi
3 жыл бұрын
massage him on WhatsApp
@jonimitchell6962
11 ай бұрын
I went thru a terrible trauma but when I finally realized the pain wasn't good but the lessons I learned could be a blessing to others and that gave the trauma and healing a purpose. It was when I started to heal. It took a long time but it worked.
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