She should look for her husband, and find out the truth by herself, den take a decision from there.
@maxineadderley5378
Жыл бұрын
How does this mother go in search of a man who is not in search of her? He obviously has another family/families, there is no room for her and their children
@THEREALSOURCE
Жыл бұрын
I agree. Find out the truth for yourself. Never make decisions based on hersay. If the rumors are true, she can move on with her life without him and start afresh.
@enawnalova645
Жыл бұрын
@@maxineadderley5378 It's better to have answers dan to live in doubts or assumptions
@doreenonekalit9888
Жыл бұрын
@@THEREALSOURCEAgree
@sholasanyasanya6646
Жыл бұрын
As a Mother and Grandmother with 4 daughters. I will tell her to clean her eyes, cheer my daughter up, Calm her down. Quietly tell her he doesn't love her,and if he did he wouldn't do that to her. Cut your losses my daughter and move on.
@ii954
Жыл бұрын
She doesn’t know that for sure tho
@hadizamamud3209
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ma. This is exactly my opinion too
@sholasanyasanya6646
Жыл бұрын
@hadizamamud3209 Exactly my dear.
@leroysameul6377
Жыл бұрын
Miserable woman always encouraging other woman to be miserable like them a single mother with two young kids make her sexual value ver low
@Ifyskitchen
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ma❤️
@gloriaujuku8095
Жыл бұрын
She should just eat a plate of this nice yam porridge you make and relax. Some men are like that ❤❤❤❤❤
@angelachijioke4770
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@D-bright237
Жыл бұрын
I second
@symplyemy62
Жыл бұрын
Great advice!😂
@okekemirabel2165
Жыл бұрын
Relax and do what? What should she tell her kids? Should she live as a wife to a man who is married with another wife and risk STI, trauma and depression or should she divorce and risk social stigma? 'Some men are like' I don't understand the advice
@immaculataamadiohagwam8208
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sandramtooi800
Жыл бұрын
I would go look for him in my younger years but now that I know better- I would focus on my focusity and thats my children and my life. Someone else will find me too while am doing what am doing mitcheeew.
@maxineadderley5378
Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏🌹💕
@CarnivorePrincess
Жыл бұрын
Go and look for him and do what? He has made his choice. It was a cowardly way to go about it. Abandon your family and go start another. Prayers for your friend.
@shandlewilliams1261
Жыл бұрын
She heard rumors. Better to not assume and find out the truth then make realistic decisions based on that.
@CarnivorePrincess
Жыл бұрын
@@shandlewilliams1261 that is very true! With consideration to this, she should seek the truth and go from there.
@cathm3488
Жыл бұрын
You are so right Carnivore too much of that is happening with all Nationalty What goes around come around Wicked man
@geminiempress8765
Жыл бұрын
If it turns that,it is true he will do the same thing to the new wife.
@leroysameul6377
Жыл бұрын
She shouldn't go
@marionmendy8487
Жыл бұрын
The Advice is...... She should tell her parents so that her parents can call the husband's parents to request back the bridals price back please
@yourgodmotherog
Жыл бұрын
But they keep the bride price cause he moved on.
@happiness_bonheur
Жыл бұрын
be strong to move on
@faithjude7041
Жыл бұрын
From the explanation, it is evident first and foremost that you have the heart to care for your domestic staff, you truly have them at heart. She is lucky to have you as her madam, and for you to give them a listening ear.. I would advise that she stays with you so that you can monitor her health wise. She might not survive if she's on her own. Staying with you is better.. If the man in question has boldly showed her that he has moved on, please let her also move on.. She deserves to be happy because you are a happy woman as well. So sad tho. I pray God gives her the strength to cope.
@shandlewilliams1261
Жыл бұрын
Look for him. Find out what's going on If he has another family then she has a decision to make. 16 months and no support for his family?!
@OgeNwohaandFamily
Жыл бұрын
I second, if it's true that he has another family my dear move on ooo
@9ether999
Жыл бұрын
16 months ABSCENCE tells her EVERYTHING 😮
@bahiyyahree8715
Жыл бұрын
That looks delicious
@michellemcdaniel9112
Жыл бұрын
I don’t know what she should do but I hope something even better is waiting for her and her kids! Peace love and happiness for the lady☮️💜🙃
@folakemipraise5408
Жыл бұрын
She waited for too long. If you don't see or hear from someone you love in a month at most three months, go and look for the person. Phone calls don't do justice to face to face discussions! Notwithstanding, the time it is wise to go look for him instead of premising her decision on what she heard. People tell tales about what they know and don't know. Good luck to her.
@mariamesimpore3706
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤🎉
@girlysuperville5060
Жыл бұрын
Yes make sure that what she is hearing is true then make her mind up about what she wants to do blessings
@bxh9372
Жыл бұрын
Wow Masha Allah
@MDonawa
Жыл бұрын
She should leave him alone, it's obvious he's doing his own thing. She should also sue him if they're legally married.
@markkofi8522
Жыл бұрын
The fact that he's not been home for 16 months, I'd pretty much say that the marriage is over. Tell her to go to Rivers and look for him for money for the children.
@Alice-ht1jx
Жыл бұрын
She needs to get child support. If she's here in the US, she can make sure he gives her child support. Parents can't abandon their kids just like that. They at least need to pay for the children's expenses
@Amaka_I
Жыл бұрын
She should find out if he is safe first. If she finds out that he is sage and his actions are intentional, she should cut him off.
@maxineadderley5378
Жыл бұрын
Why should she use her bit of resources to go to find him? If he is alive, it is obvious that he does not care and if he is dead, there isn't anything else she can do about it, Furthermore, where are his family members regarding his children with her?
@estheroladunjoye5138
Жыл бұрын
She should build herself up and her children let God take care and control of her situation if it’s God’s will to let go or not He will surely lead her on the right direction. Her mental health and state of mind is very important right now both her and her children ❤❤❤
@asamairene3964
10 ай бұрын
Wow I just tried this recipe and it taste so delicious 😋😋😋😋 Would be trying more of your recipes
@CassandraMcCray-fn6eh
Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t go look for him because he left me and the children I will count my losses stay in prayer and ask God for guidance
@ngozieze7826
Жыл бұрын
Look for who😅. When he's tired he will come back. 😂😂😂😂
@Zero-hl2zy
Жыл бұрын
Yummy and yummy looking
@keorapetsethequeen687
Жыл бұрын
I live in UK and have been here for about 7 years now I came when I was 24 years The crazy things our African brothers and sisters who came here without their spouses do will shock you 😢 Either for status or citizenship or whatever beneficial benefits they can accumulate they will make sure to do that And clearly as an African lady in UK you can easily spot a viper, I had a couple encounter with some and liked the fact that I’m from South Africa with no kids, they’ll be talking in pigeon English thinking I don’t understand I’ve learned the lingo way before I left home because I was dating an Igbo gentleman when I was university, I can’t speak it well but I understand it 100% Things they’ll say and do! Our African sisters are no joke too, my first friend in England was a young lady from Congo to say she was obsessed with plastic surgery was an understatement and all of this because her ex married some older rich white woman here and she wanted to have a perfect body to get a rich man 😂, met another couple in church from Botswana and they looked very happy, crazy thing is that when I went to their place as I was invited and trying to make friends so I went God gracious only to find that the boyfriend is married to a white woman and the lady is his “sister” how is this normal? This can’t be normal at all 😂 After that I’ve not had a single friend in UK for 5 years but I do have people I hang out with but put me out of your crazy life 😂 It’s too funny and sad to the point of asking yourself if you attract the certain type of people into your life because you’re doing something wrong or said something that attracted their selfishness or what After that I’m not dealing with anyones crazy problem You find good African brothers here who gets played by our own sisters and these young white ladies on drugs and they leave 😢 So said
@sallymensah8196
Жыл бұрын
Yummy Yummy 😋
@tinasoblessed6350
Жыл бұрын
As a mother of 5 grown daughters, I would tell her, go to your room, and cry as hard as you can, while you are Praying 🙏🏻, for your tears are your strength 💪, when you are finished crying and praying, God, and only God will direct your path!🙏🏽🙏🏽👍🏼🤗
@LilianDPam-jy8hk
Жыл бұрын
I think she should pray and ask God to take charge of the situation.She should try to forgive him.
@hiefia8568
Жыл бұрын
Nigerians peel yam like Ghanaians peel cassava, and peel cassava like the way Ghanaians peel yam. I think you should try the Ghanaian style some time. It is quite fast.
@wendyoke7872
Жыл бұрын
Advice for myself would be enjoy that yam pottage with a glass of Prosecco. ❤❤
@Ifyskitchen
Жыл бұрын
😃
@msify3041
Жыл бұрын
I'm here just for this lovely yam porridge recipe. Not to sound unsympathetic and unkind but I no dey give relationship advice. All adults know exactly what they need to do. They just need someone else to give their decisions validation by agreeing. And they cry because they know what to do but it hurts to do the right thing. Aunty Ify my namesake she will be alright!! I empathise and pray God gives her strength and wisdom.
@barbaraadonis7551
Жыл бұрын
She should cut her loss. She and the kids are striving without him not matter how difficult it is. Her ashes will soon turn to beauty. Trouble don’t last forever. There is a season of praise when we can celebrate our success. When she start to strive without him, he would find all sorts of excuse to get back with her. I pray for her strength. She should hold up are head. A virtuous woman is hard to find. May God open a door of provision for her. Shalom.
@0j0chenemi
Жыл бұрын
This woman used this story to hold me to this video 😂😂😂😊
@nidiagraham7444
Жыл бұрын
He's a coward. She should go and confirm before she takes the long walk.
@victoriagabriel2593
Жыл бұрын
Your comment is one of the best here, look for him first know if he's alive before making a decision.
@nkeirukaa.6343
Жыл бұрын
Nice one
@maxineadderley5378
Жыл бұрын
Why should she use whatever meager resource that she has, to chase down someone who does not show any interest in her and their children
@enawnalova645
Жыл бұрын
Why wait upto 16months before looking for ur husband, of something could have happened to him, how would u know. For me by de 3rd month, I for don go find u oh. She should go look for him to get closure
@SOFwT2020
Жыл бұрын
Hi doll, your frie d should both pray, and remind herself that God has made her worth His best. Thus, anyone who chooses to treat her outside of abundant love deserves her not! He's showing her what's in his heart even towards their children. They too deserve better. Time to heal, and reclaim the liberty of peace, and freedom. I'm praying from this moment forward. Please tell her God will meet her needs.😊💞
@olafolashade9327
Жыл бұрын
she should go and look for him to be sure of what really happened before deciding on what to do
@tracihill55
Жыл бұрын
Leave the marriage. Oh cause he’s already gone. He’s not worthy. Stay blessed.
@Cadence-c9p
Жыл бұрын
She should make sure if he has in fact a wife,then just cut her losses and move on,also she should make sure that both their families know about him leaving her and her hardship in fending for her kids,all the love to her an God will give her strength to care for herself and the children❤️❤️❤️🇿🇦🇿🇦🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@bunmiotemade9903
Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@officialgodspowers
Жыл бұрын
Hmmm...so many women going through so much oo❤
@nyadanstephen4089
Жыл бұрын
Let her not giving herself a headache with someone who don’t want to be with her. This man clearly have personal issues and he need to deal with his own. Tell your friend, sis you are too valuable and the man could not handle you that’s why. Rise up and walk again. Let your light shine in darkness. Bless you
@cypress2212
Жыл бұрын
Cut cut cut.
@chrisjames7428
Жыл бұрын
16 months means the relationship is over.. Start divorce proceedings...
@laureneze
Жыл бұрын
Let's discuss this issue further over this plate of porridge pls 😊
@CivillaAcquah-th2sz
Жыл бұрын
Nigerians really have some foods in common
@HarunaYinusa-zt2st
6 ай бұрын
She should travel to his place and spend sometime with him.
@milanmato
Жыл бұрын
Lol how can you get good advice over this yam porridge?!😂😂😅
@audrinaukaobasi23
Жыл бұрын
Leave him my sister and pray my God have mercy on him. My sister pray My God gives you strength and peace during the healing process. 🙏🏾
@gracechukwubuko7717
Жыл бұрын
she should pray to God and trust God to intervene in her marriage and deliver her husband from the strange woman
@kikikeel7695
Жыл бұрын
Which African country is this from please?
@obalimchizobafrancisca8612
Жыл бұрын
Walahi! I didn't concentrate on the story told ooo. This pot of food is damn confusing...😥
@soothing718
Жыл бұрын
Go look for him and get confirmation. Then go on with her life. Nice video.
@oniyekehinde8222
Жыл бұрын
Not only women are going through a lot. As for the woman, let her speak first to God believing God hears and ready to help her out and follow what is laid on her mind thereafter.
@candislong1364
Жыл бұрын
Got to get that money girl
@ndanacarter3270
Жыл бұрын
Cut her losses she must protect her self and their children. Chasing him will hurt her more.
@marcellinodadon1103
Жыл бұрын
...this is an African scenario...but...she should attempt to find him...starting with that same grapevine...✊🏿...🌍... 🍇...❤...
@shell2513
Жыл бұрын
Go look for him in the states and take one of his family Members with her. If he wants out the 1st Marriage he should pay his 1st wife to support their Kids !
@smorris7864
Жыл бұрын
Demand chid support and send his sorry self on his way
@marionmendy8487
Жыл бұрын
Her children and herself are the priorities. When the parents meets to know for sure then she can then move on its better to know for sure before cutting tights
@faithbishop1444
Жыл бұрын
Investigate, if there’s another family, cut losses and hustle hard for herself and kids.
@kimjongun5613
Жыл бұрын
I think she should make sure he’s at least alive, as dark as that sounds. 16 months is a long time maybe something really bad happened to him and he didn’t leave behind some emergency contact info. If he is alive then screw him, divorce and demand to step up the plate as a father and help with the children. It’s not only financially, he also needs to help them emotionally, many kids need to have an extra person to confide in before extending their search on someone else (grandmother, uncles/aunts, etc)
@Olicindy
Жыл бұрын
Quite logical
@maine3666
Жыл бұрын
We call it mpot)mpot) in Ghana,you can add salted beef. It tastes divine! 🔥🔥🔥
@earthzone85
Жыл бұрын
She should focus on herself and and kids. He made his choice now she should make hers move on peacefully and happily to her blessings
@AYOMIDEWILLIAMMICHAELStimeless
Жыл бұрын
She should confirm if the man is alive, someone might be impersonating the man on the wire, things are happening, I'm writing this based on a live story similar to this
@adejokeadeniji-jp1br
Жыл бұрын
Nobody is talking about the food 😮
@philvalantine8853
Жыл бұрын
Look for him ..get closure..then decide whats best for you and the children
@mildrisplested4804
Жыл бұрын
Nothing but be loving to herself and her kids.
@vidhirathod6055
Жыл бұрын
Let her move on. The answer will come when she’s ready for it. Trust God’s plan and timing.
@geoburr54lacy
Жыл бұрын
Go look for him and hold him accountable for the family he had first.
@trumalebo
Жыл бұрын
I wish this yam was available in South Africa.
@nangasikade2992
Жыл бұрын
Hi sis it available at Fruit and Vege ( Bryanston )they call it" Indian Potato" ❤
@trumalebo
Жыл бұрын
@@nangasikade2992 Thank you so much. I'm in the East but once I go that side I will check it out Sis. Thank you ❤️
@nangasikade2992
Жыл бұрын
@@trumalebo You're welcome Sis❤️❤️
@gods959
Жыл бұрын
A stray dog can't protect it's Master. The dog jump's the gate to roam the streets and comes home to eat. The dog has made up his mind to leave ,let him stay gone. Get another faithful dog that respects the Master and the food . This man has made up his mind,never chase a stray dog it will always roam around no matter how good you are to him.
@DiamondQuality1
Жыл бұрын
Go and look for him for closure and for planning for the kids. Don't let him off the hook that easy. Don't look for him to get him back. Na loosing battle.
@CivillaAcquah-th2sz
Жыл бұрын
This in part of Ghana is called 'nuhu'
@chinweikei3539
Жыл бұрын
She should cut her losses. This is the reason women are supposed to be prepared financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually before considering marriage. Males are wired empty of empathy
@immaculatelum5102
Жыл бұрын
Definitely go look for him and confirm herself
@pamsubramaniam125
Жыл бұрын
After listening to this story I felt she should go look for him and find out the truth
@agnestekyi6078
Жыл бұрын
The man left her .
@benny0692
Жыл бұрын
I think she should a plate of the porridge yam to cool off first 😅
@EmpressAisha
Жыл бұрын
She should focus on herself and her kid. Marriage is no longer endurance but enjoyment
@elizabethomobolaneoyedele2479
Жыл бұрын
Let her go look for him first, they may be able to resolve the difference and work things out.
@serwangerstark8406
Жыл бұрын
She should take this plate of yam pottage and serve him! He'll return pronto like he never left!!!! Or do y'all think Esau selling his birthright to Jacob for a plate of porridge or pottage is a joke !!!!
@Hazel...01
Жыл бұрын
She should eat this yummy 😋 yam
@jacquelinerodriguez-wh7uk
11 ай бұрын
Find the truth for yourself to have closer. Then be glad for the truth
@nanaidris3631
Жыл бұрын
no need for looking for him just bear the pain I know is not easy and be asking God to give strength to take good Care of children , when is time God will give you A capable man to take Care of responsibility
@nanaidris3631
Жыл бұрын
no need for looking for him just bear the pain I know is not easy and be asking God to give strength to take good Care of children , when is time God will give you A capable man to take Care of responsibility
@pauleenparnell9717
Жыл бұрын
I think the first thing , she should do is to pray about it She must hear what GOD say on the matter. Then talk to her pastor or spiritual leader to get his take on the matter. The aim is that she doesn't do any thing foolish or in haste.
@preciousonyinyechi4744
Жыл бұрын
She should go and look for him in the state where he works just to confirm if the rumors are true or not and if its true she should please cut her losses and leave his sorry behind alone ...as for she and her kids,they'll be fine ,they are better off without a man like that biko!!!
@redcolerealty9245
Жыл бұрын
Tell her to go find him. 16months is a Long time to not have gone in the 1st place. Tell her to go find him and know for sure and then she can decide
@cecestyme8014
Жыл бұрын
She should go check on him. He could’ve gotten sick or anything. If he has gotten another family it’s best you see with your own eyes and allow God heal than stressing killing your self slowly by worrying and stressing…. It’s nothing like knowing the truth about anything for yourself….
@Naijawife
Жыл бұрын
Does he still provide? If yes let her seat down and make this yam you just made .going to look for him will not change what he is doing..
@pastorjennyorkuma1649
Жыл бұрын
If the man loves her, he will come to her. She should pray and wait on God. What if she goes looking for him and something happens on the way? Who will take care of the children? She should stay nd take care of her children. Those children will wipe away her tears one day.
@erikaboles1762
Жыл бұрын
Leave Him and start a beautiful new life, with her and her children. God will be there with her, and provide for her and her children. Girl get up and stand up, be a wonderful, beautiful woman and say I can, I will be a strong woman, I can make it without him take a stand put your focus on God, Jesus, and the Holy Ghost, and the Holy Spirit, your children and live ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@kendascorner
Жыл бұрын
Take it to god he never guides us wrong
@tigresskeno743
8 ай бұрын
Move on😂😂😂😂
@ednaboateng2575
Жыл бұрын
She’s lived without him for 16 months, what does she want with him now. If he came back he’ll probably disappear again. Onwards and upwards she should carry on without him, she will definitely meet someone else
@BEAUTIFULYBLESSEDCHAY
Жыл бұрын
Go confirm what she's heard. If the story is true, she should thank God and keep moving. E get why
@vero57
Жыл бұрын
Go and look for him, and give his children to him.
@brendagakii2202
Жыл бұрын
She should look for him and find a way of paying the bills.
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