1-Go out, be around people 2-Give out compliments 3-Be open 4-Don`t force friendships 5-Add value to their lifes 6-Quality is better than quantity
@soppluto2677
2 ай бұрын
@Int-sumthen get that figured out !
@kimberlyjackson8343
26 күн бұрын
If you do choose to have some friends it's very important to choose your friends wisely and be careful who you trust and tell your problems to because everyone who smiles at you is not your friend
@Unknownt-uu7td
3 ай бұрын
I swr whenever Im in the bin God sends this brother to pick me back up
@realborness
2 ай бұрын
Real bro
@Jane-nm5dq
2 ай бұрын
Yeees, same!
@nviah
2 ай бұрын
this is my third time of this happening 😭😭
@Aurora_Animates
Ай бұрын
Yes :) ❤❤
@jagzey
19 күн бұрын
amen brother
@RedFella0115
2 ай бұрын
"What do you have that you can add to somebody's life?". Damn, that's a deep question, straight up!
@RedFella0115
2 ай бұрын
"What's up bro?". That absolutely IS a cheat code for dudes😅
@phoenixx25
3 ай бұрын
Every time I think of a certain topic and I question why I can't have it like the rest have it eg having friends and stuff, this guy drops a video of the very same thing that's bothering me deep down. He is him!
@DreamerFromTheDepths
2 ай бұрын
This is very comprehensive, friendships can be complex, especially when you're first thinking about friends, it's not always a good idea to make friends, you might feel lonely but do you feel lonely because you feel pressured to make friends when you have none? Or do you feel lonely because you're not in a good place to meet people or make friends? Sometimes it's fine to hold back and not make friends right away. You'll be ready when the time comes.
@C_rue
Ай бұрын
Bro I haven’t had friends in 5 years
@juanaldama2084
26 күн бұрын
Me too:(
@kimberlyjackson8343
26 күн бұрын
If you do choose to have some friends it's very important to choose your friends wisely and be careful who you trust and tell your problems to because everyone who smiles at you is not your friend
@omarmateengaming1
23 күн бұрын
Accept Islam
@C_rue
23 күн бұрын
@@omarmateengaming1 nah fam I’m good
@danielkiala2947
3 ай бұрын
I am learning a lot.
@kimberlyjackson8343
26 күн бұрын
If you do choose to have some friends it's very important to choose your friends wisely and be careful who you trust and tell your problems to because everyone who smiles at you is not your friend
@Definitelynotanalienoranything
2 ай бұрын
I never realised until I was 28 that I have really poor social skills. I thought I was ok but moving and starting again really highlights your strengths and weaknesses.
@KO_Radio
Ай бұрын
Does this dude have a podcast!? Honestly has such a soothing voice 👏
@Random-pi8gt
2 ай бұрын
I don't know if anyone is going to see this but I wanted to provide some comfort to people that may be in my situation. I've been somewhat isolated for the past 3ish years. I toughed it out at first but over time I got more and more depressed. Today I learned that being lonely is a big problem that many people have. It's NEVER too late to change. You're not a lost cause and you can do anything you put your mind to. Baby steps are OKAY. Talk to more and more people. Practice conversations by writing it down, talking to someone available, etc. I don't have much more advice other than you got this!
@kimberlyjackson8343
26 күн бұрын
If we do choose to have some friends it's very important that we choose our friends wisely and be careful who we trust and tell our problems to because everyone who smiles at us is not our friend
@GLXSSY444
3 ай бұрын
It’s crazy cause I was talking to a friend about a friend I got into an argument with and I got the notification that you posted a video about making friends…..idk if that’s a coincidence or not 😂 but I’m here for it
@elijahbrown2052
3 ай бұрын
I been watching and rewatching your videos daily for the past three weeks and I can’t state how much they been helping me out 🙏🏿
@iiscarywolf6848
2 ай бұрын
i dont have trouble making friends but everything you say just makes sense, Your a beautiful person and thanks for those beautiful words as always :)
@kimberlyjackson8343
26 күн бұрын
If you do choose to have some friends it's very important to choose your friends wisely and be careful who you trust and tell your problems to because everyone who smiles at you is not your friend
@amarachichats
2 ай бұрын
You're so wise! God bless you 🤍
@alancenteno9804
2 ай бұрын
I have a half funny quote that I always say that is: Life is like a half cut apple, one way it looks like a heart, and the other way it looks like some cheeks. You have to see both sides to enjoy it.
@KingTopher789
Ай бұрын
Hey man thanks for the help this is exactly what I needed as a incoming freshman it means a lot thx bro and keep up the good wirk
@wizardlevi3384
Ай бұрын
I moved to a new school 6 months ago and ended up becoming friends with people i don't want to be friends with. (Not saying their bad people, they're actually good friendly people its just something about them doesn't feel right) So i effectively have had no friends to actually talk to for the past 6 months. I left all my old friends behind and now i rarely talk to them which i think is the worst part because they are amazing people that i love to hang around. Thank you for this video, i may have had to do the sad part of actually needing to search up this video but thank you. Thank you so much.| God Bless.
@debraherring5650
3 ай бұрын
First also I love you vids your my favorite KZitem and you have really made me think about things
@Silasthegoat04
2 ай бұрын
Can we appreciate, this guy Shimon. Really taking all of his knowlegde, and giving it to us, who are not that Well known with these topics but tryna improve, In life. Thank you Shimon, for Helping out it means alot.
@trevormeyer7291
Ай бұрын
Seriously, this might be the best video on making friends I’ve ever seen. The advice sounds simple and obvious, but I’ve watched it three times now, and it’s deceptively insightful. I need to stop it every 30 seconds and unpack what I just heard, because it’s so full of value. All the other videos are like, “plan an activity night” or “bring a list of 100 conversation starters.” Those tips are so stiff and forced, I cringe every time I think of them. I don’t want to do any of that. I just want to hang out with people, and this video gives great advice on how to do that. Thank you.
@BradlyLebatlang
2 ай бұрын
How old is this brotha, because he is too wise dammit.
@omotayosatuyi252
2 ай бұрын
I think he said once that he was like 20
@Eeeeeerik
2 ай бұрын
you don't even know how much you've helped me in the past 3 months.
@pruhdominictutorials
2 ай бұрын
Hey man, this is super helpful. Aside the great contents, I've been wondering your setup as per camera and so.. I really like the simplicity of your videos also.
@claudiafynn4215
3 ай бұрын
I really enjoy watching your videos. They are calming and at the same time give great lessons for your life. Keep it up ❤🔥
@eternalpsychosis
20 күн бұрын
ur videos help me alot.. seriously. i cant help but ask what music you include in your videos? theyre very calming and moody
@Mayaluv
2 ай бұрын
I love your videos so much, they help me with life GWORLLL YOURE SO WISE
@jilljones9804
2 ай бұрын
I like your channel, just got introduced to it. You’re real chill and it’s the vibe. I wanted to see if compliments could help me make friends. Is it working?
@demeurecorentin
2 ай бұрын
There is a genuine and honest wisdom in what you say. I'll watch this video several times and take note and structure its content. Thank you for being a modern sage.
@forevermilano
16 күн бұрын
you talk like a preacher, the tone and your voice got power
@KadenThe1s
Ай бұрын
I was born in Sweden. Im 3/4 quarters Egyptian with the last quarter being Moroccan. Me and my family moved to Morocco two years ago from place to place. I didn’t go to school, I still don’t (prolly not start) I was 14 when we left Sweden and I’m 16 now. I can barely speak the language and I feel like a foreigner. My mother keeps telling me I’m not but I still feel like one. I feel like I want to have a friend. I’ll try do what you said shimon, I love you.
@R-G71
4 күн бұрын
I follow you from Gaza genocide, I learn English through your wonderful videos, thank you!
@iluvbeingdelulu
2 ай бұрын
it kinda hurt to feel the need to look this up..but truly, thank you so much for this video 💗
@bibergales
Ай бұрын
hello,can we be friends?
@iluvbeingdelulu
Ай бұрын
@@bibergales thanks so much, but i don’t prefer to talk to people online but thank you
@bibergales
Ай бұрын
@@iluvbeingdelulu it's okay,i washing you good day eary day!
@olorunfemiolamiposi5046
Ай бұрын
I don't how I found your page. One thing I know for sure is I'm blessed. Love you bro
@AA-gl1dr
Ай бұрын
You clearly my brother in Christ. Thank you for your wisdom.
@RtinJns
Ай бұрын
great video brother , you are saving lives here. you help a lot of people including me and giving good feeling and energy and hope to me. thanks my man. i appriciate it
@Roxunna
2 ай бұрын
You're such a relief man.
@Codeine502
2 ай бұрын
You got a like and a sub from me bro. Straight into the action, no 10 minute intro. I feel like me and you would be real deal best friends.
@Codeine502
2 ай бұрын
& I love you too btw champ 💪 that necklace fly af
@amarachiagnes9942
2 ай бұрын
Good content. Nice soothing voice, relaxing background music.. Dope 👌👍I love it
@AndyJxmes
2 ай бұрын
Gotta always be making time when bro drops a video, and actually really needed this one
@MiaNooman
29 күн бұрын
The fact that 28K people watched this vid is soo… I can’t explain. We all here should be friends LOL.
@cloud..pinkkkstan
19 күн бұрын
tbh i try my best to make friends but i feel like we always fall out really quick and I don’t know how to even start a convo
@chevsta12fontaine91
2 ай бұрын
Amazing video bro. Keep up the great work 👍💯
@ririonblaze
21 күн бұрын
I go out around people. I give out compliments. I am being myself. But, I don't think people find my interesting. I will never be able to make people feel me interesting. I wish I can reincarnated into someone completely different when I die.
@karenhincapie999
2 ай бұрын
Know who you are and go towards that - shared activities and shared interests. compliment people , or make some type of initiative do not force yourself into friendships because you are lonely. listen to people add value to peoples life = could add up to best friends -uplift their spirit - follow up.. contact people.
@Veradoo001
3 ай бұрын
I'm an introvert, I don't have friends and I feel like I'm stuck in one place without moving forward. People keep telling me to go out more often and make friends, but how do I start? I can't just go to a public place and be like, "Hey can we be friends?" That's awkward.
@alancenteno9804
2 ай бұрын
I recommend to start with the basic inner-work, like taking care of your health and reducing stress. Then you should find a hobby you like and are good at, for example for me it was basketball. In that hobby try to become better and that will help your confidence. From there you just gotta get experience, I am still on the becoming better at your hobby.
@MattDaGamer21
2 ай бұрын
If you have nothing interesting about you, it's no point.
@Veradoo001
2 ай бұрын
Ok I'll see to it
@alancenteno9804
2 ай бұрын
@@MattDaGamer21 thats why first get a hobby right?
@JLXxyt
2 ай бұрын
@@MattDaGamer21 everyone has something interesting about them though you probably haven't found it or clocked how interesting it is
@Nick_Puc
2 ай бұрын
2:12 remembers me how I met a good Friend of mine: I just said I like ur hat. But honestly he was 1 person of 999 I complimented in public but he was the only one who came out as a friend..
@DarwerTV
Ай бұрын
Man, ive tried.. ive gonne every where i can go with a bike, and no one, ive tryied everything at this point, my friends are jerks. They think they can keep getting away with stuf..... life sucks for me rn...
@danielcherisme6159
2 ай бұрын
Hey Shimon I’m starting a KZitem channel and I was wondering if you would let me know what microphone you use for your videos, I would appreciate the help and your videos along with other factors have given me a sense of inspiration to create my own life and reality, thank you 🙏
@hopenyx4497
2 ай бұрын
You are so cool man thank you, you got me smiling from ear to ear ❤️
@HannahBee10
2 ай бұрын
The perfect video! Needed this, thank you
@GiannisAntetokounmpo-tr2xt
2 ай бұрын
you doing these subtitles by yourself? cause they a lil weird sometimes. love the video just like alls your videos
@amyagivance1630
Ай бұрын
i have autism and i be getting pick on all my school life and i never have a real friend before it kinda hard to make friends
@omarmateengaming1
23 күн бұрын
Accept Islam
@ForesZz
2 ай бұрын
Hey shimon im autistic high functioning and Ive been worrying about people not talking to me because they thinking im weird but Im really not I was gonna ask if you can make any videos of that type of stuff and see the world and get out more if you can and I hope you have a blessed Day :)
@JLXxyt
2 ай бұрын
If someone think ur weird because ur autistic trust me bro there's a 99% chance they will be a bad friend anyways. Although I get what you mean I feel the same all the time.
@Stradiotto
2 ай бұрын
Whats the background music called?
@BLACK_FALCON08
3 ай бұрын
life is beautiful depending on how you look at it
@jaylabookie
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video🥰
@Keemgothits
2 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this video!
@headspace1399
Ай бұрын
How can you go out alone? It is so stupid to go at a cafe alone. And i know that at the end no one will aproach. I am also a hijabi, so in real life and in social media its difficult for pp to aproach me. I am also not going to interrup a group of friend to talk with them. What if they want to.
@omarmateengaming1
23 күн бұрын
Make friends at the masjid
@omarmateengaming1
23 күн бұрын
Also on social media there are plenty of Muslims who would like to be friends with you. if you want i can send you a discord server
@UnknownBoyy-nu8zv
18 күн бұрын
I’m genuinely so cooked bruh I be on here searching tutorials how to overcome my social anxiety it ain’t even my fault twin when I tried ppl would always remove me and I js be on my own thing i haven’t had a friend since 2022 so maybe that’s why I forgot how to make friends bc I haven’t had one
@jasona2007
2 ай бұрын
I like your subtitles.
@buuurssst
23 күн бұрын
been rotting in my house for 2 years
@nateschield868
Ай бұрын
What song is playing in the background?
@luckysniper3812
2 ай бұрын
Do people still leave the house tho? The house is boring af but I don’t see people anywhere
@amarachiagnes9942
2 ай бұрын
I have started having conversations but asking for their contact seems weird to me. Is there a way to go about that
@MarcosPadillaakaWolfman1997Mar
2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice man
@levilynch3273
2 ай бұрын
love your hair bro
@otakusama8749
2 ай бұрын
How can bro be so wise a such a very young age
@ameenrone4978
2 ай бұрын
Thanks man I needed that
@gab7449
12 күн бұрын
thank you.
@1matim
Ай бұрын
thanks, good video
@2miligrams
2 ай бұрын
making friends isnt hard but theres a lot of other factors, like its harder to make friends with someone having a shit day then it is to make friends with a dude enjoying life.
@jmeto9136
3 ай бұрын
what's the music plz ?
@AskShimon
2 ай бұрын
Gods creation
@jmeto9136
2 ай бұрын
@@AskShimon thanks man
@GumLual
3 ай бұрын
Well said bro 😎
@Kevisabsentoday
2 ай бұрын
Music name please ?
@xdzucchinis_6218
2 ай бұрын
Thank you brotha ❤ ily
@sp33dking34
2 ай бұрын
You have a good point but this world is just so isolated now. Well for the USA at least.
@icielois
2 ай бұрын
Hope I can find one day.
@Jared-mk9ms
2 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@Oozzie
2 ай бұрын
Thanks man 🙏
@kaleyum778
3 күн бұрын
I’m an introvert that will not work for me 😭😭😭
@kaizenborntowin
2 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@CubinNguyen-he2cr
2 ай бұрын
I’m about to go and get to know a girl tmr bahahah God is good
@omotayosatuyi252
2 ай бұрын
Good luck
@dycat5318
2 ай бұрын
how did it go🙏
@CubinNguyen-he2cr
Ай бұрын
Blocked her she wasn’t the one
@bhoomiparikh3556
2 ай бұрын
I feel so embarrassed I mean people do this thing naturally and I can't even talk to people ( I talk with people but when it comes to make friends I can't connect with them)
@akitoakito8790
2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@Sebastian-hc8rj
28 күн бұрын
thats nice and all but nobody, fkin nobody answers the Question WHERE do i find new people????? a cafe? Where do i need to go?!
@lindathao6303
Ай бұрын
i need friends in public
@omarmateengaming1
23 күн бұрын
accept Islam
@imjaylenc4178
2 ай бұрын
W
@alvaroprieto2092
2 ай бұрын
Save me man
@arslanfawkes5992
2 ай бұрын
I'm a gamer where do I go to find people
@AskShimon
2 ай бұрын
on the game, you might find some people near you or that you can eventually meet. Game stores, a lot of colleges are beginning to have consoles in their student facilities and just meeting people anywhere, you never know what a person is into
@jakub2524
2 ай бұрын
😢❤
@user-kc7dv1oc3b
2 ай бұрын
HELLO everyone I am China l studying english so l want to make friends can teach my english and l can tech you chinese we can help study language together 😊😊
@itzrezxyyy
27 күн бұрын
Anyone wanna b friend???
@Christian-cl3bw
23 күн бұрын
I do
@itzrezxyyy
23 күн бұрын
@@Christian-cl3bw drop ur snap bro
@desrepay3314
2 ай бұрын
bro pleass remove guitar background, i think silent background would make videos a lot more better
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