I'm glad youtube randomly recommended me one of your videos not so long ago and now it shows your every new video! I love leaving them on the background and listening to you talking, it is unironically very nice, and the atmosphere that you have created on this channel is cozy! Hope to see your channel grow even more, you are amazing!
@lundylizard
3 күн бұрын
real
@atlasisimaginary
3 күн бұрын
real
@boinqity4621
3 күн бұрын
yt has been on a hotstreak of really good small channels for me idk if they changed anything about the alg recently but its really refreshing
@SunIsLost
Күн бұрын
@@Cinnamowo yea same. Real
@imlilithmeow
3 күн бұрын
fire vid mel i havent even watched a second of it yet
@Permanentlay
3 күн бұрын
no matter how much budget you get PLEEEEASE keep this exact same setup for every video it’s so 2005 i love it
@mysliceoflife
3 күн бұрын
14:54 if they can’t hold a conversation about plushies it wasn’t meant to be. wiser words have never been spoken
@farazpc5882
2 күн бұрын
It took me lots of failures to understand that. I hope this video makes people learn it quicker
@stikarto
3 күн бұрын
WEATHERDAY SHIRT GOATED :333
@lain_is_skill
3 күн бұрын
It's like impossible to make friends as an adult
@swithn
3 күн бұрын
I think like Melanie said it's more of a mindset thing. I'm not saying it's super easy just it's not like some insane feat to accomplish as an adult.
@Im_actually_a.shark_
3 күн бұрын
the 'know who u are' is super important because I have friends ig but i just act like someone Im not rlly at all. And im a tiny bit scared to actually explore stuff abt myself in every aspect of my life so im still lonely since u cant get close to anyone without being urself i’ll get there one day tho :sob:
@SunIsLost
3 күн бұрын
Friendship is Magic!
@dnkerbell
3 күн бұрын
Once education is over, it really does feel like a challenge to find new people... especially if you're overthinking everything you're saying so you don't come off as awkward and actually have something to say.
@FookMi69
3 күн бұрын
You seem like such a chill person to hang around and I can relate to you a lot. Thanks for the tips too! I will take notes for sure
@mysliceoflife
3 күн бұрын
omg congrats on 5k :3 many more to come !!!
@DeWillpower
3 күн бұрын
yes, it is hard. right now i'm trying to talk to strangers about a specific topic (magic the gathering), but at the same time i'm scared to talk to them, especially if they listen to my voice (via discord voice chat), they will hear a manly man voice
@JuneGrippin
3 күн бұрын
I love how your channel feels like a conversation. It's something that youtube has lost.
@xd3athclawx554
20 сағат бұрын
I think its similar to a mindblock almost. It starts in school where you have to be in an almost defensive mindset like almost all the time. Think about how the stereotypical emo kid would get bullied for being emo, or the person who likes anime gets bullied for liking anime. That sort of thing sets up people to get into the defensive mindset of "don't tell people what you like, they'll bully you for it". When in reality, you are in the workplace, or just generally out and about they aren't going to bully you for it at all, the worst they will probably do is say "I'm not really into that" or just say "cool, whatever". At best they themselves are into that, or are willing to learn more about that thing, really depends on the person. In the end its either never expose your interests and thus get no friends through common interest, or expose your interests and at worst you move on with your day, at best you get a friend with a common interest.
@KayaThieving
3 күн бұрын
Very important video, take notes y’all
@mershmelloooo
3 күн бұрын
MELANIE VIDEO HOORAYYYYY :333333
@pinkpistolpinkdress
8 сағат бұрын
shoutout alcohol if i cant socialize i know alcohol will make me socialize
@strawberrycow6697
Күн бұрын
I love your eyeliner :3
@souptranssonis
3 күн бұрын
I just found your channel and I really love it so far! It’s nice seeing smaller trans creators and I like how you just talk about different topics that you feel like discussing. Hope you are able to succeed Melanie!
@reallysadman3261
3 күн бұрын
Omg weatherday shirt!!!
@lynxcore
3 күн бұрын
i really needed this i have like no friends lol
@lynxcore
3 күн бұрын
also i like your weatherday shirt
@ar0sh
3 күн бұрын
Instructions unclear, now I am at Kanyes listening party in china
@kelraya
3 күн бұрын
you're an absolute angel and im glad you make these videos
@TowgPowerPlay
3 күн бұрын
I struggle with meeting the right people. I always end up befriending the worst people in the world who end up making my life more miserable, despite sharing a common interest.
@daw1dstec
3 күн бұрын
Chatting with random people at a club or anywhere really is one thing but forging a friendship outside of it is hella difficult for me 😪
@The_CFM_2227
3 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us
@mnelo
2 күн бұрын
@@The_CFM_2227 THANK U
@lord_foob
3 күн бұрын
watching this on break while i eat a roast beef sandwich, thank u for the videos
@carstenpfundt
3 күн бұрын
Can't stop watching your vids luv u
@anonimes4005
3 күн бұрын
bruh, she just making useful and relatable videos
@krieg7167
3 күн бұрын
No friends gang 😎
@MarkiesMLDZ
3 күн бұрын
I’m struggling with making new friends, being genderfluid and with diagnosed severe depression (I’ve been taking therapy though)… I know I should be alright eventually. I wish I could join an online/local community I could connect with. Just found you today and subscribed. Thank you for the tips, Melanie. ~ I had this pretty recent experience in which I skater guy randomly talked to me while I was in the subway and asked me if I wanted go spend time in the park with him, which I agreed to (he thought I was a “girl” first though). We had a good time and I appreciate that this type of persons exist since he made the first move, teehee(?).
@fourstarshit
3 күн бұрын
watching the pre-ad first but its a melanie classic already
@sachizumii
3 күн бұрын
Thank the youtube algorithm for sending me to you a month ago I haven't touched any videos since and thought I'd stop by just to say you look much more beautiful and well-rested than last time. and with that I bid adieu
@DarthDowney
3 күн бұрын
this really helped me. thank you.
@Gay_Bradbury
2 күн бұрын
ohmyGAWD! is that a Snorlax in the background??! ❤
@fittlea8248
3 күн бұрын
I want to start a youtube channel, however I am scared that my Family or Classmates will find out about it, not caring is easier said then done, however you gave really good advice, how did you get over the fear of being judged? And should you focus on some specific niche?
@sighclairr
23 сағат бұрын
then start the channel faceless, and if you wanna make talking videos like her use gameplay from some game for example like theweeklyslap
@LiamODonovan-l6e
3 күн бұрын
You are welcome as you are Melanie. I always count you as as a friend. Love your videos
@techfairyqueen
3 күн бұрын
Hopefully we can be friends 😭 ...as pinky pie, i know, friendship is magic.
@StrawberryFox56
3 күн бұрын
Love your videos Melanie!!
@tunisiaa5074
2 күн бұрын
Looking happy today!
@JayIsCommon
2 күн бұрын
🌸
@techfairyqueen
3 күн бұрын
Friends? What are friends, they are really your enemy, with secret identies....as eminem already said. Melanie, i like you, loving the theme of this video...as someone who has gender dysphoria today and feels sad af and lonely after three days with no sleep.
@xasdsadd4677
3 күн бұрын
Splendid video
@alexsmith2910
3 күн бұрын
I love your videos.
@Erki445
3 күн бұрын
Im lonely as hell‼️💯🔥🔥‼️💯🔥‼️
@erahtrsjydstdressw
3 күн бұрын
making friends is cool
@crispycronchy5887
3 күн бұрын
awesome weatherday shirt
@LovelyBarf
3 күн бұрын
I luv ur videos
@tarabomp
3 күн бұрын
hell yeah
@thewholeworldisburningharry123
3 күн бұрын
ily & support u melanie!!!
@bettafin933
3 күн бұрын
yo nice shirt lol
@teo__o
3 күн бұрын
5k andy
@dxrkwxng
3 күн бұрын
unfortunately i did need this tutorial :[
@bazil9323
3 күн бұрын
taking notes rn
@twistedshapeshifter
3 күн бұрын
I need friends
@LazyTobi
3 күн бұрын
💖
@Rolmost
2 күн бұрын
im running outta time D:
@zeniththephoenix
3 күн бұрын
ill be surprised if anyone gets this but IS THAT A DEEPWOKEN REFERNECE???
@skadifall
3 күн бұрын
the deep called her
@zeniththephoenix
3 күн бұрын
@@skadifall i love deepwoken marry me plis
@sven.860
3 күн бұрын
!!
@BeaSpecific
3 күн бұрын
where’d you get that shirt I need it
@jobbytop
3 күн бұрын
hello everypony
@Vicky666-k9i
3 күн бұрын
didn't work
@Joaquin__
2 күн бұрын
what if I'm banned on twitter how would I join the discord
@ATP_915
3 күн бұрын
Does your mom know about your KZitem?
@HazelBanazel
3 күн бұрын
YAYYY IM SO FAST
@kareongames
3 күн бұрын
why do you have two channels? makes it kind of confusing tbh
@notkonni
3 күн бұрын
so she can post different kinds of content and have them separate, almost every youtuber has more than one channel
@Subhumanmanlet125
3 күн бұрын
friends are worthless
@B_dev
3 күн бұрын
so demure
@graysonmckinney7152
3 күн бұрын
thanks yt for the random femboy (nice vid btw, you're making the world better, God loves you.)
@sooakk4297
3 күн бұрын
not a femboy
@JuneGrippin
3 күн бұрын
girl
@graysonmckinney7152
3 күн бұрын
@@sooakk4297 mb og
@gaiaapilled
3 күн бұрын
dude said femboy lock in
@snom953
3 күн бұрын
step 1: be a passoid step 2: be a passoid step 3: be a passoid step 4: be a passoid step 5: be a passoid
@rathaus3
3 күн бұрын
the fact that you have convinced yourself that youre a freak has made you more of a outcast then not being a passoid
@snom953
3 күн бұрын
@@rathaus3 i don't think i am a freak. Everyone else does. Most "supportive" cis friends ive made are really just doing it because they're infantalizing me, they go along with everything i say and don't actually have an emotionally honest connection with me because they think i'll kill myself at the slightest inconvenience. Cis people treat me like a child and don't get me started on other trans people. Every trans person i've fucking met avoids me like the plague if i pass worse than them and in my experience most non passing trans people ive tried to make friends with have even worse shit going on than i do from years of untreated dysphoria and i wish i could help them but i cant so i avoid them unless they're really, really happy with the hand theyve been dealt
@gaiaapilled
3 күн бұрын
@@rathaus3you guys are both correct!
@cordedwaif
3 күн бұрын
Using Chan lingo is more clocky than any feature you could possibly have. Only men use chan boards
@snom953
3 күн бұрын
@@rathaus3 the world has convinced everyone else i am a freak. other trans people that i TRY TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH deliberately avoid me once they realize i'm lower on the passing hierarchy.
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