The most "boring" people often make better friends. Those who are on their phones the whole time when in your company, are rude.
@bucketmanofmany4917
Жыл бұрын
Actually facts
@shortdcs
Жыл бұрын
I don’t understand this? The boring people make better friends but the people on their phones are rude? Wouldn’t the people on their phones be the boring ones?
@yo9979
9 ай бұрын
but some of those phone peoppe are just scared of people looking at them. social anxiety can make ppl just go in their own world
@yankomsununbasarilicocugu3160
9 ай бұрын
As a boring person i see this as a winnnn😂❤
@Mwoppdzd
8 ай бұрын
U got to be wicked to get fun freinds 😈
@kristinacassandravillanuev5997
Жыл бұрын
Usually those fun people will only be with you in fun times.
@sebastiancorrales
Жыл бұрын
Dang 9 months and only comment ; it’s true a friend would stick with you during dull, hard , good , silly , fun times . Lots of people are superficial and shallow and will show you the real face when things aren’t going how they want it.
@samiam42now
7 ай бұрын
Agree with this 1000%
@shashankotihal3792
6 ай бұрын
You also be in the same way
@bbuuttercupp
Жыл бұрын
Don’t know how to say this but I wouldn’t call this good advice lmao. Often the people who don’t talk much because they’re introverted and shy are the ones who are a joy to talk to. I say this as someone who’s very extroverted and goes up and talks to people easily. Someone who seems shy and quiet at first bc they‘re on their phone also has a whole rich inner life that could fit you much better than just whoever is the loudest about having fun.
@meikoluvv
Жыл бұрын
How in the world do you just talk to someone easily 😭
@sa40nn
Жыл бұрын
@@meikoluvv the first step is being a good friend
@R9naldo
Жыл бұрын
You have a linear mindset, not everyone wants to be friends with introverts
@bbuuttercupp
Жыл бұрын
@@R9naldo I wouldn't say that .. Of course not everyone is going to get along but I felt like the advice in the video was quite one-sided. I was just trying to say that people who are quiet (at first) aren't necessarily boring (or even introverted) but maybe just shy or socially anxious. I know quite a few people who have a hard time opening up with people they don't know but are really open and absolute party-animals with their close friends. I'm just saying, don't discount someone based off a first impression, you know
@R9naldo
Жыл бұрын
@@bbuuttercupp The video was just as one sided as you saying introverts have a rich inner life that fits better... Also first impressions are definetly something that you could discount someone off of. If someone isnt willing to give a good first impression theyre for sure not gonna be willing to be a good friend
@raesartworld4554
Жыл бұрын
Me who sees quiet people and goes talk to them…
@ju999X
Жыл бұрын
yeah i can only go up to quiet people 😭
@flimedbylia
Жыл бұрын
Bruh same 😭🖐
@fawnies_at_your_service
13 күн бұрын
Same 😅
@Random2727
Жыл бұрын
its too hard...to interact
@ElanorEdits
8 ай бұрын
Exactly like.. Ik who I want to be friends with but HOW?
@solar_potatoe
15 күн бұрын
lol
@Memes4Youu1
3 ай бұрын
Me and my social anxiety: 😨😰😥🫣🥴
@woofzynskier
Жыл бұрын
When u realise no one will make friends with you because you're always on your phone
@myuniverse5894
10 ай бұрын
I can be ur friend
@diamondgamebeats8826
Жыл бұрын
Where I'm from the people who have the most fun are on drugs so idk
@Emeragold
Жыл бұрын
I swear by god haha
@gorillastrap6181
Жыл бұрын
Drugs ain’t bad
@repentorendupinhellfire6270
Жыл бұрын
@@gorillastrap6181 yes they are
@MADZOUA
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@libtards
Жыл бұрын
@@gorillastrap6181meth head spotted
@syedshadman07
Жыл бұрын
Then I start having my introvert problems
@roxanacucu3860
Жыл бұрын
I think what he is trying to say: go to people who look the most present into what’s happening in the moment, for instance the ones who laugh, have fun, dance and are basically living in the present. I would say it is a pretty solid advice, especially if you are looking to get out of a rut, socially speaking. 😊
@user-rs4qs8lt3l
8 ай бұрын
it’s hard because at school everyone picks on me because i’m one of most scrawny freshman there is, i get shoved, punched sometimes, and people pour things on my head. I truly only have one friend and it is my math teacher. he is the only one who ask how is your day (besides my family) every day is the same for me at school.
@rubendelgado9918
8 ай бұрын
That sucks to hear. I would suggest getting a gym membership and trying to improve ur life but always remember to be yourself and never pretend to fit in
@moodyo1705
7 ай бұрын
What, change school I would suggest. If it's impossible try your best to speak up to them or to your classmate about what you are going through. Someone might help you out. Look for kind people. Speak up. Find support on the internet.Stay strong man. Maybe talk to your parents about it. ❤
@anonymousdoe3755
6 ай бұрын
Gym boxing construction get u right n skills 🔥
@shambhavideshmukh7355
4 ай бұрын
@user-rs4qs8lt3l I suggest you watch "the perks of being a wallflower"
@ngcebondlovu-cn5tw
3 ай бұрын
@@anonymousdoe3755not everyone can afford a gym membership I recommend he does workouts at home
@Trs-ez
9 ай бұрын
In general everyone hates me it seems 😔
@cosygoose1813
9 ай бұрын
Where I work people literally forget I exist in a room with only ne and them. So its definitely not that easy as the video says.
@殷禹
Ай бұрын
相信自己,不要气馁,生活总是向好的方向发展。❤
@gooseman4177
Жыл бұрын
I think introverts don't need advice, because there will always be an extrovert willing to adopt them 😂❤
@Fluffystrawbery
10 күн бұрын
hahah trueeeeee being an introvert adopted by an extrovert bsf i agree with this lol
@thebluebeyond2329
3 ай бұрын
The most fulfilling thing about life is probably making new connections. I am an overthinker and l absolutely fascinated with meeting new people. Great people.
@metanoiate
11 ай бұрын
Guys, he's sharing HIS rule of thumb. Of courage if you're nothing like him you won't agree. Personally I always go for the outcasts. I can only bond with people who feel on the outside looking in. That's cool. It's all about your personality and lived experience.
@lokisan79
25 күн бұрын
Meeting friends is all about comfort and connection. If you love nature and find joy there, connect with someone who shares that bliss. If you're at a club and find someone fun, don't hesitate to make friends. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses in friendship. Embrace the journey and open your heart; true friends can be found in the most unexpected places.
@jansonciereszko4968
Ай бұрын
I usually do the same, I find that it's easier to become friends with them because theyre usually more likely to talk back more and make having the conversations easier than someone who's more quiet and doesn't respond as much.
@sngybub1312
Жыл бұрын
A little but hypocritical, just cuz someone isnt having fun or looks the best doesnt mean anything…
@iimsoxo
Жыл бұрын
I recently had to do this. Started a new job exactly a year ago and at my last job I interacted with 1 person 2 or 3 on lucky days. But now I’m forced to be more interactive because thats how the job is. And now I basically have 2 guys under me that im with almost all day, but theres 3 other guys that are senior there they all been there for about a decade. Anyways they were the hardest to build some sort of friendship or relationship with because they weren’t really interested and like to be to them selfs. But what i did was non stop everyday id make sure to say Goodmorning every single day nice a loud so they hear! I also maintain strong eye contact and i constantly ask them about themselves or things that are on the news or something new that I recently learned, but they would respond very dull and just not interested. And this continued for a good 5 months until i broke them all and they now are more comfortable talking to me everyday are convos are much more organic and im usually the center of a big convo with all the workers because i enjoy everyone getting along, i could keep going but now im rambling 😂😂😂
@GlobalItaliano-gd5wc
9 ай бұрын
Well, you have done a great job...i am attending university in italy but actually from pakistan. I like to interact with people, but i myself is shy, And Always wait for others to talk to me...its now a month in the university I am unable to make a even 1 friend....I wish i could have someone in my class who continously make me talk....
@iimsoxo
9 ай бұрын
@@GlobalItaliano-gd5wc relax, dont put so much pressure on yourself. You would be surprised how many people feel the same way. I actually have this issue, girls would tell me all the time that i look very intimidating. And i never even thought about that, so i try and start the conversations. So maybe people find you intimidating. Maybe look at a book someones reading or type of hobbies they like and start a conversation about something you guys could talk about. Or maybe start conversations like “ hey, what do you think about this professor? Or class get them to talk about anything. But also you said you’re going to school in Italy, so is there a language barrier?? Well i could talk about this all day but hope its going good 👍🏽
@GlobalItaliano-gd5wc
9 ай бұрын
@@iimsoxo yes big language barier they do understand english sometime but most of the time avoid speaking in english. Same for me I avoid speaking italian as I am not fluent
@Smokey045
Жыл бұрын
Thanks this helped :)
@XPiperMcLean_DaBeautyQueenX
10 күн бұрын
Spongbob tho😂😂😂😂😂
@R.Q.C.
4 ай бұрын
“Remember to always ignore those suffering”. Essentially what u said.
@kat0na_cat
2 ай бұрын
If there quiet you should talk to them. At least say hi.
@Morbanity
6 күн бұрын
It’s always me having the most fun by myself and I drag other with me
@user-nt2ov9gk5t
10 ай бұрын
Wait thats actually the best advice ive ever heard
@f4ntast1c
3 ай бұрын
Thank you, i'll try it😍🙏🏻
@iiprettysparqii
2 ай бұрын
The people having the most fun are my fake friends, i’m now crying because I remembered that they are all hanging out without me.
@emmamendes4962
9 ай бұрын
I’ve met a lot of assholes who are as you say “having the most fun” usually with an undertone of toxic energy.
@Patrick-pt2yd
Жыл бұрын
I love this advice! It'd be cool to see some lonely ppl giving this a try to see the results. Jamie Lee Curtis has a podcast about friends... me personally, I think having good, true blue friends are important. I hope you have some good friends you enjoy in NY. Life is fun with friends! 😊
@TheWalkingRaven530
3 ай бұрын
Jamie is the actor of Laurie Strode right? I never knew she did podcasts! Thanks for mentioning this!
@naturalspringwater128
Жыл бұрын
Him: Just go talk to people Me: * panic attack*
@jameschipman-td2cu
8 ай бұрын
I’m introverted so I tend to go for the people in the corner with food and befriend them with food
@arlie1118
Жыл бұрын
As an airforce brat 🙄 i had to do this every year of my life during school years! Made friends fast but had trouble keeping in touch 😆🥰
@oliviachloe9040
Жыл бұрын
hello
@oliviachloe9040
Жыл бұрын
how are you doing
@arlie1118
Жыл бұрын
@@oliviachloe9040 hello 👋
@prettydarksinkhloe
10 ай бұрын
tell me ur not an introvert without telling me ur not an introvert
@littleartisteviemarie2083
7 ай бұрын
Fr 😭 btw you're soo pretty
@prettydarksinkhloe
7 ай бұрын
@@littleartisteviemarie2083omg thank youu
@rickiejohnston4206
Жыл бұрын
I can’t afford anymore backstabbing hoovers
@libtards
Жыл бұрын
Bruh what😂😂
@rickiejohnston4206
Жыл бұрын
@@libtards That was over 9 months ago. That’s usually about (suckers) Hoovers. You don’t even have any content. You must be a creeper
@Sadiegirl18
13 күн бұрын
Hi im Rubi and im 12 years old and im a very good Christian, and respects other religions and i love Puerto Rico and animals
@themaggattack
2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the nuanced advice, chad.
@jasomega2446
11 ай бұрын
Nice Answer
@skyrisesenpaiii678
Жыл бұрын
Idk how to make new friends cuz most of the friends I made is from hanging out with my best friend 😂
@anaegosara
11 ай бұрын
YESS, but now that I moved abroad, I have had no friends since I arrived cause I just don’t know how to 😭
@michelleradford5956
3 ай бұрын
👍🏾💯😮
@natim7878
Жыл бұрын
Thank You, Man. 🎉
@user-vl1nr3il9w
Жыл бұрын
Well,there's a way,but not easy You should understand them,know what they are,their personality,and what they like to do, after that,start understanding them and it'll take time like a minimum of 2 weeks to become best friends. I hope you don't end like me who struggles around,getting betrayed,and ending up in a bad situation by the fake friends.
@tinytaffy2364
6 ай бұрын
“Cause that’s all you wanna do right?” Uhm, no💀
@ivanmendez6252
Жыл бұрын
I made a friend by making a joke about cocaine
@playdate8827
Жыл бұрын
What was the joke
@jt_rooster3228
11 ай бұрын
Yep. What do you know? To make friends, you only have two options. You dominate or you suck up. Pop culture? Hobbies? Food? Dominate or suck up.
@fob6454
7 күн бұрын
So... my father told me to make more friends, talk more, control my emotions and be a lottttt nicer to people even though I am very nice to people like I try to make friends I try but.... they think am rude and make fun of me, so this video actually helped me though thanks a lot,
@anand.A2323
7 ай бұрын
If any person reading this comment is alone like me 🙃 and want friends then you don't worry i will be your frd 🤗
@MrEyes-rm6xp
Жыл бұрын
Great advice man!
@johannajustin3575
Жыл бұрын
I just need one English friend to practice my English skills
@deepakpandey4571
7 ай бұрын
Hi.
@johannajustin3575
7 ай бұрын
Hello
@SillySoilSappling
2 ай бұрын
Bro I lived in the same place for my whole life and my friends always come and go, idk what to do as I have already made an impression to people I already know, I mean, me as a kid, I don’t go out, go to party’s or do anything, I don’t want online friends I want real friend I can actually be friends with
@junos_journeys
11 ай бұрын
I get embarrassed easily so I'm a fun person but I always look like this 😐 becuase I'm running on 2 hours of sleep or I just am trying not to get embarrassed
@jeremiahfriday9187
4 ай бұрын
So basically find the drunk in the room
@funtimewithfreddie5723
6 ай бұрын
My best friends for ever left me 😢😢😢
@Narhoznica
6 ай бұрын
I don't mind "boring" friends at all 🙂👯♂️ we can be boring together
@user-el9bc8to2o
2 ай бұрын
not always true, but undeniable way to meet ppl is to be social, sometimes its 'organized', table groups, projects, connections. sometimes your just hype/social, answer boring questions better, extend normal conversations, walk up to ppl. and having confidence is like key to not wimp out and meet ppl.
@campusevangelism1859
2 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much!
@djmcflurry4038
Жыл бұрын
My type of friend probably works at 9 to 5. And parties on the weekends and plays games.
@leonelgonzalez8230
11 ай бұрын
Him: moving hands to hide his cool nails 💅 Me: 👁️👄👁️
@EmilyCadorette-ij9jy
5 ай бұрын
Why do I feel good about how many people search this up not jus me
@royaleroses6945
Жыл бұрын
Me moving to a new school: 👁👄👁
@emmanuelherreraestrada9514
6 ай бұрын
😢. They say they dont like me.
@homelander33333
Жыл бұрын
You know what's about to go down the guy giving you the advice wears nail polish
@cristinabelleza2876
Ай бұрын
Sponge ❌ Spunge✅
@Frisk476
4 күн бұрын
This video showed me why I won't ever have a friend...
@Melnokina.-.
7 ай бұрын
I just want friends who are chronic pain... How tf am I supposed to find them
@poffy02
7 ай бұрын
here
@andersonkaty9251
6 ай бұрын
Ah my shyness what a curse from lord
@e.h.5201
11 ай бұрын
money first, friends last
@funkyandbold
7 ай бұрын
This is amazing advice
@jawwadmax290
6 ай бұрын
I Don't have any friends 😢😢💔
@cupiidsb0w
6 ай бұрын
I hate when people I know are on their phones instead of talking to eachother
@-longestcomment
8 ай бұрын
How I RANDOMLY made my best friend forever:I walked up to them,we stared at each other for 10 minutes and I said „your my friend now:)“and we became best friends (just happened yesterday
@HaikoEditzz137
4 ай бұрын
I only have 24 friends😢
@OriginalMariAnnaWolf
5 ай бұрын
The party ppl are not serious n wanna just have fun.. no thx man.. Im shy with mental disorders like social anxiety so um.. even coming up to 1 person is a big task as I shake inside out
@kwaku.official
5 ай бұрын
wanna be friends?
@OriginalMariAnnaWolf
5 ай бұрын
@@kwaku.official 😯😶 fwends? Do.. u.. use fb? 😅 I am only on messenger 😬
@yellowbluebuskrisil
11 ай бұрын
I can't take making friends anymore. I've already let too many people near me😭
@user-vp8ye4cg1c
11 ай бұрын
What if they looking round to find friends to 😅
@NWF2.0
7 ай бұрын
John 3 16 for god so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son and whosoever believeth in him shall not parish but have everlasting life.❤❤
@usejajyw72
6 ай бұрын
Uhhmm no if someone stranger interrupts me when im happy i get mad bc im not happy most of time, and if someone tries talkin to me when im having fun. And then i stop having gun and get anxiety bc i have social anxiety. The only place where ppl can talk to me is school thats okay
@NWF2.0
7 ай бұрын
Repent and turn away from your sin and turn to Jesus Christ for he loves you and he wants you in heaven with him so repent Jesus loves you he died for you and everyone else and Accept jesus in your heart and keep his commandments in Jesus name amen ❤😊
@friedchicken038
Жыл бұрын
did u paint ur nails..
@WeirdBande
8 ай бұрын
Hey
@SHINNYB-p4m
Жыл бұрын
Sadly I don’t have freinds rip friend 13 - 2023
@mariyahpowe8636
25 күн бұрын
Ok so what if your depressed? What do you do now?
@xr0ki
Жыл бұрын
"Move to a new city" What about a new country??
@Mohammad-alirlm5
2 ай бұрын
What's a friend 😔
@unpopular_theories
2 ай бұрын
Yeah but they are to extraverted for me
@yummycookie3429
Жыл бұрын
This video made me unsubscribe
@FirstKaliyah
Жыл бұрын
I'm always the one having the best time
@foxten9777
Жыл бұрын
We are the one who is looking what's everyone is doing as to do so 😹
@somebuddyonline7076
8 ай бұрын
What does his hat say?
@kemi7074
Жыл бұрын
be friends with anyone u want lol
@ambre9760
Жыл бұрын
True
@user-xm3iy3tq1d
Жыл бұрын
How 🗿
@libtards
Жыл бұрын
@@user-xm3iy3tq1dkidnap them😊
@user-io3im5lk4m
10 ай бұрын
@@libtards💀I didn't know Jeff the killer had a son.
@kstephens816
Жыл бұрын
Where are my crackhead friends at 👇. (Not the druggies, the silly ones)
@highounty4041
Жыл бұрын
You can’t say “where my crackheads at” and then say “well uh, not the actual crackheads”
@kstephens816
Жыл бұрын
@@highounty4041 then what would you like me to say
@kstephens816
Жыл бұрын
@@highounty4041 oh wait 😂 you were being sarcastic
@turbov_infinity2018
Жыл бұрын
I lost aaaaall my freinds when I went to 2nd grade 2 in other schools 2 in another class and 1 of them meh DONT talk a lot and not same class too so idc about any of them now I want just at least 1 freind
@KenKill
Жыл бұрын
I’m from Chicago lmao DONT DO THAT
@stich0215
Ай бұрын
Or you go to a 7 hour summer camp that you went to last year and didn't like it but your parents are working, like me
@TheMoonKatShow
Жыл бұрын
As a person with trash social skills and no social events i want to go to i will never make friends unless i go to in person school but im doing home school for a whole year or two and by the time i do have friends i would probably be in high school but end up losing them either because of my shyness or cuz they hate me
@sp123
Жыл бұрын
Whatever you do, don't miss prom ir field day!!!
@uppertile5542
8 ай бұрын
My new school mates r just ughhhhhhhh. I hate them
@Eevee-ne2es
3 күн бұрын
And then what do i do?
@samvattman4812
3 ай бұрын
Its not like that, its my "friends" were probably never my friends. I've had no friends basically my whole life.
@Vyron_NC
4 ай бұрын
1: I’m moving to the UK so if I try this they will just all tell me “FUCK OFF” 2: how do I say goodbye to my current friends and will they remember me?
@Yourfav_softballplayer
3 ай бұрын
Does anyone have any tips I’m homeschooled and I’m homeschooling 6th then going back for 7 what if I make no friemds
@Bodybuildingv2
2 ай бұрын
Hello my name is kasra I am a 14 year old that I stabbed myself once and went to the hospital And I have no friend and my parents don't like me because I am just sleeping And I wanted to say I searching how to finds friends for 2 years now...
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