It seem like mostly you are just putting people down that are on dating sites. What’s wrong with knowing where someone is from, it’s just a conversation starter.
@cinemaseries9581
Жыл бұрын
most of girls on these apps use filters, in reality they are light years away from their online appearances
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, exactly! I would say I’m one of them hahahahah 😂
@GeilerDaddy
9 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand Sounds like you're extremely stupid.
@MrBeretboy
9 ай бұрын
Hello Ying. You and Eric put a smile on my face the whole time! You exhibit an authenticity and sweetness that is so refreshing. And Eric is a good friend who tells it like it is and in a hilarious fashion. You're a good team. Thank you.
@yinginthailand
9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching us :)
@AlanStarkey
4 ай бұрын
It's not a stupid question asking about freelance, probably half the girls on the site are freelancers.
@ignaciorestrada
4 ай бұрын
More like 99%
@55Quirll
10 ай бұрын
I am 68, living in Thailand since 2005 and the dating apps and sites are still hard to get around, I am used to meeting a person face to face. I did enjoy your video and the advice you gave for it. Take care and stay well and happy Ying.
@yinginthailand
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching :)
@55Quirll
10 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand Very welcome Ying 🙏
@joelb099
9 ай бұрын
My older step brother is also 68 yo and lives in chiang mai.. He says that dating apps are not at all helpful at all at this age.Plus he is just average to below average in looks dept..He used thai friendly when he first landed in C.M.Just a bunch of freelancers on thai friendly that all want money to have a 6 hour or less date.. My brother says Face to face is the way to go in meeting a respectable thai woman that does respectable work instead of freelancing... Thats how He found his 42 yo girl friend.. She was shopping at the food market., next to his condo...And he saw her every day and struck up a conversation.. Now they are celebrating 8 months together..He sent me pics of her. She looks only 30 yo.. She looks stunning.. Good on him..
@55Quirll
9 ай бұрын
@@joelb099 That’s great news. I agree, meeting face to face is the best way to meet women 👍
@AdamSavageland
Жыл бұрын
Great video! It would have been nice to see the original Bumble conversation between you and Eric since that one clearly worked 😊
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Hey thanks so much for watching 😊 I wish I had saved the chat history. I deleted all now 🥹
@AndrexFlounder
Жыл бұрын
@@yinginthailand if you remember it you can still write it down 😁😁
@13hubi13
6 ай бұрын
@yingonyoutube i wanna get such a cute girl like you
@94vrcommodore
Ай бұрын
They're good 3 tips you've given. People who just message 'hi' or 'hello' are just boring and waiting for a response.
@hassanrajput8137
20 күн бұрын
hi, I must say there is a big difference between people who are living in Thailand and who are traveling. people who live there have option to choose, take some time find what they want, whereas, the people who are traveling don't have that luxury. That's why they often indulge fast for meeting, hence the all network is different for settled ones and traveling ones.
@apollomoon1
Жыл бұрын
Fun stuff!! Thanks for posting. Before texting we had to talk on the phone. You’re right it’s much more meaningful to chat with a person and hear their voice. Much easier to make a judgment of liking someone.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I would say first impression is very important :) Thanks for watching 😊
@Buffa127
17 күн бұрын
You seem to enjoy rejecting, then laughing about it. Texting is such a waste of time, that’s why we want to meet to have human encounter, not phone encounter, I have come to hate relationship through phone, it’s so fake.
@shaneashby5890
Жыл бұрын
That’s for making this video Ying, it was really informative. Hope you can make more videos about dating and educating us more about Thai women.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed 😊 Thanks for watching ^^
@mav1877
4 ай бұрын
I don't like Bumble dating app in general, but it might work in Thailand. I prefer to send the first message.
@hassanrajput8137
20 күн бұрын
There is language issues also. on apps majority of girls cant reply in English
@wanwan4345
11 ай бұрын
I love Ying accent!
@yinginthailand
11 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@cwill2000
24 күн бұрын
This was a good video, your friend kept the video going.
@yinginthailand
24 күн бұрын
Thank you 😊🫶
@MermanManly
4 ай бұрын
Why is it that women complain if guys only open with, "Hi", "Hey", or "Hello", meaning they require more effort... but then most women open with exactly same thing? That's a double standard. Call it out for what it is. A relationship is a two-way street.
@eastman40
Ай бұрын
Lol. What a coincidence. I was thinking, yesterday, to get on Tinder and find someone who can join me in Bangkok as my companion for two weeks of my whole stay at my cost. We go out and about and do many things together and we have a clean and a good fun together.
@yinginthailand
Ай бұрын
Lucky You 🫶 Glad you have fun 😊
@eastman40
Ай бұрын
But I have not yet found anyone..... Still looking for@@yinginthailand
@joostroelens8710
28 күн бұрын
A lot of hungry foreigners in Thailand
@joostroelens8710
28 күн бұрын
@@eastman40 yes of course I m from Belgium
@eastman40
28 күн бұрын
@@joostroelens8710 that's OK and nice. Every person deserves a good and a clean fun time.
@parinmetwaiyanetipong8463
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I’ll have to try bumble😂 thanks Ying for this video!😋
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Thanksssssssss ka 🥹
@jddress5054
Жыл бұрын
Why don't the two of you date? You look great together. You seem to be on the same wavelength too. I personally didn't like the discriminatory comments but who cares what I think of you!
@ChristopherPhillips
8 ай бұрын
Sounds like they did, or do. Eric mentioned they matched/met on Bumble.
@muajin
7 күн бұрын
She ended up breaking up with him (heard it was due to him not spending enough on her). She was seen recently with a Swedish guy and she had a ring on. Looks like she’s engaged to this new guy
@Goldfinger555
Жыл бұрын
New subscriber here. Thanks - great advice even though I don’t want to use the dating app but always wondered how it worked. I can also give some of my single friends better advice now.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching 😊
@Saricelina
11 ай бұрын
Great video! khob khun ka Ying from California
@yinginthailand
10 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed, thanks for watching :)
@zhongguojiayou2675
Жыл бұрын
All these dating apps are a scam, I have a friend of mine, who used to use these dating apps, never got one single match ever. Plus, my friend isn't your average guy, he's good looking, quite humorous, good sense of humour & a lot of fun to hang out with. It seems, like all these darting apps, are geared towards catering to women rather than both sides. Women seem to get more matches than guys on all these dating apps. It's ridiculous & a waste of time.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I understand. I thought many guys also get a lot of messages. Thanks for watching 🙂
@giannilyanicks1718
4 ай бұрын
so don't try to find on these apps
@darassylmoniakam
4 ай бұрын
cause there's often more guys on the apps than girls so they have too much choices i guess, sooo what would be the best solution?
@jamalgreen3056
4 ай бұрын
😂😂I’m an average guy well to most women in America I am but on the dating apps I do get matches the point is this just because you get matches don’t mean the females will actually talk to you.I mean dam it’s just like on social media on the dating apps most of us guys can’t even get any female to message us back.And even wen a few females did message me back we would message each other for like a few hours-one day after that the females will stop replying back or the others will just continue to look at my message and not reply back.This is why I’m meeting a Thai girl in person my first encounter with a Thai girl will be in person forget social media and forget these dating apps.These dating apps make money off of guys because they only charge us they don’t charge the women nothing.And some of the dating apps that do charge women they don’t charge them nearly as much as they do men.So you mean to tell me tons of men are supposed to pay monthly subscriptions for what and the benefit that we may get is not even a guarantee 🤔yea fuck that.Thats why over 1,000 employees from bumble got let go 2 months ago because they said it wasn’t enough men using bumble anymore.I have even been seeing women complaining about how it’s not hardly any men on these dating apps anymore shall not😅😊.Most definitely Thai friendly that dating app is the worst yes it has a lot more attractable Thai women on there but got dam u won’t be able to get no girl to consistently conversate with for not even one day.Some of them may give you there instagram because they will say they receive too many messages on Thai friendly.And after wen u get there instagram yall will literally exchange a few words between one another talking about very basic stuff and after that nothing.So unless u have your first encounter with these females in person fellas it’s a waist of time to get them to see u as someone different online.They get too much attention online and too many guys hitting them up they will mislead you and treat u like the rest no 😊.
@giannilyanicks1718
4 ай бұрын
@@jamalgreen3056 what we should do if we're in another country
@TCEssel
Жыл бұрын
I prefer meeting professional business women through the course of my business and social activities in Thailand, but this is still helpful.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching 🙂
@marijusofficial
8 ай бұрын
This video is pure gold,Ying you should open dating agency if so many people write to you.I am just joking.I think Thaifriendly is good for guys,but not for girls.Bumble is nice for girls.Tinder is nice for both.Truly enjoyed this video.Yes a call is a pro move and needs to be executed at the right time.
@yinginthailand
8 ай бұрын
Hehe I don’t think I can advice anyone with dating hahaha You’re right, there’re pros and cons in all dating sites. We need luck 🍀 for that also haha thanks for watching 😊
@ResidentGG
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, this is more like educational for me.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊 Hope you enjoy!
@austinbarrett5295
Жыл бұрын
Love your channel! Thai ladies are the best ! Where is good place in Bangkok that you would suggest for a guy to meet a thai lady in person. Bars? Markets? Clubs? I can't imagine that dating sites is good when you are getting 500 responses lol.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
You could find Thai girls anywhere here. It depends on what kind of girls you’re looking for. The only site I got 500 responses was thai friendly which I don’t recommend lol Good luck and thanks for watching 😊
@williamgray8499
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the look at modern "dating stuff". As a 64-year-old I feel more like I was "Alice" peering thru the "Looking Glass"🙃
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
😊 thanks for watching ^^
@Phucket24
4 ай бұрын
Ying your too good for dating Apps your a stunner 10/10 just keep looking you will find yourself a decent man good luck
@yinginthailand
4 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@EdwinRodriguez-zt5fx
Жыл бұрын
Great video, it's interesting that saying hi for most guys as an introduction is frown upon but in Bumble that's the go to line for girls 😂. My question would be, what's the best way to meet other young that professionals? Not that there's anything wrong with bar/massage girls, but I feel like what makes a woman interesting to me is more on the intellectual and accolade side of the equation.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Hehe thank you for watching 🙂 I think you could find many professional young women online as well. I would suggest you take time talking to them and you will finally know if that makes sense 😃
@55Quirll
10 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand Could you suggest good sites or places to meet girls? I am 68 and have been in Thailand for 18 1/2 years
@regnorse
4 ай бұрын
?? 19 years and dont know..how is that possible? @@55Quirll
@martinnormanton2730
13 күн бұрын
I use Tinder and 85% are bar or freelance in hua hin
@rolfkarneman6564
Ай бұрын
Never had Tinder or Bumble. Tried thai friendly. So many women says "hi how are you" . Dont know how that phrase was invented but i never reply to those.
@johnfreeman4458
Жыл бұрын
Hi most girls on Thai friendly are bar girls looking customers. That why they are guys asking you these questions to you
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Yeah agree with that. Thanks for watching ☺️
@MrGman2804
Жыл бұрын
Interesting @4:27 that nothing is on offer. As a guy, when I was in Thailand, I had the other way around. I was genuinely looking for a girlfriend, and frequently the contacts to me were offering things.... so from this I conclude 'Thai Friendly' does appear to have a large element of 'that' going on. I just gave up in the end, because I would say most of the contacts I received were offering 'that'. I still live in hope.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, Thai Friendly is more for that kind of things. However, you should try Bumble. I think there's more chance to meet some normal women. Good Luck 🙂
@MrGman2804
Жыл бұрын
@@yinginthailandThanks. Good luck with the channel Ying.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@joostroelens8710
28 күн бұрын
Meet in person is the best way a lot of Fake people in dating site
@mathris2875
Ай бұрын
I think it was good seeing the other side of the coin. A lot of foreigners are calling out their money to lure thai women. Yet a lot of men complain that thai women are only dating men for the money.
@lw6001
4 ай бұрын
Ying should be more proactive in what are common or pleasant introductions.? Take more narrative control of the next videos you develop. You're audience needs more interesting opinions and taste about Thai women. Very good video.
@JurassicRap
4 ай бұрын
Bring this Eric guy back to our screens! Does he has a channel I could follow?
@yinginthailand
3 ай бұрын
Yes, check out his podcast channel -> onenightinbangkok podcast :)
@karabogaz
Ай бұрын
it's about appearance all over the world.
@PFG888
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video! @5:52 - it would be really helpful to know what is your type, oh if you can do a video about what your type is and/or what is the type of most Thai girls. @17:20 - thanks, it's good that you provided example of a guy should do. I'll keep this in mind for next time haha. This video was fun, it'll be good if you have a girl friend who uses these apps too, so that we can also see the opinion/perspective of other Thai girls as well.
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Hi, thanks for watching 😊 will consider your suggestions 😘
@huhwhat9830
8 ай бұрын
Mediocre women are doomed. 555 likes in a week for an average one. That’s why I didn’t have much luck on that app. Too much competition for a bust down.
@intsccents
Жыл бұрын
Hi Ying i realized i remembered you from your apartment reivew and not from Jonny somthings happening ? you are so poised and classy and i hope your channel does well for youI I did enjoy the brief conversation with jonny but as a traveler to thailand for now over 20 years i can say i liked your review and honest discription of the cost of living in your apartment . Keep bringing fresh and videos with a real Thai perspective and i think you can gain an audience of people like mysel interested in many areas in Thailand city living and otherwise .. L.A Rob
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Hello Rob 😊 thank you so much for watching. Yeah I met Johny and Som last weekend in Hua Hin and we made some video. They're really nice :) Hope you enjoyed your time here 🙂 I would like to do more videos about local people, hopefully I could post more soon 🥳
@human-ce5yg
10 ай бұрын
I like to have Thailand friends but I don't know where I should look I also want to visit Thailand
@yinginthailand
10 ай бұрын
Try those apps or there're community group on FB too. :)
@SB-do1bu
7 ай бұрын
problem with her is she wouldn't even give an asian guys a chance. biggest red flag in a person
@yinginthailand
6 ай бұрын
I give everyone a chance :)
@94vrcommodore
Ай бұрын
Just one more question. When I use dating apps to meet women. When I meet someone online, I'll text as an opening line 'you've got a beautiful smile and nice eyes'. Is that a good ice breaker?
@yinginthailand
Ай бұрын
That’s also great but better say more like open question so that they can answer you more than just saying “Thank you “ You know what I mean? 😅
@94vrcommodore
Ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand ok. Thanks for your tip
@vrino223
7 ай бұрын
Nice video? Btw what is the track at 13.30 mins? :)
@alblack9869
2 ай бұрын
Use Shazam for that!
@vrino223
Ай бұрын
@@alblack9869 i did and it didnt catch it :/
@vrino223
Ай бұрын
@@alblack9869 did not work
@xx-uz2kz
Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed video. Unique
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@joostroelens8710
28 күн бұрын
Your video is very informative
@paulsandford3345
Жыл бұрын
I would like to meet a semi professional thai women, like nurse or bank employee, or secretary!
@vinced5741
Жыл бұрын
Very informative. Eric reminds me so much of the famous KZitemr David Bond ...
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊
@regnorse
4 ай бұрын
lol famous?
@darassylmoniakam
4 ай бұрын
what would be the solution if we don't get any matches on these apps?
@yinginthailand
3 ай бұрын
Try again 😄
@darassylmoniakam
3 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand this is not a good answer.
@camwells9726
Жыл бұрын
It’s because there are so many freelance Thai girls use those apps for business , That guys are half expecting it
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, agree :) thank you for watching ^^
@ekimandersom4478
9 ай бұрын
I don’t get these online dating things. Thailand is literally fully packed with gorgeous woman. If you can’t find a normal nice girl there, you won’t find it anywhere.
@joostroelens8710
28 күн бұрын
😂😂
@pedroborges001
2 ай бұрын
Funny video, perhaps you two could date :)
@djwashx
Жыл бұрын
So how old are you and it seems your not into older men so whats your age range curious because most Filipinos say they arent into looks or age where here you clearly are thanks for being honest and different!!!!!!!!!!
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
I'm 32 :D Thanks for watching ^^
@fruitloops3718
Ай бұрын
Ying should have another guy to create her videos.
@tomix3568
3 ай бұрын
Interesting...you are very picky
@Steven91637
Жыл бұрын
Who is Eric?😮
@julianshalders6047
6 ай бұрын
They are stereotyping thai women, at least ying has a sense of humour 😂. Nice lady 👍👌🙏. Good luck with your channel.👌👍🙏🦘. Luv from Australia 👌👍🦘.
@yinginthailand
6 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😃
@FBICPS
Ай бұрын
Men are success objects, women are beauty objects!
@paulsandford3345
Жыл бұрын
Do you have to pay to be on these sites!
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
It’s free 🙂
@Hrangue
7 ай бұрын
Whatever crazy things guys are saying on the apps, there are Thai women saying things that are just as crazy. "No date! Just f8%k!" "Work!!" "Now can meet ST." TF was mostly freelancers and scammers. And I met one hell of a scammer. I just wanted somebody to show me around. It didn't work out. I didn't think to try Bumble, but I might if I ever go back.
@yinginthailand
7 ай бұрын
I agree that some Thais are just as crazy. It’s hard to really find the normal person on the apps. You should try bumble :) thanks for watching!
@ov7723
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video, guys! Going to Asia for a quite a while and since I'm single - I don't mind meet a nice girl. But all youtube videos I see and most of forums is "How to pickup prostitute"...such video disgust me
@yinginthailand
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 😊 Hope that's helpful ^^
@paulsandford3345
Жыл бұрын
So do you like older guy?
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Depending on how much older 🙂
@paulsandford3345
Жыл бұрын
@@yinginthailand, but it looks like you already have a boyfriend? Good luck!😊
@paulsandford3345
Жыл бұрын
Is this guy your boyfriend?
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Yes
@paulsandford3345
Жыл бұрын
Oh well!😊
@jewelrunner7756
2 ай бұрын
Am i the only one who is getting major 'friend zone' resentment vibes from this guy with her!??.. 😂😂😅🤔 He seems so on edge/uncomfortable as hell when she talking about guys she liked!.. Was absorbing some passive cringe energy over here!!.. 😂😂😬😕
@timkahn2813
Жыл бұрын
im 73 so no use . but even old men have dreams .
@xstensl8823
11 ай бұрын
jimmy page is 79
@joostroelens8710
28 күн бұрын
So very old Boy
@jjcohrs3046
Жыл бұрын
Does bumble work in Malaysia also ?
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I think so :)
@richardbrown9344
Жыл бұрын
Ying is beautiful and I love her accent..
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching 🙂
@jagathkulathilake1692
Жыл бұрын
👍👍👍
@barnold62
Ай бұрын
Dude is showing his insecurities.
@whynot0969
2 ай бұрын
The guys might be your age, but if they look for a quick hoock up?.. do you want that kind of realinship for long term? or more body count that devalues you in the long run, and you won’t be able to pair bond. DONTruin your value girls…….
@yinginthailand
2 ай бұрын
We all want long term relationship with one great guy 🙂 We date to marry 💯
@whynot0969
2 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand I’m very selective who I give my time and energy too, but I’m glad you think that way, as so do I, only for the long term otherwise you just hurt people. Thank you for being the way you are, gives me hope 🙌
@yinginthailand
2 ай бұрын
Good luck 🍀
@whynot0969
2 ай бұрын
@@yinginthailand thank you, and you top ✌️🙌
@JimJNebraska
24 күн бұрын
Definitely unsubscribe after that video!
@kaifxaif9502
26 күн бұрын
Waste of time and energy.
@jimwong2823
Жыл бұрын
checking in the 5-star hotel with super hot Thai wife? Hotel clerk checking if freelancer😂😂. Clerk realized comfortable speaking to each other? Plus $40k ring. Clerk made huge mistake😮😮
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Ohh 😅
@regnorse
4 ай бұрын
if your name wong why would you two get a second look??
@Akdon67
Жыл бұрын
Didnt know there's that many farangs on thai tinder
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Yeah there are many ha
@user-co4wl2br1t
Жыл бұрын
@@yinginthailand First time in Thaifriendly, but why I need to pay subscription?
@user-od9iz9cv1w
8 ай бұрын
Great advice. So happy to not be doing this. What a frustrating waste of time.
@yinginthailand
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching 🙂
@goldplaybest
Жыл бұрын
Holycrap... you are 31 ? i tought you are 22/23..
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Haha 😊
@gotaplay
Жыл бұрын
Oh my , I certainly don't think your just an " ordinary " girl , enjoy your video ... That guy who's message you read first was bragging haha another weekend millionare 😂😂😂😂😂 Obviously you don't need a dating app ...
@yinginthailand
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊 thanks for watching 🙂
@Steven91637
Жыл бұрын
Ah these farang thai pretenders 😮
@TruckerBill0531
2 ай бұрын
Pretty narrow minded in my opinion
@yinginthailand
2 ай бұрын
In what way?
@jacobeickhardt84
6 ай бұрын
sorry, but this guy seems like a clown...
@yinginthailand
6 ай бұрын
Which guy?
@kyprosalbakri8963
Жыл бұрын
It seems you are a bit shallow.
@ekimandersom4478
9 ай бұрын
Yeah dude, most girls are
@bitemenow609
5 ай бұрын
Many Many girls are Freelance. Unless you ask, You may never know.
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