A soft answer turns away wrath, But harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1
@zens9669
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this =)
@sharonmcgee4069
5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@theresadavis9891
5 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!
@jonasteuma3219
5 жыл бұрын
Some people only get angry when after being chronically abused, nagged or provoked, whether the perpetrator or others recognise and admit this reality or not.This is righteous wrath, not an anger management problem. Others, on the other hand, are just chronically angry towards the weak and get away with it because their victims are weak. Chronic anger,perpetrated by the strong, is the mental illness or character flaw that goes ignored and unpunished, until the victim, no matter how weak, cannot take it anymore, and snaps. This is righteous wrath.
@sunniski195
5 жыл бұрын
Yes Jonas!!! 😥😥
@selinasaunders
5 жыл бұрын
True talk! It’s happened to me. My marriage, and husband was one of the most difficult things that I had to fight for, but thank God I got converted to the faith when I did, and decided to fight instead of dip out. His soul was worth all the fight. He is saved now and we are both growing together. Marriage is amazing and sacred, and it’s the gospel you are preaching to your babies! 👑Fight for IT!🥊🥊🥊
@narademendez8559
5 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@kdhawk2276
5 жыл бұрын
I'm right there with you. Nothing in my life thus far has compared to this walk I'm on with Christ. My marriage is not restored yet but it will be in Gods timing!
@flamingmagenta955
5 жыл бұрын
We have to actually make sure our marriages and relationships are approved by God before we fight for it...
@selinasaunders
5 жыл бұрын
Contend sister! My husband was addicted to meth, alcohol, and so many other things. It was Hell being married to him, and took 6 years, but during this process I would receive words that he would be saved and converted IF I remained faithful but not just to him, but my new faith , and I held on to those words and decided to buckle down and began to fight on my knees! I use to get jealous of godly women and their Holy marriage because I wanted it so bad, and now, I have it. All glory to Jesus.
@flamingmagenta955
5 жыл бұрын
@@selinasaunders I hope so! If not, I suggest you accept the truth (jesus) and learn from your choices.
@mwh459
5 жыл бұрын
Pride is the biggest destruction of all relationships!
@get2knowfaith
5 жыл бұрын
I wish I could like your comment 1000xs
@lynharvey4185
5 жыл бұрын
Exactly right.... PRIDE..... 😥
@rwr166
5 жыл бұрын
Amen! Say it again!
@beautifulwonderfullymade.2662
5 жыл бұрын
Yes pride can either make you or break you. If we learn to put our pride aside some times we will be OK. If we are to prideful, then we could miss out on a blessing or a life lesson.
@lynharvey4185
5 жыл бұрын
@@beautifulwonderfullymade.2662 so.... true....
@joanrena1
5 жыл бұрын
I was married and divorced from my 1st husband but after 15 years of over coming pain from the divorce.I remarried my first husband again. Our relationship now is sweet !
@TheJackierose1
5 жыл бұрын
Joan Meeks Amen. God is doing the same for me too. I married my husband in 2000, separated in 2001and divorced him in 2007. In 2017 God told me to contact him and ask for forgiveness and forgive him. I had no idea where he was as we had not kept in contact but our God is amazing and told me to enter is full name into a google search. I couldn’t believe it when his new company was displayed with his home address. I did what God said and a week later he sent a text asking if he could call. We talked like we have never spoken before. He is now sorting things out and God is preparing the both of us. I still couldn’t believe it until x3 prophets confirmed a Word that God has given directly to me. I would never have thought that this was possible but again our God has proven that with him ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. Jacqui
@tamarahawkins9542
5 жыл бұрын
I ignored and reaped what I sowed I have to take responsibility I was warned from God through his vessels
@TonyaA7
5 жыл бұрын
Good answer . We ignore and we reap a harvest of not listening /obeying the voice of the father.
@deedeemoore6096
5 жыл бұрын
@@TonyaA7 that is very true !
@tamarahawkins9542
5 жыл бұрын
Well I was warned about my ex husband and I started back talking to him he stated he wasn’t married anymore I was vulnerable started back messing with him I went to his house told his wife that he doing her the same way he did me cheated and he told her to have me put in jail and she did
@flamingmagenta955
5 жыл бұрын
Yes! We have to accept that God never ordained these toxic relationships to begin with. Stop ignoring red flags and being desperate.
@springtyme77
4 жыл бұрын
😥😢😢😢😥😢😢😥😥😢
@brittanyburns7045
4 жыл бұрын
I married a guy that i was in a toxic relationship wit.. but booy i tell ya. I got into God faithfully. I prayed for my husband and became an godly example according to 1 peter 3. Not only God worked on me and transforming me he did the same for him. Halleluyah! Can he do it? I didnt hv to divorce him. All we needed was God.
@Kelly-ew9vf
4 жыл бұрын
I swear there's a spirit of codependency. It grips you to feel guilty and the other person to feel the deep desire to control you.
@Sandra-wj4on
5 жыл бұрын
I was in an devastating marriage, where my husband not only abused me physically and mentally, but he cheated on me and then lied to his family and friends to make me appear to be the bad guy. Not to mention he 'gaslighted' me by trying to make me believe I was crazy when I confronted him with his infidelity. (BTW, he ended up leaving me and marrying this 'non-existent' girlfriend. LOL!) By my marriage end, I was the Walking Wounded and ready to commit suicide. BUT GOD. He came to me one midnight when I was about to slit my wrists. He helped me through that devastating period in my life. At first, I was so hurt, next so angry, I was calling down lightning bolts from Heaven to destroy my ex! (LOL!) BUT GOD! Even in the midst of my rage, I desperately knew if I didn't learn to forgive my ex and move past the pain, I'd die first spiritually, then mentally, and finally physically. Yet how? How to forgive something so devastatingly painful that I wanted to no longer exist? One of the ways The Lord helped me through was to have me release the responsibility of my ex-husband's actions. At the time I would randomly burst into tears, asking Him "Why did he abuse me?" "Why did he cheat on me?" "Why did he lie on me?" One day The Lord placed in my spirit: "As long as you own these things, you can never get past them." Confused, I then asked: "What do You mean?" The Lord: "Instead of saying 'He cheated on me' say: 'He is a cheater'. Instead of: 'He abused me' say: 'He is an abuser'. Replace 'He lied on me' with 'He is a liar'. By thinking of it this way, you relinquish hold on what he did to you - and place it back on the person truly responsible: him. You are stuck because you are holding on to guilt for what he did during your marriage." This revelation was so life-changing enlightening! I hadn't realized the reason I couldn't forgive and move on because I hadn't first forgiven myself for being in such a dysfunctional relationship. Once I released the burden of my own guilt, forgiven myself and handed my abuse back to my abuser, I was on my way to total healing. During that period The Lord also made me see who I was as well, which wasn't very pretty, let me tell you! He then instructed me to pray for my ex and his girlfriend/wife. (LOL! Went kicking and screaming into that one! But the more I prayed, the easier it got. This also helped me heal. God knew exactly what He was doing!) That was more than 20 years ago and I haven't looked back since. I pray my testimony helps someone. May God bless you all!
@lalavargo
5 жыл бұрын
I can really relate to this! God bless you sis, Thank you for sharing, it's powerful! Please keep me in prayer as I'm struggling to forgive myself for.
@Sandra-wj4on
5 жыл бұрын
@@lalavargo God Almighty, I touch and agree with Your Holy Spirit for Your precious child. Pour out Your favor and cover their situation with the blood of Jesus Christ. I speak total healing and ultimate peace over Your child. In Jesus Christ mighty name. Amen! God bless you, love!
@lalavargo
5 жыл бұрын
@@Sandra-wj4on Amen!!! Thank you Lord! God Bless you sis, Thank you for taking the time to respond, I'm honoured.
@Sandra-wj4on
5 жыл бұрын
@@lalavargo Back at ya! :)
@Sandra-wj4on
5 жыл бұрын
@Azureblu 50 You know, it was only after I got out of my own way and truly listened to God, was I redeemed. God bless you! 😊
@phylliswilliamson8844
5 жыл бұрын
I'm married 24 years separate six. I didn't leave because I promised til death do us part, but finally God put it on my spirit that we put ourselves together he didn't. I asked him to leave and he did. We have two kids together, so I knew that I had to be an example for them. I forgave him, and he eventually knew it was the right decision. We were both wrong. He said I'm his best friend and only friend. After we separated God blessed me more than I deserve. I make it a point to thank God and talk to him daily time I open my eyes. It really makes a difference when you put God first in every aspect of your life.
@AngelFreeney
5 жыл бұрын
What I love about you is you keep it real ! 💯 You tell us what we NEED to hear . NOT what we want to hear. You stepped on my toes in this video but I’m glad you did ! Some people can’t take stuff like this. Either we gone receive it and do better OR be immature and stay in the same place. You’re a true blessing 😭💕❤️ thank you for letting Yahweh use you . Sending Love from LOUISIANA 🐊
@genneanwilliamsshepherd8689
5 жыл бұрын
Amen So True. That Was Me Just Last Month
@aprilc1077
5 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness doesn't mean they didn't do a wrong it just means that you're releasing them from owing you anything for it.
@ralphdagod652
4 жыл бұрын
I don’t believe in forgiveness for the same person over and over I loved this women been my friend 4 years took care of her and children and she hurt me so as of now I hate her she just lose me karma will come back in the end I do pray that god can bring me around to forgiveness
@Tiffany_3x
3 жыл бұрын
@@ralphdagod652 I pray God helps you to heal and love again! ❤ 🙏 🕊
@ralphdagod652
3 жыл бұрын
@@Tiffany_3x thank you 🙏🏿 I really feel that I can never love again
@ValerieK1971
5 жыл бұрын
Forgive yourself also.
@84legit
5 жыл бұрын
Thats the part I havent figured out
@sonkissed8719
5 жыл бұрын
Wade Is Legit You and me both 🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾
@Tiffany_3x
3 жыл бұрын
@@84legit 🙏 have you figured it out yet?
@corierupert9755
5 жыл бұрын
Praise God ,thank you Lord for leading me here today ..Amen Thank you Jesus..
@kdhawk2276
5 жыл бұрын
Standing for my marriage after betrayal. God is working in me right now and I am learning to let go of my husband and let God do his work in both of us. I was ready to divorce him but God......He said no, you will stand and you will forgive. So much peace in that choice.
@janicejanice9277
5 жыл бұрын
I'm A Israelite Women! I'll be Married 36 Yrs In a few Day's! The Most High Is Trully A GOD Of RIGHTEOUSNESS! We Can Make It If We Except Who We Are As Women! His Design For US AND WHO HE Say We Are! We Must Continue To Follow The Law! The Statue's! And Commandment's! Become Virtuous Women! Ill Pray For You Please For Me! Read Enoch, Jasher,Jubilees,The Testimony Of The Twelve Patriarch. So Power. WE Women In America Must Come Out Of Babalyon! SHALOM!
@TheJackierose1
5 жыл бұрын
#DoreenHawkins, you are so right. My husband betrayed me the day before we got married i.e he was unfaithful. I found out 9 months later and we split. I divorced him 7 years later. A year ago God spoke to me and told me I had to write to him and forgive him. I had no idea where he was as we had not spoken for 14 years. God TOLD me how to get his address. I obeyed God and wrote to him and a week later he called me. God is bringing us back together after 18 years. ONLY OUR God can do this. He is an amazing God. Jacqui.
@irma7133
5 жыл бұрын
be strong sister stay in the word , Walk in love , that's Gods love . read 5 love languages gary Chapman, sacred marriage by , gary thomas . pray for God to show you what you need to work on in yourself. God bless you
@buzzingbee6380
5 жыл бұрын
Doreen Hawkins I haven't heard God say if we will be restored but when he was grabbing his stuff and leaving for his much younger co worker I said God do something and I heard a firm no. Is thus forever? I also heard him say trust me and others who have prayed for me said God is moving things around . some say its God protecting the kids and I. What should I believe. I don't know if I should hold on or heal????
@TheJackierose1
5 жыл бұрын
Buzzing Bee Both. God has walked with me over the last 18 years and I never thought that he would bring my ex back as I had forgotten about him and pursued our God but God is faithful x
@eimymorales704
5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Putting myself in that spot where I realized what I also did wrong was so healing and humbling. We don’t have the right to not forgive others. God forgives us everyday and we may not deserve it. We need to humble ourselves and think about what the other person is struggling with as well. That is loving each other. Caring and not tearing down
@Pattylovesjesus77
5 жыл бұрын
If they don't love Jesus, How will they love you 🙏🏼
@sw-en7wb
5 жыл бұрын
Who's the common denominator in each of our failed relationships? See the mirror. Women treat your husband like the man he can be, (compliment him, be kind) men treat and love your wife like Christ loved the church. My grandparents lived that for 59 1/2 years and I never heard them argue, raise their voice, or insult the other (they lost 2 sons at young ages, lost everything in their 60s to a hurricane). The opportunity for bitterness, anger and self pity knocked at their door, but they did not let it in. TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A THOROUGHBRED AND SHE WILL NEVER GROW INTO AN OLD NAG.
@FYEYE
5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you just want to be seen and understood. Compassion goes a long way.
@streetsofgold378
5 жыл бұрын
It was too long winded the video. But, I still love what you are doing for The Kingdom, Brother Marcus. I do like your messages. But, Tell people to pray more. We have to take our issues, needs, and wants to The Lord JESUS CHRIST in Prayer, Period!!! ~Ms. Royal
@marlaharmon1297
5 жыл бұрын
@@streetsofgold378 ikr
@iprincessirene
5 жыл бұрын
Give it and you shall receive it in return
@jonasteuma3219
5 жыл бұрын
Chronic Lack of consciousness/situational awareness, chronic lack of empathy appropriate to the situation, chronically arrogant, condescending and dismissive of a person's disadvantage, deprivation, frustration, suffering etc. will eventually drive even the most docile and gentle of souls to righteous wrath. The * temporary, situational, RIGHTEOUS WRATH * of the GOOD soul is SEEN, and PATHOLOGISED and CONDEMNED. The *** chronic, insufferable ABUSE and NEGLECT * of the BAD soul that PROVOKED it, is NOT. In most cases, most of the time, the most serious Evil, and the most serious Suffering, is INVISIBLE, Insidious, Subtle, and CHRONIC.
@heather77
5 жыл бұрын
This is true, just a little bit of acknowledgement and kindness like a simple 'how are you doing' goes a long way. Bitterness comes from hurt, I need God to help me let go of this cause it's getting worse, I'm supposed to be getting better as a Christian and I feel like I'm a worse person than before I was a Christian.
@TonyaA7
5 жыл бұрын
It happened to me in friendships. I heard a small soft voice several times say leave them alone and even show me warning signs. I reasoned with the voice saying what if I'm just being judgemental, what if it's just me and not God. Honestly had I not gone through those situations I wouldn't have learned to discern the voice of God. One was a friend or what I thought was a friend for 34 years only to get betrayed long story short God warned me more than once and I didn't listen . Then God showed me it never would've worked because I'm his child and she's of the world and loves darkness and he told me even in friendships we are NOT to be unequally yoked. Then there was a few others who wronged me who claimed to be of God again God kept says leave them alone tried to warn me . So through them 4 situations as much as it hurt and I was angry and bitter at first until God helped me see truth and come to it repent and forgive them not for them but for me . At times I catch myself thinking about it or talling of it then I remind myself I forgave which frees me . The hard part is they live around me and the so called friend of 34 years hangs around one of the others . Letting go is the hard part for me I want to it's just hard. So I been seeking God for healing and help to move on . Today I dont have people friends I have my family and most of all Jesus Christ. Walking alone is hard at times but better than fake friends . I'm trusting God to vindicate and heal me . Today I pray for them and when I see them smile and give a lil wave to be nice . I trust that God has taken the trash out the stumbling block out so I can sore with him on wings of eagles. Honestly they were distracting me from God and I was allowing them to have negative influence in my life . I trust God for better and know if he allowed it hes working it for good and better things to come. God Bless You brother this word is true .
@annabrooks5591
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying this I am going through something very similar
@TonyaA7
5 жыл бұрын
@@annabrooks5591 ,to God be all the glory. Your welcome .. It's a blessing when what I've been through helps others . It's all the Grace of God that brings us through to true victory and helps us to step over the mountain and when we look again we realize it was an ant hill. We must let God have his way and nail emotions to the cross.. God Bless you
@patriciaking7892
4 жыл бұрын
Tonya A, it's hard to be alone cause God didn't create humans to be alone. We're living in critical times hard to deal with 👌. Take it one day at a time in prayer 🙏. Stay Blessed 💘.
@BeautifulDaphanie
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I just had a great cry. My last relationship I basically wanted it to be my way. I had stopped talking with God and praying for guidance and thinking I could have it all my way. I built a house on sinking sand and when it fell, I was left pregnant and alone. Now 39 weeks pregnant, the father of my child is trying to communicate with me and I just wanted him to leave me alone. I see now that for me to succeed I must forgive. I didn’t listen to no one when they told me to slow down before I shacked up with him. I didn’t pay attention to the signs that he we wasn’t meant to be. I didn’t start to listen till I realized there was a baby growing inside me. Now I have to forgive him and it hurts so bad. I was on my way to a bitter road and was ok with it! I wanted him to suffer for the hurt and abandonment during these last 9 months. But God is greater than my hurt 😔. I am truly humbled and needed to hear this. Thank you for allowing the Holly Spirit to speak through you🙏🏾.
@BeautifulDaphanie
5 жыл бұрын
Glen CoCo I hear you. But that decision would be mad from my hurt and anger. He is the father and I can’t keep him from seeing the baby. Now there are things like he won’t be alone with my child but if he want to build a relationship with baby, who am I to stop it?
@ilatina1032
5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you saying this I'm in the same boat actually but I'm in my first trimester.
@shandranewell2837
5 жыл бұрын
Forgive yourself first
@michellemykelhouse1590
5 жыл бұрын
TSUNAMI ágape
@katrinapritchett6241
5 жыл бұрын
Brother, this video is delivering my soul from years of bitterness and having victim’s mentality. Truth be told, the Lord showed me Every Time that people I dealt with were not right but I ignored His voice, thus got hurt. This video is the Truth!!! John 8:32 - And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.
@nicholasmonchak947
4 жыл бұрын
No one should give you bad comments because you are a TRUE BLESSING and there is a reason I found you on youtube!!!!! And you are spot on with everything you said because I see now the signs but I ignored them, but I blame myself for the relationship failing because I messed up, lied, drank, and now, because of hearing you I realize it was my fault.....
@MakeupJules
5 жыл бұрын
It take a lot of maturity to admit your part in doing or causing a disagreement. Thank you you help me I needed to here this!
@monicafox8648
5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been through so much heartbreak and betrayal I pray all the time for the Lord to give me the strength to forgive others. Please pray for me as well💕 God bless y’all
@sharonfelicia121
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brother Marcus, you are absolutely right, I ignored the warning signs because of the potential, and made so many excuses on their behalf because I was nieve. I know Christ has forgiven me but it is hard for me to forgive myself for allowing it to happen. Through christ all things are possible and peace will be my portion this 2019. Amen
@hghly-fvrd1819
5 жыл бұрын
you are not alone. We have all done it at some point, regardless if we admit it or not. You will forgive yourself, recover and grow from it. Be blessed sister.
@sharonfelicia121
5 жыл бұрын
@@hghly-fvrd1819 Thank you. Stay blessed
@ajalaraine3218
5 жыл бұрын
Yes
@pamelawebb2328
5 жыл бұрын
sharonfelicia121 yes being naive is the road to bad endings
@aaronwallace3580
5 жыл бұрын
I went through something like this in my past relationship. Her and I both had our faults, but I had thought her fault was so much greater than mine. I was blind in my pride... Thank you Jesus for forgiving me. Thank you for opening my eyes & teaching me forgiveness in her and in myself. God bless you all. Pray and ask for wisdom & position in your life, whatever it may be. Thank you, Jesus.
@humblepiekimmalesinski3883
5 жыл бұрын
There is living water flowing from your belly brother Marcus...I'm taking a big drink....I was dying of thirst and am now satisfied with this sweet water that Christ led me to. Praise God!
@ngrady2
5 жыл бұрын
I'm letting the house fall with my marriage. My husband left me as soon as I got deeper with God. He fell away from the faith and doesn't want to be with me anymore.There were other things I've could've done better as a wife. I'm also letting the house fall with my finances always worrying about how I'm going to pay this and that with the little bit I have especially now that I'm by myself. This was so on time! God bless you Marcus!
@patriciaking7892
4 жыл бұрын
Love Truth, I know the feeling! I'm surrendering my 20 yr old grandson and my finances up to go. However the outcome, I pray for strength to endure. Stay Blessed 💘.
@patriciaking7892
4 жыл бұрын
Love Truth, I meant to say up to God! Excuses typos 😂.
@joanholliman673
5 жыл бұрын
MARCUS, YOU ARE INSPIRING!!! DON'T LET THE HATERS GET TO YOU.
@beatrizromero756
5 жыл бұрын
I did.. I let go and I ran to Jesus. It was so hard but God helped me get over this bitterness and anger.
@lissetcontreras1821
5 жыл бұрын
I really need to hear this . thank you.
@xandersellingworth4598
5 жыл бұрын
Lisset Contreras me too
@JESUSCHRISTMYSAVIOR
5 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you Jesus for this message!
@godschosen__1
5 жыл бұрын
I love u my brother in the Lord, I look forward to ur videos,they always uplift my spirit
@blessedhighlyfavoured3697
5 жыл бұрын
I have struggled with forgiveness but it is getting better, in JESUS name...
@arianna2679
5 жыл бұрын
Praise YESHUA Ha Maschiach, What's Good with You today? You are right on target. I have been on THE island of isolation for about 5 years and it has been Peace that surpasses all understanding. Through my pain I experienced growth and Faith.. Shalom to Everyone....
@verniceblackmon5142
4 жыл бұрын
Amen! So true! We must release those who did wrong to us! Another way to make it easy to forgive is to pray for them. Thank you for that teaching! You are truly God's disciple!
@repentorperish6414
5 жыл бұрын
Amen, thank you for these words. I was severely injured by a quack chiropractor in Florida. I had so much negative emotions built up, but I knew I had to forgive even though theyre not sorry & falsified they're medical records to cover up themselves. Forgiveness is truly for your own good, our Lord & Saviour told us to do this for a reason. I needed this, it needs continual reinforcement. Thanks!
@pclare7477
5 жыл бұрын
Praise God for this truth. Very important Marcus. My husband got attacked on our property by some of our neighbors who had it in for him and they are not remorseful in the slightest. I have to see that family every day at school so it's been a struggle to forgive but it is what God commanded, it is a journey. I agree wholeheartedly. Thank you.
@jenigibbs5061
5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love every single word you spoke about for I needed this enduring this exact situation at this moment when I was left a week ago and I have been doing what you are saying about seeing my contribution to the actions of my partner/husband before God. I was always faithful and made some sacrifices but not the most important sacrifice that a Godly woman is supposed to do, I let our home turn into filth and just quit caring because I focused too much on what he didn’t contributed. Now I’m alone I realized I still have this mess to clean and I could have just cleaned my house better and prevented some things for sure. I already started to work and two days straight cleaned and still cleaning. I’m not far from being finished but that’s what God said to do. Already I have peace.
@jenigibbs5061
5 жыл бұрын
Amen, I’m walking in Faith and I’m letting go and letting God fix my mess.
@quyonariley2604
5 жыл бұрын
I’m trying so hard not to cry 😢 thank you 🙏🏽 God for this message I need to let my past go ♥️
@peterguildford5848
4 жыл бұрын
Quyona Riley very important 🙏🏾👸🏽✨
@narademendez8559
5 жыл бұрын
Very wise words...God bless you in your ministry and keep making videos your words are very encouraging
@brandonburrell8517
5 жыл бұрын
Forgive no matter what. Pride is the only thing that prevents it.
@lisamcphaul3602
5 жыл бұрын
You are preaching brother!!!
@StefD61
5 жыл бұрын
This is the absolute truth.. Thirteen years ago I left my children's dad and had to heal. I was hurt and confused but I didn't blame him for his short comings, I blamed myself for not leaving the third year after we met..The Holy Spirit said to me, 'Its time to go!" I stayed because I was afraid.. I left 7 1/2 yrs later after I heard the LORD the second time which was 5 yrs later. I became bitter because of my disobedience. I had to let go and let God heal me. It didn't stop there l. My story doesn't end there but my bitterness for my bad decisions did.. I understood that my disobedience always became a lesson for me to understand who was and still am in Christ!
@christycaroramirez3542
5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Amen Brother!! FORGIVENESS is a MUST!! and FAITH!! Ive been married for 15 years and I know one thing for sure is that I HAD TO LOOK AT MY SELF IN THE MIRROR AND OWN IT!!! GOD has brought HEALING and RESTORATION, because of it... And we are still learning...ALWAYS LEARNING until the day we are outta here! Amen!! GLORY TO GOD! GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER AND YOUR MARRIAGE!!
@angelinagermenis4013
3 жыл бұрын
Brother Marcus this is the 5th random video you've uploaded that I've come across since I've repented after many yrs of being backslidden and struggling to serve God.. And in every message is where God has set me free and has revealed these mindsets and sin one is in this message and to mention another is false doctrine..It's the first time I'm walking in victory and hearing His voice and being obedient to His direction when it seemed i could never pass a certain plateau. I wanted to thank the Spirit of God for the work He is doing within His Kingdom bc I was in the darkest places I could of never imagined and I want to share that there is nothing impossible Jesus! God bless
@whiterose4062
4 жыл бұрын
I know this video was a yr ago but I'm here listening to it again. This is so awesome because I just realized that what people have done to me & even what I've learned (& still learning) about myself has given me the story of a lifetime. I'd have no stories of breakthroughs during my hardships. And this is definitely something that goes beyond just removing yourself from the person(s) who give you grief. It's a real soul/heart healing that'll set you free because you can be separated & still bitter & resentful. Man, pharaohs heart was hardened for an ultimate purpose which gave God's people victory & a real story we still tell today
@me-ej9ed
4 жыл бұрын
I've been watching this guy for a while now & he really speaks the truth. I definitely have been going through somethings over the years, I lost my way trying to be faithful to a man when I should've put my faith in God. I truly believe God is a jealous God because for many years he allowed me to see how my plans really work. He broke me all the way down & now I see how important it is to be faithful to God. I think this might be my greatest lesson in life because its been dragged out & now all I can do is cry thanking God for healing me & loving me & wiping my tears cause I can't seem to treat ppl bad cause of my heart. Just to express what I've been going through causes me to cry but I thank God for keeping me the whole time.
@rosierich6561
5 жыл бұрын
You see the crown but don't see the cross! Powerful ..
@AlyssaMarie-vr8cc
5 жыл бұрын
Very powerful word here. I spent over half my life being bitter over my mother's habits and how they affected me and our relationship. I let it destroy me from the inside and cause me to act out in selfish, disguating ways. When I finally started submitting it to the Lord was the moment I started to find peace and be able to get past that and continue to strive for positive change in our relationship together. There is so much I could still be bitter about today, not a lot has changed between us. And honestly it's not like I just decided one day to submit and that was it; I'm not cutting her out of my life which means I have to continue resubmitting this to God and everyday He helps me find peace and comfort despite everything else around me. I'm not in control, but it is well with my soul. Amen!
@AhlivetahIsrael
5 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾You told the whole truth👏🏾👏🏾 This is how I dealt with people that have done me wrong most of the time. I tell you the truth. The times I didn't handle it by putting it in God's hands and forgiving them, it turned out horribly for me EVERYTIME I didn't let God handle it. It effected me emotionally and I had to take up too much time trying to heal from something I could've avoided if I had only let it go. By the grace of God, I'm more patient and quicker to walk away with sound judgment. To God be the Glory and the Praise!!👑💎
@frannycave533
5 жыл бұрын
Amen brother! I watched 1of your videos and I been hooked ever since. I enjoy the word you share, and I admire your love for God.
@monicanixon5140
5 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you. Amen. We need to see our mistakes differently. If the preventable mess we go through doesn't yield some lesson learnin' and humble pie eating, we're setting ourselves up and others for more painful/ sinful experiences. Let no root of bitterness spring up by which many are defiled. Bitterness directly threatens your wholeness.
@blessedlife1438
4 жыл бұрын
This message have shame all my mess and brought me true deliverance. God bless you. Now I can boldly say, by the stripes of Jesus Christ I am healed. I can also say Jesus Christ is Lord!!! Big shame on the spirit of bitterness, blame and offense I am free from you in Jesus Name!!!🙏🏻🏃🏽♂️
@grannygirlfriend
5 жыл бұрын
Love the examples. Love even more of what God’s word says. Heb 12:14, Eph4:31-32. We must meditate and let our hearts be taken captive by HIS word so we can change and be saved. Bitterness is so crippling.
@shanitaprice3414
5 жыл бұрын
Yess!! You speaking on what’s true! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 the red flags and intuition was right, but God brought me out of the mess I created..
@atm382
5 жыл бұрын
Thank God for this message❤❤❤ My life will not be the same cause I repent and walking by faith and letting the house fall. I'm forgiving others and forgetting those things behind me and pressing towards the mark of the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.
@renisrael4188
5 жыл бұрын
God bless you sir. I am a 24 year old that that just lost my job after a 4 month review, and live by myself and have no one to depend finically but myself (through God of course). I have been feeling so bitter because i asked my Pastor to pray for me or call me and it’s like he’s been ignoring me recently as I got no prayer or call. On the day of the review I was late because all the power cut out so I’ve been blaming my landlord too. I was also told at the review that colleagues had told on me that most times Ive came in around 2-5 minutes late so was so angry with them. This video has brought healing to me because I’ve realised that I’ve been abusing my position in life as a child of God to take liberties as I always come in about two- five minutes late and think “ it’s cool God will fight for me”. Also there are so many things I could’ve have done better. I was blaming everyone else and ultimately it’s my fault. I have now forgiven everyone and most importantly I’m starting to forgive myself as this happened only yesterday. God is really using you I watch your videos as they are edifying and relate to me, and God has already confirmed to me that you are filled with the Holy spirit of God. God really used this to speak to me even though it’s an older video. God bless you and this ministry sir. Please pray for me that I get a new job and that the Lord will abundantly supply my needs. God bless everyone reading this.🙏🏿
@cynthiav4651
5 жыл бұрын
Wow.. Amazing . especially when you had said towards the end of being raped or molested.. I was at a very young age by my step father. And growing up i had bitterness and hate towards the whole world. Until I found Jesus my God had given me so much peace and joy.. To the point I had spoken to him on the phone and had told him I had forgiven him of course he tried to deny it. But I just let him know he hurt me and took my innocence as a child from me. But I had forgiven him and only him and God knows what had happened and i no longer carry that weight any more.. I thank God for everything.. Especially for his son Jesus for dying for our sins and showing us too forgive. Awesome message God Bless you brother thru Christ..
@blessingsblathers7445
5 жыл бұрын
All I can say God is flowing through you 🙏💪... I wake up at the same time every night and I asked God to lead me to the truth of his words... your videos of great message taught me in so many areas in my walk....God bless and keep it flowing...
@glendacarter4292
5 жыл бұрын
When you see how hard it is to forgive, it shows us how much grace and forgiveness is so special that Jesus did that for us. Its like Jesus how did you do that and why. Forgiveness is beautiful.
@havefaith1620
5 жыл бұрын
Confirmation... Someone told me GOD needed me to be an intercessor for someone else.. I insisted instead on pursuing what I wanted first... Faith should have been Reflected in my actions and my attitude!!!! And I am thankful for the entirety of this message. Father GOD I thank you for the message and the messenger. May Your WORD be manifested in Growth in Me. Thank You GOD.
@paulajay7594
5 жыл бұрын
Im getting a divorce.... I have to set this man free from this relationship that was a complete mistake of ignoring the clear of day signs not to get with him...i was loosing who i was being in this marriage and from having a divorce and the depression the hole i was falling in was a battle then to go into another marraige from ignorance it was bad from both sides...the divorce will set both of us free from this mistake i made... I did it and i was tormented so badly within and now we will be free.... I tried to force myself to fall in love but i couldn't... I was pretending and that wasn't right. He deserves to be with someone who will love him the way he deserves...so im letting it go...yes i have bitterness from my first marraige because i never truly let go... I loved him so much but i had to let him go...so i pray for both guys and i will accapt my punishment and just be single if i have to.... Scars done to the heart are sometimes so hard to mend...so i pray for those who hurt from heart break..!! I pray for the release of any ties and bitterness lurking and the influence of the enemy to keep the hurt in your ❤. I love Abba Father i do and i repent of my super bad decisions that caused others to hurt.... I see im mean in some ways because its my way to protect my ❤. I will not give it away easy if at all. Abba forgive me😢 i want to move on from this pain i have horded up in me....
@mikamwambazi3807
5 жыл бұрын
May God bring healing to your heart sister.
@amber9738
5 жыл бұрын
I needed this today ❤❤❤ Thank you Marcus.
@time2live337
5 жыл бұрын
Young man, you are absolutely on point with this message. Keep preaching and teaching the will of The Most High Almighty God .I'm very proud of you and thank God for you.
@jojo-l7431
4 жыл бұрын
I needed this. My marriage is in a ugly place. Trusting it all to My Savior.
@johnnydelrome
5 жыл бұрын
I just discovered this man, and I’m sure glad I did. Everything he said hit close to heart. Amen 🙏🏽
@crwnofenlightenment
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for allowing God to use you and deliver this message. To God be the glory!
@fredrikasimpson627
5 жыл бұрын
Marcus Rogers you are the bomb. Tell the truth my brother. Real power I need you in my life to push me on.
@dahooper7407
5 жыл бұрын
You are always on point! Thank you for being obedient to God!! #TGBTG (to God be the glory)
@anavah4yeshua580
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Marcus! This msg is for me, an answer to prayer. I will not air my dirty linen, I will just say THANK YOU FATHER!!
@traceyesste2271
5 жыл бұрын
I wont say the things I overcame. Your messages have brought me to tears. I made the most painful choice recently, and I now know I surrendered the situation to the Lord. I thought I was losing my mind. I am not. I am crying not because I am sad, but because of an overwhelming love.
@oneblessedladyallsbrook1057
5 жыл бұрын
I thank God for your ministry. I say thank you to you my brother in Christ for your truth, wisdom and honesty.
@jennmarable2798
5 жыл бұрын
Yess!! It’s tough to get to the root of bad fruit. However when we can recognize the bad fruit, in that alone takes honesty and courage to remove it with the help of the a Holy Spirit. Doing this creates room in your heart for good seed to flourish! Children of God need to understand how to walk into it holding on his WORD. And just Stands on his promises.
@anjijack5392
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, brother! I completely ignored my 6th sense, & went ahead and married him anyway. When I divorced him 1 year later, I knew I hadn't headed the prompting of the Holy Spirit. I don't blame him for anything anymore. He just wasn't for me, and I didn't listen. I've forgiven both he & I. This was 3 years ago. God is good.
@havefaith1620
5 жыл бұрын
Truth ... Break the cycle, Repent and Heal from within. Let GOD!!! Focus on You and Be a Reflection of Christ!!!! ❤
@mykindofmind
5 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the women that was being mean. I am a christian woman and I never take what you say as bad, it's always truthful and confirming. That what you just spoke, was for me! God knows that I watch you, so thank you for your obedience. What I am taking from this is. Accountability period in any wrong doing or bad behavior which will help me grow forward, forgiveness of who hurt me, and then Trust God to have my back for my healing and my future. God bless you Brother and thanks a million.
@lovetap82
5 жыл бұрын
I needed this. This is right on time. You are confirming what He has been discussing with me and what I have been searching to understand. He told me to trust Him and I was being so hard-headed, and ended up getting my feelings hurt. I am so grateful that He still comes in and tells me that everything will be okay, and to wait on Him, like He told me to do in the first place. He wants His best for me.. not what my impatience makes me settle for in the meantime. Thanks for this....
@reneefaison5738
5 жыл бұрын
God's Grace really is enough to overcome anything. It may not be easy and probably won't be,but IT IS ENOUGH!!!
@veraa.willis2478
5 жыл бұрын
Yes you are correct. I know first hand the part I played into the destruction of my marraige. I knew tht God did not tell me to marry my ex husband but I did anyway. Im glad I learned so much abt myself and the power of being obedient to the father. Im still a work in progress but I'm aware of the parts I play in everything tht I say and do. I'm so grateful for the struggle because I'm a better follower of Christ. God bless you Marcus Rogers.
@flamingmagenta955
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being honest.
@shawandabeasley142
5 жыл бұрын
Amen...I really needed to hear this, I forgive my husband for walking out on me for another woman, I'm praying for him and moving on with my life, I was a good wife to him, but I didn't deserve to be treated this way, but I know God will get me through this.
@flamingmagenta955
5 жыл бұрын
@@shawandabeasley142 God used that relationship to help you build better character so you could choose better men.
@jayeraye6984
5 жыл бұрын
The Lord is using you brother Marcus no doubt, of course it's going to make the devil mad. It's the truth that set the captives free. KEEP TEACHING! & stay CLOSE to GOD.
@dlm2133
5 жыл бұрын
You are so right on!! Thank you Jesus!! Thank you Pastor Marcus!
@lalabiagini5491
5 жыл бұрын
Glory to God. THIS is the kind of life-changing( and saving) truth we really MUST start pushing more. It is SUCH a powerful and RELIEF bringing shift when we simply accept what is actually an EMPOWERING truth that we were NOT truly just a victim, but a partaker of the mess we decided AAAALLLLL BY OURSELVES, to stay tied up in. I am convinced that bitterness, unforgiveness and self-pity are very straightforward causes of cancer and more. So it is WORTH it to press into PURSUING peace even when you cant even begin to fathom how youre going to muster up that mercy lol so even if we are not feeling it we can begin by just SPEAKING aloud as a statement of decision, or announcement so to speak "I forgive...and call out names and what you need to forgive them for. That baby step will activate things and get the ball rolling and eventually you'll begin to notice the resentment isnt as intense as it used to be untill finally you are legit FREE from it all. God will be so pleased with your intentional effort that He will multiply the power and momentum so that it doesnt take near as long as you expected it to. The rewards are mindblowing...the relief alone is enough because I am hard pressed to come up with many things that match up to the misery that is holding onto anger and offense. Playing and singing Kevin LeVar's 'A Heart That Forgives' always helps me get started too. The anointing on that particular song is literally block/chain breaking.
@flavorsweet8931
5 жыл бұрын
Great teaching and preaching. Really enjoy your videos. Helping me to live a better Christian life. Thank you brother in Christ 🙏🏽
@codacain2201
5 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! That thing called “PRIDE” I learned to admit and let go and forgive. Now it’s time for me to close doors to those who see Only! 1 Sided! and love them from a distance and continue caring FAITH
@angelasalinardi9287
5 жыл бұрын
Yes! You speak truth and some people cant handle it. I appreciate your true talk. It’s all about accountability for our actions and decisions. It always takes two. Your words are truth! It comes from The Heavenly Father. Praise Him! Thank you brother, Marcus!
@thewalker124
5 жыл бұрын
Keeping on preaching brotha! Thank you for this video. Bitterness can really affect your relationship with the Lord. Especially your prayer life.
@thewalker124
5 жыл бұрын
@Glen CoCo what is it that your bitter about. In times like these I try to remember "I will not be bitter, I will be better". Bitterness doesn't nothing to the other person. It only hurts you. Don't allow yourself to be imprisioned by it. The truth(Jesus) shall set you free and you will be free indeed.
@pamelawebb2328
5 жыл бұрын
Well I am a woman. I once lived a life that would have made me angry at some things you have said lately. But I am not of that mind set anymore. You say what the Spirit leads you to say. God Bless you Marcus.
@lichiacoleman2997
5 жыл бұрын
I thank you a million times over. You have been a blessing to me and I tell the world about you. I forward this to someone who is hurting right now.
@buffhotchkiss7400
5 жыл бұрын
Powerful. God gives us the power of discernment. Resist the devil and he will flee. God gave us free will. If we do not forgive others god will not forgive us.. we are responsible for our..
@brendaalexander4285
4 жыл бұрын
This is so soooo truth. The BEST advice ever. Omgooodness. Ive said so much of the SAME things. I’ve gotta share this. WOW. WOW. WOW.!!! Tks.😊
@ilovejesusshorpe8176
5 жыл бұрын
Real talk, Brother Marcus! Holy Spirit at work again through you.
@TheGlossyLife222
5 жыл бұрын
Yes Lord!! You’re telling the absolute truth!!!
@genneanwilliamsshepherd8689
5 жыл бұрын
Amen Amen Thank You Jesus. Brother Marcus Thank You For The Confirmation. HALLELUJAH
@MrSonnyblack23
5 жыл бұрын
You are wise beyond your years Marcus. What a great message!
@accountabilitychangepeace777
5 жыл бұрын
I’m having a issue with forgiveness but I’m not bitter or angry toward anyone but myself.I should’ve known better but didn’t do better.This is a breath of country air.I needed to hear it.Thank you Marcus always on time 🙌🏾🙏🏽
@davidjonathannn950
4 жыл бұрын
I’m the same way
@luvvliyah4036
4 жыл бұрын
The more you try to control the situation the more it controls you
@DavidPerez-fx6nm
5 жыл бұрын
Amen...Amen! I've been talking about this topic for over a week to my single friends. I've been holding on for 36 years. .Married to my high school girl friend. Marriage works! Don't give up guys. God wants to bless you.
@oceanrosethatsailsacrossth3466
5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@PennTripletGirls
5 жыл бұрын
Your words are right on point. I have been married for 32 years and I tell people that marriage is work and partnership.
@dustyundercoverlocation911
5 жыл бұрын
Forgive your enemy always because haterate breeds bitterness and that what makes you feel bad and will destroy you in the end ❗🙏god bless us.
@lalavargo
5 жыл бұрын
I was disobedient. I hardened my heart to the voice of God. I leaned on my own understanding and married the father of my child despite consistent warnings from the Father to not do it. He knew it would fail, we weren't equally yoked. I Wanted her to have her dad all the time but didn't understand that the Lord could've provided me with 'Joseph', who may not have been her biological father but who would've been placed there by our Father's omnipotent knowledge and wisdom in knowing who she would've needed as a Father. I have never known pain like it BUT God is faithful and although the wilderness is painful, I put my trust in him and him alone.
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