The saddest situation is when a child has a narcissistic parent or parents and their behaviors are all the child knows when it comes to love. As they grow they accept narcissist as friends and intimate partners. I’m so happy to see awareness being shared about this topic. I believe narcissistic abuse is the most horrific experience and the cycle will continue with different faces until a person is educated on what is happening to them ❤
@MT-tx7bu
10 ай бұрын
Agree! You hit the nail on the head. Educating yourself and taking time to get to know someone before committing.
@proverbs3126
10 ай бұрын
your comment describes me to a tee. so grateful for the information I have learned from Dr. Ramani!!!
@11jreeves
10 ай бұрын
I really look forward to her new book. In the meantime, the book “Narcissistic Fathers: How To Deal with a Toxic Father and PTSD” by Caroline Foster put it all into perspective for me in addition to Dr. Ramani’s You Tube videos.
@markbarbaramichenzi3957
10 ай бұрын
My mother is a narcissist and I just kept attracting these people into my life. It's been a very painful journey for me but I'm educating myself at 60.
@nancysmith3400
10 ай бұрын
Soooooooo helpful, thank you. We have the opportunity to learn about this personality type now. Trump is offering the opportunity of a lifetime for the MASTER CLASS in learning the skills to deal with a narcissist. Time to wake up out of the coma of the games they play on the mind. We can do this !!! Thank you so much Dr. ROMANI💗🙏👍🤗
@lorianne4608
10 ай бұрын
I’ve been following Doctor Ramini for years. She’s gotten me through the worse years of my life. Narcissists are real + everything she says is true. She’s been my rock
@shelmie5
10 ай бұрын
Same here
@mm7846
10 ай бұрын
💯
@alicepantina9492
10 ай бұрын
Me too
@In.the.darkness_there_is_light
10 ай бұрын
💯 Dr R has helped me stay sane just from KZitem videos alone. ❤her. Mad respect for her
@katkatsanis
10 ай бұрын
Yes - same! I’ve been watching her KZitem videos for a while now and gleaning a lot of wisdom from them. I’m so happy that they had her on the show! ❤
@dreamqueen317
10 ай бұрын
Having a parent that’s a narcissist is really tough.
@NotTheVibe
10 ай бұрын
it is. i feel almost numb to it but it’s a painful numbness. i thought my childhood was normal and i was just weak or something. looking back at it with adult eyes is almost too much to handle
@shelmie5
10 ай бұрын
It’s is, I feel like I’ve been mistreated my whole life. I didn’t even learn how to love myself. 😔
@elysianfields8461
10 ай бұрын
@@shelmie5❤
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
OP: You're tellin' ME!!!
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
When I found-out, I felt my entire life, was a lie. I felt so unbelievably lost---I couldn't see how I would ever find my way, back "home", so to speak.
@mariafarley7602
8 ай бұрын
Best advice my therapist gave me was: “ You can love someone (parent, sibling, etc) but not have a relationship with them.”
@shelmie5
10 ай бұрын
It’s about time this woman is spreading her knowledge of narcissism across national television
@annjohnson8437
10 ай бұрын
Yes! Dr. Ramani is the best! ❤
@munchey99508
10 ай бұрын
Dr Ramani has been speaking about narcissism for years.
@yellowiris123
10 ай бұрын
Dr. Ramani has a KZitem channel.
@lostundgefunden8023
10 ай бұрын
they shoulda brought out Jada Pinkett-Smith as a live example in the flesh as a demo
@heydomanders
10 ай бұрын
I was able to interview Dr. Ramani for a show years ago, she’s the real deal!
@Amersboo
10 ай бұрын
Narcassism is out of control and these people shouldn't be in society, abusing people and causing them physical and mental health problems for life. But it's not as simple as "I met a jerk." No... these people are coverts, often. Disguised as humble sweet people who manipulate and spin you in emotional circles.
@sarahs5340
10 ай бұрын
Well said, I agree. They will destroy your life and your health.
@travalintrailer
10 ай бұрын
For sure.
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
Truer words, have not been spoken!!!
@sweet2sourr
10 ай бұрын
Like Dr Ramani?
@Sandra-fc8pc
10 ай бұрын
You notice when they stay on their own topic for too long, and do not really like your topics of conversation, and show it..
@NancyBrown1975
10 ай бұрын
Dr. Ramani is an excellent expert on narcissism.
@sweet2sourr
10 ай бұрын
An excellent narcissist
@JulietMartin2022
10 ай бұрын
Dr. R should have been on the show with Jada. Now that would have been incredibly insightful.
@deanvo503
10 ай бұрын
@sweet2sour-bpd are u hurt, honey?
@aktchungrabanio6467
10 ай бұрын
No, she's right. Ramani is also one of the crew@@deanvo503
@mulkahajagun-ogunleye8963
9 ай бұрын
She's my mentor ❤
@jilldufresne8903
10 ай бұрын
Having an adult daughter who is a narcissist is so hard.
@heidiveronica
10 ай бұрын
Having narcissists in one’s life is so very tough. I’m thankful it’s being talked about more. 🙏🏻
@gwg216
7 ай бұрын
Sure its good that awareness is being created..... I also talk to my 10 year old kid about this kind of things, i think the early they know the better so they don't fall victim of this narc monsters 👹
@Itsgrantsrants
10 ай бұрын
I lvoe Dr. Ramani! She's brilliant. Today should have her on regularly.
@hairdresser1300
10 ай бұрын
yes!!!
@JulietMartin2022
10 ай бұрын
Dr. R should have been on the show with Jada.
@Selesel1981
10 ай бұрын
I 1,000% ended up in a relationship with a narcissist because i was raised by one. I assumed the emotional and physical abuse was normal. The narcissist i spent 16 years with just took over where my mother left off abusing me. He used me financially and emotionally. I am absolutely traumatized by what they both put me thru. I’m so glad people like dr ramani exist or i would be in such a horrible hole of depression and anxiety.
@LainieB
10 ай бұрын
I'm sorry you were traumatized, but you WILL heal in time, and the best part is that you got out, which is the 1st step to regaining control over yourself, your emotions & feelings. So, kudos to you!
@suzanne4396
9 ай бұрын
Same. Exactly. Raised by a physically abusive narc father. I thought it was normal. So, of course I repeated the pattern over & over again. This last one -- whew -- he was absolutely the worst;(he) almost ended my life!! But, also " Thanks to him" I went into trauma-informed therapy these past two years, got away from him and am healing all of my childhood wounds 😊
@lastjob2011
10 ай бұрын
I finally began to feel like I wasn't going crazy, when I started researching narcissism on KZitem, and I saw the 1940s movie Gaslight. I finally understood how truly wicked my former husband was. I knew I was on to something when he searched my KZitem history, and started talking me about the bad information on KZitem. I haven't seen him in 9 years. Bliss.
@coffeewiththeunknown8302
10 ай бұрын
Congratulations Dr Ramani in being in the today show!
@lifestylebyrachel
10 ай бұрын
In 2016 I left my narcissist after a 17 year relationship. At the time I wasn’t educated but once I found out about narcissistic personality disorder my life made perfect sense. I ignored red flags, a term not even in my vocabulary. I tried so hard and loved this man very much to the point that I forgave abuse over and over again. I am now 59. I was widowed at age 35 and he came into my life as a hero and adopted my sons. I put him on my deed (for no equity) and business. I had to buy my own home and business from this man. I would be further along in my healing but when I left him he told my oldest son that his birth father may not be his real father and that I stole his college savings. Both complete lies. Sadly, I have not seen my son in 3 years. Our family is shattered and I am forever heartbroken. Thankfully I do have loving relationships with my other 2 children but the situation hurts them as well. Thank you Dr. Ramani you have taught me so much.
@NotTheVibe
10 ай бұрын
my heart goes out to you, friend. you are strong and kind and there are real people who really care for you unlike this freak
@texkit1
10 ай бұрын
Don’t forget the covert narcissist who try very hard to hide their narcissism from you. Are their signs, yes but they are very subtle. I think the biggest red flag to any narcissist is they move very fast. Always take any new relationships slowly. No matter how much they try to sweep you off your feet. Set boundaries. Trust your instincts and don’t ignore the red flags no matter how small. Educate yourselves on narcissism. Don’t just settle for anyone just because you are lonely. We all deserve better.
@MG-ot2yr
10 ай бұрын
Sounds like what happened to me but got out of the relationship sooner. I was widowed at age 36, and shortly after a long time work associate of my late husband poured on the charm and started asking me out. For the first six months, he was amazing and focused on everything he knew I enjoyed, then the chaos started, constant cycles of triggering an emotional reaction, which started with breaking dates for ridiculous reasons, then a few days later I got a sob story on money he owes the IRS.....so that was the hint to lend him money and things would return to normal. Then he'd withhold all those things he knew I enjoyed until I complied with his demands. At any rate, I never did loan him any money, while I ignored many red flags I didn't ignore that one. Never married him, he had subtly suggested that as well.
@intercat4907
9 ай бұрын
Ouch. Mine took one of the kids too. I don't want to give false hope, but adults do review their childhoods and figure it out. Whether that happens in your family or not - and whether your son ever tells you he figured it out - you are not alone and you did NOTHING wrong to deserve that.
@lorettanericcio-bohlman567
10 ай бұрын
Love Dr Ramani! Rocks it
@ljrockstar69
10 ай бұрын
Be one the look out for these people! Do not ignore the red flags! Be vigilant! I'm glad this out in the forefront to expose these fools!!
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
Not "fools"; they are incredibly crafty---they're demons!!!
@barbara5495
10 ай бұрын
My ex-husband's famous comment every time we had a disagreement was "the problem is..." And of course, the problem was always something I said or didn't say, did or didn't do. It was never him. And when we did have 'discussions' it was always him lecturing me, it was never an open evenly discussed conversation. So glad I'm out of that relationship. I have 2 children with him and finally after all these years, my youngest is finally seeing him for who he is.
@SinaLaJuanaLewis
10 ай бұрын
When they are in your family it's worse😢
@danika9448
10 ай бұрын
Love Dr. Ramani. 🙏 In my view, narcissism is not just a “personality style”, it’s a maladaptation for getting a person’s needs met. When I encounter narcissism, I remember that they are extremely insecure and sensitive underneath, but I don’t allow any type of personal relationship to develop with them. I keep everything very superficial and limit the exchange. You cannot win with these people.
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
🎯
@karlabritfeld7104
10 ай бұрын
Insecure and controlling, yes. Sensitive, no.
@cdow9032
10 ай бұрын
It would be a sad story, but they know what they are doing when they are abusing you, so they get no sympathy for me. Do not let these monsters fool you, they'd just as soon cause you pain, and get off on it as look at you.
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
@@karlabritfeld7104 Sensitive, in regard to what happens, to them---NOT sensitive, in regard to what happens to others, or what they do to others.
@BobbiGail
9 ай бұрын
WISE. Very wise.
@ChrisPolg
10 ай бұрын
She has helped me find so much peace. She is incredible.
@bienfaitmboni
10 ай бұрын
me too man, got out of a 3 years of toxic relationship, and I have her to thank
@sarahs5340
10 ай бұрын
Such a timely and important topic. Narcissism and sociopathy need to be discussed even more than they are now because it is a public health and safety issue. We need coercive control laws like they have in the UK.
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
It's a friggin' epidemic!!!
@karlabritfeld7104
10 ай бұрын
How's that going to work?
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
@@karlabritfeld7104 I know you weren't talking to me, but I just wanted to throw my two cents, in.... Maybe, laws against bullying?
@MT-tx7bu
10 ай бұрын
If you are a giving person, a person who sincerely cares about your feelings and the feelings of others. If you were raised to learn how to navigate your feelings and to feel open enough and safe enough to share them and expect others to do the same (because you do), that's when you become the supply for them. Doctor Ramani is amazing.
@bornreadyproductions
10 ай бұрын
Since you have a reputation for seeing the best in people, they will use this against you knowing you will tolerate their abuse with the hopes that you can get them to change or see the error of their ways. It will not happen. You cannot win or change them as long as they have any connection with (power over) you.
@rhondabloom5518
10 ай бұрын
Having dr Ramini I on your show is brilliance. I love her. She should be a regular
@JJM92023
10 ай бұрын
2 Timothy 3:2 “For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,” -We're living in the last days people! Jesus is coming back. Will you be ready!?!
@jacksonthedoggy
10 ай бұрын
Dr. Ramani has helped me so much. Finding her videos during COVID changed my life.
@imalwaysright
10 ай бұрын
She’s very good, and “It’s Not You” is the perfect book title
@cereal_qilla
9 ай бұрын
“You want to know what triggers a narcissist more than anything else? Reality”
@gwg216
7 ай бұрын
True reality makes them sick to the core and makes them feel ashamed. I often face my mother with reality no sugarcoating
@cdow9032
10 ай бұрын
My therapist used to ask me "why would you go to a place where you feel worse than where you are now?" I stopped going to family holidays, and focussed on my own family- my son, dil and grchildren. I felt so much better. Before my Son was married and started his family, there were Holidays I spent alone. It was sad that I had a family that had driven me to that decision, but I was much happier, and they were crazier for it 😂 I mean, how do they function without a scapegoat? 🎉
@kimlogan1278
9 ай бұрын
I do the same thing now. Spend holidays alone, and you know what, it doesn't even bother me. I can't stand EVIL people.
@intercat4907
9 ай бұрын
Totally approve of the idea of being a moving target. Happy holidays!
@robinj7558
10 ай бұрын
= Donald Trump
@leilagomulka5690
10 ай бұрын
She is my healing guru.
@Sophia-yo9rp
10 ай бұрын
Wonderful to see Dr Ramani on your show. Her videos have helped me in ways I can't even express. Thank you.
@rg-mi5hh
10 ай бұрын
Dr. Ramini is on youtube. Have learned so much from her.
@Dizfan
10 ай бұрын
I was in a situation after my Family & I suffered a tragic loss and...that ex-friend was very jealous of the situation & the attention(With other friends & family)along with how they thought I should of Grieved. I dealt with it for 2 very long years & I decided to end it & we don't speak or see each other at all till this very day.
@lorianne4608
10 ай бұрын
Can’t you help but wonder about what these people are thinking!! Something awful happens + they become jealous about the attention you’re getting as a result of the event. Would they have rather the event have happen to themselves?? They are terrible people who enjoy others’ suffering. They dismiss you as if you’re not worthy of their time or attention. They are sick demented evil beings who only want to cause others pain + grief. They don’t care about anyone but themselves
@Ughforducksake
10 ай бұрын
Soon to be ex husband is a covert narcissist and it was destroyed me. Finally healing from a decade of trauma
@EdenGrace2022
10 ай бұрын
Same here!! It took 5 years to get divorced and lost my son in the process! I did make it and am ok and stronger today! And no, You are not crazy like they like to tell you! Destroying you is their goal!! Hang in there!! I have lived through stalking and lies and emotional blackmail!! You can survive!
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
I'm recovering from 5 decades of trauma---you can do it !!! ❤
@meg7699
10 ай бұрын
To everyone who wonders how there are so many narcissists around us. We are a country who is lead by narcissistic people, watch reality shows of narcissistic women, and then loose hours of our day generating our narcissistic social media posts……. This isn’t likely to decrease any time soon.
@NotTheVibe
10 ай бұрын
my gut tells me it’s going to come to a head for some reason because something has got to give
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
@@NotTheVibe🙏
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
We are a country of people tellin' their kids, they are special; then, the kids go out into the world thinking they are entitled to the same special treatment, from everybody else.
@hollystiener16
10 ай бұрын
I don't think it is really about that. It is that there are so many bad parents. This is where NPD stems from.
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
@@hollystiener16 🎯
@brandiesstudio
7 ай бұрын
I’m thrilled Dr. Ramani is making this life-changing info. mainstream. She got me through when I didn’t think I could survive it.
@marjoriepreston8546
10 ай бұрын
Oh yes. As Covid restrictions were easing up, I went to a restaurant with a friend, with others to join us shortly. The server said we had to wait to be seated as a group -- some kind of pandemic thing. Instantly, my friend was seething, spitting profanities and treating the server with contempt. Eventually I realized that rage is her default setting. That anger was directed at me a few times, and she is now my ex-friend.
@cindee1794
10 ай бұрын
All of the comments I've seen pertain to family members or romantic partners. My one and only co-worker is a narcissist and she makes my life a nightmare. I finally reached my breaking point and had a very productive conservation with our boss about her just this morning.
@ithacacomments4811
10 ай бұрын
My 93 year old mother passed in 2023. I felt numb. I felt relief. She was so needy and childlike her entire life...my entire life. As her oldest daughter, I was there to meet her evey need ...in her mind.
@bkirstie
10 ай бұрын
i hope you can heal and learn to have your own needs. separate from others. it’s the most important thing in my opinion for those that had been abused.
@dvawva5197
10 ай бұрын
Wow. My mother completely consumed my entire life up until I married; then? I needed help with a health crisis and she quite easily ignored my need, executed decisions that made my situation worse, and now? I’m free and SHE’S the victim. What? Yes. Her controlling hatred turned on HER!
@LynnSandler-j9k
10 ай бұрын
WoW
@BobbiGail
9 ай бұрын
Enmeshment. Heaps of guilt that sucks the life out of a person. It's bananas to be held so responsible for someone else.
@Mister_Listener
8 ай бұрын
I am so sorry. You were robbed. I hope you can go on to create loving situations and find nice people to spend time and create memories with. Thats the only cure when you have been robbed of kindness and guidance parents should be providing. Hugs.
@rdr6686
10 ай бұрын
This woman helped my partner deal with a narcissist at his workplace. A wonderful lady!!!
@annap9441
10 ай бұрын
She is just amazing ❤ forever grateful for her work
@seaglasscolor
10 ай бұрын
We love Dr. Ramani!
@lpmowgs2425
10 ай бұрын
This is SUCH an important topic and deserves a lot more attention. Narcissistic abuse is so pervasive in our society. It’s often the victims that get blamed because narcissists are so charming.
@pamelac.5600
10 ай бұрын
I'm not having to deal with my narc mom, I went no contact with her years ago. What's hard is dealing with the flying monkeys!! i.e. my siblings who support the narc.
@AllTheStatus
10 ай бұрын
I hope many people benefit from this as well as her KZitem channel and other books. She is so knowledgeable and genuinely wants people to be able to manage narcissists in her life. So glad she got this exposure.
@MeeLii2024
10 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr. Ramani!
@dianeb95
10 ай бұрын
The timing of this is absolutely spooky: I was literally just told last night by my 83 year old narcissistic mother that “well, you’re just not the daughter I thought you would be” even though I have spent the last several years doing everything I could to care for her & my dad (deceased 2 years ago now) during & after both of my sisters went through cancer treatments & died (younger sister died a year ago). I’m relieved that I’m not spending the holiday with her & my alcoholic brother-in-law who is her dependent leech.
@A.Rose.G
9 ай бұрын
Well, she's just not the mother you thought she would be.
@dianeb95
9 ай бұрын
@@A.Rose.G I had a similar thought later that night, but I’m glad I didn’t say it to her as it would put me down on her level & I’m trying not to be that mean. But I’m afraid if I’m with her too much I won’t be able to hold my tongue.
@A.Rose.G
9 ай бұрын
@@dianeb95 yeah .. that would be yelling. Oh... You're always the victim, I'm the worse mother in the world. But know we see it at least. ♥️
@lavidamia9
10 ай бұрын
Love to see Dr. Ramani! Please bring her back ❤
@donnah4643
10 ай бұрын
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10 ай бұрын
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@janeking4059
9 ай бұрын
Was in relationship with a narcissist for 35 years...not knowing what narcissistic behavior was ..I was raised back in the 60 and 70s...where you OBEYED U PARENTS! DIDN'T HAVE A VOICE! SO THOUGHT MY SPOUSE BEHAVIOR WAS NORMAL...HENCE I STAYED AS LONG AS I DID 😭😭😭 At 68 suffering with all kinds of medical issues...due to that stress/trauma...coz I also felt TRAPPED... PUTTING UP WITH THIS ABUSER ALL THOSE YEARS!!!
@LoraJaneScudder
10 ай бұрын
I was raised by a narcissistic step parent who raised my sister to be same way. Always the victim and everyone else is always to blame. They maliciously cut me out of their life and blamed me for everything. No accountability and no remorse for hurting me so deeply. Although I’ll always miss my sister, I’m glad I no longer have to walk on eggshells around her. Wish them the best but I am done. In a way, I’m glad they did what they did because I would’ve continued to be hurt. I never would have cut them out. I’d be continuing to bend over backwards to make them happy and it never would be good enough.
@rasat4829
10 ай бұрын
Sounds like Donald Trump! Hehehehe!
@Bella.2424.
10 ай бұрын
Still living rent free in your head then DemocRAT 🐀😂
@imalwaysright
10 ай бұрын
@@Bella.2424.you mean the way Obama , Biden and Hilary, liberals, lefties live rent free in Frump’s mind and all his silly fangirl cult members and grifters
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
@@Bella.2424.😂😂😂
@annabanzon313
9 ай бұрын
If u hold a narc accountable for how they treat others, they will run.
@ericb8413
10 ай бұрын
Dr Ramani, you are awesome!!!! So happy other people on TV will see you and benefit from your wisdom. You are my favorite You Tube channel. You’ve saved my sanity🎉🎉🎉
@jungersrules
10 ай бұрын
They Hoda & Jenna, you had a classic example yesterday with Paris Hilton.
@ariellepoetry8299
10 ай бұрын
Also leaving a narcissist can trigger them to become obsessed and to stalk you. They make fake social media accounts/ fake phone numbers. There can be a very dangerous side to their personality. Stay safe and remain no contact. The less reactive you are to them - the better.
@fabiatrump8734
8 ай бұрын
Yes, this! My narcissist ex stalked me for almost a year after I left him. He constantly called my place of work, asking to speak with me. My bosses never handed me the phone but his behavior got me fired. He would send cards and letters to my PO Box. He would call and text me from various phone numbers. I wasn’t on social media back then (2008), but I’ve since created a few accounts and have had to block him there, since all these years later, he’s STILL trying to get to me.
@owenbeharry8478
10 ай бұрын
Both my parents were/is narcissistic parents. To the fact where they were having affairs with each other behind their spouses back. Saw my mom on Thanksgiving after months of not talking to her. I went into to it with no expectations while creating emotional boundaries.
@brittany0616
10 ай бұрын
This is so true. I had a manager that is a narcissist
@hairdresser1300
10 ай бұрын
that had to be awful
@bonniegivens3013
10 ай бұрын
My life right now, and not sure what to do about it.
@lovepeaceunique3905
9 ай бұрын
I work in a mental health clinic the director and office manager are both narcissist’s bipolar, and one of them has OCD, I’m their bouncing ball. They don’t intimidate me. it makes me happy peaceful that I’m going to work everyday grateful that help a lot trust me. & I LOVE my job so much 💗
@jessicac9808
10 ай бұрын
Please bring Dr. Ramani back to spread awareness about covert narcissism. This is much harder to spot and often more damaging than overt behavior. As a society, we have to stop enabling these patterns of manipulation and encourage treatment. I'm thrilled to see Dr. Ramani on your show, thank you.
@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l
10 ай бұрын
My mother and sister half my friends and coworkers. Ex bf's. Best way to quietly leave. No contact. Grey rock untill you escape.
@makaylahollywood3677
7 ай бұрын
Get this Book. Send it to your daughters and sons going off to college. But, read it first yourself. Give it to your best friend. This book is personal, validating, healing.
@cdow9032
10 ай бұрын
Took me years to heal, find the person I was supposed to be, and then go NO Contact with the birthmother ,and GCS, who is possibly even more sick and conniving. I found Dr. Ramani during therapy, and cont. to learn and protect myself. I adore this lady! ❤
@intercat4907
9 ай бұрын
Hi. I know your post is 4 weeks old, but it's a good post on an important topic. I'm stuck though - GCS? Glascow Coma Scale? Gender Confirmation Surgery? Sort me out please. Thanks.
@BrooklynnAlexx
10 ай бұрын
Love Dr Ramani and _Synful! 🙌🏻
@myriammondesir3791
10 ай бұрын
That's Trump 100%
@mariposa1933
8 ай бұрын
She is a lifesaver! ❤ Bless her. It is over used and misinterpreted for sure. I come from a truly narcissistic mother who ended up raising my youngest sister to be too. I’m an empath so it was tough especially when I woke up. Now that I’m older, happy successful she has turned mean and ugly towards me. I pray for both of them.
@andrewcicchetti
10 ай бұрын
The other way we can talk about narcissistic abuse is as coercive control.
@DesertLifeCooks
10 ай бұрын
This is such Great advice! Perfect for right before the holidays. We all have someone like this at the dinner table and Dr. Ramani Durvasula gave some Amazing advice. 🥰💞👍🏻
@dianeb3973
10 ай бұрын
Her interview seemed more about the grandiose narcissist. Have her back for another interview on the covert narcissists... the evil narcs.
@delilahdaily83
10 ай бұрын
I deal with this my parents are the worst narcissists and i dont agree with you i didnt enjoy the holiday in my own home for many many years i say distance yourself for your own happiness no go and deal with them with realistic expectations i say you dont go at all and enjoy yourself with people you want to be around even if its family dont deal with it anymore
@pascalbro7524
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for having Dr Ramani on!
@themadwomanskitchen9732
10 ай бұрын
Congratulations, Doctor! I've been watching her for years and her insights are SO valuable?
@cleanqueen75
10 ай бұрын
Does a narcissist behaviors go along with pathological lying?
@cathybrown4102
10 ай бұрын
Yes. I am married to a narcissist and he is a pathological liar. I have learned to believe about half of the things he tells me
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
Yes---if they're exhaling, they're lying!!
@Gagalover1569
10 ай бұрын
I think that host needs some education on gaslighting if she thinks her children are gaslighting her. They’re testing you. They don’t actually know what they’re doing. That was a little strange I thought.
@kj7653
2 ай бұрын
It sounded more like they are lieing and every one thinks it is funny. They are pushing boundaries, trying to see how much they can get away with. But no one is correcting that behavior. They are rewarded with attention and laughter. It is all a big joke. So they will continue to lie and think that is how to treat others.
@08jkhnor
8 ай бұрын
I love this women, thank you for all your work, you are doing the lord's work
@2choosewisely2
9 ай бұрын
at what point does the 'behaving differently' register in the narcissist? envy? jealousy? when they see someone more attractive than them? that is when they really lose their cool when someone more attractive a 'bigger narcissist' than they themselves appears, right?
@Mm1233m
10 ай бұрын
Dr Ramini!! ❤
@dyoung2739
9 ай бұрын
I love Dr Ramani❤. Been following her for a few years. I thank 45 for helping more of us to focus on narcissism.
@anovosedlik
10 ай бұрын
I'm in this. Remember: it can turn from emotionally to physically abusive. And really, really scary.
@sippinonchamomile
10 ай бұрын
She helped me understand it wasn’t me and I’m finally free. Thank you so much ❤️
@IndigoRocs
9 ай бұрын
Dr. Ramani is a lifesaver. Not only does she teach you how to identify and deal with the narcissist. She helps survivors of narcissistic abuse to forgive themselves and rebuild their lives.
@evelynpasqua6968
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for bringing her in. She sets some good examples for everyone. It’s a good way to be aware of what a narcissist does to a person and how to get away from it. It’s better to get out of the situation in order to save your life.
@amber_love5
10 ай бұрын
I am not going through all of what this lady is talking about. If somebody is not making me happy and healthy I don’t care who you are. I don’t care if your mom, dad, Friend, cousin I’m not coming to yo get together or nothing I’m not going there for a few minutes to make you happy or nothing I will stay home I will make other plans. Kids are not my kids don’t have to understand that we’re not going there because it’s not happy healthy and safe for me because even though you have these tips everybody can’t handle that so it’s bound to be a family member or somebody is going to get into it, so why even go I’m at walking on eggshells or doing none of that extra stuff only way I’m doing it is if it’s for my children if they were narcissist
@bkirstie
10 ай бұрын
thanksgiving- DO NOT GO! you ain’t obligated to do anything.
@Askalott
10 ай бұрын
Lol Kudos to Dr. Ramani for calling out Jenna saying her kids are gaslighting her. That’s an insane thing to say. In fact, that’s something a narcissistic parent would say. I mean, her dad is George Bush so that’s not surprising at all.
@suzzitutu
9 ай бұрын
As Dr. Laura says, “Everyone has narcissistic tendencies.” Watching these videos is good to help oneself, but people need to stop going around and pointing their finger at everyone screaming, narcissist.
@soleilmoonguy6618
9 ай бұрын
Great topic
@lynn7392
10 ай бұрын
My boss is a narcissist. Luckily for our team, he's stepping down in the new year.
@jenniferregan4428
10 ай бұрын
When it's a PARENT: DEVISTATING.
@catwhisperer9489
10 ай бұрын
Been there---got a crappy T-shirt !!!
@DavidHamster88
10 ай бұрын
Great tips from the always helpful Dr Ramani. And perfect timing right before the holidays. Thank you!
@quyennguyen9797
10 ай бұрын
What if that narcissist is my mother in law and I can't just cut her out of my (or my husband's) life? I'm practicing setting boundaries between her and my children. Every conversation is about her. Whenever she interacts with my children, even when I'm there, she has to be the most important, the best, the one solving all their problems. I've been through postpartum depression twice with my 2 kids and didn't realize the impacts of her behaviors on me until now. I've also been seeing a therapist so I'll share with her what I've heard in this video. Thanks for this!
@jungersrules
10 ай бұрын
I'm glad I'm an introvert and don't really care if you're charming. The second I see entitlement behavior I'm out. I'm alone but not lonely. Well, it might be tougher if the person is smart and funny as those are my draws.
@bkirstie
10 ай бұрын
TRUMP
@jt2553
10 ай бұрын
The hosts need to listen instead of interrupting the speaker.
@Justmeeeee813
10 ай бұрын
Dr. Ramani in the HOUSE!!! Thank you!
@Periwinkleblue.
7 ай бұрын
1. "Narcissists at core are: Deeply insecure, like to be in control, Grandiose" 2. "Everything in relationship blamed on me, Took no accountability, severe lack of empathy..." 3. "Able to heal by surrounding myself with family, friends" 4. "you deserve unconditional love"
@TheGatortale
10 ай бұрын
NO CONTACT....PERIOD
@jeanettecastle7916
10 ай бұрын
I've lived with a narcissistic family for many years. I feel confident when I say, Dr. Ramani is the foremost authority on narcissisim. The knowledge I've gained from her has helped keep me alive. I am feeling my own self worth after many years.
@LaurieLT88
10 ай бұрын
Me too. I was able to discard. I now have a peaceful life. Not the scapegoat any more.
@erikavaleries
10 ай бұрын
Dr Ramani is life saving
@darcyswanson7287
9 ай бұрын
Omg, they are impossible. Run.....😅
@itzelcontreras1899
7 ай бұрын
I wish I would’ve listened to Dr. Ramani before I married a narc. I didn’t see the red flags 🚩 for narcissism it would’ve saved me so much drama 😅.
@nikrosevca9294
9 ай бұрын
Narcissistic people should date each other and should be in their dating bio 😂😂😂
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