Bobby’s videos just make me laugh thinking about how the times ive gotten hot girls has always been when I showed little interest in them only because I didn’t think I was good enough for them. But then all the ones I’ve ever struck out with was when I showed too much interest and looked desperate.
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
very often the case.
@jesusbasketball8740
8 ай бұрын
9 inches makes all the difference…
@fonyterguson562
8 ай бұрын
@@jesusbasketball8740 👍Gross....
@jhamilton1007
7 ай бұрын
@jesusbasketball8740 Not, if you don't get to that point.
@kennethkunz2449
8 ай бұрын
Bobby, anyone that talks shit about you specifically, is full of horse paste. You talk wisdom and reason, anytime I've ever watched you. I am grateful for your even-handed, straight-forward demeanor and spiritual generosity, you have no doubt encouraged thousands. Go to it, good buddy, and push the world of honest men forward!
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
thanks for the comment, glad you're resonated with the videos and advice!
@nohaybando9586
8 ай бұрын
Nice sock puppet account Bobby.
@markpommett5712
8 ай бұрын
Put yourself first and you’ll stop caring.
@carpe_poon5761
3 ай бұрын
This was my fav video for sure. Keep things loose and creative, think outside the box and be imaginative like when you were a kid. Be confident and have fun. Take your wins humbly and handle your losses with class and stoicism.
@smiles7631
8 ай бұрын
I literally had this thought this morning that I am probably caring to much about what a woman thinks of me. Thank you for making this video right when I needed it.
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
glad it came at the right time!
@clevelandwilliams5922
8 ай бұрын
Indifference is key to not caring what people think of you, become focused & driven. That means you won’t put value into it.
@927tripp
8 ай бұрын
Bobby, You’ve upped your game in these videos. You didn’t resonate with me a year ago but i stumbled onto this one today and your delivery and subject matter was just spot on. I’m now a convert. Thanks for the good words. Keep it up brother.
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
thanks, glad you checked out another video.
@georgeks173
8 ай бұрын
Watch Bobby for years, never disappoints. Delivers every single time!
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
glad you're finding the videos helpful.
@shreyraj2298
8 ай бұрын
Got any girls? 😂
@tripletflamesrainbowstarpeople
8 ай бұрын
The first day this video came out, I didn’t watch this video because I didn’t give a f***, and I went to sleep. Watching this video today, I’ve realized that I understood the whole point of the video in the first place 😆
@umairahmad256
3 ай бұрын
Bobby, you are very good at dissecting a woman's brain (mind). I have learnt a lot from you when I correlate some of my recent experiences with your suggestions.
@christopherwilliams477
2 ай бұрын
You are so wise beyond your years!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@smithdave712
7 ай бұрын
Hey!Bobby I'm from India i recently started to watching your videos and i feel like i done few things like what you said in your videos like Ignoring girl, chasing by her & I'm successfully done!👍
@Bluntobject
8 ай бұрын
Makes a lot of sense. Listening to him makes me realize that I had a lot of bad mind juju going into things in the past. I had a tendency to think of all the reasons why someone wouldn't go out with me before even asked.
@maboleth
3 ай бұрын
This is not only true but REALLY helpful to regain or retain your sanity. So guys, listen to Bobby here, you'll find peace while still maintaining connections to those that are interested in you.
@benhulme2863
8 ай бұрын
The girls ASMR is actually quite relaxing and stimulates Jonathan wild.
@thelifeofalii333
8 ай бұрын
I love you how say at the end if you wanna talk shit about me leave a comment 😂😂. Legend
@xzavierramos
8 ай бұрын
he doesn't miss! always helpful advice
@ireland278
8 ай бұрын
True 👍 😂😅 i got one rejection in 1 month, twice ghosted, and 3 girls im dating, getting what i wants 😂, i don't gives f... take the risk 😅, i also rejected 1 girl, im 39
@jamesmarchetti3286
8 ай бұрын
The No is a good thing and I appreciate their honesty !!!
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
its all about learning and improving and pushing yourself outside your comfort zone
@brian5682
8 ай бұрын
4:47 facts stop giving it any meaning and push it out your head, don't think about it.
@michaeljeacock
8 ай бұрын
The part about feedback is very important. This is very good advice if you are needy but don't overcompensate! Remember to still be a good person and don't become a selfish a-hole. If you would do something for anybody (hold a door, say please and thank you etc) then yes, do it. If you are only doing it because you want her to like you (buy her drinks, agree with everything she says etc) then no, don't.
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
very true
@davidminassian9953
8 ай бұрын
I'm 58 my death around the corner, time to start not giving AF! Again.
@toddhammer5237
3 ай бұрын
I’m 55, I agree
@AlexPenn.DatingCoach
8 ай бұрын
Great video! Totally agree on the mindset shifts, especially embracing rejection as a part of the process. The quiz idea is genius-practical and actionable. Keep sharing the wisdom!
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
glad you found helpful!
@tedguy5612
8 ай бұрын
I’ve been learning a lot watching your videos recently. And I think you’re right, in the end it really doesn’t matter. A few months ago, I told a girl I’ve worked with for a years now that I never had the balls to ask out before, that I liked her in the worst possible way. And she had no response at all, at first it made things awkward considering I see her nearly everyday, but now it seems as if it never even happened.
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
yep! She was probably flattered.
@nohaybando9586
8 ай бұрын
Another fine comment from from a damn fine sock puppet account. You truly are an alpha.
@tedguy5612
8 ай бұрын
@@nohaybando9586 🤣😂😂???
@codewithluq
8 ай бұрын
Pretty solid advice and message here from Bobby.
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
glad you found helpful
@nohaybando9586
8 ай бұрын
Said the sock puppet account.
@afonsodeportugal
8 ай бұрын
This is probably your best video yet. Every single point is spot on!
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
really glad you found it helpful
@AshtonCDs
8 ай бұрын
This is super helpful! And the timing of this video is perfect! I needed this. Thank you!
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
glad it was helpful
@DivanGeorge
8 ай бұрын
Bobby Rio the best of the best....everytime i watch ur videos u just reminding me of all the mistakes i have made in my life ...and everytime before i go out there watch ur videos just for a reminder so excited...but there are few personal information wanna share with you...
@theroyalcrownedtiger2946
Күн бұрын
Thank You Bobby !
@Auraauraaura321
7 ай бұрын
Bob thank You for the advice
@davidhoj
6 ай бұрын
Confidence is always key
@terrywilliams2349
8 ай бұрын
This video was very helpful!! I needed this!!
@fmios
8 ай бұрын
Hey Bobby, just wanted to say that I watched like 100 videos of you last 3 months and also bought one programme. I am in my 30s, average looking and now dating 2 hot twins at the same time. They are 10+ years younger than me. It's like the highlight of my life haha Thank you for the tips! I will always recommend your videos to my buddies 😀
@fmios
8 ай бұрын
PS I can send you a picture of us 3 in a bar, if you let me know how 😀
@fmios
8 ай бұрын
@@Chris-mg9nwyeah, for sure. My lowest low was like 3 years ago. Life is a rollercoaster. But still, I cannot imagine how life can get any better from a dating perspective. Imagine dating 2 hot twins. Like, what more can I ask for? 😀 I didn't even have this on my to do list in life, maybe a threesome, but a threesome with twins. That's another level. So, I am very appreciative of what Bobby is sharing. Without his videos no way I would have made it.
@fmios
8 ай бұрын
@@Chris-mg9nw really? But then why you got notifications on for his videos? I think his advice works with extremely hot girls. For above average looking girls you cannot play these games. It might hurt them and backfire on you.
@fmios
8 ай бұрын
@@Chris-mg9nw yes, but you are making assumptions about me based on 3 comments. I am not even trying to attract hot girls. I am close to 40 years. These twins somehow appeared, then I checked online on how to progress and found Bobby. He basically confirmed that I should treat them respectfully but not put them on a pedestal. That's what I am doing and it's working because all other men around them go nuts over them 😅
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
Ignore Chris, he comments on every. single. video. I release, and has sent me over 1000 emails. He has issues. I wish him the best though.
@azizulhaq6197
6 ай бұрын
Nice information by Bobby Rio
@frankbarenbach6044
8 ай бұрын
Great video and thanks for the captions! 😊👍🏻
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
glad you found helpful!
@bobross1829
8 ай бұрын
Great advice and very true, especially after "college age". Yes, maybe if you are in high school or college where you are in social circles and it does kind of matter what people think of you, you maybe do not want to go up to the prettiest girl or one in your social circle with some kamikaze mindset. But after college, you must realize that many of the women you will see in bars or other places, you will never see them again. So who cares if they say no? Even on social media sites..how many people are you "friends" with from past jobs, social settings or even school that you ever see again unless you proactively try to get together with? If you ask out a girl and she says no..maybe you might run into her once in your life at some restaurant or party. Years later.
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
Probably true about high school, NOT about college. In college it matters less than anywhere else. Every one drunk, partying and making fools of themselves on a daily basis. I can remember drunkingly trying to kiss the presdient of a sorority on the dance floor in front of everyone and getting rejected. A few weeks later i hooked up with one of her friends. It really doesn't matter.
@bobross1829
8 ай бұрын
@@BobbyRio haha true, BUT you do see people around still all the time which can be intimidating for some guys with rejection.
@nkanyezimngadi4668
8 ай бұрын
Thanks Mr Rio❤
@theunethicalgamer08
8 ай бұрын
Uhhh really missing those old intros 😢 , by the way love the way you demonstrate human Psychology no one doesn’t describes so deeply like you ❤
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
glad you enjoyed the videos. I miss the old intro music too :)
@hiddensoldier352
2 ай бұрын
this gift for you ❤
@stevenlawrence5733
Ай бұрын
Great video
@snc6
8 ай бұрын
Nicely done !.....Good advice....Thanks!
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@qhew
8 ай бұрын
you support each argument point with logic. great, but logic alone is not enough. to change one’s mindset to a better one doesn’t come easily. these habits for “self preservation“ were formed over decades of life. funny how they become ingrained rather than adapt & evolve. i guess they are at a subconscious level. i admit to be able to “not care a f..k” seems a most attractive mindset for many of life’s situations. & one of the situations it should apply in is male female dynamics. also, like you say, the shorter your remaining life, the more important it becomes for quality of life. others comments like “you think too much” & “just be yourself“ (which i was told ages ago), come to mind. my only caveats to “not caring a f..k” would be “don’t set out to abuse others…. even if they abuse you first” & “don’t deliberately break the law”. great audio quality/volume by the way.
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
yes sometimes you have to go deeper and work on your 'self image'. Guided visualizations or the book PhschoCybernetics can help with that.
@gwanmoko4451
8 ай бұрын
So cool 😎
@robertambrosini8595
8 ай бұрын
your the greatest dating teacher bobbie thank you for sharing
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
thanks, glad you're finding the videos helpful.
@nayemprodhan5835
8 ай бұрын
That's Awesome
@bernardfilmore3875
4 ай бұрын
Cool that shit makes sense.
@ericvonhiest7808
8 ай бұрын
I don't normally reply on these videos, but so spot on! The reason why we are here today is because our ancestors acted! Do you think they gave a f**k? Great video - keep em up!
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
thanks for the comment. very true, sometimes my advice is "go caveman"
@KJuniorfied
8 ай бұрын
14:55 You're welcome. Save your time!
@YourePrivateDj
6 ай бұрын
This is stuff like the book Models from Mark Manson❤
@ryansettani9189
7 ай бұрын
I loved your videos before the 9.46 minute mark...... 'Im going to die soon" LMFAO im 53 and dying, WTF!! Great videos!!
@BobbyRio
7 ай бұрын
thanks, we all dying, as much as we try to push it out of our minds. glad you enjoyed!
@visionarybrushstroker7694
8 ай бұрын
When you’re the one, nobody will be able to tell you if you’re the one. You’ll just know it.
@mm-zn5hh
6 ай бұрын
What do you mean? Can you elaborate? Thank you.
@visionarybrushstroker7694
6 ай бұрын
@@mm-zn5hh when you know what and who you are nobody can tell you otherwise.
@luker1hutcher315
7 ай бұрын
Good stuff (apart from No.5...............bit morbid ! "One day", would sound better than "soon! " So i'll skip that one.)
@VivekKumar-fg4qc
8 ай бұрын
Great video. Really gonna use them To attract girls
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
awesome, test them out!
@keithschultz9406
8 ай бұрын
Great Advice:)))
@raphaeljames5313
8 ай бұрын
Boby could you please make a video on how to give a woman a balance of a mental challenge and showing her that you interested in her
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
we can def go deeper, but we have several videos that cover it here on the channel. This one provides a mix of technqiues: kzitem.info/news/bejne/rYCivYB3iqGAd6Q
@raphaeljames5313
8 ай бұрын
Thank you Bobby it helped mi out
@raphaeljames5313
8 ай бұрын
If possible please go deeper one day
@jonasis22
6 ай бұрын
💯
@rob2669
8 ай бұрын
Hey Bobby, great video except for point number 5 lol being 55 myself arrrrg but definitely reality...made me think... You've always given awesome advice, for me anyways. You made some comments about some discussing how you dress, how you talk? Funny thing who's the one with 8.3k views just on this video alone??? better yet who's the one with the large following...yeh not those criticizers ..😅 Thanks again for all the help you provide ..still trying to get point 5 out of my head😢😊🎉
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
lol, yea its a scary one. thanks for the commetnt, glad you're finding the videos helpufl.
@sohrab1990
6 ай бұрын
Ok, there is a problem. I told her 3,4 time to let's hangout , but she refused. So shouldn't i be afraid to ask her again ?
@maddog9180
25 күн бұрын
Move on
@nohaybando9586
8 ай бұрын
Damn Bobby you're looking good for 55, I can't believe you're still doing this at your age.
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
45 :), but thansk.
@juanalvares11
8 ай бұрын
Hi boby one quick question i have is when a girl that i am gaming and that i have at the gym is in front of me and is looking at me and while looking on me she than shifts the focus from me and geets a man behind me from afar doing it in a purposeful. Way what is thr meaning of this
@Raddadinkoreagaming
2 ай бұрын
Rio: “I’m gonna die soon” Me: wtf dude. I’M not! How about “you only live once”. 👍🏻
@BobbyRio
2 ай бұрын
lol
@jhamilton1007
6 ай бұрын
Ya, but what if you work work the girl?
@AshTheDuke
8 ай бұрын
Height matters i always get rejected 😅
@Michaelist8616
8 ай бұрын
😂
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
get elevator shoes
@AshTheDuke
8 ай бұрын
ok i will@@BobbyRio
@alexflips393
8 ай бұрын
You care less when you’re high value and have options.
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
very true
@stefanmolejo4578
8 ай бұрын
*777th!* 👍
@WilliamBrownson-w2e
8 ай бұрын
No need for me to take no quiz, Bobby-I already know that I suck, but, in any event, "you da man, Bobby" (with no disrespect intended for Rob, Jon, Chris, or Marni).
@BobbyRio
8 ай бұрын
glad you enjoying the vids!
@WilliamBrownson-w2e
8 ай бұрын
@@BobbyRio thanks, but you gotta get Marni to talk to me, I've tried everything I know and ...nothing, and I'm not a stalker or a creep or anything else bad like that, I just have one question for her. Forget what I said, because I actually do sound like some kind of creep in my head right now, but sometimes the jokes are pretty good, so, ?????
@WilliamBrownson-w2e
8 ай бұрын
Please disregard my last comment, as I was trying to convey a thought without coming off as a creep that was doomed to fail. What I was really trying to say is that I also like to get a female perspective on these issues for cross reference and sanity check reasons and I have found both perspectives valuable, often reinforcing and complementary, and so I invest in courses from each of you from time to time, and I know that I've never met her, but I just like her, and maybe it's because she just tells you what is on her mind and I don't feel that I would be so timid about elevating with sexual innuendo around her for that reason (I hate playing blind man with a cane), and talking about sex like it's no big deal doesn't seem to phase her, that I like, because I don't like having to worry about giving a class on how sex works, or offending her (what will the church elders say? etc), but whatever, just painted myself into a corner again, I'm just tired of playing the game I often never knew I was playing, that's all, but great stuff!, Bobby
@rogerdodger6025
5 ай бұрын
Then you punk him off for being too weak and needy.
@mehdiomid4284
8 ай бұрын
I’m in charge almost 3 years she keeps charging me we both working same street close to each other. Her family still testing when I go everywhere. I was 12 times court for first charge, already been all 15 times court for second charge. That’s my life still going court. That really hard for me. My job car flat my mental health I already lost all of them.
@mehdiomid4284
8 ай бұрын
Numbness,not eating not sleeping not feeling well most of the time stay home not going anywhere even shopping just exhausted. Can’t go anywhere because I’m still in charge can’t change location so each time she charges I have to go 12 times court that’s really frustrating
@mehdiomid4284
8 ай бұрын
No contact doesn’t work for me she’s have big family everywhere they text her so she knows what I’m doing in daily life I’m just 1 person single depressed and divorced young guy between big family, trying move country after my last court I think second charge going to be 12 court as well. 24 times court I’m only 33 years old.this page of my life I would never forget it’s really cold really dark sometimes I forget even drink water all day home going for walk just after sunset dark places that make me feel safe I’m running from people I never been like that I was so active not anymore unfortunately.
@mehdiomid4284
8 ай бұрын
All I know that’s very bad to test someone with charge the person when someone in charge that guy can’t control anything court going to be destroy and separated . And the girls not understanding the courtroom. After that If the guy doing anything it cost minimum 10 years jail. Girls live different world.
@mehdiomid4284
8 ай бұрын
She was fall in love with me I was fall in love with her but massive and disgusting family involved to our relationship it was great before family involved. After that everything changed they decided to charge for no reason or at least I don’t know for what reason. I’m trying to get better every single day it’s takes time for me to be back strong & normal. I’m trying. I can see the even small light like dot in the and of the this tunnel. That’s my life with my ex that was like my future wife. Unfortunately I’m so sad.
@tomaszwojciechowski7754
8 ай бұрын
:))
@D11111
8 ай бұрын
I don't care if you read or like my comment.
@katiakay
8 ай бұрын
Can i just say as a woman: men be needy, be needy. Pls. Ghosting ia a terrible idea. We love attention. Simple.
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