The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.
@MK-oj7eg
9 ай бұрын
Very very true!!!
@hens13
9 ай бұрын
No, the most painful thing is being an incel who never gets a chance with women at all. Trust me.
@kc270352
9 ай бұрын
@hens13 and who's fault is that? all you guys do is complain seriously, no helping you fools at all 🙄
@hens13
9 ай бұрын
@@kc270352 I’ve tried almost everything and never got a prayer. It’s like living in North Korea, even if you try your hardest the decision makers can keep you opressed the way women do to me.
@Kurio71
9 ай бұрын
You go girl
@mcp-kb8ut
9 ай бұрын
1.beauty aìnt shit 2.Ask the right questions 3.don't be a slave to pleasure 4.boys get upset 5.Don't play the game
@DanielLopez-dy1ul
9 ай бұрын
I've adopted this mentality. I've been at a point where I was constantly seeking several dates per week; the highs were high, but the lows were lower. It even caused to feel like I lost myself and I delved into depression. I got myself out though and I'm grinding hard. Also, I live in Boston and Barcelona Wine Bar is def a good date spot haha.
@blacktiger0095
9 ай бұрын
This actually really helped me realize something. Been dating this girl for the last 6 months and she broke it off a week ago after i got the feels for her and she said were on different paths; shes starting her business while i was getting settled into my cardiac monitor career at the hospital. I reckon she just wanted someone doing the same as her. Either way i wish her the best. I really liked her but she couldn't get past that i suppose, so close yet so far. Taking this hurt out by hitting the gym harder.
@MrWinn-bk5is
9 ай бұрын
I feel you man. Go out and meet new women. Hit her back up in 6 months 😉
@sevensevenalways7995
9 ай бұрын
No, she just didn't like you that much. Don't make excuses for her. Just think of it as her loss and move on. Yes, she might hit you up later, but presume she won't and plan accordingly. And if she does, feel justified, but think very hard before reciprocating. Life is too short for girls who sit on the fence for you. She had her chance. ✌
@theelam0fg0d
9 ай бұрын
Honestly bro, she thought she could do better, she thought she was better than you; and she's right, but also, being a cardiac monitoring technician isn't sexy. She wanted to be to smash freely and meet someone better. Just do you and get angry about it. It's not cause you're on 'different paths' that's bullshit.
@blacktiger0095
9 ай бұрын
@sevensevenalways7995 so true, I'm now actually making the most amount of money I've ever made right when she left, I never got to tell her but oh well. I really shouldn't take her back if she does come around, she didn't give me a chance to prove myself as I literally reshaped my life for the better and now I'm talking with a realtor to get my first house next year.
@yawillykwily7179
9 ай бұрын
Nothing personal buddy, she lost attraction for you or probably she was using for emotional tampon. In any case, good riddance, you can now learn from it and move on forward for something better. We've all been there.
@nick111655
9 ай бұрын
Very good!! I agree with all you said, the right one can enrich your life, the wrong one can totally destroy your life. A risky and dangerous journey till you find the right one. Even then many never do find the right one.
@steph50937
9 ай бұрын
As a guy who had about 4000 tinder women matches. He’s 100 percent correct on all his points. Especially the don’t play the game one.
@jeanpaul379
9 ай бұрын
Powerful message, stay beastly!
@jawadtajwarmehrab9161
9 ай бұрын
I've been watching you since 4 years and with age I'm realizing, everything you said will always end up being true, like prophecies getting fulfilled because time shows everything with patience. Thank you so much. At first things might be overwhelming regarding what you discussed but with age and practical experience, I haven't found nothing yet that goes the opposite of what you said. Anyway enjoy your breakfast tacos always.
@gokutvraw2236
9 ай бұрын
I love looks, but most of all a girl personality that counts the most because looks fade overtime
@dbdz9736
9 ай бұрын
In all my years watching You-Tube, I have never come across any video this good and which speaks to me so much.
@larrywhittemore9362
7 ай бұрын
You've got it figured out, I'm impressed with your knowledge, but can you keep that mindset throughout life. One tough point is they never change but they learn just like we do. You will constantly be tested by a better one, not in looks but in technique. Time weakens all of us, until we give up and get the saddle put on us and say yes dear. But! You don't have to, if you know thyself. You already have the information. Im 75 now, fu@k! Still work out, divorced 32 yrs, no kids, etc.. stay strong and never doubt yourself, after you analyzed yourself and go forth! And wear a cup! ....lol..
@MrDaveboynton
9 ай бұрын
I have to add, the Manscape trimmer is also an excellent precise beard trimmer. The LED light helps you see what you're doing under your chin.
@danielgodkin3299
6 күн бұрын
what's up david I would like you to upload a video on how to get over a breakup after 5+ years With steps to improve yourself for a better future
@Jd19808
8 ай бұрын
Im kind of going through something with a girl i was dealing with and this video def snapped me back to reality THANK YOU 🙏🏽💯
@Bazzguit
9 ай бұрын
Definitely one if not the best video in your channel
@Tarantulisimo
2 ай бұрын
TOP TIER: Ask YOURSELF the RIGHT questions. If the only thing she's adding to your life is more drama & more stress while taking away your peace AND your money, then that means she gotta go
@meadowlark8197
9 ай бұрын
Well said! Good attitude - love you’re channel!!!
@danieltenebrion9413
8 ай бұрын
This is surprisingly good advice for men. Don't play the game, it just leads to bad relationships and bad self-esteem. Be cool and treat women with respect and understanding. Be polite when you get rejected even. Eventually it will lead to a better you and a better match.
@danielmartin-zm6xs
9 ай бұрын
Finally the only date video that makes sense.
@andrewrice9383
9 ай бұрын
This video reminds me of the quote about being well adjusted to a sick society. Or the way that I personally think about it, the evolutionary mismatch. Obviously we’re alive, so we have to live our best lives within the world we’re in but still true.
@user-mi6pq2uu9s
5 ай бұрын
💯 People who have careers don't and should not chase anyone. If you are available let's hang out if not byeee
@StrategikMedia
9 ай бұрын
It's crazy how much women hold most of the control in the dating game. Only high value men hold the keys. Even then women have so many options.
@Mmksen289
9 ай бұрын
This is a good one Dave! Keep it up
@monteblazilla7776
9 ай бұрын
Probably the realist video on KZitem rn
@vormarsch
8 ай бұрын
I'm only into the "have a game" part, nothing interests me anymore, at all Lemmy Kilmister: "the chase is better than the catch"
@Kurio71
9 ай бұрын
Fellas, you need to be pragmatic about dating, just like women. Romance will get you in the door but don't let it cloud your judgement. Is she really a pure, innocent flower? Chances are no
@adrln1818
9 ай бұрын
every advice you tell i was like yeah mah men. trying to high five my laptop screen HHAA. i've been dating for like 5 years and i've meet a lot of women. and all you just said here are all facts. haha right now i stop dating because i alter my focus more in building in myself and my career but i'll be back once im finished achieve what i need to achieve. keep it up bro
@biffbifford402
8 ай бұрын
That thumbnail along with the title gave me the best laugh of the day! 🤣🤣🤣
@GeorgeMinton-jb8ky
9 ай бұрын
I have been married twice in 35 years. I can honestly say women are a PIA. It is thankless. It is work but it is a partnership to create and raise kids. To continue the dance of life. Don't overthink it. Don't worry about it. If you connect great. If you don't there are plenty of fish in the sea.
@MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl
9 ай бұрын
Kindness Loving Respectful Nothing else!
@augustinothomas3043
9 ай бұрын
Hi David how are you. I'm from Tanzania and I have been watching your vedios for quite a while probably since 2020. I was supposed to graduate tommorow but bad luck that never happened. I just went back and watched your 1 million KZitem subscribers vedio and I was like I will get my degree soon. Long story short you have insipired me so much, I'm 22 and I know without you I wouldn't be the man I am right now. Thank you so much for the content you create. I will share something so intimate Im a suicide savior because I watched your channel brother you saved my life thank you for every relationship advice from you. You may think you have a small impact in the world but when you go to heaven that's the milestone God will say to you you saved a life.
@nick111655
9 ай бұрын
Do not chase them, let them chase you. if not who cares!!! True love will reveal itself, instincts will tell you this.
@Jonesracing82
9 ай бұрын
100% bang on. It's amazing how when u pull away how often they try to get in touch even if when it comes down to it they are just in it for the attention. The simp way doesn't work, we learn that 1 the hard way.
@derwoodhamburger
9 ай бұрын
Great reminders bro. Respect
@j.matt3189
9 ай бұрын
ayyy i’m a massachusetts native watching this !
@Napier88
9 ай бұрын
Every young man should watch this video.
@scottj.7105
9 ай бұрын
Love this Format that you use David! Great tips. 👍
@Tarantulisimo
2 ай бұрын
For all you ladies who think it's totally OK fine & normal to have a bunch of guys friends & remain civil with exes -- there's a reason why that is continually noted as a huge red flag in video after video & in coaching session after coaching session. So STOP trying to turn it around on us guys as if we are being jealous, insecure, & controlling when it comes to all these dudes texting & hanging around
@metaphysiiickz
9 ай бұрын
The cake analogy 😅
@jcnlaw
8 ай бұрын
Experienced divorce lawyer here. Great video!
@ShiniGorky187
9 ай бұрын
Would you say you don't need game if you're good looking? What about the average looking guys?
@martijnjonkers7830
9 ай бұрын
Don’t let them in
@nobodysperfect06
9 ай бұрын
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game. I get annoyed when people say go see a therapist because it's not like a therapist can reset my life or have me start my life all over again. I spoke in a few other guys who feel the same way in regards to being forever angry and upset, sad, over never having had a girlfriend until later than normal, until late in life. Probably because guys and men to learn and know all of these skills, all of these social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way or have a certain lifestyle, have a certain body, certain income, and more than that which I either don't know or forgot. Women are pretty much basically all set for just being born and just existing. Because being pretty and beautiful is not a skill and it doesn't require any learning, it's not a behavior that takes training. It just really feels me with anger and rage whenever people and Society have the mindset or still think men have it better than women do in dating or just human mating in general. I'll never forget what one guy said and this only added fuel to fire in regards to my anger and rage about the cards on dealt with for being born male. "Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together" Let's just say that pissed me off even further, got me so mad, that its no appropriate for me to say what was going through my mind when i read that comment that pissed me off even further. Yes I know there's no such thing as fairness but I'm not afraid to admit that over the years in my life I've hated being born a guy or I just feel that it is unfair being born a man. Yes I'm aware there's no such thing as fairness, I just get very angry and enraged whenever people and Society still think men have it better than women do.
@welllll...ok...
9 ай бұрын
What about the women who are not tens? Who are not head-turning gorgeous? They feel invisable too. They have to work harder than most guys. And it doesn't matter how amazing they are otherwise either. I find it telling that even this guy says they still have to be really attractive (in addition to all these other attributes).
@treefrog0826
8 ай бұрын
The one who can walk away at anytime holds the powerof the relationship. Never give them the power. The man doesn't have to pay for everything let them pay. If by chance she calls the cops on you and their is a chance she could get you into trouble, get away from her and give your face 2 or 3 hard punches and a scratch here and there and nobody will be more surprised then her although you will be surprised how well it works.
@jangardel202
9 ай бұрын
These videos you're uploading these days are gold, keep rocking David!
@KainKustomGarage
6 ай бұрын
Thanks man!
@Netwealth2033
9 ай бұрын
When god speaks the wise listen 🔥🔥
@emmanuelmercene
8 ай бұрын
Thank you, thats the answer im seeking...... Not play the game 🙌
@linkato7089
9 ай бұрын
that fifth one is very important
@Imran-Lalani
9 ай бұрын
How come women’s value as rated for looks alone then? Especially on YT and social media. We hear about dating 8, 9 and 10s as high value woman. Average looking girl can be higher value than someone who is a 10 as well.
@Belfer-xk1pl
9 ай бұрын
U got my like in the moment U did Ad.
@dantarradellas7351
9 ай бұрын
Work in your own personal development first. You’ll meet women who do the same. So glad I’m not in my 30’s anymore. This was painful.
@willaddisonvlogs2416
9 ай бұрын
Great video. The edits were good too
@adriankline80
9 ай бұрын
Facts bro, love the video
@rohitkudale2663
7 ай бұрын
Real truth 🔥
@SniperscarbiterGames
9 ай бұрын
Thanks Bro I needed the reassurance God bless
@wiedenn4521
9 ай бұрын
As long as you at least had ONE attractive girl in your teen life, or at least 20-30, I can imagine leaving the rest of it in peace. But always getting 0 out of this game for no reason! really ruins your ego
@welllll...ok...
9 ай бұрын
Last point (saying this as a female) yes! No silly mind games! Please! I would much rather a guy who says great, let's meet as such and such a time. And means it (and yes, I do realise that generally girls are more guilty of this than guys... but I don't have experience of other girls, so unfortunately I can't speak from this perspective 😅). Another really annoying thing: a guy messages you, you happen to hear/see it and respond straight away, and then he takes 5 hours to respond back. How dumb is that? I know you're there because you just messaged me! It's about as transparent as the "I have a friend who really likes this girl..." (yeah, that happened to me too, for real). Honestly, I just can't be bothered.
@bohadi9678
9 ай бұрын
You are my man bro really golden advice ubgread yoreself all the time and no more games
@stephanieherman2861
9 ай бұрын
i like the part where he admits that he can not handle crazy girls. man up boy
@adrianb978
7 ай бұрын
Awesome video
@User00731
9 ай бұрын
anyways today's everyone desperate for love, like it or not I am 100% right 😂. if not love it's lust 😅
@saaaaauce
9 ай бұрын
The only thing I disagree with is you have to be with a girl that you find HIGHLY attractive, not just moderately. I tried being with a moderately attractive girl once and it was a disaster... Think female simp.
@MrDawnHU
9 ай бұрын
Lol that cake analogy, I use it all the time. :)
@zzkeokizz
9 ай бұрын
I like friendly women. I wouldn’t talk to a woman unless they were sweet.
@demven04
9 ай бұрын
Agree with everything!
@your_royal_highness
9 ай бұрын
I got lucky in that my gal simply never knew or accepted inside that she was gorgeous. I am also the second guy after her dysfunctional marriage she has ever “been with”. Pair bonding was not compromised, etc. Just a good woman who has managed to tolerate me for 20 years.
@RecaJ333
9 ай бұрын
Mmmmmm not sure this was supposed to leave the drafts friend 😅😂😂
@nichtwichtig24
9 ай бұрын
My man went to the danger zone regarding the hot/crazy axis with the 10/10 :DD
@aintmanyofusleft
9 ай бұрын
Simpler than all that; just dont deal with them. walk away, get unaddicted. rub one out, go to work, keep your money. too easy.
@patrickschreiber6067
9 ай бұрын
I agree with what you said... But when a woman just ghosts you after telling you she wants to meet again and even kissing on the first date and then ghosting without sYing anything (which Btw I think one could call psycho behavior) it is fair to get mad. It is just too easy to say 'sorry, I am not interested'
@Chris23lover
9 ай бұрын
Exactly, that's the way! But when you see a girl it worth, you can do everything to make hher happy thats not bad. The thing is if this girl start to ghost or play with you, you just dissapear. Let her know she's not the only one, bcz that will happen only when she really form part of your life. PS: "Love your neighbor AS YOURSELF" This one's tricky bcz its actually 2 laws in 1. If we dont' love ourself, The Game is Over Blessings!
@MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl
9 ай бұрын
I think many women are beautiful enough.
@SirTerenceTheThird
8 ай бұрын
Don't simp guys 🗣💯
@roblastname9133
9 ай бұрын
Good advice but im not shaving my manly hairy chest...nope not doing it😂
@m1ta118
9 ай бұрын
When it comes to Game , the game is about you ,it starts and ends with the man . Game is simply just good knowledge and getting what you want out of life. PUAS do not have game because they make it about women ,in fact they took the word game and made it into something cringe . Once you understand who you are ,you focus on what you want ,you stop making everything about women ,then that's what it means to have good Game.
@mattx4253
9 ай бұрын
Beauty does matter. But it’s not a cover for all the shit that is wrong.
@TJ-qp8zg
9 ай бұрын
Can you make a video on where to find quality women?
@vrblogger3236
9 ай бұрын
THIS VERY TRUE MAN YOU ADVICE IS TRUE 👍👍
@Ikaros23
9 ай бұрын
The beginning of the end of the « crazy sexy 10’s»
@ThomasKummer-j3p
9 ай бұрын
good video
@kimcobrakai.23
9 ай бұрын
Do not play the game. I can't agree more.
@justinnault6744
9 ай бұрын
Talking about cakes the whole video is trying to screw up my cut lmao, nice video
@FilipZdravkovic-mc5we
9 ай бұрын
The part when he talks about having no game can be summirized as ""Just be yourself".Trust me women have some ultra sensitive receptors that recognize when you are dancing around her and trying to impess her.99% of women can definatly see through the persona you are projecting.The best persona you can project is yourself so just be yourself, talk to her like shes a friend and not a girl you want to sleep with, cause in the end you do need a female friend.
@carlorizzo827
9 ай бұрын
Thank U👍the boy/man dichotomy...Good topic for future video, if U get a chance
@СтепаПохуй
9 ай бұрын
The fact that i havent ate anuthing and this dude goes talking about a cake got me even more hungry
@effectme3410
9 ай бұрын
I love the shaving tip lol ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ramtinmomeni3616
9 ай бұрын
Bravo 🙌
@mcrb5234
9 ай бұрын
what a silly question the best way is to do as women do keep them at a distance if you want to deal with them and get what you want and then trash them once you get what you want.
@ericjames7819
9 ай бұрын
Ruke #1: don't be an idiot who is attracted to strippers. No other rules will help.
@UnemployableFakeGuru
9 ай бұрын
Game? All drama. F that.
@propaycheque
9 ай бұрын
Too late
@rolandorobles6375
9 ай бұрын
David is cool!
@randywilliams208
8 ай бұрын
It's easy. There is only ONE RULE: Do not get emotionally invested in women... they are like your employees and you are their boss in life. That's it. Follow that and you will never go wrong.
@GAMADEMARCUS
9 ай бұрын
Algorithm going crazy. This video played automatically after this Jonathan Majors video I watched
@gameboosted007
9 ай бұрын
I only need manscaped for my beard so what product should i check out.
@SuperChaoticus
9 ай бұрын
That first story, you dipped into crazy, even knowing it was a terrible decision. It's your own damned fault.
@RameshKumar-ng3nf
9 ай бұрын
Such a amazing informative tip 👌. Thanks for your help 🙏
@MatthewSmith-cp3hu
9 ай бұрын
prayer LORD pls bless us find you, set our priorities correctly, stop hurting ourselfs with decisions that lead to hurt, stop hurting others with decisions that lead to them hurting. help us take a hold of your wisdom and follow it. pls help all the suffering people, including me, in Jesus name amen
@maxiubg
9 ай бұрын
Thanks for the great video bro! I needed to hear this and this video came out in the right moment for me! God bless you! :)
@Alwande66
10 күн бұрын
Here's a tip your shirt is too big it's hiding your muscles makes sure your shirt is over your muscles arms to make you look more masculine this always works
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