People just talking about cutting themselves in the comments, then comments under them giving them tips on how to "safely cut yourself" as if it was some sick sport. It's extremely disappointing, damn I'm shocked by humanity sometimes. Seek help friends, please do.
@Selfharmerproblems
3 жыл бұрын
I'm trying my best to keep those comment section safe. If you see anything triggering, PLEASE comment on it or contact me so I can remove it.
@yaraehab4741
3 жыл бұрын
You don't understand
@alexaschaak4047
3 жыл бұрын
@@Selfharmerproblems thank you
@tashawines1505
3 жыл бұрын
Telling people to stop doesn't always help, telling them to safely do it can keep them alive for long enough until they can get the correct help 💖
@misskilledu954
3 жыл бұрын
@@Selfharmerproblems he/she isn't wrong if you are having self harming probloms or a Crisis it's best to contact a mental health professional for treatment but meanwhile it's best to try to prevent infection of a wound so thanks for the info
@Nana-gm5zv
4 жыл бұрын
To be honest, before I watched this I didn't know you were supposed to take care of self harm cuts.
@yurisangles7964
4 жыл бұрын
Same, I kinda just let them go...
@милина-з8о
4 жыл бұрын
Same
@tabithafaye6811
4 жыл бұрын
Same I kinda just hid it till it was healed
@ghostkulls
4 жыл бұрын
Fr tho
@charlottelouise5593
4 жыл бұрын
@@violetstun4866 I get that so much but I’ve started dressing them
@甘い子猫
3 жыл бұрын
The best part about cutting was taking care of the wounds,, I did it basically just to tend to them since it made me feel loved and cared for even if it was just me patching myself up
@jaerae8144
3 жыл бұрын
💗❤ yeah, I know how that is. I hope you're doing well.
@butterbean6538
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed, I also feel this way! I try not to cut though. Be safe friend!
@Dorfkind-zm4xi
3 жыл бұрын
same
@girlpanthera
2 жыл бұрын
Same, it was like a twisted self care
@newend2116
2 жыл бұрын
Relapse
@adbaby9984
4 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend has depression and experiencing self harm, idk how to treat her cuts. This video is rlly useful. Thank you!!
@violetstun4866
4 жыл бұрын
that’s really sweet of u to help her, make sure to always provide support and if things get worse she should seek more professional help.
@mmmm-lg2mj
3 жыл бұрын
You are a good one, she is a lucky girl
@ChrisPark1997
3 жыл бұрын
You're a very good boyfriend.
@riana8037
3 жыл бұрын
@@ChrisPark1997 or girlfriend/partner!!
@silvanalctl8203
3 жыл бұрын
Damn she is a lucky girl for having you.
@ellothereluv2853
3 жыл бұрын
some coping strategies that work for me!!! 1. throwing eggs into the bath 2. drawing all over your body 3. flicking an elastic band on whatever part in your body where you want to harm 4. hold ice until it melts 5. get into a really hot shower then turn it all the way on the cold side 6. adding red food dye and water, freezing it, then running it wherever you want to cut 7. drawing the cuts with a red marker on your arm/ ankles/ wherever you want to cut 8. getting into a hot bath with really heavy clothes 9. punching something really really hard (please don’t hurt yourself or anyone else in the process) 10. cutting up pieces of paper 11. tattoos or piercings 12. tickling yourself instead with a feather 13. touching something soothing like something soft or smooth or cold etc. comment if you have anymore. good luck, i hope everyone reading this is doing alright ❤️❤️❤️ i love yall, now go cope!!
@clutsyrae4886
3 жыл бұрын
thank you, i really needed this since i relapsed recently, and none of my coping mechanisms have been working
@eeveefan8894
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you this comment is underrated
@hannahmacdonald8660
3 жыл бұрын
This is amazing, I appreciate it!!
@domesticcatt
3 жыл бұрын
thank you. i want to stop, this helps.
@rottendogteeth2665
3 жыл бұрын
Removing the leftovers of ripped out sheets in your college block is something that I’ve heard might help
@ghostkulls
3 жыл бұрын
I really just said ✨it'll be fine with my once a week shower✨
@skylerpoduska
3 жыл бұрын
once a week? more like once every other week :))))
@ghostkulls
3 жыл бұрын
@@skylerpoduska Not when u have a ✨skin condition✨ and ur actually supposed to shower everyday bc otherwise it gets worse 🤚🏼😩💞
@skylerpoduska
3 жыл бұрын
@@ghostkulls dude I'm sorry that sucks
@Liegamez
9 ай бұрын
I should’t laugh about how funny i found this cuz i do that to, yet i failed and i laughed at loud. That felt good to
@Liegamez
9 ай бұрын
I should’t laugh about how funny i found this cuz i do that to, yet i failed and i laughed at loud. That felt good to
@ratlover469
Жыл бұрын
i love aftercare after sh it makes me feel like a doctor
@TheWoker-i3w
Жыл бұрын
real
@ashdesu__
10 ай бұрын
same..
@cyverbunny
3 жыл бұрын
this video is so important. instead of trying to force people to stop self-harming (because we know how hard it is) we should first teach them to take proper care of the wounds
@Lily-gz3ip
2 жыл бұрын
and after? whats the second step?
@Snow-hp4xb
9 ай бұрын
@@Lily-gz3ip take things one step at a time bud
@sageyork
4 жыл бұрын
Ok side note your eyeliner is perfect
@Selfharmerproblems
4 жыл бұрын
🤓
@misskilledu954
3 жыл бұрын
@@Selfharmerproblems he's not wrong eye lashes on FLEEK!!!
@TheScribblesX
4 жыл бұрын
Im not afraid of infection, im afraid of my mom yelling and shaming me for punishing myself. I-... oOp. Sorry mom. At least i bandage myself properly-ish.
@EzequielMartin55vf
4 жыл бұрын
Same I don't care about the infection my mom will be dramatic and Blame me or get mad
@TheScribblesX
4 жыл бұрын
@@EzequielMartin55vf oh I'm sorry to hear that :((
@eggles5123
4 жыл бұрын
My mum is the same
@TheScribblesX
3 жыл бұрын
@Restless_. Angel7 stay safe yourself please💕💕
@katelynhoffman576
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@jaspergoe2517
4 жыл бұрын
I always steal bandaids whenever I go to the doctor. They have plenty and I'm sure they don't care but I'd rather not explain myself
@Milky_Milky05
3 жыл бұрын
Bruh thats actually smart- I'm suppose to be on a safety plan (aka these assholes took all my sharp objects) so I ended up stealing blades from Walmart. Ps. Sorry not sorry Walmart. I needed them more than you T^T
@Milky_Milky05
3 жыл бұрын
@Allie Rawe Haha why do you think I got put on the safety plan in the first place ಥ‿ಥ It was either that or the hospital-
@katekat6379
3 жыл бұрын
How do you even steal bandaids from the doctor?
@Milky_Milky05
3 жыл бұрын
@@katekat6379 uhh im guessing when they leave the room you just grab a bunch they have on the counter? Idk not all doctors are the same but thats how mine is 😅
@muin_
3 жыл бұрын
@@Milky_Milky05 you need actual help im not joking
@ellegutierrez2148
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, i never cared if i got them infected i was always scared that mom or dad would say roll up your sleeves or show me your stomach.
@senkunno
3 жыл бұрын
same. I never care٫ i just dont want my family to see.
@user-qd3zg8nz5n
3 жыл бұрын
@Napwa yes
@ellegutierrez2148
3 жыл бұрын
@Napwa i dont know if many people do but i used to
@steph9452
3 жыл бұрын
@Napwa yes, (I have)
@felixmustdie8534
3 жыл бұрын
@Napwa yeah, really any part of your body can be harmed
@Andy-du3wj
8 ай бұрын
Im 300 days clean todayyyy 🎉🎉 also im proud of all of you here take care i love yall ❤
@Jewel-ck2xk
4 ай бұрын
YIPPIE🎉🎉🎉
@alexateurcat
3 ай бұрын
Thats a huge mile stone :) You should be extremely proud of urself love❤
@amandajacobs57
4 жыл бұрын
This is so important. Thank you for making this.
@custommckinney
2 жыл бұрын
Hi! You and I have the same name! Well, before I got married, lol. Anyway, hope you have a great day 😊
@anonanon6239
4 жыл бұрын
I rewatch this every time I relapse so nothing dangerous happens, thank you
@ishde
3 жыл бұрын
thank you for making an actual video about taking care of self harm cuts, not 1h long lecture why should I ask for help
@kenwalker7016
3 жыл бұрын
My friends recently forced me to actually care for my cuts, I’ve always just put clothes over it while it bleeds...
@madelynterata6766
3 жыл бұрын
same tho
@benkleve4199
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@rissthebee
2 жыл бұрын
That’s me right now I don’t have money to buy dressings
@lea-ou8qx
2 жыл бұрын
i thought that was what ur supposed to do 💀
@Em_Elizabeth
2 жыл бұрын
That's part of the punishment, not being allowed to treat your own injury.
@liam3814
4 жыл бұрын
I asked my parents for help because I had abt 4 panic attacks within a couple hours and I needed someone to talk to get my mind off it well, when I asked for help they yelled at me :)
@dayanhajjmoussa1797
4 жыл бұрын
Oh no I'm so sorry, if you'd like to talk I'm here
@eljay_sys
4 жыл бұрын
Is it going better now 💕 ?
@ash-km5ou
4 жыл бұрын
Yes same. As my mom saw my cuts she yelled at me for three hours straight. That was four years ago and now I'm scared that she might find out that I relapsed.
@Alexander-vm2ox
4 жыл бұрын
Bad Girl good you shouldn’t fucking do it your mother should know
@Alexander-vm2ox
4 жыл бұрын
Bad Girl is this what you want? Hurting your self? You need to stop for your own safety please fucking stop it honour your mother by trying your best to not hurt yourself
@ellianarenee7663
4 жыл бұрын
One time like 6-7 months ago I told my mom I cutted myself bc I thought she should know and all she said was do you need to talk to someone, I said maybe but since then we never talked about it, I was clean for about 5 months until I started up again and now my brother saw it and he doesn't care either so I needed this so I can take care of myself, thank you
@eljay_sys
4 жыл бұрын
Having closed ones who doesn't care is horrible ! However it is good that your mother suggested you to talk to someone and you should definitely do it because self harm is dangerous even with small cuts cause of the infection risk and life and mind is much more peaceful without selfharm (i am currently 2 months clean and i realized that selfharm just did not help me at all but was also REALLY toxic both for my body and mind !! I hope you are going to choose recovery and it is easier with professional help 💕
@hannahmacdonald8660
3 жыл бұрын
It's been like a year, but I hope you are doing ok. I hope that you've found somebody who listens to you and tries to help you. I'm not very good with words, but I'm sorry your family isn't treating you well. I hope that things are more manageable now. If they aren't, please know that it's not the end; you will find ways to heal a bit at a time, and you will find people who love you and treat you with the respect you deserve.
@SweetNightmareASMR
3 жыл бұрын
I was clean from cutting for a year but yesterday I broke down after an argument with my mum. This is useful, thank you for the video. After the cuts have started to heal I apply vaseline as I find that helps with scarring. Also I have used sanitary pads as DIY bandages as I can't really tell anyone around me. Hope this helps if you're going through this too. Stay strong everyone ❤️
@cutestkoalacb3248
3 жыл бұрын
Hey, Noticed this was recent so thought I’d reply. Some people beat themselves up after relapsing and I just want you to know that it’s alright and I know you can get through this and start coping again ❤️❤️ Stay amazing and stay positive 😇🥰
@huskyloverlilac
2 жыл бұрын
Same here, I was also clear for a year+ but due to extreme stress and grief I did unfortunately relapse (I am ok though!! I cared for the injuries!) I hope your doing ok!!! Much love.
@windsofsweetemotion8326
2 жыл бұрын
@@huskyloverlilac same thing happened to me! i’m glad you took good care of them, wish you love! 💗 sincerely i’m replying to your comment because how recent it was! and i seriously need some guidance rn i hope it’s okay to ask you! so i relapsed about a week ago, and i didn’t know how to take proper care of em, so i bandaged it with toilet paper! the thing is, i believe there’s some little pieces in the wound that are stuck there, what should i do? should i leave it just there? it’s been a couple days n it’s dry now but im just worried 🤣, sorry if this is too long but yeah! hope ur ok!!!
@xxphosphene
3 жыл бұрын
People who have never experienced self-harm themselves often don't realize how important it is to talk about safety. It's not something we can turn on and off whenever we want to, so the best thing you can do is try and prevent yourself from seriously getting injured.
@holdingyourheart5927
4 жыл бұрын
I want to reach out for help but my mom would put me in a mental hospital 🏥
@hium8716
4 жыл бұрын
Yep same
@eljay_sys
4 жыл бұрын
Try to explain her as you can that you are struggling and all your story ! Maybe you could write if talking directly makes you feel bad ! It is so difficult to reach out at the beginning but it is so worth it to be able to talk to someone about your mental health. And for the hospital these are generally the doctors who decide but with your consent and your parents' consent and it is generally if you are likely to attempt suicide to hurt yourself seriously generally and if you are underweight because of an eating disorder. Stay strong ! You won't get to the hospital overnight just by telling your mother and it can actually really help you (i got in a psych ward myself). Trust the doctors and therapists they want to help you and they are generally passionated and kind (psychiatrists did +10 years of studies you can't get there by accident) ! Please stay safe 💕 (if anyone wants to talk to me privately here is my instagram : @leajikol2 )
@meielysia
4 жыл бұрын
mine would act like it just didnt happen😔🤟
@ainsley4401
4 жыл бұрын
Same sis
@bisexual.poatao4997
4 жыл бұрын
I want to be sent to a mental hospital, cause I want to get better. For me it’s the telling my mom part that scares me
@lissy666
4 жыл бұрын
Harm reduction is incredibly important, thanks for the video :)
@summar1z3d
11 ай бұрын
one of the reasons sh is comforting is the sting, and tye feeling of cleaning yourself up after or caring to the wounds
@introvertedks7781
3 жыл бұрын
I was trying to find reasons not to self harm because I was close to relapsing, but this is just as good! It actually distracted me long enough to get the urge to stop, and now I know how to properly take care of them. Thank you!
@loverboy2702
Жыл бұрын
I just want to say im so fuckin proud of everyone who's trying their hardest to heal! I believe in yall i know you guys can do it! Thank you guys all so much for being alive Thank you for seeking help! Stay safe and be careful and don't be afraid to ask to talk to someone if you're in need of help! Love you guys
@SallowDraws
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for that! Thats so nice of you :) I am about 1-2 weeks clean I think, although I find it better not to count 😊
@pierrotmel7447
3 жыл бұрын
when i used to sh, i would put donut bandaids on after they healed a bit. they made me feel better
@olexarity9621
Жыл бұрын
Ok to everybody who is sayings that it’s “disappointing” and “shocking” to see people trying to safely self injure just know some people don’t want it to be too severe and get caught/hospitalized because of it. Sure you could make the argument “if it’s not safe then why do it when your trying to be safe?” It’s because we need a way to COPE. My love to all of the comments, know I was in your situation.
@qwertyuiopasdfghjkl9879
3 жыл бұрын
I just don’t want my parents to make me go to the psychologist again
@imsorryforarguingbut4555
2 жыл бұрын
1 month clean! I keep forgetting I watched this and keep surprising myself with my own comments
@splonky
2 жыл бұрын
omg congratulations!!! i’m so proud of you :]] you’ve got this
@O-pm8bb
7 ай бұрын
This morning I went a bit too overboard with this, this was very helpful since I'm at work and I freaked out and didn't know what to do. Thanks ❤
@_.Mimzie._
4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video 💗 Most people would just encourage you not to self harm. I love the fact that you know that you can't stop that kind of thing. 💗💗💗💗💗
@feelfree1786
4 жыл бұрын
I have stopped it I am clean for two months but now I am filled with regret I hate my arm I want to go back It’s never worth it
@vamp_germ
3 жыл бұрын
This video helps a lot, I also like that you are making it clear that you're not encouraging. Sometimes I go through more depressive states and cut more, and this is really helped when I go through those more panicky times of my life.
@Cole-kw4dm
3 жыл бұрын
If you’re going to self-harm, please take care of it. I didn’t know I was supposed to until someone I know got TSS, it’s very important to keep it clean.
@kaput_hodge
10 ай бұрын
whats TSS?
@lettenlina1708
7 ай бұрын
@@kaput_hodge it's toxic shock syndrome - very rare, but not fun. You can Google it!
@maghenslife6964
2 жыл бұрын
⚠️TW⚠️ i was two months clean but last night I felt like everything was my fault so I SH. I felt so bad so I'm glad I came across this video
@sherbetboy4560
3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know I was supposed to take care of them 😀✋
@keegaroo6577
4 ай бұрын
I have a friend who harmed to test the waters then they really regretted it and they're struggling to care for them right now cause there's a lot so I'm really thankful you made a video because an article can be hard to understand visually! :)
@k6rou
3 жыл бұрын
Thank so so much. A couple hours ago I cut my thighs and the bleeding wouldn’t stop. It’s better know so thank you.
@margaret.h0632
3 жыл бұрын
Until March of last year i didn't even think or know that you take care of self harm,and I self harmed on and off 2-3 years prior to March. This helped me alot.
@kt.g.3055
4 жыл бұрын
Merci Malika... j ai commencé à "m automutiler" (comme le dit ma psychiatre) en septembre dernier... et elle m a averti des risques d infection mais... je n'ai jamais pensé à le faire vraiment...alors merci pour tes conseils. Je vais investir dans de la betadine...et je t'avais pas pensé à l'après...je pensais que juste la betadine allait suffir. Merci pour les conseils.
@jenxoxarr2369
3 жыл бұрын
I never really knew how to clean them well so I just dabbed at the blood w paper towels then put on a band aid lols, thank you for this xx
@kaceyjim7195
4 жыл бұрын
Wow thx, if I hadn't watched this I would have have a bad infection rn
@itsfinley9344
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had to get stitches before and if I didn’t it would have been really bad so if you need medical help make sure you get it it’s very important
@rissthebee
2 жыл бұрын
I’m scared to get admitted
@itsfinley9344
2 жыл бұрын
@@rissthebee hey if you do its probably for the best to get the help you need i didn't but there was I chance a could of don't be scared to reach out for help whenever you need it your safety matters
@lea-ou8qx
2 жыл бұрын
then my parents would have to know
@itsfinley9344
2 жыл бұрын
@@lea-ou8qx my parents were more worried about me then about what i did its ok if your parents find it it would Probably be a good thing if your parents knew what was going on to help you out through your situation if my mom didn’t find out sooner it would have been a lot worse then what it’s become stay well my friend and remember you are loved 🥰
@lea-ou8qx
2 жыл бұрын
@@itsfinley9344 yeah idk thanks tho
@Yukiii3
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you this helped me with taking care of bleeding and cleaning of some of my deeper or recent cuts.
@kfkkfk7995
2 жыл бұрын
Hey, so, today is the first day I haven't harmed myself in the last four days. I had stopped doing it for 3 months but I relapsed. I thought today -as I find I'm not feeling bad- was a good day to watch this just in case. I obviously don't plan on continuing cutting, but if I do I want to know what to do afterwards. Thank you so much
@bruh-kc2iz
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is a very valid idea and it is important to share.
@agatsumazenitsu4290
3 жыл бұрын
Thank You, I Actually Didn't Know I Had To Take Care Of My Cuts Before Now. So I'm Really Happy That I Found This Video Before Anything Bad Happened To My Cuts
@coffeedemon6909
3 жыл бұрын
thank u so much for this. i know you’re not a medical professional, but it’s nice to know there are people online you can turn to for help. i very very much don’t ever want to share what i do with my parents.
@marciaglass2846
4 жыл бұрын
thank you. I really appreciate your posts. ...also, tetnes (sp?) has booster shots..
@von.......8
2 жыл бұрын
I will be honest...I saw others self harm and I thought it looked cool and so I did it and I am addicted
@sashaflikkema2248
4 жыл бұрын
I'm really glad you made this video, but using paper towels or toilet paper is really bad for your wound. It increases the risk of infection
@Selfharmerproblems
4 жыл бұрын
Yes like I said the best is sterile compresses!
@karkat4493
4 жыл бұрын
what should i use in the place of those (that is a common household item)
@violetstun4866
4 жыл бұрын
@@karkat4493 it’s really hard to answer that because paper towels and toilet paper are very common but i can’t think of anything else rn, i’d say as long as ur immune system is ok u should be fine with toilet paper....
@violetstun4866
4 жыл бұрын
@@karkat4493 stole this from another commenter so thx to them, but if u happen to be a girl or have access to pads or liners they are very clean right out of the package as they have to be, so if u do a access to them i recommend trying that.
@lovelyloverx3582
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, my best friend has depression and he cuts when he feels lonely and sad so it was nice learning so I can help him clean it.
@CoffeeSoup22
3 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful! Ty, ive been struggling with self harm and I want to know how to treat it before I can get therapy.
@frommousietomouthy4991
3 жыл бұрын
I agree! Talking about this and giving this information helps me because just telling someone to not do it doesn't help and further pushes someone to do it.
@emotionalequestrian23
4 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel! I have been struggling with self harm for a long time! God bless you
@GUROBOY..
2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I know this, and can spread it so people know how to be safe if they can't stop
@roomare
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks I wasn’t sure how to take care of them.
@imsorryforarguingbut4555
3 жыл бұрын
I know this is off topic but, you’re so pretty!!! It’s making me jealous haha. Thank you for making this video, it helps people like us. :)
@imsorryforarguingbut4555
2 жыл бұрын
damn I still have taste
@tamakitakami3376
2 жыл бұрын
it's hard to buy supplies and hide them when you don't live alone but this was very helpful :) when i'm able to buy first aid stuff i never know what to go for lol
@matty8426
3 жыл бұрын
I never thought of going for the dollar store for bandages :') I've been paying $15 for bandages and gauze
@umwtfnana
3 жыл бұрын
Dude I needed this sm atm, I recently relapsed and they are worse than usual. So this help so much! Thank you!!
@Dusty-Pawz3
Ай бұрын
Thank you, I actually didn’t know I was supposed to care for mine but I just did for a new one and this video helped 💜
@luciaalegria752
3 жыл бұрын
Bless you and this video this is so helpful I was a mess a few days ago cause I bled a lot and I had no idea what to do. I wish I found this video sooner!!
@Sage-Klein
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for all this help, I know it's bad to SH, but it's not because it's bad that we shouldn't take good care of the wounds. I wrote everythings you said down to remember and to be sure not to forgot anything.
@emberwolf5653
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about this topic. I’m trying to find help but this topic is not allowed in most mental health forums, groups and whatever.
@booberrys4027
2 жыл бұрын
I just self harm yesterday and this video help me so much ..
@NES_SMB3
7 ай бұрын
I was on a good streak being clean for months and then I did it again today :(
@haydenrae9775
7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry, I almost made it a year and now I’m watching this video with you. Try not to feel too bad about it, shit happens. At least this time you know you can make it that long, so you can do it again. I wish you the best, you are so brave and you can do amazing things ❤
@Berry_..
2 ай бұрын
I came here because my friend has been struggling in their battle with depression, I want to be able to help in any way I can to show that I care about them.
@ranmouri69
2 жыл бұрын
I’m doing a self harm kit for my bf who struggles with sh. I know I probably can’t stop him from cutting but at least help him reduce harm. thanks a lot for the video.
@NoahsArk999
3 жыл бұрын
Very easy to watch and listen to, as well as informative. Thank you very much. ❤
@Selfharmerproblems
3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@liapat814
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. This is so helpful. I never knew that before a couple days ago you have to look after your cuts. Thank you!!
@Listenclearly1979
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this is very helpful especially for your younger viewers (and anyone) who may not have any knowledge of basic first aid
@Ashtree_3303
11 ай бұрын
You saved my life
@Akizine
3 жыл бұрын
I hope everyone gets clean
@loserghost356
3 жыл бұрын
honestly ive never done anything about them, the most i would do is just stop the bleeding, or just put a bandaid on it and call it a day
@kxtaminekitten
3 жыл бұрын
ive never been able to find a video like this but needed one, thank you so much
@frunklie
3 жыл бұрын
this is so important, thank you for sharing all i have at the moment is bandaids in a cubby, im glad i know more abt how to care abt them tho
@hotemotoaster8712
3 жыл бұрын
Caring for your wounds after self harming or helping someone care for them is NOT enabling. You need to know how to care for them if something happens. It might sound like enabling but if you do nothing they are at the risk of much worse. Please take care friends ❤
@isabellalesher8487
3 жыл бұрын
For the depth and width, I have learned - and go with - if it'll be hard to close on itself (like if it would gape open), get help. If in doubt, get medical help. It's really dangerous to leave a wound in possible need of stitches alone.
@horsesung6977
3 жыл бұрын
I've self harmed on and off for 3 years and I'd never thought to clean them until now. I always just put on black sweatpants when I was done.
@mokithegay6020
2 жыл бұрын
Same but I would makes sure they were black trousers
@hey7016
2 жыл бұрын
My best friend relapsed recently and I just wanna help as much as much as possible
@Noahhhhhuh
3 жыл бұрын
If a cut stoped bleeding but the skin hasn’t come back together on its own do you need stitches? Even if only like one stitch would fit in the length of it??? Asking for a friend-
@Noahhhhhuh
3 жыл бұрын
@Zelta thank you! 😊
@madisonblake8761
3 жыл бұрын
your channel is so helpful
@the.windowisopen
3 жыл бұрын
The thing I'm most afraid of is that that one person I love to the end of unobservable universe and back won't love me back because of my self harm scars. I mean, he had only seen ones on my arms, but I got more on my inner thighs, so if he ever ends up seeing them (we have to go to the pool as a part of out PE lessons. I'll try to wear some waterproof cream or something to cover them, but still)... Idk I'm just scared a lot. I know he's been telling me that I mean a to him, regardless of my depression, schizophrenia and scars but I really don't know...
@tsudeath8837
2 жыл бұрын
thank you for understanding it much love
@elmstreet1219
4 жыл бұрын
I needed this today.
@skywolf-4434
4 жыл бұрын
Elm Street same. 😕
@alexrooksberry
Жыл бұрын
thank you so much also i love your voice
@ebonylyszkiewicz6945
3 жыл бұрын
i once told my friend abt them and she snitched to my mum, i was in the bath she stormed in the room and shouted "SHOW ME YR WRISTS" all my family was around the door within 20 seconds she then said "NOW I HAVE TO RING THAT STUPID PLACE AGAIN BC CLEARLY IT DIDNT WORK" that stupid place was this place that said my problems wasnt big enough for them so obviously it didnt work they never did out but say "you should tell yr mum"
@senselesschiId
3 жыл бұрын
I've been getting this in my rec, i'm active with 3 methods of s / h and seeing this in my rec has made me just scroll past sickly like aa yikes, But might as well get it out of my rec page 😔
@introvertedbandnerd3289
2 жыл бұрын
Hey, i know this was a while ago, but can you please do a video on burns, I would really like to know if I'm not cleaning myself up correctly
@katelynhoffman576
3 жыл бұрын
I don't really care not like anyone will care if I die, but it was still helpful.
@freekiki2416
4 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋🏻 Just felt the need to comment and get this off my chest... I too live in Switzerland (german speaking part, hence the reason why I am writing in english) I am four months clean now. Part of it is because shortly before I stopped I had cuts wich needed medical attention but I didn’t reach out though I was in a day care program so I often let them do the aftercare even though it was too late for stitches (6 hours if you didn’t know) now I do have nasty scars wich I am getting treatment for. I just was too scared when I moved out for the first time. I knew if I would go on like this I took the risk to bleed out one night as I was alone and I wouldn’t have the courage to tell anyone to be honest. It often happened to me that the more full of adrenaline I was the more I’d bleed and the faster. This would often let me weak for days. I hit some vessels a couple of times but never an artery. So I stopped but its a daily fight and I still crave it so much. A while ago I asked my twin what she’d like to get for her birthday and her answer completely blew my mind as we don’t really have a good relationship and barely talk about my mental health issues. She said I wish for you to be a year clean. This is my main reason right now. Plus I never did it in my new flat where I am living alone for the first time and I know if I step over that boundary only once it could literally kill me. Thank you for talking about this it gives me the feeling that I am not alone. I am often scared to leave comments like this as the last thing I want is to trigger someone 😭 Also would you consider to do a video about feeling bad about being clean and craving it? PS I do have also a KZitem channel where I speak about mental health so feel free to check it out 💕 Greetings from Switzerland 🇨🇭
@eljay_sys
4 жыл бұрын
First i am so proud of you 4 months clean is huge !! To not relapse you can think about how much self harm ruined your life and your body and it could kill you in your case ! You know the self harm anxiety you get from not being able to stop the bleeding, hiding and worrying loved ones, taking care of the wound with some painful bandages and going to hospital to get stitches ? All of that and a lot more proves that it is not worth it to continue ! Stay strong 💕
@spins_jj9820
3 жыл бұрын
Totally off topic, but you're really pretty, very strong, and an inspiration
@anyalanot6971
3 жыл бұрын
I find taking care of self harm cuts therapeutic
@Roxas_Lyne
3 жыл бұрын
I found my little sister had cuts on her left wrist and i don't really know how to treat it and I'm watching this Because i want to help her. Not just emotional but physically
@lildarvie
3 жыл бұрын
thank you i needed most of these for myself !
@Selfharmerproblems
3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@aaron6841
3 жыл бұрын
I hope you guys are getting the help you need and deserve please get help if your in pain people are more understanding then you think 😀😀😀
@babyfoxytaylor9785
3 жыл бұрын
All of a sudden this popped up when my ex broke up with me and I had two ways I dealt (self harm not gonna say how so that way you don't do it) but I'm scared if my family sees these coming up
@cookierat
2 ай бұрын
Thank you 4 da information!
@spinel345
3 жыл бұрын
I’m four months clear of self harm dunno why I’m getting this now but I should send this to my friend.
Пікірлер: 660