When Jordan explains in one and half minutes how all men are socially awkward and lonely, but figured out the code to avoid killing a conversation between themselves:
@davevito28
7 ай бұрын
Yeah it's like getting two birds stoned at once
@ThBlueSalamander
7 ай бұрын
@@davevito28lmao
@shawn.spencer
7 ай бұрын
How does this indicate that they're lonely
@someoneimsure
7 ай бұрын
@@shawn.spencer Personal experience.
@lukasadamson6091
7 ай бұрын
@@shawn.spencerbecause we all are. Thats why we meet other people.
@fakeidonthaveahandle
7 ай бұрын
This is the exact "fake it till you make it" method that I use in every aspect of life that does not require me to 100% know what I'm doing.
@yeetyeet7070
7 ай бұрын
"does 100% not require me to know anything"
@RowanMarshmallow
7 ай бұрын
I’m taking notes, let me find some paper
@user-xe7ki3bz5n
7 ай бұрын
@@RowanMarshmallow could you share some paper with me? my cat ate it
@krissantos5170
7 ай бұрын
the fact that he put his glasses on 🤓... sent me into uncontrollable fit of laughter 😅😂🤣
@watchinvidzwatchinvidz7691
7 ай бұрын
Being fake is a horrible thing to do. Be confident & say you don't know 💩 & don't care to learn about it bc it's a crock of 💩 bc you're just not into whatever that guy is into.
@rolan.r
7 ай бұрын
Another strat is to say, "Nah, I was busy. Gimme the highlights."
@qcp974
7 ай бұрын
Ooo, good one!
@fryncyaryorvjink2140
7 ай бұрын
I like that one, easier for me cause I really only know baseball from playing it
@yeoluh
7 ай бұрын
This is even better imo
@BellicV
7 ай бұрын
“Busy?? What were you doing?”
@iarmycombo5659
7 ай бұрын
Maybe different in America but in Finlabd we just watch sports that come off of the free channels, which is ice hockey and football most of the time. And you know based on what time of year it is which tournament is played and thus which sport.
@jdprettynails
7 ай бұрын
I’m a woman and this was pretty much the exact technique I used in the 90’s to talk about boybands I had zero interest in.
@dracofirex
7 ай бұрын
Same, even into the early 2000s, although I always kept getting N*Sync and the Backstreet Boys mixed up because both the guys and the songs were too similar lol.
@bossyboots5000
7 ай бұрын
same. I couldn't recognize any of them in a lineup
@emilysha418
7 ай бұрын
My ex used to just read the outcomes and watch the highlights of a few big games so he could relate then change topics. He had 0 interest, just didn't want to spoil the vibe.
@user-wh5ir4fo4r
7 ай бұрын
@@dracofirex I do not remember where--probably Saturday Night Live--there was a reference to "N'Sync with the 98 Backstreet Boys.." I think of it any time I hear about any of those bands.
@dracofirex
7 ай бұрын
@@user-wh5ir4fo4r Oh yeah!! I think I heard about that! Honestly fair lol though 98 Degrees was who you picked if you wanted to play Switzerland in the boy band wars. 😆
@bees_go_bonk
7 ай бұрын
You’ve heard of female solidarity, get ready for its male counterpart
@NourElHoudaHere
7 ай бұрын
Seems you've forgotten the thing that guy friends do when their the girlfriend calls asking where their bf was last night
@BehindTheBush96
7 ай бұрын
What do you mean? Male solidarity has always existed. Like when they’re always taking the side of other men when it’s a man’s word against a woman’s. Even when the man confessed to doing something to the woman that was clearly a horrible thing to do that they’d take offence to if it were the woman doing that to the man.
@xynged
7 ай бұрын
"yeah we was at my place, watching the game"
@dreichert1438
7 ай бұрын
Female solidarity? That doesn't exist much anymore. They would rather slit each other's throats
@Amanita._.Verosa._.
7 ай бұрын
How dare you be so accurate@@BehindTheBush96
@KGlena-kx1df
7 ай бұрын
The way you broke it down is how neurodivergent people who struggle ‘peopling’ would like have every/any social interaction explained-clear, examples, formulaic
@mandymourey9207
7 ай бұрын
literally
@darienb1127
7 ай бұрын
You're not wrong. It's kinda what I do working retail as a ND person.
@Palmtop_User
7 ай бұрын
Yeah... yeah
@Kleinage
7 ай бұрын
Makes me curious about that book he appears to be reading from. Maybe it’s a neat book called ‘How to talk to humans: a guide for humans’. We all could have used one of those at some point in our lives.
@pain.497
7 ай бұрын
Felt
@Palmtop_User
7 ай бұрын
Im a dude who doesnt follow sports practically at all so if asked i usually just say "sorry i dont follow sports. Who was playing?" Then usually follow with "who won?" or "how did the game go". Usually the other guy can go on for a good bit about how the game went, if its a sports team i know anything about i usually quip just a bit of knowledge such as "oh yeah, i heard that team hasnt been doing well this year. You think its just a bad roster or the coach?" Or something to that effect
@ithink3979
7 ай бұрын
I watch football as family/friend bonding activity. Talking with the bros about it, where I draw the line is getting in to the details of the player stats, what players got traded, etc. or following their personal lives outside the game. If any of that gets brought up, I just politely steer the convo in a different direction.
@Palmtop_User
7 ай бұрын
@@ithink3979 thats fair. For me i have no opinion in the matter. Itd basically be like an alien asking your opinion on politics or religion. It doesn't really affect me in any way im just curious
@mrbanana6464
7 ай бұрын
I honestly could never talk about a subject I don't care about, especially sports. That's probably why I don't have friends tbh
@shafaet1194
7 ай бұрын
@mrbanana6464 Exactly, how do you continue asking all these questions about a topic which doesn't interest you? @Palmtop_user
@CloudyOctober
7 ай бұрын
@mrbanana6464 you really don't have to care ,you just have to let them talk .
@Fredfredfredfredfredfredfred
7 ай бұрын
This makes me feel a lot better because I’m usually the one guy that doesn’t watch any of the games but I’m not kidding. This is good advice here Homie.
@kenyarodriguez410
7 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you man. God bless 🫡
@roxcyn
7 ай бұрын
I love the username, Fred times infinite.
@Sly-Moose
7 ай бұрын
It's ok if ya guys missed the game, people. You don't always have to look cool and in-the-know to your friends. It's perfectly ok to be humble and just have a genuine conversation. Being real is way more rewarding than just keeping up appearances.
@fleekwoodmatt4316
7 ай бұрын
Yea I don't watch any sports besides football when I visit my parents. I don't care to pretend to care about it or feel the need to be involved in a conversation about it. Whether I'm with my friends, at work, or anywhere I guess if someone starts talking about it I immediately tell them that I didn't watch it. Just be real.
@BehindTheBush96
7 ай бұрын
@@fleekwoodmatt4316 but that’s not the point; you still watch sports - football is a sport, OP said he doesn’t watch any of them. So, you still have football games you can talk to other men about - OP was pointing out he can’t do that.
@al.x.
7 ай бұрын
“Did you see that ludicrous display last night?”
@ThaTeeWhy
7 ай бұрын
Thing about Arsenal is, they always try and walk it in.😒😒😒
@xynged
7 ай бұрын
What was Wenger thinking sending Walcott on that early
@andhereismyspout
7 ай бұрын
you all are the real ones
@ralliedcookies4403
7 ай бұрын
@@ThaTeeWhybottlenel
@ralliedcookies4403
7 ай бұрын
@@andhereismyspoutfrfr
@ShaferHart
7 ай бұрын
I used to be the guy who answered "no, actually, I didn't see the game".. Killing the vibe. I can use this now, thanks.
@bossyboots5000
7 ай бұрын
Or you could say "nah, I missed it, I was having sex/pumping iron/other manly pursuit" 😂
@TPRM1
7 ай бұрын
Pro tip: if you’re ever stuck, say, “You know, it’s all about finding that balance.” Works for literally anything.
@aramythr5965
7 ай бұрын
I mean, why even care about 'killing the vibe'. Either talk about something you both are interested in, or don't talk at all. Don't talk out of your ass. Is the guy interesting enough for you to want to know better, ask about him instead. And if he is not, why bother?
@TheWackiestDemon
7 ай бұрын
@@aramythr5965 This is what I think too, most people generally I'm just not interested in talking to so what's the point of even trying to talk about something you don't care about
@scr4932
7 ай бұрын
@@aramythr5965I agree. I'd rather be alone than listen to things I couldn't care less about. I used to try to listen to topics I wasn't interested in and it only ended up entering one ear and coming out of my other ear - a complete waste of time for everyone involved.
@tshegotams4546
7 ай бұрын
My husband just said “ Are you watching your old whispering young guy?”😂😂😂😂😂😂
@DynamiteDaynaD
7 ай бұрын
😅😅
@Greentrees60
7 ай бұрын
Wow! I'm not sure I've ever heard a better description of a youtuber
@WholeCarrots_
7 ай бұрын
"... That, or you saw the game, because-" bro im cracking up XD
@gypsybelle4757
7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂Same!!
@bland9876
7 ай бұрын
As someone who's not into sports I've always assumed that when you say hey did you see the game last night that they know each other enough to know what kind of sport they're into so you don't have to specifically say.
@benjaminmorris4962
7 ай бұрын
That's actually true. Sort of. As a guy who follows sports and has similar convos with people, we usually say "the [insert team name/nickname/location] game" even when there is only one possibility as to what "the game" could be given what date it is and our given location(most people are fans of local teams and "the game" almost always refers to a local team, and when it doesn't it's a championship or huge playoff game). Ex: It's the middle of summer in Wisconsin -> "the game" is 90%+ likely to refer to the Milwaukee Brewers.
@alexharrison2743
6 ай бұрын
Yeah, I feel like the phrase itself "Hey man, did you see The Game last night?" is a TV show trope, and the KZitemr is just making a joke of how predictable this conversation is - he's not saying this is a literal script
@ctlegalgrowers
7 ай бұрын
Half the fun is figuring out what game we're talking about.
@MrBlakeleyden
7 ай бұрын
It's different for everyone because of each person's preferred topics of interest, but I will pretty much always listen to what someone has to say on a topic, usually by asking follow up questions. Then if it "spring-boards" into a related topic, the connection continues.
@Dinger88
7 ай бұрын
the most brainpower we use on a day to day basis
@theduke7539
7 ай бұрын
This should be taught in schools. Im autistic and do not grasp social interactions. It has taken me to my mid 20s to reach the level of social interaction skill my classmates in highschool had a decade ago. This would have been very useful
@Gandhi_Physique
7 ай бұрын
Eh, don't worry about it. Who cares what normies do? Find people you like being around and you'll be happier. One thing I do see as useful though is, if you show interest and have empathy, you can talk to basically anyone. I like to joke around and I just go with how my brain is telling me to. If I feel like talking, I'll talk, but the feeling doesn't always happen so then I don't. I also don't lie. I'd rather have 1 interesting friend than 50 "normal" friends.
@scr4932
7 ай бұрын
It should be taught, but it should be used only when necessary. It would be a waste of time to fake interest just to bond with people you aren't comtortable talking to in the first place unless you're forced to hang out with them every day (which does apply to school, yes). It's ironic how much people focus on autistic people accommodating others by learning "social skills" while they completely disregard how uncomfortable autistic people feel by doing that.
@alexharrison2743
6 ай бұрын
@theduke7539 nah buddy, don't worry about it. Find your people, those who either like the same things you like or are interested in hearing you talk about what you like (and vice versa)
@Eric_The_Cleric
7 ай бұрын
Yeah nah I just tell them I don't care much about sports so they'll not talk to me about it again. Doesn't give them a false sense of who I am because I don't like being someone who they feel they can talk sports with when I'm not. I've had a dude literally say "you are mildly entertaining" to my face because I am open about my likes and dislikes and what I am ok to talk to about (i.e. you'll actually get a good conversation out of me and not waste your time), which has helped. It really sucks when conversation peters off, so being open about that stuff seriously helps to avoid it.
@Armament0fJustice
7 ай бұрын
Yeah, I feel this is the best strategy with people you think will possibly see you again. I'm not a sports fan, but my best friend is and he was able to recontextualize some to where I can appreciate it better. I'm a total nerd with a lot of my interests being in the mechanics of things and how they interact and build something up. I like beautiful complexity and hate when things don't have a rhyme or reason. It feels more logical to be honest about what's not going to be conducive to deeper discussions and finding a common ground will make the interaction more pleasant. But if they don't try to find a common interest after just the first question, they aren't really interested in "you" and shouldn't be given much thought.
@theflyingspaget
7 ай бұрын
Here's a kinder way to say it: "Nah, I don't have time for sports anymore, y'know?" And follow it up with some generic comment about how adulting is hard, redirects the conversation and doesn't make you a buzzkill.
@Livetoeat171
7 ай бұрын
I admire a man who can be honest and tell people that they're not interested, and they don't watch sports. It takes a stand up, confident man, to do that... admiration!
@br4tb4by
7 ай бұрын
I love authentic people like you, we would get along.
@sparkyblue7016
7 ай бұрын
Yep, that's the way of life, the faster it is learned the better it is.
@Michael_ATL_82
7 ай бұрын
FACTS, AND ALL OF THIS HAPPENS IN LESS THAN A SECOND TO RESPOND ON TIME.
@servantofaeie1569
7 ай бұрын
As a guy who doesn't give a rats anus about sports, I know this doesn't apply to all guys.
@crooks2fresh
7 ай бұрын
You not like sports tells me everything I need to know about you as well. You're either a pothead stoner loner or a video gaming nerd or your gay or all three who knows 🤷
@TheyCallMeSledge
7 ай бұрын
Another unspoken rule is that most of us dudes have an innate ability to know what to ask based on what the dude is wearing on any given day. If I were to wear a NY Mets or a Cincinnati Bengals jersey, I would be asked about either baseball or football, or basketball when I wear my Nets gear around Brooklyn. If I'm wearing a My Hero Academia T-shirt, Rurouni Kenshin, Jujutsu Kaisen or my favorite, the classic Spike Spiegel X Lupin the 3rd joint I've kept in good condition for 3 years, I'd be asked about classic anime I like or modern anime I'm keeping track on. I admit we suck when it comes to reading the room with women but with each other, it's solid as a rock.
@The_Empty_Shadow
7 ай бұрын
@@TheyCallMeSledgewhat does the Spike/Lupin shirt look like?
@ryansmith8618
7 ай бұрын
SAME
@TrouvatkiDePercusion
7 ай бұрын
I don't give a single fuck about sports. No shame. No apologies. Fuck sports.
@lebronjames726
7 ай бұрын
Your channel is becoming a master class for struggling young adults
@ladyk5266
Ай бұрын
😂😂
@jackdriscoll8387
7 ай бұрын
for a lot of dudes, they saw the game. it’s pretty easy for sports fans to deduct what someone is referencing by “did you see the game last night?” based on what the most watched/locally popular game occurred the night before, and with social media even if you didn’t see it, you saw the key moments.
@emilyeverett9396
7 ай бұрын
I love you Jordan, a genius among men you are.
@MatthieuDeW
7 ай бұрын
It's easier in Europe, because the only sports that's being talked about is football (soccer). But then you've to wait for geographic, ethnic, historic, political, socio-economic and/or religious clues to determine whether the guy you're talking to is your potential new best friend or mortal enemy. If you're Celtic and the guy's Rangers that conversation could end in a quite violent way.
@Mutski1579
7 ай бұрын
Oi, mate! Is the Gothic Football Club still going? That'd make a ripper movie or documentary! 😂
@alexia3552
6 ай бұрын
Dude that’s intense. Has all of European geopolitics been condensed into football?
@Mutski1579
6 ай бұрын
@alexia3552 Go to England and call it Soccer. 😉
@Mutski1579
5 ай бұрын
Fun for all the family! 😈🤘
@oblivioustouch9012
7 ай бұрын
“Yeah, that shit was wild” is my go to line. lol
@christianhighii9882
7 ай бұрын
This is literally the IT Crowd. "Did you see that ludicrous display last night?"
@ddeadmeat
7 ай бұрын
I need a tutorial on how to talk in general lol
@br4tb4by
7 ай бұрын
You don’t understand social cues either?😂 I’ve always felt like an alien but I came to the conclusion that I’m just neurodivergent.
@ddeadmeat
7 ай бұрын
@@br4tb4by I don't understand social cues at all lol
@kashino55archive94
7 ай бұрын
As someone who doesn't care about sports but loves hearing people discuss something they're passionate about, I've found it is surprisingly not too much of a mood killer to just say "I haven't, actually! What happened?" And then let them explain. As long as you're inquiring and expressjng clear, genuine interest, there's never much reason to maintain any walls on either side. Plus it helps me learn and build a bit of a sports vocabulary.
@GabesHacks
7 ай бұрын
Reminds me of the "Are we not men?" episode of IT Crowd. Such a great episdoe!
@CillmaCuvas
7 ай бұрын
As a guy, I have a level of integrity that I would never say I saw something I didn't see in the 99.9% of cases.
@kathywiseley4382
7 ай бұрын
I used to cover local sports for the local newspaper. Of course, that meant always getting a quote. All coaches and players use the same script, I swear. But until now I had no idea it was a script memorized by all men. 😂
@teqnify63
7 ай бұрын
“Pucks deep, pucks on net. You know, we just gotta play our game…”
@THELYRICALTMAN
7 ай бұрын
We say so much internally, and so little externally sometimes
@tayaricoleman
7 ай бұрын
That book holds more secrets than we thought... The council will need to have a word with you
@manwolf141
7 ай бұрын
“Yeah, I saw the game. I finally got 99 runecrafting.”
@MrJoshuaAM
7 ай бұрын
Nice
@gamercheese1526
6 ай бұрын
Rc is the second worst skill behind mining, gz
@TuliTuli_
7 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 loved this! Thank you for the much needed laugh
@TuliTuli_
7 ай бұрын
This should not need to be explained 😆
@UltimateJM_22
7 ай бұрын
“That or you saw the game” made me laugh harder than it should’ve
@dbone3356
7 ай бұрын
I mean, he's not wrong. It really hasn't been the same since Shaq left. Jordan may be the goat, but Shaq and Kobe were unstoppable.
@hamsterpad3093
6 ай бұрын
Not a dude but once I got into a 20min conversation with an Uber driver about that year's UEFA and how all the matchups went down. Driver was really happy with my opinions. I haven't watched a single football match in my life.
@MrErickMartinez
7 ай бұрын
Yeah I don't really watch sports but this is really helpful to stay in the conversation and guide it to a more comfortable topic. Thanks
@Capta1nTD
7 ай бұрын
As someone with no interest in sports it's really cool seeing the one you break things down. Being able to adapt to a conversation like that just off a few key words is very impressive.
@dryiyce5347
7 ай бұрын
As a guy, i feel like it's not that complicated imo
@Natibe_
7 ай бұрын
It is if it's just a random person. If you know the guy somewhat, generally you know what game theyre talking about because that's one of the first things you learn if you care about sports. You can also get context if, say, you're at a sports bar and both watching a football game or something, when the other guy asks this you can assume he is talking about the game from this channel and this sport last night.
@CountGremlin
7 ай бұрын
As a man who's not into sports, i just nod and agree 😂
@ChristinaTheWatercolorFox
7 ай бұрын
Omg as a neuro spicy this interaction always baffled me bc I don’t pick up on social cues easily it was just a mysterious interaction! Thanks for explaining these weird things neurotypical people do!! I hope this becomes a series bc there are so many cues I miss and I just wish that I had someone who could clue me in! I don’t seem very autistic so people don’t know why I don’t do what they expect and think I’m being rude or selfish or something! I have a really hard time with these interactions!
@Pokecodm22712
7 ай бұрын
because the game is the game
@21touma
7 ай бұрын
And we all just lost
@NSUGS
7 ай бұрын
I lost
@Pokecodm22712
7 ай бұрын
@@21toumathat to
@marwankatana7135
7 ай бұрын
Yea
@rileyfuckingrifle
7 ай бұрын
@@21touma Correct. Damn it!
@mariuscarausu9352
7 ай бұрын
Had a guy at work that never watched sports games,so he started watching games so he can take part in the conversations,and now he's going on the road to watch teams play.Kinda wild how he turned in a year from not caring to going to away stadiums to watch them
@SlothinAintEasy
7 ай бұрын
“Did you see the game last night?” “Yea rocksteady really screwed up on that one.”
@maximusjones5981
7 ай бұрын
this video is so needed. not for me but so that girls will talk to me. this man is setting me up
@Zynnthex
7 ай бұрын
So my parents are divorced, and yesterday they were arguing at my dad's house about whom i would be with next week. This stuff usually happens a lot, so I drow it out by playing Fortnite in the living room. out of nowhere, my dad goes, "Is that fucking Peter Griffin in your game?" and i go yeah cuz it is. I was in the lobbys Peter and my dad thought it was funny. My moms tarted bursting out laughing and they both made fun of f the way he looked, because he's not fat in Fortnite. The conversation between my parents started to lighten up, and my dad just said my mom can have me Sunday night . I just heard that mom's coming over to watch the super Bowl with me and my dad too? It's so weird tha they're acting nicely with each other, but it's good.
@FullmetalAngyl
7 ай бұрын
It's good to hear that things are hopefully heading for the better. And you deserve a LOT more than the 2 likes you had at the time of posing this comment.
@Riokv
7 ай бұрын
And thats how Peter Griffin saved my parents relationship ft. Fortnite
@ianjames8140
7 ай бұрын
Fortnite balls
@HonorViego
7 ай бұрын
Happy for ya
@amixofgeekcontent
7 ай бұрын
I think i heard that confusion can legit diffuse an argument.
@rachieru382
7 ай бұрын
Ngl, I thought this was how all conversations work when you don't want to admit you have no idea but want to know everything. Another way to find out and keep it going is to start with "Nah, but I heard it was crazy/wild!" This opens the door for them to continue. Even asking "What'd you think about it?" People like talking about their interests more than they like talking about themselves. Showing interest and asking questions ("Wait, what? I must have missed that. What happened?") can keep a simple conversation going for hours.
@SigmaNPC0
7 ай бұрын
Why is bro giving away our secrets ??
@Nolie_CaNolie
7 ай бұрын
That whole social interaction made me anxious and I WASNT EVEN A PART OF IT
@housevil2
7 ай бұрын
The thing about arsenal is that they always try to walk it in...
@ahobbit1273
7 ай бұрын
I love the implication that there has ever been a situation in which a dude has asked “did you see the game last night?” and was, in fact, referring to golf.
@jeffreysherman8224
7 ай бұрын
Bro, you can give up the fast food secrets, but don't give up the guy secrets! Shhhh!
@ladyk5266
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@doom7850
7 ай бұрын
“Did you see the game last night?” “Hell yeah dude, I can’t wait for February.” “Wait what?” “We’re talking about that Elden Ring reveal right?”
@zoeyjafferally3475
7 ай бұрын
As a female who is extremely tomboyish and is a proud member of the 🌈🌈 I can totally relate to. Any male and female that asks me if I saw the game last night I'll talk your butt off, lol. These are facts 💯 💯🤣🤣😭😭 P.s oh and by the way I absolutely saw the game last night. 😂😂
@diothar
7 ай бұрын
I don’t think I could have explained it in 3x the amount of time. You know you know what you are talking about by how concise you can be.
@icejackalgodofmetal14
7 ай бұрын
Yeah I would respond with No I didn't I don't care about football
@annieseaside
7 ай бұрын
Wow! Wow! Thank you! I always wondered, this makes perfect sense and boy have I overheard this tons of times times! Great easy explanation! ❤
@victoriabell9546
6 ай бұрын
Well, thanks Jordan. Now I know how to talk to almost all the male coworkers at my job and my physical therapists! No seriously, this is great advice, especially as someone who has a hard time following most sports unless it was the NBA Finals.
@jordanglasper1064
7 ай бұрын
Hahahahahahaha this God on point. I haven’t genuinely watch sports with a passion since the days of WWF. That tells your son. Yet no other man on the planet, has ever figure this one out when it comes to me. In short it’s called guy code, and those who know, know, those who don’t, won’t. I’m highly impressed with the notebook the God carries for this breakdown. And I also love how genuinely enthusiastic he is about this topic.
@michaelwolf8690
2 ай бұрын
Can confirm. Half of my guy conversations is me agreeing with something until I can figure out what we're talking about.
@LIKEandLOL
7 ай бұрын
This is pretty true. I had this friend in gs who really liked ovechkin and i liked him too. I wasn't too into hockey though but ever time i saw him i'd bring him up. I've brought up "the game last night" a bunch of times that i can remember and have had multiple friendships w dudes where i almost strictly talk about sports w them. I have been programmed at a young age to do this, and it helps
@DarkHorizons13
6 ай бұрын
Dude this is actual factual, I'm on the spectrum and my step dad had to teach me this so I could be social and make new or more friends. I do this technique alot and to him (loves footy, Australia has AFL, NRL, ARU and NSL to which he calls all of them footy) best life skill I was ever taught.
@MeridianSon
7 ай бұрын
As a man that doesn't typically engage in "Sports" per se, this was very informative
@amisvambe
6 ай бұрын
Brilliant. Absolutely brilliant.
@jesse_campbell
7 ай бұрын
I love sports ball. Especially when the puck sails through the uprights, and they score a home run.
@ladyk5266
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Ninjanimegamer
7 ай бұрын
Most games are hyped up in the media before the event. Plus, depending on which season it is its easy to figure out. Baseball, spring and summer Football, late summer to winter Basketball, winter to spring Golf, spring and summer Hockey, winter Major playoffs are at the end of the season and everyone should know when the Superbowl is. Lineups start preseason and overlap the seasonal sport, but they aren't as followed unless in certain circles and its a favorite ream, but you know who watches these games. This is how i figured it out and I'm a girl who hates sports but my dad and uncles follow their own teams and get very intense when the games are on. So to keep up with conversation during holidays I'll switch around, as most guys do (unless their team is playing) to find out plays and scores to look like I know what I'm talking about. I used to impress my boyfriends by knowing how to talk sports. I've since married a computer geek and not a sports fan. Its less stressful.
@TeaBurn
6 ай бұрын
Me, being an introvert that hates talking in general and perfectly comfortable killing the conversation "No, I don't like to watch sports". Then I enjoy the awkward silence while continuing my work.
@SunRise-cd5cb
7 ай бұрын
Jordan I just came across your shorts. I must say, you are spoiled and a smart aleck! But you put the only smile on my face! Great shorts! You remind me, of me when I was in my 20's. Lol. I wish you all the best!!!!
@kalilu3469
7 ай бұрын
As an Uber driver. The springboard method has never let me down. Ever, for any topic. Politics, pottery, cars, sports
@Odrikah
7 ай бұрын
Everyone always likes to characterize women as the super complicated ones who do all kinds of mental gymnastics during conversations, but I'd argue there is an equally deep, complex sort of mastery that goes into the male-perfected art of trying to piece together everything everyone else is saying without asking a single question and trying to seem competent in the mystery topic all he while.
@OmnipotentSag
7 ай бұрын
Lmbo! 😂😂😂 I don't watch "games," so I'd shut it down at the question with "No, I didn't."
@sergeantpug9279
7 ай бұрын
As a guy thats built incorrectly this has helped me understand so much. I shall use this knowledge as soon as possible
@hv2623
7 ай бұрын
The seasons dont overlap that much, and you usually start with local teams first. That weeds out a lot of possible games.
@dovebair
7 ай бұрын
Ahhh reminds me of that IT crowd skit. “The thing about Arsenal, is they always try to walk it in.” Excellent explanation of social grace :)
@meriambenouis5318
7 ай бұрын
This sounds exactly like the convos my husband has with random sport enthusiasts
@ItAllWorks4Good
7 ай бұрын
OMG!!! You are brilliant!!! 🥰
@TurtleTimeVoiceOvers
7 ай бұрын
Or… orrrrrr. You could ask them which game. Women shaking their head and laughing. And men say _women_ are complicated. 😆
@BottomOfTheLineup
7 ай бұрын
That ending!😂😂
@IncendiarySolution
7 ай бұрын
I've found that the best response to "Have you seen the game last night" is "Eff You". I don't watch sports, but they immediately reply with something specific like "Still salty about those Bills, Eh?" or "Jacksonville can't catch a win" You immediately become someone's best friend in two words
@PiNkSpRinkLe1
7 ай бұрын
This was my favorite of your videos so far!
@carstekoch
7 ай бұрын
Im just like "nah man, tell me about it"
@Marthroy9000
7 ай бұрын
I usually just say, "Nah, which one?" I don't watch sports though, so if you're asking me then you don't know me and I feel no pressure asking questions. Men's hobbies are easy to talk about because knowing the right questions to ask leads to a pleasant conversation regardless of the topic.
@johnninocovers
7 ай бұрын
“Have you seen the game last night?” “No. What went down?” Then they catch you up to speed and tell you about. A good way to make them feel nice about sharing something they’re interested about.
@brandonnewby178
7 ай бұрын
^^^^^^^ The guy who says, "No." 😂😂😂
@johkonut
7 ай бұрын
It’s funny to imagine two guys going “Eyy you see the game last night?” And then proceed to talk about golf 😂
@Reactor10k
7 ай бұрын
As a guy I always say, "No, I hate watching people exercise." Then we connect over tv shows or computer games.
@malexander2438
7 ай бұрын
I love your content so much. You are relatable and cute and normal. Normal is hard to find these days.
@Flamma_Dreemurr
7 ай бұрын
It’s the same principle where guys can go hours into a friendship without being able to recall each others names
@collapsingwavefunction_.3356
7 ай бұрын
This explains so much.
@amberlucille8445
7 ай бұрын
Everytime he says "Come here🫴🏾" I'm always thinking Ok Yes, where you need me to come to 😂 He knows he's too fine!
@rubii15
7 ай бұрын
That's on point.
@Harrietmjones
7 ай бұрын
This makes me think of that episode of The I.T. Crowd tbh. ☺️⚽️
@CustomBlocks
7 ай бұрын
As someone who is addicted to watching sports, knowing which game is being referenced has never been an issue
@LadyVineXIII
7 ай бұрын
That is very intelligent. I also realize that I do this because I grew up watching Football and Baseball with my parents. Sometimes, I can guess based on the season, the person and the excitement level which sport they're talking about. I only ever talked golf with my Gramps, but with my mom, especially in the fall, I know it's football season. Spring is for baseball.
@Michael_Spoto
7 ай бұрын
I'll keep myself just enough in the loop to have conversations about the main sports teams in my area for this reason.
@isabrom5295
7 ай бұрын
As someome with autism, this was very helpful, I will have to practice this, this is genious!
@joekalista3615
7 ай бұрын
"that or you saw the game" damn dude. im glad you exist.
@SoBasicallyImRetarded
7 ай бұрын
As a man who isn't enthusiastic about sports I feel the pain whenever goong to talk to other people
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