I have ADHD … I don’t remember people names … so I wait for someone else to say the person name … so I can then use it
@sweet2sourr
Ай бұрын
I found it helpful when I repeat the name back to a person then make a mental note where I associate their name with something or where they’re from. “My name is Victoria” Me: “Victoria, nice to meet you Victoria.” Then make an association.
@giareneeble
Ай бұрын
This is the way.
@dliap98
Ай бұрын
me too! idk if other adhd folk get this but my brain for some reason doesn't link a name to a person, i don't know why. like i can know someone from a class of mine pretty well and have spoken to them quite a bit, but until I have to either get their attention or refer to them in conversation to someone else, i won't even realize that i don't know their name because when i think about them it never crosses my mind. i will know and remember other things about them but i could be thinking about someone for a while and just never think about that their name is. but definitely, i wait for someone else to say it, or if i have to i explain that i'm sorry, i'm bad with names and can they please remind me of their name
@playadre7431
Ай бұрын
Same, but I will always remember your vibe and any interests we discussed...but I do politely apologize when it slips my mind.
@dliap98
Ай бұрын
@@playadre7431 same! i find saying something i remember about them makes them a bit less hurt that i forgot their name and shows that it's not that i don't care, it's just that my brain does not store names in my memory very well lol
@courtneylee643
Ай бұрын
I don't remember people's names but would never go out of my way to say it in such a belittling manner to them.
@crestfire8008
Ай бұрын
The other way is to see what kind of assumptions they have of you. I came across a mean girl who was telling me "you're so lucky. I normally don't make FEMALE friends. All my friends are guys"
@shelbyonehalf
Ай бұрын
It's narcissism 101.
@sweet2sourr
Ай бұрын
Everything is narcissism to people who watched too much victim content.
@shelbyonehalf
Ай бұрын
@@sweet2sourr Says you.
@Young4eva121
27 күн бұрын
@@sweet2sourrWho is that actress in your profile picture
@katfujioka212
Ай бұрын
I think they can also be mean by mentioning your name too much, in a jokey tone. I knew a really mean girl who would constantly say my name at the end of each sentence when she spoke to me, but always in a sarcastic voice, like she thought my name was weird.
@FishareFriendsNotFood972
Ай бұрын
I'm so, so sorry, Cara!
@Actuallyusefulthings
Ай бұрын
I think we will all need this person once in our life. These people exist and you might relate to this if it happened to you. If not, just wait 😂
@user-do1qf8rm7b
Ай бұрын
That’s true. I couldn’t remember my new friends name so I went on our schools Facebook page and searched every profile until I found it lol
@randomstranger345
Ай бұрын
How are you so wise Also where were you when I was in school… would’ve saved me so much heartache 😢😂❤
@alexandriac2157
Ай бұрын
By default I don’t think anyone remembers my name so when new girls do, it’s like awww ur too cute ur my friend now. I’m going to keep u 🫶🏼
@captainman2clever351
Ай бұрын
I've never met a woman who does this
@Kayla-111
Ай бұрын
YUP!!!
@SahilSharma-ug7xv
26 күн бұрын
Its just name but maybe that person isn't interested in you. So just discard them from your life.
@MissThingymabob
Ай бұрын
I don't remember names well but I do remember birthdays. And I remember whenever anyone slights me. Going all the way back to my time in daycare. I'm not mean or a girl's girl....I'm smart.
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