“Use your full vocal range...” Theatre kids: GOT IT😈🔥
@jesterssketchbook
6 жыл бұрын
pro-ject!!!!
@svenservette4197
6 жыл бұрын
Chan Gian ugh Theatre kids are awful...
@jamestrotman3238
6 жыл бұрын
+Sven Servette we're a special breed, yes
@giannchan6752
6 жыл бұрын
Sven Servette Um thank you? :’D
@MrMasterDebate
6 жыл бұрын
Chan Gian what have you done....
@therunningman761
6 жыл бұрын
Someone's been binging markiplier
@rahultechbro7179
5 жыл бұрын
therunningman761 my name is ademulla and I’m from Wakanda
@itotallyagreewithyou6586
5 жыл бұрын
@@rahultechbro7179 great, I am Jesus, from heaven.
@iamrahatul
5 жыл бұрын
@@itotallyagreewithyou6586 Right! I'm Lucifer from Hell.
@FictionCautious
4 жыл бұрын
At least he learned something from it.
@nuke7
5 жыл бұрын
Key Takeaways: - Bait the story - Use full vocal range - Act out emotions
@Mikzala
10 ай бұрын
yoooo bro wrapaed the video in just 3 line💀
@BoburRustamov
6 жыл бұрын
I have applied storytelling advices which you guys suggested on Kevin Hart video starting from last year and I have seen so many changes since then! I could see how people are excited about spending time with me and I felt more confident and charismatic about myself because of that. Thank you guys! Best channel right here
@Sam-ng3of
6 жыл бұрын
Problem is most charismatic characteristics come naturally to extroverts, so it sucks if you're an introvert.
@TheCactuar124
6 жыл бұрын
Abdus Samad So? The most important thing is practice. Even an introvert can become an amazing storyteller if they keep practicing and applying these tips.
@JoeyTeckno
4 жыл бұрын
@@Sam-ng3of I am TEXTBOOK introvert, curiously enough, people always mistake me for an extrovert. What I'm trying to say is that you can learn to not be shy, which is often a common denominator of us introverts. And as TheCactuar124 pointed out, it's all about practice. Then it WILL come naturally.
@Jack0533Harris
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheCactuar124!
@user-ug5ry2su5s
2 жыл бұрын
But, what you do to not make these techniques purely for people to be happy?
@heykenzo4284
6 жыл бұрын
One thing I gotta point out is that, apperantly, Mark IS that silly person on real life as well. Not that I've ever met him in person, that's just what his friends and fellow KZitemrs say about him. He isn't faking, he's just exagerated by nature. Something that many people, me included, can relate to.
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Makes total sense. The best possible thing you can do to be charismatic is work to make it a habit so you don't have to think about it or fake anything
@heykenzo4284
6 жыл бұрын
My guess is that a big part of his charisma comes from his childish side. Because we all had that and always will have that childish self, watching someone be a big bearded brat makes us feel that much comfortable on being brats ourselves and laugh out loud to d*ck jokes. And since Mark adds variety to his repertoire (like self deprecating humor, self elevating humor or creepy dark humor) that one side of him doesn't feels too overused.
@shadowthief6537
6 жыл бұрын
Yes!! But I can also see how he's had lots of practice in being more engaging when talking to himself for extended periods is his job. He started out outgoing but there's definitely a difference now than when he first started.
@justinz9225
5 жыл бұрын
I get your point, but every successful youtuber is faking. By "faking", I simply mean that they're ramping up their expressions to huge proportions. That's what being an entertainer is. That doesn't mean it's false or disingenuous, just that they're not always cranked up to 11 in real life. Just watch Markiplier's old videos and you'll see how his "character" has evolved. Yes, he's the same person, but he figured out how to be more appealing and presentable on camera.
@paleobc65
6 жыл бұрын
I really wish you would've uploaded this during my high school years, I was so awkward and and many of stories lacked any sort of purpose or weren't as funny or as interesting as I thought it would be
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Trust me, I too really wish I had known any of this in high school haha. Cheers to high school awkwardness and all the stories that I think back on and cringe at 😂
@Crambull
6 жыл бұрын
paleobc65 In high school, I generally avoided telling any personal stories simply because I knew people would either lose interest or not care in the slightest. Better learn late than never I guess.
@meliams5661
6 жыл бұрын
It's not too late. I'm almost hit 30. I'm still awkward
@paleobc65
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah I definetley I laugh back at those moments so I can cope
@tubbysza
5 жыл бұрын
Why you really judge yourself, no wonder you were so awkward. Luckily your problems of the past are solved thx to this video... Right?
@kevlarkevin1840
6 жыл бұрын
I think the biggest clue in this video is that everybody knows how to act, they just get really awkward when they think they have to act someway other than naturally. Great vid!
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks kevlarkevin!
@eternalray8194
6 жыл бұрын
Be confident basically.
@T.Y.L.E.R_777
4 жыл бұрын
Nah is not that easy for introverts
@GiftedFey
3 жыл бұрын
@@T.Y.L.E.R_777 yeh its so hard
@payton_bagel8317
3 жыл бұрын
@@T.Y.L.E.R_777 Well, Mark’s an introvert. But yeah as a fellow introvert I’m super self conscious 0_0
@NaderVaderYT
3 жыл бұрын
... Yeh
@Dumani_Manqoba
2 жыл бұрын
But how u get the content
@gabrielaw2058
6 жыл бұрын
What a story Mark
@MrDynamite246
6 жыл бұрын
Hi Tommy
@hap995
6 жыл бұрын
+Mr Dynamite2468 YOU'RE TEARING ME APART, LISA
@sabhishek9289
5 жыл бұрын
Mark: Your A Genius!!!!! Now excuse me I got to go and bone Lisa. Isn't that a great story XDXD
@maxkadunce
2 ай бұрын
Hi doggyyyyyy
@VihanDamaris
5 жыл бұрын
Oh mi goodness I needed this. Been super monotone most of my life, and doing videos would wonder why people aren't watching the way I expected. Over the past few months I changed it up a bit, brought it a few notches higher like you said, and noticed a vast difference in enjoyment both for the viewer and for myself as editor! 😂 Never tried the hook and bait thing though, and it makes absolute sense. Shall work on it, thanks so much!
@ThatsABitPersonal
6 жыл бұрын
I think Markiplier is the only KZitemr whose really long vlogs I can watch the whole way through Even if he wasn't funny or interesting, he's got a voice I could listen to forever.
@singdawn2016
6 жыл бұрын
Look up "David Dobrik"
@RenzoIsHereYT
6 жыл бұрын
Please make a video on how to enter a group conversation without being rude or weird. Most people in my clubs are already friends with each other and are in convos and I get scared when trying to talk to people who are in convo already.
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
I think we did this in one of our animated videos! I don't remember which one but I remember seeing it at some point
@Sheepyz
4 жыл бұрын
introduce yourself to them. if u already know em but just dont talk w them, try to listen to what they’re saying and relate to something similar that has happened to u and use the tips on the video while saying it
@MackMillicco
6 жыл бұрын
Markiplier has come a long way in terms of how he portrays himself before his audience. Like many KZitemrs, he started out incredibly introverted and watching him since 2012 allows me to say that he has evolved dramatically and has become much more comfortable when in front of a camera or audience. Great advice and great video!
@alexanderSnilsson
6 жыл бұрын
Perfect - storytelling is my focus of the month! Both for improving my social skills, but also to improve my videos for my channel :) Keep it up!
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
That's awesome! I think for KZitem these are all even more important, because people can click away more easily than walk away. I definitely think focusing on these three things can help make videos more interesting
@alexanderSnilsson
6 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. How much script breakdown do you guys do before shooting your videos?
@haris000000
6 жыл бұрын
Alexander Nilsson Dude what do you mean by "focus of the month" that sounds intetesting?
@TheVilivan
6 жыл бұрын
haris000000 Probably trying to get better at one specific aspect of social skills for a whole month (because trying to master everything at once is really hard), and then changing it the next month
@alexanderSnilsson
6 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I break down my goals on a weekly, monthly and 5-month basis. So much things I want to learn and develop, but experience has taught me ( and tons of 'guru's' ) that focus is king. Decide on thing thing and execute on that. Easier said than done. Especially when there is KZitem constantly BOMBARDING you with so many things that 'will change your life'. :)
@Northernhail
6 жыл бұрын
What if I'm emotionally dead inside?
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Hmmmmmm, I'd probably look at that first and worry about storytelling after you're alive inside :-)
@dipbar1824
6 жыл бұрын
I love you
@Mavish11
6 жыл бұрын
Fake it till you make it.
@jamesgrey13
6 жыл бұрын
Evanescence will wake you up inside! :D
@jpotts18
6 жыл бұрын
Fake it. Works for psychopaths!
@vsh1998
6 жыл бұрын
But wouldn't hyping up a story like this make you at risk of coming off as dramatic? How do I ensure to make people excited about the story and not make the punchline deliver in an anti-climactic way?
@krishnarao4290
6 жыл бұрын
Honestly, Markiplier has the most masculine voice and the best laugh !!
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Completely agree. I didn't want people to try to fake their voice or their laugh so I didn't include it in the video, but he is definitely benefited by his voice and the fact that he's handsome. BUT, I still think that anyone can do the three things in this video and be a captivating storyteller, regardless of voice or face :-)
@abdmzn
6 жыл бұрын
I was told that he sounds like he tries to make his voice sound masculine/fakes it, idk though.
@payton_bagel8317
3 жыл бұрын
@@abdmzn Nah, he just sounds like that. It would be SUPER hard to make it that deep for so many years without slipping up or ruining your voice. In the past though (2014-2015-ish) he did kinda fake his voice. Not because he was insecure about it but because he had trouble projecting. But even then you can see in some more quiet or low key videos (like in his vlogs at the time) his voice still sounds deep, but not as radio-showy
@jsc1jake512
3 жыл бұрын
I love to tell stories about Mythology and History since they're the most interesting subjects to me. I've always liked stories, no matter if they're real or fake and I've always been a bit of a gamer, so if a game I find has lore in it I will DEFINITELY read the heck out of it. My problem though is that I have a bit of a deep and monotone voice, or so others have told me, and whenever I tell a story in real life I feel like my "audience" (friends) gets bored so this really helps me, thank you for making this video and Markiplier is honestly probably the best choice for a subject like this, I'm not a huge fan of the guy but I do watch his videos from time to time.
@haydenwalker2647
6 жыл бұрын
I saw Markiplier and immediately clicked
@zooyorkdanny
6 жыл бұрын
I've gotta say I absolutely love your videos! They've helped me so much and their very entertaining to watch. Nobody else makes these kinda informative videos as much fun as you do. Great work! Keep it up and thanks so much for the help!
@RicoResolves
6 жыл бұрын
The key to a good story, is visualisation. I have a friend which is deaf mute, and they went to a play with a group and there was a black screen, black dressed actors wearing white gloves. Telling the story by sign language. Everytime you tell a story, it needs to be something people can relate too. For instance, if you're in the commerce business, you could say: "Hey, would you like to maybe have an offer from me if that's ok?". Or, you could say: "Look, You've got a couple of products from us, but not everything. I'd like to sit down with you and see if we have something else that suits your needs. After that, talk it over with your wife after dinner, and I'll contact you in about a week". See the difference? In the first sentence, there's a lack of visualisation, and confidence. In the second sentence, you're putting the person into a position he's familiar with (the kitchen table talks) and you're confident about your own products.
@ducklord6922
6 жыл бұрын
mark is a really charismatic and interesting guy i personally don't watch let's plays anymore (i used to really love them) but mark does so much more than let's plays and watching him in podcast and other stuff like that you can just tell he is a fantastic story teller he really does keep the interest high my favorite youtuber is ethan but while in the podcast i was a whole lot more interested in what mark had to say
@Andy-ou9lp
6 жыл бұрын
No wonder a lot of people like listening to me haha. One tip I found really useful is instead of just saying “ my friend did this... “ . You try to act and mimic what your friend did with emotion and movement. So the people you’re telling the story to feel like they were actually there! Try to change your emotion based on how you felt in the moment, don’t be bland! ((:
@lauramax93
6 жыл бұрын
4:30 Did you just call my beautiful city, Glass Cow?! (Tbh I really can’t tell the way he said it was so weird)
@SonoVAo
6 жыл бұрын
Funny, I’ve been doing this every time I tell jokes or funny stories, I learnt it off my dad who does exactly this. Love this channel!
@ishans4230
5 жыл бұрын
Bait the hook Use the full range of your voice and vocals Convey Emotion
@ohboy1113
5 жыл бұрын
6:29 Tone: Single Facial expressions: NA Body language: Blinking
@BiancaBlade
6 жыл бұрын
I'm currently in a communications class in college, and have learned more from watching your videos than I have in that class. Thank you for these.
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ Appreciate the kind words!
@Brancake
6 жыл бұрын
I've been watching Mark for YEARS and I've never noticed that he does these things. Thank you for this awesome analysis!
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Brancake! My pleasure, glad you enjoyed it 😁
@DarkBlueNutrition
6 жыл бұрын
Love this video!! I’ve been trying to up my story telling game for KZitem and in my personal life 😊 much love!! Keep them coming!
@Bladeclaw00100
6 жыл бұрын
Wow the timing is so well done. I am just about ready to start my own lets play channel an needed to hear how someone keeps you hooked to watching your videos. I actually am a bigger fan of EricVanWilderman and yea Markiplier is another great one too. This was very helpful, thank you.
@Rayowag
6 жыл бұрын
I watched a lot of your videos, but this was one of the best ones for me out of a youtuber perspective! Loved it 😊
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ Glad you loved it!
@polobreak3249
6 жыл бұрын
I find watching CoC videos is a good warm up for talking to people. If I'm not in the mood to talk or feel low in energy, watching a video really helps.
@TkevTV
6 жыл бұрын
damn.... I needed those videos 2 years ago when I started with my new school:'D right now I'll finish soon, but hey... I still have some months left to engage my classmates and co-students and I'm still 19 so I have plenty of time... so thank you for your awesome analyses and tips I appreciate them so much especially this video has some of the most awesome tips. To be honest I used most of those things and to everybode who reads this: *It works!* when I started in the new school I was really happy, active and positive and *talked and entertained* almost everyone, except people I'm nervous around (like my crush... or some guy of my old class). The point is I used most if not all of this. I varied my voice tonality and speed, used emotions and pauses. I did all of this for the first half year, then I got calmer, after 1 and a half year I got some depressions from the pressure of my subjects, and right now I'm here, happy again and trying to become what I once was. I looked so long for the reason, why I was able to tell engaging stories (even though they were boring as f*ck) and for quite some months I was not, and right here are the reasons Again Ben, and Charlie, both of you.... I thank you deep from my heart for your helpful videos and your work you put into this. I really appreciate it and hope you continue with this stuff, as long as possible! Keep up with the great work.
@adyl3236
6 жыл бұрын
Thats for the advice. I recorded my voice. Decided to never talk again. Sad for people who heard me storytelling...
@JibJannapa
6 жыл бұрын
I got my first job thanks to your videos!!! The interviewers complimented me on my storytelling skill, little did they know that I've been practicing your tips and tricks! Thank you very much :) Btw, I really wish you would do a VDO on BTS' RM. He's the leader of a K-POP group that is blowing up around the world, especially in the US. I found his leadership skill very admirable and the way he answer questions is so fascinating (even Korean politicians, news reporters, and Google management have expressed their admiration of his communication skill). Even when most of his interviews were done in Korean, they're subtitles everywhere. It would be interesting to know his techniques in leading his group to global-scale.
@palemoonlight96
6 жыл бұрын
These videos with practical examples are your best! Could you pretty please also do the analysis of the youtuber angrypicnic? He's always so successful with girls and seems so confident and I'm interested to hear how he does it in terms of charisma...
@northstringlarge
6 жыл бұрын
after watching this, I came up with "The 7-11 Story". It's just about getting a slurpee from 7-11 and trying to stop the machine before it overflows, and still having it overflow, and then going home and enjoying the slurpee. I told this with incredible passion and all of my friends got pissed at me because they were so interested in a story about nothing.
@jonkubina1
6 жыл бұрын
You do an absolutely fantastic job of breaking down how people entertain others through the ways they talk, and your videos covering other youtubers is especially insightful. Could you break down how Jontron entertain people? He's like watching a looney toon, and for some reason I can't figure out what it is about his character that makes people like, subscribe, and rewatch his videos again and again.
@TheOddSusie
6 жыл бұрын
4:40 It's pronounced "Glaz-go" Not "Glas-cow" Sorry to be that guy, just a heads up because if you meet a Scot and pronounce it wrong, they will rip the utter shite out of you for the next 10 minutes. Great video as always though, glad I subscribed :)
@ginaonyemaechi
3 жыл бұрын
Haha!
@trumpeterjen
4 жыл бұрын
This is definitely true. I can only think of one person for whom being monotone worked, and it only worked because she actively dedicated herself to it at all times and had an extremely dry sense of humor. For the vast majority of people, it'll be easier to achieve the Markiplier effect.
@Ojuolape
4 жыл бұрын
Why have I never heard of Markplier but bigger question is why do I suddenly wanna go binge-watch his videos now ?
@zahando1732
6 жыл бұрын
out of the three story-telling videos, this one did for mae. Thanks Ben !
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Heyyyy that's awesome Tyler! I'm really happy to hear it!
@fenkefury1482
6 жыл бұрын
Entire video about his likability? Oh I wanna see that one! Because I'm one of his fans and I still have no idea why. Seriously, I never was into youtube, I didn't like watching other people playing video games before and yet here I am, watching him every day. I'm really curious what's up with that. And it would be great to borrow some of his magical tricks :D
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
We'll see how this video does but I'd definitely like to make another if this one does well :-)
@fenkefury1482
6 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command I hope it does well! Not even because I want to see another one, but because this one is great by itself and I like your channel in general. You guys deserve all the praise and recognition :D
@Gabiche
6 жыл бұрын
Now I'm curious to know why Mark had to go to the hospital because of a pickle in his eye! Great storytelling. But also, thumbs up for the maker itself of this video who analysed everything!
@jlupus8804
3 жыл бұрын
1. Crazy Teaser 2. Full vocal range with changing speed 3. Fluctuate voice body language and face 4. Imagine the emotion you want to convey
@brunobelchiorcomedy
6 жыл бұрын
dude, this is by far the best video i've seen on this subject, thank you, i'll definitely try my best to apply these tips on my storytelling, thanks once again.
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ That's awesome, thanks!
@fejj122na8
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Ben! Off Topic.... Any tips for naturally increasing your energy levels later in the day? For instance, I am a morning person, so I feel most alive during the first 2/3 of the day. But, come 8:00pm, my body starts winding down. Yet this is when a lot of my socializing takes place, which makes being joyful and charismatic a little bit more challenging. Any tips for natural ways to give your body a little bit of a wake me up (without using a substance like a caffeine or sugar)?
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't consider myself an expert on this but just from my personal experience, are you working out? And if so, at what time? I find that exercise gives me a high and then a crash. So if I lift at 6pm I'll definitely be awake at 8pm. But if I workout hard at 12pm, I might be more lethargic come 8pm. The other thing is, do you eat a big dinner? On nights where I'm going to go out, I try to do smaller meals more frequently, and even save dinner for when I get home that night if I'm not super hungry before going out. Probably not the best thing for physique to be eating right before bed, but it helps me be light and energetic when I'm out. Or you could try to sneak in a midday nap like Charlie does :-)
@peterjuff
4 жыл бұрын
I usually tell people what I want them to feel. Like "be sad for this part" and "now be ecstatic."
@btchoujosama
6 жыл бұрын
Please make more videos on Mark!!! I'm not a huge video game buff but I completely agree with and watch his channel purely for all the presentation characteristics you've mentioned in this video!! (:
@riju6117
5 жыл бұрын
*I'll never stop trying new things until I find one thing that makes me really excited*
@MaytaneVideos
6 жыл бұрын
That teaser sentence is a great tip
@TheGreatest-vj5qy
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Charisma On Command. I want you to make a video about how to be sarcastic.
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
I like this idea, I'll think on who would be good to do a breakdown on that could show this...
@arbaks3124
6 жыл бұрын
sure, that's what internet needs :)
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Look at that, two votes for sarcasm! ...wait a second...was that...sarcasm?! 😱
@111vincento
6 жыл бұрын
i think a good breakdown on how to be sarcastic is needed. alot of people only get it when its EXTREMELY obvious.
@reecehayden7731
6 жыл бұрын
I sense sarcasm
@juliobarrios8149
6 жыл бұрын
Could you do a video on Game Grumps? They don't do facecam but are really charming and you feel connected to those guys
@MattPincince
6 жыл бұрын
Love this. You chose the perfect person to convey this topic. These are completely actionable tips I can apply in my videos!
@DrAdnan
6 жыл бұрын
I have trouble with boring storytelling, especially in my videos. I need to work on the bringing in more happy emotion. At least I'm a legend- I watched till the end ;)
@ANTWXN
6 жыл бұрын
Your Videos are actually really reasuring and well put together... Big ups to you!!!
@TheGaragebandGuide
6 жыл бұрын
Glasgow is pronounced GLAZ-go, not 'glasskow' 👍
@Grazikon
6 жыл бұрын
It's actually closer to the original Gaelic 'Glaschu'
@Grazikon
6 жыл бұрын
The Scots Gaelic word 'Glaschu' is pronounced /glasaxu/. The original name is Celtic. The first attestation is as 'Glasgu' (in Gaelic). This became the Older Scots Glasgow /glasgu/, Modern English Glasgow (Scottish pronunciation: /glazgo:/) and Modern Scots Glesga~Glesgae~Glesca /glezgə~glezge~gleskə/.
@ShuyaTheDark
6 жыл бұрын
Sounds the same to me
@michaelcrowe6796
6 жыл бұрын
And yet we say Glazgo, not Glasgu.
@arranbrown6695
6 жыл бұрын
its actually glezgey
@gnome_farmer
6 жыл бұрын
I have been using your techniques and hints for about a month and i have noticed a major change in my life. thanks
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ That's awesome Nick!
@Rayowag
6 жыл бұрын
I literally just finished watching his latest video 😂
@piotrzwirowski8435
6 жыл бұрын
Man, I hope you’re gonna appear more often on this channel, because I think you’re just as great as Charlie is and would love to hear something more from you!!
@carlangas0100
6 жыл бұрын
I completely see him in another way now, I always watched him but never paid attention to those little-big things in his speech. Thanks for the mega interesting video!
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ Our pleasure! Thanks for watching. :-)
@daravandaro815
6 жыл бұрын
What do u guys think about Hank Moody. Have u ever considered making a break-down about him?🤔
@daravandaro815
6 жыл бұрын
*In Californication
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
I've actually never seen the show so I have no idea haha. I'm sure there's good stuff in there though, I know it was super popular
@Phicksusmc
3 жыл бұрын
My issue is that I can’t remember any details of my life enough to say anything more than something “I went on vacation here once and saw this thing”
@Carl.Henriksson
4 жыл бұрын
I loved when he talked about his childhood Nightmares and lucid Dreams when he played Five Nights At Candy's 3, it was so interessting and now i know why!
@LovedHappy
6 жыл бұрын
Love your videos! This was great.
@FerrariKing
6 жыл бұрын
I have watched him when he played Outlast. He is good at making bland part of a game interesting.
@mocawnorkim7845
6 жыл бұрын
You guys should look into Olan Rogers for topics like storytelling and comedy. PLEASE! I need it in my life, thank you.
@gatsuga1
6 жыл бұрын
Hi guys! Not sure if this is the place to ask about this, but I was wondering if you can do a breakdown of what makes Tim Bilyeu's speeches so captivating and interesting. I know you do charisma breakdowns and maybe what Tom does is a bit different, but I thought I'd still ask. Keep the awesome videos coming !
@Shark1103
6 жыл бұрын
He also have a deep voice, that's a bonus. Thanks for the video.
@socorradecastro9673
2 жыл бұрын
I watch this video a lot, fromwhen I first started my podcast to this moment I'm training to be a tour guide
@chadjones3263
6 жыл бұрын
I would love if you did a video like this about someone like Andy Stanley, Judah Smith, or Matt Chandler
@soatok
6 жыл бұрын
I think the problem that a lot of us face when telling stories is: Our primary emotion in our day-to-day is anger, and we spend so much time repressing that anger that we're (at first consciously but eventually subconsciously) forcing ourselves to be monotone. This is especially true for anyone who has worked in retail (or, worse, a deli).
@littleblizzard7591
6 жыл бұрын
When my story isn’t going well quickly end it with “and then I found five dollars!” The more I’m choking the more money I “find”. Everyone always perks up!
@andrewhultmark8494
5 жыл бұрын
2:20 yeah ethan(blue hair) seems real interested
@meris8486
6 жыл бұрын
2:20 "You'll notice it's much easier to hold the attention of a group" While the guy on the left has *kill me* eyes
@nenewini
4 жыл бұрын
That's just his personality
@meris8486
4 жыл бұрын
@@nenewini It's just Ironic.
@nickchavez3344
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Ben! Do you have any tips for somebody who is afraid of interacting with certain people. I want to engage in conversation with a lot of people, but I always think it’s going to fall flat.
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Nick! I think this video Charlie made might help? kzitem.info/news/bejne/w5udm2unkX-Lh3o
@nickchavez3344
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ben! I appreciate it very much.
@haris000000
6 жыл бұрын
Nick Chavez thats called learned helplesnes. Your brain predicting a negative outcome based on past events. Meaning your brain is running past=future equation. Your brain likes the certainty that equations gives it. Break that equation and your golden. My suggestion? Make the desired action (talking to people) at least once until you can get an outcome that is different and better than your previous results. Once you have that you can build from there. Heres a tip. Most people suck at conversations .. they are just as scared and insecure as you have been until now. Pay attention and you will notice it from now the ticks and awkward gestures ....
@cheydinal5401
6 жыл бұрын
6:40 Actors don't "fake" emotions let alone body expressions, they basically just imagine themselves to be in different circumstances and let the rest happen naturally. The imagining of different circumstances is really most of the work, which includes imagining you're a different person.
@salocinayosh2622
6 жыл бұрын
Breakdown on Tiffani Haddish’s, maybe about her bubbly charisma
@tander101
5 жыл бұрын
I didn't even notice Mark in the thumbnail and was pleasantly surprised when he was the topic of the video.
@ExploringInsanity
6 жыл бұрын
You always come up with quality & needed stuff ⚓🔛❤Thank you so much Manh!!!🔥📢
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks! That's awesome you think so :-)
@swampfox984
6 жыл бұрын
I tried thinking of a question to ask you since you announced on Instagram that the next video was coming but I got nothing. So I will just say thanks for the channel. It's one of my top two on KZitem. I'm better today because of it.
@swampfox984
6 жыл бұрын
Video idea too: something on Casey Neistat. Don't know what but he is popular so I'm sure you could make a great video.
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Hey John! For what it's worth, this comment means a lot more to me than a question would have :-)
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
I actually haven't watched many of his videos, I'll check them out and see what I see!
@swampfox984
6 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command well that is good. :)
@ThatOneGuyWhoWearsGlasses
Жыл бұрын
To summarize, 1. bait stories, 2. Emphasize certain words, 3. Show a lot of emotion (not too much, find the right balance) 4. Use wide vocal range
@nomercy8989
6 жыл бұрын
Where is this Glass cow?
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
My bad!
@RespectTheConglomerate
2 жыл бұрын
This was so good. I was having a hard time coming up w a story
@opedromagico
6 жыл бұрын
Awesome!!!
@jazzblack666
6 жыл бұрын
Hello! I have a short question about dating. How do I arrange a date with someone I barely see via chat, (without making it akward) that has very high percentage of success? And, if the person wants to go out, but seems reluctant to do so for some reason (shy, or too busy) how do I approach this situation? Thanks
@poorboi8093
6 жыл бұрын
From what I've read and seen, is that in order for a story to be good it has to be one of 3 1. Something you truly enjoy telling (Law of state transference) I've seen people that before uttering a word their audience would crack up laughing before even hearing the joke, happened to me as well, Humans are social beings in the end. 2. Something you fear, the emotion of fear strikes deep, and can captivate people easily 3. The most important, it has to be a true story, a true experience, something that actually happened to you, because if it's fake it will lack, because you yourself know it's fake.
@MissVindicat
6 жыл бұрын
I love this. I'm creating a video for a job application and these tips are gold. Also, it's so much fun to do something like this! Thanks! 😃
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ Our pleasure! Glad you liked it. :-)
@MissVindicat
6 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command (:
@sourcedrop7624
6 жыл бұрын
I note that on the unfair mario game he is funny when angry because he isn't really angry. If he was legit getting mad it wouldn't be funny. There's some nuanced mind mechanics going on with that that I cant describe but you can see it if you're paying close enough attention.
@region3992
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for summarizing your 3 points at the end! Very helpful!
@Phillylove100
6 жыл бұрын
Please do another video on Markiplier and for the love of God. Talk about Milo yiannopolous. I've been trying to get you guys to talk about him for years. He is so worth a video, probably multiple videos
@virtualpants
6 жыл бұрын
I highly recommend KZitemr Swoozie06 for another great example of effective storytelling.
@onnnn111
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Ben, can you give me tips on dealing with friends/people teasing you? It's funny and everyone laughing and having fun, but it's at my expense and it bugs me sometimes. Should I just let it be? If not, how to act when it happens?
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Onny! This is an amazing question. It's so nuanced I'm afraid I can't really do it justice in a comment. Sometimes the best thing to do is laugh and let it go. Other times, pull the person aside in private and tell them it bothers you and ask them to stop. Your comment may lead to a video on this, I'll have to think on it and watch my friend group interact to notice when each reaction is warranted.
@sherifor3220
5 жыл бұрын
he has an awesome voice as it is. he could do tons of voice overs
@peterhudson1690
6 жыл бұрын
Howard Stern would be an amazing person to focus on in one of your videos! Specifically when it comes to his celebrity interviews, he often gets people to talk about things they never expected they would and they do it gladly. It would be hard to call it a "great" example, but certainly one of note; when interviewing Lady Gaga a few years ago he picked up on something as they were interviewing and got her to open up about being sexually assaulted by someone in the record industry when she was younger. TOTALLY unexpected, cleverly handled with a vast amount of empathy and respect, and enthralling to listen to (certainly stoked my frustration about such things years before "Me too"). If I were to obtain any celebrity's charisma, I would want it to be Howard Stern's
@Stewfou
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video man! It's great!
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ Glad you like it!
@erinyoulater
6 жыл бұрын
4:39 University of glass cow?!
@thenotorioussplorch9018
6 жыл бұрын
are you guys going to do another KZitemr video? if so can I recommended psychic pebbles?
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