Notes: 1. Trust his leadership (Example: What Eve did not do, "Let me ask my husband") 2. Speak life to him in private and in public. Be encouraging (Example: Abigail's words to David) 3. Give him space to process (Example: Esther taking time to talk to King Xerxes) 4. Pay attention to him (Example: Jezebel's attention to her husband) 5. Support him without being controlling. Offer value without imposing 6. Contribute to the things he does. Get interested in the things he loves. 7. Pray for and about him.
@LajuIren
Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@beatriceagbabiaka1827
Ай бұрын
It's worth it Thank you ❤️❤️
@user-ri9tu1ls6y
23 күн бұрын
Good evening ma, please can a lady marry a guy who is not spiritual as her
@LajuIren
Ай бұрын
Please Subscribe
@orjibaby
Ай бұрын
I have subscribed o mama
@jeremiaherinola9625
Ай бұрын
Me too
@imisioluwafajimi
Ай бұрын
What stood out for me is “give value without control” and “I should be okay if things don’t go my way”
@user-re9ox7sl8e
Ай бұрын
Let people's individuality grow even though you're now 1 with them
@kayodemattojo
Ай бұрын
It's that moment Jezebel became an example 😂😂😂 the vastness of analogies drives home every point Thank you, PL ❤
@ruthgift_xx
Ай бұрын
Emphasis on Giving him space 😭 it’s hard but I’ll try😂
@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dw
Ай бұрын
😂😂❤❤
@user-re9ox7sl8e
Ай бұрын
For real. I don't even know how to do this.
@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dw
Ай бұрын
@@user-re9ox7sl8e may God guide and help you as you try.
@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dw
Ай бұрын
Also, you can sit with him and discuss it. ✨
@priscillachinsembu4669
Ай бұрын
Just keep busy...you have a life of your own..your own interests and all ...@@user-re9ox7sl8e
@yomaibuje621
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much ma for this video. This was a whole sermon for me. I wrote down almost 4 pages of points. May your wealth of wisdom never run dry ma.
@user-re9ox7sl8e
Ай бұрын
The part about giving time to process...very difficult. Thanks for the Analogy. Esther was giving him time and space to process. Mary too... Communicate it; leave it with him, leave it with God. Give God time to work on your behalf. (Lol. What do I really need Jews for).
@temi45
Ай бұрын
Trust his leadership. 👌🏼 Very profound.
@imoleokediji5047
Ай бұрын
It's this person is our enemy and should be prayed against for me 😂😭 Support without control, very solid
@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dw
Ай бұрын
❤❤❤ Every week on PL's channel is a breath of fresh air. She talks about very important topics in very simple and edifying ways. I love it here! Amaka, why haven't you subscribed? 👀 Plus, PL's laughter is so contagious😂. ❤❤❤
@UdoyeTobechukwu
Ай бұрын
Speak life to your man always, Compliment, pray, support, Acts of service and pay attention to him. No truer words
@ephatagh3642
Ай бұрын
In this generation we will normalize Godly wisdom. Thank you PL for churning out this timeless truth.
@vivianjohn1555
Ай бұрын
You look so beautiful here Your skin routine is it 👌
@ojotuleemmanuelokutepa
Ай бұрын
Everything you said here is super spot on my PL Ma! “Support without control” is a such a spot on counsel!
@estellenachela6592
Ай бұрын
You need to let people's individuality grow even when you are now one with them.
@reveleerhemaushindiwangu8330
Ай бұрын
This video popped up when I was facing a difficult time. God bless you ma😇
@kiswendsidalydieyanongo1391
Ай бұрын
Offer help and value without control ❤
@stephenolosunde2942
Ай бұрын
Get interested in the things he love... Kaiii ❤
@thetemitopeojo8261
Ай бұрын
Yes. Abigail is so smart!! I loved her answer. She was very diplomatic, yet soft.
@Obianuju-Nwankwo
Ай бұрын
I love you Pastor Laju. I'm a Big Fan❤❤❤
@ThisisDikky
Ай бұрын
Here early to mark attendance! ✅
@oshowise
Ай бұрын
Support without control! That's my stand out point! Thank you PL. this is so spot on. I'll make sure my woman sees this🤭🤭
@marvellous-goddavid2401
Ай бұрын
Support without control... Beautiful video PL! GOD bless you!❤
@MasqueradeHQ
Ай бұрын
Royalty + Royalty 😊😊😊😊
@Comfort_Ebi
Ай бұрын
We're set!💃
@peaceeromonsele4999
Ай бұрын
PL is so full of wisdom! Thank you, PL. ❤
@olusegunabraham9015
Ай бұрын
God bless you Ma'am... You have no idea just how many men you have spoken up for. This was so profound ❤
@Davidovbiagele
Ай бұрын
I love how, Detailed, Insightful and Intentional this video and the other version of it are; Very Solid points, very interesting examples from Scriptures (even the most unassuming ones) 😅. Great analogies, and to cap it off I discovered that they’re the exact same length to the last second. PL you deserve some accolades 👏 Thank you ma
@nueljaszper3333
Ай бұрын
You see that " When she watches football with me" is is an irrefutable KEY. 😂
@user-vj6cf5uz3l
Ай бұрын
Offering value without control
@agomisrael
Ай бұрын
Insightful
@fiery_angel
Ай бұрын
Nnayi let us die here😭😂 So many secrets and valuable wisdom🥺God bless you PL❤
@BlessingOpatewa
Ай бұрын
Here catching up with PL ✍️
@alerotune
Ай бұрын
So good! lol @ ‘not your enemy’❤
@Nkemhalim
Ай бұрын
PL!!! Thank you, mama❤
@user-re9ox7sl8e
Ай бұрын
I've been looking forward to this episode.
@dplusgraphixstudio
Ай бұрын
PL , God bless you. I have watched the what ladies wants too. I would advise this is also reinstated at upcoming Ladies Conference. You capped it all.
@glorycharles6035
Ай бұрын
Super excited for this episode ❤️🥳🥳
@joyigunma8267
Ай бұрын
Awesome video! Thank you so much, PL!❤
@imisioluwafajimi
Ай бұрын
Thank you PL❤❤❤
@ikechukwugrace8559
Ай бұрын
Very insightful. God bless you ma
@Beingempresspearl
Ай бұрын
Full of wisdom ❤😊
@chuwanzichristy2518
Ай бұрын
Thank you Ma
@favourndakara
Ай бұрын
Thank you, PL.🙌🏽
@ogechionyeaboh7502
Ай бұрын
This is beautiful
@debaosaghae
Ай бұрын
Thank you, PL! 😍
@kanifechinyere
Ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥 Quite insightful thanks you PL❤
@augustacyril
Ай бұрын
Very impactful Thank you ma
@siVertueux
Ай бұрын
This is wisdom! Thank you ❤
@ruthgift_xx
Ай бұрын
Thank you PL🎉❤
@ikechukwuanumudu9470
Ай бұрын
Let me share with my wife 😊😊
@tolulopeelizabeth7142
Ай бұрын
So insightful ma
@florenceimakan
Ай бұрын
PL is such a wise woman❤
@FaithAdegboye
Ай бұрын
Thank you, ma
@victoryughakpoteni6942
Ай бұрын
Thank you ma’am ❤
@odeytheresao
Ай бұрын
Thank you PL. God bless you ma.
@enanguko2237
Ай бұрын
Thank you Ma. God bless you.
@tolulopesobowale5785
Ай бұрын
So much value! Thank you Ma
@temidayoadekunle4154
Ай бұрын
Thank you PL. I’m grateful to God, for the day I stumbled on your channel ❤
@InspiredGrisele
Ай бұрын
Guilty about time to process. Thank you Ma
@oluwatobiloladeborah5337
Ай бұрын
Thank you PL😊
@GracefullyKaren
Ай бұрын
Everything that you said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Speaking life is key. Wisdom is principle. Support, being an awesome cheerleader. God bless you 🙏🏿.
@Kristiana_Funmi
Ай бұрын
Thank you PL
@EniolaOmoboni
Ай бұрын
You look so beautiful PL, thank you for the heads up, I would use these when my man comes🥰❤️
@franklinodaro
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video PL🙏
@treasurebenson9773
Ай бұрын
Thank you soo much PL this was extremely helpful and enlightening. ❤
@Olamideofthenations
Ай бұрын
This is very insightful Thank you ma
@blessingochifea1794
Ай бұрын
Thank you PL ❤ I learnt a lot
@BlessingOpatewa
Ай бұрын
Value Value Value 🔥🔥
@Catxdthbkid
Ай бұрын
Thank you
@ramalucid16
Ай бұрын
Wow!! These words are heavenly inspired I believe. God bless you and more grace🙏
@DeborahBriggsDB
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Mama ❤🔥 Just started watching and the first point is so spot on! 👏👏👏
@thetemitopeojo8261
Ай бұрын
Thank you ma for this video. I like how you started the video and didn’t generalize men’s needs.
@vanessaonuoha2437
Ай бұрын
These are gems❤! Thank you PL. we are wiser for it
@kolawoleoluwatola5693
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much, ma I like watching your videos ❤
@favourmmesoma48
Ай бұрын
Thank you ma I love you so much ❣️
@_immaculata
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much PL Ma❤
@Mide_lite
Ай бұрын
Learnt alot ma
@emeeliagape
23 күн бұрын
I love the way you smile. It makes us want to watch it more. Love, love, love it.
@elizabethshiawoyaomoworare8328
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this beautiful masterpiece
@user-ds6gp3kx7f
Ай бұрын
I'm not yet married but I'm glad I got to listen to this, so I can apply this when I get there 😊, thank you ma for this.
@afolabioluwadamilola6986
Ай бұрын
Thank you ma
@Thomas.Makinwa
Ай бұрын
PL, you're one of the best teachers I know! Thank you for these gems❤
@bridgetojo
Ай бұрын
We are here again!!!
@joshuaobioma9933
Ай бұрын
Beautiful
@onomebenjamin7525
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much ma'am.. God bless you with more wisdom... I love and celebrate you Ma.
@maameamabainson2254
Ай бұрын
First time watching your video, I really enjoyed it thanks❤
@gloriadarko3082
Ай бұрын
Thank you ma 🙏
@romadeogungbemi2962
Ай бұрын
Lmaooo Nnayiiii😂😂😂
@peteradeleye5713
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much PL for this content, you are doing well ma'am. The aspect that resonated with me although I am single and not yet in a relationship is women speaking life to me. That really touched me.
@user-re9ox7sl8e
Ай бұрын
Thank you Pastor Laju...I'm happy I'm not alone with the way I behave. I pray your tips will help me do better. It can be difficult, but hearing it said is reassuring
@fiyinfoluwaawopetu1559
Ай бұрын
I have this video on repeat and repeat
@tomisin_ariyo
Ай бұрын
Your eyes are beautiful 🤩❤️❤️
@agnesbadzi8579
Ай бұрын
Emphasis value and offer help without control
@beev3467
Ай бұрын
Whoop whoop!!! 🥳🥳
@temi45
Ай бұрын
On my way to my WhatsApp community so they come to follow sharp. 🏃🏽♀️
@edwinaampadu3487
Ай бұрын
Thanks for the video PL. Can you kindly do a video on finances in marriage? How does it work? Joint account together with personal accounts or everything is joint or individual. I would appreciate your advice and perspective.
@loly.z
Ай бұрын
I want this teaching too
@asubiojorejoice6369
Ай бұрын
Same here
@nanyaintech
Ай бұрын
Hi PL, I love the way you use bible references to butress your points.
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