Okay lets get to the point that how to deal with toxic parents🔻 1. Stop trying to please them 2. Set and enforce boundaries 3. Be mindful of what you share with them 4.Don’t try to change them 5. Know your parents’ limitations and work around them - but only if you want to 6.Take care of yourself physically mentally emotionally and financially. I hope you are okay❤️
@IceyBear940
3 ай бұрын
Thanks 😊
@kanchanthakkar2782
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much di for share knowledge
@Mehwish_hu
3 ай бұрын
Thank
@QueenHeena63
3 ай бұрын
Thankyou didi so much for knowledge 😊😊😊
@Mehwish_hu
3 ай бұрын
😭
@Povpointzzz
Ай бұрын
Trust me, our generation is going to be the best at parenting ❤
@khadijakhanam8113
11 күн бұрын
100% sure
@medico.av12
8 күн бұрын
Yaa😊
@user-ge9yy9ht9y
2 күн бұрын
100% true yaar 🥺
@nayanikasarkar4590
Күн бұрын
Exactly 💯
@veenatanwer5442
Күн бұрын
No that's not true 😔🚫
@anjalikumari1482
2 ай бұрын
I have toxic parents, who always try to control me. They had given me a lot of trauma. Being a soft-hearted and sensitive girl I feel so bad. There is no single day I have not cried. Don't know but I want to end my life... I don't want that mental abuse. I am fed up with this
@amishaparmar8228
2 ай бұрын
same situation I suffer from depression become of this and i also got panic attacks and also try to harm my self 2 times, they always force me to do what they want, but since I start followed bts I become positive and I start to take stand for my self, I follow suga as his condition was also like this he suffer alot but he fight and today he become what he want to be I will always follow him.
@anushkajaiswal9490
2 ай бұрын
@@amishaparmar8228suga from BTS I mean he also had toxic parents?
@amishaparmar8228
2 ай бұрын
@@anushkajaiswal9490 not toxic but they don't support him for his dream of being rapper they forced him to concentrate on his study and they don't like when he spent time on rapping they want him to Focus only on study and somewhere I read that his Father burt his rapping lyrics which he used to write in his school days because of all this he got in depression and even he try to hurt himself but then he left his home and went to Seoul and work hard a lot and today he became successful rapper and now his parents support him
@anushkajaiswal9490
2 ай бұрын
@@amishaparmar8228I hope can deal with my parents and have better future 🥺
@vandanpatel8840
2 ай бұрын
Don’t do suicide life’s more than this I have also face this type of things and seen pray to GOD the one you like and take HIS/HER name and do the work Hope it helps😊
@mehtabhusain311
2 ай бұрын
You are right. "Every child deserve a parents but not every parents deserve a child"
@pearlvineeducation2213
Ай бұрын
Why ?
@mehtabhusain311
Ай бұрын
@@pearlvineeducation2213 because 80% parents are toxic too much
@gayatrikanwar2812
Ай бұрын
@mehtabhusain311 sorry...but only 10% are toxic remaining 90% are not
@gayatrikanwar2812
Ай бұрын
@@pearlvineeducation2213 because they all are provoked by these kind of influencer who set a bug on growing kids to go against their parents and ruin their lifes....🙄
@Plum6666
Ай бұрын
My mother doesn't deserve me
@divyanshiyadav1120
2 ай бұрын
So true...... 70% parents are like this ....... They destroy our mental health.... Leads to depression too
@SHREYASARVALE_45
2 ай бұрын
I can understand 😢
@mansoorahmad1320
2 ай бұрын
😢 i can understand too
@missbugaboo7144
2 ай бұрын
True....😥😥
@deepadhania5921
2 ай бұрын
True
@Slayymood_
2 ай бұрын
True 💔
@depressedgurly
3 ай бұрын
i witnessed a huge trauma today like my mom said to me that she did the biggest mistake by bringing me into this world just because i slept for a lil while after a morning study session then she exaggerated the whole matter by cursing me the whole day she actually didnt even think that it affected my mental health and mind as my boards as approaching i need to be fully focused on my studies . Tqsm di seeing this video after having a bad day encouraged me that God gives the hardest battles to its strongest soldiers. All the best to everyone who's giving board exams this year
@Tinzywinzy123
3 ай бұрын
Usss
@dishu_kumari_arts-
3 ай бұрын
Same it's my story mere toxic parents ki vajah se mera English ka exam kharab Gaya 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@wrishtisart
3 ай бұрын
My mother calls me r*ndi all the time, even in front of my sisters
@depressedgurly
3 ай бұрын
i see :( all the best for the rest of them @@dishu_kumari_arts-
@badass_omelette5166
3 ай бұрын
I had a mother like this, I finished studying. Got a great job, moved to Australia working as a lead/manager machine learning engineer. It’s been 2 years since i cut them of. Me and wife are happy. I waited years to remove toxicity from my lives. Don’t give up keep fighting for your future and happiness. Most importantly for your mental health
@shagunsah151
3 ай бұрын
Whenever I feel frustrated I do watch your vlogs, it is really helpful to decrease my stress level during exams💀
@HaniShekhawat
3 ай бұрын
Read my comments plz
@opbhaifreefire2188
3 ай бұрын
My Parents is very Toxic
@jaiveersingh1463
3 ай бұрын
@@opbhaifreefire2188 So does mine
@vaishnavisharma9166
3 ай бұрын
Target Attendance = Parents Actual Attendance = Bacche
@gaurishankarchauhan8434
Ай бұрын
It's Audience*
@vaishnavisharma9166
Ай бұрын
@@gaurishankarchauhan8434 both are correct
@think-good-ok
Ай бұрын
kon chutiya toxic maa baap ye dekh rha hoga....delh bhi rha hoga to isi ldki ko gali de rha hoga....ki kya seekha rhi h bakwas......un chutiya maa baap ka kuch ni hona....hmara to sb khraab kr hi diya hai
@sanjaychoubey7563
Ай бұрын
But those Bacche will become parents too, then it will be accomplished
@Bangtangirl098
3 ай бұрын
"Every kid deserves parents But not every parents deserves a kid "💔
@adarshgamer2298
2 ай бұрын
101 percentage bhai 😢😢
@diprese
2 ай бұрын
😅
@user-ti7ku1pb9f
2 ай бұрын
My parents are so toxic. My mother always scold me and my sister . Today , its my first day after giving board exam so i was plannning to clean my room at daytime . She came and scolded me for half an hour . She always insult me infront of everyone. She said that " she must be chatting with her boyfriend. Go and be with him . She makes my neighours also listen that . I dont have any bf but she did tell it. I am just tired by all this. I always cry every night . I believe God will make everything right someday❤
@Blissfullkittyy
2 ай бұрын
keep calm dont react dear god is seeing everything❤ u will be in better condition
@user-ti7ku1pb9f
2 ай бұрын
@@Blissfullkittyy i am in that hope ❤
@kirtisharma2315
Ай бұрын
Ame here sister😢
@saikrishnanayak1993
26 күн бұрын
My mom scold my big sister with most bad words that an normal mother is not expected to give 💀
@keepitup2460
22 күн бұрын
Ye video dikha do unhe😂
@suryanu8637
Ай бұрын
I feel so sad . Cuz all the points are in my parents. As I'm from a middle class family, I always try to please them by good grades and well behaviour. But trust mehh nothing can satisfy their mind... My efforts are just nothing to them! They always compare me with other childs... Even my dad is a very selfish man...! That's why I always try to listen to my mom and try to make her happy. But still, she always notices the bad sides ! I really hate my life.
@RanaJaya16
Ай бұрын
Hi can we HV a convo??? Please Don give up gimme ur any social media so I can talk to u remember ur strong
@endlessjoychannel71
2 ай бұрын
Exactly. U r talking real. I am 38 year old indian. And have faced this. Toxic parents hai upar se bolte tumhe isse ache parents nahi mil sakte.....wat a joke 😂😂😂
@Umangart86
2 ай бұрын
This generation will be the best parents in future ❤ Becuz ham sabse kuch na kuch jhela hai aur sabse badi baat that all parents have to know is apne bacho ko dusre bacho se compare karoge toh woh khud insecure feel karne lagega uska apne aap se bharosa tut jayga i have experienced that
@gangstergirl__
2 ай бұрын
yes for sure😇
@Sumaiya-sa
Ай бұрын
Yes ❤
@JasminAkter-dx4jl
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@avinashjassu5236
27 күн бұрын
Right!
@UT33SINGH
3 ай бұрын
I'm so thankful that I got loving , supporting and caring parents .😊😊😊😊 Not those toxic type
@jostnaakhter7567
3 ай бұрын
You are so lucky
@pramodhkumar441
3 ай бұрын
You are Lackey 😊😊
@HaniShekhawat
3 ай бұрын
Read my comments plz 4 reality check
@ManishKumar-rj8bt
3 ай бұрын
I am happy for you 🥰🥰
@Sakshi_btslover123
3 ай бұрын
You are so lucky
@tamnnasingh1175
2 ай бұрын
Mental peace ka koi naamo nishan nhi h toxic family mein too much relatable 😔
@neelamyadav9944
2 ай бұрын
My parents used to beat me for no reasons .when I was a kid i remember my mother used to sleep for whole day and I was so small to take care of myself .she used to kick me because I was the second girl child.with time passing my father my mother and my eldest sister kept on torturing me .I dnt want to remember those days , with God Grace i get a beautiful life partner and a cute son .they are my lifelines but still I am dealing with past depression.
@Blissfullkittyy
2 ай бұрын
❤ be happy dont care for who dont loves u
@Kiara-ml6qt
26 күн бұрын
I'm so happy for you, sorry that it happened to you, may God give you the strength to get last that
@user-jz1qq8wh6l
3 күн бұрын
🥺
@kalsi224
Ай бұрын
Didi I am seeing you first time but I can relate with you words you are 100% write. Mostly 75% Indian parents ase hi hote hai Our coming generations will have the best parents ever. So let's make a promise ki ham asa apne ane wale generations ke sath nahi karenge. 😢🙂✅
@shanoorrahaman2840
3 ай бұрын
My parents are the CEO of toxicity..😊
@_Soul_journey_with_sonam...
2 ай бұрын
Seriously??
@user-fy5bk1yp7w
2 ай бұрын
Yes and mine is founder of toxicity
@_Soul_journey_with_sonam...
2 ай бұрын
@@user-fy5bk1yp7w omg! I thought I'm the only one jiske pas sirf toxic mother hai, ye sab bata ne kiliye koi frnd v nhi hai jo ki ye sab samjh paye
@Sunshineqwertyuiop
2 ай бұрын
No i have toxic parents who abuse me everyday @@_Soul_journey_with_sonam...
@lifetimeeducation3739
Ай бұрын
Best sentence👍👍
@gigasaurusrex7165
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, sister. I'm 34 years old and still struggling to deal with my toxic parents. I'm not surprised to see that India isn't anywhere on the good parenting list; society ne hi itna toxic banake rakha hai iss poore issue ko. I'll continue to fight for my rights too. Best wishes and more strength to everyone facing this problem.
@badass_omelette5166
3 ай бұрын
I had a mother like this, I finished studying. Got a great job, moved to Australia working as a lead/manager machine learning engineer. It’s been 2 years since i cut them of. Me and wife are happy. I waited years to remove toxicity from my lives. Don’t give up keep fighting for your future and happiness. Most importantly for your mental health. I’m 33 now and happy finally!
@aryaanghazi1942
2 ай бұрын
@@badass_omelette5166 don't you miss them ?
@bhaktokiduniya9424
3 ай бұрын
Bachpan se leke abhi Tak ye trauma and controlling badhti hi Jaa rahi ..I m now 22 yrs old girl...ab Mai job karna chahti hu to vo bhi nhi karne de rahe....they are not parents..they are biggest enemy of my life😭😭😭😭I don't have any personal phone, Ghar ke bahar jaane nhi dete, purane friends se Milne nhi dete agar kisi friend ka phon aa jaaye to baate sunne ke liye wahi paas me mere khade ho jaate h..inhe baate bhi Sunni h ki kya baat Hui...I hate them😢😢😢😢😢😢
@Areeba_7
2 ай бұрын
😢😢😢 so sad
@MonuVlogsss
2 ай бұрын
Hanuman Chalisha padho...
@shwetabmc123
3 ай бұрын
Literally started crying Your words are so true...😭
@runjunkhanikar1642
3 ай бұрын
Finally kisine bola , Mai thak chuki hu yrr
@user-ku3nd9xr2g
2 ай бұрын
Same here
@ashu532
Ай бұрын
Mai bhi 🙂💔
@-summertime-sadness-
3 ай бұрын
12:22 there was some popular Indian KZitemr (I guess Sonu Sharma), who once told in his video, something like "maan baap sab se kam bharosa apne bachcho pe hi karte hai". It feels so true.
@KamakshiKanjilal
2 ай бұрын
No, it isn't true... They have faith in their child until he/she break their trust by doing something which would hurt his/her parents' feelings...
@jungkookie589
Ай бұрын
@@KamakshiKanjilalchal be ghanta Kai maa baap to bachapn se hi torcher kr rhe hote h apne bache ko usne konsa trust Tod diya ? Peda krke? Jab bacha nhi chaiye to peda kyu krte h 💩🚽80% parents are toxic they don't deserve child
@lifetimeeducation3739
Ай бұрын
Correct 💯 💯 Thank you 🙏 🙏 Finally someone said my words@@jungkookie589
@-summertime-sadness-
23 күн бұрын
@@KamakshiKanjilal I dunno where you're coming from, but I had an upbringing where my parents (esp. my dad) treated me as if I can't be trusted no matter what. There were no conditions or any specific mishappenings that made them trust me less. The lack of trust was by default.
@KamakshiKanjilal
9 күн бұрын
@@-summertime-sadness- my dad also treats me like this... Due to him, I went in depression in class 8, later I realised that I can't live with this much negative vibes... That's why I started avoiding him as much as I can... Now when I'm in class 10, I feel so happy that I started staying away from him... Atleast I'm not crying for the whole day as I used to earlier... I started spending more time with my mother and friends and it has helped me a lot to stay positive and happy... Thank god my mother is not at all like my father👁🗨❤ Take care and stay happy @-summertime-sadness-
@silly_shitt
3 ай бұрын
After listening to this im so thankful that my father supports me atleast my dream he always takes me to opportunities... Still being toxic they support. 🌛
@ShreeyaGhosh-dp5vi
3 ай бұрын
You told the real fact swara dii😢. But kya karu, mein bohot hi soft hearted hun, choti se choti baat dil prr lag jati hain jitna bhi ignore krne ki try kro😢
@TheActingPrinces
3 ай бұрын
Soft hearted🩷🥹
@dishu_kumari_arts-
3 ай бұрын
I am also a soft hearted me bhi choti choti baat pe rone lagti hu 😢😢😢😢
@AanyaBajaj
2 ай бұрын
Solution ye h ki kisi ko dikhao mat ki tum bhot sad ho or u just wanna cry
@AanyaBajaj
2 ай бұрын
Try to be strong and confident while talking to people
@12MyDairy-00
Ай бұрын
thanks@@AanyaBajaj
@-summertime-sadness-
3 ай бұрын
This video is totally on point while describing toxic parenting. Every point is well explained and there's hardly any point to be rebutted. In fact, this video explains my toxic parents to the T. I literally grew up in an environment where parents were treated as god, so I treated my parents as gods too. I thought, making my parents happy and proud was my responsibility, and if I couldn't do it, then I'm undeserving to even live. There were times I often used to blame myself for my parents unhappiness, even when they were happy for no valid reason and for something which even I couldn't control. Majority of my life (until the age 22), I have seen my parents never being happy with me; it was like _mera saans lena bhi unko unhappy bana deta tha._ They treated me like their emotional punchbag. Any setback they felt in life, they blamed me for it. They were never ashamed to insult me even in public. They accused me of a lot of things, like tarnishing family's name, destroying family's worth, making them look "bad" in front of others, being "selfish", etc. I was called names and received such humiliating remarks, that were enough to give me mental health issues and at times make me feel su1c1da!. Even at the moments of distress, I was only berated and mocked by my parents. My parents had zero empathy and didn't care about my mental and emotional struggles. I grew up thinking this is what normal parenting is. My parents conditined me throughout my life to believe that how the people outside are so evil and how they (my parents) are the best people. And the more I believed them, the more they felt rightful to inflict emotional and verbal abuse on me. They ensured that I just be useless and good for nothing throughout my life, and they made sure it happens. I am pretty much destroyed by the parenting I was raised under, because it never gave me the right to stand for myself, make decisions, have opinions, or even do the most basic things on my own. I struggle to make relationships and can't build enough confidence. The childhood trauma has got a tremendous impact on me.
@-summertime-sadness-
3 ай бұрын
BTW, I left my house in 2019, and am living independently. The hard part was that as someone who has never learnt to think independently and survive on my own, I had to start my life again from zero. What's even harder is that despite living separately, the psychological impact of their verbal and emotional abuse still affects me. I believe this impact is going to remain in my mind throughout my life, so I am just trying to make peace with my current mental state. In the beginning, I feared I won't survive more than a month or two, and now I am over 4.5 years living on my own, and I feel surprised that I was able to do it. I do not regret this decision. I keep little to no contact with my family. I had talked to my mom a few months ago, only to realize that they're still the same and if I go back to living with my parents, things would go worse for me.
@gigasaurusrex7165
3 ай бұрын
I totally relate because I am going through a similar situation myself. My mother is highly toxic because of her abusive upbringing and my father is an expert at gaslighting and emotional manipulation. Both of them have a holier-than-thou complex and feel their views are supreme. What's worse, society forces us to worship them and wont hear a word against them. Glad you've finally become independent and are living life on your terms. That is my target now as well. Growing out of half a lifetime of abuse is hard, but can certainly be done. All the best and stay blessed. 😊
@pvtSana
3 ай бұрын
@@-summertime-sadness- I hope you are fine now. I am going through the same thing. I really dont know what to do. I am in 11th right now. I can't even take a step right now😔. If you don't mind sis can you please tell what did you do and how you were able to live alone?
@Saptami-wi7oi
2 ай бұрын
Same situation😢
@MahakSheikh-lt5ul
Ай бұрын
I agree with you some parents are worse than enemies they snatch your happiness
@user-ny2dv9zw7e
3 ай бұрын
Didi thank you for sharing your thoughts about toxic parents and how to deal with them i also have toxic parents and i cry everyday . Sometimes i think that i am a bad daughter but no matter how much i improve my self for her they really don't care 😔
@adarshsinghcraft6024
3 ай бұрын
Same to same mere sath bhi esa hi hota hai 😢 Mai bhi roj roti hu
@user-ny2dv9zw7e
3 ай бұрын
Agar aapko suggestion chahiye to du ?
@adarshsinghcraft6024
3 ай бұрын
Hmm
@shifarangrez3625
3 ай бұрын
same with me
@user-ny2dv9zw7e
3 ай бұрын
Everyone has the same problem 😞
@user-cx3ok7mq4v
2 ай бұрын
Jab aape bola ki parents dursro ke bacche ke saath compair karte hain I can relate 🥺🥺
@Plum6666
Ай бұрын
My mother is so toxic ... She has affected my mental health immensely... Almost torturing me very badly...she is competitive and jealous with me being a mother. Since childhood she has been abusive. She even steels away the credit of my talents and hardwork... She says " Maine tumhe khilaya tha, that's why you achieved. All the credit belongs to me... You are useless"
@user-ux5on4yl4i
Ай бұрын
Maa log bhi hoti h kya 😢 ,meri maa hi nhi h
@reetikabansal4016
7 күн бұрын
Parents best dialogue... Hunna tumko jnm dya h
@tiyasharoy4936
3 ай бұрын
I am thankful that I have got very loving, caring, and supporting parents. I am so thankful to God ❤
@RomiBeingReal
Ай бұрын
My parents gifted me 20 years of depression 😢😢😢 They got divorced later n blamed it all on me😢😢 The audacity 😞😓
@rajeevkamra9120
26 күн бұрын
My parents also gave me 12 years of worst depression. Still unmarried.
@RomiBeingReal
26 күн бұрын
@@rajeevkamra9120 hope you heal sooner Sending good wishes your way💜
@grishima7594
24 күн бұрын
Same situation with me
@RomiBeingReal
24 күн бұрын
@@grishima7594 Most terrible situation someone can go through 😪
@RomiBeingReal
24 күн бұрын
@@grishima7594 Hope you heal sooner dear ❤️
@Arishas_fun_time
2 ай бұрын
I am so thankful that I didn't got toxic parents. I got supportive, amazing and loving parents who always supports me and let me take my own decisions 💟 and i also share my all secrets all things about me with my parents ❤ they are like my bestfriends. They never compare other children with me✨
@vsgaming320
3 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right 1.don't control them (over) 2. Support them and correct them in their decision 3. Let they decide what they have to do Hope you will get my point........❤❤❤
@Hello-hp9ie
2 ай бұрын
😭😭😭😭 bahut mushkil hota hai aise ghar me rehna
@AnchalYadav-rx4pu
3 ай бұрын
😢i can totally relate , i am a teenager girl and growing up in a toxic house is really bad .....they are arey toxic but what hurts the most is they discriminate between me and my sister .......both of us are female we are thier daughter but they discriminate between us , she is younger than me and i loved her so much , but they made her toxic too , and now these 3 torture me either mentally or physically , i have nevwr seen them evern raising a voice on my sis and me , they beat me shout me ....i feel just helpless.......i literally cried watching this .....i just feel like to go away from this home , i literally need escape.......... I stand for myself but then they are like , shut up u don't have a right to do anything "we are parents " ............i am just waiting to escape from this house
@Moonlightsaphire111
2 ай бұрын
wow..everything relates with me, exceot i have younger brother..THEY WOULD TREAT US SO DIFFERENTLY, like the fuck is wrong with them..if i made a mistake, they shout and over react, if he makes a mistake, theyre like its okay, hes small na
@AnchalYadav-rx4pu
2 ай бұрын
@@Moonlightsaphire111 ik sis , we say things are changed now. boy and hirl are treated equally but no especially wuen parents do this it hurts so much....i don't have brother but i can understand your pain ...... Every parents do not deserve a child It hurts me , seeing my parents treating my younger sis nicely and me ? I think i am invisible
@Moonlightsaphire111
2 ай бұрын
do this, take a book, write the lessons i learned.. i did this and realised that theyre not my parents, Real parents dont hurt you, even if they do, they will apologise for it, real parents really care about your future, your toxic parents dont..they see you as an investment, if they give you basic needs, we should give them the luxuries of life which is wrong because they dont deserve it even one bit. Stop talking to your parents, really it will help you emotionally and mentally, my parents hurt me in the past many times 1 or 2 years back and (even now but i ignore), so im telling this with experience, dont talk to them, dont try to change them, they will not change, dont simply waste your energy and your precious time on them. and then because you wasted all of your enenergy on them, you cant focus on studies and get all mental problems so before it happens, please start setting boundries, dont spend enough time with them..if they dont love, they dont love you and thats okay, atleast you know their true colors. Whatever theyre doing to you, that scolding, its because, deep inside they are jealous of you, your potential..like most children who face these problems are the ones who are smart and have SO MUCH POTENTIAL. "if he hits you once, he hits you twice" @@AnchalYadav-rx4pu
@Moonlightsaphire111
2 ай бұрын
its a long message but it can be useful. ive been there and ik how it feels like. Key is to not believe what they say, they also treat your younger sister nicely in front of you, to trigger you and to make you angry so stay calm and go to your room and do whatever youwant@@AnchalYadav-rx4pu
@AnchalYadav-rx4pu
2 ай бұрын
@@Moonlightsaphire111 yeah.... In india people say treat your parents like god and kahte h na ki am baap mai bhagwaan h , but bhagwan ase ni hote h .....i try my best to ignore them but i am really emotional so i cry a lot , i have this thing from childhood but noq i am learning to control emotions , because in the end they are always there for my sister but nobody is there for me so i have to do everything by myself , i am just waiting for the day i will get independent and escape from this house and i think the best way to get rid of toxic family or parents is to be independent ....due to covid there's a huge downfall in my studies but nowi want to comeback in this new academic year 2024-25 ....hope you will also do better , don't give up and stay strong thanks for guidance sis 💖😢
@icchi9743
3 ай бұрын
She is the person who can understand us and we can share all our problems with her and she also give us advice love u di ❤❤
@sakura-dl7xi
3 ай бұрын
Mujhe bura lag rha h ab.....mere saath sab same h but I think mere grandparents shi h, supportive h. I pray ki voh hamesha khush rhe❤.
@believerofjesus4107
Ай бұрын
I had chest pain yesterday, suffering from insomnia too..my parents literally abuse me everyday even when iam having health issue they say me the rudest things ,my mother even beats me very badly ..and yes despite being the only child I am going through lot of things
@bipragouda1943
3 ай бұрын
1like=💯% marks for board exam 😊😊😊
@user-mu5lx5qu8k
2 ай бұрын
Chup kar
@khansaima648
2 ай бұрын
You dont control our life.
@sanaantiwal5733
2 ай бұрын
You should shut up cuz you can’t control our life😊😊😊
@thebee6959
2 ай бұрын
Kuch bhi mtlb 😂
@reenathakur9269
2 ай бұрын
Mein to board ke exams mein pass home gyi yehi kafi he😂😂
@Christy331
2 ай бұрын
Humari language un parents ko anpad ganwar bolte hai , jinhe bacha paida krne me to bhot maza aata hai lekin paalne me maut aati hai you are very right didi
@aestheticqueen29
2 ай бұрын
Yes you're right
@gayatrikanwar2812
Ай бұрын
Heyyy...do you know what are you saying????😳.....you can't point out these things.....sharam aani chahiye...I know toxic parents give trauma but....itna bhi abuse word nahi bolna chahiye......chahe kuch bhi ho...they are your parents...or truth Chang nahi ho sakta....tumhe unhe badalna hi.....Pata hi struggling life har kisiko naseeb nahi milti....you are lucky....kyuki ese strong bache satynarayan ke khas hote hi...this is your exam...u have to pass it...believe shri krishn....but still don't use this again 🙏🏻
@kbye452
Ай бұрын
@@gayatrikanwar2812 those who don't act like parents don't deserve the same respect a parent deserves.
@Christy331
Ай бұрын
@@kbye452 right dear
@Christy331
Ай бұрын
@@ashu532 you are right
@stranger__77
3 ай бұрын
If any person is good than he can never be selfish no matter how hard he tries, even though I have tried, I have never been able to become selfish.
@WonderfulTimeWithMeerab1607
3 ай бұрын
Bro look that being selfish and taking stand by yourself is different. Even I can not be selfish whenever I try but I can take stand by myself and as you can take stand by yourself. I am glad that my parents are not toxic that's why I know how to take my right and stand for myself . I can make decisions by myself and then I take advice from my parents and they like almost every time support me upon my decision. I hope you understand what I am telling to you.😊😊 Be strong.
@aestheticXmultistan_...
3 ай бұрын
Ye apne liye stand up karne ki baat kar rhi hai, jo log bolte hai “selfishness”.
@user-xm9wo5gd2d
3 ай бұрын
I love my parents because they are not toxic at all😢😢
@Aes_thet_iclife
3 ай бұрын
U can't judge a book by it's cover.
@berry-ji4xv
3 ай бұрын
kyuki apa maybe lucky ho
@jaiveersingh1463
3 ай бұрын
You're blessed ❤
@_sugar-candy_.
3 ай бұрын
Yes I am so gladly 😊
@user-sj3vw6vy3j
3 ай бұрын
me to
@user-xc6qm1xv3q
3 ай бұрын
going through the same exact points you mentioned thank you for letting this out for the world to know parents bhi har time sahi ni hote thank you again.
@mayuripandey2483
Ай бұрын
They don't even know how much damage they did to my life , I'm in mid 20s and my last 20 years were almost hell or more then that..... due to severe anxiety, panic attacks, overthinking i completely wasted my 8 yrs after 12th and since last 10 years i suffered alot due to mental health.... they ruined my childhood, youth and career too..... i never showed anything or shared anything cz with whome ???? I stayed in home for last 8yrs without any friends and going out and t4ied 5o heal but how can you heal in that toxic environment. I want to forget my past but it's not easy cz my present is reminding me again and agian and they or anyone don't even know anything about my life.
@user-xy2so2zt8j
2 ай бұрын
Toxic parents drains your energy.I can relate very well
@shruti_choudhary2005
Ай бұрын
My mother calls me "randi" "vaishiya" nd what not .. One day she was cooking nd I ate first nd she got so angry she started saying "6 go marad k ek br m bhrne k liye Takat chaiye isiliye khne s phle 5 min ruka nhi gya" 🙂🙂
@user-xy2so2zt8j
Ай бұрын
@@shruti_choudhary2005 ignore dude it sucks
@shruti_choudhary2005
Ай бұрын
@@user-xy2so2zt8j ooh I try so hard to ignore her and now I dont even feel bad or anything it's just that I've become emotion less
@user-xy2so2zt8j
Ай бұрын
@@shruti_choudhary2005 same here. some time it hurts
@shruti_choudhary2005
Ай бұрын
@@user-xy2so2zt8j yeahh . Its okay nothing can be done we just need to take care of urselves ❤️ take care ❤️
@RupinderKaur-143
2 ай бұрын
This is so true.... I want to be a CA but my parents say that CA is only for boys and forcing me to become a judge😢 My dream is CA and they are telling me to change my stream to non med in 12th class , I don't want to change my stream , commerce is the best for my future ! I don't understand why my parents are like this😔
@mehtabhusain311
2 ай бұрын
Becoz they don't know the value of a girl right now India is independent only for boys not for girls this society is so toxic 😢
@soumyaranjanmohapatra5858
2 ай бұрын
Di ap akdam sahi ho mere sath v esa hota.... 🥺 har ek minute har ek hours har ek din 😢.. I juat hope ye vdo jyada se jyada parents dekhe... 🙏
@lazy_catt
3 ай бұрын
All of this is soo true ... Even today , its my 3rd day of my periods and i got it this time so early like within 15 days. Tomorrow we have function at our home and like daily she started saying illogical things to me which ignored . But between that she said that i am faking my periods, so that i will not be able to help her tomorrow,like wtf. I was so shocked and annoyed by this and still i calmly said her if you wanna check the pads you can . After that she started bursting out, like the literally whole day she kept on arguing with me with abusive words. It really hurts 😢😢. And my parents toxicity is at this level that i have not went a single day alone out of my house . And I don't even have friends not even girls . They think that friend will ruin my life ..😢😢rn also she is shouting on me which idk why.
@Olaf_Sk
3 ай бұрын
I can understand man😶.... Try to stay away from toxic energy.... Just walk out for your mental peace
@pvtSana
3 ай бұрын
same thing happened with me but it was my father. I got my periods. I was crying because of cramps . Like it was the first time jb merko itne jyada tez cramps aaye the. I told my mother about it. She told ki abhi toh raat hogyi hai it was about 8:00 pm. My mother told my father about it and my father was like she is faking(natak kr rhi hai kuch drd nahi hota hai) I was so shocked how can a father say this. I literally cried whole night. Not just because of cramps but isliye bhi why only my father😔
@badass_omelette5166
3 ай бұрын
I had a mother like this, I finished studying. Got a great job, moved to Australia working as a lead/manager machine learning engineer. It’s been 2 years since i cut them of. Me and wife are happy. I waited years to remove toxicity from my lives. Don’t give up keep fighting for your future and happiness. Most importantly for your mental health. I’m 33 now and happy finally!
@Moonlightsaphire111
2 ай бұрын
best to not have friends, even i dont cuz when youre with toxic parents, you attract even toxic friends so please dont make friends. specially these normal people with good parents, stay away from them, they wont help you at all..idk why us daughters mostly have to face these things, one day i wish all the abused females leave india for good
@user-jw5bl9iu7n
2 ай бұрын
Lol same here.. They don't let me make frnds
@Sketchyyyy812
3 ай бұрын
I thought it was just happening me with me and my parents but now I understand that kids of this generation really need peace
@SeemaAshrafi-et7wg
Ай бұрын
She's so underrated I'm word by word agreeing to her. She's my role model ❤
@PallabiSarkar2
3 ай бұрын
I am really lucky to have supportive and non toxic perents ..they give me freedom , they make sure that I will be never afraid to tell them anything, and also they never control me ...I am really lucky ❤
@kavitacharan3331
3 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot for bringing this topic u said everything what i exactly wish to say my parents... that college topic was right on point thank alot
@_Maheeka
3 ай бұрын
I love your all story time videos.❤ Thank you for your lots of efforts 🙏🏻😊
@btsarmy5070
3 ай бұрын
Truee i agreee.. didi .. the way said all the things.. are soo real i feel exactly same I'm suffering through this.. i really appreciate u took this topic to talk about..
@tanishasharma3449
2 ай бұрын
I'm so grateful to have non-toxic parents. I feel very open with them. But i have seen my friends go through a lot. I've heard toxic stories relationship of my friends with their parents. And it terrifies me but at the same time i feel extremely lucky to have such understanding and loving parents.
@teakook97..
Ай бұрын
I really live in a toxic family..even my mom..she treat me and my brother so different.even sometime she is like "you live in my house, it's not your house". I really so traumatized I don't know what I need to do.
@ritikayadav5739
3 ай бұрын
I will pray God to give you all happiness . Di pls don't cry . Aap haste hue bhot cute lgte ho. Everything will be fine . India ke mostly children ko ye chiz face karni padti hai . I am happy because atleast you have shared your feelings. I hope that you are ok
@lab_king
2 ай бұрын
Relatives aise ho to chalta hai but mom hi aise ban jaye to jiwan nark hai 😢😢😢😢😢
@Sigmaa333___
2 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much for motivating me,now I'm feeling much better, my parents are not toxic but I learn from your video that how to be selfish when people are not supporting you. Thank you so much 💜💜💜💜💜
@shifarangrez3625
3 ай бұрын
Didi aap bilkul sahi kh rhi hoo or isi wjh se me bhot akela feel krti hoo me parents se kuch bhi share nhi krpati or isi wjh se man bhi nhi krta ye sochte h ki hmari koi feelings nhi h jo man me ata h bolte h ye nhi sochte ki hme bhi buri lgta h jb koi sunne wala na ho atleast unka pas mummy daddy sath me bate share krskte h pr ham kisse share kre kiuki ajke time me koi kbhi kisi ka nhi hota
@Jigyasa_armink
3 ай бұрын
Like really this full video is relatable for me....every line was true, not only me, but there are alot of children who can relate to this. I'm grateful for one thing that my parents never curse me that why i brought you in this world etc etc. but they always compare me with others....Now as I am a teenager so i am able to understand, how this world is...and have dreams for becoming what i want. all i need is support, Im not revealing my dream but its not like my dream is worse or not good obviously i'll dream of a better future for me and always work hard to make my family proud. but when i try to tell my parents about it. they always say that your dream has no scope, even without not having exact information or knowledge about what i want to be. and the main thing that irritates me alot is as you said that parents say " no you cannot go out for job , study or buisness etc ' and say that this world is not good. i know that you care for us no matter in a positive way or a negative way. but when you realize that its the time ,your childrens are mature or they know the reality of the world, of course they will not take a bad decision. so why dont you let your child have privacy and be free. it really feels like living in a jail without doing any crime. i'm not saying this by not knowing , i have experienced it....... even we cannot expect a little privacy from toxic parents. right now i've heard from many of my friends and even me that whenever i close my door or laugh seeing phone. parents always think that they are doing any bad thing or hidding something. there are many things to say in this topic but i cannot express it....this is the reason why we cant share our feelings with them clearly because experience lene ke baad hame pata chal gya hai ki agar ham ye chiz bolenge toh hamare parents ka kya reaction hoga ya fir wo situation ko bina samjhe hamara hi fault nikalenge...even mera man bhi nhi hai apne parents ko toxic kahne ka.aur ye sab ke wajah se baccho pe kabhi kabhi itna bura impact padta hai ki wo suicide krne ka soch lete hain. lekin ab ye mat kahna ki suicide krna bhi toh ek bad decision hai toh apne bacche ko khud se koi decision lene hi naa do. ye sab khayal tab hi aata hai jab unhe toxicly treat kiya jata hai. i know jiske parents aise nhi honge unko ye sab thoda offensive lagega but i just wanted to share my feelings with whom who can relate to my words........
@shubhangishah5303
2 ай бұрын
i really love how you expressed your views on this without spreading hate, with proper knowledge and logical proper facts, really well done, good job on this swara! proud of you
@aesash3541
2 ай бұрын
Everyone going through this, dont worry this happens to a lot of people, I assure you that even when your parents seem bad, a lot of Indian parents are traumatized themselves thats why they reflect it upon us, all they need is also our support, yeah sometimes they can be actually toxic but at times like that be brave and stand uo fir yourself
@peehubedi8245
11 күн бұрын
Finally i found someone who understands our feeling
@Kaira_Shine
3 ай бұрын
I am proud of my parents they are not toxic like others parents they support me whenever needed they don't not demand anything from me they force to study for my best future bcz girls life is difficult they hve to face many problems in their lifes specially after marriage so a girl should be independent I am like a dead body without my parents May Allah give them long and healthy life (Aneen)
@AsmaBegum-pc9ld
2 ай бұрын
At first I think you are Cristian but after seeing you wrote ALLAH now I think you Are Muslim . Sorry
@shivaani24
Ай бұрын
😭😭❤️❤️ true I am so so grateful that you are addressing this topic thank you Swara u have exactly narrated toxic situations
@JagritiMaurya-Shorts
3 ай бұрын
Very very thanks to God for Very good and lovely parents they daily use to talk me and fun together. they are very supporting ❤️
@manojkumargupta6132
3 ай бұрын
You are right I have also toxic parents 🥺
@SuhannaNaaz
3 ай бұрын
Aap jaisa KZitemr koi nahi 😊 jab bhi aap ka new video aata ha khush hojati hu🎉 love you di❤ lots of support from Nepal🇳🇵 keep growing 😊
@Asoni9425
3 ай бұрын
Hm
@RabiShah-ho4un
3 ай бұрын
I'm also from Nepal
@Words_of_Wisdom737
2 ай бұрын
I lost my studies because of my parents and now they are blaming me for all this.
@MahalakshmiN-te6tx
Ай бұрын
Ohh god dii jab aap bol rahe ho maine ek ek baat relate karpayi ,meri bachpan ab teenage katam hone wala hai sab ek trauma raha ,aur abhi bas rehna charahi toh bas phir se koi na koi aisi baat aayi jaata hai...bohut buta lagta hai ki jab aapki parents hii aisi hai toh...sach mein di bohut bura lagta hai 😫 Par aapne iss position mein rehke yeh video banayi , bohot hi di... Yeh hum jaise victim bacchon ko ek small ray of sense of belonging (apnapan) Tnq di..
@worldofritu01
3 ай бұрын
U r right 😢 My parents r so supportive but sometimes I feel they dont understand my feelings 😢 which I thought very bad. Some times they used to say see the other girls they r so smart not like u . They r very good but I just think that they r doing what they want and I m doing which I want .😢 nd I dont think my parents r toxic but sometimes it is.
@rinnirai
3 ай бұрын
You are telling that what i feel inside and what i want to say my parents thanku di this is also my points ❤😢
@RaksharamVermaeuf50
3 ай бұрын
You are right
@user-ez1ty9ox8n
3 ай бұрын
Yes she is right
@user-ez1ty9ox8n
3 ай бұрын
😊😊
@Azan_20_20
3 ай бұрын
Yes ❤💯
@dancewithdaughters777
3 ай бұрын
Correct
@HaniShekhawat
3 ай бұрын
Read my comments plz 4 reality check
@priyankasharma7621
3 ай бұрын
Swara dear sister,same problem mere sath .Iska solution bs yhi h ki be strong and be nice to yourself. Sab acha hojaega
@himanshimahajan9930
Ай бұрын
Harsh reality , atleast someone is there who understands the real pain
@yeasminbagam5947
3 ай бұрын
I am so lucky and thankful that I got loving parents 🥺
@user-ju2kh7kv1c
2 ай бұрын
Good content. many less people talk about this toxicity. I myself have come out from this. The scar still stays. Good job you are addressing this.
@RimolHajowary
2 ай бұрын
❤Every kids deserve to have a good parents ❤ ❤❤You are very deserving to be a mother❤❤
@ananyasingh-ec9cg
3 ай бұрын
Thanks di for making video on this topic now i feel like someone understands me i am not alone here and i will now take care of myself and you also take care of yourself ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@fatimabinte3650
3 ай бұрын
Im suffering with narcissist mother,,,,,my life is full of pain and sometimes i feel like i will take my life…im 22 now,, but still she try to control me 24/7
@deepadhania5921
2 ай бұрын
Same
@Colorful_Gallery_
3 ай бұрын
Most of us from This generation relates to this things!!!!😢😢😢😢
@justIshikaaa
3 ай бұрын
My mother always supports me and make me feel happy but my dad he can sometimes be so cruel , i haven't told this to any of my friends and since no one knows me here i can share it openly . Once i refused to eat so my dad dragged me by my hair and literally slapped me 5-6 times and i was traumatized . He kept dragging me on floor by my hair and kept slapping me until my mother stopped him and the very next moment he started being loving and forgot what he did . I still cry sometimes thinking about it . Once he found out that i have instagram account when i was 16 , he legit choked me and i felt like i would stop breathing and again my mom stopped him . What hurts me is how cruel he can be and then go back to normal and treat me with love .
@Kanika_verma333
2 ай бұрын
Har middle Clss parents ki yehi dikkat h parents Kbhi ni samjhte
@user-vq1oh7wv7d
3 ай бұрын
Ais masharay ma larkiyo ki koi qadar nahi ha sara kuch larko ko hi miltha ha agar ham magay vo ham larkiyo ko nahi miltha jo kuch larkay magay vo aun ko miltha ha ham larkiyo ko kuch nahi miltha hamaray sath bhi yahi hota your right didi your right 😔😔
@netzoneroorkee4960
3 ай бұрын
@@mehakalvi-xn5qy but not parents are same understand her feelings...
@HaniShekhawat
3 ай бұрын
Read my comments plz 4 reality check
@netzoneroorkee4960
3 ай бұрын
@@mehakalvi-xn5qy no it's okay you are understanding. That's it.
@Moonlightsaphire111
2 ай бұрын
bhot relatable bhai..mujhe bhi ek chota bhai hai, woh sirf mere chote bhai ko hi acche achhe cheez dilwate hai, mai toh invisble hu..even if i want to buy something, me bol nahi sakti, woh puchenge : tujhe ye sab kyu chaye? youre wasting our money but when my bro asks smth, theyll be like..yea ill buy for you
@radhagupta3994
2 ай бұрын
I totally respect her courage to speak the truth of society without fear 👏 and every single part of the video was too much relatable for me ❤ This video made me subscribe your channel 🥰. Lots of love 💜
@youtuberbrosis4276
15 сағат бұрын
you are correct dii , we all suffer allot from our toxic parents . they cant understand us 😔😔
@RiyaRawat150
3 ай бұрын
Bahut sahi kah rahi ho aap Khushi didi mummy papa aise hi hoti hai toxic 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@meenu2773
Ай бұрын
I completely agree with you ❤❤❤toxic parents do exist tysm for making this video finally someone said reality God bless you toxic parents always play blame game n on on on
@study5325
Ай бұрын
Everything she said is truee... ( Also she didn't mentioned but i think her parents did all the things she mentioned to her, she said that it had happened to her friends but I think it's her parents only cause she know that much details and didn't wanted to tell directly... ) And also their are parents who do all this and also my parents don't even earn, like we are literally broke and my father refuses to do a job and says he don't care about my studies or food or anything and my mom is silent watcher... And in front of others they act like an ideal person which is perfect, that's the worst part...🙂
@simranpamnani2338
24 күн бұрын
not trying to be an npc or anything but how can you express it soo perfectly?? like ive always felt like this but was never able to express myself... And also genuine appreciation for the video💖
@Aditijain987
2 ай бұрын
You are right , even my mother taunts me for doing workout she is like ghr ka kaam kro workout ki kya jarurat hai and she is like so rude for days and days like there is an incident of day before yesterday She asked me to go with her to buy some groceries and I denied that I am having my exams so I want to study she is like 2 ghnte mein kya ukhadlogi and she doesn't feel me good even after having a rank in college she is like theeke theeke jyada ud mt. And itna hi nhi bhot kuch mere carrer decision, college ke entrance ki preparation krte Samay after that my mental health was fully devasted I was pissed of listening ki DU mein admission kyu nhi hua u will never be able to anything in your life and blah blah😢🥺it's really hurting.
@srishti5352
3 ай бұрын
I am so glad that my parents are not toxic.....like literally they both are like my best friends and I shate all my secrets with them....they care about my feelings and never ever say anything bad to me and they also respect all my decisions and always listen to my opinions...... But I have witnessed my roommate parents and they are so so toxic ....they always control her so more power to all these people...☹️❤
@aadhyasachdeva9235
2 ай бұрын
My father was like this but now things are changing and I'm grateful for that❤️✨
@suhanikumari7477
3 ай бұрын
Aaj apne hr bache ki Dil ki baat boli h di Ye video dekhte dekhte mare aason aa gye 😢
@roshika2705
2 ай бұрын
80% of things she said to 100% truth
@user-ne9lj1sh4d
3 ай бұрын
My parents are not toxic They never force me for everything And that's why i love them so much❤
@user-vu2zv4pm5e
3 ай бұрын
You are lucky
@Moonlightsaphire111
2 ай бұрын
k dont brag
@user-ne9lj1sh4d
2 ай бұрын
@@Moonlightsaphire111 don't be jealous cuz I have such parents and u don't
@Moonlightsaphire111
2 ай бұрын
and you shouldnt be dumb by bragging in the comment section. I hate average people like you, bragging about their parents in a video talking about toxic parents. you should prolly be ashamed@@user-ne9lj1sh4d
@Moonlightsaphire111
2 ай бұрын
dont be dumb cuz i have common sense and you dont :)@@user-ne9lj1sh4d
@maheshbagale5600
22 күн бұрын
My mom is a real toxic parent she usually hates me, compares me, mentally abused me even now l am feeling she is my step mother
@Palh7
2 ай бұрын
Literally i cried while watching the videos im struggling this since 12 years and still there come a point mai paida hi kyu hui ..😢swara dii ne ek ek word meri dil ki khi hai ek ek she just decsribwd me and ham jaise bacho ke bare mei unke khud ke parent ko pta nhi hota wo kaise h kya pasnd h kyu aisa h ...mai to yhi kehti hu jb bacha palna nhi aata to paida kyu krte ho aur jb paida krte ho to palna sikho pele bhut sari chije h kehna but its habit ki stop ho ja abb i personally wants to met u dii or talk to u but dont know how pta h mn kr rha tha ki video mai ghus ke aapko hug kr lu 😢😢 lots if live frome me ...
@krishnadhamigaming3937
3 ай бұрын
Yes you are right Swara didi lots of respect from Nepal keep growing🇳🇵🇳🇵👑👑👑💖💖💖💖💖
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