I saw an interview once, that I believe was made by Jon Stewart. He asked a US House Representative something like "what is the most important thing for you to accomplish as a politician". His answer, without any hesitation, was "getting re-elected". Not making the world a better place, not ending poverty, not securing decent living conditions for poor children, not helping the homeless... But getting re-elected.... That says it all, I think.
@davidreuss1050
Жыл бұрын
I'm also an American living in Denmark (have lived here for 33 years, since I was 25). The unfortunate thing that I notice about The US, is that the government absolutely doesn't reflect the people. Like you two mention in your video, the politicians are too busy with their own interests, and not the peoples interests. My father was a US diplomat, so as a child, we moved every 4 years to different countries, and had Washington D.C. as our "base". I feel fortunate to have been able to experience different cultures (India, Germany, Switzerland, and now Denmark. Though I miss a lot of things from The US, I always have a feeling that there's too much of an imbalance when I visit. Joshua and Maya, there's nothing more eye-opening than being able to travel, and experience different cultures. It makes one more patriotic about being a human being more than a nationality, which is something that I feel is extremely healthy!
@adrianaslund8605
8 ай бұрын
It's very sad that most americans don't have the means to travel. Ive also heard that if you go back in time to presidents like Eisenhower. Who is thought of as oldschool conservative. He would come off as left wing in the modern american political climate in alot of ways.
@PalleRasmussen
Ай бұрын
@@adrianaslund8605 I am a historian, Ike would be considered a raging socialist verging on commie and traitor by the MAGA and hard "Reagan-Republicans".
@KMHoran
Жыл бұрын
American living in DK since 2010 here. I understand the guilt you two expressed because I felt it too. I made the choice about five years ago to stop closely following the news from the US and start following the Danish news. I cancelled my NYT, WaPo, and Slate subscriptions. 99% of it was irrelevant to my life here, a sinkhole for time and attention that could be better directed to the place where I actually live. Have you actively tried to shift more of your energy and attention away from the US and towards Denmark, even if that is only spending more time reading Danish news and absorbing Danish culture? Thanks for sharing! It's nice getting the perspectives of some people in a similar situation.
@thelogan4641
Жыл бұрын
I live in Denmark, I am ethnically danish etc. however I subscribe to outlets like The Lever and Pro Publica because what happens in the US affects the whole world, and those outlets do some of the best investigatory journalism. I don't even read them all that often, but I want them to be strong enough to fight the corporate powers in the US :P
@jackmeeellleee4896
Жыл бұрын
I am an American and Danish citizen and have lived here since 2005 and find that American news is relevant to my life here as the USA has a lot of influence in general on Denmark and Europe. Denmark is also very pro American and a particularly strong ally militarily. For example, how will a second Trump presidential term potentially affect us here? I think the effects could be more than just minimal.
@tommyjrgensen5975
Жыл бұрын
@@jackmeeellleee4896 jeg kan kun tale for mig selv,men trump og det republikanske parti har efter min mening ødelagt meget (og det gør han stadigvæk) jeg havde følelsen at U.S.A faldt os (EU) i ryggen (men også det fornuftige U.S.A),han har også ødelagt hvad jeg så som et splittet land,men dog stadigvæk følgende de demokratiske spilleregler, i bund og grund opfatter jeg ham og de andre amerikanske politikere som stærkt utroværdige 3 klasses sæbeopera skuespillere.Og det tror jeg er en af grundende til at rusland og kina mener at det er frit frem for dem at blive de nye 'supermagter' og tage for sig af land/resourcer som det passer dem. I can only speak for myself, but Trump and the Republican Party have, in my opinion, destroyed a lot (and he still does) I had the feeling that the U.S.A. stabbed us (the EU) in the back (but also the reasonable U.S.A. was let down by the madman), he has also destroyed what I saw as a divided country, but still following the democratic rules of the game, basically I perceive him and the other American politicians as highly untrustworthy 3rd class soap opera actors. And I think that is one of the reason why Russia and China believe that it is free for them to become the new 'superpowers' and deal with land/resources as they see fit.
@LorenMichl
Жыл бұрын
I moved to Sweden from the USA over 20 years ago. I have never looked back with regret to still be here in Sweden. It is very refreshing to see other Americans seeing the problems of the American society. When I moved here, the first question Swedes would ask is "Why did you move to Sweden from America? The US is so great"... After saying that if the picture they have of the USA is from films or TV.. they have a very distorted picture of the real US. What I find funny is that I don't ever get that question anymore and some of those have said after seeing the US objectively, they agree with me.
@marcuscole4394
Жыл бұрын
Josh and Maya. I hear ya and it's perfectly fine that you get a new perspective. I have traveled a lot outside of the US as have you and quite a few times to Denmark and I always feel relieved when I'm out of the US just to get away from all of those sound bites and all of the negative news. I get a bit depressed when I come back home from travel. When I'm abroad I experience clean transportation, clean streets and environments, feel less threatend, more relaxed and a bit more of feeling alive again. I'm happy for you folks, keep living, loving and have the opportunity to enjoy life. It's ok here in the US, but not what it used to be.
@twisterwiper
Жыл бұрын
I can recommend East Idaho News for some wholesome local news. I, as a Dane, watch it regularly although I have no connection to Idaho whatsoever. I just really enjoy the positive small town vibe they convey - whether it’s a segment about some local food truck that started serving meals or their Feel Good Friday segments. It provides a different positive perspective on the US 😊
@justaneditygangstar
6 ай бұрын
Lol that’s funny I live in North Idaho 😂✝️
@DogBoots77
Жыл бұрын
To me it seems obvious that the Two Party System is a large part if the polarization problem. There are only two teams, whereas, as you know, in DK we have like 10 parties or however many it is right now which force discussions to be more nuanced. Ranked choice voting would give third parties a chance.
@TravelinYoung
Жыл бұрын
I agree ranked choice voting would be good - but there are far more nuance to how it works in the US. It also isn't a 'system' as third parties are welcome to join, it's just nearly impossible given the $$$ required. But in reality each party has small caucuses that represent different views and influence the large party as a whole. I would suggest the difference is that in DK the coalitions are formed after an election in order to form a majority government - in the US the coalitions are formed before the election so only 2 parties end up competing in the end.
@johnclements6614
Жыл бұрын
@@TravelinYoung Having the coalitions formed after the election means that more peoples views are represented. With a first past the post you end up with two dominant parties in which a few tens of thousands of members form policy. With more parties elected the minority views that would be in the larger parties are represented.
@TravelinYoung
Жыл бұрын
That makes the assumption everyone in a single party is aligned keeping out the minority views. I would suggest the recent vote for speakership in the House of Representatives proves that a minority caucus inside a major party can have influence over policy. As long as the margins of majority are narrow within Congress, the minority actually has a strong voice - and in some cases that can lead to negative consequences since their views only represent a small group of people.
@merrydiscusser6793
Жыл бұрын
@@TravelinYoung The problem with a first past the post system is that it heavily incentives two opposing party forming.Let's say you have one party with 40% of votes, and the second with 30% of votes. If you add a third party that shares some ideology with the first one and takes 15% of their voters, now the party with the 30% of the votes will win, even though the majority would have prevented the former 40% party. This means two opposing parties will form which absorb all the potential third parties and their ideologies. You get a super party that has an internal power structure separated from the voters. Voters can now only vote for the super party itself, but the super party might be heavily influenced by a sub-party that very few voters would actually vote for. This greatly diminishes the ability of the political system to represent the will of it's voters.
@Uriel-Septim.
Жыл бұрын
It is still two wings of the same eagle, that give you the illusion of a choice, when have voting really made any big changes, but I guess it is like a wise old Man once said, Democracy is the worst form of government, except for all the others.
@vwm1969
Жыл бұрын
As a dane who lived some of my life abroad i found that I would appreciate danish society more, when I saw the problems other countries have to deal with. But it also makes me annoyed when I hear danes complain about minor problems, like they dont realise how good they have it.
@Zangarra
Жыл бұрын
I had the same issue for a long time, but i learned to just not care about it. Im Danish born but both my parents live very international lives and i have close family all over the world. America, Holland, Luxembourg, Germany, Philippines and Denmark. So ive been many places and have a very international family making me a bit disconnected from Danish culture, but i also live here so im also kinda disconnected from the other countries my family lives in. Im kinda in the middle, which had me struggle with what you mentioned for a long time in my life.
@missa2855
Жыл бұрын
Just because the problems are minor doesn't mean they don't need fixing.
@Zangarra
Жыл бұрын
@@missa2855 just because there ain't a problem doesn't mean it needs to be fixed. MitID be like.
@klauslehrmann3906
Жыл бұрын
@@missa2855Or complaining.
@stjerneskruetraekker
Жыл бұрын
Well theres a reason why everything is almost perfect, it’s the little details thats left we complain about
@roro9179
Жыл бұрын
Oh wow! Everything you have said is spot on. I live in Sweden, moved away from South Africa. I totally get you on this topic, the quilt, the disconnected feeling of your friends, family and country, how you start to see your own country from another perspective. Its crazy.
@ccw5886
Жыл бұрын
Im a Brit who lived in the US a few years ago in San Diego. I was treated so well and never had a single issue with my American cousins who were kind and helpful to me and my family during our stay. I came away feeling very positive and actually miss the vibe and the courtesy and manners of most Americans I came into contact with.
@555pghbob
Жыл бұрын
Yes CCW, Americans love Brits. Your accent will open doors for you and because Americans are not so worldly, they tend to think that all people who speak with a British accent, of whatever sort, will be kind and mannerly and should be revered. It is a weird concept, but it really is true.
@juangabrielsaizvarona332
8 ай бұрын
It's pretty refreshing to hear a Brit say positive things about America. Just out of curiosity, do other Brits usually dismiss your answer when they ask you about your experience in America?
@domerame5913
5 ай бұрын
@@juangabrielsaizvarona332 I'm nordic but most people i know enjoy america, except for politics which is divisive. Also had a great experience in the US for a few months, it's not like it's a bad country or people, do british people not like it usually? I know many people who have studied in the US or visit there. I was on the west coast, my biggest complaint is probably the public transport. I like to walk around the city and use train/bus, but that was a very different experience in the US
@LukeOranje
22 күн бұрын
Just came from watching American expats in The Netherlands, and your channel is sooo much better and nuanced than anything I saw on that spectrum. What an excellent discussion that actually illustrates the issues many expats do experience while living abroad. Thank you for making this
@bolind5095
Жыл бұрын
I think a lot of that disconnect comes from the difference in the news media in the US vs. Denmark. I have lived in the US for 6 years and I find that Danish news still offer me more than just news on the political landscape, that helps me keep a sense of 'I'm Danish'. But really what i found is that I tend to put Denmark and Danish culture on a higher pedestal, celebrating and comparing all the things I knew, to how it is over here. So I -- probably unfairly -- view Denmark more positively than when I moved away. And, since I see all the failures in the political level more closely over here, and how they affect and polarize the people around you, see the US in a more negative light than I did before.
@jonasrothmann1536
Жыл бұрын
I lived in South Korea for a year, going home in 8 days. I too have thought of Denmark better since especially politically. I find that I want to bring aspects of Korean life (usually related to cafes, restaurants, manners, city design) to Denmark rather than bring them to Korea. Whether that's because I'm Danish or because I find parts of Danish society better I can't say, but I for sure don't want to bring any Korean politics or banking or work culture with me
@cathal4921
Жыл бұрын
Ja, jeg kom hjem til Danmark for 20 år siden efter 20 år i forskellige lande. Men det er sgu lidt indskrænket hvad de byder på DR. Men stadig tusind gange bedre end den mudderkastning der fremhersker i Amerikanske medier
@QingWeiSanguine
Жыл бұрын
Much love from Sweden
@Anonymoose66G
Жыл бұрын
This might be a weird question but how would you rank living in Sweden from 1/10?
@kasperchristensen8416
Жыл бұрын
As a Dane I really appreciate getting a more neutral perspective on the US from people like you, because judging from the news (on either side) it sure as heck fire oftentimes feels like the US is one big ultra polarized war zone where you're either on team Blue or team Red and no mercy is shown to anyone with a different political perspective than your own. So, thanks for making this video and allowing me to restore some confidence that the US is not on the brink of total destruction 😉👍
@lilly_chills
Жыл бұрын
I'm from Germany and live in Norway. I definitely am way more disconnected and view Germany in a more critical light than when I moved from there. In the beginning I kept up with reading German news. Now I can't even remember when I've last read anything on there. In the beginning I went back for visiting family several times a year. Now it's been 5 years since my last visit and I don't miss it. Contrary to most of my expat friends I do not feel like going home when visiting my home country. I left in the first place because it never felt like home, so maybe that is the difference for me. I feel like I'm going home when I go back to where I live now.
@espeluciao2874
Жыл бұрын
I've had the same experience. When I ever go "home", I'm just another tourist. Real home is where I have been living the past 20 years
@TravelinYoung
Жыл бұрын
That is the tough part - the first time you feel like a tourist. I didn’t like the feeling at first but now it is a bit liberating as being a tourist can be fun.
@LaraBisserier
Жыл бұрын
Yes these are my feelings too. The US is not home anymore. I don’t feel drawn to it.
@LaraBisserier
Жыл бұрын
@@espeluciao2874 real home is where love is
@andersrosemusic4305
Жыл бұрын
This is a funny coincidence! This video randomly popped up in my KZitem feed, and after watching a part of it I realised that my daughter (also named Maja - only with a j) went to “folk”-school with your daughter. We were talking a bit after their graduation day at school back in 2020 as well 😃
@finncarlbomholtsrensen1188
Жыл бұрын
As a Dane I have traveled a lot, Europe, Egypt, many times, China, Bali and I do appreciate the fact that we live in one of the absolute "Buttercups" of this world. Natural disasters are hardly felt, decent wages and conditions and everything functions well. Even as now basic pensioners, my handicapped wife and I are able to travel if we feel for it. I have also invested well, I admit, so we will hardly miss anything in our lifetime.
@faramund9865
Жыл бұрын
You have your ancestors to thank for that. So cherish the lessons they teach you, the lessons that have passed from generation to generation. Rebelling as a teen is natural. And the next step is to grow up and realize that your parents and grandparents have valuable things to teach you, despite the fact that they have their own flaws, as everyone does.
@weedsmker-ud3uw
Жыл бұрын
It's a great country but to be fair, we have our flaws too in Denmark. For example getting in touch with a psychiatrist should be easier than it currently is, I have to wait 1.5 years for my ADD treatment. I'm a young man and I have to put my future on hold and waste 1½ years of my golden days because of lack of psychiatrists.
@EmmaNguyen-mg5xq
Жыл бұрын
Europe is declining, especially German Italy and French. Besides the fact that Denmark has such a small economy industry, its declining neighbouring countries would negatively impact on Denmark
@cathal4921
Жыл бұрын
@@weedsmker-ud3uw Ja, sig bare frem. Jeg er 55 og skal vente 1 1/2 år på en udredning (kronisk træt og smadret ovenpå kemo for 12 år siden). Og når damen på kommunen vil pushe noget, kan jeg ellers læne mig tilbage og sige at de jo kun satser på ungdommen. Men du, unge mand, må også bare vente. Der er lidt af et system af forventning om at tingene fungerer fint i Danmark, men det gør det nok ikke helt..... :) (nb: har levet mange år i udlandet, så blev temmelig skuffet over at komme hjem. Mine børn valgte IKKE at blive i Danmark da de fløj fra reden)
@Lukketz
Жыл бұрын
I am a dane, and I fear that things are declining somewhat. I feel like many politicians hold on to a narrative about Denmark that is not true anymore.
@bastonor
Жыл бұрын
I think the word you were looking for at approx. 07.50 was 'critical' ? Haven't watched your channel before - even though the algorithm makes it pop up in my preferences - but I watched this one, and I felt this was what I needed from Americans: thoughtful, nuanced, humane. Thank the both of you.
@TravelinYoung
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for saying that and welcome!
@realhistoryplease4778
Жыл бұрын
Interesting video. I’m an ex Kiwi in Aarhus and can associate with what you guys say. It’s not just that you lose contact with friends etc due to the distance, but you are also changed by the local culture affecting you over time. Re not being able to go to funerals. The way I’ve handled that is by trying to visit older family members when they’re still doing ok … that’s a good way to deal with it.
@rikardnorlen752
Жыл бұрын
Interesting thoughts ! I recognize a lot of change in how you see your own country when abroad from i was in Australia. I had a bit "glorifying" view of Sweden when in Aus but when i got home i revised my view on both Aus and Swe to see more positive and negative things with both. Also too think more that there is just more ways to solve problems and nothing really have to be all good or bad. One of the reason I did not stay longer in Aus was as you say that you miss your friends and relatives. Also true in a smaller sense when i moved far within swe but then i meet up with my closest a few times a year at least.
@lasseblomqvist9378
Жыл бұрын
Really interesting to hear your inside-outside perspective on both USA and the world in general, thanks for sharing. Would love to hear more of these kind of reflections. 👍🙏
@DiamondOrPoor78
Жыл бұрын
I really can't wait until I turn 18 so I can leave the US, luckily it will be very soon!
@LaraBisserier
Жыл бұрын
Been here 15 years now. I hated the US when I was there. I have very little attachment left. People are so angry in the US. I feel it the moment I get off the plane to visit. I always felt it. This is why I am so much happier here. The polarization is real. Half of Americans are nuts. My friend living there are miserable and want out too.
@etrigueros
Ай бұрын
This is non-sensical and too general. Please don't stereotype.
@Saganen
Жыл бұрын
I share it a lot, even though I never moved out of Denmark. My partner is Italian and I've spend tons of time with her family and been an active part in helping her integrate into Danish society. It has been such an eye opener towards Danish society, norms and customs that I feel a major disconnect towards Danes in general and often even my own family and friends. I wouldn't use the word negative, but more different and that I have grown very fond of many Italian aspects to life.
@Zandain
Жыл бұрын
I've lived in a good bit of the world; not just visited, but lived for 2-4 years at a time 😉 As a Dane, I appreciate being able to travel/live without any problems, as Danes are reasonably well thought of around the world. I take my 'critical thinking cap' with me whereever I go, realizing full well, how functional the social net, health care, educational systems and political diversity are here. I keep up with all the news from home... 35-40 yrs ago, I got the monthly newspaper from Politiken sent to my home address, plus I'd go to the embassy at least once a week and read the daily newspapers from DK. Now, the internet has made it so much easier(spiced up with a lot of junk, too)to stay in touch. Don't let the excentric news be your guideline. You keep your life real, so keep your news intake real, as well 👍 Everything changes, not all of it is good for everyone, but being aware, voting, getting engaged in societal policies(even at a distance)can make the difference in how you see your life's timeline. It might change your perspective quicker, when you aren't in the middle of things ..and the other regrets of distance to family and friends..? would most likely happen regardless..as jobs, age and the amount travel the family have always done, undoubtedly would give the Youngs, new insight. hello from Hundested 🌸
@TetrahedronIX
Жыл бұрын
One thing that struck me that a traveling KZitemr from Europe said about America ,well two things actually, the first thing she said after traveling about in America is she now understands why many Americans don't travel outside the country, because there so much diversity in America, within communities, food, landscape and people. She stated that simply traveling in America can have a similar feeling to visiting different countries. The second thing she stated was that America has the best and the worst food.
@BlenderGamerFreaq
Жыл бұрын
I love the US, we've been to California three times within a few years and are going back again next year. We love it there, our favourite place in the entire world! As a European (Dane) I have so many things to be grateful for in America like NASA, SpaceX, the US military, technology in general and so much more.
@TheDane819
Жыл бұрын
I think it really depends on a lot of factors. I moved the other way, from Denmark to the US. I make more each month, which means that I can save more - especially after taxes. Wages here are just in a whole other league and so are the opportunities in the job market - especially if you have a degree. Living costs are much lower, which makes it easier monthly, and supermarkets have a more diverse selection. I can go to the supermarket and buy grass-fed beef - I couldn't do that in Denmark. Apartments are of higher quality with more amenities for less than in Copenhagen. On health care: No waiting lists. I still remember when my dad had to wait for years to get back surgery - talk about a false sense of security. He had paid taxes for his entire life. The country is polarized, but it's not something I experience daily. People here are much nicer and more open than in Denmark. So I love the US and I will never move back. The view of the US in Europe are often formed by people who know very little about the country.
@juangabrielsaizvarona332
8 ай бұрын
This is a great comment. Spread the word.
@jakeforrest
3 ай бұрын
Reading a lot about living costs skyrocketing in Florida and New York, I don’t think your comment “aged well” as they say in USA :)
@FroddeB
Ай бұрын
I'm a dane and lived abroad for quite a few years during my childhood because of my parents jobs. Adjusting to a different culture than your own is always the hardest part, the classic "culture shock" you get, but I think almost anywhere you settle down you'll adjust to the local culture (for the better or worse). It's important to look back at your roots and see what kind of person you want to be and have the same kind of people around you.
@emiljessen6627
Жыл бұрын
I can relate and I agree with your observations. I have lived “away” from Denmark for about ten years, and I have lost that feeling of Denmark as being “my one true home”, and I have also seen and experienced how things can be done differently, and dare I say.. sometimes better. In some regards. I guess home is indeed where you lay your hat. Or spend most time. And home, where ever, tend to become important and special to us all, perhaps at the cost of loosing something you might have thought would define you forever. Probably a very human reaction. And I would argue, that it is/can be a healthy and rewarding one. Even though it will always come at a price and demand some sacrifice too. I have found it interesting following your experiences in parallel with my own Swiss ones. Thank you for sharing. Best wishes, Emil
@nicolaisvendsen7101
Жыл бұрын
I know what you mean. My perspective completely shifted when I did the opposite of you guys and moved from Denmark to the U.S. If I didn't have someone to game with in Denmark, I probably would've lost touch. This is a great conversation to have and great video as usual.
@user-kv5op2ke8v
Жыл бұрын
As a Dane i lived near Rapid City. S.D. in 83/84 attending Highschool. It was an eye opener to see motherland from a distance. When away from all the noice, you now see what's good and bad. And when I got back, never ever wanted to live on the country side anymore. I have visited NYC twice in this century to discover how much society has changed. So.... if i ever moved to the us.... it has to be to a big city.
@MIB_63
Жыл бұрын
I have it the opposite way. My fiancee lives in L.A. in California. I have visited her 6 times and every time I'm back home in DK I enjoy the peace and quiet away from the noisy big city. My Ameucan fiancee feels the same way. Our dream is moving to a small, quiet city in Jutland near the ocean.
@user-kv5op2ke8v
Жыл бұрын
@@MIB_63 Noice from the city is one thing. But back in the day, there was no internet. So most of the talk was sorted out of the news stream. Getting the overview was faster then.
@ninsemor
Жыл бұрын
Good Morning, When I lived and worked in Germany and in Scotland. I also had kind of that feeling lol. I can see it must be so hard for you to see whats going on i US. I have friends and cousins in US, so also hear the positiv side . Take care.
@TrinaKristina
Жыл бұрын
I've lived in Finland for 15 years, I grew up in New England. News in general is negative. "Happy " news isn't news worthy. For example the "positive news" in Finland is about our zoo animals and if its appropriate to keep them and also rescuing sea animals. I read Finnish and English news daily. I prefer to focus on longer interviews or podcasts on one specific topic. Americans tend to panic & purchase. Nordic people tend to organize, plan and prep. At least in Finland we don't panic. We prepare ourselves for problems and don't react to disasters.
@vonduus
Жыл бұрын
I love your shirt, Josh, it is exactly the same as the one I am wearing right now. Twenty years ago I worked as a postal worker, and those shirts were part of the uniform. When i quit, I brought four shirts with me, and they are still going strong. Kansas shirts are a Danish product; I guess they are sown in China nowadays, but they are still very resilient. The only piece of clothing that I own, that is older, and is still going strong, is my old Wrangler cowboy jacket - it is almost fifty years old. So there is at least one thing Danes and Americans (and maybe the Chinese?) have in common: We make sturdy clothing. Cheers from Copenhagen!
@MrWiking777
Жыл бұрын
Really interesting to listen to. Many good points, in general and about US. It helps to restore the belief of that there are many sensibel well informed americans. Thank you for that. Best regards from an old dane.
@martinandersson8423
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Very nice discussion that gave me some new perspectives. :)
@mikewarriorEC
Жыл бұрын
Hey guys thank you very much for your video. I been living in Denmark for almost five years also and I lived in the US before for a couple of years. I feel identify with what you mentioned and can relate it to my own country and the US. I hope you keep coming with more videos
@dingostar2620
Жыл бұрын
Maya is such a beautiful name.
@tahaiqbal
4 ай бұрын
You guys are father and daughter goal's. God bless you both.
@Besotted85
Жыл бұрын
Seems like such a genuinely family all of you. Hope you the best.
@cabanford
Жыл бұрын
Every year you're away, is another year adding onto the fact that you utterly don't want to go back (me 42 years in Switzerland)
@brianfobianosowski3519
Жыл бұрын
🇩🇰 I’m a dane, and I lived in Florida for 3,5 years, I don’t miss Florida, after being back 🇺🇸
@ellimae1548
8 ай бұрын
Been here in DK since 86..came at 25.. miss my family, friends and life style in the USA. Here in Midt Vest Jylland the Danish are friendly but very closed to letting other people in.
@timothydufke2678
Жыл бұрын
This is a very enlightening conversation. I have always had this view of the US that has made me vow to never visit the place ever. And it is from the media and how it is portrayed. I think this has actually changed my mind and perception. Thanks for this.
@ichhabe330
Жыл бұрын
Negative news from the USA should not keep you away from visiting it. Yes, there is a lot of crazy stuff happening over there but as they said: USA is such a large country. I had two vacations over there, first time for four weeks and second time, three. Not once in New York, St. Louis, New Orleans, Washington DC, Orlando or Key West did I experience any negativity what so ever except for a smal tiny almost not noteworthy incident with a guy that wanted to shine my sneakers. You will meet interesting people, helpful people that are willing to go to extreme actions to help you out. We had a guy in Orlando stopping the bus we sat on by blocking it with his car, because he noticed us as tourist jumping on a bus going out of the area tourists normally go to in that city to be sure that we wasn't lost. So, visit the USA, it is a great country with some hickups, but all in all, great people.
@user-wp1jb8ix4x
Жыл бұрын
Ok, that´s it! Josh I would love to invite you to a beer sometime and talk reflections on life, I think it would be quite interesting. Btw. you all seem like very nice human beings, which in the end is the most important (in my eyes).
@MRaalind1972
Жыл бұрын
Best wishes to you guys from Denmark 🤗
@bennygummisko
Жыл бұрын
Nyhedsmedier burde have at ansvar for at bringe en positiv nyhed for hver negativ nyhed. selvom folk ikke er klar over det nedbryder alle de negative nyheder folks tro på det gode i verden, og skaber frygt for almindelige mennesker der ikke kan bære vægten af verdens problemer I could translate the above, but I am just too lazy :). I really enjoy your channel and keep the good work
@barry1902
Жыл бұрын
Det kræver at der sker lige så meget gode ting som dårlige.
@onkelhiphop
8 ай бұрын
I’m from Copenhagen Denmark and I remember back in the days I looked up to America like they are so cool and so on but now I’m like that country is scary and weird and what is going to happen next it’s really nice to hear your point of view Nice video by the way keep it up I’m going to watch some more🤘😎
@allankristiansen8133
8 ай бұрын
Thanks for your videos, it's very interesting to see things from your point of view
@biancas2639
21 күн бұрын
I just came back from a 3 week trip to Wisconsin. I´m half American but raised in Copenhagen. It´s funny to hear your perspective. I really miss the States and wish I could try to live there for some time with my kids. I wonder how you get C-span and other American channels. It would help to get in touch with the real America to be able to watch some channels live I feel. Even just to get a perspective on it. I sse many problems with the States , like less reulation on toxins for one and the drinking water etc. like environmental and all the money behind politics and big pharma obviously but I miss the drive and mentality and many regards there, I really appreciate.
@MelbourneMaster
Күн бұрын
Interesting perspectives! Im in the opposite boat right now as a Dane looking to relocate to USA. Im a clinical dietitian with a masters degree, and I work at a hospital typically with patients with diabetes, cardiovascular disease, cancer, patients in the ICU etc. The salary in Denmark is horrendous compared to USA and its very hard to progress your career, bc there arent many jobs in my field. I make rougly 18.000 ddk a month after taxes (2600 usd), which puts me at merely 216.000 ddk (30k usd) a year. The average salary in USA is 60.000k a year, which is without a masters mind you. Literally twice the salary here in Denmark, which to me is absolutely rediculous. Plus the taxes are so much lower too.
@palanka220
Жыл бұрын
Americans are always welcome in Denmark. Many of us are still very grateful for you involvement and sacrifice during WW2. Without you guys, the British and the Canadians Europe had never been liberated. Enjoy your stay and glad you like it here.
@TheAskjaers
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for that perfect analysis. Every time I visit the U.S. I meet a lot of nice people hardworking and just trying to make the best of their life. In Denmark we only hear all the negative stories about the U.S. Our son lives in Seattle and he is never coming back. He says that Denmark is too small for him. And I know what he means going to an Asian fish market with variety in fish that cold never exist in Denmark. Going to the mountains one day and the desert the next. Or working in huge tech companies and lots of them to choose between that could never be possible in Denmark. Of course he is also starting to experience the downsides. He had a job as a head of a department and was feed up with constantly and only being measured on output and never on how content his employees were or if they developed as employees.
@vaudou74
Жыл бұрын
well in europe, one day, u could go to spain or greece an then go ski in austria and hike in morocco....denmark is small, europe is bigger and easy to travel within. he woud work in switzerland or luxembourg, he would earn more or even way more, get vacations weeks and universal healthcare.....comparing the US and denmark is not very fair.
@stagger5863
Жыл бұрын
That where a more thoughtful episode then normal 👍🏻
@LarsLinne67
Жыл бұрын
Based on my experience on numerous US travels, meeting ordinary americans could change the rather negative point of view that many danes have on the US society. Americans are generally just fun, welcoming and heartwarning for the most part.
@TravelinYoung
Жыл бұрын
Truth!
@mortenrasmussen965
Жыл бұрын
Interesting perspectives. And also quite a respectable collection of bottles in the background. :-)
@thampex
Жыл бұрын
I am a brit and been living in Denmark for 25 years .. i like it for the most part but I would love to go back to the UK when my kids are older
@bibliotek42
Жыл бұрын
Perhaps the issues you talk about here are common for most people who move away? They certainly mirror my own experience. As you say, it would be interesting to hear how Danes view their country from the outside.
@cathal4921
Жыл бұрын
Yeps, mine børn født i Danmark voksede op i to andre udlande i Europa før de fik nogle få år i Danmark. Så snart de voksede op forlod de landet med det samme
@michaelborggren3745
Жыл бұрын
I am Danish. Come back home. Denmark is the best country in the entire world🇩🇰
@jimmic.m.7695
Жыл бұрын
as a Dane, no matter what, everything can be seen from at least 2 pages, and I try to look with realistic eyes at what and how the content is in the information I get, whether it is from the news or ordinary people. example, if a friend says that person you shouldn't talk to because blah blah blah, then I get curious as to why, then I like to talk to that person, then I form my own impression, not because I don't believe my friend, but because I want to form my own opinion
@ViktorFromDK
Жыл бұрын
3:45 My mantra is that no news about a country is good news unless it is no news in Denmark in danish media... Think thats general that u dont want medias in other countries to speak about your country because it is usually bad. But thats my take on it as a dane living in Copenhagen
@user-by4rzbyt
Жыл бұрын
Hi Youngs, a big thx for sharing your views with us. In regards to being there (the US) and contribute to a development, I feel that you here in DK doing your youtube as Americans, and contribute your thoughts and feelings about relevant things and topics. Are helping a lot... hugely imo..., getting linked and shared around, have alot more weight than a guy like me pointing out some things that might be worth to change as they are tested proven and works in other countries (and im' not a red devil Dane... i dont' really care who runs the show, as long its fair for all and at the same time works efficiently, progressive and is still bringing in a profit) it in turn, it do to some degree, bring up just a tiny little devil in me, when some will cloud up the facts and tell im' the dangerous one. Btw. if you not all ready know i can point you to a super good little brewery close to Nyborg in Refsvindinge.... its ambrosia.. well if food was beer. ;o) worth the little detour if you guys are on one of your trips to jylland anyway.
@sivanadarajah9351
Жыл бұрын
I don’t know what country you are from…world best country Danmark..Happy people 🕺🏼very good system 🕺🏼
@heesofi
Жыл бұрын
7:50 then use "critical" instead of "negative", marks your investigating query!
@mariettamb
Жыл бұрын
My neighbors here in Denmark are from Texas, They Will not return to USA, they are living South Denmark😊she have a job the frist 4 years and she was supporting him - no onde look mad at him - as she say: we Can survive Winther 1 job here in denmark
@poulnrgaard7820
Жыл бұрын
Always interesting to hear foreigners experience. Time has not been standing still in DK. Just 5 decades ago, life in DK was vastly different. A complete monoculture where nobody ever saw a foreigner unless they were i Cph, where foreign embassies were located. Most Danes and foreigners living here today, never knew the country we had. In a human relations/trust and confidence aspect, things have unfortunately not gotten better. I have lived in extended periods in Greenland, USA, Russia and Germany, and the last 10 years been traveling all over Europe for 5 month a year. Know all European countries rather well, but unfortunately, the west is in a general decline for the middle class. Just one example, the unrest in France these days. Nothing fundamental will be solved.
@BLUE-wk8wh
Жыл бұрын
If you ever want to visit Fyn. Just say the word and I’ll gladly be your guide 🥳
@Hammarspiken
Жыл бұрын
Hi Travelin young 👍🏼 i was very cool to hear your Danish as you Miranda and your Mother Maya speaking👁️👍🏼.you Miranda have the typically danish hand and body movment in the languages and that was very interesting to se 👍🏼👁️ And you Maya i am a swedish guy and i don't meet Danish languish everyday 🌍👁️ And i understand everything you and Miranda talking about and thats is very good..So you can now speak your Danish in Norway and sweden thats open many doors for you to..🌍👁️ on Miranda was it hard for me as swed to even see the US style and english language behind your Danish 👍🏼👍🏼 And i can tell you that it is very special to hear a US person speaking danish in all countries in Scandinavia and you can easy see the respect from Scandinavian people ❤️🇸🇪❤️🇩🇰❤️🇧🇻❤️
@Cymon343
8 ай бұрын
California to DC is (almost) the same distance as Stockholm to Rome AND BACK.
@Finnec123
Жыл бұрын
Try "Dutch Americano" too if you're interested in The Netherlands. One of my favorites. 🙂
@Be-Es---___
8 ай бұрын
Funerals and weddings is when you see your family. It's how it is. People are busy.
@margier9141
Жыл бұрын
I can completely understand where you are coming from being upset with living so far away and how bad things have gotten and feeling helpless to do anything. It feels a bit like you are trying to approach dealing with the issues of the United States but from your new perspective of having lived in Denmark now for so long and that is more the disconnect because in Denmark you could actually participate in more meaningful ways that bring about change than you realistically can in the US. My husband experienced this in the reverse with having a hard time hearing about some changes and things happening in Denmark over the years. It’s. Really hard position to be in and I just want to acknowledge that.
@thorkilkrag2916
Жыл бұрын
Hi Josh I’ve been watching many of your videos from the beginning and up till now and have found them very intrresting. It’s amazing how quickly time passes. You have been here for five years now and for some reason I have the idea that your Danish is rather limited. How do you feel about that? When I have worked abroad in Italy, Brazil, France and Russia amongst others I have always started learning the local language in order to communicate better with the locals. What is your take on that ? I hear you say that you are probably not going to leave in a short while.
@cphhelicopter
Жыл бұрын
Having lived in FL for 2x1 year, first as an exchange student and several years later for studying, and visited a couple of other states in the US as well, I believe you have to compare the US with the EU and compare an EU country with an US state, because both the US and the EU are both "internally" diversified despite their unification of states/countries.
@TMG8
Жыл бұрын
As a dane I thank you for making this
@teebodk3917
Жыл бұрын
I share your pain over the current polarization in the US and I'm thankful that things are not that bad here in Denmark... at least not yet. I think most of the problem lies with the media - print, tv and social. In Denmark we have 2 major tv channels for news, DR and TV2, and although they may not always be 100% unbiased and agree on everything, they basically report the news as they happen. Printed news are the same, sure we have left-leaning, and right-leaning media, but generally they don't accuse each other of lying/spreading fake news (and thereby accussing the opponent's readers of being complete idiots) The current government is even an example of uniting left and right. The parties involved certainly don't agree on everything, but they have the will to talk to each other in a civilized way, and have found solutions both sides could live with. I can listen to a DK political debate and find things from almost every party to agree with, but also things that I don't agree with, so I don't see any party as divine gurus and on the other hand, no party as pure evil and 100% lies. This, in my opinion, is the pre-requisite of a healthy political climate: listening to mulitple views and deciding who to side with on a per-case basis, rather than simply saying that "my party is always right and I won't bother listening to anybody else, cause they're all liars and crooks" It would be extremely interesting if you could discuss the subject on a future live episode, although I realize it may be difficult without getting too specific on US political matters, but maybe on a more generic level "is it possible to make people listen to each other again instead of just yelling? And if yes, then how? Where to start?"
@meibing4912
Жыл бұрын
Denmark seems very, very small when you live in a large country (USA, Brazil, China, Japan etc.). Also, you can hardly believe what Danish media is pushing as perceived societal "problems". Danes don't know how lucky they are and forget to focus on all the positive sides of living there. I'll move back one day just to be in Copenhagen, but I'll keep reading/listening to foreign media to keep a realistic perspective of the world. The challenge today with the US for many Danes is that our values are splitting fast and creating a divide in world view - as when Trump when President at a NATO summit claimed Europe was his enemy, even as we bleed blood together in Afghanistan, Iraq etc. We stood together during the cold war. Now we are uncertain if the next US President will leave Ukraine to be crushed by Russia.
@thomash.larsen6932
Жыл бұрын
So, we Danes don't have a realistic view on the world and we don't know how lucky we are. Wrong.! Most of us know we live in the best country on the planet and people are well informed about what's happening in the world. Guess you didn't hear what the weak (Republican) house speaker, said to a Russian journalist in Israel the other day about US support to Ukraine 😊
@EmmaNguyen-mg5xq
Жыл бұрын
@@thomash.larsen6932 the best country on planet 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
@frankierasmussensweet
Жыл бұрын
hello and welcome to little Denmark 😉
@CrazyhorseDK
Жыл бұрын
cheers from denmark
@carstenselberg1255
Жыл бұрын
As a Dane who lives in Germany and also have lived in USA and Lithuania I think that your feeling for your native country is based on how you get information on what's going on. I still follow american politics and just visited New York to meet up with friends in Poughkeepsie, and I'm planning to go to Lithuania this summer to visit old friends from my time living there. As long as you are living in an European country you are able to get danish tv and newspapers. The only bad feeling I have about Denmark is that I'm not allowed to vote at the Folketingsvalg and I can't vote in Germany because I'm a Danish citizen.
@GreenlandQuilter
Жыл бұрын
I'm an American who is living in South Greenland. In August it will be 12 years since I moved here. I moved here because my husband is Greenlandic and since our home country (USA) immigration system is messy and crazy. I have to say that living here in Greenland has caused my eyes to be opened wide. I don't even recognize our country anymore. Over the last 7 years it has changed drastically and I find it hard to understand why so much toxicity and polarization has become a way of life not to mention guns mattering more than human life, especially children! I stumbled onto your video and watch it and thought about what you had said and I agree about how our world view changes because we are no longer there to be influenced. The biggest thing I have begun to not like much is the comment "Leader of the Free World." That implies that our country is the only country that people live free! That simply isn't the case at all! Most democratic countries has their own laws but I haven't seen a stifling of freedom here in Greenland or in Denmark. I don't feel that the laws there is (ex: not being allowed to own an assault gun or a handgun) keeps me from living how I want to freely! You're video is so refreshing. As to what can Americans do to push out all the toxic people running our country, The young people need to get out there and start doing something. It's time that a younger generation with a more open minds to get out there and take our country in a better way! Great video!!!
@AahFukIt
4 ай бұрын
Where in South Greenland? I'm Danish and grew up in Qaqortoq, and lived upstate NY ( Dansville)
@GreenlandQuilter
4 ай бұрын
@@AahFukIt We live in Qaqortoq. I'm from Florida. I was raised in Florida and spent part of my adult life there as well. I left in 2011 to live with my husband in Greenland. My "Heart Light" is a native Greenlander. He was born in Aasiaat but mostly raised in Qaqortoq.
@AahFukIt
4 ай бұрын
@@GreenlandQuilter nice to hear that. I hope you have been to Igaliko? I have spent alot if time there with my ex wife, its a lovely place to spend weekends.
@GreenlandQuilter
4 ай бұрын
@@AahFukIt Yes, I've been there a couple of times. ;) :)
@AahFukIt
4 ай бұрын
@@GreenlandQuilter I hope you loved it, my favourite place for weekend peace. And so happy to hear mam.
@LolcowFarm-qr3if
Жыл бұрын
And it has changed alot
@Jake-co3wk
Жыл бұрын
very thoughtful presentation.
@TrondBrgeKrokli
Жыл бұрын
Whenever there is some form of polarization in a topic, be it political, national, economical or cultural, more and more I realize it seems like the main trends seem to behave like a pendulum. I find myself wondering where that will take us in the future, based on today's political and international climate.
@gautearefjord
Жыл бұрын
Very very good , also for Swedish and Norwegian s....
@Finnec123
Жыл бұрын
It seems us Danes are mostly interested in Denmark and the USA.
@uhorne
Жыл бұрын
I would also say that the US seems to have gotten a lot more polarized in the last 5 years and i think a big factor to that has been political figures that have boosted that mentality. I also know some Americans from NY, Texas and south Carolina that i talk to here and there and they also say some things have shifted to the worse in that regard But i definitely agree that good stories are often overlooked, as they aren't deemed as interesting. It's a shame, because a more balanced type of news stories would be better mentally as well. If we only hear bad stuff, it affects our view
@Uriel-Septim.
Жыл бұрын
I agree, I turned off my TV/news many years ago, I will not turn it back on before there is a station who sends the "good news" I can easily live with out all the fear mongering, I sleep much better at night, no need to keep updated on wars/famine/deaths/division and corruption aso.
@AB-80X
Жыл бұрын
Not even in the last five years. It started when Obama got in office. Look back at the new Tea Party movement, people like Ann Culter, Michele Bachmann and so on.The new movement of ultra conservatives and conspiracy theorist etc. set the order of the day. And when you mix in Obama who also did his share to divide the country, you have a recipe for political disaster. Then we get Trump vs. Clinton, we get Covid which just serves to reinforce the divide. But the polarization has been there for well over a decade now and it has been a while since the US had a proper president who was more than just a face for the public. While Bush Jr. may not have been the best president ever, he was not the disaster we see now. Obama, Clinton, Trump, Biden. Pick your poison. It's all a disaster.
@Bjarne_Duelund
Жыл бұрын
Difficult topic. I guess the experience always will be some polarized when observing on the distance, either one way or the other. It is easier to see the whole palette when fully observed by your self. Just my 5 cents.
@hisheighnessthesupremebeing
Жыл бұрын
Have you guys tryed tasting real Blueberries..not those "fake" American ones.. the Scandinavian ones aren't as big as the American version but they taste better (and has a lot more healthy stuff inside) they are purpur/purple inside and not white like the the big overseas version that is sold in the supermarket
@finnritslev4559
Жыл бұрын
I'm Danish and lived in US for four year during Reagon's 2nd term. As for the problem with any two-party system like US and UK. It boils down to statistic. Two contributions both with wings. If the left side wins the left-left get too much power. If the right side win tbe right-right get too much powrr. Fewer compromises over the middle. The loosers are are us in the center. The Scandinavian model encourages compromises. The US/UK model winner takes all. However, after the next election looser takea all.
@cranck07
Жыл бұрын
As a dane, i'm mostly worried that I am watching Edward Gibbon play out in the US.
@carstenclausen4414
Жыл бұрын
Your right, politicians is NOT our representatives, important!
@mikkelsrensen5892
11 сағат бұрын
You learn more about your own country when you have worked for many years in another country. Then you can really see how much has happened since you moved abroad. I myself have worked abroad for 30 years and came home in 2003. I don't think everything has gone well in Denmark since then. But the Danes who have never been somewhere think that Denmark is a duck pond. Far from
@candyjxo
22 күн бұрын
How were you able to officially move to Denmark from the US?? I wanna move there so bad
@CollonDK
9 ай бұрын
Love your videos :) I just realised a funny thing, Maya says "like" a lot. :D A thing the might be funny, could you do a video in danish? :)
@johnrnning5362
Жыл бұрын
Hej med jer. Hvad er jeres amerikanske venners reaktion på jeres forvandlinger ? Er det radikale eller misundelige reaktioner som i møder, hvordan ser jeres venskabsnetværk på jeres forvandlinger?
@nilslarson7532
Жыл бұрын
as a danish american i wish you had the guts to be more honest . But then on the other hand you know danes will not really accept any criticism,even if expressed respectfully . A bit bizarre since they travel to the US in huge numbers . Wonder how your experience would have been if you looked different , for instance with features from Asia or Africa . I think as a genuine american you should ask yourself this question too. Best to you all.
@jesperlykkeberg7438
Жыл бұрын
Oh, we love being criticized. You go ahead.
@knus1959
Жыл бұрын
Hi :) I'm sure you don't have to move as far away from family and friends as you did to lose touch with them and lose your sense of where you belong. I was born in Rødovre near Copenhagen, and when I was almost 3 years old, the family moved to Greenland, and after 2 years there, the family moved back to Denmark to a small town in Northern Jutland. Later, my then husband and I moved to Aalborg. Even though I wasn't born up here, I feel like I have a hard time saying where I belong. But I like this part of Denmark very much, and would never move back to the capital again. My parents came from Nørrebro (Copenhagen) and Holeby on Lolland, respectively. I like the game Minecraft a lot, and follow everyone from Hermitcraft. They have been around for over 11 years and I feel in a way that they are part of my circle of friends. And they are from England, the US, Canada, Germany, Poland (living in Sweden), Australia, South Africa (living in England) and Sweden. And that is why I am very worried if something happens in the areas where they live, e.g. the school shooting in Nashville, Tennessee. A question for Maya for your next live stream. How much is your interest in Minecraft? And do you know the youtubers from Hermitcraft?
@jenspetersimonsen4235
Жыл бұрын
Good points about the socalled polarization in society - but that goes for all countries, I think. Media has a tendency to - as you say - magnify differences in order to generate clicks and revenue. Wise words...
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