Some BW need to drop that YtM are only fetishising BW. I’ve been fetishised, disrespected by bmales way more. Nonblk men initiate respectful and polite. That’s been my experience🤷🏽♀️
@tamikowhite9541
11 ай бұрын
To be honest, its BM that pushes that narrative.
@MaxHochwalt-jt7jy
11 ай бұрын
Maybe thats true, maybe its not. Fear of what you don't completely understand is B.S. either way. No, black women are not a check off item on all WtMs list. Some guys just love everything about a kindhearted and sweet woman. If she happens to be Black, great she happens to have a more diverse experience in life, if not thats okay too!
@latinaking3816
8 ай бұрын
Yep. BM are the main ones who fetishize and use/ abuse us.
@MsLotusBlooms
3 ай бұрын
Bw are just spewing what bm have conditioned them to believe about white men. It is so untrue.
@brianbannon6746
11 ай бұрын
Colleges/Universities, book stores, coffee shops, etc., are good places to meet. They tend to appeal more to deeper intellectual pursuits which can bring people of diverse racial and cultural backgrounds together. It worked for my wife and I as we connected intellectually first through literature, spirituality, music, etc. This subsequently led to marriage and physical intimacy.
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Creating an intellectual connection can lead to such a powerful and long lasting relationship and it’s the thing that sticks when the physical begins to fade. ✨💕
@liabw05
11 ай бұрын
Great advice! I have my doctorate and am 36 years old. You won’t find me at the club but at a bookstore, yoga class, dining restaurant, theatre, museums. Placed where my mind can be stimulated.
@tamikowhite9541
11 ай бұрын
Also, another way to meet upward mobility nonblack men is by volunteering at hospitals, going to Charity balls, attending silent auctions, going to golf tournaments and taking up golf (wealthy men often make major business deals at golf courses), going to polo matches, and anything involving a cultural or medical institution are excellent places to meet rich men. Save up your money and move to a neighborhood where they live. You have to put yourself out there.
@tchai91
4 ай бұрын
Or, you could just interact with anybody you meet in life anywhere you meet them, regardless of their colour, status, intellectual capacity, job etc, and not prejudge anybody. It’s a pretty foolproof rule in life generally, and you tend to meet fascinating people, regardless of their IQ.
@christinesmith1201
11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this!!! To my non black men please just say “Hi”. BW are approachable and would love to hear from you. PLEASE no cheesy pick up lines LOL.
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
Yes and yes and especially yes to the no cheesy pickup lines lol.
@kenharper7189
11 ай бұрын
Yes! Yes! Just saying hi and a smile goes a long way. No pick-up lines from me, but if I can make you laugh, I'm going to try. 👍
@MaxwellHochwalt-ek2cn
10 ай бұрын
Black women are extremely approachable, white guys are usually intimidated by black women. We want black women, most white guys are afraid, because we are conditioned to think: we are not worthy to love a woman that stands strong for what she believes in. Some is "white guilt ", some is we want your strength and to earn your love, that we(as white guys) definitely don't deserve.
@christinesmith1201
8 ай бұрын
@@kenharper7189 I love to laugh, life is too short. Women love to smile…,.well at least I do. 😀
@BCM82
8 ай бұрын
@@christinesmith1201 You should, your smile is beautiful.🤩
@ms.ednapost
11 ай бұрын
🙋🏽♀️Amanda…would you consider a vid for BW 50 and older wanting to expand dating options?
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
Of course I would! It’s not one that I could speak to from experience per say but absolutely I would love to give it a try and hope that my viewers are gracious if I’m not 100% on target. But absolutely I would try! In fact, that might just be the next one out. ✨💕
@ms.ednapost
11 ай бұрын
@@AmandaAwakens Yay! 🙏🏽
@RasheedahNizam
11 ай бұрын
My white bf told me that he would never ask out a black woman because they always turn non-black men down. Please give green lights to men of other races. Remember that men of other races also have green lights that are far more subtle on average. It might just be a smile or nice word.
@liabw05
11 ай бұрын
I hope this assumption changes! I love white men ❤
@ms.ednapost
11 ай бұрын
Yes! They seem to almost melt in front your eyes if a BW makes eye contact and smiles. It’s the cutest thing. I spent money on orthodontics, I smile a lot and every non BM has commented on how nice and bright my smile is.
@kenharper7189
11 ай бұрын
@liabw05 I think the perception has changed. Not far enough IMO but people just really need to chill and just accept each other as any other person. This world could be a much better place.
@desdior1207
10 ай бұрын
and I told a black man this because they are quick to scream “we’re the least desirable” to make us feel ugly and unwanted. When in actuality ,a lot of black women let it be known to the world they are race loyal. Once I open up my dating option online, majority of my likes are coming from non black men. These black men will try to argue with me that I’m not wanted by nobody but I know that’s false
@mercedessl8718
11 ай бұрын
Amanda you never cease to amaze me with your words of wisdom. I was particularly taken by your final comment emphasising ‘just be kind’ where bw are not familiar to being approached in this manner. I would like to think decent wm are genuine in their intentions and show respect to bw in conversation. Thank you once again for this insight. As always stay safe and keep well 🥰
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
Aww thank you as always for the kindness you exude! Be well. ✨💕
@phalynwilliams4119
11 ай бұрын
Church ⛪️ is also a place to meet nice women.
@HerkBrianH
6 ай бұрын
White single male spiritual well travelled and read. I cook very well love Motown, Sam Cooke, Marvin Gaye, The Stylistics etc. CDN West coast, tallish 6-2 Late 60s
11 ай бұрын
I play bass. I met Incredible Jamaican women playing with local Jamaican Musicians. Then I went to Church and joined the Praise Team. In Jamaica they say "out of many -we are One" Out of many Jamaican Women I've worked & Praised with... No 2 are Alike. Amazing Women with Culture & Character ... they also like to Groove & Dance ... One Love
@arlenaholmes
11 ай бұрын
Amanda!! You are so good and insightful at this. Well said and accurate lovely one!!!😀
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
Aww thank you so, so much! I try to just speak from lived experiences and hope it sticks lol. Be well and thank you for your continued support of this channel. ✨💕
@arlenaholmes
7 ай бұрын
I listened to this again and I cannot tell you how accurate and insightful this video was....It's true...Black women are NOT used to ppl being kind to them. We get ppl who are mean, abrupt, suspicious, and aggressive to us ALL THE TIME!!! We don't have the luxury of being soft, feminine, and relaxed. We have to be on guard especially for danger. WELL SAID AGAIN!@@AmandaAwakens
@CC-hz1qm
11 ай бұрын
As an 50+ old lady can I say …. You are so smart !!!
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
You are so kind. I try to just speak as honestly as I can from my experiences and share what helped me and what hurt me. Hopefully my highs and lows proves to be helpful for others! Be well. ✨💕
@supersaturn956
10 ай бұрын
Thought she was 30; wow Black don't crack nice genes.
@richardlanier2113
11 ай бұрын
I've been abused and cheated on a lot. I will continue to keep to myself.
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
I’m sorry you’ve had so many negative experiences. Sometimes stepping away to focus on ourselves is the best choice we can make. I wish you the best of luck though if you ever decide to put yourself back out there for a romantic relationship. Be well! ✨💕
@keithclark1504
11 ай бұрын
Sorry that you get all the same questions. I know for me specifically it’s my environment. I’m in a small town and I work from home. Plus that is very cringe worthy. Calling a woman a food. I’ve never done that.
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
I don’t mind the questions because it proves that there are so many potential matches out there and people who are looking for love! Also it may mean there are new people who are finding my channel and that’s always an amazing thing. Absolutely our environment can be in our favor or against us. I would highly recommend getting out of your environment as realistically as you can to put yourself around a wider array of people and to have new experiences! I know how disheartening the dating scene can be and I love your resilience when it comes to your search for love. I have been and still am rooting for you!✨💕
@CandlesandShadowsPodcast
11 ай бұрын
I asked my German husband if he ever would have approached me in person if we hadn't met online. His answer was absolutely NOT! 😂 He's very shy and introverted but a true sweetheart and very loving. In addition to the wonderful suggestions from Amanda for in-person ways to meet women, online is always a great place if you are a shy/introverted person. As Amanda said, kindness and showing interest really goes a long way. My husband did a very good job of that ( from overseas) even though English isn't even his first language. 😊 There's hope fellas, don't give up!
@hpcolonna4370
11 ай бұрын
Hello
@keithclark1504
11 ай бұрын
@@hpcolonna4370 hi thanks for reading comments
@larmetagettes4042
11 ай бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree with you!!!
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
Aww yay! So happy this resonates. Be well. ✨💕
@kenharper7189
11 ай бұрын
Amanda, you always, always are on point. Life has had me tied in knors but I'm trying to catch up! 😂 Love ya!! ❤❤
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
Thank you as always Ken!
@barrysaines254
2 күн бұрын
Work place is a good spot to meet people.
@AmandaAwakens
2 күн бұрын
It definitely can be! You have to be very cautious and respectful but many people have found their partners in their work environment.
@NadeemShekh-uy9zn
11 ай бұрын
As a 28 year old Brown indian Muslim man ive mostly encountered black women and non black women who have a interracial fetish because of my appearance and the way i talk so its tough to find someone who is actually interested in me as a person rather than just trying to sleep with me because im seen as someone exotic which is why its easier for me to just date women of the same race and religious background as myself
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
Do what works best for you. Be well! ✨
@barrysaines254
2 күн бұрын
I have hope in your generation, older generations have too many preconceived ideas whether black or white. I believe in the future it will be more common to see interracial relationships 😊
@keithpederson9912
5 ай бұрын
Problem i found. All the BW i find attractive, are already married. Soooooo, trying anything is a NO NO for me. Now, i am just too introverted. Humans have let me down too much over the last 30 yrs.
@ChristineAkwom
4 ай бұрын
Same here 😢.I wonder if loving someone and expecting to be loved back in the same measure is asking for too much these days 😕.
@AmandaAwakens
4 ай бұрын
@ChristineAkwom it is absolutely NOT too much to ask and is very possible to find. Not easy, but very possible. Do not give up. I had some awful dating experiences and relationship failures in my past and now I’m with the love of my life and genuinely would not have met him if I hadn’t have gone through some of the prior hardships. It’s okay to step back and pour into yourself but don’t give up. We don’t quit working when we lose a job. We don’t quit spending time with our family when we lose a family member. On even a simple level we don’t quit eating after we’ve had a bad meal lol. I’m rooting for you ❤️
@blade7506
11 ай бұрын
watching this as a black man to pull black women📝 (they keep calling me not black enough/white)
@MaxHochwalt-jt7jy
11 ай бұрын
Not black enough is a BS term made up by people that are usually insecure in who they are.
@justmo2023
11 ай бұрын
❤❤
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
✨✨💕
@ladyfitness67
10 ай бұрын
Thank you
@elizabethe.9682
11 ай бұрын
I'm a New Yorker so I can relate on the resting bitch face lol however I am nice and interested in dating outside of my race I've definitely caught white men staring like they want to say something but never approach even some cases where I smile to signal the green light but nothing and I'm a little shy when it comes to going after them or any man for that matter any tips for us women?
@VirgosGroove3
11 ай бұрын
@@TatumSheffieldshe didn’t curse really, RBF is a term that’s commonly used. The B is a curse word 🤷🏽♀️
@MaxHochwalt-jt7jy
11 ай бұрын
RBF usually just means a girl is more introverted and more thoughtful on her actions. You can't judge a book by its cover kind of thing.
@devonbeaumont7205
11 ай бұрын
Peanut butter chocolate complexion - LTG
@AmandaAwakens
11 ай бұрын
I hope LTG stands for "let that go" lol because it's gotta go!
@sharnag6968
4 ай бұрын
Maybe you should add in the fact that some black woman actually only like black men to stop their feelings getting hurt as not all black woman date outsde their own race so no they won't always get lots of brownie points they will face dissapointments too
@AmandaAwakens
4 ай бұрын
Why add something that they already think? The common thought is that black women are uninterested in nonblack men. I literally just responded to two comments from men saying they've never approached black women because they do not believe they would date outside of their race lol.
@Solrac1424
9 күн бұрын
Sorry to say this but you seem too bias towards white men.. like men from other ethnicities dont find then attractive?..
@AmandaAwakens
9 күн бұрын
I’m in a relationship with a white man. That’s why I talk about interracial relationships between black women and white men because since I am no dating expert or coach I try and speak only from my personal experiences. I find men of all races to be attractive and worthy of giving and receiving love. ✨
@DatingRuss585
4 ай бұрын
@AmandaAwakens you inspired me to make a second channel dedicated only to meeting black women. My other channel wasn't the best place to upload dating/meeting people videos. This is my new channel to meet more black women in my area @DatingRuss585. Thank you for the inspiration.
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