Hi Mai! My husband’s parents got divorced when he was 2 and they kept all their wedding pics and pics together for him and he cherishes them very much nowadays. Give it a thought before throwing yours away, maybe one day your boys may enjoy having them as a memory from when their parents were happy together and decided to born them 🥰
@laelakarimi
Жыл бұрын
This! I came to comment this. My parents had a rough divorce when I was 4. They never talked about it to me til this day (I'm 34). They trashed any and all pictures and memories of when they were together. So not only do I not have any memories of them happy, I also have no pictures or memorabilia of that time. It's like a chunk of my own personal history is gone. My half sister who came 9 years later, has tons of pictures and memories of our mom and her dad (my step dad) together, even though they eventually got divorced too. You mentioned you don't keep the art work or notebooks for your kids. I would at least keep the personal memorabilia for them.
@DrRitaHS
Жыл бұрын
@@laelakarimi im sorry your parents were taken by their emotions at the time and you now have this blank space in your life left behind 😢
@michelledelecki6224
Жыл бұрын
agree 👍 my mom and dad divorced when I was 2 years old so I really don't ever remember them together. my mom saved her dress and the wedding photos. she passed a few years ago, but I'm so glad she saved the dress and pics.
@cherylricard2755
Жыл бұрын
I just wanted to drop a comment that you may want to keep some of your wedding photos of you and your ex because even though you don't want them, your children someday might want them. You are still their parents and that wedding will still be important to them. Lots of love! I always enjoy your decluttering videos :-)
@iaJENKA
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, just because a marriage or relationship fails, doesn't mean that the good times did not happen or that they weren't good, or worth remembering. They happened, they were good, and they are a part of who you are. Have a wonderful new year!
@genaymcintosh6453
Жыл бұрын
You may want to look into getting the LBD altered. It can be fairly inexpensive so might save you some money instead of just buying a new dress.
@patkern185
Жыл бұрын
Don't worry about meeting someone in sweat pants. Love frequently happens when you're not looking for it 😁 Love your videos. Stay positive. XXOO ❤️
@DistanceTraveled
Жыл бұрын
The peacoat is elegant and I totally love it!!! Especially buttoned up
@SarahHam33
Жыл бұрын
Mai! You are glowing recently. I’ve been watching you for a bit now and honestly your energy and spirit feels like they’re thriving since the separation. I mean that kindly and no shade to your ex. Just seems like you’re more giddy and excited and bubbly, especially the closest clean out part felt more like friends chatting and trying on cute stuff. ❤ oh as an aside the same thing happened to my boobs when I lost weight. Might want to look into getting your black dress tailored? Unless it’s economically more feasible to buy a new one
@mackenziegary6311
Жыл бұрын
Definitely look into The Angel Gown Program for your wedding dress
@thayerwilliams905
Жыл бұрын
Peacoats are ALWAYS a good staple!
@ferrisblake9284
Жыл бұрын
Love how refreshingly honest you are about your whole journey! Wishing you the best in the New Year!
@hopecantu5722
Жыл бұрын
Please donate your dress to people that make them into angel gowns. When our son died I got to pick out an outfit for him that was nice since I was only 30 weeks and didn’t have anything for him to wear. I’m in McKinney and I got it from someone local that donated it to the hospital
@hopecantu5722
Жыл бұрын
Also love your videos!
@lesliedawson7364
Жыл бұрын
I was about to say the same thing
@mellybellyallen
Жыл бұрын
I came to say the same thing!!!❤❤
@shelbyanem
Жыл бұрын
This!
@krismyers4940
Жыл бұрын
I’ve also donated my wedding dress to a friend who makes angel gowns.🇨🇦
@lalahdz9553
Жыл бұрын
You can let go of the cube storage and hang up all the clothes. That way you can see everything you have
@cassieleefryeklund5623
Жыл бұрын
I watched your old closet clean outs while I cleaned out our master closet yesterday! For the first time since we moved in over a year ago you can walk in there without climbing over stuff! Thank you for the motivation
@lozxcam
Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year! I hope 2023 is everything you want it to be! Also; with the wedding dress, I don’t know if there is anything in your area but you can donate to wedding specific charity-esqe places so someone can get a beautiful dress that’s affordable for them! That’s what I would do, I think that would be a really nice way to do something positive with the dress 😊😊
@jenn3290
Жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say you're doing great! and your videos give me such motivation. I didn't read the other comments to see if anyone suggested this, but I actually donated my wedding dress. I donated to a program that turns wedding dresses into sadly gowns for babies that have passed. It breaks my heart to think of someone to go through such a loss, but I was happy knowing my gown helped make beautiful memories for these parents. Just something to think about.
@brandigeisbert
Жыл бұрын
You could get the black dress tailored.
@MaiZimmy
Жыл бұрын
I should do that cause I really like the dress!
@claudiag.3036
Жыл бұрын
When you said you didn’t care about your kindergarten notebook, I felt so much better about throwing away the random art and drawings. Thank you for that, Mai! 😅
@SusieQZee
Жыл бұрын
That boutique bodysuit is soooooo beautiful! I also shop the girls’ section at Target. I love Art Class. Sometimes my preteen daughter and I will share, but honestly it’s a little too mature of a style than the targeted age is. So perfect for me. lol
@n.pickering5082
Жыл бұрын
There are a few things you can do with your wedding dress. There are organizations that will make small dresses out of yours for babies that pass away to be buried in. My daughter that passed away 14 years ago yesterday, was one such recipient. Also, you could take it to a consignment shop to sell it, sell it on Facebook marketplace or just donate it. I personally have donated one to Goodwill (after my divorce) and I've sold one on Facebook marketplace (my other daughter didn't want it since it wasn't bright white, LOL).
@kaceyasdf
Жыл бұрын
for your wedding dress you should check out the angel gown program. you can donate your dress & they can make it into clothing for stillborn babies.
@halfkoreangirl
Жыл бұрын
I don't always go by the trends when I declutter. If it fits well and you like it and it looks good, keep it! Oh, and you can donate your wedding dress! I know there are specific dress charities.
@tinaosbon1635
Жыл бұрын
So glad to see you back on KZitem. Your energy was missed. From one real mama to another ❤
@cantocant2346
Жыл бұрын
I thought about you over Christmas. You made it through! Happy to see you.
@MaiZimmy
Жыл бұрын
I made it!!! Hope you had a Merry Christmas 😁
@jayceecruz4471
Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year! That LBD that is too big, you can have it taken in at your cleaners for a minimal charge. Then, if you gain weight, you can have it let out. It's really cute on you.
@giantschick21
Жыл бұрын
Get your black dress taken in! Cheaper than buying a new one and if you love it you can still wear it.
@barbkelzenberg2394
Жыл бұрын
You could wear a tank top under the shirts with a low neckline. That works for me. 🌺
@kmccoypta
Жыл бұрын
I cleaned mine out this weekend! All I have left is gray T shirts. 😂
@lauraammannito9911
Жыл бұрын
Probably sounds sooo corny but I smile when I see you post a video! Ahh my friend I've never actually met is chatting with me haha .. cheering you on!
@jonjharrington
Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year! I think that black coat was extremely cute- lovely for a winter wedding or whenever you feel like it! I know 2022 was really hard for you, 2023 will be so good- you deserve the best!
@lindsaycatalanello9945
Жыл бұрын
Your hair color looks fantastic in this video! Great shade for you!!
@dsegobiano87
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad all your jeans brought you joy! I love decluttering, but I also love feeling validated in my previous purchases 😂
@ashleyblack3930
Жыл бұрын
I'm a little late to this video, but I'm binging while I put orders together for my business :) Not sure if someone has already commented this, but there are a lot of organizations that you can donate your dress to and they will make gowns for stillborn babies!
@LifeathomewithJoanne
Жыл бұрын
The Americana boots are so fricken cute! 🤩💕
@Catherine3385
Жыл бұрын
The pea coat is really nice! Donate the wedding dress.
@bonessam9618
Жыл бұрын
Please keep a few pictures of your wedding for your boys. They may be happy to have them.
@rachel.schmidt
Жыл бұрын
Ok that target coat is the exact reason I have such a hard time decluttering 😂 loved this declutter though and definitely inspired to go through my own closet
@ngc394
Жыл бұрын
I admire your courage and perseverance during your personal family struggle. You are a beautiful young woman with a lifetime of love to look forward to in your future. Stay strong and don't give him any power by harboring anger, resentment or even talking about him, advice my wise mother gave me years ago. Walk into your future with a smile on your face and the knowledge that you will be happy once again!!! Love your videos.
@tamirule4216
10 күн бұрын
I really like your attitude 🎉. You are so upbeat ❤ I love your videos 😊
@Valschapero
Жыл бұрын
You are seriously my favorite. You have the best personality. Love the comment about not supporting the K family too, I totally agree. You’re just so real & transparent. Wishing you the best 2023!
@MaiZimmy
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! You just made my day :)
@mtbyam
Жыл бұрын
I worked as an ETL for Target store side right out of college for about 5 years. Like you I learned so much working there, but it was the most exhausting and unnecessarily stressful job I've ever been in. It pushed me far ahead in my career, and I'm glad it was my starter job. With that being said, you couldn't pay me enough to return to that mess. Can't believe people make a long career there.
@kitw76
Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year! I hope 2023 brings you happiness! Now you have the whole closet to yourself you can make it into your dream closet ( within the space you have) I love your declutter videos!
@rosevee2689
Жыл бұрын
I am so excited!! I am so happy to find you doing house videos again! My new year is already being made!!!
@esmeraldasotelo6986
Жыл бұрын
23:16 😂😂😂😂 I love your vids
@lunagabriella213
Жыл бұрын
Pea coats are classic 👍♥️
@kimberlyburk5446
Жыл бұрын
I start the year by turning all the hangers in my closet so I can easily see what items I don't wear. Glad you kept the peacoat. That is a classic and never goes out of style IMO. Happy new year!
@dianneperry2903
Жыл бұрын
Feb 23, 24, I got rid of 85 ...YES I SAID "85" items out of our master closet. I'm trying to make it 100 by this Saturday Feb 25th!
@elizabethlangheim7214
Жыл бұрын
That little black dress could be tailored. Honestly buying a new one might be cheaper.
@Illuminate-to-heal
Жыл бұрын
I am guilty for the decluttering of the ex husband comment😅 I’m so sorry for the bad timing and in no way meant to roast you. I wrote it hoping to be more of a lighthearted joke😬I totally agree there is no getting rid of the father of your children. My parents separated/divorced when I was 13, and they did not coparent well in the slightest, so I admire your efforts to have an amicable and positive coparenting relationship with your ex. Happy New Year, and I’m excited to see the content you create this year…I especially love your decluttering/cleaning/organizing videos😏❤️
@MaiZimmy
Жыл бұрын
No hard feelings 😅😅 I love a good roast!!! 😂😂😂 you gotta be able to laugh at yourself. Life isn’t that serious :)
@rh8180
Жыл бұрын
My daughter is a hockey player, so cool you were too
@julieanne7223
Жыл бұрын
Awesome to see you again. love your KonMai episodes!!!! Hope the new year is everything you want it to be! 😘
@vvmarie9922
Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this it's so motivating I'm slowly working on my closet I ordered to ordered some thing to help organize better I can't wait to get started this week once they come in
@smleach5400
Жыл бұрын
That declutter roast😂😂 “it’s a good joke. It’s a great joke even. But I need you to stop anyway” lmao😂😂
@jjjljuls2237
Жыл бұрын
Yes the coat looks awesome 👍.
@dannifulker7494
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@MAGGS67L
Жыл бұрын
Hi mai,,,,Happy new year wished to you. Love decluttering video's 🧡🧡🧡🧡 your dress you can donate to be made into dresses for babies that didnt make it into this world x
@suerescino3218
Жыл бұрын
have your black dress tailored to fit you its super cute!!!
@jomyers9523
Жыл бұрын
I used my wedding dress from my first husband as a Halloween costume. Consider donating it.
@teclad
Жыл бұрын
9:55 QUEEENNNN stay safe mai loving your new mai
@ELizbeth135
Жыл бұрын
Save the little black dress and get it tailored!
@abbysheridan1429
Жыл бұрын
Love the blue dress!
@karenhoward8542
Жыл бұрын
Take the black dress to a seamstress to get it fitted properly
@catherineross7776
Жыл бұрын
You could use the 12 bottle cardboard dividers from inside cartons of a dozen wine and put them inside the cube storage?
@lushbunn
Жыл бұрын
You could also sew in a modesty piece of lace or cloth to the necklines.
@cheyenneransom6885
Жыл бұрын
Have a "trash your dress" photo shoot! I've seen some really fun and cool things done with those shoots.
@cindysams9832
Жыл бұрын
You are so pretty, you look beautiful in anything. I'm very overweight and do my best to dress nicely but it's difficult.
@lily_white
Жыл бұрын
You can get things you really like tailored or altered for not that much moneu
@tiffanypacheco_
Жыл бұрын
Love a good closet clean out! Been doing that girls clothing hack for a long time. Wish I could do it with jeans too but long legs!
@liistonismae1972
Жыл бұрын
Happy new year! Just thought the other day you haven't posted for a while and how I miss the old regular Monday uploads, so I was really happy to see new video today. I love your attitude and positivity, we think a lot alike about most stuff in life. It's so funny how I generally really dislike vlogs and prefer written content but at the same time am really looking forward seeing you. Keep up the good work!
@silesianangel3705
Жыл бұрын
Mai is the prettiest woman i have seen in my life OH my gooood
@cjs2587
Жыл бұрын
get your dresses tailored. I get clothes tailored frequently. There are usually cute little old ladies that run these businesses out of their houses. They are super affordable and do an EXCELLENT job!!!
@heatherwoods23
Жыл бұрын
Rachel's Gift may accept your wedding dress to make into gowns for angel babies 💕
@hhon8938
Жыл бұрын
I’m thinking now about decluttering my closet again too - thanks for the cute vid!! Happy frickin fab as heck new year to you, yours and the KZitems fam!
@kimberlywatts3402
Жыл бұрын
Sponsors are amazing!🎉👍😂🤣Definitely do what makes you happy! We're along for the ride!
@leslieg6942
Жыл бұрын
Finally a video!!! Ive been checking every single day , thinking about you , hope you’re doing better💕
@ashleyhanely1753
Жыл бұрын
Your hair looks so beautiful!!
@tinaroberts135
Жыл бұрын
Love your videos so much. You are still relatable which I like. You seem to have a glow and so happy now like other comments I’ve read. Im happily married and am not as happy as you lmao! Which Is probably for some many reason. We need to move! I have a 1 year old, I’m a fat housewife now lol! Ugh it’s just a season I guess. Just love your content
@jelenajekic6852
Жыл бұрын
I just love you. You are so positive, even if it's just for video, I just enjoy your presence, and I feel like we'd be great friends. Also, I, too, kicked out an ex in the past year, so you got 100% more relatable 🤣 Have a great year, Mai!
@gildastigliano7936
Жыл бұрын
people get old wedding dresses and make burial gowns for babies who die after birth, in hospitals. it's a charity operation not sure if it' national...just a thought
@kittykooky
Жыл бұрын
Love your hair Mai. 💐
@littletotos
Жыл бұрын
I would turn the wedding dress into small ring bearer pillows for your kids. You would be surprised at how boys will appreciate the sentimental value in that kind of keepsake
@anastasiaalonso2148
Жыл бұрын
Your Best is Yet to Come❤️❤️2023🙏🏻
@Math_ilda
Жыл бұрын
Wow that's an amazing declutter, but as in pretty much every clothes declutter I always hope to see the ones that can't be sold/donated get thrown away as they're the things I struggle the most to toss and it's the only thing no ones films while throwing away 😆
@novanorman1091
Жыл бұрын
Happy 2023!
@effrayechilde1363
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the sponsorship!
@DE-ey9lb
Жыл бұрын
Save your wedding photos! Your boys will be happy to see their Mom and Dad were once in love and that they were conceived in love, no matter how it ultimately ended.
@eileenhoffmann701
Жыл бұрын
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND YOUR SONS!!!
@porcelina956
Жыл бұрын
Only suggestion donate your wedding dress that way a bride who is low on funds can have a "Best day of their life" or it can be a Halloween costume for someone.
@kimberlymerrick3475
Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year! Hope you and your boys had a lovely holiday
@kimberlymerrick3475
Жыл бұрын
That black bodysuit looks SNATCHED on you 🔥
@karenlaskowskicahlanes7129
Жыл бұрын
I decided to donate my wedding dress to a local theater group for use however they needed.
@saraibr411
Жыл бұрын
I love love your declutter videos.. and btw, you look happier than ever!!
@aliciab77
Жыл бұрын
Peacocks are classic during all time. Invest in tailoring!
@theLordismyShephard
Жыл бұрын
Your videos make me feel like your my older sister and were just hanging out! I just saw my sister for Christmas and she told me to come to the bathroom with her, I replied with why, and she said so we can talk more.
@jujuniemira7966
Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love you!!! Love watching your channel. You are doing a great job!! ❤
@abbysheridan1429
Жыл бұрын
Totally do that Mai! Target for the win!
@kimberlylamitie2869
Жыл бұрын
You could put your cute stuff on the empty side of your closet and everyday clothes on your side. Then you can see what and how many things you have quickly. 🤷🏼♀️
@anabeliagarza1805
Жыл бұрын
Idk if your attic has A/C because if it doesn’t you’re basically sending your stuff to hell to disintegrate 😂
@MaiZimmy
Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅 super important stuff I have moved to an indoor closet cause yes it is not insulated or temp controlled in there
@Sophie-kn3gh
Жыл бұрын
Yes! Love declutters! Wishing you the best ❤
@tatyanaverhola1196
Жыл бұрын
Hey! Im a new one here) wish you luck💞. just stopped to say... I often buy my clothes in kids sections🤣 it is so okay, by the way)
@ericalewis1084
Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year. I've gone through my closet again to change out the hangers. I went through everything and I can still wear it. I gave a few things to my lil cousin. I can probably get rid of some dresses because they seem a bit too "young" tho they still fit, but I'm not ready to get rid of yet.
@jefferybonem7336
Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year to Mia. I just finished cleaning my home office. Looking forward to meeting you one day.
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