I think the most amazing thing in ministry is when pastors bare their scars. Jesus doesn't call perfect folks. He calls us the way we are and it's for just ONE reason- so we can bring people to Him by showing them how He changed our lives. Any book, I repeat ANY BOOK that contains scars borne open will go a long way; and I sincerely think one of the books to be the most successful in ministry has just been written! Thank you Pas. Eno Jerry for baring your scars. You will always have audience and I'm not praying. It's the result of doing what you have so graciously done!
@Inspired768
3 жыл бұрын
You are right. Another good author is Joyce Meyer
@lekeolaoye9677
3 жыл бұрын
TRUTH!!! Well said Bro.
@Seunsalisu
3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you
@JesusMyIshi
3 жыл бұрын
This is so good
@TheUtchaynna
3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@rebirthed1274
3 жыл бұрын
This lady is describing me,I have been doing things like that. But 2 days ago,GOD revealed to me that I have an attitude problem I need to deal with. I will buy that book .GOD BLESS YOU MA'AM
@jiwikapupaphiri602
3 жыл бұрын
This is very educative.
@valenciachauke4923
3 жыл бұрын
You are describing me. My anger has made me very disrespectful to my husband. I was good to my ex while he treated me badly, but I’m now horrible to the most wonderful man on earth. I must always find fault with everything he does. I’m too critical and loud. I want to change. I’m also tired of my behaviour. God help me! 🙏🏾. I need this book 😢
@StoryTellerMediaGlobal
3 жыл бұрын
You can check her Website enojerry.com or go to the description to order from Amazon. It is well with you. Thank you for watching.
@esinamwilmot3184
3 жыл бұрын
Real issues
@enoblee3152
3 жыл бұрын
Simply me, but thanks to God, he is now making me appreciate the good man he gave me
@Zola777
3 жыл бұрын
Keep praying sis, its great that you see how you are... so if you are unable to get rid of the luggage you came to the marriage with by yourself then seek help... you maybe need inner healing and deliverance... God bless you sis
@kazbj9265
6 ай бұрын
Takes a lot of courage and brokeness to admit to this. I pray for you sister. You will helped
@Amakafinelady
3 жыл бұрын
I love her honesty and openness. She speaks like a woman that has been broken before God with so much humility. Father Lord, break me , rid of myself, fill me with more of you. Teach me patience and humility. God Bless you for talking about this !
@QueensleyOkon
3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@Querida2180
3 жыл бұрын
Amen to this prayer sis. I am praying same too for myself
@blessingduudee9323
3 жыл бұрын
Yes she is
@nancyamaka855
3 жыл бұрын
Amen to your prayers
@Rola19
3 жыл бұрын
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@chinenyegift345
3 жыл бұрын
I'm not even married but this is totally me 😭😭 and I make excuses for my attitude. Lord I'm making a you turn TODAY! Please help me because I now see how terrible this is.
@Querida2180
3 жыл бұрын
Trust me, I think it's more me than any one else. Even to the point of slamming doors, bitterness and refusing to back down. Choi! I just realized I have serious attitude problem. Lord break me, heal me, help me please I beg of you
@mezinongozi6712
3 жыл бұрын
God is on a mission to heal and save marriages through this book. God bless you Pastor Eno
@jennkitchen4559
3 жыл бұрын
@@prophetjeremiahomotofufeyi5214 Scammer
@estherobigwe8831
3 жыл бұрын
This video should be played in every marriage counselling class. I love Pastor Eno for her honesty
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3 жыл бұрын
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@blessingbill5726
3 жыл бұрын
I've been praying to God for a change in my attitude since the day I accepted that my attitude was bad. The man im currently in a relationship with was the person who detected my bad attitude. I've been praying and taking conscious steps asking God for help. Today I prayed more on this topic and just this afternoon God answered me with this session....I've been shouting Jesus since because mama Eno you acted exactly like me, if my man sees this interview he will say this is my woman😭😭😭😭😭 I'm rushing to get this book and I believe by getting to see this interview, God has started the journey of changing me. Thank you mama for been the instrument for my change.
@O.T12345
2 жыл бұрын
Thank God for you Blessing Bill. If I may ask, how has the journey been? I hope you can say that a lot has changed with you between then and now? Just asking from a place of concern. God is with us and He makes all things work together for our good
@NkemOnyeka12
3 жыл бұрын
This was so me! It wasn't what I saw growing up necessarily, but the many failed relationships I had where I got used, and was taken advantage of, and I felt worthless. My husband is a very calm and patient, passionate person...and I really tried him. But I saw a problem when he stopped smiling, and I was bringing tears to his eyes. I knew that I had to change and so my journey has begun. It is better now, but it is ongoing. I thank Yah for His guidance and correction. I thank Yah for my Husband.
@afrojogurl4244
3 жыл бұрын
Failed relationships i was devoted to and got hurt, ruined my temper too😥
@febianaezekwe2041
3 жыл бұрын
Born again is the first work of Grace, the second work of Grace is cleansing of the adamic nature or inherited sin which is called Sanctification. This is where many Christians fails. So we need to pray hard until we are cleansed or sanctified. Note that Born again is like cutting the trunk of a tree while Sanctification is like uprooting the tap root of the tree.
@michellemarcano5095
4 жыл бұрын
She’s amazing. Anger can be controlled and this can be helpful for single persons as well.
@leenyasha6224
3 жыл бұрын
This was so me. By Gods grace I'm a better person. Anger, bitterness, lack of forgiveness and pride got the better of me. One day I will tell my story to change lives
@evelynkafuiampomah5373
3 жыл бұрын
pls share your story ooo your testimony is. needed
@maryagada4933
3 жыл бұрын
No matter how worst you think you are, you can still change and be a better person. By the help of God and and willingness to change.
@essienimaobong5306
3 жыл бұрын
I have same anger issues,but my fiancee is just God sent and by the grace of God I have been able to work on it. God bless you, Pastor Eno and your beloved husband, Pastor Jerry
@TheWinningLifestyle
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I came across this video... The description of how Eno’s marriage started and the anger/bitterness issues is an exact replica of what was going on in my own marriage... but the interesting thing is my wife brought the video to my attention and I believe for doing so, change has started in our home in Jesus name!! I have ordered the book on Amazon.
@Querida2180
3 жыл бұрын
Amennn
@isabellita4759
3 жыл бұрын
I’m very happy this has brought positive change to your home. Thank God for the grace for her to share this . We don’t know who what God asked us to share can help.
@jennkitchen4559
3 жыл бұрын
My fiance really need this book but the problem is that he doesn't read in English, had it been they have it in Spanish language. He is so quick to anger and disrespectful.
@silviamantashe2460
3 жыл бұрын
Oh and
@tatama5782
3 жыл бұрын
I kept on ignoring this video clip that was popping up on KZitem partly because of the duration until I decided to listen to it and I was blown away! We need to get this video to have more views and somehow get it into the KZitem algorithm stream. Storyteller Media, try and make 3 mins clips on the several high points on this video along with captivating captions and a link to the full video. Good one here!
@chiomaobinna9878
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly...I was ignoring it too.. until this morning...I was on Nsppd live and they both said it was their Wedding Anniversary and Pastor Jerry recommended it... that's when I remembered that this video had been popping up... really so grateful to God that I've seen it at last... and I'm really so blessed and comforted by it! Thankyou Pastor Eno for bringing out your realness and sincerity to see and learn from...greater grace and fresher oil for you on every side! Amen 🙏 🙏🙏
@ayomideadekola9756
3 жыл бұрын
I did this too 🥴 and I have some attitudes I need to work on 😑
@lindaogechi6719
3 жыл бұрын
@@chiomaobinna9878 me too oo
@lindaogechi6719
3 жыл бұрын
@@chiomaobinna9878 me too o
@olivedella8604
4 жыл бұрын
This conversation is very raw, and comes from a place of sincerity, maturity and understanding. This is really what marriages actually need. I wouldn’t mind working with you, ma. We share a lot in common.
@Mosiwomeka
4 жыл бұрын
"The fact that society validates your weakness doesn't mean your weakness is right" Hmmmmmmmmmmmm
@dkd5063
3 жыл бұрын
Women should also research PREMENSTRUAL SYNDROME. The level of hormones in your body before your period can negatively affect your mood, anger management etc. I control mine through prayer (spiritual) and multivitamins with B vitamins (practical). I take these about 1 week leading to my period (well woman multivitamin) and during the duration of my period.
@naomitruth2000
3 жыл бұрын
yes Vit B12
@adedolapo_sun
3 жыл бұрын
This is me, it bothers me so much that I’m thinking of seeing a doctor. My PMS is something else. I’ll try the vitamins. I noticed exercising helps.
@rukayatsalahudeen2274
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you, you are very correct
@lilyflowlily4851
3 жыл бұрын
As a teenager who is just coming into puberty, PMS and the attendant anger cum bad attitude can be excused but as for someone who has been experiencing this for a while, you must master the act of controlling anger/bad attitude resulting from PMS. Personally, as a teenager, the first thing i worked on when i came into puberty was the mood swings. I became very intentional about it and after a few months practice, i perfected it and i have gotten to the point where i don't have to even try. My body already knows not to go into any foul mood when i am expecting or on my period. In summary, what i am saying is this, self awareness is key. When we are self aware, we can train our bodies and hormones to whatever we want them to be. If it becomes difficult, the Holy Spirit is available to help.
@laurajohnson7179
3 жыл бұрын
@@adedolapo_sun my husband said it helps
@Iyanu_Hiyanz
4 жыл бұрын
Hello ma, I'd love to make a plea sorta, if we could have a session with Pastor Jerry Eze.....to help those on the receiving end in their marriages and how he was able to deal with this for so long....so we can have a rounded session that helps both the doer and the one recieving.. This will in turn help someone somewhere to be as patient because their trying times will be over sometime soon... We would also like to know how he dealt with hurt, pain etc
@StoryTellerMediaGlobal
4 жыл бұрын
Hello, your comment has been noted. Thank you.
@idongesitudoh3593
4 жыл бұрын
This is really necessary. Please make it happen please!!👏🏼 thank you.
@chinemeremudoh3732
4 жыл бұрын
Yes ooo! I first read her book several years ago. I heard her about that same time too. My respect for her husband went sky-high, coupled with the fact that he was a pastor, successful in ministry. I mean he was a very bright light in the east on international assignments, and having to deal with this! We urgently, desperately, need to hear Pst Jerry's side- how did he process all of it? how did he deal with it? how did he stay on despite?? From a concerned spouse.
@oluwatoyinajibose976
4 жыл бұрын
This is very true, because this patient waiting we are talking about may take as long as over 40 years. Yes
@xtopuzee
4 жыл бұрын
A friend passed me Pastor Jerry's message as a guest speaker at The Elevation Church ( i don't attend TEC anyway) He scratched the surface to confirm what Ps Eno is saying, and spoke about his own side, which is what is being requested here. You can ask and get the message at the Elevation church.
@yemkenforpassion
4 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, I believe a lot of our relationships need professional counseling for both individuals and couples not just church counseling alone. Also, this should be done before and after marriage.
@luvfilmsmaking
3 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you. My fiance and I are currently in counseling. We started prior to the engagement and we will continue after the marriage. What counseling has taught us are truly deep. Root issues in our courtship, that can easily transfer into the marriage and eventually lead to divorce. I implore singles and engaged couples to go to therapy before saying "I Do". We need to fight for FOREVER again. There are too many divorces out here and we're in the place to stop divorce. Premarital counseling at church is not enough. That's the prescription. Therapy calls out your flaws and behaviors that may potentially harm the marriage in the future and it focuses you to change for you and also for the marriage
@BuksO7
3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with this. Church counseling is not enough at all, relationships also need professional counseling even during marriage.
@cynthiahoyi3925
4 жыл бұрын
Wow! This has been coming up on my timeline and I’ve been ignoring it. Thank God I decided to watch. I’m single, but have desire for marriage, and this has really opened my eyes for when the time comes. Praise God for this interview
@heomaihuaenyi1076
3 жыл бұрын
we tend to ignore the things we need....I'm the same, but thank God we are here.
@amaragodson5883
3 жыл бұрын
Me too!!😭😭
@anasi2553
3 жыл бұрын
Me too -a friend sent it to me then it came on my timeline- God is working on me
@basiletalla1802
3 жыл бұрын
The marriage survived and was restored because there was one party who was mature, rock solid despite being on the receiving end and interceding ie the husband (Pastor Jerry) without him seeking the face of God during those difficult moments I bet it would have gone wrong because he too is human and no one has an endless reservoir of patience and endurance. At some time we all reach our breaking point because you cannot really change anybody. Thank you so much Pastor Jerry for standing your ground and you did the right thing in a very uncomfortable situation and thank you too Pastor Eno for sharing your life experience and being this open and honest. When you admire people's happiness and heaven in their marriages, please check their journey and listen to their stories... 👀.. 👀.. 👀
@trumanwhonana6963
3 жыл бұрын
God's transformational power I real... No matter how shattered and battered a man's life is, God can use that person for His purpose
@tellitstraight
3 жыл бұрын
Amazing. So real. Satan is already defeated. When we have the Holy Spirit, we make the choice to listen🙌🏾
@ngreat4390
3 жыл бұрын
The way I overcame was that when the Holy Spirit revealed to me that my anger issues could destroy my life and I didn't know how to get rid of it or work on it, I surrendered the anger. I surrendered it and kept asking the Holy Spirit about why I was getting angry and I allowed God show me those things without being defensive. One of the things God showed me was that I wanted things to go my way... I spent time in prayer whenever I remember the issues. One day, I woke up and I felt very light and free and then I realised God had taken something away from my subconscious and that thing was PAIN. So many of us are carrying pain in our hearts and we're wounded and that's affecting the way we're reacting to people and to situations but God wants to heal us if we will spend time with him in conversation.
@chinubi103
4 жыл бұрын
Hmm, "The fact that society validates your weakness doesn't mean your weakness is right" #word.
@helenevans3952
4 жыл бұрын
Apt👌
@JoyPromise-Obioma
3 жыл бұрын
Yessss! It struck me too. I jotted it down!
@fommildred442
3 жыл бұрын
Great interview. I had an issue with the way the present kept interrupting and completing the sentences of the lady she was interviewing. I think it best to just let them speak
@CoachSemaj
3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic lesson! Thank you for this. What happens when both people are angry people? What happens when your partner is even more ferocious than you and won't accept their issues then turns it all against you. I'm happy for Pastor Eno and I pray it remains peaceful, respectful and loving in her home in Jesus mighty name.
@queenethtolofari8974
3 жыл бұрын
Listening to this just made me realize that all these issues are what I have. Hence forth I will continuously take a drastic steps to change in the place of prayer and practically live right. Thank you PAstor Eno
@Iamkehny
3 жыл бұрын
@@prophetjeremiahomotofufeyi5214 Scammer stop scamming people
@ogoiwuora3742
4 жыл бұрын
Behaviour change begins with acceptance of character weakness and wrong doing. Knowledge is indeed power, thank you Pastor Eno for sharing this.
@melchizedekolamijideoluwas339
Жыл бұрын
Exactly my experience so far in marriage. The mental abuse has been enormous. I believe I will heal from the horrific experience. Just seeing this video though. ✡
@rebirthed1274
3 жыл бұрын
I had an attitude problem.am saying I had coz am working on it & I trust God that he delivered me. I mistreated my fiance & harassed him with long messages,accused him of all sorts of things. I went in prayers (am.a Christian mind you,bit my ATTITUDE was so.EVIL). GOD revealed my heart & am working on it.. I have anger issues,unforgiveness,bitterness,rejection,all of it...and all these came by staying with my mom for 15 years,who was angry coz my Dad left her & put the blame on me.that resulted in that person I became. Pray for me brethren for GOD'S love to touch my heart.....What his lady is talking about is exactly what I went through. Got born again younger; attended true love wait meetings & marriage seminars & I told myself that I will not be like my mother, oh my,this is so true. I will buy her book,I hope it's on amazon
@HavilahGreen
3 жыл бұрын
GOD will help you sis! We are all not perfect!
@JesusMyIshi
3 жыл бұрын
God can do it for you and deliver you from all these things. Please continue to listen to the voice of the Holy Spirit. The Word purifies
@celokwakhehlongwane374
3 жыл бұрын
My Wife has the same challenges, she has left me, every time I try correcting her, she justifies her actions and behavior, her friends continue to validate her weaknesses, she has not recognized that she has a problem and it emanates from her past. I pray everyday that God opens her eyes to see the truth, because right now I am like an enemy to her, she has a lot of bitterness and unforgiveness, and she believes in vindicating herself and she is a Christian. I will be still and let God do His work, HE KNOWS THE END BEFORE THE BEGINNING OF ANYTHING, that He allows to come into existence, the end of it has already been determined. I'm praying for you my Sister that God heals you and continue to lead you for his purposes, and I am happy that you have seen the light and you are working on your issues, and I pray that your Fiancé be patient. I'll buy and courier this book to my Wife.
@akindabili4449
3 жыл бұрын
You have just spoken about me and probably the reason I am not married yet. God help me .Pastor Eno is even lucky Pastor Jerry Married her me i need this change ASAP. Thank you so very much Pastor Eno for sharing your experience grow old with your husband in Jesus Mighty name 🙏
@abimbolaolumuyiwa
3 жыл бұрын
Vulnerability is always attractive. Thanks for sharing this and being open,Pastor Eno
@MarkPrize
4 жыл бұрын
Anyone can say what they like about me. Anger and bitterness shall no longer be my resolve. My ego just calm down.🤲 #thank you
@olatoyeabiolam9540
4 жыл бұрын
Hi how are you
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
This was an interesting discuss, so open, honest and vulnerable. Shows there's hope when theres genuine repentance. No one is a lost cause as long as there's genuine contrition. Blessed. God bless you women of God.
@lindaagu4111
3 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening. Thanks you Pastor Eno for sharing this. I was truly blessed.
@josephjackson7951
3 жыл бұрын
My name is Roxanne i am married a me an my husband are believers of Christ and i must say paster eno i am doing all are most of what you did .and my husband is a humble man i must say thank you once again for sharing this book cause this is an big impact in my relationship with my family i must say all this stop right now . may god continues to bless you as you send messages to bless other families love you
@Ebeles_Dairy
3 жыл бұрын
Dis was really Educating to watch...she started praying at 16 for a husband and met her husband at 19 got married 5years later! Waoooo
@davidjoshua7513
4 жыл бұрын
pls Pastor Eno needs to tour with the book, am begging, just listening to this interview, hmmm, I'm sure she knows stuff. I'm really begggggggin and crying, pls ma.
@maryolaosebikan7479
3 жыл бұрын
Look at the Fraudsters giving thumbs up to their fake and scammed prophecy. You thieves and imposters. You refuse to change,and God will continue to expose you
@chiomaobinna9878
3 жыл бұрын
My thots exactly...! But hey..as the Spirit leads her...it was God's idea in the first place.
@wisdomforlife6900
4 жыл бұрын
if bad attitudes can tear, then the good ones can build.' 🤔 Such a sweet lady btw.. her smiles r so heartwarming. Love, regards & best wishes💕💟 Thanks for hosting her
@chiomaobinna9878
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly I've always admired her smiles. She practically glows! Thot all was heavenly in her marriage and now this...! Great discovery for me...the story behind the glory... Pastor Jerry and Pastor Eno, I appreciate you both even more.. thankyou so much!
@jvincy32
3 жыл бұрын
This title got my attention after I woke up. I didn’t even realize it was Pastor Jerry. Thank you for this video and I will get this book for myself. Maybe it was God wanted me to see this. I am a recent divorce wife of 17yrs of marriage, God had to bring me to a place also to take a deep inner look at myself. I never had the right counseling but it is the Holy Spirit counseling me.
@LaoluAdekanmbi
4 жыл бұрын
This is really good, I wonder if during marriage counselling couples can be made to undergo personality tests. Churches should be able to do those things to help us better understand who we are before marriage
@richieimoh1896
3 жыл бұрын
You can change yourself I don't thing church can change you because lady have in build spirit on them, only God can change that, and men have the same spirit too but we men think we all and all, you no in marriage one of us is hot and one is cold you need to understand that.
@ifeanyiikemefuna4231
3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I had personality tests during our marriage counselling before marriage and we were on opposite sides of the spectrum 😄 Kudos to Pastor Eno! Thank you for showing your weaknesses ❤
@maryifere3941
3 жыл бұрын
The word of God is the perfect "personality test". The book of James says the word of God is a mirror..showing us who we are. The word of God says we should mortify the works of the flesh. All these bad characters are the works of the flesh That we all need to deal with. God help us.
@Oreoluwa
3 жыл бұрын
Personality tests are worldly constructs made by man that put you in a box and barely give any room for growth. We should seek to define ourselves and a holy institution such as marriage by God Himself not my manmade designs.
@maryesther5158
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah very truth, but then they need to go deeper in to studying n prayer to help telling them the truth
@happylee2297
3 жыл бұрын
I will like to get the book, every woman needs to hear this woman's testimony she has really encountered Christ. Thank God for her husband
@jennkitchen4559
3 жыл бұрын
Every human not just women.
@Seekinghimeveryday
3 жыл бұрын
Haha I love this woman even more! Thank you for your transparency! God bless you. I myself, needed to work on my anger before entering ministry. It’s a silence sin, we can easily ignore. God bless you for opening many eyes. God bless you. 🙏🏽❤️
@ImeUdo-ObongMesoEx
4 жыл бұрын
Interesting..quite frankly it is during this post lockdown I "discovered" this wonderful woman of God and Pastor Jerry Eze and their ministries..It's a wonder how the Lord is "introducing" new faces in our generation ( at least to some of us in other parts of Nigeria). From this conversation, it seems this book can also apply to those who are about to get married and singles ..even relationship with close friends and siblings that live together in the same space..
@Mimi-nr6jx
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. I’m really using this for my relationship with my sister
@joydnp1199
4 жыл бұрын
Pastor Eno, your book should be read by all! This topic no be for marriage alone o...every kind relationship!
@mercyumoh7843
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely mind blowing, I am unlearning, relearning and applying what I have learned into how i relate in general. Thank you pastor Eno
@HelenAgbor
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly my opinion
@nonkululekontuli7458
3 жыл бұрын
True💯
@rukiyakitwano4822
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree 💯 % .. I’m currently reading the book and see multiple applications of her insights and points shared.
@anieti006
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad this is coming from a woman. This ruined my relationship with the woman I love so much. Unfortunately I couldn't wait for change but I'm genuinely happy that the guy she married is a very good and patient person. I know she will get better with time.
@Olaedomusic
3 жыл бұрын
What a humble woman of God. Transparency & vulnerability is beautiful once you're healed from the situation. God bless you First Lady 💯🕊️💐🥰❤️
@nkemkolade9754
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pst Eno! This is me and I pray God help me just like He did for u!
@blessingjonathan4682
3 жыл бұрын
What a testimony. Thanks for sharing Ps Eno. You look so beautiful, anger doesn't befit your face. Thank God for the work of restoration in your life. To God be the Glory!
@Mimi-nr6jx
3 жыл бұрын
Yah, I can’t even imagine her being angry. Truly God can change people
@Zoe-oe7wp
3 жыл бұрын
Indeed his grace is sufficient in our weaknesses. He is a merciful God, And a God that is willing to help
@laliciaphiri5828
3 жыл бұрын
This is the most powerful book have ever read, its the story of my life, pastor Eno you should allow me to write part 2
@adaezeblessingdallas
3 жыл бұрын
The interviewer should let her say what's in her heart and stop putting words in her mouth.
@noalynosigwe6481
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you o..very distracting and annoying
@steveveron251
3 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too.
@luvfilmsmaking
3 жыл бұрын
Premarital counseling may not be enough to solidify a marriage. My fiance and I are currently in therapy. We started prior to the engagement and we will continue after the marriage. What therapy has taught us are truly deep. Root issues in our courtship that can easily transfer into the marriage and eventually lead to divorce. I implore singles and engaged couples to go to therapy before saying "I Do". We need to fight for FOREVER again. There are too many divorces out here and we're in the place to stop divorce. Premarital counseling at church is not enough. That's the prescription. Therapy calls out your flaws and behaviors that may potentially harm the marriage in the future and it forces you to change for you and also for the marriage
@maryifere3941
3 жыл бұрын
Mama...I admire your courage. Many people won't come out and talk about their weaknesses. Thank God for the precious holy spirit. God pls keep working on us until we become like you.
@maryifere3941
3 жыл бұрын
@@graceforpurposeprayer4885 you criminal. You better stop this nonsense or face the wrath of God. The evil you are looking for will catch up with you if you don't repent. I am giving you a short time to stop this act or face the wrath of God. It's your choice.
@omotayoadegbola9499
3 жыл бұрын
This is just as if you're talking about my present marriage.I will follow all what you did to conquer your anger, may the Lord give me victory in the end.
@ogochukwuebhaleme1869
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@pharmclare
2 жыл бұрын
This is very helpful and relatable. I am trying to download the book. Welldone to both of you. It's shocking we have these issues despite being born again. Don't give up on changing yourself for good. Thank you for sharing ✅ 😊
@nimawah1616
3 жыл бұрын
One thing you said that caught my attention is : pride, anger comes to your mind immediately you sense someone taking down on you, knowing how much you think he should have treated you well and spoken to you nicely. And you said let it come to your mind that they can talk to you anyhow, and you will not be disturbed I tell you that is the height of which we should behave, no amount of bouncing back on that person can make us wonderful We should really control our anger and pride
@onyinyechi5349
3 жыл бұрын
This is my take out too. Not letting things get to me or defining me
@uzoagorua2720
4 жыл бұрын
Listening to Pastor Eno is really refreshing. I wish her more grace and exciting times being a wife, mother and servant of the Most High God.
@lydiaekanem9520
3 жыл бұрын
So much light here, thank you Jesus for your word. I receive grace to be a wise woman Amen 🙏
@trozmitvwithevangtolu5106
3 жыл бұрын
Infact, Am so so Blessed by You Pastor Eno Jerry Eze. I Remember How Anger Almost want to Ruined My Ministry And Marriage As Well. I Thank God Through The Help Of The Holy Spirit Who Totally Silenced The Spirit Of Anger for Me To Fulfill My Mission On Earth. I Love You More My Precious Woman Of A Great God.....My Blessed Pastor Eno Jerry Eze. Appreciated You Alot. Regards.
@basiletalla1802
3 жыл бұрын
I just ordered the book and I will be writing my own opinion after reading. Thank you so much for sharing Pastor Eno
@abisoyewilliams-mumuni4881
2 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@olasubomioyenuga837
4 жыл бұрын
I had watched a clipse of this episode a while ago but my sister sent this to me this morning . I decided to watch the full episode! Waow! What a blessing this conversation was to me. Thank you Pastor Eno Jerry for your transparency and giving hope to me. Thank you Pastor Toyin for sourcing this book and author. I am truly blessed.
@stephnoraeddyson2177
3 жыл бұрын
This has imparted as a single lady.... I have a similar attitude!!! God am changing from to day for good .. in Jesus name....Amen
@jennkitchen4559
3 жыл бұрын
GOD bless you but not just for women alone, some men have hot temper too. My fiance have a hot temper and his parents know, i control myself more than my fiance, he is too quick to anger even with common plate and opening a fridge. You always year him talking and getting angry maybe he mistakenly take a spoon instead of a plate.
@mayowaoyedokun9828
2 жыл бұрын
Same here, we shall change because our husband must enjoy peace
@sarah.manthe
3 жыл бұрын
To think I've been missing alot not clicking the watch button for the past few months I've been seeing this video pop up is amazing to me, I enjoyed every bit of this interview and I can't wait to read the book itself. God bless you women of God 🙌
@misskennys
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@misabipreye4938
4 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is a timely healing for me, at the time I read this book it was a trying moment and mine was assumption but after reading this book I made a deliberate U-turn and that was it. Thank You Pastor Eno
@agnesobasi8539
4 жыл бұрын
Ok
@chinemeremudoh3732
4 жыл бұрын
Glory to Jesus! Praise God for you dear.
@christineetaduovie9318
3 жыл бұрын
Hi pastor please because if someone talk Orphanage’s children’s must not complying to to it that is not you were saying that this morning service please confirm sir for pay my seed sir or offering
@billionairejumzietopbabe3304
3 жыл бұрын
@@christineetaduovie9318 how many times will they tell you they are scammers na? 🙄. Don't pay any money into any orphanage. THEY ARE SCAMMERS!!!
@ollysroj7891
3 жыл бұрын
Oh God...This is just my life story!!! #Shocked #Grateful I love this woman. I pray that most people open their minds and hearts to truly listen to this. I even ordered the book right away. lol
@deborahosinowo
3 жыл бұрын
I love the great work being done through Chapters. God bless the team. I'm also glad to have met with Mrs Eno Jerry through this. I love how she speaks and I'm delighted that this book resulted from the experience. God bless you all
@rafiatonitiri6255
3 жыл бұрын
I want to thank God Almighty for the life of Pastor Eno Jerry, she is a person beautiful inside out to have gone this far to let go of bitterness. May what God has started in her life be permanent and draw more people to the kingdom of God.
@pastorjerryeze1098
3 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation) Divine Grace ( MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348079967150) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you................
@adaobianazodo3730
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like give a huge hug to each of you women. Pastor Eno, thanks a lot for sharing your own experience. I truly can see myself in your story. And for the host, you truly know your job. You asked the right questions and you were able to navigate through the entire interview. May God bless you both. NSPPD all the way.
@ReenkaKitchen
3 жыл бұрын
Keep listening to your inner mind. You will overcome it.
@StoryTellerMediaGlobal
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and for your kind words.
@OluwapamilerinayoFaithilashe
3 жыл бұрын
Hmm!I'm not married but this is me. The pride actually brings the anger in me. I react to people's action without words from them. Thank you so much for this.
@pastorjerryeze1098
3 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation) Divine Grace ( MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION.) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348079967150) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you...............
@towakennuatere5115
3 жыл бұрын
Dis is just my husband everytin gets him angry, I try my best helping Sha most times I divert his attention wen he is angry I pray he changes soon I trust God
@masegomoruakgomo9033
2 жыл бұрын
I love her transparency from Mrs Eno Jerry, and I respect the Pastor for his support throughout this time.
@SS-md8xb
4 жыл бұрын
I cannot explain how it is good to hear your testimony. Because marriage can be hard and hurtful when you don't know what you are doing is wrong. And it's more hurtful when your spouse corrects you without a solution because they don't understand or maybe they are going through a change process as well. But don't give up you have to pray and do the research as if your life depended on it. Find out what are you doing wrong and change it. The change process is challenging but stay focused on being a excellent wife and to maintain the change. She is right it comes with understanding and knowing God. If you allow yourself to grow spiritually during the change and research of it the growth will be so powerful. Pray , fast , research. And you will find that not only are you a excellent wife now , you are also closer to God and spiritually mature. You might not understand at the time but God knows you and loves you. It might be painful but your end result will be joyful. Im sharing this testimony with you because God has been so good to me and I myself also had to overcome this challenge. But we made it and my marriage is better than it has ever been. God did not give up on me and I did not give up on my husband. Praise God. May God bless you and your marriage for sharing a part of your life and testimony with us @Enojerry.
@emmachukwuma8757
3 жыл бұрын
I do tell people that what we lack in this our generation in marriage is patience, the lack of patience in marriage that's why divorce is on the rise. I recommend her book and to watch this clip for everyone. It's really inspiring and life changing. Thank U Pst. Eno Jerry for sharing and the presenter weldone for doing a good job.
@tamarawest9299
3 жыл бұрын
I am seeing this at the right time, God led me here no doubt 😩🙏🏾.
@irenekafoda_favcarsalesrep9800
3 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful Mummy Eno🌹 Learnt about controlling my anger. How to shut up & understand when the other party is making a point not find reasons to flame up an argument.
@oluwatoyinajibose976
4 жыл бұрын
I really agree with the fact that your relationship with God gets improved upon when your spouse is always putting you through tough periods. If you know how to use the period
@akpecomfortetta1845
3 жыл бұрын
To me pastor Eno Jerry u have summarized the present days situation of marriages in the book i have learnt alot indeed u are a mentor and a role model to many thnks for impacting on us God bless u and keep the fire burning.
@MrsO73
3 жыл бұрын
I love pastor Eno. She is indeed an inspiration. God bless you ma'am.
@adaezeihuoma738
3 жыл бұрын
This is bringing healing to me. My heart is coming alive. This entire video is 'the scent of water' to me
@ehi510
3 жыл бұрын
Jesus, Pastor Eno, youre just a BLESSING.. God has kept you and your relationship for such a time like this. When so many homes are going through issues, I have posted your video to a few people to also be blessed as I have been blessed by this revelation.. And for you Chapters,.. That word. It's not a just about what we know. But what we do with what we know. You're a gift to the world. God bless you richly. And bless our homes with more wisdom, revelations and purpose in Jesus mighty name.
@StoryTellerMediaGlobal
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching.
@joyekeji501
2 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! I love this woman. One of the things I always say about her is that she’s so humble, never would I have thought that she wasn’t always like this. This is a pure testimony!
@The_disciples__
3 жыл бұрын
So glad I watched this, I’m making a new turn by the grace of God🙏
@StoryTellerMediaGlobal
3 жыл бұрын
We say Amen for you. Thank you for watching
@ufuomaakintomide7330
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Such an awesome time...was worth listening to. God bless you Pst Eno for not holding back so that we all can look inwards and work on our faults without using spirituality to cover up our inadequacies and character flaws. I love you Ma'am. God bless the host too. More grace Ma'am.
@bolatitoakande7117
3 жыл бұрын
I have been seen this video on my timeline and I just decided to open it and watch. My intended spouse and I just had an argument yesterday due to my anger and I said somethings I know I wasn't supposed to say. Thank you for this video. I believe I will learn to control my emotions more and not speak when angry.
@SkinTalkWithDee
3 жыл бұрын
Very needed interview, ma you have blessed me. I have same issues and I have lost a lot of friends and relationship. Am always sad and angry. Infact my current partner is already noticing my anger. I will definitely purchase your book. The interviewer did an amazing job
@Agyimah
3 жыл бұрын
@@graceforpurposeprayer4885 You see that prayers you are given out ...you need it ...Fraudster 🙄🙄🙄
@blessingolatimehin8857
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is exactly me right now. I never knew I was like this, until my home was on the verge of collapsing. Pastor Eno, you are so right about the anger issues which leads to bitterness. In fact I see myself as a perfect wife, and ignoring my weaknesses and focusing on my husband's weakness. I thank God for this eye opening and thank you pastor Eno, for coming out to tell the truth. Right now I am on a journey of making things right.
@lizzyakins929
3 жыл бұрын
The fact that we are born again doesnt mean we are free from all issues of life, we still have to work on our lives, cultural believe, emotions etc. Its a process and we grow daily in Him. Love you Mrs Jerry for been practical and real. So educating and uplifting...
@akaymila6872
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! This message was very timely for me. I've had one or two issues with hubby basically on attitudinal issues, and I bless God for making me see this message. Thanks Pastor Eno for being so real and allowing God use your past weakness to strengthen so many of us. God bless you!
@charitymavisi5617
3 жыл бұрын
Pastor Eno, everything about you is so sincere. I love how comfortable you are in sharing your past mistakes and how God has transformed you. Intentional pursuit to save your marriage is commendable. Your vulnerability is amazing. Great lessons God bless you
@IjeomaMbelu
4 жыл бұрын
I love you so much beautiful Mama... you're a true version of the proverbs 31 woman, beautiful in and out... lots of lessons to be learnt. See me rushing to the salon to dye my locs.
@annayehudah785
4 жыл бұрын
This story was so impactful. It was like G-d sent the mature me to speak to the person I am today. I immediately purchased the book because I knew it was from the LORD. The book blessed me tremendously!!! I immediately shared with other women that’s in the same place and were looking for a G-d resolution. This was it! Thank you so much for your story!! Yes and I second the person who suggested something together with you husband (if he’s led) so that we can hear his side as well. I would like to hear an expansion of you guy’s walk!
@ajokeo4552
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Pastor Eno.... Such an honest, brave and bare it all conversation that our society hates hearing.... I thank you for obeying God.... Im really blessed. May the Lord continue to strengthen your home and grant you grace all the way in Jesus name. Amen
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
Very honest conversation
@peaceeromosele3296
2 жыл бұрын
I'm at the receiving end of this situation right now. It's gotten to that point where I don't smile, try to completely avoid him and almost falling into depression. All I do now is pray to God for help and strength because my husband does not realize the damage he's doing to me and the home (His pride won't allow him to). I just need God's intervention.
@ndidiamakaanitaiwuoha5714
9 ай бұрын
May God open his heart and mind
@surefunmiee
3 жыл бұрын
Amazing!! I’m so glad I came across this before going to bed. It’s just what I needed. Thank you Pastors. God bless you both.
@keeyawnainspires
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful thank you for your transparency and honesty. It takes a strong person to admit their flaws and their faults then put them down in a book. Thank you for sharing and allowing us to learn. Im Buying your book now; Im not married yet: but, it is a few things you mention I could change. May God continue to bless you 😘 🇺🇸
@tinawalters7301
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor Enoh This is real nd live changing . With this testimony from this book O! God me nd my marriage is healed. Thank you so much pst Eno for obeying.what God cannot do does not exist true true.
@OluchiVOmuta
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message. I definitely used to have anger issues and my family and people that loved me knew about me and kept trying to help me but the anger won't just let me. By the Grace of God, I am at a better place and getting and progressing and I am really proud of the woman I'm becoming. Please how do we purchase the book? God bless you.
@StoryTellerMediaGlobal
3 жыл бұрын
There is a link in the bio to purchase the book from Amazon or you can visit her website enojerry.com. Thank you
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