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@abdoulayeba9383
4 жыл бұрын
How are you doing
@JenniferCarterWriter
4 жыл бұрын
I think we’re all finding life challenging at the moment, but otherwise life is good
@abdoulayeba9383
4 жыл бұрын
How are you doing sweden
@JenniferCarterWriter
4 жыл бұрын
I’m not in Sweden 🇸🇪 right now, partly because of the pandemic.
@abdoulayeba9383
4 жыл бұрын
@@JenniferCarterWriter okay
@theshamm
3 жыл бұрын
“I wanted to invest in happiness....” and so she did, and she lived happily ever after. A powerful statement. Thanks for sharing.
@deborahjackson7390
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your lost. Love how you are doing things to help brighten your family. I have a 4 year-old grand and try to live life and be happy. Just to let her know regardless of race we are human and deserve to enjoy our lives . Blessings to you and yours
@MsMesem
3 жыл бұрын
Travel?
@joanholland3438
3 жыл бұрын
So lucky 🍀
@GlockFan19
3 жыл бұрын
@@MsMesem Yeah...to Burning Man...
@MsMesem
3 жыл бұрын
@@GlockFan19 nice
@JORGELOPEZ-ik4fg
3 жыл бұрын
It’s wonderful to find people not afraid to the change.
@annievangrunderbeeck9
3 жыл бұрын
@Nature Lover some people are like trees, they don't want to move. Or maybe he is afraid of change?
@foziahramli3001
3 жыл бұрын
@Nature Lover wow!. ..iam in the same situation..trying to convince my other half is really difficult.
@KatMa664
3 жыл бұрын
Foziah Ramli me too. I said do you want to be in this place, forever? Looking at this wall in this bedroom when you take your last breath. Never seeing what life can be, maybe in clean fresh air. Before we are too frail to do it? He says he’s fine in our condo just watching tv and having a boarding life. 😔
@holoholopainen1627
3 жыл бұрын
But - There are som GOOD to The " moving away " ! Look at America & Canada - but Sweden aswell... Everybody knows ZLATAN & Cornelis Vreeswijk - that has names from somewhere - that would be more " local " & known that in Sweden ! You NEVER KNOW Who Youll Meet on The Way !
@davidpeterson9647
3 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine losing a grandchild. Good on you for living your dream. Most don't have the courage.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks David!
@carolinedevorahstephen7435
3 жыл бұрын
Many condolences of the loss of your granddaughter. You are blessed to have bought this cottage & Sweden looks like a beautiful country to live.
@HolaJulen
3 жыл бұрын
Watching this the 12th october 2020 and I’m loving it!
@SISSYKAY
3 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@holoholopainen1627
3 жыл бұрын
This must be The Summer time ?
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed!
@marylougriffin3949
3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou ❤️ for your wise words . I will listen to this video over and over . Lost my Husband of 40+ years ( True love of my life) to cancer . I'm a care giver to my 93 yr old mom ,2 oldest children and grands all living very long distance . 3 yrs ago Out of a need to put Mom and I in safe affordable housing I bought my first home . Tough learning at 61 how to go it alone but with limited freedom . Last year the last child moved to California to join his brother . I'm so happy to see him flying and happy but felt unreasonable abandoned. Then Covid hit . Seemed to be the last straw after 5 + years of stress . Last month has been extra hard after not seeing kids for over a year so far and no end in site . Your story has given me new hope, reason and purpose Thank you ❤️
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear of the challenges you’ve faced Mary Lou. These last few months have been tough for many, but especially caregivers like yourself who need & deserve all the support they can get.
@ladydi4runner
3 жыл бұрын
Mary Lou. Just wanted to say how your words resonated with me. I too have had those caregiving challenges but not with quite as much loss as you’ve had. My sincere condolences. Can’t imagine how you’re coping in these unprecedented times , especially now being alone after having a loving partner most of your Life. Courage, surely you have no lack of! Just like this woman in this video whose words have also touched me deeply. Hang in there one day at a time is all I can say. That’s how I do it Fortune favors the Bold. Want to wish u the very Best! 👍👏🏻😁🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@chris3m98
3 жыл бұрын
Mary Lou, Thank you for your loyalty to your husband & now to your Mother. Maybe when this Covid is over 2021 you could plan a trip to the USA??? Better yet maybe the 2 kids could come home for a vacation. Why don't you ask the kids about making a trip home, just maybe they may be a little homesick, I know my nephew finally say so but didn't want to admit it. Stay strong-Stay safe-Wear a mask. NEVER EVER stopping dreaming. You are now in my prayers
@helenboula3538
3 жыл бұрын
And God bless you on your journey and may you find your peace and happiness and what you looking for God bless
@marylougriffin3949
3 жыл бұрын
@@chris3m98 that would be perfect but with the pandemic travel by plane here from one coast to the other in the US when dealing with one so old and frail as mom is not medically advised . I truly look forward to it though ❤️
@courtneyfedacsek2858
4 жыл бұрын
Hello from Chicago... I am 73 and 100% endorse your philosophy! Life is short and enjoy the journey ti the fullest .so sorry about your losses!
@JenniferCarterWriter
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Courtney - I agree, making the most of each day is a good philosophy
@lisanester3338
3 жыл бұрын
That’s a brilliant way to look at life. From such tragic events you’ve managed to find your way through to a truly life affirming experience. I wish you and your family peace and can’t wait to see what happens next.🌸
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lisa.
@Ursaminor31
3 жыл бұрын
This is precisely where I’m at, self employed, single, 46. Need to get out of the city. Thank you for sharing. Hugs from Canada
@syedimranh.sprofessoremeri6678
3 жыл бұрын
Great
@hollygolightly6967
3 жыл бұрын
I’m 47 employed and just want to run away from how life is getting. Anyone with me??
@susanb4816
3 жыл бұрын
i recommend manitoulin:)
@Patslbudget
3 жыл бұрын
yes take me with u
@Patslbudget
3 жыл бұрын
what is ur plan
@cherylk9543
3 жыл бұрын
As a new gran I cannot imagine that loss, and I am so sorry, and I am so impressed with your buoyant spirit and the beauty that you have surrounded yourself with and have provided as a retreat for your family. Many blessings to you, and hopes for a long, peaceful life in beautiful Sverige.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Cheryl, enjoy your new role as a gran!
@barbibutton9619
3 жыл бұрын
Twenty grand?? My goodness, I need to leave America and get my butt over there. Yes get some chickens, a rescue cat and dog, till a garden and enjoy your life in that adorable cottahe
@MikeSheasheaDtree
3 жыл бұрын
Well the winters can be formidable....
@evajonsson3551
3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to sweden
@bradaltemeyer4472
3 жыл бұрын
I am fairly sure that was in British Pounds, but even at the current $1.35 dollars to a pound, still a nice price on a cottage from a USA perspective (just Sweden is a lot further away for the USA grandkids)
@goldencashmere28
3 жыл бұрын
In the North of Sweden you can find cottages for 5000$ a 3 bedroom one with big garden. The only thing is that the bathroom is outside and shower also. But you have great nature, lots of fresh air .
@Mom23kitties
3 жыл бұрын
I just fell upon your video and it's the strangest thing because I have always wanted to live on an island and I keep thinking about it, but I'm a senior and alone and so I tell myself I'm just dreaming. I admire you for having the courage to take the plunge and do what you really wanted to do. Congrats and thanks for the inspiration at a very depressing time in the US. 🌼🌸🌺
@TheJonasbz
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, youre the coolest, welcome to sweden!
@JenniferCarterWriter
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jonas!
@tfntexas
3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I stumbled onto your video today...5 years ago I lost my sister to cancer, I lost my job which I loved (but not my supervisor), I lost my 10 year relationship, and then 10 months later my mom passed suddenly. It was the hardest time in my life. I also just lost my dad 6 months ago but am handling it much better. My perspective on life has changed greatly. Thank you for this video and I’m so so sorry for the loss of your granddaughter and your other family members, I cannot even imagine how it must feel. I hope you create many happy memories! Sorry, I just needed to let you know how inspiring your video was.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tammie - I’m so sorry to hear of your losses. I don’t think I mention it in the video, but six months before we lost my granddaughter, my father passed away, and we had been helping to care for him for a couple of years before that. Thinking of you as you try to move forward in your life
@ladauphine4022
3 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this encouragement right now. I bought a house near my family in France, due to sign the final papers and pay for it in March. And along comes Covid19. I go from anger to depression while continually checking the status of Americans traveling to France. I am fortunate to have several people in my life that fully support my decision. Thank you!
@marylougriffin3949
3 жыл бұрын
Best of luck with your dream 💞
@joanlynch5271
3 жыл бұрын
Can I come too!
@holoholopainen1627
3 жыл бұрын
Many People move for Good - for the rest of Their Lives ! More You learn about The Local Culture & language - less and less - You think of Your past life ! World is Full of People - that You just Dont KNOW YET ! This is The 2020 - but see Steve Jobs in Sweden 1985 ! He is thinking about The Future ! Have Fun and The Cousine & Pain & Wine are The Best ! Cest la Vie - My French is a bit RUSTY !
@leanakayvlogs8198
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t have a cottage but I did move to Norway and I would say you made the bravest and best decision. You are awesome! Thanks for sharing with us. 🤗
@leanakayvlogs8198
3 жыл бұрын
@@andrewgruber7483 Hello! It’s unpleasantly wet and rainy today. But hoping for some snow soon. 😇
@Kayz6449
3 жыл бұрын
What a spectacular location, going to watch your cottage tour now, pleased you took the bull by the horns and purchased a new adventure in life. Your grandchildren will love the freedom their happy gran is sharing with them.
@sharonc1326
3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful message! My nana was born and raised in Sweden so I felt pulled to click on your video. I am so sorry for the loss of your granddaughter. It’s wonderful that you found the strength to follow this dream. I am looking forward to watching your channel. There is something very touching and compelling about the way you speak and share. Thank you for sharing your walk with us 🌸
@belewis1478
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Jennifer. Your home and property are lovely and your decision to change is so brave. You have inspired me so much with the five year challenge. I am turning 60 in a few months and I want to envision who I want to be in five years, living a healthy loving creative life. Looking forward to more posts from your journey.
@sandradetarville2811
3 жыл бұрын
This is a wonderful example of making lemonade from lemons. Such a courageous example for your children and grandchildren. Blessings for you, your family and friends. You are an inspiration.
@staryjdido918
3 жыл бұрын
You've touched me. I am 62 retired leading a stress free life, but yet still feel as if something is missing. I found myself losing the joy that can be found in our daily lives. It takes hard work to keep a steady mental outlook on life. Thank you very much for posting this video. Enjoy the cottage. It does look lovely.
@johnchristman4868
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. The huge financial industry retirement machine relies on and uses fear to motivate us to plan for our futures. So refreshing to see someone who plans using joy.
@susanchaney5059
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your losses, I have lost two friends in the past several weeks and I'm still in shock. I admire your decision and think you are so wise and brave to make such a change. I look forward to following your adventures.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear of your loss Susan
@christinesabel9826
3 жыл бұрын
That is a nice " stuga", I am swedish living in Copenhagen so I miss the swedish nature!!!!!!
@holoholopainen1627
3 жыл бұрын
Are There many Swedes at Copenhagen ?
@christinesabel9826
3 жыл бұрын
@@holoholopainen1627 💫☀️ Around 10.000
@holoholopainen1627
3 жыл бұрын
@@christinesabel9826 Tack ! Thats like a small village at Norrland or Up in Lapland !
@cynthiafisher9907
3 жыл бұрын
Your video came up on my feed and I appreciated the message you shared. I am in the same stage of life as you, so it hit home with me. Your cottage is beautiful and in a lovely setting. It’s quite amazing that you were able to purchase it with a half acre property for so little! Good for you for doing something courageous like this! I looked at your channel and was pleased to see you are a Christian, I am subscribing. I live in the US.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Great to have you as a subscriber Cynthia. Welcome!
@anhpam9205
3 жыл бұрын
Jennifer. So inspiring! I am a 62 year old divorcee with grown children and grands. While coping alone with lockdown have been watching videos like this, trying to find a way to go forward. I live in a small flat in a lovely city but am not really that 'into it' nor involved or attached to anything or anyone. Want to leave such a legacy as yours. Thanks and so sorry for your losses.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Anhpam. I’ve spent so much time exploring this option or that option in my life. I hope that maybe you’ll find a community where you can belong - I honestly think that connection to others is something we’re all searching for, in a way. If that’s not your thing, I hope you find your way forward
@nicolev9589
3 жыл бұрын
Hello Jennifer, I just wanted to say that the message in this video touched me deeply. I'm about to uproot my life to move to the UK, and as you know, it's scary to do such things. But I do think that 5 years from now, I will be happy with the decision as I also want to be investing in joy. So, thank you for your positive and encouraging message!
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Hope it goes well for you Nicole!
@davideaston1139
3 жыл бұрын
Are you mad moving to the UK?
@johanna6050
3 жыл бұрын
Be prepared to convert to the religion of, "peace." Watch/follow Katie Hopkins.
@Hide_and_silk
3 жыл бұрын
Not sure why anyone would want to move to the UK...a state rapidly moving to fascism. We've just quit the UK and NEVER want to go back.
@aimeelawrence-bespokefurni575
3 жыл бұрын
I have to agree about the UK. Over here. If you do well. People want to pull you down. If I could I would have moved to Australia years ago. But I stay for my mum.
@nataindigo7007
3 жыл бұрын
Your house is very peaceful. The energie of the nature there is very good. Nice place for live and life
@cottagefarmflowers
3 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much you just helped me. I'll ask myself that question. Your story is truly inspiring.
@frithbarbat
3 жыл бұрын
Bravo KZitem for adding this to my feed. Wonderful to see a woman of my age doing the kind of thing I fantasize about. Thanks!
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Frith - do glad you enjoyed it!
@desireedoan9267
3 жыл бұрын
So I wanted to start by saying I'm sorry for your loss I can't imagine for you and your son or daughter to lose a child and your other family. You should be very proud to have done your courageous move it's absolutely beautiful, good for you. I'm so impressed I'm fighting cancer and your an inspiration to me enjoying your new found courage and zest for life I hope I make it if I do I'm heading for Spain. Congratulations!!!!!!
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Desiree. Hope you get to make it to Spain!
@lyndastevens9726
3 жыл бұрын
Loved your video - thanks for sharing! I did something courageous with a cross-country move and along the way, I experienced the joy of Jesus!✝️❣️
@msseadreamers
3 жыл бұрын
Good plan. I need to have a sit down with myself about where I want to be in 5 years...at age 62 now. My husband is 63 but he's never wanted to go and do things more than maybe 2 weeks. He's happy with the same spot...I'm not sure I am. Life is very short and our window of movement physical gets less as we age.
@lilybeth7565
3 жыл бұрын
Condolences - 57 and contemplating next phase of life now stalled because of pandemic. You’ve given me food for thought thanks for posting. Congrats on your cottage wish you long life and happiness.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lily, I hope you find your way to the next step for your life, once things quieten down
@Oliver-tm7jm
3 жыл бұрын
This came up on my suggest videos after I searched for a cottage in Sweden and I am so glad I found it. Very heart warming....perhaps when I buy one you can come over for a coffee! Cheers and thanks.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Hope you might find your own Swedish cottage. And yes, fika (Swedish coffee & cake) is always a good idea!
@holoholopainen1627
3 жыл бұрын
We Can All FIKA ! Some of The Best Stories Time ! Hör Mig - Jag slutar snart ! The END
@maryohare4141
3 жыл бұрын
You are a really strong, amazing person and are inspiring me too! In 2017 I was happily living in a rural farmland area with my husband of 30 years, who had retired recently. We had finally built our dream home, surrounded by nature on our large 35 acreage of woods. We were so happy! One morning, he got up early and went out to start his usual outdoors work. I was in our home doing morning chores. When he didnt come in after I texted him, I decided to go help him with whatever chores he was doing. I found him back in our woods, crushed beneath a massive tree that had fallen on him. In that instant ....my beloved husband was gone and my life changed forever. That first year is a blur. I recall having to wade thru the fog in my head each morning just to make myself dress and remember to eat. I had to sell our rural dream home and find a house in a town far away. It was like a nightmare that wouldnt end. I would hear a phone ring and my first thought was...oops, my hubby is calling from work to tell me he will be late for dinner...then I would have to feel that searing pain as I grieved his death. But I slowly made myself survive. I rented an apartment, then blindly bought a house in a town. Now in my 3rd year without him, I have decided city life is not for me. I am selling as soon as economy gets better. I have always yearned for warmer winters, so I am planning to check out areas around beaches. Several family members say if I move to warmer climates, they will too. So that is our new adventure! Life is too short not to work at making your dreams come true! So I cheer you on with your swedish home adventure!
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss Mary, what a very challenging time you have been living through. I hope you’ll find the perfect place, warm and close to the beach, to make your home
@Moja421
4 жыл бұрын
You have really found a little piece of heaven
@JenniferCarterWriter
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I really do think I have!
@missybliss4357
3 жыл бұрын
Total stranger here- I’m so sorry for your loss. I am so grateful to God you’re using your pain wisely. God bless you and your family.
@eba44
3 жыл бұрын
Your timing could not have been more perfect! Likewise, I moved to Maine, USA in 2019. Best thingI've ever done. Ever. Good luck to you!!!
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
So glad to hear you’re enjoying life, after making the decision to move!
@eba44
3 жыл бұрын
@Maddy Grayson Hi Maddy. I spent years/decades working as a trained professional chef- a career that had me all up and down the east coast. When I could-finally- semi-retire, I needed a bit of a push. Long story short, I found what I'd imagined as my dream since 5th grade(ish), and now I'm living it. Lots of work, but in the place I love most, and doing what I love best. Some things take time (this took over 40 years to materialize), and you must be patient. And trust yourself, even if you feel a bit scared. Be flexible. Be adaptable. Be honest with yourself. p.s. I worked w/ both a couple and their friend this past summer- all from LA. They were happy to be *here*. Good luck- and cheers from Maine!
@asapasiafury4100
3 жыл бұрын
@@eba44 what a courageous woman you are!! We often talk about moving when my husband retires (he's 62) the only concern is property taxes (we live in the suburbs outside of Chicago) are the taxes high in your area?
@eba44
3 жыл бұрын
@@asapasiafury4100 Certainly no worse than Charlottesville-- where I moved from. And completely do-able, at least for me. Maine is not for everyone, and honestly I think many people imagine they'd love something woodsy and wild and simplified. The truth is, that if you haven't spent a good deal of time- happily- actually living in that (personal, imaginary) place, you may not do well. And at this point in life, it's not a decision to take lightly. I grew up in New England, and vacationed in Maine, so I felt like I was coming home rather than adventuring 'out'.
@lindawilson8434
3 жыл бұрын
@Maddy Grayson we moved to new England from Angeles 20 years ago and never looked back
@littad7128
3 жыл бұрын
Jennifer, very sorry to hear about your Granddaughter passing. Your cottage is beautiful. Hope you and your family are keeping safe and well. Sending you much love and hugs from Dublin, Ireland. 💗💗
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lit Tad!
@greenspark101
3 жыл бұрын
You’re a beautiful person, I’m so glad I’ve just found your channel. We’re moving (less courageously so!) but still. I have a 2 year old and we are nervous. Thanks for this 💗 were in the not knowing part right now, it’s lovely to see your cottage.
@barbibutton9619
3 жыл бұрын
Best of luck. 80% of our fears don't materialize. Go there bravely, meet new people, truly EXPERIENCE the experience
@VintageGGsRepeats
3 жыл бұрын
I discovered you through this video but I have to say Sweden drew me, then your voice and story and then your MESSAGE. And more messages. I will watch each and every one. My heart feels full.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
So glad you came across the channel Sue!
@KaltrinaDemiri
3 жыл бұрын
I find that people in Sweden usually have the best content and just seem so sweet :) congrats on the new cottage!
@helenkilberg7884
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! That ”find your you can do it-People” was exactly what I needed to hear at this exact moment! Thank you!!
@margaretapetersson2017
3 жыл бұрын
Välkommen till Sverige! Hope you will have a great time with much joy! And God bless!
@sharingiscaring.2578
3 жыл бұрын
This is the the right way to considering life in this way..we should be hopeful for betterment... challenge is every where but we have to make ourselves ready to face them...I pray for your good & happy content life, stay blessed ❤️🌿
@genad6615
3 жыл бұрын
“Do things that you know you won’t regret doing in your life.”- profound.
@musa2775
3 жыл бұрын
Gosh, if only the two things I want most in life weren't at such odds. I feel frozen with inaction because the compromise means I get neither. 😔
@gammaraymonkey
3 жыл бұрын
wOw
@carringtonlefayette8644
3 жыл бұрын
Jennifer congrats on being brave. You look like you are lit from the inside. Your voice sounds joyous and relaxed. The universe rewards the brave. Life is truly wonderous, death is not. Finding you is wonderful. Blessings Australia 10.34pm
@radoslawjocz2976
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful house and surrounding. Beautiful garden. So cheaply, unbelievable. This area is stunning.
@MsMesem
3 жыл бұрын
Long dark cold winter....heating $$$$.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Sweden 🇸🇪, full of trees = free firewood 🔥 😉
@MsMesem
3 жыл бұрын
@@JenniferCarterWriter Free? It fells , cuts and transports itself?
@sandrabergstrand7039
3 жыл бұрын
You’re usch an inspiration! Welcome to Sweden 🥳❤️
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Tack så mycket Sandra!
@ThereseDavidson
3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to Sweden! Amazing to have you here
@mrstowner
3 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOSH!!! Look at your pionies! They are amazing as is your cottage..you are such a beautiful woman..inside and out..
@mariarohmer2374
3 жыл бұрын
You are so amazing, wise & brave. Wish my mother had a quarter of your courage. She gave up long ago.
@kristinakropackova9803
3 ай бұрын
This video popped up in my recommendations, four years after being posted. I loved every second of it since it is very close to my own dream. You are from now on my big inspiration. I rarely comment but I had to now. ❤
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 ай бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it!
@myrevival4325
3 жыл бұрын
There are some things I really would like to do, yet don’t from former habits and fear. This was inspiring.
@Jack-hu7cb
3 жыл бұрын
I got a great feeling while watching this, it's probably because I can relate to what you were saying about "realising" how precious our time is and you have done something I imagine you've always wanted to try.
@Meadowswife
3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to Sweden!🇸🇪🇸🇪🇸🇪 Life is ment to be lived, I think you are right on with good values.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Meadowswife. Life is certainly meant to be lived!
@victoriaaguer7681
3 жыл бұрын
The good in🇨🇦thanks of love in Jesus 🙏🇨🇦🔔
@Krisb292
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful! So sad to hear of your loss, but so happy for you now. You are a strong and brave lady. ❤
@cherigreen4471
3 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how hard it was for you and your family. Your cottage is lovely and the land and lake is gorgeous! Hugs and blessings from the USA
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Cheri!
@joanlynch5271
3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear about your loss! I hope that you are doing well. There is a lot of sadness in the world now. Every day, someone else is dying prematurely.
@Caprifool
3 жыл бұрын
But why on EARTH are people calling your lovely proper timber Swedish farm house a shack? 😄 They are lovely old family homes! Not shacks! Anyway, looks like you found a good one there! Views to die for! I've done the red Swedish House thing a few times. And now I've been planning to go the other way and get myself a narrowboat in the UK. God knows how possible that will be post Brextit.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
A narrowboat sounds like a wonderful idea Caprifool. Hope you find a way to make it possible!
@Caprifool
3 жыл бұрын
@@JenniferCarterWriter thank you. And if it takes to long, I can always find a tiiiny little Welsh miners cottage or something. Or do the swedish cottage thing again. Apartments just don't do it for me anymore after 20 years in a forest farm house at the Småland border.
@kelliemurphy7933
3 жыл бұрын
Caprifool ‘The Shack’ is the name of a book and the actual shack in the book was a lovely place the family in the book used to go to. After a terrible tragedy struck the family they stopped going to their retreat but a kind of miracle happened to the main character which brought him back to the shack and changed his life forever. IMO it’s a book well worth reading and possibly life changing. The author is Wm Paul Young.
@Caprifool
3 жыл бұрын
@@kelliemurphy7933 aaaaah! Well that makes sense. Thank you for sharing that.
@amisa160
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry about your loss, but so happy that you managed to move on with things in your life that can bring you more happiness now! You're so welcome to Sweden! In what part of Sweden do you live? How has your life been during the Corona? I guess it might have been a challenge to settle into a new country during this state of social distancing? I hope you have found your way through the challenges and again välkommen, as we say in swedish!
@marymaher1641
3 жыл бұрын
Jennifer - what JOY you bring to us all - what bold and focused courage you display to LIFE LIFE FOR NOW FOR FUN AND MEMORIES AND PEACE ! Congratulations on your wonderful and big hearted new world in Sweden - you deserve every joy !
@kathywarren7665
3 жыл бұрын
This message was for me! Love your channel. Love the spoken word videos. A breath of fresh air! Keep doing what you are doing. Blessings to you!
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your encouragement Kathy!
@torihanna8670
3 жыл бұрын
this is beautiful! thank you for sending this beautiful energy out into the world, so many people can benefit from hearing this. sending you so much love!
@juliemansius9921
3 жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how perfect your video was. I found it at a time when I’ve been wrestling with a life change decision. I’ve spent all day reflecting and am now ready to take the leap. Thank you so very much.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you came across the video at just the right time Julie
@stevefranks1711
4 жыл бұрын
Inspiring and beautiful message. Very wise! Thank you! God bless you on your marvelous journey.
@JenniferCarterWriter
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Steve!
@saraharmstrong8834
3 жыл бұрын
I just came across your video and it really spoke to me. I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter 2 years ago aged 12 and then my husband left, and now I'm raising my 17 year old alone, and it's been tough. I'm in my early 50's and now facing life 'alone' for the first time and tbh your video has re-awakened in me a desire to look at my life ahead and my legacy and what will bring me joy again-so much of what you said resonates with me so thank you for sharing. I would love to hear about the process of buying a house in Sweden as my dream would be to own such a cottage in Sweden one day. X
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss Sarah. I’m hoping to do a video about buying a house in Sweden, at some point, since several people have asked about it. It’s surprisingly easy, far simpler than the process in the UK
@elizabethmunn9403
3 жыл бұрын
This sweet woman has stolen my heart. Would that we all could plan forward and not just day to day. Bless you and your family. Hello from Georgia in America
@PhyllisNagle52
3 жыл бұрын
So wonderful for You.. Enjoy each moment, life is NOW ❤ Blessings from Canada 🍁
@dogpaw775
3 жыл бұрын
easy to say this is a brave woman, what she hopefully has done is to leave a memory legacy as being authentic for her family and friends.
@lauram5846
3 жыл бұрын
I think she can be more of her authentic and joyful self here. I can totally understand this and envy her doing so as I always give myself continually to others ahead my life, and now at age 60, after putting myself continually aside (and wanting to for a long time) and now life is just passing me by and I'm half depressed most of the time. I give her all the credit in the world. I hope I can do the same and show others my authentic and joyful self which I have somehow have lost along the way. Sorry, this just struck a chord within me.
@user-mf4xc1dw5y
3 жыл бұрын
It is only God who never changes dear Laura. You did well to be self giving all those years. Talk to the God of the Bible the Lord Jesus. Only He can bring true joy through saving us from our sinful condition and darkness. I have known Him now these last 40 years and He has never let me down.
@lauram5846
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-mf4xc1dw5y I am a faithful believer but just like God needed to withdrawn and refresh I need that too at this point in my life.
@user-mf4xc1dw5y
3 жыл бұрын
Laura M I see. Just worked out how to reply to this. I will pray for you. Greetings from the UK.
@yasminghani2073
3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear about your granddaughter my condolences to you and your family
@lenapetrova
3 жыл бұрын
What a gorgeous place! I hope you've been enjoying the place and I' d love to see an update on it! One day I'd love to purchase an off grid cottage and grow my vegetables and fruit, and devote my time to creativity and the things that make me happy.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Keep dreaming Lena!
@AuntyM66
3 жыл бұрын
For 20 grand, that is more than enough. I am so happy for you and your family to have beautiful place to run to.
@VintageGGsRepeats
3 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to have found your channel! I do believe I was"guided" to it just as I needed it most. My great grandma and grandpa came to America from Sweden. We were raised with such a fond love of Sweden but as Americans with Swedish blood. Such wonderful family people the Swedes were. Thank you for sharing. And PS put a TOMTE in your garden to protect your farmstead.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful heritage Sue!
@SunStar888Vlogs
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Cottage with many fresh flowers, clean air, nice atmosphere, lovely lake, looks all amazing, Great.
@svetlanab655
3 жыл бұрын
May the joy and tranquility you have found continue to grow and feather out weaving its beauty, love and light around all those you come in contact with and hold dear.... 🌛💞💞💜💞💞🌜
@ceciliangwhng1915
3 жыл бұрын
You did the right thing, I truly inspired by you. I am 58 now, when I strike out something right I will share with you.
@valerieschluger
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you’re taking care and bringing joy to your life. So sorry for your loss.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Valerie
@deborahrandolph8396
3 жыл бұрын
Bravo!! I am needing a huge change but am on disability. Thank you and God bless you.
@peterroundy6681
3 жыл бұрын
Enjoy every minute. Such a beautiful country!!!
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
100% ! 🇸🇪❤️👏
@kathleencollins9099
3 жыл бұрын
Wow I’m blown away by your courage to do this!! I’m looking forward to seeing you make those memories you talked about!
@steves7013
4 жыл бұрын
Sorry about your loss. But you have made me smile, that’s one hell of a move! Good on you, hope it all works out. The place looks Awesome. Take care
@bikingback
3 жыл бұрын
Your video has randomly come up on my page at an opportune time. Sold my house in February, completed in June whilst having a heart attack. Really not sure where to live so I look forward to your inspiration. Clive.
@martinarguijo9857
4 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT But so sad what happened to your PRECIOUS granddaughter 😇 God bless your life
@JenniferCarterWriter
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Martin. What happened has certainly made me think about the way I live my life and helped me make the most of every moment
@victoriaaguer7681
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏 lord is love ❤️🙅🏾🕊
@sari4079
3 жыл бұрын
Good on you for being so courageous and positive! You have made the right move, I think. The cottage and garden are so beautiful, it looks like a little paradise. Wishing all the best for you and your family.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sari!
@suki414
3 жыл бұрын
gosh i am deeply sad for your loss. i do know what that feels like , take care , i hope it goes really well for you .
@robindobbs672
3 жыл бұрын
You are glowing with happiness! Very great for you! Beautiful cottage & surroundings. Very motivating!
@annikadson
3 жыл бұрын
I want to move to UK that is my dream in a small city a very old cottage like all things of UK.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
I hope you find a way to that dream cottage Anneka!
@amyrebeccaperez5240
3 жыл бұрын
I wish you the best dear Jennifer ❤️😊❤️ So sorry to hear of your loss of your family members, especially your grand daughter 🙄😥I lost my niece 15 years ago and my life has never been the same.. wishing you your hearts desire, many wonderful memories with family & friends..and endless presence with yourself... your " inner child" will be in awe of all the wonder you will expose her to❤️🙏❤️
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss Amy. Life will never be the same without her, but she had such a zest for life that it challenges me to live mine more fully
@dsparks149
3 жыл бұрын
It’s beautiful it’s my dream also I’m retired now to have a house with beautiful flowers and land to grow my vegetables. I am so happy for you I hope all goes well and you have many years to enjoy it.
@Rosakru
3 жыл бұрын
💕Lovely. This is the epitome of living that so many struggle to find. Thank you for sharing your story.
@nicoeeek.7181
3 жыл бұрын
Love this!! Brilliant Jennifer!
@annievangrunderbeeck9
3 жыл бұрын
We moved to Sweden almost 4 years ago and have no regrets! Hope you will be very happy here!
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Annie!
@stevefranks1711
4 жыл бұрын
I just watched your video again (saw it for the first time this morning). I am so impressed with your remarks -- they really resonate for me, and inspire me. "I've been investing in my retirement for many years, but in this moment I wanted to invest in happiness, and joy, and precious memories." WOW! Thanks for inspiring me. Where do you live when not in Sweden? Based on your (slight accent), I assume you are British? Thanks Jennifer,
@JenniferCarterWriter
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Steve, you're quite right about my accent, I live in the south of England, which I love, but Sweden has a special place in my heart, for sure!
@stevefranks1711
4 жыл бұрын
@@JenniferCarterWriter How interesting. My Father's family is from Devon and Somerset -- and I love Cornwall too, where I have a cousin I have visited a few times. I live outside Portland, Oregon, USA. Kudos to you for your fine videos.
@JenniferCarterWriter
4 жыл бұрын
Those are all beautiful counties - the Cornish coastline is stunning.
@amyrebeccaperez5240
3 жыл бұрын
I agree my dear!!! ...I am now 43 almost 44, mother to two grown girls, and mom to one crazy 10 year old boy & 2 grandsons (3 mo. & 16 mo), finally healing from a lot of trauma in my life and reflecting on those I've lost, and the thing that keeps me "most grounded" is STAYING PRESENT, so I can keep my anxiety low, and knowing I have control over my future in the decisions I make. Although each day is a gift and I am not promised tomorrow... I am content knowing I can live each day "as true as possible"...doing what truly brings me PEACE & JOY!!!...You story and adventures will be an inspiration to the ones I wish to make soon in my healing journey. Thanks for sharing...I look forward to seeing you enjoy your new oasis...I'd love to live on a farm!!!
@echandler673
3 жыл бұрын
Always always, always keep your yard mowed. That will stop quite a bit of mosquitoes from nesting in your yard. Any containers or puddles w water have to be covered and so forth. Plant lots and lots of geraniums with the lemon smelling leaves around the house. It repels them. Good luck in Sweden. It is a great retreat from living in other countries but I chose to live in the U.S. It is more acceptable here to be Christian and the land is much cheaper where I am at, the taxes more affordable than Sweden, and the climate is great for growing. I want to become a non traditional farmer. I am in the southern part of Eastern U.S.
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice Eva - we eventually realised that if we cut the grass, that would cut down on the mosquitoes !
@angelicabrierleyspeer3812
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤ for sharing your story, your adventure and your courage. You are an inspiration to many, and I resonated with everything you said! However, I can't imagine losing my young son, or wish to, so I deeply sympathize with your losses. My friend in the UK sent me your video tonight, with the message "reminds me of us", and it's true. Earlier this year after a big relationship breakdown my dear friend did something impulsive and crazy and bought unseen and online a live-aboard sailing yacht, which was moored in Central America. It was a crazy thing to invest in, but she had a dream! She knew boats, but had never sailed a yacht, and wanted to learn and live this offgrid life with her three children. Then the pandemia hit, lockdown, and the boat sat waiting... until next week when an opening happened and she flies over with her 3 small children to begin a new life! She is so courageous, an inspiration to women everywhere... she's amazing... a proper legend! 😁💕 A parallel story... A few years ago, my husband and I with our young son, packed up our lives and sold all our stuff in the UK and came to South America to begin a new and exciting life. We began the residency program straight away and years later are still in the process, but thats okay, we'd rather be here than in the UK right now! We were used to being nomadic, so still enjoy all the travelling and making new friends, homeschooling, learning a second language, having lots of fun and creating that life we want for oursleves! A few months ago however, after 13 years together our relationship hit a crisis point, and I was thrown into a future that suddenly felt uncertain, uncomfortable, unknown, alone, a bit scary!! I had allowed myself over the years to feel disempowered, financially and independantly, which was a surprise as I've always been a bit of a legend myself, travelling the world, carving my own path, dancing to the beat of my own drum... but losing your edge, your voice and courage, kind of creeps up on you sometimes... until a crisis happens and your world is turned upside down... you find yourself treading water and its sink or swim, time to strike out alone time. So... In a crazy moment in the middle of one night I saw a plot of land for sale, online, on a remote island in Patagonia. I actually accidentally contacted the seller, pressed the wrong button, but it opened a dialogue. I told myself it was crazy, but the voice in my head kept saying "do it, do it". I pictured myself years from now, and wondered if I'd regret not buying it and building a house on it. I saw myself as an old woman, sitting on my beach, staring out to sea, peaceful, long grey dreadlocks, covered in magical tattoos. I knew the answer was yes, I'd regret it, but I went to sleep, expecting to wake up and forget about this lunacy.... but I woke up thinking about it, and for the next few days it kept tapping at my brain like a woodpecker! Lol. So I bought it, I did it, and with my own money!! 😀 Since them our relationship has changed, healed, the dynamic is healthy, our love stronger, our offgrid dreams still ablaze, but this time I've taken the steering wheel... and it feels good! My husband has warmed to the idea and we are enjoying making new family plans, talking permaculture, designing our own systems, we are a happy team again. I held back telling anyone at first, but now lots of friends know and both me and my sailing yacht best friend are inspiring many others to dream big! So many of us, especially moms, are still wild and a little crazy inside, have big personalities, fierce hearts and big dreams... and so many of us squash those qualities way down deep because of fear, commitments and pressure from others to conform. So.... Thank you Jennifer ❤ for being bold and brave too, for blazing a trail that others, women especially, can follow and fulfill their beautiful dreams!! I wish you every happiness in your new shiney beautiful life, it looks truly wholesome and wonderful 😊🌞❤💛🧡🌱💕💚💙💦🌻
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Angelica - sounds as if your adventures are only just beginning!!
@AlexWilliams-qf3rp
3 жыл бұрын
I have so many thoughts going around in my head. First of all I am deeply sorry to hear about your loss, that could not have been easy at all. Then your decision to do a radical move like that, I truly admire your courage. This cottage is absolutely lovely and the grounds are beautiful. This place surely is appropriate for convalescing. I can imagine the peace that's surrounds you. I certainly hope to see and hear from you in the next 5 years..God bless.
@auntmayme8119
3 жыл бұрын
Bless you for taking the plunge. I’ve often wanted to live in another country, and I believe us to be the same age. You’ve given me inspiration.
@deidrespencer5467
3 жыл бұрын
I am in a similar situation in Australia. Thank you for reaffirming that I'm doing the right thing. Blessings Jennifer. 🙏😍
@JenniferCarterWriter
3 жыл бұрын
Hope you have the courage to follow through on what’s right for you Deirdre
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