Sadly or gladly…..I realized being SUPERmom is not a flex!!! I need help, I want it, I ask for HELP! Letting go of some mindsets, thought patterns, CONTROL, and perfectionism has helped me tremendously! 💛
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Love this! It’s something I tell my sister often- she’s doing amazing, but feels so bad when she can’t be Supermom.
@kenpatterson7742
Ай бұрын
The unfortunate thing is that we are bombarded with the idea that we even have the ability to be more than human… thus the term super mom or super dad or super employee. We were never intended to be more. We were intended to be human with a reliance on the Lord for MORE! Give yourself grace and enjoy being a mom. No super needed!
@MysticalDe
Ай бұрын
This!!!!
@Heyu7her3
Ай бұрын
People give terrible help... if they give it
@TheMaxymama
Ай бұрын
8:30 This!!! I read a book that said, if you're determined to be self sufficient, you have to keep your life and goals small enough to manage single handedly to make suree you never need help. This changed my life!
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Oooh, I like that! What book was that?
@NaturallyTi
Ай бұрын
Wow that blew me away and validated me so much. I actually felt bad about how small my life is but it’s what I can manage on my own because I don’t have a lot of friends and family. Thanks for sharing.
@jacquelinezavodny2181
Ай бұрын
@@kristidoingthings “A person who is determined to be self-sufficient has to keep his or her life and their goals small enough to manage single-handedly. To make sure they never need help.” - Alison Armstrong (The Queen’s Code)
@brighterwithnzu392
Ай бұрын
Mindsets to get over. - Everyone is in competition - Working harder will lead to better results - feeling of not being good enough. What God has for me is mine...😊 - You don't need to be perfect to get results or greatness. Working smarter not harder - Compartmentalizing my life- prioritizing one area too much that you totally slack in other areas that bleed into each other. - Having more is better Can keep you stuck, because you can't let go, declutter, being able to afford without impacting my life. Rather pay to get exactly what I want - I don't need help - even with the simple things, trying to act like you have it together🙏🏽, not asking for what you deserve, not advocating for yourself in critical areas, no pride.
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
You got it!
@Deebanup
24 күн бұрын
"Doing our best and being the best are different" really resonated with me. It's hard not to compare but like you mentioned I have to remind myself that I am killing it!
@kristidoingthings
24 күн бұрын
You are!!! If you are doing your best, that's enough.
@emily28038
Ай бұрын
This really encouraged me to accept myself as I am now, be proud of my accomplishments but keep striving. Rather than feeling negative about where I am now, and think I need to be there before I can expect any of the positive things. Thank you, you always have a good message.
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Amen!!! I love this. We can work on improving different parts of ourselves in love.
@williamrobinson4513
Ай бұрын
First of all, I am relating with NUMBER 1. My ONLY competition is the person I was YESTERDAY. I am also relating with THE SECOND. I AGREE with the saying I DO WHAT I CAN AND LET GOD DO WHAT I CAN'T DO (NO ONE IS ON THIS EARTH IS PERFECT). Number 3, as someone who has moved to a new place, I am in the process of learning No. 3. As a NEW SUBSCRIBER, this video has come in handy for me. Glad to meet YOU, KRISTY😊
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Nice to meet you too, William! Welcome- I'm so glad you're here! I am happy that you were able to see yourself in different parts of the video.
@DetangledbyDesign
Ай бұрын
Good points. Type A too. I rationalize much of it as "leading by example", as opposed to just being driven for ambition sake. Actually, I never expect more of people than I am willing to deliver myself. I set high personal performance standards for myself so that when it is time to ask, I have skin in the game. I am often referred to as "intense", and known to operate with a sense of urgency though 😂. Age is helping me calm down.😅
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
lol, I totally hear you! Type A leaders can be both easy and difficult to work with bc we clearly outline what and how we want things done and “lead by example” but we have high expectations for others actually mimicking that example 😆
@jenbhikes
Ай бұрын
Great list! ❤ I definitely have to keep an eye on myself regarding a sense of competition, asking for help, and settling for less! I really like that idea of what God has for me is mine. Thank you!
@kristidoingthings
24 күн бұрын
You are so welcome! Glad you found what spoke to you!
@purplescorpnaturale
Ай бұрын
I might need to put this video on an automatic loop because I am guilty of all of it. I am trying to do better thought. A work in progress.
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Do what you gotta do, girl! Don't beat yourself up. We are all a work in progress. 😉
@mothersoul1
Ай бұрын
So happy I found you. nice, gentle advice. Not the run a hundred miles in the morning, starve 19 hours. and die in ten minutes 😢 Not here, thanks
@kristidoingthings
24 күн бұрын
Hahaha!!! Nah, I'll only make you run 99 miles in the morning 😂 (j/k). I'm so glad you're here!
@missejlouie
Ай бұрын
yessssss can't wait! see you tomorrow queen 💗
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Woohoo!! See you soon 😘
@krissieg7862
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this ❤ your energy, your content is so inspiring Sending love from Michigan
@kristidoingthings
23 күн бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@StarBucks600
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I definitely took notes and tapped into what you were saying
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Yay! Glad it was helpful!
@veganoptionsplus3374
Ай бұрын
✨🌿🪻Thank you Kristi for this video… more like this wld be great …your service is certainly appreciated 💐
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Aww, thank you!!!
@JusDrawBraw
Ай бұрын
Love your advice so far. Thank you
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
You are so welcome!🤗
@Bestdayever2020
Ай бұрын
I too wish I would have accepted the help I was offered.
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Now that we know better we do better!
@Llenaejp
Ай бұрын
Wow! Your videos are so refreshing! You make me really want to change the way I view things. My limiting beliefs. And you know what? I am going to 😅 thanks to you pretty lady! Know it’s easier said than done but I will keep your videos on repeat until I learn! You’ve got a new subscriber 😊
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Awww, thank you! 🥹 I’m so happy you’re here and part of my KZitem family 🫶🏽 The lessons don’t come easy. Like you said, it’s something you have to keep focusing on growing in. But you recognize the limiting beliefs and that’s such a fantastic start. You’ll get there!
@sagenosnibor9173
Ай бұрын
Appreciate this content, thanks!
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
You’re so very welcome!
@ramahh979
Ай бұрын
Geesh! Why did I see advocating for myself as begging? Great tips! New subbie. Thank You for sharing the wisdom
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Welcome, friend! I'm so happy you found your way over here. And get it- we can be SOO uncomfortable with advocating for ourselves. It's definitely a muscle that needs to be worked out.
@shalayzizo
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! I definitely needed to hear this! ❤❤❤
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
You’re so welcome! I’m happy it resonated with you!
@shandranorman4710
Ай бұрын
This is really speaking to me right now, thank you!
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
I'm so glad! You are so welcome ♥️
@loisb2873
Ай бұрын
Really helpful video for a fellow type A
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@Olliemillz124
Ай бұрын
I LOVE your videos.
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Aww, this makes me so happy! I’m glad that you’re here!
@kenpatterson7742
Ай бұрын
Great video hon! Continually proud of you!
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Thanks baby ❤️❤️❤️
@a_la_drinah
Ай бұрын
This video was on time!
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Yay, so glad!
@me2609
Ай бұрын
Kristi, I love you! 🫶
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
I love you too!!! 😘
@brittsjustwingingit2732
Ай бұрын
This was SOOOO GOOD!! ❤
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!!
@tiffanycherry6483
Ай бұрын
Hi everyone 😊
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Hey girl!!! 🤗
@latriciacreates
Ай бұрын
Great video Kristi!
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Thanks Latricia! How have you been these past few weeks?
@mothersoul1
Ай бұрын
I will ask and ask
@kristidoingthings
24 күн бұрын
Amen!!!
@meltallicaofficial
Ай бұрын
I relate to this so much ❤
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Yay, so glad!
@me2609
Ай бұрын
Amen!
@jadalevi
Ай бұрын
Hey Kristi girl, what did you go to school for? I’m thinking about going back to school soon.
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
I went to get my PhD in Education. What are you wanting to go to school for?!
@jadalevi
29 күн бұрын
@@kristidoingthings Radiolody Tech. It’s a 3 year AS. It’ll bring me the stability that I beee right now. But I am a little conflicted because I want to do social media. Something similar to what you do. I want to impact women to healing and becoming the best version of themselves so I was thinking communication of psychology is in more alignment but I don’t want to go to school for 4 years. Can you give me some honest feedback. Thank you! 😊
@aemsiw3798
Ай бұрын
YT keeps unsubscribing me
@holamissmusica
Ай бұрын
Same! 😢
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
Oh no!!! I thought y’all were just leaving me 😭 Hmm…I guess just keep resubscribing or hit the notification bell!
@kristidoingthings
Ай бұрын
@holamissmusica I think they have been having some system glitches. 😞
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