"But then I slowly started to become a huge fan of you" slowly.
@jasminejelly6882
8 жыл бұрын
+V D.O. V (BTS) D.O. (EXO)
@j-hopehurtsmyheartu3351
8 жыл бұрын
+Orchid Blossom I was just going to comment that
@jasminejelly6882
8 жыл бұрын
J hope infires me :3 :3 HOBI
@extravagant91
8 жыл бұрын
+W'sYTCH it's just that he puts so much emphasis on the "slowly"
@C9_Kingslayer
8 жыл бұрын
best sentence xD
@Baylaruse
8 жыл бұрын
I thought at the beginning he hired Keith as a life coach
@elliekruglikov6138
8 жыл бұрын
same.
@msaussieali546
8 жыл бұрын
+Sage Mirei same
@berkeleylizdavis6659
8 жыл бұрын
same
@dunjapesic1858
8 жыл бұрын
same
@devonhatchwell9274
8 жыл бұрын
same
@Viewsk8
6 жыл бұрын
This week we're comparing three different friends at three drastically different price points
@glenn9980
6 жыл бұрын
U forget mentioned is it worth it ?
@mishelerodriguez8868
6 жыл бұрын
Yes all the yes 😂
@charlinefrancois5712
6 жыл бұрын
i'm crying
@saigemidkiff1128
6 жыл бұрын
Glenn ccjiii
@saigemidkiff1128
6 жыл бұрын
Glenn lmllycy
@PowerRangerDuelist
6 жыл бұрын
The moment the coach said "It's not your responsibility how the conversation goes" MY MIND EXPLODED
@ax3lsantana897
4 жыл бұрын
PowerRangerDuelist me too I thought that like I had to carry the conversation and if i was weird it would all be weird and that I had to start everything and they would just respond. I was like wtf really?
@anuph2826
3 жыл бұрын
Me too man 😅
@flameshoter6
Жыл бұрын
I know this comment is 4 years old, but I need to make a comment. Yes, it is a two way street. Unfortunately, most people I talk to, is a one-way street. Where they don't make any effort. They may ask how I am doing, I'll say I did yadda yadda over the weekend. And then they are like, "oh ok that's cool." without telling me if they did anything interesting themselves. Been that way in school, college, and work....
@minkakemi
8 жыл бұрын
i am like him and i feel so unconfortable watching this
@haileybrooke2270
8 жыл бұрын
Same
@IsaacPurpleguy
8 жыл бұрын
ditto
@Azumiyoko93
8 жыл бұрын
+minkakemi I felt you, awkwardness. But Zach is really a nice guy.
@seemahegde04
8 жыл бұрын
I feel u
@steffcee2709
8 жыл бұрын
Me too i was squirming hoping he would come out of his shell lol
@karimecubillas
8 жыл бұрын
"You guys just visiting LA?" "Yeah, how about you?" "Oh yea- wait no I actually live here" Same Steven same
@user-nk8uy4rz7h
8 жыл бұрын
ME
@misslolo1324
8 жыл бұрын
I would so say something like that xD
@certifieddork1280
8 жыл бұрын
THATS SO ME OMIGURD
@Alice-se6du
8 жыл бұрын
+Karime C. I would actually say something like that.
@phoenixp9991
8 жыл бұрын
😂😂 ikr
@michelleliang1069
6 жыл бұрын
"you visiting too?" "uh, yeah yeah, oh wait no i actually live here"
@Selsmittenxo
6 жыл бұрын
michelle liang 😂
@terryharvey3659
6 жыл бұрын
i can NOT stop laughing everytime i repeat it in my head!
@singfromtheheart9146
6 жыл бұрын
That’s something I would do
@sadielyons5546
6 жыл бұрын
Me when I try to have a conversation
@cesardelrey4128
6 жыл бұрын
😂😂 this was so greattttt
@deebow_fat
6 жыл бұрын
The curse of being a extroverted introvert. You have the need to connect with people, but you are too socially awkward to do it. It's all about finding friends that are extremely patient.
@Mayuri1994ify
5 жыл бұрын
I am like that too
@lewisbirkett4428
5 жыл бұрын
I'm introverted but I can manage with just a few friends
@losttrackoftimeagain
5 жыл бұрын
That's a socially awkward extrovert. An introvert is someone who gains energy from being alone and doesn't need people to recharge. An extrovert is someone who needs to connect with people.
@alsimanche
5 жыл бұрын
Deebow or i think it's more like an awkward social introvert
@s.a.8548
5 жыл бұрын
@@alsimanche But the main comment said they need people to connect with so extrovert. Their battery recharges with social interactions but they're too awkward to pursue it.
@killerwhale5379
8 жыл бұрын
hes so adorable id be his friend anytime
@laurissagrace953
8 жыл бұрын
same❤
@gavitab
8 жыл бұрын
Same!
@Trund27
8 жыл бұрын
+Killerwhale Same here, as well!
@kalis856
8 жыл бұрын
Ikr? Super cute.☺️☺️☺️
@kiekie84
8 жыл бұрын
+Killerwhale i literary just said "awwwhhhhhhdgsfffffffffffffsajs he's soooooooooooo adorable!" and then i scrolled down and saw your comment lol
@lindseyluna13
8 жыл бұрын
I think Steven needs to become friends with himself. He talks about himself so negatively!! He's a cool guy.
@charlie3145
8 жыл бұрын
PROTIP
@modernmckids4396
8 жыл бұрын
+Lindsey Luna omg i cried cause im like this i dont have many friends i just have about 7
@modernmckids4396
8 жыл бұрын
***** but i mean like i mean i would like people to be my real friends i know their fake friends
@modernmckids4396
8 жыл бұрын
***** i know i might have more fake friends but i mean i want people to know who i am and i would like you talk to people like nothing and for it not to be awkward
@pauladuran3966
8 жыл бұрын
honestly!! I'd be friends with hi. and everyone else and buzzfeed tbh 😂 they all seem sooo nice and he seems reaaalyyy sweet
@MsSuprman
6 жыл бұрын
Everyone's discussing Zach who was great, but can we look at how supportive and helpful Keith was? Keith was so sweet!
@Musicisourlive100
5 жыл бұрын
I need Keith as my coach 😋😂 he is really sweet and gives helpful advice
@ax3lsantana897
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah and he didn’t get impatient with Zach or judge him
@anuph2826
3 жыл бұрын
Are people in real life that supportive ? I still doubt 🤨
@anuph2826
3 жыл бұрын
@@Musicisourlive100 yaa mann 🙌🙌
@evagibson1798
4 жыл бұрын
"I don't believe in people" Never have I related to a statement on such a spiritual level
@karenforgy4645
4 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@valjoy1507
8 жыл бұрын
He and I would be friends. I'm awkward but feel really comfortable around other awkward people.
@jackysanchez9539
8 жыл бұрын
Same
@thomasdegliesposti8336
8 жыл бұрын
exactly the same
@Jollofloff
8 жыл бұрын
+Val Joy Haha, me too :P
@valjoy1507
8 жыл бұрын
Ok. Ya'll can be my friends :)
@luwna8793
8 жыл бұрын
+Val Joy i doo too haha
@laurenng554
8 жыл бұрын
I always assumed he had loads of friends wow
@halimamohammed2894
8 жыл бұрын
Same
@LauraThirty
8 жыл бұрын
+Lauren Ng saaame cuz hes so confident on feast mode hunger squad
@mapler4evah
8 жыл бұрын
I always assumed people in Buzzfeed had at least a few very close friends
@philile8504
8 жыл бұрын
+Laura Thirty food brings out the best in everyone
@abgrayson
8 жыл бұрын
+Lily Especially pizza. Who doesn't love pizza.
@santypk5
5 жыл бұрын
That conversation with Zack is so weird "I slowly started becoming a huge fan of you" "slowly" LOL
@Calvbread
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly lol
@thenextbigthing1393
4 жыл бұрын
Funny as hell
@buskerbusker8826
4 жыл бұрын
Zak a cool dude tho
@moonlightmochi884
6 жыл бұрын
“I hate bars” “Why do you hate bars?” “because there’s people there..”
@ashleygomez8713
4 жыл бұрын
MOOD
@intuitivelymagician2076
3 жыл бұрын
Same not for me
@Max.x
8 жыл бұрын
"You visiting LA?" "Yeah, yeah, how about you?" "Yeah me too. Wait no, I live here."
@marin5977
8 жыл бұрын
Yaas
@jjohnston94
8 жыл бұрын
+TehPyyRo Or my version, "Hey, what's going on?" "Pretty good, how about you?"
@MiCHELLExxxxxxx
8 жыл бұрын
SAME
@JeweleryPower
8 жыл бұрын
Meeeeeee
@annalillian1914
8 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard
@rinad1201
8 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: The life coach was the blonde girl who said, "Hi."
@xoddie8877
8 жыл бұрын
I'M
@jayramirez866
8 жыл бұрын
META
@Lovethingsbeautyxoxo
8 жыл бұрын
HAJAHA
@justslightly7794
8 жыл бұрын
HAAAA
@lakalq11km
8 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: it's actually J.K Rowling
@thepurrisher243
6 жыл бұрын
Buuuuuuutttt....... If you put Steven with Andrew.... Awkward Steven gone. Huggy, cute, sweet Steven here.
@CallingQ
6 жыл бұрын
Andrew created some great goals for steven to overcome his fears!
@iamradhikasharma
6 жыл бұрын
this video is old... way before worth it and andrew happened to steven
@ivanavnc
5 жыл бұрын
@@iamradhikasharma and steven happened to andrew...
@mariafreiji8077
4 жыл бұрын
That's why they were MEANT to be like best friends ❤
@jorgiacarson1241
5 жыл бұрын
"I don't know what people really do when they hang out," *slowly nods*
@ejc9062
8 жыл бұрын
This has really changed my opinion of some of the buzzfeed employees..
@maiaboyd3350
8 жыл бұрын
same
@AlexHilarious
8 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@tayrae2644
8 жыл бұрын
+Emma Jane Curran like what
@swand1383
8 жыл бұрын
Who?
@LoveTheBeauty77
8 жыл бұрын
+tayra e I thought they were all friends haha
@jessicahenion1623
8 жыл бұрын
All I wanted to do was hug him wow
@supersaiyen20
8 жыл бұрын
Why
@eliseb9237
8 жыл бұрын
+Toto Babu Why not?
@supersaiyen20
8 жыл бұрын
Curious
@pey5571
8 жыл бұрын
saaaaaame
@bubblegummm
8 жыл бұрын
He was so awkward around Zach 😂
@JaySMR
6 жыл бұрын
Steven has never come off to me as an awkward person. Even now, his "awkwardness" seems completely normal to me. He seems like just a generally cool guy. Maybe it's different when he's off camera?
@Medietos
5 жыл бұрын
I thought similar; the attention , support, commitment to practise just for practise not for real takes pressure off. There are playful elements, like playacting. Much easier than irl. Still he is doing well!
@bobjoe5520
5 жыл бұрын
He’s quite the opposite of awkward. He’s more open and talkative than most people. Unless some people do that to deal with awkwardness because I’d expect an awkward person to talk less.
@kittymilkyyy
5 жыл бұрын
@@bobjoe5520 some awkward people talk more because of how nervous they get. Their brain just kind of rambles on
@hanifali2566
6 жыл бұрын
This is so weird to watch now, since Steven is like the most popular and successful guy on Buzzfeed.
@modernmunching
8 жыл бұрын
*whispers* Zack Evans... YOU ARE THE CUTEST THING STEVEN
@princesstedla1234
8 жыл бұрын
IKR
@safilagoon
8 жыл бұрын
+Shane P Jiiimiiiiiinnn
@modernmunching
8 жыл бұрын
+SleepSuga girl u know it 😉
@SugarHeadaches
8 жыл бұрын
I almost nearly teared up when he did that. So precious :'0
@pleng5178
8 жыл бұрын
+Shane P ARMY hi :D
@juliannelilly1268
8 жыл бұрын
Whispers "Zach Evans" 😂 YESS STEPHEN👌👌👌
@juliannelilly1268
8 жыл бұрын
*Steven
@ainebeirneyt
8 жыл бұрын
Extreme man crush!
@Thecooljayesh
8 жыл бұрын
+soph :3 he does have a girlfriend 😪
@26bestest
8 жыл бұрын
so cute
@Fairytale01010
8 жыл бұрын
👌
@jsjdjdj0xoxxx
4 жыл бұрын
When I think of going and talk to someone I think that they are going to think that im weird and like "why is she talking to us" but if a person comes up to me I would be so happy to talk to them...but at the same time I dont know what to talk about and I always feel social awkward
@alpacaperson1629
4 жыл бұрын
me too
@emmytong8784
2 жыл бұрын
Dude you described how I feel so accurately! Thank you
@LoNo1979
2 жыл бұрын
That's why when I introduce myself to someone I asked them their name but I don't offer my name I wait for them to ask me because I imagine that when I say my name is so and so they will be thinking so who cares?
@chrischocoholic
6 жыл бұрын
i am getting so much anxiety just from watching him but also him getting coached through it is applicable like thank you?? i love this steven is best boy 13/10
@alexlara4424
8 жыл бұрын
the problem with me is I imagine how a conversation will go and when I go to talk to them it goes different situations and I panic
@Commandertoolbelt84
8 жыл бұрын
SAME
@samanthak.2706
8 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, this happens to me a lot.
@mooffin6731
8 жыл бұрын
+alex lara GAH I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN, like when i image it im like super funny but in reality i just sound like a creep xD
@Ambir91
8 жыл бұрын
saaame
@dingleberry9528
8 жыл бұрын
Dear lord I hate when that happens Dx
@aylaaboo
8 жыл бұрын
Zack Evans is so intimidatingly cool.
@bazooka-sharks-parker
8 жыл бұрын
yeah .... i ship them now ... sorry had ot be mentionned
@RBRB431
8 жыл бұрын
maybe he's related to Chris Evans O_o
@NotCreativeForThis
8 жыл бұрын
IKR. When Steven went up to him I was like oh god if that was me Id make such a fool of myself. I would not be that brave
@SalvaPride1893
7 жыл бұрын
YESSSS!! He has this certain way he carries himself that just makes you think "Daaang I wanna be his friend" lol Even his name is cool.
@MrC77
7 жыл бұрын
How tall is he?
@ialor3137
4 жыл бұрын
"I assume everybody hates people like I do." Truth!!!
@alexandria1791
4 жыл бұрын
Introvert, in my room, all alone, under a weighted blanket, taking notes.
@andrewweiss1760
4 жыл бұрын
Haha have you left yet?
@cali5750
8 жыл бұрын
"Then I slowly became a big fan of you. Slowly." -Zack Evans
@Moon-Jelly
8 жыл бұрын
Sssssssllllloooooowwwwllllyy
@HikariPaintsTheStars
8 жыл бұрын
I hope he didn't mean that in a mean way
@summerskull9379
8 жыл бұрын
That's just how guys are. Good natured ribbing is a sign of affection.
@Mbeepyd
8 жыл бұрын
When did he say that?
@SalvaPride1893
7 жыл бұрын
MegaUnfunny 3:52
@schhh26
8 жыл бұрын
Zach is like the nicest person what the hell
@memoisperfect
8 жыл бұрын
He looks cool tho it's intimidating lmao
@shebagal12
8 жыл бұрын
schmutzzfink ikr he is such a precious bean
@delailalavender3876
6 жыл бұрын
Its cute how he bought beer for his friend even tho he himself doesnt like beer
@manmohanchhandwal9936
5 жыл бұрын
keith : walk upto somebody, say something very inconsequential. steven : like i love you. :D
@aaronwilson1756
2 жыл бұрын
looollll
@angelnumberz
8 жыл бұрын
I want Steven to be my friend. Seriously.
@buket9212
8 жыл бұрын
SAME
@f.k.2163
8 жыл бұрын
yeah, steven is the coolest guy.
@nancymercado6638
7 жыл бұрын
Anj Clifford Same
@dabhowlter3824
7 жыл бұрын
Anj Clifford Same!!
@eesafredericks2122
7 жыл бұрын
steven is awesome
@Kayla-lz6ry
8 жыл бұрын
The way they talked about him in the beginning was sad
@coragraves6043
8 жыл бұрын
I know😢
@HikariPaintsTheStars
8 жыл бұрын
it, especially since he's basically the guy version of me
@serlomcole2958
8 жыл бұрын
they sounded so evil nd judgemental asif they have 'great' personalities and they are just the worst i hate keith and buzzfeed for these no bullying of employees please buzzfeed was so sad I wanted to hug him and be bestfriends with him
@courtrtney
7 жыл бұрын
Kelly kay its sad!!! and I can feel the way they feel about him too, because i notice that when I'm around people and i am basically Steven too
@TheJustinHit
7 жыл бұрын
The guy has a skill that needs to be developed called social skills, without it, you'll be awkward and ruin flows of the conversations. It's not like they were making fun of him.
@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice
6 жыл бұрын
This is so sweet. Good vid for introverts and "awkward" people to see... I'm really happy he made friends with his squish. I too am a social introvert sometimes (when I'm not in a depressive episode, then I'm a shy extrovert). Sometimes I call it being an introvert with a long battery. Or an introvert that likes people.
@thegoldenb7280
6 жыл бұрын
Casper Mason Candlewood ambivert
@El-ce1bz
5 жыл бұрын
"I assume that everybody hates people like I do" this is such a mood Steven you're the best 😂
@scorpiaflueman8344
7 жыл бұрын
I got high-key anxiety just watching him talk to new people...
@dhreams0366
6 жыл бұрын
Scorpia Flueman same
@stephanierojas3185
6 жыл бұрын
Scorpia Flueman same
@likunliu6809
6 жыл бұрын
Scorpia Flueman same!!!
@isabella1754
8 жыл бұрын
steven is such a delicate little butterfly
@Betsyr5
8 жыл бұрын
true
@MidnightOpal
8 жыл бұрын
my name's steven spot the reference gO I HAVE FAITH IN THE PHANDOM
@JamesV84
8 жыл бұрын
+Ava Roberts I'm actually really surprised as he seems like he would be so good at making friends in his vlogs.
@hvaladez3354
8 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@phiphijackson4997
8 жыл бұрын
He's so cute too 😍
@Animaniafreak
4 жыл бұрын
That's what I really like about Steven, he knows his weakness but instead hiding it, he's putting himself out there and turn that weakness into a learning experience! Mad respect to that guy,
@jego207
6 жыл бұрын
For me it's the opposite. It's easiest if there is a purpose. Easy - Bar (because people are there to socialize) Medium - Invite someone over Hard - Get to know your friend crush Very Hard - talk to a stranger
@victoriachai6378
7 жыл бұрын
I really feel Steven. I'm also the type of person that is really awkward around people and don't know how to start conversations. It's really hard sometimes but I'm getting a little bit better at making friends since I started college.
@VK-bf7ut
7 жыл бұрын
Victoria Chai I agree, Steven is me. good luck in college
@GreySaltGaming
7 жыл бұрын
Ha! same! XD
@TheKiwiColonel
7 жыл бұрын
just read books on making conversation, "how to talk to anyone" etc. Learn tricks easy!
@TheRollingBacon
7 жыл бұрын
Most important lesson I've learnt during the time leading up to life in university was to be comfortable with silence, and that genuine friendships take time to form. Never ask questions for the sake of asking to fill up silence. Show that you're fully invested into the conversation and not looking around helps people to open up naturally :) Much support and from a fellow Chai from Malaysia!
@user-mk6pk1rw9j
7 жыл бұрын
since college I've gotten a lot worse lol. I don't talk to anyone and when someone tries to talk to me i dont know what to do. I've also separated myself from my best friends and now I don't have any friends 😅
@fgouveia5995
8 жыл бұрын
I am the female version of Steven...
@khiajachambers8979
8 жыл бұрын
Same
@xpressarte91
8 жыл бұрын
Same x 2
@aureat5367
8 жыл бұрын
I am Steven.
@Debar28
8 жыл бұрын
+F Gouveia Steven is ACTUALLY me, like 500%. I feel attacked
@hellobudss
8 жыл бұрын
Same.
@saythenameseventeen3852
5 жыл бұрын
"say something very inconsequential" "like i love you?"
@pixelfantasizer
6 жыл бұрын
"I got beer! You like beer?" "Yeh I do!" "I actually don't like beer." Steven, never change.
@selatibbs1855
8 жыл бұрын
I relate to everything that Steve is going through
@dinasaur2115
8 жыл бұрын
same i feel like im abnormal
@mxxz3900
8 жыл бұрын
aww I feel sorry for you.
@barakakautsarsofiuddin9288
8 жыл бұрын
Same😩 wanna be friends?
@SG-bk8rk
8 жыл бұрын
Same 🙁😭
@lyfull
8 жыл бұрын
I literally went through the same thing that Steven went through as a child. I thought every girl I talked to only did it out of an act of pity and I hated that so I refused to talk to them. I still have this mentality to this day and I think I should start making a change.
@jasminemississo1796
8 жыл бұрын
5:37 "I just automatically asume that everyone hates people... like I do" xD Literally me
@paigehemmings9015
8 жыл бұрын
me and my friend XD
@jasminemississo1796
8 жыл бұрын
Paige Hemmings xD
@horangejellodickcheese1835
8 жыл бұрын
rawrrr xD
@stevebrule6046
8 жыл бұрын
Basic
@sallittu
8 жыл бұрын
me too XD
@MoxieBeast
6 жыл бұрын
omg i never saw this before. i love steven. best find of the week!!! ... 2 years later!
@gogumagal
6 жыл бұрын
*challenge #1* Me : Oh no *challenge #2* Me : oh no noo *challenge #3* Me : whattt *challenge #4* Me : OH NO, whyy? I'm so proud of Steven tho :’)
@AWESOMESAucee
8 жыл бұрын
Mind blown, I thought everyone at buzz feeds was friends with each other 😀💥
@minico1240
8 жыл бұрын
saaame
@LauraThirty
8 жыл бұрын
+Awesomesauce i guess its like any other work place, a few people you like, few you hate and you don't even mind the rest
@annalillian1914
8 жыл бұрын
me too haha
@beebikinis
8 жыл бұрын
+Awesomesauce I feel so sad if Steven felt this way through all the videos and stuff too
@d_peaches7600
8 жыл бұрын
+Awesomesauce I would think about it that way that there are working so many people at buzzfeed that you can't know or be friends with anyone :p
@goodman6888
7 жыл бұрын
Now he hosts one of the most successful series buzzfeed has ever had. Nothing but respect for Steven
@annak1542
6 жыл бұрын
That's what I was thinking. I am so proud haha
@valcal6881
6 жыл бұрын
How is called?
@user-js8hf3zj9y
6 жыл бұрын
Valcal It is called Buzzfeed Worth It
@HabituallyObsessed
6 жыл бұрын
Now everybody at BuzzFeed kisses up to him to get on the rotation of co-hosts on Worth It Lifestyle.
@eeshafh
6 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@doncorleonen3521
4 жыл бұрын
Havent watch buzzfeed in awhile. Comparing to this and to who he is now with the Worth it segment, his self esteem and confidence really boosted up. He likes himself better now. So happy for Steven!
@BM24DK
6 жыл бұрын
After watching 4 seasons of "Worth It" it is super weird to realize that Steven is a socially akward person.. You wouldn't think that from watching his Buzzfeed series..
@ivanavnc
5 жыл бұрын
it's because andrew lmao
@p1ysaucedo
4 жыл бұрын
Him and Andrew bounce off each other well plus I think his social skills have probably improved over time.
@stevenkwlim
8 жыл бұрын
Going through this experience was life-changing, but not in the way I thought it would be at the beginning of the week. I'm still the same introverted and awkward guy, but the biggest change was learning how to respond in moments where I would normally shut down. My favorite line of the whole video is this: "becoming more social doesn't have to mean becoming someone else." It means being authentic to yourself and the people around you!
@jasonb6214
8 жыл бұрын
+Steven Lim Good for you! I feel the same way a lot of the time!
@tm-yb8kx
8 жыл бұрын
+Steven Lim im gonna cry i loved this. based on test friends videos & stuff i genuinely would have never guessed that you weren't super comfortable around new people tbh
@JamesV84
8 жыл бұрын
+Steven Lim Well said Steven. You're so good in your vlogs though so I'm surprised you find it hard to make friends. This will help a lot of people I'm sure, including myself, thanks for doing this :)
@Jason-ks8qi
8 жыл бұрын
+Steven Lim You're not the only one Steven, I feel the same way.
@aDucksSmile
8 жыл бұрын
+Steven Lim I found this video extremely informative! I feel awkward even thinking about talking to a person and hopefully this video helps me be more social without feeling anxious. Great job Steven!
@NDHatley1
8 жыл бұрын
The key you need to realize here Steven is that awkward folk tend to make very good friends with other awkward folk. It's just difficult to find them for obvious reasons... Being awkward is the biggest part of what makes you, YOU. Thus you relate and befriend other people in which the largest part of them is alike to the largest part of you.
@monicali2609
8 жыл бұрын
Same
@ScribbleAddictable
8 жыл бұрын
+NDHatley1 I disagree, I'm super awkward which is why I need someone who's really talkative to be my friend and start conversations. Imagine the awkward silences if both people dont really talk
@randompeepc4421
8 жыл бұрын
+Serreh Yeah no that me too. I actually grew up really shy and even though it really takes a lot of effort for me to be outgoing. Now a lot of people think of me as extremely confident and I am, but it was not simple getting here and it took me many years. I think that why I always tend to feel attracted to awkward people because I understand their situation. So now I'm the outgoing friend that helps my other friends get out of their shell and tbh they really have.
@RaquelpeQe21
8 жыл бұрын
+Serreh You are soo right!
@RaquelpeQe21
8 жыл бұрын
+Serreh You are soo right!
@saracarr3382
4 жыл бұрын
I really liked that people were so honest about their thoughts on Steven at the beginning. It was probably more helpful to him than people just being nice.
@andrewweiss1760
4 жыл бұрын
Yes feedback is so key! Sometimes we don't know what we don't know
@1000wastedwords
6 жыл бұрын
Steven is my spirit animal. "Why don't you like bars?" "Uh, there's people there." Lol. Same.
@Shanty2611
7 жыл бұрын
I can't watch this it hurts me. It's like looking in a mirror, I cry. Steve I feel you bro.
@Abby-ft1bu
6 жыл бұрын
Shantall Segovia hi, can I cry with you?
@ikyune1665
6 жыл бұрын
I want to join too!
@orangepeelzz
8 жыл бұрын
I'm identifying with Steven soo hard right now. Socializing is HARD man.That's why there's...internet.
@jweezyf0sheezy1
7 жыл бұрын
You think it helps but it really doesn't. Pick a local event and go to it you'll be surprised as to how much fun you will have, whether or not you actually make any friends.
@Eva-sv2xe
7 жыл бұрын
Ms. Faceless A
@azazulsoulmeister7959
7 жыл бұрын
Ms. Faceless The internet actually just makes it even harder imo.
@hellothere4485
7 жыл бұрын
+Azazul Soulmeister it does
@rasmusstenak7566
7 жыл бұрын
The question is... What is hard about it?
@ratondeturatonera8366
4 жыл бұрын
the fact that he can even talk to people like that is so hard for me like if i said hi to someone i’d think they think i’m a weirdo and to mind my own business so i could never whatever someone says about me or i think they think about me i get really anxious and use it to insult myself and have mental breakdowns
@andrewweiss1760
4 жыл бұрын
How did you help overcome that?
@we88881
6 жыл бұрын
i feel bad they said some kind of rude things about him. like he’s not just an awkward person.
@nk-hg1dm
7 жыл бұрын
Zach is really good at handling awkward situations. He defused the situation really well.
@The_Superior_Sam
6 жыл бұрын
who's Zach
@samyty1530
8 жыл бұрын
after reading thru the comments..you realize 80% of hardcore youtube fans are introverts
@jjddhh
8 жыл бұрын
Mhmm!
@johannaperez80
8 жыл бұрын
That's why we're always sitting there, watching KZitem videos ALL THE TIME. and not outside meeting people 🙌
@olliedied
8 жыл бұрын
true
@wolfferoni
8 жыл бұрын
+Johanna Perez Was literally about to reply the same thing.
@mex1518
8 жыл бұрын
yeah,cause everyone else is somewhere else (maybe outside)
@ErikaCM
6 жыл бұрын
Steven has slowly become my favorite person at buzzfeed
@popanga0994
6 жыл бұрын
Awwww i wanna give Steven a hug
@sighnowifi
7 жыл бұрын
"i feel like i have to sorta trick them or force them to be my friend" wow i relate to this so hard, it made me feel kind of sad actually
@everettfanor1989
6 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Its like they already see that Im being phony and weird
@KP-uo1gb
6 жыл бұрын
I hate the fact that I relate to this
@Jeffrey9In4Chains
6 жыл бұрын
me too =/
@periodicallychaotic5449
6 жыл бұрын
Same
@horrr0r
6 жыл бұрын
Me too! I always feel like if someone is hanging out with me it’s like they’re doing an act of charity, or like they’re doing me a favor rather than a mutually beneficial thing.
@ilizhof
7 жыл бұрын
Zack was so sweet to Steven! I hope they kept their friendship up after this :)
@shellygenevievee
2 жыл бұрын
This video hits me hard. I actually cried a bit watching it. I relate with so much of what Steven said. I hope I use some of the advice in this.
@thatgirl9532
3 жыл бұрын
Oh please Steve isn’t actually awkward he’s actually super funny lol
@emme6080
8 жыл бұрын
That was so cute. Stephen is actually me
@davisqim
8 жыл бұрын
Steven*
@radikaul
8 жыл бұрын
+winnelle Hey Stephen
@DaniellesWorldd
8 жыл бұрын
me too
@JakeyMeisty
8 жыл бұрын
But Steven isn't you; You are Winnelle
@diyah4436
8 жыл бұрын
Stephen is me
@EristhePlanet
8 жыл бұрын
STEVEN IS ME ON SO MANY LEVELS OH MY GOD
@Jo-chilin
8 жыл бұрын
same
@SophiaJosephine
8 жыл бұрын
same I stg
@annalancellotti128
8 жыл бұрын
Ah, true 😭😭
@eli8375
8 жыл бұрын
how
@alycias7345
8 жыл бұрын
Saaammmeee
@mynicknameisamber
6 жыл бұрын
the fact that he went from this to having one the most sucessful food shows on the internet (which he makes with his friends) in the SAME year is honestly so inspiring and he's one of my favorite people ever now
@amessagefromthepatriots
6 жыл бұрын
"It's hard to accept that people would wanna be my friend." That's crazy that he has such hangups about this stuff. I just assumed anyone who popular on KZitem was like super confident. Kind of humbling.
@shivangisingh7632
8 жыл бұрын
I think Keith is better than the social coach
@KamisKisses
8 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@yeet-yw1ff
8 жыл бұрын
YAS!
@JamesV84
8 жыл бұрын
+Shivangi Singh That's because the woman was just a life coach, where as Keith IS life :)
@lintrollertrash9874
8 жыл бұрын
+Shivangi Singh I live for Keith
@JPazer
8 жыл бұрын
+Shivangi Singh I don't think they showed the whole part though...
@Mary-fi3dg
7 жыл бұрын
Aww 'I really wanna talk to Zack evans' my heart melted
@vibewithjules6118
6 жыл бұрын
6:52 "I'm an extroverted introvert" like... an ambivert??? why does no one use this term?
@D_Dizzy_
6 жыл бұрын
I just want to hug Steven and never let go 😭😭😭
@sakurachristineito6428
8 жыл бұрын
Seriously this is the best buzzfed video so far!!
@ReplayedCo
8 жыл бұрын
ikr
@hodofarah2231
8 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to say really like it Dp
@MrJellybananaz
8 жыл бұрын
Really! I was just saying to myself "That was super cool!"
@devong.4216
8 жыл бұрын
TRUE ITS SO RELATABLE
@konekojunior8483
8 жыл бұрын
+Devon G. Agreed :(
@huskyrigatoni
8 жыл бұрын
Now I'm motivated to attempt to socialize but it's 3:00 AM, so. 😂
@bri8103
8 жыл бұрын
ha same tho
@GUITARTIME2024
8 жыл бұрын
ive given up. 45 yr old married loner and i crack myself up all the time, play guitar, etc. screw it! lol
@ivo8312
8 жыл бұрын
+raleighman3000 how'd you get married then if you've given up on socializing?
@GUITARTIME2024
8 жыл бұрын
+Annie married 20 yrs now. no need.
@nsebinyang
8 жыл бұрын
same
@31imagine13
5 жыл бұрын
literally from watching how comfortable he is with andrew and adam on worth it I had no idea he'd ever feel socially awkward. THAT MAKES ME SO HAPPY UHG
@himanisethi521
5 жыл бұрын
Zack, oh man, I would love to be friends with Zack, he is so handsome, sweet, and funny, just amazing❤️
@Kapadem
7 жыл бұрын
Even Kelsey who seemed to be the most carefree, confident girl, seemed very awkward when she said hello to Steven. That right there is where you feel isolated, because someone who appears to be able to get on with anybody seems uncomfortable around you.
@existencedefieslogic9658
7 жыл бұрын
Oh, indeed. From this video that girl seemed like she would rather avoid him altogether:/
@jacky79322
7 жыл бұрын
Lmao....I just realized that...but Steven way more social now I feel from his vids
@Abby-ft1bu
6 жыл бұрын
I almost cried when I saw that part 😂 & your comment fully explained why I felt that way
@sendmemeshoney336
6 жыл бұрын
exactlyy
@andrewtran2667
6 жыл бұрын
yup das me
@Kapadem
7 жыл бұрын
This video gives me such a huge respect and admiration for Zach.
@TheAndrealee01
6 жыл бұрын
IKR? We need to see more of Zach, sans the other Try Guys.
@HabituallyObsessed
6 жыл бұрын
I think she meant the other Zach, the blonde one.
@XxbrojiggyxX
6 жыл бұрын
Same asf maan need to do what he’s doing
@nikkimowry
5 жыл бұрын
2:24 “Hi Kelsey” “Hi Steven
@olgabrycht1446
6 жыл бұрын
Steven is effin cooool!! What the hell is he so worried about?
@beefynickels
7 жыл бұрын
FRIEND CRUSHES ARE SO REAL
@Kat-qr7hv
6 жыл бұрын
And hurt more than romantic crushes lol
@quantumleap4023
6 жыл бұрын
"Sorry I'm way out of your friend leauge."
@jaceharrison7936
6 жыл бұрын
im wondering if stephen and zac are still friending out
@laks102
6 жыл бұрын
"I only see you as a stranger." Stranger Zoned 🤣
@corbindallas1563
6 жыл бұрын
PanDiDo 005 NOOOOOO
@tatianamgibson
8 жыл бұрын
Ayyy where are my fellow introverts at?
@animeluvr61
8 жыл бұрын
Hey waddup! 😃
@DeeBug05
8 жыл бұрын
Hell yea! ✋
@Justinxoxo
8 жыл бұрын
Here
@chynna3050
8 жыл бұрын
there's a difference between being introverted and shy
@danielbudavari6079
8 жыл бұрын
I'm not😔. But that's perfectly fine😛!
@kevinriccy9590
6 жыл бұрын
Steven, if there's one thing i learned from 5 years of trying to earn someones friendship, is that you can't just go up to someone and be friends, you have to earn it. What i would suggest is be yourself, and show who you wish to be friends with your normal everyday personality. Remember show yourself. Thats my best advice.
@cole3053
5 жыл бұрын
This is pretty much the best video on the internet. Thank you very much Steven and Buzzfeed!
@andrewweiss1760
4 жыл бұрын
What about it was the most helpful? :)
@cole3053
4 жыл бұрын
Andrew Weiss They showcased what he meant when he said he was an awkward person. There were similarities between the way I perceive myself to be awkward and they way they made him look awkward. They also show that it can change and it doesn’t seem like he’s being inauthentic when he’s putting himself on the line to a potential friend.
@andrewweiss1760
4 жыл бұрын
@@cole3053 Isn't awkward something that's subjective though? And yes I definitely love meeting people and making friends :)
@cole3053
4 жыл бұрын
Andrew Weiss Yes, I would say if more than a few people think you’re awkward there’s a bit to be addressed. Socially, at least.
@andrewweiss1760
4 жыл бұрын
@@cole3053 Fair enough! Well I can definitely help if you're interested as I've helped people in similar situations before. Feel free to shoot me a message on instagram at andrewjweiss or on facebook at andrewjosefweiss if you want to connect more.
@papablesss4341
8 жыл бұрын
I have anxiety and I wish I had guts to do something like this! Good luck Steven! xoxo, the girl who still eats lunch in the bathroom alkn and is in college
@tochuknight5787
8 жыл бұрын
PROTIP
@Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913
8 жыл бұрын
+~KawaiiKitty~ Awww I wanna cry lol I'm a freshman girl in college too and so many nights are spent alone in my dorm. lol I don't mind a lot of the time but sometimes it sucks. I've really been trying to put myself out there though, and it's been working lately although it's so hard! I still don't have a solid group of friends but I a have a few pretty good ones and I'm sure I'll make more in time.
@vampireprincess7921
8 жыл бұрын
Same with me i dont have many people i am Close with
@vampireprincess7921
8 жыл бұрын
+Vampire Princess in in highschool is college different than high school Socially
@amycabrera9743
8 жыл бұрын
+~KawaiiKitty~ I totally get you, I spend many meals alone
@breannag9066
8 жыл бұрын
Favorite buzzfeed video so far. I can totally relate especially with having people to my place.
@supersaiyen20
8 жыл бұрын
Really?
@calmz2343
8 жыл бұрын
+Toto Babu really?
@cloemarie
8 жыл бұрын
Same I never have people over its embarrassing when people bring it up
@handlemeifyoucan144
8 жыл бұрын
yupp
@angelbabyOMG
8 жыл бұрын
Omg yes! I thought I was the only one who felt like him
@valeriaservin3549
6 жыл бұрын
Keith just seems like the best person ever. Everyone needs a Keith in their life. And Zach was super cool about this too. As an introvert myself I appreciate people who actually try to get to know me and have a conversation with me and not just write me off as a quiet person that they can’t be friends with.
@soniague_
6 жыл бұрын
I never realized how much goes into a conversation until I watched this.
@raine6821
8 жыл бұрын
I can start a conversation but the thing is, I can't keep a conversation going.
@3M1LY_h
8 жыл бұрын
same
@turtleneckson2745
8 жыл бұрын
How do you start it?? Wtf?
@Shery0204
8 жыл бұрын
The opposite here. I find it difficult to start a conversation, but easy to keep it going.
@TheGamezAM
8 жыл бұрын
I just don't know what to say to people in general xD
@alonzozimucha9249
8 жыл бұрын
OMW I have the opposite problem!
@insertusername7172
8 жыл бұрын
I connect with Steven on a spiritual level xD anyways anyone noticed the "social PROTIP"???
@am-wr6ws
8 жыл бұрын
PROTIP
@chipebi
8 жыл бұрын
PROTIP!
@savannahwalls7642
8 жыл бұрын
Aahhh Phandom , where you at??👍👍👍
@hellogoodbye179
8 жыл бұрын
PROTIP
@lydiabug2281
8 жыл бұрын
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@dallas.tx1320
5 жыл бұрын
stevens growth and development really warms my heart what the heck i’m s o f t
@mariag.8953
6 жыл бұрын
Love how Zach felt the need to repeat the word slowly XD
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