i agree that the positive side of being inconsiderate is caring for yourself coming from the opposite end where i would constantly put other people's comfort and needs over my own safety, health, and happiness... i need to be more inconsiderate
@karatheyaroxan6852
11 ай бұрын
I think you are right, sometimes you have to be inconsiderate (see attached quote) “If we’re constantly giving our time and energy to others without being intentional about giving time and energy to ourselves, we run the risk of becoming so drained that we put our physical, mental, and emotional health in jeopardy,” explains therapist Michelle Felder, LCSW.
@hillareads
11 ай бұрын
Me after setting a single boundary: entering my villain era!!! 🤪 But seriously, any time I feel some of these darker human emotions, I automatically feel like I'm a bad person. It's so hard to break out of that!
@blobaloo
11 ай бұрын
Omg I've been using the serenity now-insanity later strategy for so long I forgot where it was from! My problem wasn't anger, it was my brain torturing me by replaying all the negative things that happened to me. When I heard that line I remember thinking 'I'll take the insanity just give me a break now'. So over time I settled on saying the word 'delete' in my head to stop my negative train of thought and redirect to something else. It must be about 10 years now that I've been doing it and I'm so grateful that it works, it really saved me. However, at some point I started unwillingly saying the word out loud so my insanity is well on it's way 🤣
@cjaneg97
11 ай бұрын
I credit the "vid" for making me a b!tch. I used to push down my emotions to put everyone else first but now I prioritize me. I don't care if people find me rude because it usually means they were in the wrong.
@megan_mackenzie
11 ай бұрын
Really enjoying your podcasts💗
@juicyfruitswirl
11 ай бұрын
Love your podcast’s i appreciate you still posting, even if youtube isn’t what it used to be. 💖😊
@karatheyaroxan6852
11 ай бұрын
I think you can also have a little hate and inconsideration for those that are toxic in your life.
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