Timothy, I think you are handling your situation just the way you should-with maturity, dignity and genuine concern and love for your family. Sharing your feelings about personal matters with thousands of fans shows you to be a man of integrity. Much respect and praise for you!!
@user-vn1rz5vt5m
8 ай бұрын
Look y ou going be all right let God take it and pray
@kansaspeach7727
8 ай бұрын
Very mature, and good hearted young man. Praying with and for you for a favorable outcome. ❤
@albertareid8850
7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@maureenj.odonnell4438
7 ай бұрын
Amen!
@Laudon1228
7 ай бұрын
Oh honey, nobody knows how to grieve. It’s different for everybody, even with each loss. There’s no timetable to grief, no set order. you feel what you feel. Sometimes months or even years later something will hit you, remind you of something, and that grief is right there like it’s fresh. As long as you aren’t harming yourself or anybody else, nobody can or should dictate how you grieve. All any of us can do is share our loss, our love, our support. Peace be with you.
@6kat103
8 ай бұрын
Aw Timothy. We’re senior citizens and have loved your videos for ages. You are such a good kid, and try so hard to be the best you can be. We know you will come through this. Bless you and your family.
@carolmitchell7056
7 ай бұрын
Yes, we're your aunties in our heads. We love y'all and continue to send comfort and support ❤❤
@Haziesmom2023
7 ай бұрын
@@carolmitchell7056 Amen and Amen!!!
@stallar1
7 ай бұрын
Another senior citizen who loves your videos. You are such a gentleman- kind and honorable. Take care of yourself and your family. May 2024 bring you and yours health, happiness, and serenity. Amen.
@Kitcat5656
7 ай бұрын
Senior here too@@carolmitchell7056
@shirleyduffer2081
7 ай бұрын
You do not owe us an explanation to your absence. My mother disappeared for months and years at a time. She passed away from cirhossis in May 2020. I was in such denial of my grief that I had a nervous breakdown. I ignored my body and the signals that it was sending me for years prior to her passing which my therapist called anticipatory grief.I had to quit my teaching job because I was having panic attacks teaching virtually . I found your channel and you guys brought me so much joy during such a dark time in my life. Prioritize your mental health and give yourself grace during such a difficult time. I’m 49 and I wish I was as wise as you when I was 25. You and your family will be in my prayers❤
@patriciamharris5664
7 ай бұрын
❤ Hugs to Shirley
@traceythomas3571
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Young man, you are beyond your years. I will be praying for you and your family. Family is everything. Sending hugs and love. May God continue to bless you
@Issy2226-c6p
7 ай бұрын
@@traceythomas3571I agree with some of your message and I understand that your words come from being a caring person. But family is not everything. Many, many people have abusive or uncaring families so how do you think that statement affects them? Exactly. You didn’t think of them. I hope that you and everyone who reads this becomes more aware and sensitive to the fact that families are not great for everyone. In fact, they can be an awful and toxic influence. Please be a little more sensitive to people who may not have your life experience. However, I know that you are kind and compassionate but a little uninformed. Unfortunately many like yourself, generalise and make what is called “motherhood statements”. Meaning you generalise and use your own experience but don’t acknowledge that others can have radically different experiences, so that your statements become patronising and make them feel worse and not understood. I know that wasn’t your intent, but please learn a bit more. Wishing you well.
@cherylharrison6597
7 ай бұрын
You and those doing the reaction videos will be in my prayers.
@shirleyduffer2081
7 ай бұрын
@@patriciamharris5664 thank you♥️ that’s very kind of you.
@susannwilliams4197
7 ай бұрын
This is what it means to “honor your parents.” Thank you for this message and for your transparency Timothy. We understand. Somebody-older and younger-needed to hear this.
@WhitSpurgeon
8 ай бұрын
Family first, man. You've brought a lot of people a lot of joy. Take the time you need. You've got a ton of people rooting for you. Thank you for sharing and bringing some light into the world!
@emilyjenkins489
8 ай бұрын
God bless you and your family...may the New Year bring prosperity and good health for all of you. Hang in there!
@ClueSign
8 ай бұрын
Very sorry for your loss; it is brave of you to share this publicly. You don't owe your followers anything, just take care of yourself and yours.
@mistyzerkle6637
7 ай бұрын
You are so wise beyond your years. Prayers going up for you and your family. Please know my thoughts are with you. Sending hugs to you my friend!
@ThrifterPickerShipper
7 ай бұрын
I just stumbled upon your video, and I must say what a humble and kind young man you are. You go against the perceived normal in expressing love for a father that was absent and that is so commendable. Many blessings to you and I will be praying.
@Issy2226-c6p
7 ай бұрын
You are empathetic but really, praying? How useless. I will be peeling carrots. Useful? Exactly
@ThrifterPickerShipper
7 ай бұрын
@@Issy2226-c6p To each their own. But hey I bet you have really good eyesight!!
@HeckNo-r6p
6 ай бұрын
@@Issy2226-c6pjust leave the goddamn man alone,
@smileyface-hx3gh
7 ай бұрын
Tim, grief has no timeline and my heart goes out to you, Fred and your family. Take all the time you need to process your feelings. You are so smart and wise for only 25 years! Sending you love tonight.
@pamelayarborough9277
7 ай бұрын
I am just glad to see you back, Tim. This 56-year-old woman has loved you and your brother since I first saw your videos. Please take care of yourself, stay healthy physically, mentally, spiritually, and intellectually. You seem to be doing just that. I have so much respect for you. I have seen you go through so much, always with grace. You are sharing so much of yourself with the world. I'm also impressed that you are such a positive influence on others.
@lisacolbert5987
7 ай бұрын
Forgive me for jumping on your thread , but this 57yo woman has had Tim and his brother SO big in my heart since the first time they showed up in my suggested channels. I was so taken with them ! Their enthusiasm, their light, their poise, their wit ,,, ha! I could just go on and on with how much and in how many ways I was genuinely impressed with both of them. But I felt , at times, or rather I sensed a heaviness . A burden ? Something weighing on one, then the other and I’d just hoped they had someone to talk to. More than just each other. Of course it wasn’t any of my business, but my protective mom side kept popping up , lol , hey, when you share something as important and real as *music* with someone … especially “someones” as dear and rare as these two ? I just know that seeing that they’d dropped another gem for us would *without* *fail* raise my mood and put a smile on my face. Same when it was only Timothy. I’m guessing they grew on you too ?! And now, with this one, I just want to let them know what incredible, what strong, what rare souls they both are and that every other person that commented here sees them as well. And to Timothy, it’s an honor that you shared at least some of what’s going on with you. You’re an amazing man with tremendous strength. I bright light. 💚👏🏽🫶🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@lisacolbert5987
7 ай бұрын
Also Timothy , I forgot to write out your name properly the first time…
@StaceyElliott-we8ni
7 ай бұрын
🙏
@pamelayarborough9277
7 ай бұрын
@@lisacolbert5987I just turned 56, so I get the mom instinct part especially. I'm so proud of them both!❤
@gloriaerol7675
7 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear this, Much respect to you because you seem to navigate it a moment at a time which in reality is all we can do I'am praying for you & your loved ones.
@belizehouseforrent6138
8 ай бұрын
You're a young man. This is just how life goes. Ups and downs. It's always how we come out on the other side of it. Lean on those that care for you.
@someawsomeguy100
7 ай бұрын
I marvel at how you were able to share such a personal video with so much dignity and grace. You didn’t owe anyone an explanation. You may not have had a role model for dealing with life’s most painful situations, but you found strength and wisdom inside yourself. That’s extraordinary at just 25 years old. Your unwavering love for your dad shows that you have so much integrity, love and compassion. I hope your dad is safe and that you will be reunited. Having you and your brother as sons is probably the greatest thing he ever did. I’m sure he loves you both more than you could ever imagine. ♥️
@brendatomlinson
7 ай бұрын
Your eloquent words have touched me much more than I could ever express. Thank you for your grace and kindness.
@someawsomeguy100
7 ай бұрын
@@brendatomlinson Thank you very much for sharing that. You are so kind. It means. a lot.
@Vanilla-wp8zq
7 ай бұрын
Tim, I’m very sorry to hear about your father. I was a substance abuse counselor for a long time and worked with so many people in situations similar to your dad. How lucky your dad is to have a young man that loves him despite his faults. I really hope he’s safe and getting help somewhere. Addiction is such a beast. Sending you and your family love and prayers for his safety and that he is found soon. You are an important person and this world is better with you in it ❤
@StellaKBlack
7 ай бұрын
There is no "right" way to grieve. It is your process. My heart goes out to you and your family. I love the emotion you show listening to music and will be glad to hear more when you are ready.
@debraleasure8676
8 ай бұрын
I love you, Tim! I lost my dad last year on December 31st and my brother died in his sleep October 16th. I retired from a job I dearly loved the end of June so feelings of loss have been my companions almost every day. I’ll keep you and your family in my heart.
@rv3853
7 ай бұрын
My deepest condolences for your losses. You seem like a genuinely nice person 🙏🏻
@Kristen71
7 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your losses and transitions, Debra. ❤️🩹🙏🕊️
@sanstorm2728
8 ай бұрын
I completely understand what you’re going through. My daughter has been missing for 4 years and we just found out she’s been arrested. Not once but twice in another state. It’s all due to her drug addiction and her untreated mental illness. Not only am I grieving for her but, her two sons that I adopted, are and have been grieving her being missing and now all the prison time she’s facing. You’re doing what you should be doing. Talking it out and emotionally processing it. Thank you for sharing your journey and your emotions with us.
@faithtvonline
8 ай бұрын
I pray for your mental peace and your daughter's healing.
@jhgandy2653
7 ай бұрын
Wow 4 years!! You'd think she would've called or wrote you all.
@maureenj.odonnell4438
7 ай бұрын
Your story is mine, except, it's been 7 yrs. now. My daughter walked-out on an 8 year-old daughter. Time helps, the pain will never leave. Hang in there, it gets better!
@ritab5153
7 ай бұрын
I'm so very sorry for your loss. As a Mom, I cannot imagine what you are going through. 🫂
@DaisyAnnabelle65
7 ай бұрын
🙏✝️❤️
@dreamweaver5048
6 ай бұрын
Timothy….many are worried about you. This video is from ONE month ago. Please check in to let us know that you’re ok. Don’t need to post a video. Just a quick comment to let us know how you’re doing. Your KZitem family loves you and is here for you. ❤️
@ellengiallonardo93
7 ай бұрын
Timothy, these things happen in all families. You are such an honorable young man. You really have deep feelings and compassion. You are so right about working out situations. You are brave to post this. Please know that your instincts are pure. This is not an easy situation.
@healthybodz1969
7 ай бұрын
I'm really feeling your pain. My dad died recently from complications from alcoholism and its hard. Sending prayers for all of you. I pray you find your dad and the right people will surround him to help him heal x
@lynnestamey7272
7 ай бұрын
Timothy, I'm just a little old lady and what I can do is tell you that I'm sending prayers for you and your family and father. I hope that he is found safe.🙏🙏🙏
@jeandease5709
7 ай бұрын
Your empathy for your father says a lot about the good person you are.
@SiobhanOK
7 ай бұрын
Your advice about reconciliation with your parent is spot on. When I was 18 and oh so smart, I shut my dad out of my life. For 10 years, finally decided the situation needed to change. He welcomed me back and I was humbled - we made things right between us. 9 months later he had a heart attack and died in his kitchen. My sadness was lessened because I knew he loved me, no matter what. Pay attention to this people.
@shirley2447
7 ай бұрын
Your a super angel...we all struggle it's a lifelong lesson with a lot of tears and smiles....we adjust...my heart goes out to you, it's not easy, bit that's why we are here to experience the physical realm in all its beauty and pain...🌹🫶🌈
@whathandleUtalkabt
15 күн бұрын
Gen Z are canceling their parents with no explanation when they are 18.
@lorrainegatzke1048
8 ай бұрын
Timothy, I admire how you are responding with love and empathy to this very challenging situation. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 🙏💖
@iluvphillip13
8 ай бұрын
As a parent of adult kids your age & older, I feel proud that you took the time to share your experiences of the last month and leaving such an important message, to communicate with parents (and parental role models, family, friends you trust). Well done, and thank you. My heart is with you during your struggles, and knowing you are becoming a better man every day.
@tinahardy9361
7 ай бұрын
Dude.....I am so very sorry. Yes we have missed you, but we completely understand. Prayers and hope for you and your family. It is not easy for anyone right now, prayers sweetheart. What a amazing video and the message was very loud. Thank you. Much ❤️ .
@skateladysybil
7 ай бұрын
I'm almost 53 and I've loved you and your brother since I found y'all during COVID. You're an awesome young man and your maturity is amazing. Continue to pray and keep your peace. ❤
@belizehouseforrent6138
8 ай бұрын
We're here for you.
@margaretkirlin2448
8 ай бұрын
Stay strong, young man. Prayers for you and your family. Remember he is still your father. Play some good music. Music heals all. Smile. Dance. This too shall pass. Ya hear? You stay real and you stay you. You the only you you got! Smile big and always look up! Long time listener.
@heathermeza4406
7 ай бұрын
There's no 'right way' to worry or grieve. A person can only do exactly what you are doing: breathing, taking one moment at a time, letting people that love y'all know you aren't exactly okay right now. ( but you're taking a slow route to being okay) We are glad you shared your load because now we can pray for you both and your dad. Hold on young man.
@MzBettyK
7 ай бұрын
Timothy, I am incredibly sorry for the things you are going through with your father missing and your poor health in December. Thanks for sharing because we all care about you and Fred. Just know that your followers are praying. 🙏🏽
@diamondstud322
8 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear you had such a rough month, it’s good to see you again. ❤
@joannedechevalier7335
7 ай бұрын
Timothy, you are handling this exactly as you should be. There is never a game plan or right way to feel, be or do. Just keep doing what FEELS right for you and your family and don’t worry about the rest of anything. All of that will take care of itself and work out; including your channel. People out here love you and your family and will still be here whenever you’re READY. I’m a 65 year old, retired woman and I admire you for taking the time to keep family first. Stay on your good path. I love that you said you love your parents equally, that you respect your mom more, BUT (and you repeated it!) you love them both equally. I hope and pray that you all find your dad and he is safe. Take care and do NOT stress over this channel. We’ll still be here. ❤
@anitabracy7533
7 ай бұрын
Please write a book for young people
@kellymullen1926
7 ай бұрын
Timothy, please be proud of the young man that you are and the man that you are becoming. Sending you love and prayers, today & always. xoxo
@tslovak1
7 ай бұрын
Sending prayers for your father to be found safe and whole. Take time for yourself and your family. Thank you for being real and sharing such raw emotions. We will be here when you are ready. ❤
@XianForBeauty83
8 ай бұрын
Be gentle with yourself, brother…thank you for being so real….you can start fresh in Jan…just glad you’re healing and I will keep your dad and family in my prayers….you wish everyone well and as a kind person and Christian it makes sense you would wish him well and love him anyway, we wish him well always and we thank God for your peacemaking heart. Bless you always wishing you a bright fresh new year! Sending love and healing hugs always. If you need anything just let us know 💖 🙏💖
@dianeouellette3571
8 ай бұрын
Beautiful words ❤
@beaverd55
8 ай бұрын
You are such an amazing young man. You don't have to apologize to us for needing time to heal, both physically and emotionally. Thank you for all the joy you have brought us, and I look forward to more in the future. Much love and support to you and your family. ✌🏼❤
@patriciadavidson7142
7 ай бұрын
Timothy, Thank you for finding the courage to share your tender beautiful heart. You may be 25, but your words of wisdom are ageless. You understand unconditional love. Keep your heart's truth as your anchor. You are a gift to us all. Holding your family in my heart.
@marilynmarcus9954
7 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Stay up, Tim!! Do just what you're doing. We're here for you and the fam!!
@VickiCampbell-1216
8 ай бұрын
You've got a beautiful heart, Tim. ❤ As a mom, I appreciate your love and respect for both of your parents. I didn't grow up with my dad, but found him late in life before he passed away. My mom passed away too in 2020. Prayers 🙏 and hugs 🤗. I hope you find your dad safe and healthy. 🙏❤🙏
@Leks3777
8 ай бұрын
You are such a kind soul! You were raised to be a good young man!
@donnamulholland7177
7 ай бұрын
You seem like such an incredibly smart man. I’m 62 and neither of my parent’s are alive. Lost my mom in 2017. She lived with me and my husband, and we cared for her. When she passed, I just never got over it. Grieving, it’s a difficult thing. I’ve had so much loss in my life, that I my mind can no longer accept loss. I do what my heart tells me to do, and I follow it. I don’t think that grieving is something that you learn, but an experience. Everyone grieves differently and in their own time and way. I didn’t know my father until one week before my wedding day. I was 23 then. Even though he wasn’t in my life for the most part, I loved him. I get everything that you are saying and can feel your emotions. I can only say that keeping your faith and trusting in God will help you through everything that you’re going through. I pray that your Dad is found safely 🙏 Hapoy New Year 🎉
@One_gruntled_woman
7 ай бұрын
Your message needs to be heard by everyone. You are a remarkable young man. I am so sorry you are going through this. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
@balancedL
7 ай бұрын
You speak with grace and wisdom. I’m very sorry about your father. 💜 As a grief counselor I want to say this type of loss can be particularly painful because of not knowing why. Feel free to reply if you want further info. Take care, and be very kind to yourself!
@kelliguyton8221
8 ай бұрын
I’m 54 and I’m still learning too. Pretty sure you’re handling with more grace than I would have at 25. ❤This song makes me think of this situation: Our love (Don’t throw it all away) Ot was written by The Bee Gees for their little bro who was lost in his addiction. Prayers up!
@MegensBay
8 ай бұрын
Yes, I remember that song, they lost their brother Andy I believe.
@paigebarnett5753
7 ай бұрын
Timothy, I can relate to this on so many levels. One, your strength and innate wisdom is a gift. Two, I’m glad you’re able to talk about this, bc it helps you process and three it will help you access your true feelings and move through the grief. And at the end of the day, love is all we have. Keep on loving. Peace be with you.
@monicastephens7345
7 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you got so sick, send you love, healing light and strength. I’m so sorry about you Dad, you and I went through the same situation, he left us when I was in the 5th grade. I am a grandma now. He passed away two years ago and I was sad so very sad, I had no anger for him he is my dad, and I love him. I will light a candle and say a prayer for you and your dad.🙏🏽
@babeage
8 ай бұрын
Prayers up for you and your family. I am so sorry this is your current situation, and yet you are ministering to others to help them through this world. You are a REMARKABLE spirit. This message is so powerful. Thank you for this TRUTH, HONESTY, VULNERABILITY, and WISDOM. Praying for peace for all of your family's hearts. Appreciate you. Thank you for this. Thank you for being so generous during this difficult time for you. You're amazing.
@dianeouellette3571
8 ай бұрын
So well said❤
@chefmarianrene5251
7 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@MsPhilodox
7 ай бұрын
You've brought a lot of joy to a lot of people, man. My heart is so full of sadness for you. Being worried for someone you love, and feeling helpless, is the worst. Such a beautiful and heartfelt message. We'll be here when you're back -- don't rush. A channel can always be rebuilt; nothing tops family.
@terrijenkin4657
7 ай бұрын
Young man. From a mum, thank you. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable to your community. So many men of all ages have these same emotions through hard times but are not taught that it is so very okay to express them. Or even how to. You did a very powerful thing on this video. Im sorry your going through a harsh time in life my thoughts are with you through your healing. So from a Mum of 4 in Australia a big hug to you. May your tomorrows be a little easier.
@rosshross9419
7 ай бұрын
My mother passed on Dec. 16, 2023, she was 90 years old, and it appears she passed in her sleep. We were notified CPR was being performed shortly after 7:00 am. I am a Native man and I have long talked to counselors and made use of support groups. It helps to process and express our emotions. Emotional health is very important. I am getting older, but I am not done yet. There are still new experiences to live, places to go, things to see.
@TheWriterNW
8 ай бұрын
I'm here for you! You're good people! You help so many people just talking about things. I hope you know how many lives you've impacted! You and your brother are special people. This world is a better place because of you!
@dianeouellette3571
8 ай бұрын
So well said❣️
@sharonjarrett8953
8 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry about your father I pray he be found safe, We understand that’s so hard to go though, Everyone goes though things Tim, that’s your father we will still be here for you and Fred, and your family, I will be praying for your father and his safety and return, I’m always here for you guys, praying for healing for your father also, he’s going though something in his life. Take your time, life brings ups and downs, I’m glad your feeling better also🙏🏽😊 everything going to be okay 🙏🏽
@fatovamingus
7 ай бұрын
Because of your humility and willingness to share emotional reactions to music and your life, you are changing OUR lives. You are an earthen vessel carrying a priceless treasure. You were beautiful enough for that gift when it was given And so even when bad or confusing things come your way , you will handle them beautifully. Even if you don't know it at the time. Thank you for sharing this because it reminded me of something and it seems it reminded others of something. You are always giving something... God bless you!!
@marilynappleton5859
7 ай бұрын
Tim, I see times are difficult for you right now. I'm glad you are feeling better. It has been said that people, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed. Never throw out anyone. Your outlook on your love for your father is admirable! He is a part of the reason you're here. This is tough, but you're tougher. Hang in there and stay faithful that things will work according to God's plan! Be well. Remember, your true followers understand and we will be waiting when you are ready to return. Blessings and peace with you and your brothers! ❤
@Rachel-sg5ub
7 ай бұрын
Beautiful words ❤
@highpsi11
8 ай бұрын
Don't worry at all about being answerable to people online, even if you feel a connection to all of those strangers. Everyone needs time to deal with their health, both physical and emotional. Take your time, you're allowed to grieve, if that's what you're dealing with. Each person, regardless of how close they are to you, is also a soul, and a spirit. And those relationships are the ones that last, when physical things fall away. Take care of yourself, and try to enjoy those who are still there for you.
@azscratchers8596
8 ай бұрын
Sorry you're having to go though this Timothy. Sending you prayers. Donald..😢
@lydiagarcia2968
7 ай бұрын
Tim, no apologies necessary. God has you and your family in His hands. I'm sorry it's been a rough month for you. Take care of yourself. We're here praying for y'all. Do what you can or don't do anything at all until you're ready. Peace be with you!
@sharonjarrett8953
7 ай бұрын
Tim and Fred I’m praying that you found your father, I’m still praying for you guys, Happy New Year’s I pray that 2024 brings lots of happiness and wonderful, Blessings in both of your lives and your family lives, Stay strong and pray believe have faith in God everything going to workout 🙏🏽🥹🎆🎉
@jeanrichardson878
7 ай бұрын
You are so unbelievable. Your attitude is inspiring. You're not walking around with a chip on your shoulder (and you could). You really have a gift for speaking your truth. You are a treasure.
@laliz7025
7 ай бұрын
You have a lot of support, young man. We're all here for you.
@samanthalopez7529
7 ай бұрын
I hope you’ve gotten some news about your dad. Praying for you and your entire family. Addiction is a horrible disease, and I’m sure he wishes he could have been who you deserved him to be, but addiction steals so much from so many. Hoping you get answers soon if you haven’t already.
@andreajack1234
7 ай бұрын
Continue to be brave son. You are doing really well in this situation. All strength to you and family ❤
@thebes50
8 ай бұрын
Timothy, to be a young man you speak with a whole lot of wisdom. Life gets like that sometimes, the highs and then the lows. Sometimes we don't know what to do. But each trial teaches us how to get stronger and smarter, and gives us experience to deal with what's coming in the future. No matter if it's good or bad. I am so glad to hear you speak well of your parents. Life gets to them too. We've got to remember they are human and not perfect. They make mistakes as well. Sometimes it hurts us, but we have to forgive them, learn how we can do better and move on to make our lives better. I will send up some serious prayers for your Dad. Just remember, it ain't over until God says so! And just one more thing, I am really Proud of you Timothy! You are handling things with grace and serious maturity. Your KZitem family is in your corner! Keep up the good work! Love Ya❤
@tammytellmetrue
7 ай бұрын
God Bless you and your family Tim. I'm 63, and you are far wiser, and more emotionally open than most people my age. I've been watching you from the beginning. You have grown into a man to be proud of.
@eileengabellini6935
7 ай бұрын
Wishing you wellness. Really sorry to hear your dad reported missing. He is your dad no matter his presence or lack thereof. Holding you and your dad and all your family in highest intent.🙏never knew my paternal grandpa. Not even his name. I have always missed him and wanted to know him.
@Mary-xo7ue
7 ай бұрын
It is probablly one of the hardest things to go through. Im doing it right😢taking care of my mom. Last year i took her to her sister in laws funeral. My mom had a ischemic stroke. I watched my aunts casket go out one door of the church and my mom on a stretcher out the other door😢its been a living hell since. She has dementia and some braindamage from it all. Forgot how to make coffee, fix food, etc..😢it is literally destroying me inside to take care of her.
@gmhefner1
8 ай бұрын
Aw Timothy, you have such a good heart! Yes it sounds like Dec was a very tough month, and thats totally ok to take whatever time you need. Very glad you're feeling better - that was a rough one! And I pray that your father is found and is safe. And thank you for being so open and honest... it shows real maturity and you should be proud of yourself. Sending you and your family much love and hope for 2024! ❤
@tranquilityseeker581
7 ай бұрын
Timothy - You are a sweet, kind compassionate young man. It's important that you take care of yourself mentally, physically and emotionally. You talking out loud is great. And you're helping more people by talking about it out loud!. Bless you.
@kathyyoung5811
7 ай бұрын
There are books on the five stages of grief and Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross was the first, that I’m aware of, to recognize and publish books on the information. There is another book by Granger E Westberg called Good Grief that I’ve heard is very good. Surprisingly, there is an “art” so to speak on getting through grief. Learning that “art”has helped me in many different types of loss, not just death. Prayers for you and your family.
@earthmother1917
7 ай бұрын
Timothy, I fell in love with you and your brother the first time i saw the first video sent to me. I am a 72 year old woman that is hurting for you and your family. You have a load on your shoulders. The hope of always making a relationship right is a comfort. Like you said, don't put it off. You are taking the time to grieve and to think your way through this situation. I want to offer my service. As strange as it may seem, I am a Medium. I talk with loved ones that have crossed over. It isn't a bad thing, it is always a loving thing. I have helped others. I do not charge...I AM ALWAYS FREE. I can't guarantee anything, but I might be able to help.
@brianevans2595
8 ай бұрын
Young man what you are doing by sharing and posting is cathartic. That in itself will help you heal. I have been following you and your brother for a couple of years now and your blog has helped me through some rough times in my life. What you shared was genuine and raw. Got the utmost respect for you. You and your family are in my prayers. Take care of yourself lil bro
@aqueenceereid4249
7 ай бұрын
You actually don't owe us an explanation for why you were gone. We are always gonna be here!!!! Prayers for you and your family at this time. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@Laudon1228
7 ай бұрын
Oh honey, nobody knows how to grieve. It’s different for everybody, even with each loss. There’s no timetable to grief, no set order. you feel what you feel. Sometimes months or even years later something will hit you, remind you of something, and that grief is right there like it’s fresh. As long as you aren’t harming yourself or anybody else, nobody can or should dictate how you grieve. All any of us can do is share our loss, our love, our support. Peace be with you. ( I reposted my reply from nine days ago because I accidentally posted this in the thread of someone else’s reply.)
@rorygallagher6071
7 ай бұрын
I’m a 47 year old mom of 2. My mom died when I was 6, and I never met my dad since he left while she was pregnant . still with the same man I started dating at 16 yrs old(nearly 32 yrs together so far). That lil intro is just showing an example of how broad your audience is…. Young,old and everything in between. we all love your channel. Yes we love the content but we do care about you as a person….after watching so many videos we get to see your personality( and what a great personality it is.)and we care about what happens to you. I’m sorry to hear this. Don’t say you’re sorry to bring anyone down , you’re not. You’re being honest/real and I respect you sharing your feelings. Unloading those feelings is a good way of coping. I don’t wanna pretend I know what you’re going through, so all I can do is send love and prayers to you and your entire family. Never worry about how long you take to post, we will be here when you’re ready, take care of yourself/family and do what you need to do. I’m sorry this is how the New Year is starting . Though you do not have to explain anything, the fact that you do shows how much you truly care about those who watch your videos. That means a lot and also helps others to know they can be open about anything they might be dealing with.
@kathy2122
8 ай бұрын
I'm sorry you're going through this, Tim. I hope you find your dad soon.
@simplysing
8 ай бұрын
You help alot of people with your videos Timothy. Seriously. You have shown an openness to all music and all people. You are worth alot to many people. Focus on your needs and know we are pulling for you.
@tracylee55
6 ай бұрын
Timothy, I am a 68 year old white woman who has watched your delightful videos for a few years. You & your brother Fred are wonderful, compassionate, faithful, young men. You cross all boundaries to reach out and that is brave. You love your father, and it shows. Prayers for your whole family. 🙏🏼 ❤❤
@MadelinePrager
7 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. You are mature way beyond your years.. I’m a 83 year old woman and I’ve seen a lot and you have a lot to give the world. Try not to be discouraged and move forward. I know you will have a wonderful wonderful life❤ 2:42
@lindatoliver2267
7 ай бұрын
Don't let anyone tell you how to feel about your dad. You love him, and you want him to be okay. There's nothing wrong with that at all. I sincerely hope you find peace.
@frannypants8929
8 ай бұрын
Rooting for you. Sorry it’s been tough. It’s great to see you. Glad you took some time for you. Much love 😊
@zinarhone7642
7 ай бұрын
Your dad is part of you. Without him, you wouldn't be here. I love how you honor him. Even though he wasn't there as you grew up, you're not blaming him. That's very mature and loving of you. You're in my prayers, Tim. Take things one day at a time. On hard days, take things minute by minute. Right now, in this very minute, you're reading comments from people in a community who love and support you.
@carolborich1654
7 ай бұрын
Tim, you are so kind and thoughtful. You have such a wonderful way of dealing with life.
@rayfrench1971
8 ай бұрын
i feel you, young man. my father died 4 i was even born. personally, i wouldn't have cared what kind of man he was. i would have been glad to at least see him, then get to know him. we as the children don't really have an idea of what happened between our parents that made the other one go missing. i don't know about any of you, but i cannot hate someone i never knew. think about that. we all have a story that deserves to be heard.
@RetNemmoc555
7 ай бұрын
My dad died four months before I was born. It made you a better man, Ray. I am who I imagine my father to have been. He lives in you, as my father lives in me.
@rayfrench1971
7 ай бұрын
@deborahdowns5198 absolutely. and thank you.
@heartnsoullove
8 ай бұрын
Tim, you are such a humble and meek person. You didn’t have to explain your situation to us, but thank you for sharing and being vulnerable with us. Don’t change who you are. I’m glad you are feeling better, and I am praying for your dad’s safety and deliverance. ❤
@aprilschrader8833
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. It is incredibly hard to lose a loved one. I was estranged from my father for 15 years. I reconciled with him and he was able to attend my wedding. 3 months later he died from COVID. Grieving is a process. Big hugs and look forward to your new videos!
@000_x9
7 ай бұрын
I feel like your gonna be alright because you talk about your thoughts and concerns and you have some faith and family support. I dont know your dads s story but if he struggles with addiction, December is a very rough time. Pray he reemerges in January and touches base with yall. Thank you for your honesty and sharing God Bless.
@dianeouellette3571
8 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry Tim. Prayers out to you and your family. Take all the time you need to focus on you. Your virtual family is always here for you. 💖
@kathistoops1012
8 ай бұрын
You are a good man with a big heart. We understand, you be kind to yourself. We will be here. Prayers for you and your father. 🙏🙏❤️
@elapet869
7 ай бұрын
You have such great wisdom, and maturity. Praying for you, and that your father is found safe.
@BLFulle
7 ай бұрын
i was saved 40 years ago. I was the first Christian in my family. I watch you and your brother, when he was with you, because you had a solid foundation in the Lord. I worried the music you were being exposed to would would hinder your walk with God. I can't tell you how sorry I am that your father is missing. I'm also amazed at the loving way you speak about him. It's painful to see a parent in that situation but don't stop praying for him. Pray for angels to protect him and for God to show him His greatness. Pray that he would be set free from what ever substance he's on. Lord, I lift up this family to You and ask for your intervention. Hear the prayers of the young man and his family. I join him and ask for the safe return of his father and for his salvation. I Christs name. People, please reply by joining me in prayer for this family.
@janiceowolabi2717
8 ай бұрын
Praying for you young man. Everyone at every age needs to hear this message.
@theresaanderson8273
8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤ Sweetheart no apology or explanation needed. You're missed yes. But I understand my prayers are with you and your brothers in hopes that you find your father safely and healthy.
@barbaraduval9540
7 ай бұрын
You're a fine young man. Sorry you were worried. I hope He shows up. Glad you and Fred are ok. Peace Hope for a Happy New Year! & Renewed Relationships
@vickieschofield6546
7 ай бұрын
Son you are so good. I’m so glad you’re feeling better. Praying your dad is found a live and well 🙏🏾. I’m happy that at 25 you are able to express your feelings bcuz we are here for you. No one should be judging bcuz we all go thru things. Thanks for being transparent and honest. You are doing a great job just by talking thru your feeling. Many blessings to you and your family in the new year.
@Iris-919
8 ай бұрын
So happy you're feeling better. I'm very sorry to hear about your dad. Sending prayers for his safe return 🙏🏾 Wishing you peace & happiness in the new year! 💫
@sylviasolis
8 ай бұрын
It’s understandable that you need to take this time for family. We still will be here. Prayers to you and your family.
@shawnykaltenbach9713
7 ай бұрын
So sorry about your dad missing. It’s good not to isolate but I am still learning that one myself. Even better you reached out to your community here. We got your back little brother… much love to you and your family…❤
@scalaman2246
7 ай бұрын
You're an AWESOME kid.... praying for you and your family.
@dianadunlap7242
8 ай бұрын
I'm deeply sorry for the family stuff you're going through. I can't begin to imagine how you feel and what you're dealing with. Sending prayers for you and your family. God bless you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@tobisimmons9889
8 ай бұрын
We are here to lift each other up during difficult times. Thanks for sharing your story.
@cmay6944
7 ай бұрын
Tim, I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. I can't imagine how hard that would be. Prayers that he is found safe. Prayers for you and the rest of your family as well. You are a very good young man with a very good head on your shoulders and a very loving heart. God bless you.
@lilangelbaby8706
7 ай бұрын
My dad passed away last year a week and a day after his birthday from cancer. Granted….he wasn’t the best off and on throughout my life….but at the end of the day….he was still my dad. And I loved him with all my heart. I just wish we could go back and I be able to ask him why he did the stuff to me throughout my life. But like I said….at the end of the day….he was still my dad and I loved him with all my heart. And honestly….I’m closer to my mom cuz she was there with me and through everything I’ve been through
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