Exactly!! There is no reason to bring down other women.
@Anu-hy2rb
11 ай бұрын
Whatever cool/brave thing a human can do is boxed up under masculinity title, for example, doing something as you said is called being "man of your words", as if only man will do the things that they said, So if a cool/brave person(of any gender) want to express themselves is guided to be masculine and ditch feminine things. Problem is not with those girls, but our rooted sexism. I've seen very bold girls adopt to tomboy look inorder to express their personality since every inch of being a girl is considered as an insult.
@kyrak.4143
11 ай бұрын
There is. If she's obj. ctifying herself and perpetuating the pat. tiachry then CRITICIZE her
@madisonpolasky6159
11 ай бұрын
We women need to stick together, we need each other, it's a dangerous world we live in and we don't need to fight.
@kyrak.4143
11 ай бұрын
@@madisonpolasky6159 Yeah protect yourself and other women by speaking up when a male bothers you. Don't stay quiet for "your own sAfeTy" then whine on the internet
@mlem6951
11 ай бұрын
@@kyrak.4143why so salty?
@dawnborealis3557
11 ай бұрын
I love this! It's so true. There is no problem with not wanting to wear makeup and liking traditionally masculine things, but putting down other girls and making it ever so clear that you are SOOOOOO different is ridiculous.
@ClaraDao
11 ай бұрын
100%!!! 🙌🙌💕
@_khloe
11 ай бұрын
THIS! This is it right here, you stated everything perfectly and I hope everyone sees this
@madisonpolasky6159
11 ай бұрын
At the end of the day we really aren't all that different anyway. :p
@waffleaffle231
11 ай бұрын
A someone who doesn't wear makeup, has very short hair, and doesn't dress in a traditionally feminine way most of the time, I 100% agree. There's no need to prove anything, it should just be personal preference! Now I just have to remind myself I can still be feminine with short hair and no makeup...
@With_cuttie
11 ай бұрын
@@ClaraDao Pls replay me😢 I love you bestie😊
@cosmospicyyy
10 ай бұрын
i was this girl. then the Barbie movie came out, and it completely changed how i think of girls. people say it’s “overrated”, but for me it was a blessing. the Barbie movie also helped my brothers! they kept sexualising people(including me 😢) but we watched this movie together at the cinema and they’re way more respectful now.
@nottzo
9 ай бұрын
Your brothers sexualized you??? Oml im glad they stopped doing that thats shitty
@ailyaishere
9 ай бұрын
ur brothers sexualizing u is messed up💀
@cosmospicyyy
9 ай бұрын
@@ailyaishere THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYINNN they don't get ittt
@emily.33jk3
9 ай бұрын
@@ailyaisherenah its just MAD WEIRD…
@geager2
9 ай бұрын
Like... in an incestuous way? Yikes
@BeeKisses
11 ай бұрын
I’m not like other girls, I’m actually 12 angry squirrels in a playsuit
@no1gracieabramsfan13
11 ай бұрын
relatable
@strawberry4700
11 ай бұрын
Real… 😕
@420.rose_
11 ай бұрын
wait...me too 😞
@melthefallen4558
11 ай бұрын
Found ‘em
@victoriandino
11 ай бұрын
I read 12 angry squirrels as if it were the movie 12 angry men 😭
@HeisenbergFam
11 ай бұрын
Being "im not like other girls" girl and hating other girls for attention is one hell of a dangerous drug
@NenezHeartz
11 ай бұрын
Bro💀
@ilovegoldfishhh
11 ай бұрын
@@NenezHeartz I mean it is. Those type of girls love attention, especially from guys 🤷🏽♀️
@NenezHeartz
11 ай бұрын
@@ilovegoldfishhh no I’m saying bro cuz this guy is everywhere..
@ilovegoldfishhh
11 ай бұрын
@@NenezHeartz oh
@Kkwaka_
11 ай бұрын
your literally following everyone these days.. STOP.
@TrashcanIzen
10 ай бұрын
Here's something true. "I'm not like other girls..." "Because there's only one of me and I'm unique." (Good lord I didn't expect it to get this much likes 😨😨😨 but Ty)
@10_MnM.
9 ай бұрын
Underrated comment!!❤❤
@Inkie_pinkie_ponkie_sunwonki
9 ай бұрын
You are only one in this world so you are rare too.
@Concaine4kidz
9 ай бұрын
FR
@DonnieLeo-je2vr
9 ай бұрын
I love this comment
@ChildofJesus-d6s
9 ай бұрын
I love it! I love this!!!❤❤
@happying_anne
11 ай бұрын
now this is what a pick me girl REALLY MEANS.
@_sushiisdead
10 ай бұрын
Cringe
@Serena.here.
10 ай бұрын
@@_sushiisdeadyou're cringe for litterly just going on every reply and calling them cringe thinking it would do anything why do I keep seeing you in every comment I wanna reply to
@Serena.here.
10 ай бұрын
That's very true you're hating on your own gender just for a males attention and usually they still don't get a males attention so what's the point?????
@arexicc
10 ай бұрын
@@_sushiisdeadNo girls?
@_sushiisdead
10 ай бұрын
@@Serena.here. Lmao stalker
@Elizabeth-jo8ft
11 ай бұрын
Im ashamed to say this but I used to be this girl, and the truth behind it was because I was insecure. I didnt want anyone to look better than me because it made me feel bad about myself. I had very low self-esteem and I was depressed. Now, Im recovering from my depression, anxiety and Im doing much better than before. I feel like Im a better person than before. For anyone out there whos going through a tough time, my advice to you is to seek for help and not put your stress upon others, its not going to make any difference
@MiabellaFlores
10 ай бұрын
Happy your recovering❤
@SocialExperiment232
10 ай бұрын
This is exactly why I wish the hate train for “pick me girls” would cool it a little. There’s no need to bully them because usually they became that way due to their own trauma. I was like this in school but it was because I was painfully bullied by girly girls so I wanted to be nothing like them and wanted then to stop bullying me.
@pro_idol_Leeknow
10 ай бұрын
@@SocialExperiment232but this has also lead to people thinking that masculine hobbies/habits are cooler than feminine ones which is very idk disturbing ig
@shadowloves_roblox
10 ай бұрын
@@SocialExperiment232what you are is a tomboy I think. They are actually super fun people to be around, but there’s a difference bc they don’t bring people down
@SocialExperiment232
10 ай бұрын
@@shadowloves_roblox i mean in school i did end up kinda avoiding the “girly girls” but it was cause they really were mean to me. When one of my guy friends told me he was dating one of the mean popular girls I did try to talk him out of it because this girl had once laughed and told me I look like a transgender (only because in tall and dress “boyish”) literally out of nowhere just to be mean. He didn’t care tho cause she was hot. I have grown and I now know that not all girly girls are like this but from having such traumatic experiences in my adolescence I feel bad for “pick me girls” cause I know they probably went through something similar that made them want to stay away from girly girls. So I feel like this whole trend of making TikTok’s laughing at pick mes is just kinda too much. Even if they are hanging on to a disproven stereotype, bullying them more isn’t going to help. They need to be shown that not everyone is the same. Kindness should always be the answer. Eye for an eye will leave everyone blind.
@Idontandneverhadalife_
10 ай бұрын
I have been called a pick me my entire life but let me tell you guys one thing, I never ever hated on any woman. Never. People misunderstood my appreciation towards those who put in the effort wrong, or maybe, I expressed it with wrong words. I used to say, “how can someone make make up everyday?” not because I was jealous of them but because I found it absolutely unbelievable. In a good way. I wanted to be like them but I was insecure and I still am. Unfortunately, I literally couldn’t feel comfortable in my gender probably because of how horrible girls used to act back in middle school. I am still trying to accept myself but I can’t find anything feminine on my face. I am not feminine and I don’t know if I should still try so hard to fit in with everyone or just wing it with those “pick me” sentences. What I am trying to say is, please don’t misunderstand people like me. Because it hurts when they call me a pick me, it’s literally the only insult I can’t bear. I never thought I was perfect and never acted like I was perfect as well. Unless the other party is deliberately trying to bring someone down, please don’t be too quick to judge…
@gracefulcharm55
8 ай бұрын
This is me… I have good friends as girls but I don’t have any desire to do makeup or be “girly.” And when I talk to my guy friends I allow them say whatever they want sometimes about women. Sometimes I disagree with them but then it got me thinking a lot if I was doing too much when one of my guy friends literally told me that “you’re one of the guys.” Honestly, I’m doing better with minding what I agree with regarding my fellow women
@brynned126
8 ай бұрын
this creator specifically made another video talking about how just because you like more masculine things or don’t wear makeup doesn’t make you a pick me! there’s a very clear distinction, and i’m really sorry people have weaponized that term against you :( ‘pick me’ was meant to be a term calling out toxicity in women, as well as pointing out the internalized misogyny a lot of us experience, but unfortunately it’s become convoluted and now people will call any girl who dresses casual or plays video games a ‘pick me.’ please don’t feel bad about it, and know that you are just as valid of a woman/girl as everyone else! coming from someone who was always viewed as ‘masculine’ when i was younger even though i desperately wanted to be a girly girl, there are a lot of different women in the world and we all have our own individual sense of style, interests, and hobbies, never fault yourself for not being like the people you idolize, what matters is that you’re doing your best ❤️
@parkjiminslostjamsmaker3993
3 ай бұрын
Yo.... Finally found someone insecure like me around same gender 😅😂
@Thathestiadevotee
11 ай бұрын
Other girls: Makeup, push up bra, “revealing” clothing Me: Supporting them because there’s nothing wrong with any of those things and hating on them because I don’t personally like doing those things isn’t cool and they should do what makes them happy🥰
@CCEquestrian-je5uc
11 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!! I would myself would never wear that stuff but I don’t care if others do they should do what they want to do
@boileddeggs
11 ай бұрын
@@CCEquestrian-je5ucpreachh
@Mags747
11 ай бұрын
I wear padded bras bc it’s more comfy and im rlly insecure abt my tiny boobs lmao
@Potterhead_slytherin675
11 ай бұрын
Awww! Ur so sweet❤
@The.best.samara
11 ай бұрын
@@Mags747ur lucky u have tiny boobs I have DDD and everyone’s always staring 😢
@aphroditenn8383
11 ай бұрын
Be scared of that phrase "I'm not like other etc" it's always them 💀
@busan_cookie
11 ай бұрын
and you would be cringing over the comment u wrote 2 years later
@iammell1
11 ай бұрын
@@busan_cookiewhy are y one of those “I’m not like other etc” ?
@Im_A_Gummy_b3ar
11 ай бұрын
@@busan_cookiewhy-?
@Im_A_Gummy_b3ar
11 ай бұрын
I had a boy in my class saying “I’m not like other boys” LIKE NO ONE CARES JACOB 😃🔫
@Fluttersweet
10 ай бұрын
@@busan_cookie Why would they be cringing about a comment where they chose to speak the truth?
@sidnotrespond6947
10 ай бұрын
As a boy, I am saying that "Real queens do not knock over other queens' crowns, they fix it."
@Katxvibesxo
6 ай бұрын
Yessir
@jaywhypapi_mollah
11 ай бұрын
me and my bff are like two different worlds. she takes 1 hour to get ready and I need 5 minutes for everything. she has lots of girl BFFs and I have lots of boy BFFs. does that make me different from her? hell no. we both spend hours gossiping about our days, kpop idols and more. I like to watch her doing her make up. she likes it when I get ready quickly in my boy style. doesn't matter how apart our personal aesthetics are I don't see a difference between her and me. so.. it doesn't matter how "different" you are from other girls, don't bring them down. they have their own styles, you have your own.
@jashada71
11 ай бұрын
P.E.R.I.O.D.T🤌✨
@Z5Z5Z5
11 ай бұрын
Right just because someone might be boyish doesn’t mean they hate girls
@Van3ssaLife2727
10 ай бұрын
FR
@anonymous_moon
10 ай бұрын
Bro ur different than the one potrayed in video understand the video its about. Agirl who HATES on others because they all look the same like bro these gals arent like u they say other girls wear girly stuff and judge them they say girls r mean etc etc ur are like one of hundred people who is a tomboy but not a pick me❤
@haaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
10 ай бұрын
Slayyy, love Kpop too
@h20mermaidsgirl
11 ай бұрын
i support girls… WHO support girls
@Karamelzka
11 ай бұрын
Me ❤
@JUSSTLORE
10 ай бұрын
same ^^
@_Purple_Shadow_
10 ай бұрын
I support all humans Except the corrupt evil and nasty ones
@ThAtOneOPfortniteSniper
9 ай бұрын
I'm a girl's,girl too
@Tasfin-xj8rp
9 ай бұрын
Same
@user-ez2ky2hp4g
10 ай бұрын
“why separate yourself from your own gender?” This actually hits hard tho
@prathimareddy3351
7 ай бұрын
Cause they are all bitches
@gianlucaspanu3742
11 ай бұрын
She slays in every single video ❤
@ClaraDao
11 ай бұрын
😭❤️❤️ILYSM
@Davis-td9tb
11 ай бұрын
@@ClaraDaoI would like to hug you so much ❤
@mrBOLT-cy3kv
11 ай бұрын
dont say slay it is very cringy
@user-iv8vq3ue6d
11 ай бұрын
@@mrBOLT-cy3kvshe slays more than you
@AzariaAimable-wv9zx
11 ай бұрын
@@ClaraDaogirl I wish I could meet you
@Jooney91
11 ай бұрын
Yes, the toxic mindset many don't know is so harmful. For many people it's easier to put others down than work on themselves to actually stand out. Wanna be different? Make other girls (or boys too) feeling beautiful and strong. Thank you Clara for sending out this important message.
@checkpoint7197
10 ай бұрын
Honestly, the females who bring down other women are just insecure and think others are better than them which is why they criticise them. I used to feel the same way so I’m not hating on them. They have their struggles and we should all help them realize that they should love themselves for who they are ❤
@egghead_felix
11 ай бұрын
Internalized misogyny is a caustic thing 😔
@madisonpolasky6159
11 ай бұрын
Tbh I was thinking that too, this really does seem to be a form of internalized misogyny.
@HighProteinPowder
11 ай бұрын
proud internalized misogynilist
@jennaanot.-
11 ай бұрын
It's not even misogyny it's pure Idiocracy😭
@pinkcherry9695
11 ай бұрын
@@jennaanot.- it's both 😭
@tofifichannel7199
11 ай бұрын
You dont even know what misogyny means tbh
@xxzinoooo
11 ай бұрын
My “I’m not like other girls” is being tomboy and not being feminine and stuff BUT support feminine with my soul
@dishathakrani3491
11 ай бұрын
Sameeeee
@Evey_eats_tacos
11 ай бұрын
Yea exactly and I honestly don’t get why girls like that put the rest of their gender in a box you know?
@zioyuu__
11 ай бұрын
Same but I just don’t know any makeup companies at all and some or most of my friends are talking about it so I don’t even know what they’re talking about 😭
@itsleviosa859
11 ай бұрын
That's not a "I'm not like other girls" Bcz ure not bringing down other women
@exter1583
10 ай бұрын
It took me 4 hours to get ready, I'm the type of person who doesn't want to leave the house unless I'm sure my appearance is perfect. And I love it 😂
@Fluttersweet
10 ай бұрын
Me too 😭
@Dana_Scully1
9 ай бұрын
It doesn’t take me as long, but same lol!
@gargeebasak9648
8 ай бұрын
Me too. I don't leave my house anyway since i work from home. I only go out for dates and I don't like to leave without looking my best
@zyl._8222
11 ай бұрын
Being a girl is a blessing And having good understanding male friends who you are pretty chill with is another blessing And doing this.... Is just basically tearing down all these amazing blessings!!
@Vxisy_
10 ай бұрын
I don't get how it's a blessing, half of this population hates being a girl, it's so not easy, everything you say, do, or think is likely controlled by someone who puts words in your mouth, the traumatic experience of deadly never-ending periods *every single month* until menopause, that's for a whole likely 60 years. Most people are expecting you to act a certain way of liking pregnancy or taking care of babies when it isn't a everyone thing, if you search a costume for Halloween you'll be expecting a sexualized version from some women. Being a woman, you're expected to sexualize a job, get paid likely less than a man, can't even go to school in some countries till today, and the creepy word "childbearing hips" that will stalk you throughout your whole entire life, think of the fact boys don't have to go through that, easy now?
@zyl._8222
10 ай бұрын
@@Vxisy_ it's a god point in what you're saying... But the problem of like 'hating to be a girl' is just too much... I mean if we are fighting so much for equality we have to understand that both the genders have it's own difficulties. And you are right most of the time we are expected to be "sexualized" but that isn't the reason why girls act like ''oh i hate girls they're too much drama''. But being sexualized is a while another story.. And as a girl who has been sexualized several times i can confirm that the people that wants us to be sexualized are just perverts. Good for nothing pedophiles. But i personally think that all these problems can be solved if both the genders open our eyes and understand the difficulties of both.
@SocialExperiment232
10 ай бұрын
@@Vxisy_you’re looking into these negatives way too crassly. They aren’t that bad. All of these can be ignored and just do what you want. You are the one allowing society to control your every choice that is your own problem, not a problem of being a female.
@LulPurin
10 ай бұрын
I DONT wanna be a Girl anymore 😭
@Vxisy_
10 ай бұрын
@@SocialExperiment232 I wish I can say being a girl is good but everyday is a bad day for me, you even said it for yourself, one of them is sexualization, I know we all try to look at the bright side but its reality, there is no bright side most people look at you as an object who should just go and reproduce and most girls can't even play sports in school. Girls aren't too much drama but let's all face the truth if you're a girl, you're likely unlucky than a boy. There's nothing fun in being a girl other than dressing nice or doing makeup because even if you do that, there are still idiots in this society that are called "creeps". People look at you and just say straight up, "oh she's a drama queen" when you don't like kids they're like "she's a weirdo, which woman doesn't want kids" when you're afraid of childbirth they'll be like "it's so normal and natural it's what the female body is specifically designed for, just do it to be a normal woman" it's better to not hide our feelings especially since we all think differently with different opinions, in my perspective, being a girl is a curse it's the truth, nobody can change my mind, hate me for it, or anything. Even someone else wrote it in the chat here.
@Luvlyxflora
11 ай бұрын
Once you hear the phrase "im not like other girls" thats your cue to run💀
@staticsunshin3
10 ай бұрын
“I’m not like other girls. I’m a boy.”
@nyxie2877
10 ай бұрын
@@staticsunshin3Accurate depiction of me, age fourteen
@certified_l0ser
10 ай бұрын
fr tho 💀
@Hannahbanana36518
10 ай бұрын
Once I heard a girl say “I am not like other girls yeah haha” and I said “yeah your basic and built like a cereal box of that’s what you mean by different” the thing is we were 9 so yeah
@bunniplayz3576
10 ай бұрын
@@Hannahbanana36518 Woah way to flat shame
@killerwolf9024
10 ай бұрын
I’m not like other girls. Seriously. But I don’t bring them down and insult them. Actually, they insult me. I’ve just learned not to care about anyone’s rude opinion, for any gender. I don’t hang out with guys because they’re better, I hang out with a select few that are actually kind and nice to be around.
@Katxvibesxo
6 ай бұрын
Same xox, I loves girly girls but I'm both a girly girl and boyish
@NoChick-fil-ASauce
11 ай бұрын
I’m kind of a tomboy, so I have a lot of guy friends at school and outside of school. But I still have friends that are girls. I think it’s so wrong to do something like this. Just because you prefer to act masculine and hang out with guys, doesn’t mean you should be rude to other girls. I would *NEVER* do something so toxic like this
@ZaynabAumeeruddy
10 ай бұрын
'Acting masculine'?? Okay so you've just summed the whole social construct of masculinity down to playing video games?
@NoChick-fil-ASauce
10 ай бұрын
@@ZaynabAumeeruddy Bro I never said that tf you talking about
@ofmaplefields
10 ай бұрын
@@ZaynabAumeeruddy when did they say that
@Asillylilgoose
10 ай бұрын
Same here! I’m a tomboy and I’ll never treat my girl friends like bad or anything. If anything I’ll still offer to them if they wanna join us in the sport we’re playing. But I’ll never ever make them feel bad
@Fluttersweet
10 ай бұрын
@@ZaynabAumeeruddy Who was talking about video games bro
@crescentblueee
11 ай бұрын
I love to play video games, and I’ve wanted nothing more than to have some girl friends on the game. But every time I meet a girl online, she either doesn’t like me or straight up avoids talking to me. But she’ll talk to the boys just fine. It really sucks that I can’t even have girl friends because a random guy’s opinion matters so much to them.
@hellomf7404
11 ай бұрын
So true girl 🥲
@DontExpectAReplyFromMe
11 ай бұрын
Same- 😭
@Ducky23031
11 ай бұрын
I also love video games, im really grateful to find some mature male and female friends that can game with me :)
@ACitrusFruit
11 ай бұрын
Same bruh like how hard is it for them to accept its not different and special that they play video games-? 💀
@ccloudstrife
11 ай бұрын
They are pick me girls, you better of without them cheapies
@avipsa304
10 ай бұрын
Pick me girls forget the fact that the only reason they get to freely talk to the guys standing there is because woman fought for that
@itsalex8520
11 ай бұрын
I was like that when I was a teenager. I’m so happy I grew out of that and I am so happy to be a woman and actually express that now.
@catrocastre8215
11 ай бұрын
Same
@madisonpolasky6159
11 ай бұрын
Character development, good for you! 👏 👏 👏
@bananafish4384
11 ай бұрын
Me too, sometimes i feel like i wanna bring other down even now but i'm working on not doing that, so if i get a thought like that i keep It tò myself and only try tò Say nice things cause i know it's not good tò bring others down
@LadyTempeste
11 ай бұрын
@@bananafish4384yeah. i’m the same way: sometimes i think of shitty stuff but i’m trying to be a lot less opinionated, especially towards other girls..
@bananafish4384
11 ай бұрын
@@LadyTempeste that's great, i'm Happy you're learning too
@spaghetti_soup
10 ай бұрын
it’s internalized misogyny. the male-dominated society tells girls these things, and to avoid being harassed for enjoying feminine things, women side with their oppressors. it’s a sad thing. i used to sort of have this attitude, but i quickly grew out of it and realized how stupid it was and how it contributed to misogyny. women should lift each other up, not tear each other down.
@blindprisoner7683
9 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you for this comment, I was just like that in my teens, but not now
@NootNootMdf
9 ай бұрын
Hey, i don't harass anyone and yet i am still hated for having a noodle dangling from my body. And also girls have ways to bring each others down such as fake friendships, drama, "slayy" compliments or whatever slay means, and also a lot of men hate these pick me girls so men are not at fault
@paulwilliams90
9 ай бұрын
If you always want to play the victim, you will become the victim. There’s no “misogyny” or “oppression”. It’s literally as simple as pick me girls want attention from boys. There’s no gender division. We’re all humans so why even divide us based on gender 😭.
@tanishaaugustine7645
9 ай бұрын
No es misoginia, es simplemente malas enseñanzas inculcadas incluso por mujeres, la culpa no es culpa de todos los hombres y la sociedad occidental no está dominada por hombres, es un invento feminista.
@NigerianFortnitePlayer
9 ай бұрын
The sad thing is that you agree that girls tear eachoder down, but still blame it on men... this is sad... and if we say otherwise you will say I attacked...
@astluna
10 ай бұрын
i used to think 'im not like other girls', but i didnt really hate other girls, i just hated being told i would be that way when i got older got older and realized im not like other girls, im nonbinary 💀
@4Ng3l_ey3ss
11 ай бұрын
The “im not like other girls” are becoming “the other girls” 👍✨ in that case i’m happy to be feminine and wear dresses because they simply make me happy ❤️
@_sushiisdead
10 ай бұрын
Cringe pick me girl
@Serena.here.
10 ай бұрын
@@_sushiisdeadbro doesn't know what a pick me is he is just calling every girl a pick me I guess that also makes you a pick me for liking something
@Serena.here.
10 ай бұрын
@@_sushiisdead"CrinGe pIck Me BoY"
@IMHEATHERSGIRLFREIND
9 ай бұрын
@@_sushiisdeadno that’s not what a pick me girl is dressing feminine or wearing makeup is not a pick me
@caseyyy243
11 ай бұрын
Clara is one of the best youtubers out there,she has made me so confident about myself,we all love you claraa!keep up with the good work!!❤
@ClaraDao
11 ай бұрын
i love youuuu 🫶🥺😭💕💕
@caseyyy243
11 ай бұрын
@@ClaraDao mee too !!! 💕💕🫀
@edliracela4353
11 ай бұрын
Truee
@usernameless-_-
5 ай бұрын
One of the best KZitemrs? How can one of the best KZitemrs be someone who attracts attention by inciting girls to hate each other under the pretext that the rest of the girls attract attention by hating women? Also, instead of exploiting his influence on social media and encouraging girls to develop themselves and improve their appearance to gain confidence, he Simply by throwing out some nonsense like love yourself as you are and you will bring confidence, h*ll nah, if you force yourself to love your body you won't suddenly get confidence, a perfect body, shiny, healthy hair, long nails, clear skin, etc., instead of watching her videos. And to be affected by it, you can just go to the gym and follow a diet to gain or lose weight and build some light muscles if you want. Then you will truly trust yourself that you have built and not your old self that a minute-long KZitem video forced you to love.
@_emmasue8
9 ай бұрын
“I’m not like other girls, I have sNaKes FoR aRmS-“
@SanjanaSanjeev-wl9pw
11 ай бұрын
It's ok for a girl not to like wearing makeup , but that doesn't mean u should bring other girls down .As females of this generation, we should embrace the fact that many of us are open to trying different aesthetics and support each other . One gender doesn't mean one lifestyle , and this applies to everyone (including boys).
@idpeacebitch
11 ай бұрын
and then they proceed to call me a pick me just bcs i have a bubbly personality
@elena.was.hereee
11 ай бұрын
no then ur personality is cute
@Fluttersweet
10 ай бұрын
Omg same. They think it’s “fake” or “trying to be different”. Like wtf did I do?
@IL0UHV_TWDG
9 ай бұрын
I’m moody so props to you lol I can tell you now your personality is not a pick me personality. My friend has a fake bubbly personality, and it’s all just to get boys attention. She’s really rude to me sometimes. I have a crush and I haven’t even told her that.
@hello_human.
10 ай бұрын
Finally someone said that being a pick me isn't in acting but in faring away from ur own gender 😭 (What i mean is that ppl saying a pickme is the girl who acts cute while it is a personality not a pick me)
@Whoareyou.2710
11 ай бұрын
As a wise lady once said “Why would I not want to be like other girls? I *like* other girls” STANZI POTENZA
@Fluttersweet
10 ай бұрын
And she’s absolutely right!
@Gymnastics-star-101
11 ай бұрын
Omg Clara you made me more confident and happy I could not thank you enough❤
@Withered_bonnie_gal
11 ай бұрын
Ikr, she’s like the older sister we never knew we needed
@Shiaalp
10 ай бұрын
I had that one girl in my class who told me to wear some make up, while i had no make up on. So i stood up to her and told her im comfortable without make up (yes i have wore make up twice and i find it very uncomfortable) and told her that it also could ruin my skin in some way and then asked her this: are you insecure? She just walked away after saying ugh. She couldve minded her own business tbh 🫤
@mu6644
10 ай бұрын
That's what I always thought. And also when they say: omg, she's such a pick me. You're putting other girls down
@Vioduss
11 ай бұрын
Nothing's a bigger turnoff than a lack of loyalty. If you can't be there as a supportive friend to your fellow lady, why should I trust you?
@deethebee1234
9 ай бұрын
Real. Same for me but with pick me boys.
@weekachawchaw6304
10 ай бұрын
i can’t imagine hating other women. i’m a woman myself and there are so many sacrifices that each and every woman goes through. we can have our individuality AND be there for each other!
@AbundanceM234
11 ай бұрын
We need more ppl like u Clara❤
@madisonpolasky6159
11 ай бұрын
Clara is the sweetest
@maloriee_.
11 ай бұрын
Some people just act like that and you shouldn’t really mind it they are just trying to be more masculine and hoping to be “different” while hurting others mentally about themselves.
@Anu-hy2rb
11 ай бұрын
Just like men ditching Femininity in each and every day of their life.
@anomaly_bunny7696
10 ай бұрын
Unfortunately I used to be one of those girls because I was surrounded by people that made me feel like my femininity was a burden I’ve since cut out those people and surrounded myself with the most wonderful people I’ve ever met I’m more in touch with my feminine side then ever before and I feel like a goddess (still don’t wear makeup but that’s for completely unrelated reasons)
@Certified_Yapper
11 ай бұрын
I’m not like other girls , I’m not even a girl lmaoo
@vibrantgleam
10 ай бұрын
Tenichally the truth tbh.
@newjeansslvr
11 ай бұрын
Youre a queen. Not everyone talks about this, and you chose to. Somebody HAD to say this. Ilysm💗 youre the reason why ive been feeling good about myself.
@Malevolentgoddess
11 ай бұрын
"Not everyone talks about this"? Have you been living under a rock?
@beelzebub6414
10 ай бұрын
"not everyone talks abojt this" lmfao
@Serena.here.
10 ай бұрын
@@Malevolentgoddessthat's their experience this is what they experienced just because someone hasn't seen the same things as you doesn't mean you should make fun of them for it
@Serena.here.
10 ай бұрын
I don't know why people are being rude yet that's your experience you barely see people talk about it in your eyes you don't have their eyes and you don't live their life so it doesn't give them the right to make fun of you just because you haven't seen what they have what did they expect everyone to know the same thing or watch the same things seriously 💀
@Serena.here.
10 ай бұрын
@@beelzebub6414bro you're not them in your eyes you've seen it alot of times not them
@Mushroomgurl69
9 ай бұрын
Every girl isnt like other girls Coz no matter what trend u follow everyone is different and perfect❤
@Bianca_S.
11 ай бұрын
(Sorry for my english) I don't really like make-up Idk why, and I'm still girly I don't understand why there are girls that are like the one you showed on this video, like- it's ok if they doesn't like make-up or "girly things", the wrong thing they do is hate another girls for being girly 🤔
@Karamelzka
11 ай бұрын
Your English is good 😊
@Bianca_S.
11 ай бұрын
@@Karamelzka Thank you :)
@Fluttersweet
10 ай бұрын
Same, I don’t wear make-up or dresses but I’m still girly and like the other girls,, there’s more to girls than just these stereotypical feminine things
@JUSSTLORE
10 ай бұрын
yea i dont get it either. and ur English is really good!! :D
@IMHEATHERSGIRLFREIND
9 ай бұрын
Ngl I don’t wear makeup but sometimes I wear it for fun and see what I can do and see how good I am
@eli_roses2024
11 ай бұрын
I am that girl that doesn’t do the streotypical things girls do but I don't ever hate on girls that do the makeup, and dresses, and what not, etc..
@eli_roses2024
11 ай бұрын
Stereotypical*
@UrGirlElli
10 ай бұрын
Can we talk about how she is so beautiful with and without makeup she is drop dead gorgeous
@SillyGoose-yr1nq
11 ай бұрын
I have a few ppl to send this to 😋🤭
@lilaseri7547
10 ай бұрын
Send them they have to learn that
@pearldave_01
11 ай бұрын
this is so true Clara , you are so relatable ,
@Astrryxoxo
5 ай бұрын
Hanging out with the girls is the best.
@thatkeyislow
11 ай бұрын
ikr, i was hated by other girls. they said i am "pick me". ngl, they talk to much and its annoying. its hard to do my work with their annoying voice. and when i told them to not being noisy they said " is that my problem". and yes, i study at home and when im smart they came to me and called me " bestie" ew. im not bring down the women but i want to tell how toxic is the girl at my school. i dont want to be one of the boys, but boys at my school are having a better personality than girls. the girls in my school want to be one of the boys and just cslling me pick me even with the boys. i just, hate them. is it their problem? i never disturb them, never annoyed them and roast them. i never called them pick me, i only called them noisy cuz its fact. well im just quiet and talking to the boys and then they gossip me like wth you think youre cool? and 24 hour they only want to be with their bestie like they are the best, always motivated you. not going to bring down the women out there, i have a best friend too it is my cousin. she is the one who motivated me, related to me and also make me laugh. she never swear like i dont mind about that but its just the girl in my school only knows to call me pick me, pig, stupid and mf. they dont know how to keep a secret, im the only one who knows to keep their secret but bcuz they tell my secret, i tell ppl all of their secret. who cares they dont want to friend with me. like i want duh
@icebar111
11 ай бұрын
They just sound like bullies sweetheart. Be with whoever you're comfortable with. And I'm pretty sure not the entire school of girls would be bullies, hopefully you find a few girl friends who are actually nice to you :))
@Someone-wb7eq
11 ай бұрын
I realized a few years ago that being girly is fun, not boring. I used to assume that makeup was itchy and looking nice was boring, stuffy, and restrictive, now I see makeup in a similar light as hair: the way you style it adds to the outfit and it can vary in style. I also realised that hating on anyone is not okay, and it can harm me as well. Being friendly to everyone makes me and everyone around me happy. Being girly is fun.
@sugxr_sand
10 ай бұрын
“support all girls, trust the good ones”
@taechwita_
11 ай бұрын
FR! "confidence is silent, insecurity is loud", some guys like those girls who try to belittle another girl and I've experienced it! I like to do makeup and dressup and some girls were like idk how you get ready so early in the morning I don't even do makeup! Women dragging other women just for seeking male validation is worst!!
@howtfdoihave115subs7
11 ай бұрын
But the thing is that due to this, Girls like me(who genuinely loves video games, doesnt like wearing dresses etc) are called pick me , But we are really that wayy
@commandertodd9285
11 ай бұрын
as long as youre not doing those things for male attention and seeing other women as competition, making them feel bad about themselves and acting out your insecurities through them, youre not a pick me. people should know the difference between that and a girl who likes video games
@bunny_s2371
2 ай бұрын
"It only takes me 5 mins to get ready" "I can tell" 💀
@marzzartz
11 ай бұрын
The only time this is acceptable happened to my friend. He transitioned female to male after a few months of doing this because he hated his own body. He's a wonderful person now.
@realhuman715
11 ай бұрын
She* Not trying to be rude, sorry if u felt bad…❤❤
@marzzartz
11 ай бұрын
@@realhuman715 no it's he, he's told me before that he doesn't like being called she even if referring to him pre transition
@realhuman715
11 ай бұрын
@@marzzartz Oh, oki then
@YenNguyenhai-rb1ej
11 ай бұрын
@@realhuman715 let's not misgender someone here,,
@Janne_Mai
11 ай бұрын
I'm glad your friend has a supportive friend in you. ❤ trans men are men! I do also think it's acceptable for girls to be tomboys (not saying that he is - just because you opened with "the only acceptable way..."). We all get to express our gender in the way that feels right, just don't mock other people for their gender expression! (And don't misgender trans people, that's really rude)
@sarahh4327
11 ай бұрын
ilysm clara
@ClaraDao
11 ай бұрын
🥰😭😭🫂🫂 giving you the biggest hug rn ty ilyyyyy🥹❤️❤️🫶🫶
@sarahh4327
11 ай бұрын
@@ClaraDao AHH TYSM 😭💕
@WON.YOGURT
9 ай бұрын
There was girl who would make fun of me because I loved wearing skirts and she wore ' Boy ' clothes, and one time, she came up to me just to brag about how she was part of the boys and I wasn't. So, I drew attention to us by laughing when she finished talking, then I said " Since you want to be part of the boys, why don't you become a boy? " Looking back, that was rude to the people who wanted to do that but couldn't.
@yuko_koko
11 ай бұрын
“Don’t try hard to make other people think ur pretty. Just be ✨you✨”
@antoninatabisz7802
11 ай бұрын
the perfect world is when women love women
@HighProteinPowder
11 ай бұрын
keep dreaming
@darleners2099
11 ай бұрын
Bruh fr😢
@nikofennec9118
11 ай бұрын
The lesbians nodding to show their approval of what you said.
@LucyMontgomeryorwhatever
10 ай бұрын
@@nikofennec9118 as a lesbian, I can confirm
@bubblybobabubbles
8 ай бұрын
I had a slight "not like other girls" phase myself, back in elementary-middle school. But it wasn't anything to do with hating and bringing down other girls, really. Having undiagnosed ADHD, I was always the weird kid, I was always somehow different, and I didn't understand why. So being "not like other girls" was my attempt to try to explain my differentness and find an identity, especially in an environment that encouraged young girls to strive to someday be good, feminine wives.
@Feimicha
11 ай бұрын
As someone who is genderfluid but afab, even I have the sense to see the beauty in everyone. Putting everyone down is absolutely tasteless.
@alextheegg6653
11 ай бұрын
The phrase "I'm not like other girls" is friendly fire.
@disneyfan5571
10 ай бұрын
I don’t hate on anybody for wearing makeup. I just had to wear a LOT of it back when I did dance class during recital time, and I wasn’t allowed to touch my face b/c then I would get yelled at for ruining it.
@Bubbleblowstudios
11 ай бұрын
Thanks for making content like this ❤
@ClaraDao
11 ай бұрын
tysm for watching 🥰🫶
@Micatriplecharm
11 ай бұрын
@@ClaraDaoplease reply me❤
@Bubbleblowstudios
11 ай бұрын
@@ClaraDao thanks for replying
@spooderboitheo
11 ай бұрын
Everyone had been the I’m not like other girls girl before and it mostly stems from wanting to feel unique and different and when your going through that period in time it feels that the only way to feel better is by putting others down and really what I’ve learned is everyone is different and unique and the main reason we put others down instead of lifting others up is we don’t want to be seen as a stereotype of women and be put down ourselves so we put others down so we aren’t being put down by others
@_0nyx_AsheZ_
5 ай бұрын
This is the truest thing I've ever heard. "Why separate yourself from u're own gender." 100% true.
@Ldee1417
10 ай бұрын
I hateee when girls say OMG IM NOT LIKE OTHEr GURlS like huney we inpress OUR selfs so let me inpress myself😤😌
@Aywaa.amy12
10 ай бұрын
i have never worn makeup not because of any boy, just because i dont like how it looks on me. and that is my opinion. do what you want and be yourself ❤
@AyoKasdeya
11 ай бұрын
finally, someone made a video on this. I swear I respect you sm Clara
@h3tur
9 ай бұрын
17:54 sharon’s “eiyah” was so freaking cute 😭
@kanachii_8019
11 ай бұрын
As a girl who grew up in a video game loving family (my grandmother played mario kart, yes) I naturally want to challenge someone to smash bros no matter their gender, but some girls call me a pick me but, all I want is to play some smash is it too much to ask 😭😭
@lucidwaffwl
10 ай бұрын
honestly w Grandma
@Username30307
11 ай бұрын
Because I was taught that male validation is one of the greatest things a woman can have. It’s sad I hate it but I just want to be liked
@elena.was.hereee
11 ай бұрын
trueeeee fr
@jennieramirez1756
8 ай бұрын
I love that you question them in a loving way rather than harshly criticizing them❤ We all make mistakes and we should be allowed to be imperfect
@Bestie_luv12
11 ай бұрын
I’m a tomboy but I have lots of girl and boys as friends but this girl always calls me a “pick me” because I ware what i want one day she tried hitting me and I ignored it but the next day she was pulling my bffs hair so I pushed her pinned her to the ground and pulled her hair so hard that her head was bleeding a bit not a lot so I had to go to the office and they called my dad and he came and said “we’ll what did that girl do to make her so mad” and I told him everything and I GOT IN MORE TROUBLE but I moved schools.
@elena.was.hereee
11 ай бұрын
bruh tomboys are the best and hottest girls fr
@Bestie_luv12
11 ай бұрын
@@elena.was.hereee ty I was just playing mm2 so I couldn’t respond
@elena.was.hereee
11 ай бұрын
@@Bestie_luv12 no don't worry i aint one of those ppl who get so pissed when people don't respond quick (i understand ppl have a life) 😂 no problem tho
@Bestie_luv12
11 ай бұрын
@@elena.was.hereee ha ty
@elena.was.hereee
11 ай бұрын
@@Bestie_luv12 npppp i subbed to u
@Yassmine_Amelia
11 ай бұрын
People call me a pick me cuz i don't wear much makeup. Yesterday at school my friend asked me if I wanted to borrow her eyeliner, or eye shadow pallette, and I politely said '' I'm sorry I don't really know how to do makeup, but do you have lip gloss tho? '' and she started shaming me and saying that I'm a pick me
@Janne_Mai
11 ай бұрын
Wow, we've come full circle, huh? Female solidarity doesn't mean that everyone has to wear makeup. I'm sorry that she mocked you over that. You're allowed to be tomboyish if that's what feels right to you!
@Yassmine_Amelia
11 ай бұрын
@@Janne_Mai thank you for this sweet reply, it really made my day!
@YA_GIRLBELLE
5 ай бұрын
When I heard “I’m not like other girls” I was like yep we got a pick me on our hands 😬
@Lulu-ds5eg
11 ай бұрын
Yess Claraa, if those girls don't want to make up its fine but it's also fine to make up
@Bomb101
10 ай бұрын
“I’m not like other girls.” I am actually a hoard of angry ants in a human disguise😫
@kpopxsuzy
9 ай бұрын
Emily’s taking notes rn 👀
@yoooooooooooooooooooooooooooo0
11 ай бұрын
thanks for making me feel so much better about myself i just binged all of your videos lol💓
@edliracela4353
11 ай бұрын
When i grow up i wanna be just like you!🌻♥️
@virg.d
2 ай бұрын
‘’It takes me five minutes to get ready’’ ‘’Yeah I can see it…’’
@NOUKOKO
11 ай бұрын
I swear to god you slay every day more love your content so much cuz it's so relatable ❤😝
@TheAnonymousuchiha1225
11 ай бұрын
I had a friend like that. We were sort of like 4 people. I’m a lesbian, the rest 3 were straight. One of our friends, S was absolutely gorgeous and a sweetheart. We had another one. Let’s call her K. Now we were not an all girl group, we had like 10 people in our group, 4 of whom were girls ( including me though I sort of identify as Fluid). Now initially K was really shy and sweet, she became friends with S and I. We introduced her to the group when we were 11. But after a few years there were certain changes in the dynamics. The boys sort of started doing the more stereotypically brash things and would playfully mock the girls ( no ill intentions behind. ) they even pulled my leg and often would put their hands on my shoulder if a hot girl passed and said like Mate we gotta compete. It was all fun and games. But somehow K started pointing out how girls were more drama and would often try to ignore the other 2 and try to latch onto the boys, which even they personally felt uncomfortable with. She was neutral towards me cause I guess I didn’t fit in her competition but there was a clear difference in treatment between the 2 girls and me and our male friends. Now one of our friends B, started developing feelings for S and eventually confessed to her. The catch was that K really liked B, and S knew but for the sake of her friend thought she shouldn’t. Now S wasn’t in love with B but there was a possibility of her reciprocating similar affection. S was hurt and we could see it. Later the boys and I were talking about his rejection when K came. We unsuspectingly told her and she made a weird face. Later we had all sorts of rumours float about S which weren’t even true. S was devastated and we all tried to do some damage control but I and some others noticed that K wasn’t helping as much and sort of trying to counter point and the possibilities. B and I got particularly suspicious and then we tried to o serve her and backtrack the rumors and we found out who it was. Yes it was K. S, B, and our other friends confronted her and she came clean about how she felt betrayed by S when B asked her out. Our other female Friend M called her crap out and said that B confessed to her not S, and no one betrayed her. B was absolutely disgusted and so were our other friends and we decided to cut her off. We however didn’t air any of her dirty laundry and decided to move on. Later she started getting at all of us telling how we excluded her and that’s what girls like these do. I once heard her telling this to some people listening. I tried to ignore but when she started s!ut shaming S I lost it and came from behind the shelves and blew at her about how she talks about she doesn’t like the girl drama but the drama in our friend group was caused by her. I hope she gets the help cause her fixation with S is concerning and sickening. K was flabbergasted and the other people around sort of understood and she got shunned at school. But the time we were out of school, she barely had any friends and was an absolute mess. Her mother understood the entire situation and reprimanded her daughter. I did talk to her briefly at graduation but that’s the extent of it. She doesn’t have any social media or atleast I don’t know even if she does. I hope she’s understood her mistakes and is doing well. S is doing very well and she and B later got along together and have been dating for about 4 years now. I wish the best for them.
@allieaudio9965
2 ай бұрын
This girl and her style are just gorgeous
@xcutesypandaxii6198
11 ай бұрын
I was a pick-me from age 10-11 but then I learned I was one when I was twelve and stopped. I’m glad you make these awareness videos for people like I used to be. 💗 Love you, Clara! 😊 (Edit: No, I’m not twelve, I am 17 lol)
@chans_laptop485
11 ай бұрын
“it takes me 5 mins to get ready!!” **sprays perfume**
@Croissant____123-h
5 ай бұрын
and then they say “I’m JuSt UnIqUe AnD sPeCiAl”
@scream_queenz
11 ай бұрын
Just a reminder guys you can wear no makeup you can hangout with boys but you can't just go on and hate on other women who enjoy doing the opposite of what you do
@Janne_Mai
11 ай бұрын
I was a tomboy as a kid. Then I turned out to be transmasc. Go wherever your own gender expression takes you, just don't be mean to others about it!
@LucyMontgomeryorwhatever
10 ай бұрын
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ ❤❤❤
@nettart4924
8 ай бұрын
yeah issue is as a lil egg i was very stupid and had really bad social skills (like, i considered an autism diagnosis, bad) and i think people thought i was this person cause i really wanted to help people and didnt understand that not everyone is me cause i was smol and stupid and also couldnt tell if i hurt anyone like i thought they were alright with it and then i realized years down the line that they were actually bullying me and now i wonder if that was why
@astrofistus9516
9 ай бұрын
There’s nothing stronger than a true friendship between two women. We’ve been conditioned to believe it’s not possible. It is.
@Creative_StudioMic
11 ай бұрын
No matter how different you're trying to be... There are always 100+ people who thought the same thing.
@Courtney_Tadc
11 ай бұрын
Honestly your my idol your so beautiful and I love how you express your insecurities,I constantly get made fun of by my family and my friends for being skinny but you make me feel so better abt myself!Thank you ❤❤.
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