I have always felt this. I have tried many jobs from the military to the civilian sector to the corporate world. I've made minimum wage and I've made 100k. I think after alot of introspection(and talks with my therapist). I figured out that I enjoy the survival aspect of accomplishing a goal more than actually achieving it, if that makes sense. I figured out that I enjoy putting myself in scary situations in order to survive, to prove to myself that I have what it takes. Whether thats surviving a hard job, a hard class, a hard program, etc. We, humans, arent built for comfort. In nature, its endure and survive all the time. Comfort and boredom are alien to us as an animal. We need challenge and adversity to make life interesting. Honestly, I think this is why I love survival horror games so much(Like resident evil!). Because they have a clear objective and a sense of catharasis for when you "make it out" and "survive". It gives that dopamine boost or something.
@witty401son
8 ай бұрын
Interesting
@abbieamavi
8 ай бұрын
this is super interesting! thanks for sharing. I love hearing others opinions and lived experiences, it sounds like you've had a very wide range of experience. I can say I agree with you, I thrive in and crave the survival environment. Its fun, exciting, rewarding, and I learn a lot under stress more so than when I have tons of time and comfort in my daily or weekly schedule.
@wellamarie5600
8 ай бұрын
Get it gurl! You always inspire, and I appreciate you sharing the "going through it" process versus just the highlight reel. Your authenticity makes you so relatable. It gives others permission to try scary things, take risks, and go for it, even when we are unsure of the outcome! Thanks for being YOU! I am grateful to have you in my life ❤ You're crushing it!!!!
@abbieamavi
8 ай бұрын
awh Wella thank you!! That's the goal, honestly why I continue creating and sharing online. I know I'm not alone in these thoughts, and it helps to not feel alone and see others struggling/succeeding. That's my goal: get you to feel like you can go after your dreams and fears and overcome them. I'm grateful to have you in my life as well, and I always appreciate our long talks! you're conquering it on your side too! ❤🔥
@Claudeblackburn
7 ай бұрын
I wanted to write what Wella wrote... Good luck on your adventure...
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