they always seem wholesome and nice despite the cult vibe until the anti-gay jumps out.
@marios1861
5 жыл бұрын
you're so funny ily
@manicpixiestardust
5 жыл бұрын
True tho-
@flame_emerald
5 жыл бұрын
True true, love ya girl!
@bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594
5 жыл бұрын
Yay, Boxxxy’s back!!!
@Jaclyn
5 жыл бұрын
yeah, they mask it with kindness to cover up how awful the message is. People buy it too :(
@kitty_1260
5 жыл бұрын
I don’t have a problem with people waiting till marriage, just don’t judge other people who don’t.
@TheReddShinobi13
5 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I personally have mad respect for people who wait until marriage. That tests patience and restraint. Not even on a religious level, I just have mad respect for people who wanna do it a little OLD SCHOOL
@margretheilagadis_9753
5 жыл бұрын
Sure like on a jane the virgin level, but u gotta see that this is to much
@workoutlife2752
5 жыл бұрын
Amen 💯
@emileeparker6608
5 жыл бұрын
I agree but they didn’t judge people who didn’t on the other hand she very much judged them for waiting which is just a messed up
@maxmudxareed1345
4 жыл бұрын
Telling people what they are doing is wrong is not bein judgemental.
@metademetra
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'm sorry. I was a sex after marriage person at one time too, but at no point did my family shame me for KISSING. That is the height of unhealtiness. I can't even imagine my dad getting mad at me for kissing someone.
@JamesChessman
5 жыл бұрын
kissing is perverted, sorry
@rat-dog7357
4 жыл бұрын
*Shameful*
@teenyweeny3005
4 жыл бұрын
LadyShay i can. my parents and siblings don’t think i should date anyone till i’m like 18
@blaineyeamlak
4 жыл бұрын
In arab voice: *gasp* HaRaM!!!! (Im coptic btw and they like to say that in sorrow and shame)
@johndelgadillo2815
4 жыл бұрын
Welcome to every Muslim country
@krisc.1534
5 жыл бұрын
Im waiting until marriage to look my boyfriend in the eyes
@martinsaugustaf
5 жыл бұрын
im waiting until marriage to talk to him for the first time
@Chelsnep
5 жыл бұрын
Im waiting until marriage before I know his name
@stryderblaze80
5 жыл бұрын
Lol..... hahahahaha
@krisc.1534
5 жыл бұрын
Gordon Torney u right but don’t be weird geez
@krisc.1534
5 жыл бұрын
Gordon Torney lmao I know but that doesn’t make it not weird given the context
@hazalkara3586
5 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting until marriage to ask them out. People may say that's extreme but honestly it's so refreshing!!!
@nathamiel6467
5 жыл бұрын
Hazal Kara so freeing
@isaiahpinkerton3445
5 жыл бұрын
Hazal Kara your so flagrant. I didn’t even look at my wife until marriage. Keep yourself pure satan!
@DarkEmerald1990
5 жыл бұрын
@@isaiahpinkerton3445 I can't. 😂😂😂😂
@venusphantomhive7285
5 жыл бұрын
YOU GO GIRL
@ARse-ko7lz
5 жыл бұрын
you got it gurl
@syeirahjade9895
5 жыл бұрын
My GRANNY, the most religious woman I ever knew, told me when I met the man I ended up marrying, "You wouldn't buy shoes without trying them on, honey. Try before you buy." 🤣
@maggiemcgonnell6754
5 жыл бұрын
Your Granny sounds awesome!
@syeirahjade9895
5 жыл бұрын
@@maggiemcgonnell6754 Thanks! She was a damn pistol!
@syeirahjade9895
5 жыл бұрын
@Y O J I M B O 用心棒 How will you know the quality of the milk before you try it? LoL If you love the milk, you buy the cow to keep getting that yummy milk. I've heard your Grandpa's saying, also, and I mean no offense to your Grandpa. ;)
@aquamarinedream8304
5 жыл бұрын
@Y O J I M B O 用心棒 Lol yeah have fun NEET As if you have the option of either, haha.
@syeirahjade9895
5 жыл бұрын
@@aquamarinedream8304 Thanks for saying exactly what I was thinking! The "milk" goes bad by age 25-30!? Wow. LOL
@taylordavison6849
5 жыл бұрын
They're so developmentally sheltered. It sounds like a couple of high school girls talking.
@karanolan
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Their description of what culture thinks of love is what a developmentally healthy 5 year old thinks of friendship. One day you're friends, the next you're not. Kristen and Bethany are you confusing 5 year old girl logic with culture? I'm waiting for them to say, "you're not invited to my birthday".
@pretty948
3 жыл бұрын
Middle school honestly. High schoolers are a little more mature
@simona_sigmund1001
3 жыл бұрын
Its worrying because they haven't developed their brains to think for themselves - one video I saw Bethany was concerned what makeup was "God honouring". She said she wished God left a manual saying lipstick good mascara bad etc etc.... this is so toxic because imagine not being able to make even a simple decision for yourself without this fear of the burning flames of Hell
@hughjanus2781
3 жыл бұрын
Not even 11th and 12th they sound like 9th and 10th graders.
@leeannasloan2292
10 ай бұрын
@@simona_sigmund1001pretty sure the Bible says women shouldn't wear makeup or paint their faces or wear jewelry..think it's old testament. These girls should know the scripture
@-7070
5 жыл бұрын
The irony of televangelists is they don't realize how similar they are to muslim fundamentalists.
@marios1861
5 жыл бұрын
Almost like they worship the same god
@whywhy6055
5 жыл бұрын
Stazia Smith i’ve seen Messi vs Ronaldo debates handle with much more respect and dignity than who’s god is superior
@-7070
5 жыл бұрын
My comment was mocking religion as a whole and the severe ignorance of those blindly following a particular group while they simultaneously find every other religion absurd, when they are all just as absurd. I wasn't trying to compare religions lol just wanted to clarify that.
@marios1861
5 жыл бұрын
@Dreamcatche r in christianity god is like light and if you pass him through a prism the light splits into the father the spirit and the son. not that confusing tbh.
@kinorai
5 жыл бұрын
Oh no. No no no, they're, like, TOTALLY different! Because.... Err... LOOK OVER THERE!
@lighthousea4655
5 жыл бұрын
They didn’t mature completely.They seem like teenagers.
@outsideworld76
5 жыл бұрын
Jaclyn is way passed the wall, most men prefer younger women so not sure if this is a bad thing.
@brooklynnbailey4356
5 жыл бұрын
@Charger SPS I find Jaclyn extremely more attractive than either of those two girls.
@brooklynnbailey4356
5 жыл бұрын
@@outsideworld76 Um... you do realize men who prefer younger women 9 times out of 10 are abusive? I could give SO MANY examples, but for starters I'll tell you about my stepsister. She got pregnant at 16 by a 22 year old man who wants nothing to do with the baby and steadily cheated on her throughout their "relationship" but she felt trapped and stayed with him because she thought she needed him and that no guy her age would want her anymore after having a baby. He kept emotionally abusing her and gaslighting her to get her to stay with him while he fucked multiple other girls who he was also emotionally manipulating (one girl had 3 kids and thought he was about to leave my stepsister to marry her and help her raise her kids... yea right🤦♀️). Men who think like that are usually looking for control (not saying this is every single time, but a vast majority). They are looking for young and immature girls to prey on so that they can get away with using them how they want. Men who specifically seek out young women to prey on their emotional vulnerability are disgusting, end of. (And sometimes this is reversed and women have done this too, but it doesn't defeat the fact that men are literally KNOW and sometimes PRAISED for being creepy predators like this.)
@NoName-rm9jw
4 жыл бұрын
@urban7rat Thank you
@JesusisKing4ever123-4
4 жыл бұрын
@@urban7rat u tell em yaaas bc I'm 21 and literally these old ass men be flirting with me and they be as old as my grandpa its digusting and then the guy winks at me and say im old enough to do other things grown up things which is disgusting I swear all these men be thirsty for youth mostly sexually tho and its annoying and i feel like a object since I'm young im just made to be a sex toy when honestly old men need to date old women young people arnt interested in old people. We think of guy who look like jumex and cole spouse we dont think of guys literally my grandpa age so thankyou for saying what u did.
@Coty_Lee
5 жыл бұрын
Also, I don't understand how they are like 1 man 1 woman is God's way. Polygamy was very widespread among biblical figures.
@checkersssss9
5 жыл бұрын
@Coty Lee just because it is in the bible doesn't mean it was God's plan for things. The bible (especially the old testament) is a continuous story of his people and how they rebelled against him... So those stories you see are not what he commanded but are stories of the people choosing to turn from God and not to follow his ways...
@jessicajennifer9827
5 жыл бұрын
Buybull
@Kris-wo4pj
5 жыл бұрын
@@checkersssss9 why is it that when people bring up horrible things in the Bible or that contradict what Christans believe now it's those are man words not God's but as soon as someone says that something that Christians don't like or can't come up with a good argument for its always read or it's in the Bible that's God's word/law? ya can't have it both ways.
@aquamarinedream8304
5 жыл бұрын
My instincts tell me to fuck every man in sight every night. I can control my impulses..but why would religion create such a stupid rule that obviously goes directly against our human impulses?
@tracexl
5 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Many characters had multiple wives that they had children with. And not all of them were non believers in God.
@zacharyingram541
5 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting until marriage to sell my boyfriend on the black market haha
@Spooky-Sara
4 жыл бұрын
your profile pic 👌
@pv3566
4 жыл бұрын
I shall pay ye in 12 bags of grain, 5 bags of flour and 3 goats. I just need someone to do my grocery shopping and ironing.
@@newrev9er That's cool. I'm an Odin guy myself :)
@shawnmorgan2070
5 жыл бұрын
"Just say sex." - Jaclyn Glenn 2018
@alexvalencia7319
5 жыл бұрын
Shawn Morgan LOL jaclyn glenn she's a ugly bitch abomination 😂😂😂
@Carlos-ll7bz
5 жыл бұрын
Shawn Morgan i vote for her too make T-shirt’s with a cat rolling her eyes
@bedetaylor7154
5 жыл бұрын
@@Carlos-ll7bz I would buy that
@outsideworld76
5 жыл бұрын
@@alexvalencia7319 She should eat more, too skinny for my taste.
@JamesChessman
4 жыл бұрын
Actually please DON'T say sex. Thanks
@sakdeeep2750
5 жыл бұрын
I'm holding my breath until marriage
@CapVel
5 жыл бұрын
Hey how's that grave working for ya? XD, but this is the funniest one I've found so far
@sakdeeep2750
5 жыл бұрын
@@CapVel Horny
@thomasanderson1416
5 жыл бұрын
@@sakdeeep2750 the world is a cruel place indeed 😢
@MichaelAChristian1
5 жыл бұрын
Start breathing. I am here. Call me.
@yom2408
5 жыл бұрын
Good luck! I totally support you girl!
@CassTeaElle
5 жыл бұрын
As a Protestant Christian, I completely agree with you about the damage the church often does when painting sex as a sin or as evil. That can be really harmful! Thankfully, I wasn't raised with that narrative, because it's not the narrative of the Bible. I also think it would be a bit weird to wait until marriage to kiss, but hey, it's her life, and she's totally free to do that and talk about it in case anyone else wants to do it too and is curious what it's like.
@thatexcalifornian6124
4 жыл бұрын
CassTeaElle I agree completely.
@yapikop1142
4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@leckercidre9368
4 жыл бұрын
Sorry, but you're not a real Christian.
@gracesmelodys
4 жыл бұрын
Lecker Cidre there’s no such thing as a real Christian, as long as someone believes in god and try’s their best to stay dedicated to Christianity.
@berrisfueller6221
4 жыл бұрын
Author Cassie Beebe I mean the waiting until marriage thing I can understand. But kissing? I think that’s a little weird
@autumn209
5 жыл бұрын
i wont speak to my boyfriend until we get married
@peanutbutterjellytime6132
5 жыл бұрын
Blue hair and seemingly gender-fluid. Why am I not surprised by this comment? Let me guess... did you first “meet" your boyfriend in a video game and you type to him there so it's not “speaking" exactly? 😂
@kiste.222
5 жыл бұрын
@@peanutbutterjellytime6132 its a joke jfc
@mrryuk9208
5 жыл бұрын
It was almost like that with a GF I had a few hears ago. She wouldn't hold my hand lol 😂😂
@outsideworld76
5 жыл бұрын
And you are doing him a great favor.
@blazedbat
5 жыл бұрын
I want someone to make a channel called "girl undefined" and it's just the complete opposite of their channel
@chronodyne
5 жыл бұрын
SUPER clever, bro Seriously tho
@spheyuh
5 жыл бұрын
Think of the possibilities! Two atheist butch lesbians debunking religious people like this's bullshit. Now that would be fucking hilarious.
@hazaduke
5 жыл бұрын
Trisha paytas lol
@KG_XOXO
5 жыл бұрын
Let's do it
@bknighttheemo8756
5 жыл бұрын
I’m in!
@hachi7100
5 жыл бұрын
They're SOOO right. I'm not dating until I get married.
@hachi7100
5 жыл бұрын
@@chilloutmage7266 .....the joke was that I'm getting married first before I date someone. Smh
@ashleyjohansson230
5 жыл бұрын
As much as this is a joke, thats actually how original marriage worked, as arranged.
@jakab-farkasreka2526
5 жыл бұрын
I'm not even Looking at someone until marriage.
@trsgfsdrgtregfsdfgvsdr2889
5 жыл бұрын
THE FUNNY THING IS THAT DATING IS WHAT WHORES DO MARRYING IS WHAT GIRLS DO SHOWS WHICH ONE OF THESE CATEGORIES IS YOU
@superfluousgreg5245
5 жыл бұрын
I’ll wait till marriage to even MEET A MAN
@outsideworld76
5 жыл бұрын
Don't worry you will meet a man some day.
@WhyPhi
4 жыл бұрын
Ahead of the game
@sid6.764
5 жыл бұрын
Good idea. Wait until you're married before sex, living together, etc. That way you can figure out that you're in no way compatible with each other after you've pledged your everlasting life together before God. Yeah, that'll work.
@101marsi
5 жыл бұрын
Doc Hollywood it use to work. Now yes 1 out of 2 marriages end in divorce now. People who live together before marriage have a higher chance of divorce.
@CRAFTE.D
5 жыл бұрын
Actually marriages in where both partners are virgins have a higher chance of success, seems the evidence leans towards more traditional values.
@ashleycrystal9719
5 жыл бұрын
Doc Hollywood statistically speaking those who shack up (live together but aren’t married) are more likely to fail as a couple.
@peanutbutterjellytime6132
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah because it's not like statistics haven't already debunked this claim lol
@CRAFTE.D
5 жыл бұрын
xSleepyHeadx Who are you speaking to?
@noaheast7600
5 жыл бұрын
Between Cody, Noel, Strange Aeons, and Jaclyn, girl defined gotta delete their channel
@skylovenightcore3163
5 жыл бұрын
Noah East what are cosy and Noel's channel names?
@noaheast7600
5 жыл бұрын
@@skylovenightcore3163 CodyKo and NoelMiller. They have a running series called That's Cringe that's on Cody's channel that they've done girl defined twice. Grade A roasts
@whywhy6055
5 жыл бұрын
Noah East no otherwise Jaclyn cannot roast them anymore, we need more girl defined videos
@cuteycat2214
5 жыл бұрын
I think Mr.Atheist has done a couple videos on them too lol Girl defined might as well delete their channel
@Alex-yg7tv
5 жыл бұрын
We can only hope lol
@pau4843
5 жыл бұрын
I don't think they are just cringe Christians. They are cringe people
@Hannibu
5 жыл бұрын
Or comedians. When I first saw these girls I was thinking of a kind of Monty Python's joke. I knew some American christians are strange, but this is hilarious. This can't be true, right?
@MsMisfits
5 жыл бұрын
Their entire identity is wrapped around religious extremism. So yeah, they're cringey Christians.
@pumpkinoligarchy6626
5 жыл бұрын
Hannibu It would be a wonderful twist if these guys were just the greatest trolls in all of history
@thatboikas2137
4 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: Bethany’s husband was in conversion therapy TWICE
@abbie_joan
4 жыл бұрын
oh my fuckin god thats the best thing I've heard all day
@writerspen010
4 жыл бұрын
That's so awful..
@Amandanumnum
4 жыл бұрын
no one ever has proof for this
@thenamelessdragon
4 жыл бұрын
i mean like there is a joke here about needing to be gay to never once wanna touch someone of the opposite gender who you’re in a relationship with before marrying them but i’m not gunna make it bc that’s insensitive
@cecy623
4 жыл бұрын
Yikes poor guy
@MinnesotaMimi
5 жыл бұрын
This might be a RADICAL opinion, but.....I don't think people who haven't yet kissed or had sex can be an expert on kissing or sex. Or lecture others.
@user-mp1is6ys7m
5 жыл бұрын
Completely agreed
@missdana296
5 жыл бұрын
You know what they say about opinions?
@brioliveros2840
5 жыл бұрын
@@missdana296 they're like assholes, everyone has one, and it probably stinks.
@hollyhayes9640
2 жыл бұрын
TO THE DUNGEON WITH YOU!1!1!1
@sarahill6287
5 жыл бұрын
Erg... seriously.. they need to do a history lesson. Marriage was an old pagan ritual.. which was around YEARS before Christianity. And on a side note.. in old pagan faith if two people of the same sex got married, they where seen as special souls. Christianity took many pagan rituals and holidays, and adopted them into their "faith"
@kriptho4599
5 жыл бұрын
I would love to see their reaction to this fact
@onderle666
5 жыл бұрын
You stole my thought :)
@vj564
5 жыл бұрын
Wow I didn't know that fact about same sex marriage. I would love to read more about it. Do you know where I can find more info about it?
@XxItalianVampPrinces
5 жыл бұрын
SarA Hill Absolutely love this!!
@XJunixAnnexKayxScarX
5 жыл бұрын
I was literally coming to comment this!
@Plasticplas1
5 жыл бұрын
I fully believe their husbands are gay.
@AriaIsara
5 жыл бұрын
I saw a video of the girl on the left with her future husband, there is definitely something off with that dude. I don't think he's gay, I feel like it's something else. Weird vibes :/
Sema dude me too it seems like both husbands are glad about their wives being religious so they don’t have to have Hetero sex and it’s a perfect cover up
@autumngazaway1533
5 жыл бұрын
I legitimately don’t see the gigantic issue with waiting until marriage to have sex. I’m waiting until marriage myself. I think it’s 1000000000% okay to wait as long as you’re not bashing anyone else’s personal choices. But that goes both ways. Don’t spit on the decision to wait, and don’t spit on the decision to not wait. I do kiss, though 😂
@jininberry8204
5 жыл бұрын
Lol come back when you find out your husband has a miceopenis and will never satisfy you
@lad05xd
5 жыл бұрын
Jinin Berry I can’t imagine getting butthurt over someone else’s choice not to have sex
@jininberry8204
5 жыл бұрын
@@lad05xd Not particularly butthurt but pointing out the main flaw behind this thinking. You should probably try shoes on before you buy it, you know? Sure they may look cute and they are perfect for the occasion but what if you buy them and find out they don't fit your needs and the shoes like to choke and slap you and role play you being a child. I don't like sexually abusive or ill fitting shoes Lindsay.
@autumngazaway1533
5 жыл бұрын
Jinin Berry For someone so concerned about my sex life, you definitely don’t think before you speak. I’ve definitely seen my boyfriend’s penis, so you can stop worrying about my sexual satisfaction! 😉
@rhiannonprieur2280
5 жыл бұрын
Jinin Berry Lol come back when you get pregnant or an std.
@kinorai
5 жыл бұрын
I'm going to wait untill marriage... ...to get a divorce.
@tinabeana4495
5 жыл бұрын
Philippe Sounds expensive.~
@drawgam2946
5 жыл бұрын
All of that for a kiss
@spheyuh
5 жыл бұрын
interesting
@Sofia-io2eu
5 жыл бұрын
Lol😂
@writofmandamus
5 жыл бұрын
Why is it hat divorce rates back then were much lower when people waited until marriage? Probably coincidence.
@onderle666
5 жыл бұрын
I mean I understand not having sex untill marriage. Or knowing "he/she's the one" but kiss? Kiss is a simple sign of love.
@MeCooper
5 жыл бұрын
See this is how messed up the religion is. Like... Its so weird that lines of who you can and can't kiss is blurred at all. Like there is not even a consensus on it and the religion has existed for thousands of years... *Youd think they could at least be as self aware as a toddler when it comes to kissing* Lol a toddler has that crap figured out right quick.
@Eszti1218
5 жыл бұрын
To make things even more sinister, I heard that the recently married sister's new husband is actually gay, just went through conversion therapy and decidd to live a straight life. I would hate to see how this will turn out a fe years from now.
@aquamarinedream8304
5 жыл бұрын
yikes, she's even more screwed than I thought poor bethany, she must feel so chronically unwanted
@rosastrohhut
5 жыл бұрын
Is it on freejinger yet?
@Eszti1218
5 жыл бұрын
@J. O. I read about it in the comment sections of several other reaction videos. Apparently it was mentioned in their engagement vlog, but I haven't watched that yet (and probably won't, it's 1h long), so do take this information with a pinch of salt.
@Eszti1218
5 жыл бұрын
@Y O J I M B O 用心棒 Only if it involves super judgmental people.
@TheRachaelLefler
5 жыл бұрын
How is it petty and vindictive to point out someone's hypocrisy or to talk about how bad and ineffective Christian approaches to sex are? @Y O J I M B O 用心棒
@theartsygay4027
5 жыл бұрын
" Nooooo are we about to get homophobic, I feel like we're about to get homophobic" I've never felt a sentence more in my life
@mykie4336
5 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting until marriage to be in the same room for the first time with my boyfriend.
@boneappletea5890
5 жыл бұрын
Lmao there will be a wall between you at the wedding
@theleagueofsupermushrooms5323
5 жыл бұрын
You just stole the plot of old fashioned 😂
@alansimmons9621
5 жыл бұрын
Can't see any issues there. LMFAO
@mykie4336
5 жыл бұрын
😎
@GoddessNyx2024
5 жыл бұрын
as your yelling across the kitchen to the living room just to talk to your boyfriend hheheheh XD
@tinyturtwig7944
5 жыл бұрын
I'm personally waiting till marriage to hold hands
@daverigby23
5 жыл бұрын
I hope you're going to wear gloves, once you do hold hands.
@anaalina5964
5 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting till marriage to make eye contact.
@tinyturtwig7944
5 жыл бұрын
@@daverigby23 of course
@lindacf2379
5 жыл бұрын
I wait until marriage to be in the same city.
@papaave2216
5 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting till marriage to have a boyfriend. Cause I don't wanna go to hElL
@notsarthakkumar
5 жыл бұрын
THEY STILL MAKE THE CONSTIPATED FACES WHILE THE OTHER ONE IS TALKING OMFG LMAO
@coley4581
5 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting until marriage to be in the same building as my boyfriend
@vohrtechs5974
5 жыл бұрын
Somewhere right now someone is having the most awkward and inept honeymoon sex ever because they listened to people like this.
@jadecoolness101
5 жыл бұрын
Justifyed Mattitude ....? What? Lmao my parents are divorcing and they both waited until marriage. So nice try.
@RACHELTAYLOR7
5 жыл бұрын
Try before you buy I say.
@mzstephie
5 жыл бұрын
I think sex is a very important part of a marriage and I’m glad when I married my husband i knew he was good in bed
@pinkrainclouds2190
5 жыл бұрын
Thats what my grandma told me.
@PsychyPrincess
5 жыл бұрын
That's such a shallow way to think, in my opinion.
@RACHELTAYLOR7
5 жыл бұрын
PsychedelicPrincess Would you buy a car without taking it for a test drive?
@TehSeksyManz
5 жыл бұрын
@@PsychyPrincess not wanting incompatibility isn't shallow. Your reasoning is strange to me. Care to elaborate?
@uniquelymade3852
5 жыл бұрын
One thing I’ll disagree with. You CAN actually have a connection without the physical stuff. You don’t need physical intimacy to have a connection with someone. Well, I don’t anyway.
@eldergreen4468
5 жыл бұрын
A romantic connection? So you don't need to kiss your significant other? Ok, to each their own. But spreading the word, that kissing is unnecessary for a romantic connection, is a different thing, a ridiculous one.
@uniquelymade3852
5 жыл бұрын
Romantic, emotional, mental, etc. And no, I don’t need any of that. The emotional aspect is much more important to me than the physical. In all honesty I cringe away from the physical stuff but that’s more because of my C-PTSD and other issues.
@uniquelymade3852
5 жыл бұрын
Romantic, emotional, mental, etc. And no, I don’t need any of that. The emotional aspect is much more important to me than the physical. In all honesty I cringe away from the physical stuff but that’s more because of my C-PTSD and other issues.
@uniquelymade3852
5 жыл бұрын
Romantic, emotional, mental, etc. And no, I don’t need any of that. The emotional aspect is much more important to me than the physical. In all honesty I cringe away from the physical stuff but that’s more because of my C-PTSD and other issues.
@trsgfsdrgtregfsdfgvsdr2889
5 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE RIGHT
@johnnyrocketz7808
5 жыл бұрын
Im abstinent, but Girl Defined makes me cringe hella hard.
@bboi5845
5 жыл бұрын
Johnny Rocketz lol people like girl defined make us look like crazy people
@johnnyrocketz7808
4 жыл бұрын
Bb Oi ikr (sry 4 late reply, i NEVER check my inbox)
@vestafreyja
5 жыл бұрын
As an old married woman of 62 the idea of waiting until you are married to kiss or have sex is repugnant. What happens if the person is horrid at kissing and you waited until you get married. When I was single I wanted to find a person whom I was attracted to because of their personality and intelligence, physical attractiveness was bonus but if he could make me laugh that was far more important. As far as sex and kissing go I was looking for someone who knew what the heck they were doing! Did that make me immoral? I had sexual relations will 5 people before I met my husband of almost 30 years. These two Christian Girls are truly cringe worthy.
@snowpawzvideos
5 жыл бұрын
i've never heard a 62 year old use the word "cringe" but if you're being earnest that's kind of dope although "What happens if the person is horrid at kissing and you waited until you get married." is super contradictory to "I was attracted to because of their personality and intelligence"
@vestafreyja
5 жыл бұрын
@@snowpawzvideos Not really it is part of the package. If there was no sexual chemistry and you waited until you got married to find out that is really a shame. It's like you are looking for a new car and you find one that looks really nice, has all the options that you require and comes in the colour you want are going to purchase it just by curb appeal alone? Of course not you are going to want to take it for a test drive to see how it handles, is it comfortable to sit in, are there any blind spots, etc.. The only reason I used the new car example is because my husband and I have recently replaced the car we had and had narrowed our list to 3 different cars based upon dealer specifications, safety results and consumer reports and it was not until we test drove each car that we could determine what was the right choice for us.
@funnyferret6064
5 жыл бұрын
Vesta Freyja so I’m 15. I have kissed a boy. And I’ve learned what I like and what I don’t. I’ve learned that I love kissing the person I’m in love with. Screw these girls. Lutherans are super accepting and super chill. Go Lutherans!
@vestafreyja
5 жыл бұрын
@@funnyferret6064 Good for you it is important to learn what you like and don't. I'm going to be a bit of an old lady here, think of me as your mom or Grandmother since I'm probably old enough to be your Grandmother. This is for you and other young women who are reading this post please wait until you are older before you have sex; I was in my early 20's before I had sex. If your boy friend is pressuring you to have sex by saying well everyone else is having sex or giving you other reasons and you are simply not ready and he continues to pressure you. It tells me that he does not really respect your decision and if he continues to pressure you then you should dump him, it will cause short term pain for yourself but you will be better off without him in your life for the long term. Funny Bunny I'm not sure how much sex education you have received in school, to be safe I'll assume it was minimal. If you are going to have sex please make sure that you use protection from unwanted pregnancies and STD. The best way to avoid pregnancies is to be on the pill and the best way to avoid STD is by using a condom. If your boy friend objects to using a condom simply tell him "No glove No Love". I learned a very helpful technique of using my mouth to apply the condom (Flavored are best) to my boy friends penis and strangely (or Not) any objections to using a condom vanished. Before you the stop using condoms have both of yourselves tested for STD's. Even after we got tested most of my boy friends still liked using condoms because of the little trick I used when applying them. If I had not used protection and got pregnant early in my life would have significantly changed. I would not have been able to get a BSc in Psychology and Minor in Biochemistry, BSc and Masters in Computer Science and a PhD in Computer Science and Engineering. Nor would I have been able to own and run a small software consulting company for the last 20 years; nor would I be able to employ 30 employees and depending upon contracts 20 to 100 consultants.
@funnyferret6064
5 жыл бұрын
Vesta Freyja you’re very insightful! Because I’m kind of religious, there won’t be any sex before Marriage. It’s just in my values to not have sex outside of marriage. Also, my sister has two children and no husband and I love all of them but I learned what premarital sex can lead to. With my current boyfriend, I have told him my boundaries and he respects them.
@liberalchristianchurch5331
5 жыл бұрын
Girl Defined= A bad unhealthy message, in a pretty blond package. No thanks.
@yeezershelp7960
5 жыл бұрын
Yes of course because blonde = evil
@chronodyne
5 жыл бұрын
So don't watch it then, snowflake!
@yeezershelp7960
5 жыл бұрын
@@chronodyne s n o w f l a k e
@chronodyne
5 жыл бұрын
Yeezers Help Not you, the other guy. I assume you were being sarcastic with the blonde=evil thing, so you're alright in my book.
@yeezershelp7960
5 жыл бұрын
@@chronodyne Oh okay
@happyvalentino
5 жыл бұрын
IN MY OPINION, You are not “losing” ANYTHING, you are only gaining experience, period.
@imfunny2851
5 жыл бұрын
Without losing some you don't gain some. It's like, without your first heartbreak how do you ever learn how to grow and get better at one? Losing your virginity isn't anything special. It's just sex, an experience you're going to encounter. (Gotta give that consent thooo) You learn what makes you feel good and what you like and what your partner likes too.
@Brobooke
5 жыл бұрын
I’m all for abstract thinking but this is not completely correct... it’s not really made up, it’s the fact that you do have a certain sense of innocence before your first time. And while I do agree with you that you definitely gain experience with your first time, virginity is not a made up concept lol
@NotAnotherKuromi
5 жыл бұрын
@@Brobooke The fact that there is so much focus on whether a person has or has not had sex is made up, people do not focus on if you are a driving virgin or a coffee virgin. The entire women must be "pure" & a man touching their body would dirty them, is a rediculus idea. The fact that boys masturbating is seen as normal but that girls are seen as not having any sexual desire or should control themselves more is a created construct. The fact that boys virginity is generally not seen as important (& later that they can cheat) is unfair & a complete made up double standard. When you boil it down virginity is just a person who has not had sex with another person yet. It is something you have not yet done or learned about, not something or infomation you had that gets taken away. Also please expand on that sense of innocence you mentioned.
@Caelinus
5 жыл бұрын
@@Brobooke Virginity is just a descriptive term. Like saying I am "x years old." There is no innocence or anything that you loose after having sex, unless you define innocence as being in a state of ignorance. But even that would be mitigated by proper sexual education.
@jasonyates7717
5 жыл бұрын
Wtf...these girls are Ignorant
@SophieJackson1993
5 жыл бұрын
And her husband ‘Dave’ actually did conversation therapy to pray the gay away inside himself...now he’s married to Bethany. So, big yikes. No wonder he wouldn’t kiss her until marriage.
@idkmynametho8391
5 жыл бұрын
I've seen the videos with him and yeah gaydar went off but is there any actual evidence about him going to conversion therapy
@RandomSwiftie13
4 жыл бұрын
Really big yikes!
@shiaseedsalad2726
4 жыл бұрын
Poor guy. He's convinced he's straight. :'(
@katherinek3314
4 жыл бұрын
@@idkmynametho8391 there's literally no proof this even happened lol people are fucking stupid
@samiscisking1265
4 жыл бұрын
Kaffrin Honey A video was out, they deleted it
@joycele7974
5 жыл бұрын
Why shame woman for their sexual choices? If a woman wants to wait until marriage, let her do so. I was once agnostic and I still wanted to wait until marriage, it had nothing to do with religion but due to what I wanted, not what society pressured me to want. It was my personal decision.
@godlessgallivant7274
5 жыл бұрын
Joyce Le It’s not shaming those who choose, its laughing at those who shame others who don’t do the same as them
@racheljoy6465
5 жыл бұрын
I respect you
@1987fallenstar
5 жыл бұрын
@@CorbinWillis-bj3li Fact of the matter is - its not your business what others do - male or female. So move on little doggy and stop trying to tell people what to do. And for the record, I don't shame people for being a virgin or not. Because its none of my business.
@1987fallenstar
5 жыл бұрын
@@CorbinWillis-bj3li Lmao, look at yourself in the mirror before you psycho analyze people on the internet that you know nothing about. You sound like a nut job.
@1987fallenstar
5 жыл бұрын
@ Don't bother replying, Willis E40 is irrational and probably a troll.
@suppiluiiuma5769
5 жыл бұрын
The way christians think honestly scares the crap out of me
@suppiluiiuma5769
5 жыл бұрын
+Milkyway2099 I also used to think like that when I was one,and I think more people are getting out of christianity everyday,but the fact that adult human beings still believe in the things christians do,is nothing short of terrifying.
@noeyjo4864
5 жыл бұрын
Bitch these are flat out Catholics. Stfu
@mylesgxtreme2106
5 жыл бұрын
These Christians give the rest of us a bad name
@shannon6281
5 жыл бұрын
Not all Christians are like these two but yeah I know what you mean.
@lanebreakerRBH
5 жыл бұрын
luckily not all christians are this insane
@alexandra6322
5 жыл бұрын
Im waiting until marriage but i think waiting to kiss is crazy
@baileytabaracci4897
5 жыл бұрын
I’m a Christian and I love Christian cringe XD
@philipbueckert4342
5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@blaineyeamlak
4 жыл бұрын
Yessir 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@alextv8975
4 жыл бұрын
@Bailey Tabaracci. You aren't Christian. You were just born in a Christian family and you are used to saying it. I was like that until I was 23. You'll be an Atheist soon. It's so liberating.
@mariapopa1890
4 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@PistachioDean
5 жыл бұрын
I mean, congrats Meghan Trainor on your first kiss, I guess?
@georgelilly1847
5 жыл бұрын
And her first lay and it all happened on the same day, talk about a big fuckin day
@-belue-6697
5 жыл бұрын
Dean Stephens...HAHAHAHAHA! MEGHAN TRAINOR! 😂😂😂👍👍 She does look like the uber christian MEGHAN TRAINOR! 😋
@cuttingedgecomix
5 жыл бұрын
Ever notice how it is THE most fake plastic people who are also the most self righteous?
@MeCooper
5 жыл бұрын
I can smell her foundation through the damn screen XD
@codymckay3505
5 жыл бұрын
This is so true, oh my God!
@chronodyne
5 жыл бұрын
Is Kim Kardashian self-righteous then?
@MeCooper
5 жыл бұрын
@@chronodyne ...I honestly can't tell if you're joking...
@michaelmccain5323
5 жыл бұрын
Anyone else waiting until marriage to meet their spouse 😍
@leprechaunbutreallyjustamidget
5 жыл бұрын
Arranged marriages are the best arnt they lol
@-belue-6697
5 жыл бұрын
Genaveive the bimmer...UUUUUHHHHH, I've seen some docs annnnnd, they really aren't as great as you would imagine. 😂😂😒
@BluCharmander
5 жыл бұрын
@@leprechaunbutreallyjustamidget Came here to say that! 😂
@onepunch5133
5 жыл бұрын
"Nice going Joker"
@cultofmalgus1310
5 жыл бұрын
stop thinking about marriage because they usually end badly anymore. No respect for men, women bounce from guy to guy even when you get married. If you enjoy paying your earnings away then have at it. Smart men dont marry because the laws are stacked entirely against them. But you keep believing on those Disney movie lies if you want.
@stormysmoon9286
4 жыл бұрын
next girl defined video: "why i waited until marriage to breath."
@berrisfueller6221
4 жыл бұрын
stormy's moon And the next one after that. “Why I waited until marriage to even fully wrap my arm around my husband’s shoulder and lean my head on it”
@jessicaa.1894
5 жыл бұрын
"Both mental and physical, otherwise you're just friends?" What about people who are asexual?
@eee333DDD
5 жыл бұрын
I’m not asexual, nor have I dated anyone who is asexual, but asexuals interact differently with their partners than they do with their friends. Intimacy doesn’t have to be sexual to be romantic. But I agree, I don’t think Jaclyn was thinking of asexuals when she said this.
@jaxongray6115
5 жыл бұрын
Oh my god stop
@virtualgamers9022
3 жыл бұрын
Ace here! Physical attraction does not equate to sexual attraction! :)
@damianthefreak666
5 жыл бұрын
I could be a replacement for one of them. Not because I'm a brainwashed religious guy, but because I can look at the person next to me while nodding and going "uh huh, mmm hmm" very well.
@hellfiresmore2706
5 жыл бұрын
Saving their first kiss until marriage? Why do I feel like they're lying...?
@hellfiresmore2706
5 жыл бұрын
BTW, 3:15 Me too, 100%. Fix it...just...just fix it...
@shortangel333
5 жыл бұрын
Well Im not dating until Im married
@hellfiresmore2706
5 жыл бұрын
@@shortangel333 Yeah....That's the reason...
@Rick_Cleland
5 жыл бұрын
Cause her boyfriend is a flaming homosexual!
@-belue-6697
5 жыл бұрын
Osithis...They are not lying...cause I don't know who could stand them to date them, let alone marry them. The voices alone remind me of the valley girls in the 80's who were super into going to the mall everyday. 🤔😒... They ARE lying about being married though! 😂😂😂
@timothycortolschewski2506
5 жыл бұрын
Does the discount code apply to buttplugs? Asking for a friend.
@SHGogo-df5jr
4 жыл бұрын
@A Sharpie Marker and what quote specifically says that? Because I'm pretty sure it never says that
@RenaMaaka
5 жыл бұрын
I was raised Apostolic Pentecostal. They put so much fear and guilt in you especially as a child that, even though I've never been sexually abused, I (there's probably other reasons for it, but they have yet to be discovered by me) have developed severe genophobia. I can't even go to the doctor to get checked for PCOS because they have to do a pap, and (even though I'm aware it's not sexual in nature) the thought of anyone, ANYONE touching me; again, even with the knowledge that it's not meant sexually, makes me actually suffer panic attacks. I do believe this was heavily induced by the fear tactics and guilt/shame type of "teaching" they do with young children. I was made aware of these things by the time I was around 10. I'm 23 now and have never had any type of sexual encounter with anyone because of my intense fear. Sorry this is long, I just wanted to expose the impact these kinds of teachings can have in the worst case scenarios.
@lmoral222
5 жыл бұрын
:'( Things will be ok.... chin up, Trooper. You got this (whatever it may be) :') that is all
@thezekroman
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing, I know how hard it can be coming out of religious indoctrination (although I can't personally attest to anything that traumatic). This is why I think religious indoctrination is child abuse, the sheer mental, physical and physiologic effects on the child well into adulthood is so blatantly clear that I think it's disgusting that we live in a society that can't condone such inhumane transgressions.
@zentria7731
5 жыл бұрын
Just out of mere curiosity could you be referring to the UPCI?
@sunaleexo
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for you. I wish you can find peace someday. If you think a therapy could help you, the EMDR has very good results on PTSD and any kind symptoms of trauma, so maybe that could help you...
@TheTofuGoddess
5 жыл бұрын
Isn’t the point of being sex-positive that you aren’t meant to shame people for their sexual choices? There are people who have secular reasons to wait for marriage, should those people be shamed for waiting, too? I think a more productive video would be exclusively critiquing the “because the bible told me so” reason for waiting for marriage, rather than generally shaming the idea of waiting. If you don’t want to wait? Cool. You want to wait? Also cool, so long as that isn’t coming from a place of shame. Also the idea that unless you have physical intimacy with someone, you are “just friends” is ridiculous. Does romantic connection not exist to you? Strange.
@xord1946
5 жыл бұрын
And, yes, two people, might even be in love with each other, are friends until there is physical intimacy. "I love her, she loves me" doesn't make a relationship. Actually let me tell you, to think that physical intimacy isn't needed for a relationship is like saying romantic connection isn't either and "two people having sex is a valid relationship". It's not in either case, you need the two of them.
@bknighttheemo8756
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah I’m asexual it kinda bothers me but I am a romantic and that doesn’t include sex it’s not for me but that doesn’t mean we are just friends you don’t kiss your friends on the lips you don’t hold hands and go on dates with friends I mean holding hands sure but going on a date no you don’t feel as close to friends as you do with a partner that is love looking each other in the eyes you don’t feel butterflies with your friends so no sex in a relationship doesn’t mean you aren’t lovers sorry I just wanted to teach people who don’t know about asexuality I mean certain asexuality there are different asexuals but some like me don’t include sex in our lives.
@bknighttheemo8756
5 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to add you don’t marry your friends I’m just saying
@xord1946
5 жыл бұрын
You can marry your friends, this is legally perfectly possible. See how you struggle to describe it. All your post long. That's a friendship and nothing more. Libido disorders aren't included in what I say and they're not permanent.Stop the lie about asexuality being a part of someone's being. it's not, it is treatable and cureable.
@TheTofuGoddess
5 жыл бұрын
Xord You can also say “I love you” to a friend and have sex with them and not be in a romantic relationship. Unless you want to strictly define relations solely by the physical acts that transpired between two people, and you classify two people having sex together as being the sole criteria for being in a romantic relationship, then sure.
@msbarrysellom2323
5 жыл бұрын
Omg another girl defined. Jesus christ. (Our lord and savior)
@nixonesport1998
5 жыл бұрын
What are girl defined doing wrong? Because they have conservative opinions? Have you seen Muslim female KZitemrs, they are even more conservative I think you guys are attacking them because they are attractive white and blonde
@matthew1194668
5 жыл бұрын
@@nixonesport1998 lmao nice strawman
@nixonesport1998
5 жыл бұрын
@@matthew1194668 The strawman is making fun of girl defined. In an atheist and I see the envy and hypocrisy.
@AndersKjeldgaardNielsen
5 жыл бұрын
Sure you do, troll. As said, you can disagree with several things without having to talk about them all. Plus, your little white knighting there is not gonna get you anywhere.
@alisarsour8552
5 жыл бұрын
@@AndersKjeldgaardNielsen I want to see some cringe videos of Muslims preaching that homosexuals need to be put out their misery, it's the compassionate thing to do. Girl defined is ridiculous and therapeutic and always makes me laugh.
@s.l.reynolds9888
5 жыл бұрын
I don't see why it matters if they waited til marriage for kissing or sex when that's not what a relationship is about? A relationship without sex can be just as significant as one with it. I think it's equally as absurd to think you have to sleep with someone before marriage.
@jupiterstevens-hill7331
5 жыл бұрын
It matters when these two women who have either never had sex before, or have had sex with one man, tell young, impressionable girls how to act.
@s.l.reynolds9888
5 жыл бұрын
@@jupiterstevens-hill7331 except the girls they are telling how to act have the same belief system they do. And the amount of sex you have has nothing to do with the ability to give advice to others. Having sex with multiple people is not the only way.
@maggieann6437
5 жыл бұрын
The problem is the shame and insecurity they are giving the act of sex or kissing. It's not a dirty thing but they are making it out to be...
@s.l.reynolds9888
5 жыл бұрын
@@maggieann6437 they aren't making it shameful, dirty thing by having a different opinion on when they should happen in a relationship.
@maggieann6437
5 жыл бұрын
@@s.l.reynolds9888 I still think it should be a choice you make for yourself not because you think God is judging you, most asexual people dont participate in sex or kissing and that's fine and healthy and normal for those kinds of people. but their belief system behind this is based in shame of a natural act...these girls aren't talking about healthy relationships with another person they are directly saying this is a healthy relationship with their God and a sacrifice, it's not healthy to feel guilty about kissing unless you are cheating lol
@Hatman
5 жыл бұрын
I bet that intimate fun is with the lights off... and wearing pyjamas
@emilyc8056
5 жыл бұрын
Wolfie ...are you Kristin’s husband? lol
@dalewr38
5 жыл бұрын
@@emilyc8056 No I'm just not a jealous little whore that failed at life and spends all my time berating women that didn't fail because I have an inferiority complex.
@emilyc8056
5 жыл бұрын
Wolfie It be like that sometimes. Carry on.
@drawgam2946
5 жыл бұрын
@@dalewr38 Berating people it is,dont genderstamp them, you sexist pig ;)
@FoidGames
5 жыл бұрын
Love the girl defined videos. They make me feel like a hoe even though I've been married for 15 years. Yup, I didn't wait! I'm a hoe bag.
@aquamarinedream8304
5 жыл бұрын
I was unmarried when I lost it at 22 so I'm a whore as well lol
@chronodyne
5 жыл бұрын
TofuDream Lol, we got an angry, aging Jezebel over here...
@thatveganpunk13
5 жыл бұрын
One of my friends had a friend in college that wanted to wait until marriage to say “I love you.”
@MBarberfan4life
5 жыл бұрын
That’s kind of paradoxical. That’s because it seems like you would want to love someone before you marry them.
@morwennmusachia2670
5 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for you to find this one 😂😂
@recruitingbrosforthebattle62
5 жыл бұрын
MnM Animations We got a Christian/catholic in the chat better hide my "radical homosexual" brother
@aquamarina5216
5 жыл бұрын
And what in the fudge is wrong with waiting with sex till marriage?! I'm not Christian, I don't plan to get married, I don't want to even fall in love because I have simply to much on my plate, but I aplaude these girls for being smart, at least their kids won't gonna have to grow up knowing that their daddy was some random one-night stand from the nightclub. Also, it's THEIR BODY, and THEIR CHOICE, they don't harming anybody with their decision in my opinion opposite of that because they ensure that their future children will have a better start at life (it's always healthier to the child to be raised by both mother and father), fortunately, freedom of speech is still a thing, they are entitled to have thair opinion, but I don't understand why the fudge it bothers you so much? Feeling annoyed because they are smarter than you maybe? Because it sure looks like it to me.
@xBLACKSTARV2
5 жыл бұрын
Waiting till marriage is a sure fire way to end up sexually frustrated
@chevronseven6051
5 жыл бұрын
I wonder if masterbating feverishly to your boyfriend before marriage would be considered sinful to the eyes of the lord.
@chronodyne
5 жыл бұрын
Just get married when you're still fairly young. Boom, problem solved
@michikat5183
5 жыл бұрын
but also it'd be beautiful
@DK-uc9zr
5 жыл бұрын
@@dalewr38 +1 Amen. Furthermore Jaclyn is a terrible mascot for a happy atheist.
@dalewr38
5 жыл бұрын
@Reptilezionofaramouru adre Every one of these skanks in her comments has lost the ability to even pair bond, and they at least subconsciously know it, that's why they try so hard to convince others to make their same mistakes. They're fuck ups and misery loves company, but these miserable losers will always be alone in life. They remind me of the SJW cult trying to wish away the reality of gender because they're fat and ugly and nobody wants them.
@emmatheenigma6939
5 жыл бұрын
7:05 *Gestures to Bethany* "Male" *Gestures near herself* "Female"
@Momoftwoboysandonecat
5 жыл бұрын
I actually did wait until marriage. But it isn't for everyone and it did first come from God Guilt but as time went on I just didn't want to have sex until I wanted to. So I waited, we waited. My husband was fine with it and we have a very happy marriage now almost 7 years now. It's not for everyone for sure! No shame to those who don't wait at all.
@Momoftwoboysandonecat
5 жыл бұрын
@Steve Gracy In the beginning yeah it was just the idea of shaming God. But then I didn't like the idea of putting physical and emotional attachments to every guy I could have slept with. I know how I am. But I also watched my sisters and friends go through these horrible break ups and they always said they couldn't believe they had slept with them. (sounds dumb I know, but to a 16 year old girl I knew I just didn't want that regret). So I didn't want to do it until I knew for sure I loved the person I was going to have that first time with. I felt like for me this was something that I wanted to be sacred. It was my body and I wanted someone to want it not for a night but for life. Not everyone feels that way of course and I in no way hold anyone else to how I viewed it. My husband wasn't a virgin and I didn't care if he was. It wasn't supposed to be a standard, just a personal choice.
@lutheranninja1819
5 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth C Awesome story, thanks for sharing!
@Momoftwoboysandonecat
5 жыл бұрын
@Steve Gracy You didn't pay attention. I said in the beginning it was a god thing, and in the end it wasn't. Meaning my views and life has changed. Nice try.
@Momoftwoboysandonecat
5 жыл бұрын
@Steve Gracy It's none of your business what I am. Why do you care? I shared a story on my life and how it pertained to the video. How does my view on religion change your life?
@chrisbuttonshaw2088
5 жыл бұрын
@@Momoftwoboysandonecat not having sex until marriage is a personal choice.... but not KISSING is a touch extra much. you should have SOME physical contact before marriage.
@marshiaerisha1287
5 жыл бұрын
Wow, love is based on feelings? what a surprise. what an absolute mindfuck. amazement. im dumbfounded. a revelation really.
@selfcompassionate
4 жыл бұрын
imagine. an emotion based on feelings? literally unheard of.
@larry1816
4 жыл бұрын
this is REVOLUTIONARY SHIT right here like why hasn't NASA studied this or some shit
@Firegirl483
5 жыл бұрын
Waiting for marriage is cool of them to be able to do. The first kiss thing tho... idk about that lol
@katyuwusha
5 жыл бұрын
I CAN'T TAKE THIS. THESE WOMEN MAKE ME FEEL SO UNCOMFORTABLE! WTH??!?!
@JamesChessman
5 жыл бұрын
its just because you're uncomfortable with women
@darkstrifequeen1458
5 жыл бұрын
is it just me, or do too many christians throw the term christian itself like a label of social status?
@jessicabarbour493
5 жыл бұрын
Dude Paul and Morgan make me even more uncomfortable than these two. Like I can’t describe it, those people are so toxic it makes me nauseous through the screen. I didn’t even know that was possible lmao.
@JamesChessman
5 жыл бұрын
@@jessicabarbour493 I don't think they're toxic really, lol. misguided in their religiousness but that's how that goes. most religious folks are probably similar...
@zinkheroofyoutube8004
4 жыл бұрын
@@JamesChessman No, Girl Defined is just cringy
@rectumralph79
5 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting until I'm married to hold a girl's hand. (See I'm more Christian than those grls.)
@chrisbuttonshaw2088
5 жыл бұрын
there's actually a youtube couple like that. TheAtheist covered them recently.
@christhomas2785
5 жыл бұрын
I stopped loving my girlfriend when she didnt feed my goldfish.
@cinnamonpirate5294
4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, that's animal abuse - abusing your pet is a VERY good reason not to love someone, afterall you're their skin parent & they rely on you.
@tferguson2910
5 жыл бұрын
Also think about it Adam and Eve weren't married. So they were sinners. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤔🤔
@KatiesArabVision
4 жыл бұрын
Adam and Eve were married.
@allison4882
4 жыл бұрын
@@KatiesArabVision why do you say that?
@thot69
4 жыл бұрын
@@KatiesArabVision Who officiated the wedding?
@Purgosmusic
4 жыл бұрын
Genesis chapter 3 verse 20 And Adam called his wife's name Eve; because she was the mother of all living.”
@larry1816
4 жыл бұрын
According to their faith they were married and identified as man and wife but they didn't have an officiating ceremony at the time.
@mjfranolich3681
5 жыл бұрын
"It's not me, it's God." Nailed it lol.
@xLiviPoox
5 жыл бұрын
What's the point of getting so heated with people who are doing something in their own personal lives that will have no effect on you whatsoever?? Like girl, go have sex and let them wait. They have an opinion just like you and that doesnt make neither one more important than the other.
@ElpSmith
5 жыл бұрын
Olivia OMG No one said that. The problem is Girl Defined telling other people what to do.
@ashleycrystal9719
5 жыл бұрын
Elp Smith how are they telling people what to do? They’re just saying what THEY did
@ElpSmith
5 жыл бұрын
Ashley Crystal You can tell by their tone that they want everyone else to do it too. Why would they make the video if they weren’t trying to send a message?
@ElpSmith
5 жыл бұрын
@@lazo89 Just because they don't see it that way or credit themselves doesn't mean I'm wrong. It means they have a distorted reality. I will never see religion as safe.
@ElpSmith
5 жыл бұрын
@@lazo89 I'm definitely not a believer. Also, I'd like to state that religious and atheist are pretty much polar opposites so you're definitely not both.
@Jacob115ify
5 жыл бұрын
It's frustrating to see someone as smart as jaclyn totally dismiss and shame another person's choices in sexuality. Is saying that your one requirement for physical intimacy is the promise of lifelong trust such a terrible thing? Give it a bit of credit and dont be so harsh on some girls trying their best to live up to their religion's expectations. I noted far more degrading than criticism from jaclyn than I'd like to see from an intellectual
@Jacob115ify
5 жыл бұрын
@@hondata974 but the thing is, the girls weren't making much of a point. They were saying that this is how they behaved, this is why, and you should try it to if you want. Jaclyn made fun of them the whole time without addressing anything said. She made fun of their hair and actions but hardly gave reasons for their ideas being wrong. Shes of course allowed to say these things but it's hard to say it's a good video if shes going to act like that
@shaywilliams4790
5 жыл бұрын
Well said, thank you for pointing that out. For Jaclyn, someone who is absolutely smart enough to present her points in a mature valid way, she sure went for just shaming them (which she HATES when someone gets shamed for their sexual choices, but she's gonna shame anyone who is waiting until marriage). She also went for just picking on them for superficial shit that had nothing to do with her point (the one girls laugh, also her hair). She could make a good point, but she ruined it by just mocking them, and being more concerned about ripping them for ANYTHING no matter how dumb, than making her point. I like Jaclyn a lot, I watch a lot of her content, but this video was crap for reasons I stated
@longingsoul1
5 жыл бұрын
@@Jacob115ify I dunno if we're watching the same thing. But the two blondes aren't really making suggestions. And when they try and present it in such a way it's really snide...smug? I think smug works better. They're both giving their own opinions but only one if them is using their deity to try and solidify it. If they really "wanted people to try it." As you tried to defend, then they wouldn't have to mention God. Also...it's a weird thing to "try" you don't just... casually marry someone.
@Jacob115ify
5 жыл бұрын
@@longingsoul1 That is... actually the same thing that I said. So we agree hooray.
@racheljoy6465
5 жыл бұрын
I respect you so much
@dani-hq6ed
5 жыл бұрын
tHe CrInge iS bACk
@15mollie
5 жыл бұрын
Now that I know her husband had to go for conversion therapy for being gay, I feel he was pretty OK with the no kiss rule
@bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594
4 жыл бұрын
Watching them is so weird. It’s like while one talks, the other one just goes into a catatonic state full of head nods and “mhmm”s
@AlittleAcorn
3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@dovegrey275
5 жыл бұрын
You should react to Paul and Morgan’s video Christians on lgbtq. It’s way worse than girl defines video and so homophobic
@austinm2293
5 жыл бұрын
Dove Carstairs that video is probably the worst thing I’ve seen on KZitem honestly. The delusion and brainwash combined with Morgan actually thinking she’s a good friend and a good person was just too much to handle
@chronodyne
5 жыл бұрын
It's honestly just the truth tho...
@austinm2293
5 жыл бұрын
chronodyne your version of the truth is not everyone else’s truth, when will you homophobes learn to stop sharing your harmful hateful opinions?
@chronodyne
5 жыл бұрын
Austin M There is only one "truth." There's not "my truth" and "your truth." Just "truth." And another problem with you and your ilk is reflexively calling anything that you don't agree with, or that goes against your own opinion, "racist" / "sexist" / "bigoted" / "homophobic." People are allowed to have different opinions. Not everyone on Earth is obliged to tow your party line, and share your warped view of the world. Get over yourself, you leftist clown.
@austinm2293
5 жыл бұрын
chronodyne no, there absolutely is not only one “truth” you bible thumpers can die mad about it, the Bible will never be an absolute truth for all to live by. Secondly, if you agree with Morgan’s terrible video, you are by very definition alone homophobic. That’s not my opinion, it’s just the fact. if you don’t support equality or lgbt rights that does make you homophobic, you should get used to that term if you’re going to choose to live such a hateful bigoted life. The problem with you and your “ilk” is reflexively calling anyone you disagree with “leftist” I’m surprised you were able to hold yourself back and not throw in “snowflake”, good for you. Lastly, get over yourself you homophobic prick.
@oxeyesaint
4 жыл бұрын
"I'm actually not waiting until marriage to kiss my wife, we're waiting until we have kids... so we can make them watch" -Jacksfilms
@dancehallqueenie777
4 жыл бұрын
Here’s the thing I was raised Christian and I met a guy who was very religious. He wanted to wait to make out till marriage so we waited. We never really even kissed because he was afraid it would go too far. Our wedding night was so awkward! We didn’t kiss the same I would never have married someone I had such little chemistry with. When he touched my chest it was like tune in Tokyo because he didn’t have experience and it wasn’t good ever! We divorced two years later and I felt like the biggest idiot!
@pikachulovable
3 жыл бұрын
Word. Gotta sample the product. Men with experience are bad I cannot imagine virgins
@generalboopleaderofboopgan4468
5 жыл бұрын
I was rewatching this and I spit out my Pepsi when she said "love is basically based on feelings" bahahahhahahahaha
@britneyog9537
4 жыл бұрын
As a Christian, these ladies are so misinformed and are embarrassing.
@minalh715
4 жыл бұрын
Jaclyn: this video is sponsored by Adam and Eve Girls defined: God created a man and a woman, Adam and Eve Me, a bi girl laughing at the irony: yas, that's why I do BOTH 😎
@triggerlynn1982
4 жыл бұрын
Was dating a guy for two weeks and moved in with him after two weeks...We have been married for 7 years and have 1 son and a new kiddo on the way 😂😂🤷🏻♀️ that’s just me though. Also I have two out gay blood brothers and a gay cousin so I’m guessing “God” was like this family is not full of “Love defined by God” 😂😂 I just can’t with these girls
@Chelsnep
5 жыл бұрын
I feel like these girls know they are horrid in sack so they didnt want their husbands to know until they trapped them
@aquamarinedream8304
5 жыл бұрын
this could be solved easily through training. if you notice, the blonde looks down when she says ''marital intimacy etc''. She really does feel shame about sex.
@chronodyne
5 жыл бұрын
TofuDream They're both blonde, genius...
@DavidWMiller
5 жыл бұрын
@@aquamarinedream8304 It's not pedantic to call out something like that. It was a fairly key detail that meant nothing unless clarified.
@katie_jean3130
5 жыл бұрын
I am Christian but this is too much for me waiting until marriage to kiss um yeah no thanks
@hvyarms4496
5 жыл бұрын
@@firasjemil213 nice try.
@kiera6326
5 жыл бұрын
@@firasjemil213+ Why? Because she isn't saving her first kiss for the alter??
@alexisdenny5396
5 жыл бұрын
Same. There's no way i'm having my first kiss in front of my family
@tabiBLAKEMORE
5 жыл бұрын
Firas Jemil no witty retorts for all of these people calling you on your misogyny? I’m a Christian too but it’s hard because it means I have to be loving even to people like YOU. Oh and I’m a lesbian. What hateful words do you have for me????
@Toki90towa
5 жыл бұрын
@@firasjemil213 Being a Christian is much more than just waiting until marriage to do stuff, you know?
@andyrowe7038
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so early today lol. seeing Jaclyn’s videos make me so happy
@sta9706
5 жыл бұрын
Please leave them alone with their choices and live your life. What's the point to shame other people for making their own choices ?
@tlibito
5 жыл бұрын
Those girls are creepy and stupid. Christian's have earned the hate
@Nimbereth
5 жыл бұрын
@@tlibito You are stupid. Leave this girls alone.
@heathereagle2984
5 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh...they actually clapped for themselves....goodness...
@lordfinn6685
5 жыл бұрын
Loooooooooooooooooooooool
@EEsYouTubeChanel
Жыл бұрын
The epitome of cringe
@that11girl
5 жыл бұрын
My interpretation of the Bible- there aren’t rules in place for no reason. God says don’t have sex before marriage because there could be not so great consequences if you do. Pregnancy that maybe one of the partners didn’t want, std’s etc. god says not to steal from others because there are consequences to those actions also. If you think about it there are consequences to all the things god says not to do. I have rules I set for my kids not just for the hell of it but to keep them safe and healthy. Do I follow all of the rules? Nope. Have bad things happened to me because I didn’t? Yes. To me god isn’t this strict crazy being that doesn’t want us to have fun. He wants us to be safe. 🤷🏼♀️
@eldergreen4468
5 жыл бұрын
"Rules...consequences" One of the reasons humanity invented gods and religions, to control people's behaviour.
@that11girl
5 жыл бұрын
If there weren’t rules and consequences do you really think the world would be a better place? Whoever you believe created these rules, they are needed either way for society to function to some extent
@zaco-km3su
5 жыл бұрын
Well, there are condoms. That solves the problem with sex. As for God...you really don't want to know the truth. It's dark.
@zaco-km3su
5 жыл бұрын
@@eldergreen4468 Not really. HUmanity invented gods to explain unknown phenomenons. Other uses were discovered later on.
@saweaty2473
5 жыл бұрын
You know condoms and pills are a thing right?Its 2019 you can still be safe while having sex lmao
@deltadandyFIVE
5 жыл бұрын
Really disappointed you didn’t go with Emma Mae Jenkins ,she’s an absolute gold mine,but that’s how it be sometimes
@chronodyne
5 жыл бұрын
It do be like dat doe
@ross-carlson
5 жыл бұрын
Jaclyn you and Rachel Oats need to start GIRL-UNDEFINED!!!
@nunyabusiness7858
5 жыл бұрын
Girl Redefined.
@enjebae
5 жыл бұрын
i was literally just watching cody and noel's video on this
@amylake9064
5 жыл бұрын
Mr. Struggle
@samanthagonzalez286
5 жыл бұрын
Same😂😂😂
@emmanilsson2604
5 жыл бұрын
If you stop loving someone when they've made you upset, IT'S NOT LOVE.
@outsideworld76
5 жыл бұрын
Don't worry men will never love thots period
@mariusspadasinul
5 жыл бұрын
Eh let them do what they want
@blairence
5 жыл бұрын
BUT BUT BUT ITS SO TRIGGERING! it's funny how the "I'll do what I want crowd" gets outraged when christians do what they want. They aren't hurting anyone.
@Nimbereth
5 жыл бұрын
@@blairence I reported this video. This fake redhead are sick.
@charliedead5015
5 жыл бұрын
I love how jacklyn started the video with the girl defined theme..then completely cut them off! Haha 🤣
@juliet3013
5 жыл бұрын
*I’m waiting until marriage to talk to another gender.*
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