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@Miner___
16 күн бұрын
ive been watching your detransition videos for quite a while and i am very sorry for everything youve gone through. i love the fact that, despite all of the backlash youre exposed to, you still continue to publicly talk about this in full detail to educate people about this topic. I wish you luck with this book, as i feel as it's contents will be incredibly educative and informative to many people, specially nowadays.
@christianefiorito3204
16 күн бұрын
I think you are very honrst with yourself and your feelings and difficulties to overcome. You are the ideal person because you detransitioned allready some time ago. I send you lots of love❤
@alexanderl9721
16 күн бұрын
Appreciate that. The fact a lot of time has passed and that I have achieved acceptance and peace of mind related to what happened and that I stopped being bitter and angry definitely changes one's perspective on everything.
@EvaMoritz
15 күн бұрын
Good luck man. Writing a book is like having a baby. Hard job. Hope you will make it! I would love to read it. Which language are you going to write it in?
@Angie_Secret_Squirrel
15 күн бұрын
I was just thinking too, you should try to contact Joanne Rowling when you’re ready to ask for advice, she has a vested interest in the detrans subject, you may find her of great help, just a thought….
@uslph.
8 күн бұрын
I thought she got infected by mold and died?
@Angie_Secret_Squirrel
8 күн бұрын
@@uslph. who?
@uslph.
8 күн бұрын
@@Angie_Secret_Squirrel Joanne of course.
@Angie_Secret_Squirrel
8 күн бұрын
@@uslph. no, she is VERY much alive and well!
@Keurgui1
16 күн бұрын
Alexander This is your destiny!
@Angie_Secret_Squirrel
15 күн бұрын
You are evolving, it is a process, a journey, YOUR journey ❤ you are more than qualified to write it, you are the teller of truth and I do believe that your candid way of talking, coupled with your sense of humour and first hand experience will help someone to either avoid the transition or help them make the right decision for themselves, good luck! ❤
@christianefiorito3204
16 күн бұрын
Great idea! I wish you much of luck.
@alexanderl9721
16 күн бұрын
Thank you.
@asiwassaying6726
15 күн бұрын
PLEASE! Do something with your hair; it's really distracting!
@Keurgui1
13 күн бұрын
It looks fine?
@bornwithoutconsentobviously
12 күн бұрын
Any ideas?
@uslph.
8 күн бұрын
@@Keurgui1 Why you lying?
@alexanderl9721
8 күн бұрын
I like it this way and I need to stim one way or another.
@Listenerandlearner870
15 күн бұрын
Your book could present the practical issues of detransitioning, hormonal, emotional. What is possible in detransition ? What is not possible ?
@LadyMystie
11 күн бұрын
I think your the perfect person for the topic of detransision. It could help so many to hear from someone who has been through it. You have a lot of wisdom to share ❤😊
@thegalhorowitz
14 күн бұрын
Watched your video, as a complete outsider to these issues. Glad you are writing, your story is very relevant in todays climate.
@th_gender08
16 күн бұрын
Great work!! ♥
@alexanderl9721
16 күн бұрын
Thanks.
@theantiquelittlegirl5891
16 күн бұрын
Good luck with your book. As someone who is in process of publishing my memoir, it’s with my editor right now, I’d encourage you to join a writing group, a memoir or non- fiction group, so that your have feedback among a trusted group of readers. It will move your writing up a level and you will have a network in place. Good luck!
@carinagomezfernandez7473
16 күн бұрын
People assume that detransitioners always made a mistake about their gender identity. But I don't think that is true. There can be many reasons why people don't continue with their transition. Me for example; I don't want to be on synthetic hormones for the rest of my life. However my intern gender identity is still (trans) masculine.
@alexanderl9721
16 күн бұрын
Absolutely. That is actually something I cover in the book. What you're describing isn't uncommon at all.
@carinagomezfernandez7473
15 күн бұрын
In that case I think your book would be interesting and educational.
@bornwithoutconsentobviously
12 күн бұрын
True, but I truly dislike when trans people make it the narrative why MOST people detransition while that is not the truth as if regret is something that’s not allowed to exist. For their own benefit.
@LadyDiana1956
16 күн бұрын
Make sure to tell us how everyone pushed you into making bad decisions about your own life. By all means let people know that Nobody can be happy after transition because YOU Couldn’t handle your own mistakes.
@alexanderl9721
16 күн бұрын
Well nope. I don't think nobody can be happy after transition and no, I don't project my own experiences on others. If you actually listened to what I am talking about you'd know that. So nice try accusing me of having views I don't have. I'm writing this because I want more people to understand the complexity and layers of the phenomenon, help people determine whether transition is the right choice for them and if so, that they don't have to have surgeries to fit into the image of what society and culture expects a man or woman to be and that it will help people deal with devastating events in life and build themselves up after such experiences, which don't necessarily have to apply to detransition. Also, nobody pushed me into transition. Stop putting all of us in a box based on stupid stereotypes. I'm trying not to do that towards trans people and I don't think it's too much to expect the same in return.
@lizicadumitru9683
16 күн бұрын
We all make mistakes, some more egregious than others. No need to make someone feel worse about those mistakes. I'm quite sure Alex knows people can be fulfilled in their lives after transition. A little grace goes a long way.
@Colina-q9y
16 күн бұрын
Can't take someone leaving the cult? Trans community is so vile and toxic to detransitioners. It only shows that most of you aren't actually happy with yourselves and your transitions.
@niram4107
15 күн бұрын
I can understand where you are coming from, but the manner in which you expressed yourself was aggressive. I agree that vulnerable children may be pushed to transition by what is happening in the society that they are in. For example, imagine a young 13 year old white, socially awkward middle-class boy or girl that is not popular, going through teenage angst, does not have athletic skills who is living and attending school in California. A state where the message is that because you are white you belong to the oppressor group and are shut down for opinions that may be contrary to the narrative promulgated. Imagine that same child that feels invisible and insignificant wanting to belong. Imagine the europhia felt by such a child that transitions. He or she suddenly goes from being an oppressor or a bigot to a minority that is protected, applauded and revered. I believe Dr Miriam Grossman, a respected psychotherapist, has written a book for parents to help them navigate this area and be prepared if it were to happen to their children. She is a strong advocate against transitioning children/minors.
@uslph.
8 күн бұрын
@@niram4107 Dr. Miriam Grossman is absolutely not a respected psychotherapist by ANY MEANS. Their entire criticism of sex education (known to reduce harm to minors) is that it is "Marxist" They are in support for conversion therapy for both homosexual and trans people. Nice try groyper/federal agent, unfortunately for you, google still exists for now.
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