Why is OP still married with her..... And still giving her all the benefits.
@Sithum_Dulran
5 ай бұрын
I thinks it’s because there’s a minimum separation period required before the divorce can be filed and the process can start…
@boblee7998
4 ай бұрын
I had the same question. Thank you
@bubbykins4864
4 ай бұрын
Minimum separation period, I presume.
@thecursed01
3 ай бұрын
Also the courts are slow
@h.dungore839
3 ай бұрын
Maybe because the wife asked for a separation before OP can find out she is cheating on him. So the law with filing for the divorce is different 🤔 plus it’ll allow him more time to gather information on the wife cheating on him so he doesn’t have to pay her alimony🤷♀️
@bocchitherock..
5 ай бұрын
This guy has a problem keeping a job.... also did i mention that this guy can't keep a job? Oh yea, and THIS GUY, he can't hold on to a job. One more thing. That guy can't keep his job.
@emazaga
3 ай бұрын
Are you sure this guy can't keep a job?
@BrownLove7562
2 ай бұрын
Damn, it’s a shame he can’t keep a job.
@orestojanovic8405
2 ай бұрын
Well I wouldn't exactly say that he can't keep a job, but according to what OP said it seems that that guy has troubles keeping a job.
@frenchie5823
2 ай бұрын
Poor job 😔
@alexmacken8011
2 ай бұрын
Wait, this guy doesn't have a job?
@themandownthehall
5 ай бұрын
When my ex and I separated, I quickly calculated my tax status. I saw I was going to get a decent refund so in late October I shut off withholding and pocketed the excess in cash so she couldn't get any of the refund since there wasn't any
@arthurhamilton5222
Ай бұрын
Way to go, man.
@Dmitrisnikioff
5 ай бұрын
Is this a fucking AI story? What the fuck is up with the language used and how it sounds? It's incoherent at times and repeats itself.
@toastyghostyofdeath3909
5 ай бұрын
Ya. Its definitely ai.
@loserdude2541
5 ай бұрын
Wouldn’t Ai make a story that makes sense?
@underthesky5173
5 ай бұрын
i think an ai is recapping an actual story on reddit and is just screwing up the language
@sharkeatinpizza
5 ай бұрын
@@loserdude2541you give ai waaaaay more credit than it deserves
@andersonwallace4365
2 ай бұрын
Yeah. No Reddit post is even half this long.
@alancarroll2347
5 ай бұрын
The way he speaks and his thought process is absolutely abysmal, not surprised he’s going through this
@Danji_Coppersmoke
5 ай бұрын
Exactly... he should just set his mind and moves on.. instead of guessing what she thinks/does...
@gannicusii4163
3 ай бұрын
thank you! but this sounds like a straight up fan fic by a virgin
@andrews960
2 ай бұрын
@@gannicusii4163 i was about to say the same LOL.
@princehades3378
2 ай бұрын
sounds like AI generated story
@diddly_fiddle___7119
2 ай бұрын
@@gannicusii4163 it does sound fake and probably is but here's a real one from my personal experience not super indepth but, my parents went through this almost exactly, my mom kept trying to get my dad to blow up at her, when they were still together she was pushing his buttons "I was present" while he was eating a cookie he finally got mad and told her to STFU and threw the cookie at the wall past her into the garbage, and that was somehow used against him in court along with other BS, and she got custody of me and my little sister, but after I turned 13 I stopped living with her on my own and every weekend my lil sis went with her she would start something by the time they were back She even went to the lengths of accusing me "her son" when I was 13-14 of sexual assault on that little sister and the same for my dad, but My sister isn't a "stupid" kid and called her out on the BS and now we fast forward to my lil sister 13th birthday and my mom got her that day "didn't say why she wanted to see her all of a sudden" but I knew it's because at that age you can choose what parent you live with ahd she was right now she doesn't talk to my mom either, I wonder why? 😂
@TheoriginalBacchuscleric
Ай бұрын
She's 27 and in a ten year marriage... Married at 17? More like the fanfiction of a 17 year old who just got dumped.
@breadogi7118
18 күн бұрын
Marriage at 17 isn’t that uncommon in some communities
@mistermisanthrope7716
5 ай бұрын
I wonder which AI wrote this story.
@tonysr1983
5 ай бұрын
This story is actually a couple years old
@fuzziegamer
4 ай бұрын
I got to "the therapist told me I was a great guy" while it can be true, feels so self serving lol
@myhandlehasbeenmishandled
2 ай бұрын
As far as I know once a woman remarries she loses spousal support.😊
@fuzziegamer
4 ай бұрын
A ten year marriage and shes 27?
@darkriku12
4 ай бұрын
Probably rounding up or married in hs.
@sebbanjonathan1937
2 ай бұрын
AI story
@ashisntafraidoflove9486
Ай бұрын
Some people marry young due to circumstances
@ladyweasellou3367
Ай бұрын
Depends on the country. Some countries have the age of an adult as 16. Some states in US can get married at 16 if pregnant. I got married one month before turning 19 to a older man, we've been married 17 years (very happily, I will add) and some people assume I was underage when we began dating but that's not the case at all. Most people are either just trying to start drama or trying to play armchair psychologists and come up all kinds of stupid stuff. Nothing to assuming.
@RashidAli-fb3se
5 ай бұрын
How about trying to use it to gain full custody since affair clouds even if they disappear and realy sinks the kids might bear the brunt of her regret and get abused like it happened in many cases
@RashidAli-fb3se
5 ай бұрын
Op talk as if his ex took nothing seams like he Is a masochist who got used to or wants women to take him to the cleaners in divorce to say they took something
@InsertUsernameHere818
4 ай бұрын
How is she entitled to any tax refund? You'd have to beat it out of me.
@andrews960
2 ай бұрын
Or you withhold nothing for taxes and pay it out at the due date, then she's liable for half, right?
@williamj.dovejr.8613
2 ай бұрын
Never interrupt your opponent in court while they are making mistakes.
@lawsonallen7741
5 ай бұрын
She tells you to move out & you do. WHAT?!
@artixx4you632
Ай бұрын
If he doesnt she calls police, falsely accuses him of assault, he goes to jail without any evidence, loses all his rights in divorce, sees kids 1 day every 2 weeks if hes lucky
@evolvetrooper
2 ай бұрын
Womens kryptonite accountability, taking money away, losing everything, and when a man gives one word awnsers they want fights so they can have ammo but when you dont fight back you truly defeated her.
@desrayann
2 күн бұрын
This husband is a real doormat to his wife! He is paying for everything and she curse and mocking him and he does nothing.
@bookgirl2
3 ай бұрын
He says she had bruises, and he didn't immediately get his kids with him? That's worrying.
@Emmygirl72
Ай бұрын
Do... do you know what hickeys are? Creating suction can also create bruises, because all bruises are are broken capillaries. Many people enjoy doing this for fun, during activites. Bruises around the neck caused by, say, choking are much different than hickies. So. Correct, he did not immediately fear for his kids' safety upon seeing that his wife and her bf had sex.
@michaelswain868
2 ай бұрын
This OP sounded like he was a doormat for all kinds of things that he probably just shrugged off. I went through a divorce I hated the guy initially but after I saw my ex acting and reflecting I ended up asking why I didn't leave her years ago. It was a wake up call and its not as if I would thank an AP but by the time I signed my divorce papers I was more than okay with it.
@thabihotboy9376
4 ай бұрын
Opie is still attached to hearing about his wife or ex-wife because I have never listened to a post that loads so much about how the husband is reeling over his ex- wipes dismay much more than this. Like bro stop paying and get over it😊
@legiontepes3474
5 ай бұрын
This is an ai story. It makes no sense and lots of words are just random. At least proofread them, dude.
@loserdude2541
5 ай бұрын
Why would an ai misspell words
@underthesky5173
5 ай бұрын
this is probably an ai recapping an actual reddit story which is where the problems were introduced
@victorbauguess8237
5 ай бұрын
standard grind of youtube no one does any proof reading or proof watching they just throw a full reddit story (real or fake) into a TTS generator, put some crappy gameplay in the background, and have AI generate subtitles (most likely a pirated version of primere pro iirc it has AI subtitle generation) and throw it up on youtube
@loserdude2541
3 ай бұрын
@@Shadowy_2 ?
@legiontepes3474
3 ай бұрын
@@Shadowy_2 i hate word salads that day nothing and waste my time
@gospelelvis6136
2 ай бұрын
Sound like the OP drug his feet on the divorce, continuing to support her the whole time. Lots of tough talk without backing it up, in my opinion.
@icarussisyphus5201
2 ай бұрын
Stay at home moms need social stimuli and are susceptible to cheating.
@jordanbooker8751
4 ай бұрын
Bros unhinged a little bit but im here for it.
@RashidAli-fb3se
5 ай бұрын
Five months and there still not divorced
@RashidAli-fb3se
5 ай бұрын
Separated is not enough just if there is alimoney pay it all in one go just in case you get promoted before the alimoney ends or if the alimoney is indefinite thus you will save more
@Spirittism
5 ай бұрын
Would love to see an update on this story.
@thecursed01
3 ай бұрын
Ask the ai channel and the ai that wrote the story to make one. At my age, it's yet impressive that computers can do this nowadays
@victoriacristina9610
2 ай бұрын
Are you fr???? It's not a real story???
@WhoamI-ml6dj
3 ай бұрын
I love your long videos like this! They're perfect to play in the background when I'm winding down
@victoriacristina9610
2 ай бұрын
I really wanted to know the name of the game
@jayvbooth
2 ай бұрын
@@victoriacristina9610Minecraft
@SkyEcho751
4 ай бұрын
Honeymoon phase can last up to 1 and 1/2 years, so they might get a quick marriage, then like 8 months down the line one of them cheats and their marriage breaks up.
@brakis18
3 ай бұрын
Jesus christ get divorced. How long does it take?
@staggaback
2 ай бұрын
They tried to warn this fool from early. While she is in the happy faze. She would have agreed to anything for the new relationship He's stupid and just loving drama
@WellWisdom.
3 ай бұрын
This story sounds fake and writed by an bad writer.
@nastyachernomorchenko1065
3 ай бұрын
So repetitive and monotone, it's hard to comprehend, and what is reaching my brain sounds like 2 kids having a fallout.
@konkondwalge7749
4 күн бұрын
Simply doormat yapping telling how good of a simp he is
@squirrelsyrup1921
2 ай бұрын
The cutoff at the bottom of the video combined with the jumping on blocks makes me really anxious
@blackmamba367
5 ай бұрын
Its @33:00 already for me ,i have zero idea what the hell is happening in this story
@eshaytoastie9790
4 ай бұрын
Op is just a doormat who should of cut her off and stopped paying the bills and he keeps singing the same song like a broken parrot
@0rbital_nugget188
20 күн бұрын
These stories are like condom commercials for marriage
@arleneesserine1766
4 ай бұрын
isn't there a court app/emailthru courts that can be used for communication
@tomjoad1363
2 ай бұрын
Always have a call recording app on your phone when going through tough times like separation or divorce.
@9999plato
Ай бұрын
50-50 custody allows her time alone with new AP.
@Aggro-bbx
5 ай бұрын
They got married at 17?!
@Cathaleha
5 ай бұрын
No they have been together for 10 years
@Aggro-bbx
5 ай бұрын
@@Cathaleha But it said she was 27 currently and it was ten years ago that they got married
@somkhandagumbi
5 ай бұрын
@@Aggro-bbx you can date and then get married once your of legal age
@Aggro-bbx
5 ай бұрын
@@somkhandagumbi oh….my bad. Thanks for clearing that up for me.
@Crusader625
4 ай бұрын
@@Aggro-bbx late birthdays also exsist
@Pokerface-tr1ds
5 ай бұрын
Ah yes... I found a good husband, but I kinda think I can do better... yes yes... same old thing with them.
@user-gd7yx9mz4b
23 күн бұрын
Never pay, I'm in cash.I'll wish you the check so you have can keep track of it.That's the only way you can keep them and check
@jackieraulerson2005
2 ай бұрын
No new boyfriends should be around your kids at all. Also there are apps that allow separated and divorced parents to communicate and where a record is always kept, unlike regular text messages. Always record verbal or face-to-face conversations. Better yet, everything in texts or emails.
@jjnix9517
5 ай бұрын
The wives had been cheating for months at the least and it was definitely physical.
@zer0interno
Ай бұрын
Imagine wasting 41 minutes to listen through this entire story
@axepagode4321
3 ай бұрын
The grass is greener over the septic tank. Your exes new BF is a septic tank.
@gregoryk.9815
2 ай бұрын
A lot of judges are no longer giving women as much and if they cheated there taking that into consideration.
@vikingsoftpaw
2 ай бұрын
To the contrary, in most states everything is set by formula.
@trendreddit
2 ай бұрын
"Perhaps the wife initiated separation before OP uncovered her infidelity. Consequently, divorce proceedings entail different legal implications 🤔, offering him an extended window to gather evidence of her betrayal and potentially avoid alimony payments 🤷♀."
@mariwa5286
5 ай бұрын
So many women out there wanting to feel young and desired... sfmh vruh
@theguffball
3 ай бұрын
god if you spoke to me like this on a daily basis I'd divorce you too I cant even finish the damn video
@myhandlehasbeenmishandled
2 ай бұрын
It's unfortunate that story was not written better. Small mistakes take away from enjoyment.
@emileeoleary6590
2 ай бұрын
anyone know the update?
@Jack-pm1ve
2 ай бұрын
Well if you beat the crap out of your wife you will go to jail and she will get full custody. If you beat the crap out of him you will go to jail and she will get full custody.
@mnomadvfx
2 ай бұрын
The script occasionally sounds like it has been pushed through Google Translate or generated by an AI LLM.
@user-ww3pd2rf1b
2 ай бұрын
You dont need to pay child support with split custody most the time because you are saying the kids stay with you half the time.
@hensterino
Ай бұрын
This is clearly an AI story...
@wickedashley
3 ай бұрын
Greener grass is only greener because you are tending to it. Crops and pastures only thrive when they are nurtured. Of course your relationship falls apart when you start nurturing another.
@user-rc8zv9em4s
24 күн бұрын
lol post pregnancy body. He is utterly vexed.
@stevenclark442
3 ай бұрын
Dude speaks like an 8th grade dropout
@SSFighter1701
5 ай бұрын
So if she is 27 and they have been married 10 years…. they got married way too young
@harshaagarwal
2 күн бұрын
The writing is a mess and too repetitive.
@JDubs1464
2 күн бұрын
Op try not to mention that he doesn’t care/is more successful challenge
@rakeshpanwar6382
2 ай бұрын
dude have some drain damage, go LC with wife but he did, what pi doing don't know?, get divorce as soon as possible with minimum damage, he would not trying, talk only child related stuff, na he will be talk anything she say?
@raynewithhorns
2 ай бұрын
The misogyny from this post is really gross
@Sketchcook81
3 ай бұрын
This was painful to listen to. I'm guess this guy isn't a native English speaker.
@terriebtsOT7
2 ай бұрын
The AI had a stroke around minite 27!
@Maninawig
5 ай бұрын
When did he sptop paying for things?
@Runendaemon
5 ай бұрын
ngl this sounds like one of the most fake stories so far
@ylnotixe
2 ай бұрын
It's true. It happened to me. Twice.
@viniciusPatto
10 күн бұрын
37:00 if the guy hit your ex wife HOW CAN YOU LEAVE BOTH YOUR KIDS WITH HIM
@mohammedalzaqzouq-zh3le
2 ай бұрын
Theyve been married since she was 17?????!!
@chibonchibon3967
Ай бұрын
Its too long and I hear it all, but did he get divorce?
@nufsaid80
2 ай бұрын
Drama Queen..
@fallenkiwi6499
8 күн бұрын
This story just drags on and just got boring.
@marilyndwilliams5202
4 ай бұрын
Man just divorce and get on with your life. This story is crazy. This man see that his wife had move on, but he is still holding on for some reason. Stop playing games and divorce her quick and fast It istime to move on.
@aagamangamerff6084
4 ай бұрын
Did he/she changed the gender on his Previous video this was was ann independent woman and now he is a man??
@user-sp8uo4or2g
5 ай бұрын
The worst part about this is shell repeat her lies until people believe her. Most women i know today dont want committed relationships. They like the appearance of love but wont love the man they settle for. I personally think relationships and marriage have run their course, are no llonger relevant or important in todays world and need to end. The happiest people i know are men and women who stay single, focus on their goals and never go beyond fwb with any partner, just to satisfy their occasional needs. They treat other men and women like their brother and sister and everyone around them is happy to spend time with them. I think in modern society everyone should try this lifestyle, its happier and more practical. Any fwb they get is treated like a human being not some owned price of property. And kids conceived are mutually cared for by bolth parents. The nuclear family is outdated and just doesnt work anymore. Hope everyone is happy and healthy, i wish you all a happy holidays.
@ItalicMan420
5 ай бұрын
:/
@leaveitblank1898
5 ай бұрын
Only in murica
@HistoiresetConfessions-cc4le
5 ай бұрын
of course, and the next step is open the mariage by default, and men becoming candaulists, right?
@toastyghostyofdeath3909
5 ай бұрын
This is ai generated
@vlad-igor
5 ай бұрын
Well her cheating attitude has nothing to do with the world
@markmessina7895
3 ай бұрын
Dont waste your time or money on counseling
@joemedic710
4 ай бұрын
This story sucks! No ending, just ends.
@Epoxinator
2 ай бұрын
The dialog is so confusingly written.
@Big_.Sunlandia
4 ай бұрын
they got married at 17?
@scoobygang911
Ай бұрын
You were too kind.
@mikbdee2186
29 күн бұрын
15:45. Spell check please
@markmessina7895
3 ай бұрын
She was cheating for a long time
@dawnken4873
4 ай бұрын
The text at some parts are "interesting".
@emissary-gaming
2 ай бұрын
some of the text sounds ai generated
@deppresedonion6320
Ай бұрын
U could have said that bunch of nothing in 1 paragraph u sound opsessed with the boyfriend .
@franciscotabarus5742
Ай бұрын
Why havent you divorced her yet
@Sorreltail768
2 ай бұрын
ops fucking insane is all im saying
@hereforthebs8655
2 ай бұрын
Why do you keep saying bodies of women who carried babies.
@dominiquecomedian6897
2 ай бұрын
Why not have something related to the story instead of minecraft
@summer7603
Ай бұрын
AI generated drivel keeps repeating istelf
@boodits
2 ай бұрын
You need to work on your sub titles you even referred to the children in p*rn (13-14 months ago mark). Would hate to not be able to hear the words
@Omega-xs2yq
3 ай бұрын
Guys don't ever take a modern woman seriously, as you can see this is the kind of treatment you'll get in return.
@drsatan7554
5 ай бұрын
8:03 Wtf?
@tedmillion7171
5 ай бұрын
It sounds like she may behaving somekind of breakdown, mental or emotional.
@Boss_symbiote
3 ай бұрын
15:48
@KingIam17
Ай бұрын
These videos sound so simpl smh lol
@Nysvarth
Ай бұрын
Spelling? Grammar? Pronunciation? How about doing the bare minimum quality control when stealing and reposting other peoples stories?
@Nysvarth
Ай бұрын
Add to that about 30% of the sentences don't make any sense at all and there are sections repeated from you copy pasting to the text top speech tool incorrectly.
@axepagode4321
3 ай бұрын
Singaporean or Malaysian Lah
@starlight2098
2 ай бұрын
You know... listening to this... going through it all.... one thing became clear. OP was a bit of an a-hole, petty, judgemental, mean-spirited and joyless. She might have run away, but I strongly suspect that he motivated her to do so.
@xosimusxx4828
2 ай бұрын
I was just writing this, normally in these vids I see people latch on to what ever the OP says nice to see another point of view written out.
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