W or L rizz? 10K Likes and I’ll do this again, but with a lot more girls lol. Also saw some comments about my appearance and how I’m looking a bit ‘better’ and how I did it. It’s really a combination of cutting (I’ve lost 20lbs of fat) as well as I’ve gotten into looksmaxxing incase you’ve missed my previous videos. Could also be because I bought a new camera, so the quality and visuals are definitely upgraded! Anyways, thanks for watching and hopefully this inspires at least a couple of you guys to approach a girl or two ❤️ The book I used to looksmaxx: www.facialgains.com/dylanmcknight My workout program: dylansprogram.com Please use code ‘DYLAN’ for your Gorilla Mind supplements ❤️
@ccsurep
11 ай бұрын
What happend to Aubrey 😯
@ccsurep
11 ай бұрын
W rizz
@gamtoszinios1336
11 ай бұрын
1di0t watch scott primal
@soylentgr33n
11 ай бұрын
Just make a connor murphy style video where you pretend to be a nerd and then show girls your abs ahahha
@calvn8or543
11 ай бұрын
Absolute W
@freejae3884
10 ай бұрын
Bro caught feelings on the first attempt 💀💀
@Kqmren
7 ай бұрын
lmao frl, had to stop the video right then and there
@paulo0651
7 ай бұрын
Yeah and probably surpassed the line when he said "our kids would have pythons" to a teenager💀
@samerbark690
7 ай бұрын
@@paulo0651 teenager? trying to frame the guy or what?
@paulo0651
7 ай бұрын
@@samerbark690 I was joking bro, she's 19 and legal ofc
@REALGAMING2016
7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 homie somehow killed the first convo lmao
@rida7757
11 ай бұрын
brotha absolutely crushed that first approach after just saying he couldn’t walk up to girls at all 🤣🤣🤣
@eb_tigers0775
11 ай бұрын
m.kzitem.info/news/bejne/1pCa3GGKrZt-npw
@Lucid132
11 ай бұрын
Fr making me feel so much more single
@digitalsage5636
11 ай бұрын
Bro said our kids would have pythons😂
@chickentoucher55
10 ай бұрын
He sounded like a ai
@andeemengaming5000
10 ай бұрын
@@Bocchi347bro no the girls reaction was negligible notice the way he spoke. good face doesnt give you that
@itsOrba
10 ай бұрын
Bro found his wife in the first 30 seconds
@patricioortega5600
3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@DeTodoUnPocoX
3 ай бұрын
jajaa
@arthurgames9610
2 ай бұрын
Fr
@FOOTBALL_NNC
Ай бұрын
Bro gave up on yt
@marcelom.s.6065
Ай бұрын
Literally!!!!!
@eriksniped5111
5 ай бұрын
"I can't get girls" Bro if he tried:
@realwii.e1
Ай бұрын
me if i tried: x_x
@pikd7454
Ай бұрын
how do i repost a youtube comment xd
@BasedGuy6002
Ай бұрын
@@realwii.e1 literally me lol
@ChooseTheRightDialogue
Ай бұрын
@@BasedGuy6002 please teach me your ways
@fggfdfg3525
21 күн бұрын
Red pill man sucks, they don’t believe in the astral dimension, that’s why they suck.
@ISOUI9
11 ай бұрын
When he said "i rather charge into battle with a sword and shield instead of approaching a girl right now" I felt for him
@UgasInk
10 ай бұрын
Nah I felt him. I understood. Infact I agreed.
@Azurethewolf168
10 ай бұрын
That’s basically the dream for every teen dude into history
@Zenikai_
10 ай бұрын
i thought he was gonna finish that clip by walking up to the people in front of him LOL
@Εφταστερος
10 ай бұрын
It's always easier for an introvert to have a cause, a serious reason for doing something rather than making small talk and trying to socialize with others. I feel him.
@verlax8956
10 ай бұрын
@@Azurethewolf168and anjme
@Worldexplorer2390
10 ай бұрын
Sophie contributed and engaged in the conversation. Not a lot of girls do that.
@GlobeofBeauty
10 ай бұрын
Hardly everrrrr bro. If you get a girl to ask you a question back she a keeper
@Juscallmeshaun
10 ай бұрын
@@GlobeofBeautyidk bout a keeper bruh I will go far to say far from it bruh
@Tony-tk4ht
10 ай бұрын
bro i just cold aproached a girl that i liked at the gym. my inner demons were trying to make me fold but i walked up and said hey and just let the vibe carry through. endend up inviting her to get a smoothie afterwards and she accepted. felt great
@wolfeloma
10 ай бұрын
@@Juscallmeshaun more like a friend theres not always a chance
@nelli5168
10 ай бұрын
if girls don't contribute to convos w u thats entirely on you bro
@blushiro29
10 ай бұрын
sophie and dylan were a perfect match, that first approach was incredible, who agrees with me
@the1337fleet
10 ай бұрын
I would have liked your comment, but asking for validation and asking who agrees made me not want to But I agree with you
@suryanshtripathi6249
10 ай бұрын
@@the1337fleetdude chill its a like you are not paying him😂
@akaTandy
10 ай бұрын
@@the1337fleetbros a menace for no reason 😂
@the1337fleet
10 ай бұрын
@@akaTandy 😂
@ASTR0TALKSPHILOSOPHY
10 ай бұрын
Women will never reject a man no matter how shy he is, you need to talk to her more. She will only reject you in private, women are social creatures.
@Ouzyman
3 ай бұрын
He broke character so fast😂. He was like "fuck acting, she's fine"
@yamashita7578
Ай бұрын
lmao
@C-64
17 күн бұрын
One of us my ass, mf is built
@Frontfight
11 ай бұрын
Nah that’s awesome Dylan. After seeing that first interaction I thought you’d be insane not to follow through with that girl. What a gem. No shame honestly in cutting the video short.
@ZugZug99
11 ай бұрын
18 is kinda young for a 23 year old man. As a 24 year old guy I have to be honest I wouldn't really want to go younger than 21-22. Not necessarily an issue with the age itself but more about things like experience and maturity and expectations that come with being a little bit older
@JohnHughesTR
11 ай бұрын
@@ZugZug9918 is not to young lmao, if both are comfortable with the age gap then no age gap is too big assuming both are above 18 ofc
@davidaustin8424
11 ай бұрын
@@ZugZug99I’ve been 29, dated a 19 year old for a year and a half (obviously started dating at 19) and the answer is: IT DEPENDS! Age difference can be a perfectly fine thing but can also have its own set of issues. Just depends on the individuals. I’ve seen 18 year olds that act 30 and vice versa. So it’s very dependent on the individual 🤷♂️ regardless, they’re fun in the sack so rearrange those guts and if she’s got the type of personality you wanna keep around then do it 🤷♂️
@TRENMATO
11 ай бұрын
man shut up@@ZugZug99
@6ixXxnonymous
11 ай бұрын
@@davidaustin8424💀
@liamflynn6929
11 ай бұрын
Dude that was an INSANE first attempt at cold approach. Seriously, I've never seen one go so well. Keep it up bro.
@skirtinbed9923
10 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly... He came off perfectly I'd say, pretty genuine and brave
@skirtinbed9923
10 ай бұрын
Most I've been able to manage was walking up, asking for a number straight away nervous af, and then getting rejected. Since then been to scared
@ricpo8683
10 ай бұрын
Goes well when you pay the girl to be in your video and give her the script beforehand, how naive are you?
@doernbecherr
10 ай бұрын
Honestly I think her being responsive and being engaged in conversation with him is what really helped it go well. Still good on Dylan’s part cause he was pretty smooth talking to her but it’s always helpful when a girl at least acts enthusiastic, as a guy trying to ask out a girl
@Azurethewolf168
10 ай бұрын
@@ricpo8683it doesn’t seem planned
@Ziggler-ky9kv
15 күн бұрын
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
@lonestarr1490
12 күн бұрын
Nah, I don't want to "manipulate" them. I'm after smart ones who would see right through this shit anyway. I also don't need to manipulate them, since I'm legitimately awesome. All I need is a proper chance to prove that. And since this is a highly situational ordeal, no book will help me with that. Especially not one that promises me to make some kind of deranged puppet master out of me.
@leonyarkin8797
11 күн бұрын
You know where i can find it? Theres is no sign of that book in internet.
@bilbo_gamers6417
11 күн бұрын
dark mind tricks otherwise known as talking to them and being nice to them while occasionally making a joke at their expense in good fun
@eulalawrence1222
11 күн бұрын
Bot
@monfrecher9449
3 күн бұрын
@@leonyarkin8797it doesn't exist
@jakefitzfitness
10 ай бұрын
What a wholesome guy. He found a girl he likes and stops pursuing other women. Respect brother ✊🏼
@dwex8596
9 ай бұрын
YEAH? BECAUSE HE IS A TALL GOODLOOKING GUY. IMAGINE IF HE WAS SUB5 LIKE ME
@97itachiuchiha
9 ай бұрын
@@dwex8596 Become dwarfpilled
@ts6603
8 ай бұрын
over for guys like us@@dwex8596
@elpatron7185
8 ай бұрын
@@dwex8596😮😮😮😮😅😅😅😅😊😊😊🎉🎉
@keithtorrence2487
7 ай бұрын
Well he actually kept going after but he didn’t have the stones and had to stop.
@iBrianful
10 ай бұрын
Honestly that first girl made it easy for him, he gained mad confidence after that.
@TheCentennial4
4 ай бұрын
Swear down if every girl acted like she did, it would be so easy.
@jonatanhelles6448
4 ай бұрын
"the first girl" bro that was the only girl💀
@ElsyOO366
3 ай бұрын
@@jonatanhelles6448 proof they didn't watch full video
@edurangelcastro3671
3 ай бұрын
@@jonatanhelles6448xD
@dorikin333
2 ай бұрын
@@TheCentennial4This is kinda why I think having “game” or “rizz” is kind of a myth. Cause when someone is actually interested in talking to you and is contributing to the conversation and is giving u shit to work with, it’s very easy have “rizz” in that type of situation. But when most women you talk to are giving you one word answers it’s very hard to be charming.
@PARCE93
10 ай бұрын
Out of all the “cold approaching” videos, this one was the most genuine & best one I’ve seen. No cheesy pickup lines, no forced chatter, no creepy vibes, no over the top gimmicks. It was a genuine interaction. I know it made you uncomfortable, but you killed that. Just remember that you are going to eventually come across someone who will turn you down, so don’t let that break your spirit.
@iwantcake7703
10 ай бұрын
Very creepy sounding brah 😭
@fanatic4747
10 ай бұрын
@@iwantcake7703how?
@tyx0x0ty
10 ай бұрын
@@iwantcake7703 how dude
@iwantcake7703
10 ай бұрын
@@tyx0x0ty its just so incredibly off-putting how he words things. He directly said "i've been watching you," lmfaoo
@McDonaldReagan
10 ай бұрын
@@iwantcake7703 it was clear he was being sarcastic. she even played along and responded that she watched him every single day. You probably haven't talked to many girls though so it's understandable for you to miss things like that.
@Marco_My_Words
9 ай бұрын
Sophie is a keeper, the chemistry between you guys is great, you should really keep getting to know each other!
@truedepthaquaponics7118
Ай бұрын
100%
@fggfdfg3525
21 күн бұрын
Stop saying this keeper thing, this doesn’t exist
@Marco_My_Words
20 күн бұрын
@@fggfdfg3525 A keeper doesn't exist? How do you procreate?
@fggfdfg3525
20 күн бұрын
@@Marco_My_Words no need to be a “keeper” to do that. And also not everyone on earth is willing to proceate.
@hotmcfly9247
2 күн бұрын
@@fggfdfg3525no they aren’t
@TheBritishPatriot
10 ай бұрын
There’s no way in hell you’re introverted, you were so confident and casual.
@williamredpath861
10 ай бұрын
Exactly, it's all fake nonsense. The man is the embodiment of narcissistic. Introverts don't video themselves working out. Introverts find it hard filming themselves in any capacity. This guy knows he's tall, buff and good looking. It's naivety to believe otherwise.
@CHUCKZ2
10 ай бұрын
It seems that way. Not all Introverts are bad at socializing People always confuse all introverts with being bad at socializing, but I can tell you he’s using every last piece of mental energy to keep up with the conversation. I speak from experience. I can see through his lines. I can easily come off as a extrovert myself, but I have social anxiety, doesn’t mean I can’t come off casual and not be able to speak.
@lalosalamanca8574
10 ай бұрын
@@CHUCKZ2 it was scripted. She looked like she knew him. I cold approaches thousands it's never that smooth and she was way too comfortable for a stranger
@lalosalamanca8574
10 ай бұрын
@@CHUCKZ2you guys are autistic believe everything
@SR2NormandyEnjoyer
10 ай бұрын
I’m an introvert too and i can handle a conversation but after that, i am extremely tired and need to be lonely
@arshie26
10 ай бұрын
Wow Sophie feels like a dream. She loves to work out, she seems intelligent, great chemistry, and she loves that he's cold approaching. Dylan, I wish that you would have kept approaching. Chunk out the goal, dude! Do 10 approaches per day. It would be seriously inspirational to watch you work through them.
@noxlousxsolo9724
10 ай бұрын
And she is a teenager!
@k2c534
10 ай бұрын
@@noxlousxsolo9724Ok?
@moonlight-zt7pi
10 ай бұрын
@@noxlousxsolo9724you’ve commented a couple times about her age. a little bit odd to focus on it. hopefully you’re not older than mid-late 20s, otherwise this just comes off as creepy…
@zura898
10 ай бұрын
@@Jk-qx7gm Such a random accusation wtf lol
@zura898
10 ай бұрын
@@Jk-qx7gm First of all that dude isn't even east asian lol. And you sound like one of those insecure dudes who shit on asian men to make themselves feel superior. Im asian and I'm not like that in the slightest. Plenty of asian changs out there
@jlboss_ps4751
10 ай бұрын
Sophia is a keeper 100% most chill person throughout the conversation.
@grumplin
11 ай бұрын
I think the thing holding most guys back from doing this is the fear that some people think this kind of approach isn't socially acceptable. I know that's why I don't.
@EthanDBG
11 ай бұрын
It’s because it’s scary. It’s our own minds preventing us, not society
@Amiyii
11 ай бұрын
I jus think am not good enough, and I think that's the case actually, it's why I want to become the most superior version of myself so everyone will acknowledge me...
@TheRealOG007
11 ай бұрын
@@Amiyii Do It for yourself, not for others
@Kumari_44
11 ай бұрын
@@TheRealOG007lets be honest. we all do it for others to some degree. And thats okay. It’s just that you should do it for yourself more, thats all.
@Kumari_44
11 ай бұрын
Its deffo socially acceptable, though the evil feminists and evil media are trying to brainwash our young girls and boys into thinking it isnt, and that rotting their brain away on sad, fake apps like instagram is the new way to connect with people. I’ll always speak to girls in real life nomatter what. We’re human beings, not socially retarded islands who should be distant from one another. As long as theyre respectful. Theres nothing wrong whatsoever with a human being simply talking to another human being.
@marigi2013
10 ай бұрын
Being attractive is 80% of the battle with talking to women, if not more, and you proved that today. You’re doing great keep going strong
@leaflet7738
10 ай бұрын
It’s definitely thoughts like this that hold most guys back. If you didn’t notice, Sophie was really engaged and found a common link between them. He even said in the video he tried to approach other women and it didn’t work. If you stop thinking of women as shallow empty heads, then you’ll see that there really isn’t a one size fits all method in dating.
@nubu9636
10 ай бұрын
@@leaflet7738 she literally assumed that he goes to the gym because he looks like he does, so the conversation started due to his appearance and she found him to be her type aswell
@nik-q3x
10 ай бұрын
@@leaflet7738 keep coping looks are one of the most important things
@BennDover-x3q
10 ай бұрын
@@nubu9636fr bro 😂😂😂
@BourdeoixEterno
10 ай бұрын
Being funny and confident attracts people bro@@nik-q3x
@Figrin
11 ай бұрын
I love the part when you said you couldn't approach 100 girls, that was the moment I actually believed this video could motivate me to do something similar, because I saw you're not a superhuman that says he's introverted but actually can effortlessly rizz a hunderd girls and it actually took a lot of energy from you, thank you for including that in a video
@BangYongguk-sf8ly
10 ай бұрын
Yes man. I could relate. For me its crazy to think i will walk up to a girl and talk, like etf
@solereeper3955
10 ай бұрын
Bro fr, talk about what? The weather? The nerdy shit im into? I dont know anything about you what do we talk about.
@Azurethewolf168
10 ай бұрын
@@solereeper3955general talks mate, then move onto specifics.
@solereeper3955
10 ай бұрын
@@Azurethewolf168 Could you give examples? Im good at talking to people i know and have met before but strangers is like a whole different game.
@banaan5416
10 ай бұрын
Try to find someting that you both have in common and common interests, thats how you get the first connection with people if it turns out you really feel each other and share way more things it can turn into a friendship or relationship.@@solereeper3955
@Patrony762
3 ай бұрын
>Challenges himself to talk to a hundred girls >Do one >Succeeds once >Gives up >returns lifting in the gym
@pjplaysgaming367
Ай бұрын
At least he ended on a high note.
@Kumari_44
11 ай бұрын
As someone who used to be socially akward as a teen, that was an *excellent* first approach. You smashed that out of the park.
@MikhailFederov
10 ай бұрын
He's tall and white. It's easy when you're accepted by default. He can only talk his way out of the box, meanwhile if you're not tall and white you're fighting an uphill battle to break the creep barrier
@mez9673
10 ай бұрын
@@MikhailFederovnot just tall and white. Hes young and extremely attractive. He can literally say nothing and pulls girls. Lol
@MikhailFederov
10 ай бұрын
@@mez9673 The tall and white is what makes him extremely attractive
@hshersx
10 ай бұрын
@@MikhailFederovwhat does the race has to do with attractiveness?
@daddytachanka8076
10 ай бұрын
@@hshersxit’s true that many brown guys are gonna struggle more to get girls. This is just a truth. But to pretend like black guys or really anyone else doesn’t/can’t because of some shit like race is astronomical cope, even brown guys. 1. They’re pretending that the years of lifting and consistent effort Dylan has given doesn’t exist. If anyone else did the same thing and worked on themselves it would become very very easy to get attraction, for anyone. But who’s put in the years? 2. Anyone saying that is just coping and ignoring the vast majority of things that are in their control and they just don’t want to take the responsibility.
@tiagoomena
11 ай бұрын
A training video with Sophie would be insane, don't approach other girls, that was the best interaction possible, soul mate interation tipe shit!🔥🔥🔥
@pyro4327
10 ай бұрын
wild @DehaOynuyor
@-SPECTRE-
10 ай бұрын
@DehaOynuyorouch.
@Azurethewolf168
10 ай бұрын
@@-SPECTRE-it’s true though, you can’t trust girls anymore.
@Azurethewolf168
10 ай бұрын
@DehaOynuyortrue, girls now are too undecided and don’t commit. Atleast before you could tell when they actually cared about you and they would commit to that.
@antenna7002
10 ай бұрын
Don’t get to attached early
@Larxy_
11 ай бұрын
he stopped the video because he got the girl he wanted after 1 approach
@gabrielascensotomas
11 ай бұрын
It's called scarcity.
@fighterinmkiwiscience3517
11 ай бұрын
@@gabrielascensotomaswhat that mean?
@gabrielascensotomas
11 ай бұрын
@@fighterinmkiwiscience3517 It means that you don't have many options and stick to the first girl that you encounter
@Vinay-yy1yp
10 ай бұрын
@@gabrielascensotomas my n word really said scarcity after doing one economics lesson
@CallMeSlade
10 ай бұрын
@@Vinay-yy1ypsay nigga bruh, you’re an anon on the internet no one cares lmao
@takitukFNR
2 ай бұрын
3:21 bro u aint no introvert thats w rizz
@djnathaniel2699
10 ай бұрын
Introversion doesn't mean social anxiety or being bad in social situations - it just means you need more alone time to recharge your social battery. Never use introversion as an excuse to be bad at socializing, and you can be just as confident as Dylan is in this video.
@MrLeeStories
10 ай бұрын
Bingo bango you got it. I’m highly introverted, but still do ok in social situations. I 100 percent thrive in my alone time.
@zazazaza9693
10 ай бұрын
In my case I have high anxiety issues, I'm always paranoid and I'm a introvert with trust issues. Still do fine with socializing irl and I've grown to have over 200 irl friends.
@MrLeeStories
10 ай бұрын
@@zazazaza9693 you have over 200 friends?
@MrLeeStories
10 ай бұрын
@@zazazaza9693 but you still maintain 200 relationships like that? Me being very-very introverted; I find it impossible to do that. For me that is.
@zazazaza9693
10 ай бұрын
@@MrLeeStories yeah, I became popular at school for being the funny person who does random stuff and always gets in trouble lol plus I'm 6 feet in 7th grade, I just force myself to talk and push myself out of my comfort zone, I have over 200 friends that i normally talk to, girls and boys, I first bacame popular by association bc i knew a lot of popular ppl from my school then I soon became popular and known around the whole school. I'm still a extrovert and rather not talk to anyone and sometimes it slips put for a day or 2 and I just talk and I seem some what depressed but Noone knows about my anxiety and stuff I think.
@thepeopleareawake445
10 ай бұрын
to be clear the first approach wasn’t HIM doing the work. Kudos to him for doing the approach but this is what natural compatibility looks like. Notice how it was effortless on both ends bc both parties WANTED to participate and engage in conversation. With the overlap in interests (fitness) it made it even easier, therefore creating attraction. You cant hope to have this with every interaction and it’s important to know what actually contributes to an interaction like this. So instead of “dude you killed it” its more like “dude you guys are a match”. it’s dangerous to contribute the interaction to JUST him or you will think all interactions/results you have with women only have to do with your “game” and that you have some sort of obligation to muster perfect results with EVERY girl you talk to. Which i will make clear, is NOT the point of dating and is why so many men end uo unhappy. The point is to find who you are most compatible with. Side note: this is why even REJECTION is good bc there was clearly an incompatibility somewhere. Overall, great video. Appreciate you putting yourself out there despite the discomforts!
@ygaaaoo
10 ай бұрын
100% correct 🙏🏼. I agree
@nicosanchez_music
10 ай бұрын
If I don’t feel that mutual energy from a girl in conversation I just let it go. I hate feeling like I need to get someone’s attention or make them feel something.
@ltb1345
10 ай бұрын
Yeah, I've never shared any interests with a girl. Makes it hard to know what to talk about.
@thepeopleareawake445
10 ай бұрын
@@nicosanchez_music facts
@novanity9611
10 ай бұрын
Preach
@StevenFPatten
10 ай бұрын
Fair play to the dude. Props to Sophie for being a good sport. Dylan ending the video after speaking with her shows a real man, you could see he liked her and wanted to pursue it.
@Sauczi
10 ай бұрын
its fake bro
@kiwikiwikilian
10 ай бұрын
He did also say that he approached several other girls after Sophie but those interactions were all not very good. So… 😅
@brandonbell1854
9 ай бұрын
“I met a girl, conversation went well, and now I’m going to pursue her and not talk to the other girls” That hit home 😂
@HellGod67
Ай бұрын
He knew she will check his vids and find the one with herself in it, "of course" he wanted to make an impression he didn't do any other approaches to look more genuine. I bet it was not his first or last.
@heatherflynn
11 ай бұрын
Fair play Dylan. Love that you are not afraid to stop the vid midway through and just be like "Nah I don't want to continue". You do you. Your interaction with Sophie was cute, you are deffo not nearly as bad as you think with talking to people!
@eb_tigers0775
11 ай бұрын
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@azziek3246
10 ай бұрын
Not bad? The Bro aced it and also got the girls number! :P
@FreeJidion6969
10 ай бұрын
@@azziek3246 i mean it was def good but u could tell there was still some nerves. the fact that was his first could approach is wild tho
@azziek3246
10 ай бұрын
@@FreeJidion6969 for sure
@cix9420
10 ай бұрын
yeah me personally usually i just act super nervous and end up having to get rid of them@@FreeJidion6969
@CrimsonCutie08
10 ай бұрын
Kindness is attractive. I consider myself an introvert and I struggle with confidence when socializing. I've noticed that if I stay true to my core values and be kind to others, it's so rewarding.
@juggerswood
10 ай бұрын
I bet you drink hot pee from Porta potties
@_You_Are_Not_Him_
9 ай бұрын
This sounds like cope
@CrimsonCutie08
9 ай бұрын
@@_You_Are_Not_Him_maybe to you it does 😅😊
@traattatata7973
9 ай бұрын
I wouldn't say it's neccessarily attractive, but it's very disarming. Approaching people with kindness in your heart by default makes your attitude towards the whole social interaction positive. Much less of the bad thoughts like "but what if they hate you, but what if they tell you to go a hike" and so on and so on. Why would anyone respond to kindness with negativity if they are a normal human being? If they respond with negativity, something is wrong with them or at least their day, and so nobody would have had a chance that day.
@juggerswood
9 ай бұрын
@@traattatata7973 True I totally agree.
@viktorkyncl3011
10 ай бұрын
At the start i thought it’s gonna one of THOSE videos but the fact that you actually put your heart to it instead of just checking off 100 girls is way more meaningful and at the end even wholesome
@jestahead
9 ай бұрын
It's amazing what a difference it makes when she actually wants to talk to you. That nonverbal positive feedback boosts your own confidence in the moment and it's this self sustaining loop of feeling bolder which makes her more interested which makes you feel even more bold and increases the options you have in the conversation that you think will be received positively. It's great to see that in action.
@mr.d4178
10 ай бұрын
I love his authenticity. He said he’s super introverted, goes up to a girl, talks to her, cancels the video and goes into the gym. What a legend.
@Cstank5
10 ай бұрын
😂
@-_deploy_-
10 ай бұрын
Fr
@theplacebeyondthepines4284
10 ай бұрын
And you can tell how he talks bruh ain't faking it lol he really is pushing himself
@ayushpanchal2053
10 ай бұрын
he's not an introvert, he's a chad 🗿
@floppafreeze1713
10 ай бұрын
@@ayushpanchal2053one thing doesn't cancel the other
@lilpanini1351
10 ай бұрын
I used to cold approach people as an introvert just to get out of my comfort zone, this is just exposure therapy and teaches you that you're not your thoughts. Blessings Dylan ! love these kinda messages brother they help alot of people.
@jr5993
10 ай бұрын
This one was good cause she was working. Most natural cold approach I've ever seen. I wouldn't do it like thse pick up artists do where they go up to girls clearly walking somewhere or with friends. Flirting with girls who are working is way more accessible and natural.
@lilpanini1351
10 ай бұрын
W rizz my g @@jr5993
@PhaseSkater
10 ай бұрын
@@jr5993they are also paid to be nice to you. They say hitting on a girl working is the least acceptable thing
@MrSipho1
10 ай бұрын
@@jr5993The real test is girls that are not at work 😅
@TheSecondFlock
10 ай бұрын
I heard it's a terrible idea to approach girls while their working. They have to be there and can't leave if they're not into it.
@TheTonyD
10 ай бұрын
Dylan actually came in super smooth. I'm a super social guy and although he did come across as SLIGHTLY awkward at some points & he could smile more/laugh at himself more, he still did very very good especially for someone who says hes introverted. If you're extroverted you just tend to cold approach naturally & just say passing comments as a natural state.
@cryptojuicer
10 ай бұрын
being slightly awkward is real tho. girls like real
@RizZRizZ-
10 ай бұрын
He’s completely okay I’d like to see you
@prodbystorik
10 ай бұрын
Ok mr social coach lmao
@ExploreWithEthan
10 ай бұрын
Being extroverted is definitely not normal nor nice
@TheTonyD
10 ай бұрын
@@prodbystorik is this one of those sarcastic comments made by incels? That's funny dude
@SlinkyJosh
9 ай бұрын
Bro that went INSANELY good. I can't even believe that was your first cold approach, you're a natural
@bobbywatto
11 ай бұрын
actually one of the most entertaining vids ive seen in a long time
@dingusrevolver
10 ай бұрын
That's so funny she immediately referenced the 1 subject that would make him feel the most comfortable
@songsforpantstowearl
10 ай бұрын
That’s a sign of an emotionally intelligent person for sure. Trying to make the other person comfortable
@ShortFuseFun
10 ай бұрын
@@songsforpantstowearl Everyone can be that way if they want, it's a sign of someone who cares about the interaction. And she cared because he was attractive, so she tried her best to make it go well.
@jfo1740
10 ай бұрын
He picked someone he has seen before and has seen him before. It's a setup in that sense even if the rest of it is genuine.
@aristotle9243
10 ай бұрын
@@jfo1740the whole ive watched u work out before was a joke dude.
@dobridjordje
10 ай бұрын
@@jfo1740Probably picked the good looking girl he saw couple of times at the mall. That way it would be way less uncomfortable and creepy lmao
@FaithhMe
11 ай бұрын
The first step is understanding these girls are humans just like us, as men we pedestalize these females as goddesses we are not equal to. But in reality she is just as nervous as you are when you approach her.
@cwavv
11 ай бұрын
They also take shits everyday and have to spray for the smell so there’s another one to think about
@prod.kashkari3075
10 ай бұрын
This comment should be the top comment. Most girls are just as if not more nervous of the guy. When the guy is just confident and masculine the girl finds it very comforting.
@fotis3v480
10 ай бұрын
Humans? The devil incarnate and I'm not even religious 😂. They will all backstab you .
@michaelrobson7005
10 ай бұрын
@@prod.kashkari3075Not really. They get approached non-stop so they aren't nervous at all
@prod.kashkari3075
10 ай бұрын
@@michaelrobson7005 they don’t get approached nonstop. Most hot girls don’t cause guys are afraid of them
@MisanthropeGains
10 ай бұрын
You crushed it. Takes a lot of balls to put yourself out there. It does help that you’re a fit and somewhat goodlooking dude.
@sk8ingthemystery
10 ай бұрын
Somewhat good-looking? This dude is a Chad
@ltb1345
10 ай бұрын
This guy literally has my dream physique.
@theRPGmaster
10 ай бұрын
"Somewhat" is the biggest understatement of all time
@Us3r739
10 ай бұрын
@@sk8ingthemysteryngl has got an average face but the height n muscles help
@Brendan99349
10 ай бұрын
Looks don't matter all that matters is approach. I know plenty of short skinny guys with amazing results, these are just limiting beleifs.
@imsocentral2872
10 ай бұрын
As a introvert I can tell he was literally DYING while talking to Sophie😭
@Azurethewolf168
10 ай бұрын
How? He looked very confident
@bnkz
10 ай бұрын
@@Azurethewolf168bro he was awkwardly laughing 💀
@AdamTravelsTheWorld
10 ай бұрын
Only introverts understand this comment LOL. I can relate, interactions with people when you value peace and being alone is harrrrrd, even if you want to get with a woman.
@imsocentral2872
10 ай бұрын
@@Azurethewolf168 His voice was a little shaky, he struggled to keep eye contact, he couldn’t stand still, and he kept making awkward jokes (that somehow worked).
@cender4357
10 ай бұрын
You show yourself confident but inside your heart is about to break 😂
@TheFluxTube
11 ай бұрын
Nah this content better than the gym content ngl
@douglas5097
2 ай бұрын
It feels great when she is that responsive/talkative. The panic begins when the person you approach is dead silent waiting for you to conduct the conversation 100%.
@AntiiiG
10 ай бұрын
Honestly I'm impressed how vulnerable you are willing to be in your videos
@danielgisborne3469
10 ай бұрын
Like many others, i respect the authenticity in being able to say youre uncomfortable as opposed to some bullshit video where you just play the role you think we wanna see. Really refreshing approach, keep it up
@Azurethewolf168
10 ай бұрын
Yeah I’m glad he didn’t do some stuff like other KZitemrs where they make it look super easy
@danielgisborne3469
10 ай бұрын
@@Azurethewolf168 Yeah me personally those ones make me feel even shittier about myself cause Im like damn if its that easy then what the hell is wrong with me? lol
@Azurethewolf168
10 ай бұрын
@@danielgisborne3469it depends on each person, it’s always hard starting out
@the.rogue.roman.77
11 ай бұрын
The way you talked to Sophie, you looked like a natural. Well done. And thank you for all your encouraging videos. The last hot Saturday this summer, I did about a dozen cold approaches at the beach near my town. Of all of those, maybe two or three became meaningful interactions, and none of them went anywhere. I still felt amazing afterwards.
@eb_tigers0775
11 ай бұрын
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@Kumari_44
11 ай бұрын
Its a numbers game bro. Glad you met some cool people though.
@gusevening4910
9 ай бұрын
he’s not an introvert
@samuellitrico3234
5 ай бұрын
Shut up
@vaas8403
4 ай бұрын
ahah introvert sometimes sound like they not but they are
@akshatrawat3300
4 ай бұрын
Nah bro you are just anti social. Introvert have social life too, not with many but they are not afraid human like how people have stereotyped in social media.
@vfeasey97
4 ай бұрын
I'm leaning towards not introvert. But it could be that thing where they hyper focus cos he's into the gym
@Anonymousange
3 ай бұрын
He is , you might have social anxiety, introverts can still make human connections
@ChrisMalki
11 ай бұрын
the pain of regret would be worse so its good that u tried
@33rdGemini
10 ай бұрын
You can tell from his red eyes that the ones after Sophie broke him. Stay strong King. I hope to see videos with you and Sophie together in the future.
@NJ-500
10 ай бұрын
First approach started off awkward but once the conversation started flowing you killed that
@jr5993
10 ай бұрын
Not really. If you watch pick up artists then u realise this is one of the most natural cold aporoaches youll see. No creepy intentions or gimmicks, just honesty and relatability. Even the start wasn't awkward.
@NJ-500
10 ай бұрын
@jr5993 nah the start was awkward, and you sound like a nerd
@karlisd2870
10 ай бұрын
@@jr5993 Agree, didn't seem awkward at all, dude could pull many ladies
@yohex5962
10 ай бұрын
I challenged myself to do this a while ago to get more comfortable talking to women. Now i dont feel nervous, lol. I've come to a realization that the more uncomfortable situations you put yourself through eventually become the new normal. So keep doing the uncomfortable 🙃
@ZsmZer0
10 ай бұрын
1:55 the laugh was so strange hahaha, keep up the good work man
@Astranoire
10 ай бұрын
As a socially anxious gym goer I tried appoaching girls multiple times in public, it really made me uncomfortable at first but once I realize that I'm not undesirable as an awkward person, it really helped with my confidence.
@TheMediaKnights
10 ай бұрын
Step 1: Be in the top 1% of looks Step 2: Be in the top 1% of physique Easy as pie, right guys?!
@nawbgohdawjd
10 ай бұрын
play in your league i would say
@SimonR141
10 ай бұрын
@@nawbgohdawjd Dude I tried women in my league but their standard is high to the fucking moon.
@DriveLikeIDid
10 ай бұрын
Boo hoo. Poor little baby. That’s okay. Sit around feeling sorry for yourself. More pussy for the rest of us
@zdaito10
10 ай бұрын
@@SimonR141 thats called female delusion, even a 1/10 woman would never go for a sub 5/10 dude
@winston7055
10 ай бұрын
lol its not about looks my guy.. just be confident it will get you far
@analbepis4102
10 ай бұрын
The fact that one of the first things he said was “I think you’re attractive” and the girl kept the conversation going has completely shattered my understanding of girls
@dcarvalho6144
10 ай бұрын
It just cemented something that was pretty much known already: if you are seen as attractive, you can get away with things a non-attractive person wouldn't. Chris Brown beat Rihanna, and yet a lot of women still crave him. It's not a leveled playing field.
@goldenpersonwhoexists8834
9 ай бұрын
Because confidence is first perceived. The only things he said before he started initiating conversation were: A greeting; a weird, unrelating question about how attractive he'd be with a scooter; revealing that he lied about wanting a scooter; and then hitting the "I think you're attractive" line. She'd have no way of knowing his personality through those first four sentences. He's "confident" because he's attractive and not a stuttering fool. If someone built like Nikacado Avocado tried what this guy did: At best, she'd try her best to get the conversation back to strictly business, and at worst, she'd find him creepy and call security.
@tutupu27
7 ай бұрын
@@dcarvalho6144girls are stupid
@distantmirrors8261
7 ай бұрын
@@dcarvalho6144 Yeahhh thats called the halo effect its a common psychological phenomenon
@exyl_sounds
4 ай бұрын
@@goldenpersonwhoexists8834 Nikado actually looked decent before he got morbidly obese, so if you're built like him while complaining about lack of dating success... it's entirely your own fault lol. Eat less and go gym. Maybe pick a better example, perhaps someone who has some sort of genetic defect... but now we're getting into extreme cases that don't apply to 99% of men. It's been proven that in remote tribes where everyone has a healthy diet, literally all men there have solid bodyfat% and jawline lookin like they could all be models, and I guarantee you this would be the case everywhere if more than half the population wasn't overweight due to an awful diet. In fact even on height, the US lags behind say, europe, because a kid on a diet of mcdonalds and coca cola is not getting the nutrients he needs to grow.
@DTRONBEATZ
10 ай бұрын
Dude the chemistry with Sophie is amazing 👏 glad you were able to go up to her and have a good conversation with her
@kilo4848
10 ай бұрын
It just goes to show how important your self confidence is to be honest. He’s amazingly built but still gets anxiety about approaching girls. I’m currently a college student and face a lot of the same but I’ve push past a lot of the nervousnesses and to anyone who doesn’t push themselves out to the their condor zones you have to try it it’s amazing
@Azurethewolf168
10 ай бұрын
Okay, how?
@tfiggs4312
10 ай бұрын
accept the worst possible outcome and realize it's very unlikely you get the worst possible outcome@@Azurethewolf168
@lando8981
10 ай бұрын
How? 😢
@blueleafy7167
10 ай бұрын
If I tried that I would most definitely get laughed at cause my social skills are at rock bottom
@pep1679
10 ай бұрын
Looks*
@smalzio.
7 ай бұрын
NAAAAH ma man didn't chicken out, he just settled for 1 and was happy about it
@fredz91
11 ай бұрын
Dylan you're a real one for this. Really motivated me to do more of this to be honest.
@eb_tigers0775
11 ай бұрын
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@hiokeaim
11 ай бұрын
bro u say u are introverted but u handled that so well. I wish i could even hold a convo like that :((
@breathebih4321
11 ай бұрын
Being introverted doesn’t mean not knowing how to talk to ppl
@idrinkmilk282
11 ай бұрын
He's full of shit. Dudes career is literally putting himself out there, pouting at cameras, clenching his jaw, and being topless as much as he possibly can, for hundreds of thousands of people 😅😅😅 and you guys are buying this "I'm introverted" bs.
@CargoRemover
11 ай бұрын
He’s def an introvert lmao
@Sam-ve9sv
11 ай бұрын
he can be charming and funny and not akward but still be introverted and prefer isolation
@SurfyStories
10 ай бұрын
He may be introverted that doesn't mean someone is socially retarded
@BourdeoixEterno
10 ай бұрын
Dylan just wanted to say that you have been one of my biggest inspirations since the moment I first started watching your videos. I'm not sure if you're gonna see this haha, but the positive affect you've had on me to improve myself physically has changed my life. It's crazy knowing that you get nervous just like me in public, love your content and a huge fan thanks for everything Dylan!
@davoodrahimi4580
4 ай бұрын
You are not an introvert
@ducasse8473
3 ай бұрын
Bro got excommunicated from the tribe 😂
@thegrimreaper270
3 ай бұрын
😂😂🤣
@davoodrahimi4580
3 ай бұрын
@@ducasse8473 :)))
@bamboleo901
2 ай бұрын
@@ducasse8473how did you come up with this
@blazer9547
2 ай бұрын
He definitely is. he talks like me
@CoolCreepz
10 ай бұрын
Huge respects bro. I used to be an introvert and I know how hard it can be to have the courage to approach girls. It feels like you are dying because of being so nervous around them. But trust me bro through experience and time, it becomes second nature. Have a great day/night brother!
@SenszR
10 ай бұрын
You can’t change from introvert to extrovert it’s just naturally how you are
@CoolCreepz
10 ай бұрын
@@SenszR lmao ppl say i am extrovert after i became outgoing
@alangarcia3531
10 ай бұрын
@@CoolCreepzthe video is fake
@TitanBolt99
2 ай бұрын
@@SenszRYes you can. It's actually possible.
@SenszR
2 ай бұрын
@@TitanBolt99 it’s no possible it’s a personality type you can’t just choose to change it
@ryandeffley7652
10 ай бұрын
You're actually better at approach than you let on when it came to Sophie. 1) Strong open which set the frame of making her think of you with other girls who weren't her. 2) Made her qualify/seek your approval. 3) Got her to break the touch barrier. 4) You even knew to do a take-away suggesting she could be just a "gym bro" instead to make her chase even harder.
@moneymakinmitch8130
10 ай бұрын
you wanna elaborate on the strong open part
@mustsee715
10 ай бұрын
@@moneymakinmitch8130yes I also need some elaboration
@coovaydafinest
8 ай бұрын
this was a great breakdown
@kacelewen88
7 ай бұрын
As an ex-introvert I'll set you straight. He said let's be gym bros because he couldn't think of a valid way to suggest anything else that indicated dating. He was nervous the entire time which I think was the biggest obstacle but he did well.
@volbrenYT
6 ай бұрын
*takes notes* so we're speaking rizziphonics I see.
@akshrags-mindmaze3407
10 ай бұрын
4:15 While making a GF, he saying "our kids would have python arms"🤣
@Deino343
Ай бұрын
Bros been thinking that being introverted and being shy are the same thing 💀
@karlisd2870
10 ай бұрын
For an introvert , you seem very confident. Respect dude.
@jakpodcast
10 ай бұрын
Dude came in and crushed it by being natural right from the start! This is like such a perfect example to me.
@dozadog
10 ай бұрын
His looks crushed it
@Cntrl_Vibes
10 ай бұрын
Bro why does the subscribe button glow up when the girl says, "Can i subscribe?" If yall dont believe me , just rewind it back every time she asks the question (5:43)
@Bilzy_Basketball
10 ай бұрын
I noticed that too
@muadmoulana
10 ай бұрын
That's *AI* bro. It's like this after the new update.
@Cntrl_Vibes
10 ай бұрын
@@muadmoulanaoh ty
@mybestselfenrico
10 ай бұрын
That’s so sick
@knoflowgaming8725
8 ай бұрын
Yoooo that’s sick
@thevapiddrolls4339
2 ай бұрын
The fact that you felt bad trying on multiple girls when you clicked with the first shows you got some character, keep up the good work.
@DAKiDDiOE
10 ай бұрын
The like to view ratio on this video is amazing! Shows what people are really interested in brother. Thank you for doing this for all the men out there who have missed potential opportunities of a lifetime because of the the paralyzing fear many get from the thought of approaching a lady only to look back and regret that moment. Keep it up!
@alangarcia3531
10 ай бұрын
the video is fake
@alangarcia3531
10 ай бұрын
And besides, he is a tall boy with blue eyes. If he were ugly, they would reject him immediately.
@goldenpersonwhoexists8834
7 ай бұрын
Don't forget that women are human beings who like looking at things, and could, should, and will reject you if they don't like looking at you. The girl being attracted to him makes it a whole lot easier because 75% of the pressure dissipates right there.
@gizzyIizzy
11 ай бұрын
Probably the most relatable and honest influencers out there. I love you and keep strong man !
@johannduplessis3467
10 ай бұрын
Well done in not making it weird. Solid way to let introverted people see how to talk to people without coming off as creepy
@charliepagel3611
2 ай бұрын
4:50 "Do you have a group of friends here? Where are they?" Camera guy: *runs*
@LessioYoutube
11 ай бұрын
Bro please.... Please talk to Sophie more
@rehufgoerhwfr
11 ай бұрын
bro needs to approach a new barber fr
@GLOKD
11 ай бұрын
Crying.
@LiamR90
10 ай бұрын
18 is not young for a 23 year old, depending on how mature she is. That girl was working, going to the gym on her own and can hold a conversation. My wife was 19 when I met her at 25. I was on a work training course recently and there was this gorgeous 18 year old. My friend was 22 and asked for her number then rejected her because she was 18, I thought it was wild. He said the only reason was because he couldn't introduce and 18 year old to his friends.
@jr5993
10 ай бұрын
It depends who you are but ive had it both ways. A girl was uncomfortable when she was 21 and I was 18 and I felt weird when I was 18 and a girl was 16. I prefer older though. A lot of these 16 year old are hard to relate to with all the tik tok bs. I'm 19 now and ideally I'd go for 23-25.
@kg7148
10 ай бұрын
Where did you meet your wife if you were 25 and she was 19?
@LiamR90
10 ай бұрын
@@kg7148 Tinder. I was at home for a few days on compassionate leave from the Army because my grandma had passed away. She was a student nurse studying in Manchester. Before I met her age wasn't really an issue with me though. I'd met woman older and younger than me. Widows, single mothers, students etc. Obviously as long as they were of legal age.
@PhaseSkater
10 ай бұрын
@@kg7148when I was 25 I met my ex fiancé who was 18 then turned 19 after a month of meeting. Tinder in a small town lol
@PhaseSkater
10 ай бұрын
Yeah younger people make a huge deal about age gaps. Like 19 vs 22 is bigger In their minds. But you’d never hear a 34 and 31 year old making a big deal about the 3 year gap
@Jay123-m9f
11 ай бұрын
Respect man did my first cold approach a few months, really well done man as a fellow introvert I am proud of you 👏
@cu11en76
10 ай бұрын
This and his Lookmaxxing vid are so inspiring, thank you so much Dylan
@montana3918
10 ай бұрын
The first interaction was better and more authentic than what I've ever seen on any "dating guru" plattform. Great job dude.
@moneymanrahim7772
Ай бұрын
Alternate title, I *tried* to cold approach girls, then I remembered im 6 feet and experience the dating market on easy mode
@haveyouseengeorgehennen
10 ай бұрын
Bro might be an introvert but he's for sure confident and well spoken, that just shows that if you work on improving yourself physically and mentally first, you'll be able to get not only a girl but achieve way much more, keep grinding yall 💪🏽
@54TE5
11 ай бұрын
its not weird if were both weird 2:30
@jasonfield7138
11 ай бұрын
Dudes so nervous
@innovatixn99
11 ай бұрын
It's his first time 😩
@havefuntazarasu5367
2 ай бұрын
"i am an introvert" is rich coming from someone who clearly know how to rizz and able to break the ice then follow up properly
@westonryker6403
10 ай бұрын
My guy has it easy with the ladies. My only advice is to be less self-defeating. You got this.
@captainobvious8037
10 ай бұрын
"Act natural" 5:11 "What? That's how i laugh"
@lukeistired_
11 ай бұрын
You got this bro!
@willmoreira705
2 ай бұрын
"Introvert" he says hahahahaha
@CuddleSeason
10 ай бұрын
Bro did everything good until gym "bros"
@Tolya1979
11 ай бұрын
Thanks for being honest, and showing people this is totally normal.
@ronnietrek6376
10 ай бұрын
2:08 “pump cover BRO” 😂✌️
@eliashikotaunoa4028
3 ай бұрын
hes introverted but thrives under pressure, i hope hes proud of himself cos that was really goodd
@pavellyulin5470
10 ай бұрын
Bro do this not only for yourself, but for everyone watching. Imagine how much you could inspire everyone
@starks464
11 ай бұрын
You did great! It will absolutely feel awkward and very forced at first, but at a certain point, it will be a lot easier. Keep going!
@jonathanv8127
10 ай бұрын
My respect for you 📈I actually really liked your first interaction w that girl. Not awkward at all, and it takes lots of balls to go up to a girl. And it felt like your were being yourself, which is nice, even with the weird laughs, it’s actually wholesome. You weren’t changing yourself to impress her. Good job!
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