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@wutang23361
Жыл бұрын
I've dated 2 single mothers (I'm childless) it was the biggest mistake of my life. The 2nd one I started getting attached to the child, and when it ended, I was heartbroken. Never again
@BKSWAG718
Жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me and never again...
@byronnnn4x
Жыл бұрын
Same💯
@keepitastack4993
Жыл бұрын
It happened to me but I didn't get attached I ain't no sucka sorry know better than that especially if I didn't have no kids in my own what I look like
@chrisbranch231
Жыл бұрын
@@BKSWAG718 the mothers be jealous of you and the kids relationship
@michaelmcmillan1425
Жыл бұрын
@@byronnnn4x FACTS!!! Nobody wants to deal with that BAGGAGE.
@fudgematthew33
Жыл бұрын
Being a stepparent is a thankless position if you make the wrong choice. Do blended families work? Absolutely. I've seen it. But you're one argument away from hearing, "That's not your child" or "You're not my father." Being a stepparent brings out the ungratefulness in people. Choose wisely when dating single parents.
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
BECAUSE THE MAJORITY IS SHORT TERM.WHY WOULD YOU BE EXPECTED TO DISCIPLINE CHILDREN YOU DON'T CARE FOR...NOT ALL ADULTS KNOW THEIR PLACE WHEN DEALING WITH OTHER CHILDREN ESPECIALLY IF THE CHILDREN ARENT YOURS...THE MAJORITY OF MEN ARE GOING TO THESE HOUSEHOLDS SOLELY TO CAUSE HELL AND WILL TELL KIDS THAT THEY ARENT THERE FATHERS CHILDREN WON'T RESPECT YOU IF YOU DONT RESPECT THEM AND THEY WILL NOT LIKE YOU IF YOU MISTREAT THEIR MOM OR ISOLATE HER
@@thereformedrayray the name says it all...buttduck lol
@itsaboutperspective5204
Жыл бұрын
I will NEVER take care of another man’s child! It’s a thankless job, and another expense!
@tuxedo_mask23
Жыл бұрын
🤝
@elroco4827
Жыл бұрын
It's counterproductive to your growth and development.
@ronettawhite9177
Жыл бұрын
Nobody except u to but if u with mother u should help if u see shes needs it
@elroco4827
Жыл бұрын
@@ronettawhite9177 he should not do anything but stay on his grind. She wants help, she better go talk to her baby daddy or daddy government.
@jefferymontgomery9307
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@wokequil9423
Жыл бұрын
There's no benefit. The man is better off having a kid with a childless woman.
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
DUH BUT DONT LEAVE THE LADY WHILE SHES PREGNANT FOR A LADY WITH ANOTHER MANS CHILDREN..MEN LEAVE THEIR FIRST CHILD TOO TF YTB
@del6873
Жыл бұрын
@Valerie Coleman what type of niggas you fw?
@albaptiste8691
Жыл бұрын
@@valeriecoleman648016 percent of of men have impregnated 70 of the black women in our community so think about it most men are already raising other man’s pick me dem
@trombonefellow
Жыл бұрын
Stop abusing men and they won't abandon you, simple
@vivianraw
5 ай бұрын
Actually, a childless Woman should tell men, "I Want You, Not Your Kids!" Also, I noticed that you did NOT say men are better off MARRYING and having a kid with a childless Women. I find that interesting that you did not say that.
@eastsideofthetown7360
Жыл бұрын
Women don’t look forward to being a stepmom unless the father is rich….
@Bidness100
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@jaywin9048
Жыл бұрын
FrFr, but men are expected to take of something that's not there's.
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
WOMEN HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO BE STEP MOTHERS WHEN DEALING WITH THE DUDES OF TODAY..ITS JUST MOST MEN NEVER SETTLE DOWN SO WOMEN CANT GET THAT CLOSE TO THEM SOME MEN NEVER EVEN INTRODUCE HIS CHILDREN TO HIS NEW FAMILY
@eastsideofthetown7360
Жыл бұрын
@@valeriecoleman6480 I’m sorry to inform you..but the majority of women today will tell you flat out that she will not help you with a young child ..especially when the mother is visitation…never heard a woman brag about being a stepmom unless the father was a celebrity.
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
@@eastsideofthetown7360 a lie you telling plenty of women are step mothers some even take in the kids made after they are in the relationships...nothing to brag about honestly...men talk about being a step dad cause they feel like a fool for helping anothers man children when they have left there own
@mmou3878
Жыл бұрын
I'm not doing it anymore. It is a thankless job.
@vivianraw
5 ай бұрын
Kinda like being a Mother.
@ALtheelectrician
Жыл бұрын
I used to date a baby mama. Never again. I provided her and the children with housing, food, took the kids out, gave them birthday parties and not to mention they was bad as can be and after the relationship went left I had to abruptly end that relationship with the children. I lost that investment with zero returns. I ended up marry a woman with zero children. God is good.
@luckyb5619
Жыл бұрын
Childless men should not date women with kids. Men with kids and women with kids need to date each other it’s that simple
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
I AGREE AND MEN WITH CHILDREN NEED TO GO BACK AND RAISE THEIR KIDS
@luckyb5619
Жыл бұрын
Yeah or he can raise their kids and be with a woman with kids as well. Not all relationships work out. I think honestly people with no kids need to talk about getting with people with no children. Why continue to talk about people with kids, when you can simply go date and marry someone without them? It’s trivial, people with kids need to talk about marrying and being with one another.
@chriskramp5174
Жыл бұрын
@@valeriecoleman6480 you do realize it's better for an offspring to live with a single father than a single mother. Statistically, kids who grow up in a single father household come off with a better upbringing than a single mother household. More so, 68% almost 70 percent make up for the single mother household, compared to 30 % single father household. Women have access to offspring and sex. Women are choosing delinquently which is why there is that big gap.!!
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
@@chriskramp5174 i'm not understanding what you are saying..this is about step-parenting.. however, children especially boys should live with their fathers after the age of eleven..if the guy is decent however most men abuse their children sexually and physically. it's a known fact men are sexually depraved..women should start giving up their rights though because socially its depressing and isolating, mentally its ptsd in short and financially a burden to be a single mom.
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
@@chriskramp5174 and you do realize men could have gone for custody but they won't because it defeats the purpose of leaving the women to suffer alone with the child..yall hate ready-made families but have created many of them..you got completely off topic, there aren't enough men to have raised their children to even look at your post, sir..
@sincerecrisp
Жыл бұрын
The hardest lesson I've ever learned... I'm so jaded and scarred that I really don't like being around kids anymore. Used to want 2 of my own. Now, not sure I want 1.
@fudgematthew33
Жыл бұрын
Wow. I respect the honesty, bro.
@hitman4hir926
Жыл бұрын
This is crazy. I never thought I'd hear someone say this out of their mouth. I feel the same way. Still in the stepdad position as we speak. The things i put up with and appreciation I never get showed from child or mother, has me not wanting to ever be around another child nor woman with a child.
@fudgematthew33
Жыл бұрын
You don't know nothing about ungratefulness until you deal with a single mother.
@williampresley4945
Жыл бұрын
You are not alone in your opinion. I feel the same way. Unfortunately i found out the hard way also. The painful heart wrenching way..
@chrisbranch231
Жыл бұрын
@@fudgematthew33 why you think 🤔 they single? They always gone lie and blame it on the dude 😎 but truth is they never base they're decision on men by character or morals or stability like rational people do. It's always about looks and animalistic attraction 🧲. Then Wonder why pretty boy won't even raise his own kids then wants a responsible man 👞 to take up the slack.F**** them I'm with Anton
@correyingram4289
Жыл бұрын
I tried to several times to date SINGLE Mothers before I turned 30 years old. I failed every single time!! I'm done!! #Passport Bros for me!!
@Ms9mmBeretta
Жыл бұрын
This is why people don't respect the passport bros movement. You just said you messed up dating single mothers, and now you want a passport because you couldn't pick better women (or probably didn't have access to them because you don't qualify). See how you taking your dysfunction over there? That's why people laugh at the passport bros and that's why y'all get treated like licks when y'all go overseas. Most (not all) of yall's mindsets are messed up and getting a passport isn't going to fix it.
@ewash1984
Жыл бұрын
Passport bro is the best thang out here!
@DJBenito304
Жыл бұрын
#passportbros ✊🏽#unite
@TheKalo9
Жыл бұрын
Or just date a woman without kids bro
@kristalj7363
Жыл бұрын
Before 30, what happened with their relationships, and how were they when they had their child
@cuzheavy4079
Жыл бұрын
I have a step son that I've raised and considered my own been raising him since 2 months old I also have 4 biological children when a child is not yours I don't care how long you been around no matter what you do you always will meet resistance from the mother especially if its her first child she never see no wrong in her eyes he is 15 and ain't never seen his real father until a few months ago he been in prison the whole time soon as he get out he was running around so happy like this man been here for him taking care of him he started acting funny treating me different hurt me to my heart never treated him no different than my own children and the biological father running around out here lying and making promises and now they feel stupid
@BoldJonathan
Жыл бұрын
That not biological father. That’s your wives child’s FATHER. Your name is not on the certificate Fam. Props for stepping up. But you fulfilled a role now time to make your own or enjoy your wife.
@cuzheavy4079
Жыл бұрын
@@BoldJonathan you must not have watched the video or read the post? Your off subject
@cuzheavy4079
Жыл бұрын
@belltowndaisy true I already have
@andrethompson6296
Жыл бұрын
Sorry bro that's what they do tho Hang in there man😢😮😮
@zayb2243
Жыл бұрын
The single mom conversation is a great tool to expose how disposable women find men. A man’s life is a joke to them, they don’t really care what’s good for the man.
@rocetta1984
Жыл бұрын
Sad and I'm a female seems to be all fun and games for most women
@goofynigga8456
Жыл бұрын
@@rocetta1984 it ashamed and these r the same woman tht expect a men 2 die for them.
@prolific101
Жыл бұрын
They be like...That's your child now,its not that Bad!😅 they Don't care about Yall...
@r.walker7986
Жыл бұрын
Its also a great tool to weed out the men who have a limited capability of love and connection with others. It also weeds out the possessive guys and the guys who are looking for a woman to low-key mother them so they dont want competition from an actual child...
@nytewrtr
Жыл бұрын
@@rocetta1984Well said
@REALenvizible
Жыл бұрын
My father said he didn't want anyone coming to HIS house saying "I'm here to pick up my child". No, everything here is me!
@CoCo-yv3hl
Жыл бұрын
I don’t date men with kids & ppl tried to shame me… you can’t shame me for something I don’t want
@Oir07
Жыл бұрын
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. Man or woman.Especially if you don’t have children I’m a man with a child single divorced woman doesn’t want to date me because I have a kid that’s totally fine how can I get angry?
@Empress-NaeX
Жыл бұрын
@@Oir07not everyone can handle rejection. I asked a guy if he had kids after stating I don’t deal with guys that have kids. His kids called “daddy” and I’m like you got kids? After he lied saying he don’t that’s his nephew/niece 😂😂😂. Smdh. Ain’t not relative calling you mom or dad.
@Oir07
Жыл бұрын
@@Empress-NaeX I don’t know why people have to live on find out eventually honestly years ago I had five baby mamas some of them will still like me 😂
@CoCo-yv3hl
Жыл бұрын
@@Oir07 didn’t say anything was wrong with it so do whatever you want. I made a personal decision not to have kids so I don’t want a man with kids they can grow up to be resentful adults. It’s a no for me. ppl are different it’s not about what’s right & wrong it’s about what works for you because I can see all sides & how some ppl loose out 💕
@Oir07
Жыл бұрын
@@CoCo-yv3hl definitely not wrong.. starting your own family is a good idea
@Qofb7636
Жыл бұрын
I won't ever date a women with children ever again. The story ain't important but just know it's not happening ever again.
@krisevans4379
Жыл бұрын
lmaooooo😂
@glidkomer
Жыл бұрын
😂 fa real
@Thinkingmansrocket
Жыл бұрын
I will never take care of another man's child. I only date women without children. I don't have or want children and I only date women who feel the same.
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
ALWAYS USE PROTECTION DONT MAKE A CHILDFREE WOMAN A BABY MOMA
@montycrawford5684
Жыл бұрын
SMART MAN
@SeaWorthy2
Жыл бұрын
Stepfather job is a thankless job! RIP Kevin Samuels!
@oladeebiazazi4538
Жыл бұрын
To each his own
@spencervanhauter
Жыл бұрын
Being a step father is like doing time for a crime someone else committed.
@jjackson80able
Жыл бұрын
As long as dat nigga breathing or ain’t doing life in jail….I would NEVER take care of another man’s child. The woman should be very careful about who they choose to procreate with. Half of the men just refuse to take care of them because the relationship didn’t work out or either the woman refuse to let him be a dad because she in her feelings. Either way if the child ain’t mine than I ain’t paying a dime. I’m not about to let another man off the hook because I want to date his BM.
@CM-tc4ny
Жыл бұрын
The women on here are a perfect example of who not to date.
@conradcho7771
Жыл бұрын
Yep smash and pass
@ojtaydoe9
Жыл бұрын
Facts 😂💯
@Mars23
Жыл бұрын
Crazy how this woman does not understand that some men want their own damn kids and family as legacy and just something they feel as a man, and do not want to incorporate another man's child regardless if other men do it, that just ain't for him.
@kreativeforce532
Жыл бұрын
she understands she doesn't care. thats the default baw position; oppose whatever the brotha wants or needs even if it hurts her too.
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
YOU SHOULD HAVE YOUR OWN KIDS YALL LEAVE YOUR KIDS TO GO BE STEP DADS LOL
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
@@kreativeforce532 YOU DONT Care AND YOU OVER THERE HURT NOW CAUSE YOU DIDNT HAVE A FATHER AND NOWYOU LOST OUT HERE
@luckyb5619
Жыл бұрын
So if that’s the case why are single childless people continuing to talk about single mothers. When single mothers can just go date other men with kids. Why aren’t single childless people making platforms looking to get together and get married? It’s continual talk about single mothers if you don’t want to date them don’t.
@Mightymorphinpowerbottoms
Жыл бұрын
So if your child’s mother is not active, is your girlfriend excepted to be a stepmother?
@XtremefireNewtimes
Жыл бұрын
Never break the cardinal rule. Do not date a women with kids. Do not take care that which you do not create. Only that which you create only.
@smhunney8266
Жыл бұрын
Any woman talking bout its not that big of a deal is most likely a single woman with a kid that she either convinced or has to convince a man to take on and tolerate that deal. She look lke the type that has no accountability and teaches her son to not have much either.
@simplelife6827
Жыл бұрын
If you date a woman that has children, you can not separate the package. If it's not for you, date single women. However, taking responsibility for another mans child/children should only come with marriage. The actual amount of financial responsibility will depend on the involvement and financial stability of the biological parents. If you are single and without kids, find your equivalent opposite.
@dcoldestjenkins5868
Жыл бұрын
Single Mothers = Netflix and Chill only!
@Lildose05
Жыл бұрын
☠️🤣 ofn show up late and leave early!!
@devionbrown5079
Жыл бұрын
And we using her account
@katlegomoatshe1312
Жыл бұрын
Yip puff and pass...
@juanderuano8969
Жыл бұрын
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
@juanderuano8969
Жыл бұрын
@jay pritchett wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@juanderuano8969
Жыл бұрын
@jay pritchett Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
@gdot5438
Жыл бұрын
i know it’s cliche but in time it will get easier . sorry you’re dealing with that took me a year to get over my ex fiancé . i’ve gotten to a point where it’s easie to get through a day without thinking about her . just spend your days doing things for you and what makes you better as a person .
@montycrawford5684
Жыл бұрын
Therapy and start working out!! Get on a program and go after your passion. Better yourself will increase your confidence and the opposite sex will notice you! Trust me, been there, done that a time or two
@whispers2114
Жыл бұрын
🤣
@armyveteranhooah2813
Жыл бұрын
I've been step dad so many times over so manybyears. Maaaaam NEVER AGAIN WILL I DO THAT SIMP SHIT. Ain't no award for that. Then you loose and the children lose when it doesn't work out. Women have no clue how hurtful it is to not just the children but the man too because we invest time, and hella money in their children like their our own. It damages those children to have to go through that over and over again. Chicks are selfish af. They need to work it out with the BD they chose or stay single. Fk all that shit.
@radamack13
Жыл бұрын
REAL TALK, WENT THROUGH THE SAME SITUATION, NEVER AGAIN!!!
@rocetta1984
Жыл бұрын
Yup or use protection real simple
@keithturner7102
Жыл бұрын
Taking care of other people’s kids is not a Step Father’s responsibility.
@preelenede
Жыл бұрын
See the women? “It’s not even that big of a deal”, that’s why we as men have to discard women with children!🤷🏾
@finessegod2
Жыл бұрын
As uncomfortable as these conversations arez they're needed 🤣
@music4thesoul491
Жыл бұрын
They couldn't come up with one single solid answer for a benefit😂😂 not even one.
@SKTV1991
Жыл бұрын
“Well what do you want to get out of it”
@Slim2xzIsland
3 ай бұрын
There’s absolutely no benefit at all
@Slim2xzIsland
3 ай бұрын
@@SKTV1991it’s not normal.
@ericjones3920
Жыл бұрын
Spot on. No benefits in dating single mothers. It's a waist of time and money. I tell my son this and he listens.
@Curbsidehustle87
Жыл бұрын
Took care of my x’s 2kids for 7 years an got no appreciation spent shit ton on um all while getin accused of doin more for my kid raised um as my own jus to get ripped away in break up it’s a bad deal
@zinzayzinzay3085
Жыл бұрын
Why do women want men to take care of their and another man's kid?🤨
@kjthomas4553
9 ай бұрын
Unless they married maybe different
@alphapimp0073
4 ай бұрын
@@kjthomas4553even then I still won’t. Do it
@jamalmitchell2611
Жыл бұрын
Women will always say it’s no big deal for a man to take on her children because it benefits them. On the inverse if they become a stepmother they still aren’t expected to financially support their stepchild with ALL of their resources. Grandpa told me most women don’t believe their own delusions, they just repeat them constantly and confidently until a sucker believes them.
@glidkomer
Жыл бұрын
It benefits THEM🎯
@jonathanpowell4180
Жыл бұрын
Taking care of another man's child is like coming to a party when you expect to have a good time but instead you show up and the party is over now you're the cleanup man🤷♂️ picking up all the trash party is not as lit when it began
@glidkomer
Жыл бұрын
Great analogy
@jaclynh9343
Жыл бұрын
💯
@mineandmine4528
11 ай бұрын
A step parent has no say when it comes to the kid, but said step parent must cook, clean, do laundry, help with homework, drop off/pick from school, provide housing, clothing, and all other living expenses etc… However, stepparent must do all these things because it’s a grand privilege to be in a relationship with the parent. 🤦♀️
@Fireslanga1
Жыл бұрын
So tired of women and thier kids. I have none. I'm tired tired.... I'm tied....
@hugozamora5719
Жыл бұрын
Taking care of another man's child. Is a terrible mistake. Let the mother take full responsability
@kinghenry1536
Жыл бұрын
My own sons don’t even stress me but another man kids stresss me… you can’t make this shit up
@annragland7219
Жыл бұрын
My stepson calls me mom. I have been in his life since he was 2. It’s hard sometimes but he blesses me!!!! I love him❤❤❤ and I don’t have kids myself.
@BoldJonathan
Жыл бұрын
Yes Our Sister, the valuable men with a child is much different than a woman. Very enjoyable. Woman I choose to date all enjoyed it as they too were similar to you with no children. Plus they wanted very to have baby. But marriage first. I break the pattern. Why continue it? To that I say you are blessed and your husband too for fixing things. And woman like you are fresh air. So refreshing.
@SeriousBlackThought
Жыл бұрын
Being in his life at 2 is different than 8. Glad it's working out 👍🏿
@ramsesstafford4640
Жыл бұрын
The vast majority of stepfather's will tell you it's a thankless job and the mother can on any given day take the child away and say "so what thier not yours deal with it" so don't sign up for that if you can't take having a child you more than helped raise snatched from you. 🤷🏽♂️
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
DONT SIGN UP EITHER IF YOU KNOW YOU ARENT WITH IT..KIDS DONT WANT YOU THERE ACTING LIKE YOU NOT THEIR DAD
@ramsesstafford4640
Жыл бұрын
@@valeriecoleman6480 oh don't worry I don't sign up to take care nobody else's kids. A single woman with kids is damaged goods. Facts ✌🏽
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
@@ramsesstafford4640 if she's ddirty and damaged after dealing with a man he should look at himself...as with men with several children out of wedlock they are only a liabitity especially if hes being forced by the government to support them..how many are you responsible for making damaged goods
@simplymy2cents
Жыл бұрын
These women are giving very goofy answers….there is no benefit at the end of the day.
@glidkomer
Жыл бұрын
Yuh those answers are typical women, goofy, baby mama ratchet answers.
@GG-jn9fx
Жыл бұрын
Tried it and that shit is out 🤷🏾♂️
@henrybullard8411
Жыл бұрын
Never done it! Never have, and never will!!👎🏿🙄
@truthseeker4460
Жыл бұрын
If you want the mother, and she has children it’s a package deal or move on. No woman want a a man that wants her but not her child tf. Just don’t talk to her
@rebelliousdash9899
Жыл бұрын
It's simpler to say than execute, it's like wearing condoms I guess
@solid_talk
11 ай бұрын
I respect everything u said. At least u honest with it💯💯💯💯
@alphapimp0073
4 ай бұрын
We don’t have to want that damn child so I rather not deal with a single mother. You can’t force a child on a man.
@Slim2xzIsland
3 ай бұрын
Y’all can definitely start by losing them funky attitudes yall got. We not the one who scribbled all over you and left you to dry. We run this and not the other way around. So respect a real man and learn from your pookie past the mistakes you made
@cleveland216..
Жыл бұрын
Welp … I’m grateful my step dad stepped up when my father wasn’t around
@frederickifill3107
11 ай бұрын
He crazy
@Marschand
Жыл бұрын
Y’all better wake TF up!! Animals don’t even be step parents. Raise your own seed
@martiallife4136
5 ай бұрын
Not true. Baboons stepparent.
@pwpstrick
Жыл бұрын
Anton reminds me of my cousin, every time he tryna prove a point he ask his ole lady to verify 🤣🤣🤣.
@realdogg
Жыл бұрын
Only date women without kids. Way too many issues when they have them.
@TH-lt6yj
Жыл бұрын
There is no day for Stepmoms or Stepdads; then to have to put up with a woman/dad who still allows their ex to keep up dominion in your relationship because they still want the other person. Not to mention having to put up with disrespectful ass kids!!!!!! The question is, "Whats in it for you????"
@Louda4th
Жыл бұрын
The woman would have to be so elite for me to even consider it, that I'm just gonna go ahead and say it ain't happening!
@rodneycarter3814
Жыл бұрын
My first ready-made family was so great. She had 5 children 3 boys 2 girls. We was married for about 18 years. Out of them years they never disrespect me never told me you wasn't my dad. They call me by my nickname RC. And that was find with me because I always told them you do have a father and never disrespect him. Me and the mother are not together Me and all the kids still have great relationship. I tell fathers if you can't be a father be roll model.
@ZoSlater
Жыл бұрын
Damn 5?...shit lol
@DLaughing-man
Жыл бұрын
Imagine how much money you could have saved for that 18 years. That is the point 👉
@jboyone1
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations.. You're the minority.
@glidkomer
Жыл бұрын
@@ZoSlater That's a not even in your dreams NO.
@ZoSlater
Жыл бұрын
@@glidkomer HELL NO LOL ...I work too hard, love myself too much ,and have too many other great options to settle for someone with that many kids...I preferably don't date women with children anymore...they all good but as far as building something with them...there's no benefit..plus I don't have kids and if a woman not even in the position to give me a first born, there's no real value she can bring to my life..plus a woman with those many kids couldn't possibly be attentive to a man's needs when she got that many kids to raise...it's just not for me
@thekorsh4230
Жыл бұрын
These dudes really be putting out their personal family business on the internet
@glidkomer
Жыл бұрын
And
@dmac5808
Жыл бұрын
I would never recommend a man to get serious or marry a woman with children. That is one of the most thankless jobs you will ever take on.
@shawnbrown4485
Жыл бұрын
That shit got me mad when she said it ain't the big of a deal. I used to deal with a single mother and her son was ours when it was reward time and hers when it read punishment time. I used to pluck him and she hated it. I asked her one time would I be able to pluck him if I was the real dad, she said yeah she wouldn't say anything but I'm not his father. Never again
@TheLinKuei
Жыл бұрын
Yooo Angryman in the building!! I gotta catch this full episode.
@elproco24
Жыл бұрын
My stepson I chose to love was 6.now he is 17. He started calling me dad at 13. After he spent a year with his actual father
@conradcho7771
Жыл бұрын
Simp
@Mr9thCHYLD
Жыл бұрын
I'm in a relationship like this now and the dad surprisingly still in their lives,gets his daughters on the weekend and I don't necessarily take care of them because,me and their mom talked about this before hand and yes I'll help out time to time food or,bday gifts or,what not and I can honestly say they love me and I do them, we go to church together and stay together sometimes but, I know my place and and they know theirs plus,I'm not trying too take the place of their father and yesss! it can be a challenge sometimes ESPECIALLY, when they get out of line with their mom and say and do stuff that kids do, having smart ass mouths,attitudes but,at the end of the day it's about finding that balance I guess and NO, AGAIN IT'S NOT FOR EVERYONE lol because, if you can't be cool with them co-parenting and talking time to time that's another big issue if your trust ain't right, my daughter 23 so, that's not an issue I just look at it like the old saying "it takes a village" and it's not the kids fault,they come with mom so, it's a package deal and if you don't have the heart for it PLEASE stay away from it lol,because I'm not going for the DUMB SHIT, I'm gonna take care of me first. But yeah don't do it if you're not ready for that type of commitment 💯💯💯 blessing and love EVERYONE stay safe KINGS and QUEENS🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@foondesignsceo73
Жыл бұрын
Salute to you bro!
@PoloButtaBall
Жыл бұрын
simp
@Mr9thCHYLD
Жыл бұрын
@@foondesignsceo73 truly appreciate it 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@solidmindsunited7289
Жыл бұрын
Medication has become the new discipline for our children smh
@andrethompson6296
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@vr4892
Жыл бұрын
It's interesting how they talk about this casually! It's not a joke and they need to stop catering to these women and their children by other men.
@jddaking05
Жыл бұрын
being a step father should be shunned upon unless you cant have offspring
@alphapimp0073
4 ай бұрын
Even if a man can’t have offspring he should still shun being a step father
@DBSTre
Жыл бұрын
It's a thankless job. No, thank you.
@jarretthaynes5317
Жыл бұрын
These women be capping hard. Lol 😂 smh
@lavellrobinson2934
Жыл бұрын
I learned as a helping professional other people kids are not your kids you have to create boundaries and treat them that way politely.
@jddd3214
11 ай бұрын
I dated 2 women with kids at separate times and almost became bankrupt. No more! nope ! nodda ! Screw that. I now have money.
@taylorgordon4920
Жыл бұрын
Pure facts bro I been a step parent 3 times it’s the most thankless job ever in the world nobody how much she say I appreciate you for helping it’s still the most thankless job in the world
@CoolOutSessions910
Жыл бұрын
What were you expecting? Frequent pats on the back?
@taylorgordon4920
Жыл бұрын
@@CoolOutSessions910 ummmm I wanst expecting anything I knew what came with it but I just had to experience it myself just telling my side of i been threw that’s all
@ironsharpensiron3215
Жыл бұрын
Ppl are so soft nowadays you don’t deserve a thanks for helping a kid grow into a man or woman. If it wasn’t for an elder putting me on game as a youngn who knows where tf I would be…planting a seed doesn’t always grow as fast as you want it to and you might live to see it bloom
@aureliajohnson7022
Жыл бұрын
I Agree.
@ironsharpensiron3215
Жыл бұрын
@@aureliajohnson7022 yea they don’t feel me tho everyone is so selfish now calling it “protecting your energy” but at the same time wondering why the youth are killing each other at an alarming rate..
@aureliajohnson7022
Жыл бұрын
@@ironsharpensiron3215 facts. Being shown love and having proper guidance goes a long way. It's disturbing because the impact will be felt. The children that grow up without proper nurturing or guidance will be in the same classrooms with your children, on the same jobs as your loved ones and out in the community as we age and become the elders. We reap what we sow.
@ironsharpensiron3215
Жыл бұрын
@@aureliajohnson7022 Fax I see you get it nice to see somebody isn’t a walkin zombie listening to anything you hear on KZitem…If you can’t tell they are to tryna break up our homes anyway they can and we are suffering. Don’t fall for it, the problem is not the kids its the adults
@saintsfan8814
Жыл бұрын
Yeah idk structure should be provided at the early stages. Most women or men don't provide that. So you end up with misguided children. Lack of respect and only wants handouts.
@jayyoung3572
Жыл бұрын
Sad and true I can do a single mother with a little girl, but those undisciplined fatherless lil boys that be flipping off walls will drive you crazy.
@kingjamal2785
Жыл бұрын
U ain’t never lying
@1114rome
Жыл бұрын
I have the answer to your question, were you there the night that child was made, did you participate, did you help, whatever your answer was should be your answer to being a stepfather
@dfresh9694
Жыл бұрын
I did it once for 5 yrs we separated kids don't kno me or deal wit me nomo never do it again
@terrancechisolm4090
Жыл бұрын
Same
@kreativeforce532
Жыл бұрын
7:35 thats the right idea. women say but but "it takes a village" meaning they want you to fix her bastardy crime comission. But what they leave out the rest of the saying "...if she's a village wife!" it takes a village to raise a child if the mother is a village wife (community coochie). Don't be the village fool and wife a chick like that.
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
BUT THE DADDY COMMUNITY DEEK POINT THE FINGERS AND THEY POINT BACK
@jordanglasper1064
Жыл бұрын
The disappointing reality behind this conversation. Is that there are a plethora of Goddesses Live their life recklessly, and always expect a god to help them. Smh
@HighFrequencyRadio
Жыл бұрын
A God or a goddesses is anything or anyone in control. If they need help they are not in control.
@Gunshinzero
Жыл бұрын
Getting with a single mother usually means putting yourself in a weird situation woman almost never have to be in. You're almost automatically going to put more time, effort, and resources into someone else's kid than your own unless you have full custody of on from a previous relationship. If you have a kid, most likely all she has to do is buy him some gifts a few times per year and spend some weekends. It's always a lopsided investiment. A good mother is going to put her kid's needs ahead of her own. That means the best ones are going to pick a man they like for their kid more than for themselves. That sucks for you because she might really be into you and will probably dip or cheat when the kid get old enough. How can you really know?
@lnzo5033
Жыл бұрын
The reality is no man should take care of another mans child. There is no benefit. One of the worst things you can hear is "your not my daddy".
@merlinslair1
Жыл бұрын
Would. Do it again Never !!! I’ll leave well enough alone
@Mind-H-Walk
Жыл бұрын
I had a reality check like that and I Thank God for it.
@boneharvester_eth4021
Жыл бұрын
This my first video I’ve seen of your channel. I will be subbing
@christopherrobinson1219
Жыл бұрын
there is no HONOR in it. no benefit
@user-fd1vt8sh5e
Жыл бұрын
The crazy thing is i dnt hear majority of man going around saying me and my kids are a total package thats sum entitled bs.. no man should want to be in a relationship with a polygamous woman with different baby fathers. Its a double standard man throughout history had multiple women and kids. Women want to be men so bad.
@BoldJonathan
Жыл бұрын
Crazy to me how this got no likes. Shows how weak most males are
@sheriffquick
Жыл бұрын
Being a step father is a very noble thing to do but DONT date single moms who don't get along with the Father of her child.. If the Father is civil and she's nasty, hateful, or spiteful towards him, don't WASTE your time fellas... You have been warned😁
@SKTV1991
Жыл бұрын
Or just don’t be a step father.
@alphapimp0073
4 ай бұрын
There is nothing noble about it. It’s a bad deal period
@DonTvv-ee8og
Жыл бұрын
I call my step dad by his name but introduce him as pops.
@Twelvestar12
Жыл бұрын
Crazy lance say that bcse one of my brothers step daughter call me Mr.soso and called our mom grandma lmao
@letyoursoulspeak
Жыл бұрын
I didn’t hear one good reason for men…. I rather not have kids than raise another man’s kids… This lady made is seem like he can’t do better 😂😂😂😂 I have better options I’ll be fine
@empressluv2521
Жыл бұрын
Lol... Lil Dude could at least call him Pop's if not Dad
@keyjames1041
Жыл бұрын
The internet will have u thinking every single mother on earth is looking for a man to take care of her child which in most cases is true but definitely not all.
@madcommentah3764
Жыл бұрын
Thats why there are so many deadbeat dads, and so called fatherless children and Broken Homes in the Black Community- transactional asz parents engaging in 1 way transactions where they are only out to GET. You cannot "parent" transactionally.. It has to come from the Spirit,....dealing with any kid, bio or step. Its a huge responsibility with long lasting effects If you dont like children, its best to stay ALL the way away from them AND their parents.
@greekshow6086
Жыл бұрын
they are not fatherless the mother takes them and lies about it everyone knows that this is happening and when she said they can file the taxes ive been through that my daughters mom was messing with multiple men has 10 kids now and each man filed for my kids even though i was moving everywhere she moved to. until i ran out of places to make money. i have not seen my daughters in 12 years they are adults now telling a sob story that i didnt want to be there i know black women lie too much. and nope nobody should be taking care of nobody else kids period then they get to sexually touch girls and beat up boys at will. we normalized the craziest things i have ever seen.
@dwill2476
Жыл бұрын
🤔
@joshlidowdie24
Жыл бұрын
Most women have kids, so it would be difficult finding one that doesn't. I have been a father figure multiple times. Plus I was one of those kids, so it can have a very positive outcome. Everyones experiences are different though.
@montycrawford5684
Жыл бұрын
Black community is damaged beyond repair! It's all we know and have to look forward too is broken family dynamics. Single mothers with multiple baby daddies. This shit is sad
@BoldJonathan
Жыл бұрын
Most woman you know. You must enhance your dating pool young King
@MrBreeze313
Жыл бұрын
Half the women in America are childless…
@MrBreeze313
Жыл бұрын
@@BoldJonathanThank u bro idk wtf dudes be talking about.🤷🏾♂️
@sidewinder4718
Жыл бұрын
Commitment to a child is deeper than "looking out for them".
@eribric5556
Жыл бұрын
The fact of the matter is that many men with biological children children get the same treatment these cats talk about. Many men who take care of kids who arent theirs biologically are held up in high esteem. It isn't a zero sum game.
@javaristurner6146
Жыл бұрын
She said "I aint Neva had no problems." Maybe not YOU, buttttt that guy may have damn sure had some problems and you didn't hear him.
@DeeBrownLTD
Жыл бұрын
Dont do it. It aint worth it.
@unclejj9600
Жыл бұрын
Anton much respect dude I gotta get on ur show
@william5862
Жыл бұрын
Big man , more real talk like this 👌🏾💪🏾. This that jayZ real coth talk
@vonnestacy1706
Жыл бұрын
😢nj?x??x!x!x !x? X a
@isaacmitchell4342
2 ай бұрын
I am childless and dating a woman with kids is still weird to me.
@millionaire99i
Жыл бұрын
It is funny many guys will sign up to be a step dad and take care of another man's child but won't sign up to marry that woman he had a child with.
@kreativeforce532
Жыл бұрын
those different guys from one another.
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
THATS ALL IM SAYING LOL
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
@@kreativeforce532 HOW WHEN ITS SO MANY SINGLE MOTHERS
@Music-yq8qc
Жыл бұрын
Maybe you should only have kids after you're married ?
@valeriecoleman6480
Жыл бұрын
@@Music-yq8qc that doesnt guarantee ANYTHING
@rdpill
5 ай бұрын
I dont understand why these women don't pick a great guy from the beginning....they shun nice guys until they run into a bad situation and expect those guys to step up....the baby daddy didn't step up
@chillhard430
Жыл бұрын
My boy married a single mother with a 6 years old daughter and her brat tells him at least once a week how much she hates him and doesn't do a thing tells her to do. who the eff wants that for 12 years.
@Footman1970
Жыл бұрын
Being a stepdad IS a thankless job, with ups and downs twists and turns, but I believe GOD finds favor in it all at the end of the day. Somehow he finds favor in you because your helping the child. Yes it's hard at times but we also have shortcomings ourselves so I believe one hand washes the other. Kids are a blessing even if it's brief.
@Tankbrown4048
Жыл бұрын
Bullshii
@dwill2476
Жыл бұрын
Is there any scripture that supports your comment?
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