If you'd like to donate any spare change you have then you can do so here: www.justgiving.com/page/joel-wood-dogstrust?Link&/joel-wood-dogstrust&
@ceciliasims7374
Жыл бұрын
Joel, you are absolutely right in your approach to Keegan’s kids. I’m a motherly American and I’m here to tell you, your approach is healthy for them and you! Disregard those who think otherwise!❤️
@TheJoelWood
Жыл бұрын
Aw thanks Cecilia! That’s the thing, I think the kids would HATE for me to refer to myself as a step dad!! I’ve only been with their dad a year! Haha!
@sullij63
Жыл бұрын
If you and Keegan get married some day you will then be their stepfather. Until then, don’t stress about titles. You should always follow the kids’ lead. If they decide to give you a title, even a fun one, embrace it!! Until then just keep doing what you’re doing. The kids obviously love you!! ❤
@tedeum6710
Жыл бұрын
Joel, your best friend issues with Keegan shouldn't ever be seen as gross or cringe - you and Keegan are thoroughly blessed to have each other and to share a relationship with both friendship and love. My best to Keegan !
@lelandpeck4585
Жыл бұрын
glad Keegan was ok. That can be scary getting something stuck in your throat. And Joel, you are correct, you're not the kid's step dad but a responsible adult in their lives. I loved the view of the countryside as you were driving. Beautiful!!
@franktreml3145
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making a donation to the Dogs Trust Joel. That’s very kind.
@MaggieAz602
Жыл бұрын
Joel you do you. Your relationship with Keegan’s children is your business. Those people can mind their lives how they choose. The scenery was beautiful 💚💚💚💚
@suave-rider
Жыл бұрын
sorry but "you do you" is fucking meaningless bullshit. Since when did it replace "just be yourself"?
@orielwiggins2225
Жыл бұрын
As an American divorced mother, I really appreciate your stance on just being a loving adult in the kids lives. Your role is clearly defined by the kids dad, mom, themselves, and your own limits, and as long as the children aren't begging you to be their dad (which would be odd and need further help, given that Keegan is already an invested dad) then why would they need you to assume a role they don't need. Your role, especially since you're not even married to their parent, is to be the best version of yourself as a partner, adult, friend etc. And model that to them, regardless of your status with their parents. Thank you for being such a thoughtful presence in their life. Most folks I know don't consider their impact on the kids until it's too late.
@ryancaldwell9463
Жыл бұрын
I don’t have cleaners, but I felt the same way the first few times I ordered DoorDash, or grocery delivery. I thought they must think I’m so lazy. But no, nobody’s forcing them to do it, it’s their chosen job. The more customers they have available to them, the better!
@hollykinslow5193
Жыл бұрын
You're doing a great job with the kids! Your relationship and just knowing they would be "devasted" if you answered that way, is a good sign. You know them and care about them. So happy to hear your parents are soaking up the sun in FL! Love always! ❤️ Always have your back!
@Ekanas
Жыл бұрын
Joel, you are looking very trim, healthy, happy and fulfilled! Love seeing this for you!
@StephanCalvert
Жыл бұрын
I’m an American and I don’t think there is a mean thought in your mind, you’re just not able to think in a terrible was. Continue doing what you think is right and all will be well.
@lanettewhite238
Жыл бұрын
Joel, you make my heart smile. You are the kindest person. Just when I think you’re the best you can be, you do this for dogs and their humans! ❤❤❤
@sherrimartin1057
Жыл бұрын
That's exactly right !!
@justinh8417
Жыл бұрын
Just donated on the page!! So glad you’re using your platform to help. ❤🐶
@TheJoelWood
Жыл бұрын
Aw thank you so much Justin!
@brogantatexo
Жыл бұрын
My parents split when I was 15 and my mums partner has now been in my life longer than my real Dad. I never called him step-dad (or him calling me step-daughter) whilst I was a teenager, but as I entered adulthood, I realised although he didn’t ‘parent’ me as such, he‘s always been there for me. There’s no right or wrong ‘name’ you take on, I call my mums best friend my ‘auntie’ because she is very much that figurative role to me, but I’ve always been grateful to have an extra ‘adult’ around in my step-dad who was a different voice/perspective. Family comes in a shapes and sizes, and embracing it with love, support and compassion is all that really matters 😊❤
@TheJoelWood
Жыл бұрын
That's really interesting! So true, all families are different and the labels don't really matter do they? If they want to refer to me as their step dad one day, I wouldn't mind, but I'm not going to force a title on them. ❤️
@tiefblau2780
Жыл бұрын
Dont get offended by what other says or view you judge you. You are who you are, nothing more, nothing less.
@stevefranks1711
Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU for the good work you are doing for our canine companions.. Very kind of you -- and sad it is so much needed. (I live in the USA.). Keep up your good work.
@AvronChristopher
Жыл бұрын
There is nothing cringe about your partner being your best friend. That is something a lot of couples could never have. The need to have a best friend outside of a relationship is normal, but having your partner as a best friend is an amazing foundation for a relationship.
@Jamnicity
Жыл бұрын
I love what you’re doing to help the dogs and their people. I hope you are able to raise lots of money! I think your attitude about your relationship to Keegan’s kids is exactly right. My parents divorced when I was a teen, but were still completely present and involved in my life. When they each started new relationships and got married I never considered their partners to be a parent figure to me, and I would’ve been annoyed had they presumed to assume that role. Like you said, they were simply extra caring and responsible adults in my life.
@staceywilliams8569
Жыл бұрын
I’m loving the donation to the dog’s trust. My dog, Spencer, was watching at the time with me. He did his 45° head turn, like he was really listening! Since it’s a bank holiday today in the USA (Memorial Day) I got up & gave him his breakfast! Love that you have settled in to your new living arrangement! ❤
@michaelmullard4292
Жыл бұрын
When you said that you popped them into the boot, I first thought you meant the kids, because you had just mentioned them! 😅 So glad you get on so well with Keegan’s kids. Those chocolate biscuits looked great! Looks like all is well - Very glad for you!
@joditurner148
Жыл бұрын
Ditto!
@harvestmoon_autumnsky
Жыл бұрын
Same. It was quite funny little moment.
@coleda-1460
Жыл бұрын
I love what your doing for the dogs trust, I'm not a Brit so I've never heard of it before, but it sounds wonderful. I think you have the best attitude about Keegan's kids. I wish my step parent had had your wisdom. Peace and love to you and everyone here.
@chrisk5651
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad that he’s okay!
@propertylady57
Жыл бұрын
I have to agree with you. The kids don’t need another father. You can be there for them when they need you. You are doing a good job.
@shanedorival3177
Жыл бұрын
We have a cleaner and have had for the last 12 years. I don’t know how we’d manage without her. We both have full time very demanding jobs. She only comes once a fortnight, but it’s time and money well spent. As one thing you can’t buy is extra time in your day. All the best from Melbourne Australia
@richiej5884
Жыл бұрын
I love the idea of you helping out for this cause Our dogs are our family. I just donated to help out and I hope it helps. (From me and Jackson (my 4 legged best friend) You're doing great....adjusting well and keep doing what you are doing. It's working well for you!
@joemalick
Жыл бұрын
Love your support of the dog fund, I was able to donate and sign the petition, glad I could do both! ❤ I feel guilty about being with my cleaner too, I always think I should be doing it, but I love having one! 🙂 And the DD people here in the US are very nice too, I often get a free item! Take care! ❤
@TheJoelWood
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Joe! That means so much, not just to me but especially the Dogs Trust!! So so kind of you! 💛💛💛💛
@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad Keegan's ok, yikes. Watching again❤
@ginabarrows2454
Жыл бұрын
I live in South Dakota and I think you guys over in England are so lucky! Living in the midwest we have to look at corn and beans for scenery and the scenery in England, Scotland, Ireland is so beautiful. I am so jealous and the architecture is so different than here! You guys should count yourselves lucky. You will see what I mean if you ever visit your friend in Nebraska. Keep up the great work, I love your videos!!
@stevehofmaster4292
Жыл бұрын
Loved this and thanks for doing the Dogs Trust,very valuable ❤
@aidenalamo6262
Жыл бұрын
Its sad that so many dogs are affected by rising costs of living. Food banks for dogs is amazing. Actually, where I live, there is a pet food bank in the next town over. It helps a great deal for those who need it. I wish you all the best Joel and Keegan.
@derekkeller3017
Жыл бұрын
Personally I am so grateful my husband is my best friend. I think it is wonderful he’s your best friend. If you do end up visiting Nebraska, I recommend visiting my home state of South Dakota and seeing the Black Hills. It’s such a beautiful part of the USA.
@davidbrims5825
Жыл бұрын
I too had a choking experience, swallowed a large vitamin capsule, choked on it, had a seizure, coughed up little specs of blood. My esophagus narrowed and felt tight, damaged the vagus nerve which practically controls everything, I couldn’t chew solid food, I had to go on a liquid diet, all I could eat was soup, yogurt, protein milkshakes. I lost 3 stone in 3 months. I was wasting away. It took about 8 or 9 months for me to be able to chew solid food again. Nerve damage takes a long time to heal. It was an absolute nightmare.
@missybelmont9830
Жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking about the dog and owners situation. I wasn't aware of how bad it got in The UK. Prayers for all.🥲🙏🐶
@sophiekotomski4588
Жыл бұрын
Having a person clean is much more common now for busy working people who can afford it. Turn guilt into Gratitude. And Pay them well.
@joditurner148
Жыл бұрын
When you popped back in the car and said "I got them in the boot!", I 100% thought you meant the kids. 😂😂😂
@karencarson7232
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping the dogs and their owners. That just shows what a special person you are. Joel, I am an american woman, and I totally agree with your view of not trying to be another parent to Keegan's kids. I know that you will always be there for them, and you will be supportive about whatever they are going through in life and give them advice because you are such a good person. I used to HATE it when my dad's ex-wife used to try to be my parent. I hope Keegan's throat is better and his speech went well.
@ladysparkymartin
Жыл бұрын
My friend lost her wife to ovarian cancer a few weeks ago after a 13 year fight. I know, needless downer. And neither of you will get ovarian cancer. But I share this info to encourage everyone to love big! Friends, pets, partners, whatever! LOVE BIG while we can. 🥰
@candidolopez1131
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Joel for the dogs fund...you're so great! Participated. Hope you reach your goal! : )
@mags102755
Жыл бұрын
I'm an old lady with a grown daughter I adore, and I get what you mean about not being a step dad. I think it's just fine and I'm happy for you however you want to recognize your role when interacting with Keegan's children. I live in the US so I can't help with the doggies. Love you Joel.
@TrulyRemarkableLife
Жыл бұрын
As your relationship with the kids grows, it will become clear how you will be regarded by them. I can see them growing comfortable and wanting to call you step dad, but whatever works is just fine. The rule is that your family unit gets to make the rules for themselves. I think you are handling it brilliantly. Also, glad Keegan is okay. The little weird moments you get to be a part of in relationships is just part of the big story. Hugs to both. We genuinely love watching you guys and feel like you are part of the family. Thanks for sharing your story with all of us.
@MaggieeT
Жыл бұрын
Thanks to you’re recommendation, I’m on my third in the series. I’m just devouring them and loving the adventure. Gave a small donation for the pups, wish it could have been more.
@QuincyDisneyVegan
Жыл бұрын
Joel, seeing you be a house wife is AWESOME!!! The visible love between You and Keegan inspires me. ❤🏳️🌈👨❤️👨
@LorraineinPNW
Жыл бұрын
I'm happy for you, Joel! My partner has been my best friend for 20 years and it's wonderful! Great explanation about being a step-dad. That's exactly how my wife felt. Since she had no expectations, they'd go to her for advice. Now, my oldest, who is 33, refers to her as one of his moms.
@k.vn.k
Жыл бұрын
I think the donation for the 🐶 is a good idea! You are already their adult guardian with the drive/pick up, making dinner, which is basically what normally a stepdad does. But I agree with your stance, I think it’s a healthy approach. You are just one without official title 😊
@gazaman7561
Жыл бұрын
Happy Sunday Joel
@susieb8661
Жыл бұрын
I have the same issue with dried out red, cracked hands from washing / sanitizing. I put Aquaphor on the back of my hands at night - by the next morning they are better. Aquaphor has healing properties (that lotion does not have). It also can sting when it goes on but I'm telling you it has helped much better than just lotion. Try it for a few nights.
@jenniferkelch7140
Жыл бұрын
A few years ago I went to the hospital with a piece of steak stuck in my esophagus. It hurts. I'm glad Keegan was able to dislodge the chip.
@joshuairon1443
Жыл бұрын
I never "Like" a video, but I "Liked" this one. Anything to help doggies! 🐕
@StephenHartHartTalks
Жыл бұрын
petition signed, a great cause Joel, glad Keegan is better xx
@conradanderson548
Жыл бұрын
Hi Joel Been watching your channel for a while now, found you through Keegan's channel as he's a RL player I'm a massive RL fan. I totally love your home life videos and I totally agree with you about in regards to your step father comments...you summed it up beautifully. Also I would like to say what an amazing thing you are doing raising money for the dogs Trust. Anyway I'm loving your videos and I'm want to thank you for sharing a bit of your life with us...I think you and Keegan are made for one another and I love the chemistry between you....your so funny together. I'll stop rambling now and wish you both well. X
@paulguise698
Жыл бұрын
Hiya Conrad, What Rugby team do you support? I don't support any,
@skipthecultureshock5474
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for caring about the dogs! ❤❤❤❤ Unwanted pandemic puppies is a problem all over the world. 😥
@wehojm7320
Жыл бұрын
Busy, busy boy. Good to know everything and everyone is doing well. Take care.
@mykittravels8511
Жыл бұрын
Love you Joel as always and anything you put out. I am a huge supporter and have big dreams of moving to the UK one day…😁. Have an awesome week to you and Keegan! 🎉
@jethrojackson2524
Жыл бұрын
Bless you Joel.
@katiek1856
Жыл бұрын
My family is from Nebraska. Everyone is really nice there but the wind is something else.
@debmulford
Жыл бұрын
I am also a motherly American and I didn't think anything negative when you said that about being a step-dad! I am also married to my best friend for 20 years and I honestly think that is what helps us last so long!
@starbock
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, positively right regarding Keegan's children. Like you said, they have a dad and a mom; you're a responsible adult in their life. Perfectly well said! And, SO glad that Keegan figured out the bread. Yes, bread is a good go-to solution for both something stuck and eating very hot foods (never drink water if you eat something that's too hot ... it only makes it worse).
@darleneriggs5794
Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I think your being a responsible adult for the kids is awesome.
@rebeccaphillipsmullins8124
Жыл бұрын
Well done Joel to help the dogs trust that is brilliant of you
@darrenwilson7217
Жыл бұрын
Relationships that last are ones where you are each others best friend. I have been married 35 years now and we became best friends in the early days of our marriage. We have moved to live abroad and across the country and I wouldn't have survived that if this wasn't that way. Wendy
@asdt2858
Жыл бұрын
I’m reading the same series!! I just finished the second one this morning and I’m so sad I won’t be able to start the next one till it arrives on Thursday!
@jameshendy
Жыл бұрын
It’s not cringe at all. I have been with my husband almost almost 19 years, since I was 21 and he has always been my best friend 🙏🏻🧡
@Beachbum471
Жыл бұрын
I married a man with five children, they were all pretty much older but I never actually considered myself the stepmother. They still had both a father and a mother who were both very active in their children’s lives. It may have been different if their mother was deceased and there was a need for a mother figure in their lives but that wasn’t the case. I had three children of my own as well ❤
@annecunningham1151
Жыл бұрын
Petition signed and shared.
@Stefaniecarter222
Жыл бұрын
Joel, first off I want to say that I have been watching your videos for close to two years now and I have actually never commented on any KZitem video I have ever watched . Second, I just love listening you while I’m doing my daily errands and going about my day. Third, I don’t know if it’s because I am an ICU nurse ,and I don’t know how many days ago the incident happened with Keegan , but I have seen way too much happen in my career with chips getting lodged in the esophagus and the patient thinking everything is ok and then a week or two later finding out that they perforated their esophagus . You were right to be worried and I am sure everything is fine , but please please keep an eye out for Keegan for any signs of fever or overall just not feeling well . I know this is me being over the top ICU nurse and I get that I see the worst of the worst , but I just needed to get this off my chest and make sure y’all are aware. Even as I type this I know this is very cringe , and I hate that this is my first ever post on your videos . I promise to make the next comment a more light hearted comment 😊.
@TheJoelWood
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for letting me know!! I’ll tell him and keep an eye out! 💙
@lucashadenfeldt216
Жыл бұрын
I live in Nebraska, outside of the state capital of Lincoln. If you come here Western Nebraska is pretty scenic. I have relatives that live in Scottsbluff.
@orielwiggins2225
Жыл бұрын
Joel, as a personal assistant who's clients often hire me to clean their homes, we appreciate that you care and don't want to leave a huge mess or be in the way while we work, but you're totally right, that the good cleaners aren't judging you or feeling like we wish we didn't have to clean up after you. I tell you honestly, unless you are intentionally thoughtless and mean in your mess ( think entitled frat boys) then we are greatful for a considerate decent paying client. I'm sure they are happy to work for someone like you.
@angelanarvaezgovea9430
Жыл бұрын
Dog Food Bank would be awesome everywhere ❤
@JohnandCaraRetiredTravellers
Жыл бұрын
13:20 Joel you and Keegan being best friends shows the depth of your bond. My other half John has been my best friend since 1978!!! And we wouldn’t change a thing! ❤~Cara
@anthonyroylance867
Жыл бұрын
Do you know I'm so used to skipping adverts I just did it without thinking.... So sorry Joel. Also it made me laugh when you said "I've got them and put them in the boot" right after you were talking about being on your way to pick the kids up. Haha!
@supergran62
Жыл бұрын
Love your stand on adulting with the children.
@shawnmarie459
Жыл бұрын
I have Cleaners too and, yes, I feel the same guilt. Also, I sort of "clean" before they arrive. 🤣
@TheJoelWood
Жыл бұрын
Hahaha glad I’m not the only one!
@IsabellaL82
Жыл бұрын
I read somewhere that psychologists believe a step-parent SHOULD be more of a friend to the child(ren). Like you said, they have parents. And you don't have the same bond with them that their parents do. And I agree with that. So you, in actual fact, sound like the perfect step parent.
@sundanceks5074
Жыл бұрын
Something to think about Joel. Years ago I decided I would only drink water with the exception of my morning tea or coffee. I may have a glass of wine with friends once in a while. It is a huge waste of money and calories. I have never missed it after I decided.
@cherrywallis
Жыл бұрын
The pressure I feel to read ACOMAF so you don't get ahead of me is high... 😂
@TheJoelWood
Жыл бұрын
hahaha it's ooooonnnnn!!!!!!
@ClaireRader
Жыл бұрын
I get where you are coming from on the whole stepdad thing. It's good to recognize that they already have 2 good parents. I like the term "bonus dad." Mine has never tried to "parent" me. He has just always been there when we need him. He has, as you described, just been a responsible adult in ours and our children's lives. And from my kids' views, who wouldn't want an extra loving, spoiling, grandparent.
@lahermosajarifa7007
Жыл бұрын
Wise point of view with the kids!
@genniepettit9675
Жыл бұрын
Yey Nebraska trip! 😊 Yep, I live in NE.
@tomholmes1350
Жыл бұрын
I agree about the reluctance to use the stepdad title. I think the Loving Uncle title works well for you and should work for the kids.
@trisham4220
Жыл бұрын
I feel your pain about the dry hands. I wash mine all the time and use cerave lotion religiously.
@bigjud454
Жыл бұрын
Will do!! Much love joel
@michaell906
8 ай бұрын
Do a meet and greet if you come to Nebraska!! I’m south in Kansas. I’d love to meet you in person!! ❤❤❤❤
@jeresitkosanfrancisco8370
Жыл бұрын
When something gets stuck. gargle and raise your arms over your head to open up everything.
@beverlydust5381
Жыл бұрын
There is pet insurance for medical bills here in the US, also many animal shelters have pet food pantrys ,some food pantries for people also carry food for pets as well. Many seniors use the food pantries because they are not able to afford food for themselves, after paying rent and utilities. The price of everything has gone up so much.
@jayzee816
Жыл бұрын
I'm a step parent. 15 years into the relationship, she's my daughter now. The relationship we had 15 years ago is very different from the one we have now. There is also nothing wrong with being an adult who loves them. I'm not here to replace her parents. You define your relationship with kids however you need or want. Just love them. A kid can never have too much love.
@MaggieAz602
Жыл бұрын
We are getting to the hot months in Arizona. Last year our air conditioning was $600 USD a month. If you don’t run the A/C you will literally die of heat. I mean dead. It happens to a few poor souls every year. Hoping I’ll be able to stay ahead financially 😬
@anrach579
Жыл бұрын
Families aren't all cookie cuttered. They're all different. Joel, y'all know y'all's dynamic. Do what's right for you and your family. Don't worry about what others say.
@anthonyomara1064
Жыл бұрын
Нi Joe, my estimate is you are spending £50 a month for coffee to go... Good for them. I get it's a habit and a ritual Lol. I live in one bedroom flat and my energy bill for the last 3 months was £410 every single month. It's insane. I was so glad that you didn't have to bring Keegan to the A&E as the waits in there are well over 6 hours at least. Keep healthy and happy for both of you Love and hugs ❤
@Jillski13
Жыл бұрын
Completely agree with you regarding not being a step-dad! It did not offend me at all. How you worded it made sense to me.
@jasthe3rd
Жыл бұрын
One of my favorite quotes, from the first episode of Stranger Things: "Mornings are for coffee and contemplation!" 😄
@carolemckibbon4586
Жыл бұрын
Joel, you are correct in your approach to Keegans children. They are old enough to know that you are there for them if and when a need arises but, like you said they do have parents. They really don't need 3rd parental figure. Thank you for your attention to the needs of our animal friends. The US also has a problem with unhomed pets. We help our local animal rescue services by buying food for them when I buy my two dogs their food. My dogs are not small. A 120 pound Malamute and a 90 pound Husky. They are so spoiled!
@PokhrajRoy.
Жыл бұрын
1:12 This is such a lovely initiative! Good luck!
@kennethdodemaide8678
Жыл бұрын
We have the same biscuits in Australia but not the chocolate orange ones. Love your videos.
@CathyMiller0711
Жыл бұрын
I think you are taking a good approach towards your relationship with Keegan's kids. That's not to say that your relationship won't change and deepen at time goes by. It probably will but you can't force it with them. And kids can't have too many caring adults in their lives.
@LoveLeighEating23
Жыл бұрын
Love you always you’re looking great!
@gregbramwell7666
Жыл бұрын
Just be a good role model, step dad is if your married more, simply be a good rep of a happy family.
@TheJoelWood
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@emmac7011
Жыл бұрын
I have exactly the same morning routine 😂 I love it too!
@Blue_Jane
Жыл бұрын
Omg I LOVE the ACOTAR series!!! Enjoy!
@ladysparkymartin
Жыл бұрын
No, you’re their guardian. Who loves them and makes sure they’re safe. Time might tell but til then, just keep caring! 💞
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