Hey, man. I’ve been a Christian my whole life and have had a similar situation. I’ve never had a girl kill herself, but all of my girlfriends have cut themselves and tried to kill themselves before our relationship. One threatened to kill themselves at some point. I think you did the right thing. The girl had a demon and you managed to save her life in spite of her reckless disregard of it. Read the book Wild at Heart. It’s a bit of a Christian meme, but I think you would appreciate it as much as I had. I’ll say a prayer for the both of you. Get your sexual life in order. It’s honestly the most important thing you could do. We all are terrible people, but is God’s Grace that makes us whole. It is by our weaknesses that Christ is shown to be strong. Lean into your faith in Christ. He is carrying the team.
@libertykim6438
10 күн бұрын
You are young and you got your whole life ahead of you. Sorry to hear
@kylenorwood261
Ай бұрын
You absolutely did the right thing to end it and I commend your bravely for posting this. I watched ur last video before this and my situation and yours aren’t the most dissimilar. Ever since around 2020 my life has spiralled and I’ve accomplished basically nothing, have very little social life and have learned more about living with depression and accepting my flaws than I would’ve liked. You hold good morals and you’re very self aware. Keep building upon good habits and good things will come. This anyone can get behind
@InfinitusYT
Ай бұрын
What a terribly horrific and tragic story dude, I can't even imagine what that would be like.. it's not your fault You did the right things any sane person would do in that situation. Don't blame yourself!!
@kalwalsh
Ай бұрын
Hey man, you’re not a terrible person. You were doing what was best for both of you. It’s not your fault, you didn’t force her to do anything. She might blame it on you, but it really isn’t on you. You tried to do the best things for her in the whole relationship, but she did only selfish things and blamed things on you. You’re okay man. You’ve got a life to live, and it will take time to heal, but you will heal. Stay safe man. Be careful about bottling this all up, that would make anyone spiral even more.
@whos_askin
Ай бұрын
That is rough bro. It's gonna take you a long time to heal but you did nothing wrong. Her sickness brought her down but it also brought you down as well. I'm not a Christian myself however because you are I'd suggest turning towards Christ. Don't feel bad for not telling people yet, it's still to painful and they will understand why you didn't tell them in the future. Try to be with your friends and family as much as you can. This won't be ok for a long time because it wasn't ok what happened to you. Be patient with yourself and take it day by day. If all else fails reach out to me in a reply to this comment. While I may be a random subscriber you wouldn't be the first KZitemr I've lent a ear, even though I don't personally know you but I can't stand a fellow brother suffering like you are. It took a lot of guts for you to do this video and you should be commended for your bravery. Good luck and keep your head up bro.
@jackjacobson3945
Ай бұрын
Listen you did nothing wrong, I really feel for you. No matter what, it’s going to be really hard to move past these feelings and disassociate yourself from her but I know you’ll make it through. You’re not a terrible person. You got put on this earth with purpose and you saved her life. You need to be open with people about what happened, denial and hiding the fact will make it worse. It’s not surprising her mom is on your side because there is only one side which is yours. She was toxic and spiraled out of control, nothing happened by your hands only hers. You need to understand that you’ll make it through this and find a real and stable relationship down the road with someone’s who will genuinely care and love you unconditionally and accept your boundaries.
@ultravioletiris6241
8 күн бұрын
I was in a relationship almost exactly like this
@victor6010
Ай бұрын
yeah bro all these red flags c'mon... not worth it bro
@victor6010
Ай бұрын
4:15 awesome bro, I'm a christian too, I'm from Brazil too, it's very hard and rare to find people like this, specially girls I would say, people just thinks sex is a thing you could do with 0 compromise, it's sad, I hope I find my true love one day that didn't have sex with anyone
@InfinitusYT
Ай бұрын
You should probably open up to more people about this man. It can't be healthy to lie about the situation.
@CooeeGlenn
Ай бұрын
Believe Jesus would say to you "Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I AM gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your soul, for My yoke is easy and My burden is light." St Matthew 11:28-30 🙏
@Saxiibkadunida
Ай бұрын
Bro if you love alot just do it to finish all no after kind ok only romantic time injoy boddy ❤️✌️
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