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@lee48lee68
10 ай бұрын
@Jonathon Aslay- I’m a married woman who thoroughly enjoys your videos. Your teachings should be part of the high school curriculum.
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Awe... thank you 😊
@melissajenniferjones9959
10 ай бұрын
Agreed 💯👍
@maristella287
10 ай бұрын
They used to teach Dating and Marriage in some Catholic High Schools. But I went to one that taught it at the boys school before it merged with the girls school and we became a coed Catholic High School. Why they stopped teaching it at first, I understand, but I hope that they brought it back. I kind if doubt it. When the two schools first merged, we kids were very vulnerable and it would have felt like pressure and it would have been hard for us in Senior year. We were the first merged class that got three years together. Being together added a new and real pressure..
@user-tg7xq5et1g
6 ай бұрын
I wonder if Jonathan " SMACKS his lips When start talking !!! ???? Irritating really
@renette0506
10 ай бұрын
Oh, Jonathan. This brought tears. Ive done so much work, but I choose those who haven't. Think I just need to quit men & focus on my grandkids and work. Thanks for setting me straight... because I am awesome and need to attract the same. Hope you keep up the good work, the world needs you.
@lorrainec3673
4 ай бұрын
So true! I broke up with 2 servicemen exactly because I thought it was ironic that they worked in fields performing “acts of service” but I found out the hard way that it didn’t apply to me 😳 - I asked why & was told - I thought you had it handled! 🤬 - I wasn’t physically involved… but long distance… seriously.. wth?!?! My relationships typically last 3 years or more with daily contact & very physical. I agree you need interests together & apart to sustain the relationship. My last with my Ex was established in 2000 and we were in a band together. We had alot of fun but there was no romance, while we did have kids from 2015 & 2017 but that was very clinical and that’s when it started falling apart. I’ve come to the conclusion that he didn’t want a family. It was 2017 when my marriage ended. So, it started with everything, but it was missing a truth. Therefore, the loyalty & commitment was there, but the honesty on his part wasn’t there. However, I do have my children and have a chance to start over. I have the attitude of gratitude 🙏 ❤
@sacredartscommunications5522
10 ай бұрын
Excellent presentation. “Commitment” is a character trait of a person of integrity. Integrity in a dating relationship is integral in moving toward TRUST. “Trust” is a necessary foundational point for marriage.
@12Messenger
10 ай бұрын
I dont have to remain loyal to any girl that isn't my wife. If I have talked to her about marriage and we agree to go through with plans, than it is important to honor each other and God.
@sherriflemming3218
10 ай бұрын
A man shows a woman his character in the courtship phase. Who a man is during this phase generally will indicate how he will behave as a boyfriend or husband. Patterns of behavior. The track record.
@caterinaplatt9811
10 ай бұрын
@@12Messenger I'm not sure of your age, but this sounds as though you may be young? You likely haven't reached a place in life where a committed relationship is important to you. Don't rush it.
@12Messenger
10 ай бұрын
@@caterinaplatt9811 I'm 24. Im not committing to any girl unless she makes plans to be with me forever in marriage. Why commit to a girlfriend who may come and go as she please?
@caterinaplatt9811
10 ай бұрын
@@12Messenger Well, I'm 58, recently divorced, and dating. When the relationship becomes physical, it becomes exclusive. Like I said, you're young and in that restless stage of life. Guys are different, I suppose. Even in my 20s, I was the one man at a time type if there was a physical side to the relationship.
@noralynn3568
10 ай бұрын
I know I was a little nervous at first because he kept mentioning his dead wife but now he's completely committed to me and he says he has my back and loves me more than he did his wife! I Call Him a Keeper 🎉
@aena5995
10 ай бұрын
😢what if he already had a wife and kid but for me at 21/22 he's the first guy should I even bother??
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Yay!
@aena5995
10 ай бұрын
@@meeperbird any advice for me ? 😢what if he already had a wife and kid but for me at 21/22 he's the first guy should I even bother?? He's turning 23 I do feel like it's kinda Injustice to me in a way cuz he's already been with someone and done the "firsts" and would probably always prefer the first kid but he also ghosts my texts alot and then starts lovebombing saying I want to marry u blah blah
@cammiek3348
10 ай бұрын
@@aena5995no, back away… red flags 🚩
@Goldenowl66
10 ай бұрын
Don't make it a competition between you and his deceased wife. He should love you for you, not more or less than his late wife.
@JenHistoryFuzzAdmin
4 ай бұрын
As a mature woman, I also have friendships with ex significant others. Those relationships didn’t work out for a REASON, but it doesn’t mean you can’t care about each other! Sometimes men need a woman who will be HONEST with them, and they rely on you for that to help them in their own lives! I’m friendly with all my exes. When they need prayer, they contact me! I’m glad they all know me well enough to do that! I don’t hold grudges against anyone. That doesn’t serve me. Period. They all wish the best for me, and I’m the same way with them. I know it takes a mature person to accept that, but maturity is extremely important in any relationship. If I wanted to be with ANY of my exes, I would be. BUT I’m NOT. There’s no reason to feel insecure. If I’m with a man, I’m WITH only HIM.
@lauriemorales7605
10 ай бұрын
I've had more than 3 😢 I was in real physical, committed relationships and it has damaged me. I am working on bettering myself
@elycswong21
10 ай бұрын
To my opinion, if that is still love in between us, we will trying hard to make each other happy rather than an excuse to drop the issues.
@jeaniemeredith4052
10 ай бұрын
Been married 3 times. First marriage 8 years. Second marriage 10 years. Third marriage 25. I give it a good go, not for sure about doing it again. I’m a terrible picker and I’m starting a new life at 65. I’m 71 now and really don’t want to go through that anymore.
@lauriemorales7605
10 ай бұрын
I am very loyal and am really hoping to find someone who appreciates that. But I also need to have boundaries.
@debbiesunbrock425
10 ай бұрын
If you have a relationship with an ex partner. My answer would be no. If kids are involved only around each other for weddings or graduation. All other needs with kids you can do at separate times. Women or I don't even look at another man whether that other person is attractive or not.
@sherriflemming3218
10 ай бұрын
Defined well, Jonathon . ♥️. Trust is paramount. Establishing committment early on. They meet and date with a committment mindset. A grower builder is a keeper. Committment is a trait in a person of integrity.. I've had more than 3 significant relationships.
@maristella287
10 ай бұрын
You look very nice in that shade of light purple. It really works for you. Thank you for all of this and the deep thinking you have done for years and which you bring to all of us!!!!
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@CBReal1290
5 ай бұрын
Once again, real relevant relational road mapping for the once-had-a-relationship and believing the next can be better
@mercedesescoto628
10 ай бұрын
Wow ! ! ! Your knowledge and wisdom just grows and grows. Thank you for sharing your insightful spot on presentations. I keep participating from Puerto Rico. God bless you. Shalom
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you
@joansandeen9443
10 ай бұрын
Excellent advice especially the definition of love. ❤
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@bellapetersen2279
10 ай бұрын
Really resonated with this talk. Was with someone for 11 years (not living together) but broke up as fundamentally he was not able to “have my back” and hadn’t healed to be able to truly love another (or perhaps himself)🙏
@hilaryfalkenberg9348
10 ай бұрын
Great to hear this Jonathan! It all makes sense in the grand scheme of things! All very, very important! ❤️
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@maristella287
10 ай бұрын
Jonathon, You have helped me very much during a very trying time since my mom passed away in 2017. The radical honesty has been revolutionary especially with a few men who are see.ingly quiet types of men. Acts of service seem to be their firte thus far. My Dad did that for me like filling up my car with gas before a trip. These acts resonate with me so much in a man. When they make things easier for me it's a deep language to me. There is more to say. I'm going to keep listening to you. Thank You. I was praying tonight and I want to be a wife. Thank you for emphasizing the commitment and marriage as the GOAL. Thank You.
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
🙏
@terrim3133
10 ай бұрын
I listen to you often, and this was brilliant and amazingly said Johnathon!
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
WOW, thank you 😊
@marybeeler501
25 күн бұрын
They can also be kind to other people just not you
@user-xf1fz6bt8j
7 ай бұрын
Bear hugs for you Jonathon ❤🌹
@GuruInTheOffice
10 ай бұрын
Jonathan, I have been a huge fan of your work up until this video where you talk about transparency and you shared that you have "significant friendships" with two women you've been intimate with. This was the problem in my last relationship. I don't understand why men feel the need to do this. Once a relationship ends - it should be over. It's not fair to your future lady in your life or future man in hers. When mine are over - I literally have NO reason to ever speak to them again. Please explain the logic behind this. I thought you really made sense up until you disclosed this. I'd really love to hear the reasoning behind this.
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
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@GuruInTheOffice
10 ай бұрын
What is this supposed to mean? @@JonathonAslay
@lizstarcevic9657
10 ай бұрын
Meaning once a person has a new relationship they shouldn't maintain a close friendship with past people who they have been intimate with. As obviously that will only bring unnecessary drama as in insecurities, doubts etc with the new partner or love interest .I agree why have significant friendships with anyone from your past who you have been intimate with? How could that possibly make the new person feel good?...we have boundaries , standards, for a reason.
@GuruInTheOffice
10 ай бұрын
@@lizstarcevic9657 Thank you!!!!!!!!
@glenyshill72
10 ай бұрын
Indeed, how would one avoid emotional infidelity in this kind of scenario !?
@Align45
10 ай бұрын
Great video! I appreciate your authenticity & vulnerability. Great, refreshing content. Thank you!
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
I appreciate that!
@Teewriter
10 ай бұрын
I knew I was in a serious relationship, When my now husband threw away his phone back, ha ha, that was “back in the day”
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Lol 😆
@michelemcauliffe7671
10 ай бұрын
Love ❤ this. I am going to share with my 24 year old daughter 😊
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@caterinaplatt9811
10 ай бұрын
excellent description of what it means to love someone.
@TMN22
10 ай бұрын
What an absolutely insightful, warm and wonderful video‼️🥰Thank you very much🎉
@shecando8917
10 ай бұрын
I think the coffee mug quote is referring to coffee as what makes the world go round!!
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
👍🏼
@jazzmatazzle1042
10 ай бұрын
Great Talk ❤ Good Medicine❤
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@maristella287
10 ай бұрын
YES, I have had more than three but when I was younger than now.
@kayesmith8040
5 ай бұрын
So much value❤❤
@tianiemitchell5692
10 ай бұрын
Regarding your cup I believe the person gave it to you is trying to say that you help people with relationships therefore there could be marriage and children which helps the world go round
@kayesmith8040
5 ай бұрын
This so sweet ❤
@RRthee1
10 ай бұрын
I do not understand staying friends with exes and refusing to let go of that attachment(s) without that meaning a person is intentionally keeping a roster. Seems like the exes are who a person is meant to go the distance with after all.
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Being friendly to someone who was in our life is a healthy approach to inner peace.
@RRthee1
10 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay Thank you for sharing that perspective and also what you shared of it in this video. No one has stated that to me but have been determined to keep a relationship with them.
@susanharris2941
10 ай бұрын
I'm in a relationship with a man that has a friend that is way to cozy as called sis that call each other all the time. And shares way to much as he is in a relationship with me. And to tell her they love each other. However, he said he chose me. How can someone stomach this? My name is Susan
@jessiesheldon-huffey1824
5 ай бұрын
Run!
@lauriemorales7605
10 ай бұрын
This is extremely informative and helpful Jonathan 😊
@lauriemorales7605
10 ай бұрын
Jonathon
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@lauriemorales7605
10 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@WandaYarbrough-mx3xf
10 ай бұрын
Strange My just friend is All of these things. But that's all it is.
@RoseMoke
10 ай бұрын
What about blind love in Online for one year eight months to bring reality with honesty commitment and trust
@denisemartinez1903
10 ай бұрын
I have my act together pretty much but I don’t want a commitment at this moment in time. Does that mean I can’t have a possible relationship?
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
It sounds like you're good with a strictly casual relationship... do you want open sex too?
@Meyouletsgo
10 ай бұрын
What happened to Marie ?! Broke up ?
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Yes, watch the video titled "Letting Go" in my live playlist.
@Meyouletsgo
10 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay thank you ! I hope you find someone who matches your energy :)
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
@@Meyouletsgo Me too... thank you
@elycswong21
10 ай бұрын
Jonathon, I have a serious issues with my husband, it been a while we lost our sexual relation, I try working it out with him, but he always push me away n said he is tired from work, what should I do? It been irritating to me, does it mean he don’t want me anymore?
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Seek counseling
@Teewriter
10 ай бұрын
Maybe can’t perform and doesn’t want to admit it to you
@janereinhardt4715
10 ай бұрын
How old is he? Sex drives frequently disappear after a certain age.
@tdotjazzberryram61
10 ай бұрын
@@janereinhardt4715 Sex drives never disappear. People well into even 90's express affection as long as the body and health are willing
@jessiesheldon-huffey1824
5 ай бұрын
Intimacy Anorexia. KZitem has videos on it. He might also have a porn issue as these things often accompany each other.
@susanharrie3326
10 ай бұрын
❤
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
💕
@melissajenniferjones9959
10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@JonathonAslay
10 ай бұрын
Thank you
@EllyLugosi
10 ай бұрын
Hey Jonathon, hope youre doing well. We love you so much. Another strong, informative and fantastic video. God bless 🩵
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