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@stanleyjamingejoy1709
Ай бұрын
9
@alemuerena5115
Ай бұрын
9
@brendadrew834
Ай бұрын
Can you please do a video on the elderly who have a disability as well! Many of us have what's known as 'unseen disabilities'....thanks! 💜
@eddytan6244
Ай бұрын
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@ahmadalminyawi8400
Ай бұрын
This is like adding darkness to the darkness that you lived in all your youth , haven't you heard about death and that your real life sturts after you die and level this very short life .
@maybee...
Ай бұрын
Life is too exhausting, I live alone, I like my life alone, I like taking an undisturbed nap. I don't like cooking for others, it's just too much work, I don't like entertaining any more. I must be blessed, at almost 70 I am still healthy.
@agiasophia55
Ай бұрын
Stay healthy and be blessend🎊🕊🎊
@dolittle6781
Ай бұрын
@@maybee... can relate…don’t mind occasionally cooking something simple but tasty and also ordering takeout for close relatives if they really appreciate it. Kids for instance were given everything but now as adults hate their parents. Besides as I their dad have gotten older they no longer have a need to spend time with an older person like me. That’s fine. I’m spiritually well grounded and comfortable living independently. They have their hands full with their own lives I guess. No sense of family anymore. Unloving ungrateful adult kids. Maybe they are even jealous of their dad who has had a good life. Who knows, who cares at this point. Am healthy and having fun with my projects and hobbies.
@bismillahrabbani9006
Ай бұрын
@@dolittle6781 I am seeing here that many are experiencing similarly to my life. That is a comfort somehow. Thank you! 🙏🏽🪷
@Booker-wy1ef
Ай бұрын
I suffer from people's presence , not from their abscence. {Pablo Picasso}
@agiasophia55
Ай бұрын
@@Booker-wy1ef 🕊🪷🕊
@1linkbelt
Ай бұрын
"I live in that solitude which is painful in youth, but delicious in the years of maturity." Albert Einstein.
@debrapaulino918
Ай бұрын
What did he prove? His theory is still theory.
@debrapaulino918
Ай бұрын
@@1linkbelt How was his youth spent in solitude? He had a wife and a mistress. He was a popular sought out speaker and he was given a Nobel? He was invited to dinners and banquets. As a non religious Jew and I think a Zionist, I fail to see his solitude.
@1linkbelt
Ай бұрын
@@debrapaulino918 You would need to ask him about that. lol
@debrapaulino918
Ай бұрын
@@1linkbelt Why? He should've thought it through.
@JackMason-oq8lf
Ай бұрын
@@debrapaulino918 Youths don't have mistresses. Or wives & children, for that matter.
@irenetlhase6041
Ай бұрын
I am in tears listening to this video. I'm retired professional who worked hard to build a savings plan and buying properties. I'm retired. My son is fighting with me for my properties, and he has eroded my savings to maintain his lavish lifestyle. I learned too late in life NEVER to use all your money on investing on children because they abandon you at your aging.
@sharonconstan8234
Ай бұрын
Concerned about your comment. ❤ if this rises to the level that you feel abused, please consider reaching out to a counselor or police or adult protective services. Protect yourself ❤
@sandrajackson5163
29 күн бұрын
Sell the properties and spend the money.🤷
@librajustice457
28 күн бұрын
Your son is it seems an ass. Teach him a real good lesson B4 it's to late for u or him.!@@sandrajackson5163
@user-hr3tx6uu9o
27 күн бұрын
@@sandrajackson5163It's elder abuse. Thanks for your comment!
@ranisrikumar5735
27 күн бұрын
@@sharonconstan8234excellent advice ❤
@EmilyPeters-ym6ew
Ай бұрын
Do what makes you happy, not what anyone expects from you ❤💯
@francesdumaliang6132
Ай бұрын
My sentiments exactly…
@douglasjones5880
Ай бұрын
That's no conversation...we know that.
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
Simply doing this will cure most cases of depression.
@oldroscoe2590
Ай бұрын
75 here, One of my better investments was a simple "No Soliciting" sign stuck on the front door.. The kids are raised and gone, doing well on their own now, the ex is history. We are supposed to be social animals, so be it, I get all the socializing i want or need by visiting neighbors, during daily walks and a little shopping. Don't call me, I'll call you. Get healthy and stay healthy, don't rely on doctors to fix you, take responsibility of your health, mental and physical.
@trixwoodz
Ай бұрын
Hey Old Roscoe,, your comment mirrors my sentiments , including the NO Soliticing sign by the front door!
@trixwoodz
Ай бұрын
72.5 yo here, and the ex is history buts wants money I ain't got
@Mlebron777
Ай бұрын
I'm 55 and i Will take that advice at hearth❤😂,thanks You !!!
@2012-JAF
Ай бұрын
A "No Soliciting" sign also graces my front door, and I do concur.
@vaneden9603
Ай бұрын
We are not animals but human beings.
@erin19030
Ай бұрын
Just turned 81 this weekend. I live alone, my wife just passed away. I miss her very much but I dont feel lonely. Much of the day I spend in my radio shop restoring vintage electronics equipment. My grandkids are welcome to come over anytime for a swim in my in ground pool, but I tell them to bring their own snacks and sodas. I do supervise them for their own good. My son comes by now and then to see that I am well. He will inherit this house one day and helps me keep it in good repair. Most of my Old friends have passed away. I am the oldest member of my family and the family historian. However most members care little about our heritage clan. Two of my grand nieces have picked up the search based on my informational foundation. My life is good, I’ve lived a good life, good times and bad. I would do it all over again and trade this life for the years I worked and raised a family. Even my time in the Army I look back on fondly, in Nam, Germany and state side. I know my days are numbered, but I have no fear. I truly hope I will see my wife again in the great beyond, if there is such a thing. Peace out!
@policarpioragos7895
Ай бұрын
Lord Jesus love us...& want to be with us in Heaven..🙏
@dagmarvandoren9364
Ай бұрын
So ist es. Sie sehen sie wieder....und nun? Ruhe und frieden.....tag bei tag ....
@cynthiakirkman7601
28 күн бұрын
❤
@kathmandu64
28 күн бұрын
Hey gran pa , be kind to your grand son , daughters, why you so stingy to give some food , drinks , snacks you say bring your own, seems at this age ,
@helenessien3729
24 күн бұрын
Thank God for gift of good health and Good family, I'll like to share with you there is an Eternal life Promised by The Great creator The Almighty JEHOVAH GOD who gave us HIS Son, who came from HEAVEN HE LIVED ON THIS EARTH, HE also promised to come back , Please believe in JESUS as the Son of GOD and Saviour, there is LIFE IN CHRIST AFTER THIS LIFE.
@rebeccaknox4652
Ай бұрын
I have experienced that even family isn’t your friend. A true friend will welcome you no matter what is going on in their lives. Yes, a lot of people are put out because they are selfish and unkind. True friends are rare, counted on one hand.
@dolittle6781
Ай бұрын
How true! The least friendly person I have ever known is my wife. Second to her are my children. Go figure!
@laurelpeterson1307
Ай бұрын
For me the most selfish and unkind people were my mother and my sister, when my grandparents and father died, I had no one but my children, and they made me feel like I was imposing on them. I see my children maybe 10 to 20 hours a year now and I do my socializing at the senior center one day a week. The rest of the week I'm at home alone for the most part. It's okay because I can deal with the solitude, sometimes I feel lonely but I get past it. It's better to have solitude than to have people around you who make you feel unwanted.
@user-vh4hq2hi4q
Ай бұрын
One Finger!!!
@M.Sforza
Ай бұрын
One finger if you’re lucky
@helenkentwell5042
Ай бұрын
I am 74 and have a friend I met 5 years ago when I moved. She phones me every couple of days and calls in about twice a week for a visit of about 1 hour or so. She often brings something for lunch. I’m always welcome at her home and welcomed like part of the family by her husband and son. She is in her 80s and shares herself amongst many friends and family. How lucky I am to have such a true friend. Your stories are deep and meaningful. Wise information.
@solohoh
Ай бұрын
I'm 84 and just got back from a gathering of friends, we all had a marvelous time --- even added another member to our group
@thasleemfrank3690
Ай бұрын
❤
@gregmccullum1000
28 күн бұрын
Great stuff. You will live longer. Amen
@migdaliasantana2667
28 күн бұрын
Fabulous 👍🏻❤👏
@bluebonbon22
Ай бұрын
I was in my '70's before I lived alone. Before then I always had people living with me. I love my solitude. I really enjoy living by myself as I have time to relax, think, watch what I want or sleep without interruption. If I buy food it is there until I eat it. When I want to socialize, I leave home and go to a public place such as a community center, or an event. I don't go to people's homes, except for family. Life changes how you view people and solitude is a great benefit.
@cynthiamancecustodio7745
Ай бұрын
Thanks a heap for this great life ahead!
@kare7840
Ай бұрын
It's ok to be alone. It's ok to be surrounded. Love people where they are. Let it be.
@Fegga1955
Ай бұрын
Exactly
@tonykearney3806
Ай бұрын
Just accept the fact that humans are crazy, keep socializing without expecting anything in return. And then laugh and amuse yourself at the craziness. Soon you will find friends who feel the same way and laugh together.
@CatladyActionFigure
Ай бұрын
Best comment by far!😆👍
@Fegga1955
Ай бұрын
Perfect comment
@saskiavisser1279
Ай бұрын
Great advice!
@marilensoyosa3340
26 күн бұрын
Its nice to hang out wd friends
@bethleblanc656
Ай бұрын
I truly enjoy being in my own company. I'm almost 71 this coming August, I exercise regularly and eat healthily, keep a positive attitude, educate myself daily on different topics, and am not interested in socializing for various reasons, some of which have been mentioned in this video. I love to sit down, read a good book, watch an interesting documentary, go for a long walk in nature, or reflect on life and be grateful for the wonderful things I have including my excellent health at this age which, I compare with a good wine that's getting better with time. "You are a living magnet. What you attract into your life is in harmony with your dominant thoughts." Sending lots of love and light to everyone. Thank you for this insightful video.
@greerbuhagiar3071
10 күн бұрын
I’m in my 70’s I still visit x I’m very welcomed when visiting. I love entertaining x see friends that you know for over 30 years. I love going out x socialise with my friends.
@noeldeal8087
6 күн бұрын
I have Irish heritage and love the book, "Ireland Welcomes the Stranger..." from the 1843/44. It's non fiction. 📚
@amparotampus7531
Күн бұрын
😅
@AlphaPoe
Ай бұрын
Agree 100%. I now limit my friends only to those who are considerate, happy, supportive, and non-judgmental about my life. I avoid all toxic people and don’t want unannounced visits from negative, depressing people who dwell on the past and put people down.
@Fegga1955
Ай бұрын
Same here
@BarbaraPavel
Ай бұрын
People come over and tell me how my house should look - and other “constructive comments “. I had some garden tools on a table outside where it was convenient but a young friend asked why I didn’t clean up the mess. I’m 77, have no family and few local friends. I miss the active life I had with my late husband but now I don’t have the desire or energy to be on the go all the time.
@borislavastamenic6856
29 күн бұрын
😂
@eanleeparkin7004
27 күн бұрын
I agree with comments.
@noeldeal8087
6 күн бұрын
@@BarbaraPavel You do you, Barb. Keep those tools wherever you want to, lol. 🌻 🌿🌾
@AdahPAHtatah
Ай бұрын
I am 66 years old and live in a 55+ community. I stay to myself even though I had thoughts of having a social life when I retired. I found so many of my neighbors to be mean spirited and full of gossip. I walk into the community room and everybody shuts up. People make up stories about who I am because I do not like to sit and chat with them. I do not like to talk about people. So either join the gossip "girls" or stay alone in my apartment. I am happy being alone but I do not like passing my neighbors when I go outside. I feel the negative vibes.
@moped975
Ай бұрын
Da können wir uns die Hand reichen! "Der Mensch an sich ist gut, aber die Leute sind ein Gesindel." (Nestroy) Ich lebe mit 24 Nachbarn in einer Hausgemeinschaft, suche Gemeinsamkeiten und finde Verschiedenheiten. Andere Gemeinschaften haben ähnliche Probleme und verschiedene Lösungsansätze. Es ist wichtig, im Austausch zu bleiben. Manchmal finde ich außerhalb jemand oder etwas, mit dem ich innerhalb anders wahrgenommen werde. Alte verknöchern und neigen zum Mobben - aus Unsicherheit und Enttäuschung. Sie brauchen viel mehr Zeit und Gelegenheiten als Jüngere, um Vertrauen zu schöpfen.
@user-uz8rr7fi1w
Ай бұрын
To Trish, a good excuse is to say you have some social anxiety. OR. Tell them you are trying to be a better person and avoid gossip. I avoid people who gossip. ❤. Greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪
@piwaimukona5794
Ай бұрын
In all these comments I am also growing 😂
@olivegreen337
Ай бұрын
@@user-uz8rr7fi1w TRISH I FEEL WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM AND YOU DO NOT NEED TO GIVE THEM ANY REASON JUST BE STRONG AND GO ON WITH WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!!
@ElviePPuzon
Ай бұрын
@@piwaimukona5794
@loretojacobs6613
Ай бұрын
I enjoyed so much camping and going to the beach every summer, now, it doesn't interest me anymore: the long drive, the traffic, the hot sand, the crowd, the work of preparation and taking the baggage, etc I feel it is not worth it. I love gardening, my daily routine, taking my naps, watching videos. I agree that entertaining is exhausting, yet I feel guilty of enjoying my solitude so much.
@annarga8696
27 күн бұрын
At 69 I still enjoy hiking, cycling, jungle trekking. Thank God I am 16 yrs younger than my actual age. Solo hike with my dogs. I love gardening too.
@noeldeal8087
6 күн бұрын
Yup, traveling is so overrated to me these days also(65). I love the little things... The highlight of my day today will probably be rearranging my sock and camisole drawers!!! 🤗😎
@noeldeal8087
6 күн бұрын
They look great, I did a wonderful job, lol!!! 😉🤗☺
@Raul-nv7rr
Ай бұрын
Sometimes one needs to socialize, regardless of age 😊
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
Never rely on relationships to be happy and fulfilled in life. They come and go or may turn sour even with one's own family. Better to be alone than socializing with toxic company. Happiness is living with yourself and liking it. Relationships with the right people can then enhance this.
@cees8000
Ай бұрын
What a cold ice cold story. My friends are always welcome to visit me for a good talk and having a good laugh. If i would live my live like this story i will get depressed and very unhappy. I love my friends dearly ❤.
@lilyroduta5379
Ай бұрын
Living in solitude find myself with tranquility and inner peace ❤
@hardeepkogar
Ай бұрын
Not all the time solitude
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
Yes that's true. In being active socially one tends to develop anxiety about not meeting other people's expectations. In turn this anxiety can lead to depression.
@febee5285
Ай бұрын
Also a cat, give more love than most people ❤ 😺
@framptonhendrix530
27 күн бұрын
True ❤😊
@2blackcatz426
26 күн бұрын
I have 2 meow they are good fun
@UJB123
24 күн бұрын
Ugh!🧐
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
One's welcome by friends wears out quickly. Get a dog or cat. It's forever loving and wont tire seeing you everyday.
@Lighthouse_Wisdom
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!. That would be incredibly valuable to us. Wishing you a peaceful and happy life!
@user-vh4hq2hi4q
Ай бұрын
A dog will make you live longer! Cat's also very good!
@gerhardvanderpoll7378
Ай бұрын
A cat seeks out only its own advantage.....
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
@@gerhardvanderpoll7378 my cat taps me with her paw when it wants to be stroked on the head. It is so endearing😄
@ganymeade5151
Ай бұрын
Absolutely.
@Myglowtips
Ай бұрын
I have good friends over at my little nest, a handful of times a year and it’s always fabulous. I visit them a handful of times a year and return home feeling rejuvenated. We laugh, enjoy a delicious but simple meal, decadent dessert, some play their guitar or my piano …. it’s always fun. The trick is, to not do it too often (familiarity breeds contempt), to do your best not to gossip, to be mindful of your manners (no matter how chill your hos/hostess is) and not to overstay your welcome. Unless it’s a wedding, my maximum stay is 3 hours. Build relationships steadily throughout your life. The keepers will be there to the end but, I’ve gained a few really good friends the last few 6 years after I turned 55. so I guess, it’s good not to be too closed.
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
Seeing old friends a maximum of twice a year is probably just right.
@ShoukatAli-jr5zj
Ай бұрын
9 . Solitude is a great companion, not a problem.
@davesawyer5170
Ай бұрын
If you prefer being socially isolated that is your problem, but not mine! If you are not sick or ashamed of your current personal situation be as sociable as you possibly want to & stop acting like a miserable loner 24/7.
@moped975
Ай бұрын
@@bobjames6622Ekelhaft gemein. Schämen Sie sich, so mit Menschen umzugehen!
@moped975
Ай бұрын
@@davesawyer5170Vorsicht mit Projektionen! Es gibt tatsächlich Leute, die isoliert WERDEN. Menschen können grausam sein.
@moped975
Ай бұрын
Solitude or Lonelyness? Companion... There is something perverted.
@BelaRube
Ай бұрын
@@davesawyer517013:50 don't criticize. We are all different and it's ok to love one's solitude.
@azizsaidani6792
Ай бұрын
9... I am 76 and I have been living alone and without friends, nor family, way back since I can remember. Health wise I have some minor problems that I handle as much as I can. Food wise I do not cook at home, so I eat outside or bring things home. It is not a perfect regime, I know but as long as I can walk, it is the most important for me. I do not go out to often because I do not like to meet people. I do not exercise much too. Spend too much time with the computer, no socializing because I hate that. The best time I have during the day, is when I feed Cats and Pigeons, as I speak to them when they are eating. It is a true friendship. That I can tell according to the ways they act with me too. People tell me that I do not look my age, that I look a lot younger. It is a good thing to hear. One thing for sure I thank God for what I am right now. Thanks for your videos. I just discovered your videos. I will visit more often.
@carollowkee5353
Ай бұрын
Never get lonely many movies an cooking your own food at home is very stimulating God bless you all
@patrickhoward9789
Ай бұрын
I am 84 and love art so I am in my world and it is beautiful with god help.
@barbarapaton4005
Ай бұрын
Family. Friends. Boundaries. Balance. All important in living a contented life. My personal view. Thank you for this video! 👍
@donna4682
Ай бұрын
I still work fulltime at 69.I enjoy being at home on my days off. Being alone gives my body and brain time to refresh.
@mvann5
Ай бұрын
I think that a lot of older people are just ignored By others. It is very sad. Lots of single older people don't want to be alone. Certainly they don't want to be ignored by people who were once friends
@desrender4893
Ай бұрын
I hate people visiting me. When people want to visit, I tell them, come and say hello to me at my favorite pub. That way, when I have had enough I just leave.
@kikim2592
Ай бұрын
You sound very hateful and selfish, I would not want to be your friend in any kind of form. Toxic
@maybee...
Ай бұрын
Agree!!!
@debrapaulino918
Ай бұрын
It costs money. Walkimg is better if one is able.
@brendafedi891
Ай бұрын
I don’t invite people over anymore. After an hour I’ve had enough but they want to stay for 3 or 4 and then I get cranky because I want to be alone.
@hollywood5703
Ай бұрын
I don’t want people in my circle unless they’re conservative Christians but without being uptight and religious, which is toxic. Otherwise it’s guaranteed there will be issues. If friends have opposing views either in politics or beliefs, I don’t consider them to be friends, so why waste time with them.
@csnymoodiesfan
29 күн бұрын
I’m almost 70, and I have found that having people over is exhausting. Having to clean the house, buy food, drinks, etc. I’m usually worn out when the company comes over, so I don’t do it anymore except with our kids. I also find that other friends don’t have gatherings at their homes anymore, but instead we meet at a restaurant. Maybe they feel the same way…too much effort and when you’re older, you just don’t have the energy anymore.
@rew216
Ай бұрын
I'm live alone but not lonely. I absolutely love being by myself.ive never enjoyed being around lots of people.
@user-bk2su6ox9t
Ай бұрын
Some of the instruction is beneficial, I do think that people need one another to be alone sometimes is good. However to live alone constantly is not. Humans are social creatures we were not meant to be isolated. ❤
@najjukamariam1986
Ай бұрын
Well, though social animals but some have replied "They want to be alone. "that means we learn another side of life may be what we didn't expect, then when we see it we know it's ok for that person not a problem.
@JudithAnn-to9lv
Ай бұрын
You are never alone if you are a Christian. Jesus is the truest and most faithful, loving friend you can ever have.
@francesdumaliang6132
Ай бұрын
Amen🙏
@davidboskett5581
Ай бұрын
I glad you believe that Jesus is your friend if it prevents you from feeling lonely but if you were intelligent you would realize that God and an after life does not exist .All religions are man made and if you were intelligent you would realize this. Christianity is just one of the worlds six major religions- they cant all be right
@margyrowland
Ай бұрын
@@davidboskett5581You’re wrong. Faith has nothing to do with intelligence. You think you know everything. You don’t.
@davidboskett5581
Ай бұрын
@@margyrowlandYou are not alone as millions of the worlds inhabitants have since birth been told not to question the existence of what ever god they have been taught to believe in - but just have faith.But anyone who is highly intelligent will realize that faith is is just a concept designed to deter anyone from opening up their minds to the facts and learning the truth
@JudithAnn-to9lv
Ай бұрын
@@davidboskett5581 You're obviously not glad that I believe in Jesus, or you'd not have bothered to write a response. And by jumping to the conclusion that I am not intelligent demonstrates some issues on your part that are too deep to address here. I pray for you to have the eyes of your heart and mind opened and for you to reevaluate the concepts of intelligence, tolerance and kindness in your life.
@jeffhiggins808
Ай бұрын
I have lived a very eventful life and I am 68 now. I prioritize family and live with my wife, one of my daughters, and my grandson. I don’t have a very big social circle outside of my family. I need a few to several hours of alone time each day. I am far from lonely and love my life on the Big Island of Hawaii. It’s rural where we live and more affordable than the rest of the state. We have 6 dogs, three cats, two birds, and two fish tanks. Wild pigs cruise on our land along with wild chickens. Lots of fruit and spice trees.It’s not for everyone with no mail delivery, 1/10 mile of gravel road from here to pavement, and rain catchment water. It works for us. I have a woodworking shop. I hope to add horses to our menagerie.
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
You are so fortunate to attain serenity, peace and contentment which is the true measure of success in life. Less relationships in a rural setting is good for the soul. Most young people from the rural areas who discover the more sophisticated city life change for the worse and never attain fulfillment.
@SG-uc5xm
Ай бұрын
Jeff your life sounds ideal. Absolutely perfect in my view. You and your family must be wonderful people! ❤
@jeffhiggins808
Ай бұрын
@@SG-uc5xm we try, we fail, keep trying
@noeldeal8087
6 күн бұрын
Sounds amazing!
@lisasykes624
Ай бұрын
Galatians 6;7... What you sew is what you will reap .. become kind to one another... plant seeds of goodness...it truly comes back in significant ways ❤.... Good health to you all...
@heatherthompson3670
Ай бұрын
That’s not true. I gave out to lonely and Special Needs folk all of my life. Now I’m housebound with no help or company. I feel very lonely but it wasn’t caused by sowing wrongly.
@noeldeal8087
6 күн бұрын
@@heatherthompson3670 Sometimes people just don't get the happiness you receive giving to others. You did what you could, when you could. That is called being a kind, sweet, loving human being and no one can take that away from you! I'm so sorry you have no assistance. I'm housebound most of the time. I just prayed for four months to attend my youngest's wedding a few states away. Pray to Jehovah, he heard my prayer, he will hear yours. The wedding was amazing. 👰🏼🤵🏻
@noeldeal8087
6 күн бұрын
@@heatherthompson3670 they deleted my lovely comment!
@noeldeal8087
6 күн бұрын
@@heatherthompson3670 pray to Jehovah
@noeldeal8087
6 күн бұрын
Pray to Jehovah
@ellenorbovay5226
Ай бұрын
Most people are after something, including your "friends", they are after one of the following from you; entertainment, sex, money, career advancement, political support, a relationship with one of your family members like your sister, or daughter. They are not trying to be your friend. When you are a landlord you see the reality. When I am at my job, a military contractor, other employees won't give me the time of day, they are very rude. When I am looking for a tenant, every one of them is super polite, the women are flirtatious, the guys are very respectful. It's blatantly obvious, people are very transparent in the right circumstances.
@jillfryer6699
Ай бұрын
they do sound like a nasty lot, a bit silly of them to make it so obvious.
@GSXSF-250
Ай бұрын
Yes! I have experienced all of these in San Juan, Batangas, Philippines. I retired in my childhood town and everyone seemed friendly until then old and new friends started borrowing money as if my money was free for all. Bad luck came around and when I needed help those people that I had helped were nowhere to be found. After, a while, I recovered and I swear never to entertain old and new friends from that town. The people in that town were the most ungrateful deceitful people I have ever encountered in my whole life. That goes with the young and old people. Lesson learned, do not go back to your old childhood town. Maybe, take a peak silently and get the hell out! Good luck with your retirement... And oh, that same goes with the family (siblings and cousins). When they find out you have a good retirement they will steal from you.
@tarcilaarmentano7099
27 күн бұрын
❤
@helenessien3729
24 күн бұрын
😂 lol
@RobertHowe-zv7gs
Ай бұрын
At age 75 I value my privacy to read, study and meditate.
@haadiyaaamon3390
27 күн бұрын
Salute hands clapping bowing standing ovation your comments.
@richardlubano7888
25 күн бұрын
Absolutely.I too. I find it very refreshing and relaxing when I give myself that freedom than go talking and repeating myself who, what I was and am not.
@Courage2Care
Ай бұрын
I started earlier in life. I'm 65 now. I live off-the-grid on a 780 acres of wilderness, accessible only by dirtbike or by sea. I hunt, fish etc. Love it
@amysim8899
Ай бұрын
Idyllic
@riversandtrees
Ай бұрын
Greetings from Australia. Would you like a penpal?
@renzo6490
Ай бұрын
Each person’s needs and desires are unique to them. There is no single rule of conduct that applies to everyone. Age 50 is not old. Even 60 is not”old” anymore. I require and treasure my solitude. I live alone and love it. It’s a great luxury. But I also have a need for human interaction at times. And when I do, I seek out the companionship of folks I enjoy being with.
@patsytchao2951
Ай бұрын
My thoughts, exactly.
@gregsantos9731
Ай бұрын
In short, being an introvert also have a bright side and we can say it's far more better to be an introvert than extrovert when we reach our senior years.
@albertwells8503
Ай бұрын
My wife died at 55. I’m now 70. My son is in the army. I rarely hear from him. I don’t even know where he’s stationed. He has one son, 4 years old. I’ve only seen him twice. My daughter moved away. She has 2 children which I rarely see. I’m alone all the time. I have no siblings, and all of my family are long gone. It’s no way to live.
@donnacain9692
Ай бұрын
🙏💐
@maurizioantonnicola8724
Ай бұрын
You are right. It's unfortunate. It's not like the old days when families stayed close. Still ideally children should take care of their parents like their parents took care of them. I did that with my parents but my children won't be doing that for me. So many lonely older men out there. It hits harder for men. Still being free of all the socializing stress is also a good thing. Shame on your children for not staying in touch though.
@avimiller2586
Ай бұрын
Hue are you ? yes , you !! Why is your self definition depends on others ?? At 70 + it shouldn't be !
@user-xg4ue5cc2v
Ай бұрын
Bless your heart. Maybe getting involved in an old hobby or a new one...maybe join something at the library...something you're interested in. You can meet new people that way.😊
@briang.7206
Ай бұрын
Probably because they are married and their life is all about their family. That's sad that they have moved on and forgotten you.
@user-pf9bv6dm5m
Ай бұрын
I need solitude in retirement to reflect on my own life. Friends may interfer with my peace.
@Lighthouse_Wisdom
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!. That would be incredibly valuable to us. Wishing you a peaceful and happy life!
@brendadrew834
Ай бұрын
Me, too! I've done that as well
@arnold3785
Ай бұрын
Foolish you just stopped living and uses time to regret things you did wrong and things you wish you had done. Life starts after retirement nobody has any expectations from you, you are free to roam the world. You are waiting for the grim reaper to visit you, you are done living in the past.
@dannydd
Ай бұрын
Those friends who make you feel that your peace is being interfered, they are not the friends you love. Otherwise it would have been different feeling.
@bibsann861
Ай бұрын
@@arnold3785Well that is your opinion not mine. I am 77 and enjoy being alone. I really don't want visitors quite happy living alone. I have no interest in travelling this world. So speak for yourself. As for the grim reaper that again is how you see him. I see him as one who will take me to a much better place than this sick evil work. 😅
@paracasnazca1439
Ай бұрын
What Doctors recommend is social interactions for seniors live. Tai Chi, conversations, dancing, music. Third age clubs are a good support
@yelyab1
Ай бұрын
@@paracasnazca1439 what if your going in position on all those practices is that they are “fluff” for people unable, intellectually to find pass ties more rewarding with maybe positive and tangible results , not for the sake of the results but for the process. Sitting, standing, lotus positioning and mindlessly talking about any and everything that pops into my head has never been greeted with much welcome so I doubt things have changed and I don’t really care. At. 76 the concrete is almost totally set up. If someone wants me to embark on a new venture it better have instant attraction or I ain’t signin on because some 45 year old doctor with no credentials to get inside the head of a 75 year old man is not yet gospel. I figure my gospel will come directly from Jesus if it comes at all, I can handle it and Jesus knows it and leaves me alone. Thanks man, you are the best!
@101life9
Ай бұрын
Accusation brings misunderstandings. Insincerity brings misunderstandings. How about learning to communicate more and ask for clarification? Avoidance is not the solution.😊
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
Better to be alone than be with the wrong people.
@101life9
Ай бұрын
@@edgardovillacorte7012 True. Life is a learning experience. Always something new to learn
@davesawyer5170
Ай бұрын
I will chose to learn like I will live forever & live like I will die tomorrow!
@nelindasaipudin7237
Ай бұрын
I value so much being by my self...years ago when i was hospitalized how i hoped NOT to be visited yet , some came and it made me very uncomfortable how i hate the feeling
@lindatullos9430
Ай бұрын
when I was in the hospital, I told family please don't come and I was happy they mostly honored my request. Of course, the strangers pushing their religious agendas were harder to shoo away. ugh.
@WandaGlodowski
Ай бұрын
Having been around Oriental people there is a vast difference between them and Americans. They respect and include their family members until death. We treat ours as a "disturbance" or boring garbage. We forget that if they had not taken care of us when we were young and further we would not be as functional in our lives. As for friends...most of them know you when they want something but find you a "disturbance" when you just want some friendship. BS to all of that kind.
@jennytaylor3324
Ай бұрын
And research has demonstrated that the Nuclear family is far from ideal, and not good for the child/children. It indeed takes a village to raise a child. Extended family are hugely mutually beneficial when they are growing up...and beyond. We've got our attitude to the elders of our communities all wrong.
@cracoviancrusader6184
Ай бұрын
Same in most European countries. How can you have healthy marriages in a culture when all other relationships are conditional???
@user-xg4ue5cc2v
Ай бұрын
Lots of Americans help take care of their families. I see this all the time.
@gohajourney
Ай бұрын
It's a wonderful reminder to cherish health, family, and a positive mindset!"
@truthseeker9688
Ай бұрын
Don't be silly. There will come a time when you will NEED friends. BE one.
@scottwyckoff5483
Ай бұрын
Copy that
@mariehaverty8209
Ай бұрын
Agree 100% people here play pickleball%dance @ this age this and a good mental attitude priceless, I don't bodder my mind with things that don't service anymore. Be the frien you would like to have and smile. 😂
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
As long as they are the right people to be with. Relationships become toxic when one expects a partner, friend or other people to become their source of happiness.
@Mlebron777
Ай бұрын
But be chousee!!!
@enrigor8253
Ай бұрын
A true real friend is a gem…
@LisaGemini
26 күн бұрын
This all makes good sense. I'm only 62 but too much drama stresses me out. Since the pandemic, I've found people to be grumpier and more introverted. I'd rather stay home and watch movies or listen to music than deal with misunderstandings and friends who are easily offended. I give this video a 9! Thanks!
@brendadrew834
Ай бұрын
9 thank you! Love solitude because I've been a professional artist/designer and pianist/composer for over 50 years and we need solitude in order to create. My family is very creative, in the arts and love their solitude as well. Peace, love and namaste~♥
@SunnyDay335
Ай бұрын
Love solitude at 73 and just discovered I am artistic. Been too busy surviving to relax and let it surface or let old, old negative reflections from others lead my path. When I can express me among others without cowering, I will seek companionship.
@vincentlussier8264
Ай бұрын
It's different for everyone! Just because we get older doesn't mean we have to clam up like a hermit. Getting out is a real need especially if you're still self efficient. Even with no freinds it's still a relief for people to go to a mall at a cafe because you always end up talking to someone anyway. Who wants to be inside all the time?
@thulomanchay
Ай бұрын
"Make yourself at home." "You are most welcome anytime." "You can stay in my home." Appreciate the gesture, don't take them literary. Especially the last one is tempting. Stay in a hotel.
@Lighthouse_Wisdom
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!. That would be incredibly valuable to us. Wishing you a peaceful and happy life!
@Wokewan
Ай бұрын
I honestly stayed at in-laws house and the SIL was an absolute nightmare. She seemed jealous and bitter and wanted to make our lives miserable😅 Never again!! Just glad I do t have to work with someone like that.
@kathykonkle1097
Ай бұрын
Ok. So EVERYONE is fake. We are supposed to put on a fake face and realize invitations are also fake. We should rarely speak and stay home if you're old. Got it.
@sherylbrown9578
Ай бұрын
9
@Fegga1955
Ай бұрын
So true,liars.I entertained so many turning out to be used
@fayfleur55
Ай бұрын
Now retired @ 68 am not quite there yet but leading up to this beautiful phase of my life.I live independently and happy and contently living a balance life.A great reminder.👍❤
@bibsann861
Ай бұрын
I get all the social I need at Church. After we have coffee and nice chat then bye bye time to go home to my pups.
@josiemangila8516
Ай бұрын
❤JUST LOVE THESE THINGS...AM 73 YEARS OLD..AND KNOW ALL THESE THINGS..RESPECT FOR MYSELF AND FRENS..AND OTHERS..
@arun6291
Ай бұрын
This doesn't hold for India where oldies are more social, family oriented because the country culturally has strong family ties and spend their quality time with their grand children. Theirs sons and daughters don't abandon them. Instead live with them. The strong spiritual orientation since childhood gives oldies greater opportunity to form groups and go on pilgrimage.
@islandgirl3330
Ай бұрын
Yes, even in the Caribbean, I have noticed that Indians are like that, which is beautiful.
@user-xg4ue5cc2v
Ай бұрын
@@arun6291 I live in America. We americans love our family and help each other . We are family oriented.
@user-xg4ue5cc2v
Ай бұрын
@arun6291 Your Indian doctors that came to america...have been inappropriate with women here.
@gretabrown8320
Ай бұрын
There is a recognised advantage in having a vibrant social life. Most people benefit tremendously from social interaction on a daily basis. It improves many aspects of our lives and yes we do need to be considerate of others personal need for peace and quiet which we should check before visiting. This kind of give and take is what humans thrive on and in fact need to stay healthy and happy.
@alicegatama
Ай бұрын
Im 69 and quite happy in my retirement looking after my home and doing farming. We live in both our city house and farm house with my hubby who is in his 70s. We don't visit people but go on vacation with friends from time to time. We also go on Christmas vacation with our own children too from time to time. Sometimes just the two of us. When one keeps busy life is very fulfilling.
@MichaelLGormleyMYKLMUSIC
Ай бұрын
I'm 71 and happily living alone. I've told Family and Friends if I want to see Them I'll let Them know.
@rabiafuwai6835
Ай бұрын
1. Visiting is a form of disturbance. 2. Frequent visits can cause trouble. 3. Different economic conditions can cause psychological imbalance. Essential things that can make your life - Health - Family - Financial stability - Positive mental health
@Lighthouse_Wisdom
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!. That would be incredibly valuable to us. Wishing you a peaceful and happy life!
@pamulawallace4330
Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
@davidlaksa
Ай бұрын
True to me.
@rabiafuwai6835
Ай бұрын
Amen..
@irenetlhase6041
Ай бұрын
Thank you for asserting my conviction of enjoying my solitary life. I have realized that being in a family event celebrations leads to competition, jealousy, comparison, and ends up in conflicts. ❤
@user-em3np4vr8c
Ай бұрын
I love visits, i get lonely, i haven't got a family, what are they trying to do cut us all off from each other, looking at your phone is of unhealthiest things you can do, i noticed a lot of people don't know how to engage with others anymore, i don't want to be alone day in and day out, thats why losing my young ragdoll has been so depressing, he bought such joy, but be pooed around building in front of people's front doors, there was nowhere for him to run around, how can you keep an animal between 4 walls day in and out!❤❤🎉
@graceburrell8800
Ай бұрын
Do you like cats? They are wonderful friends for most people. Two Rescue cats keep each other company. Spayed or neutered of course. They are loving and fun to live with. Give it some consideration, please.
@memehamp6006
Ай бұрын
Yes, to your question. It is by design or humans to cut people off from each other with those phones,family dinners become strangers and strained. Young and old.
@MaryLouiseCann-hh9pj
24 күн бұрын
You left out the most important thing in our lives...A relationship with Jesus & daily reading the Bible & prayers. Without God in my life i would be dead.
@denisereichert9908
Ай бұрын
I think that is just sad. I grew up in a full house, full of life, full of people, full of laughter. I prefer to have full old age.
@bismillahrabbani9006
Ай бұрын
Not everyone has that experience. Enjoy your life without judging other people's experiences.
@lindatullos9430
Ай бұрын
I came from a large family, and I really prefer my own space these days.
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
Didnt the people you grew up with change as you all grew older? If not you are so fortunate. Financial, health, marital, family and other issues cause once close ties to become distant.
@mmvm562
Ай бұрын
To each its own ...
@user-fx9nq5hw5r
Ай бұрын
So did I but…my life turned out very different.. our lives took us major different directions… I always thought what you poured into your family relationships it was given back to you…😮mine was not the case…
@zoe-b4w
Ай бұрын
You are better off alone with the Holy Spirit. With the Holy Spirit you can express yourself as you are without being misunderstood. I recently learned the hard way.
@jkj1459
Ай бұрын
I LIKED THAT PICTURE . PEOPLE PREACH DIFFERENT , BUT TRUTH IS SOLITUDE IS PEACE FOR ME .
@Lighthouse_Wisdom
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!. That would be incredibly valuable to us. Wishing you a peaceful and happy life!
@emmsue1053
Ай бұрын
I am not quite there yet but everyone is different as they reach later years and the biggest killer is isolation and loneliness. Just because something is on UT does not make it Gospel or Correct. I dress up and go out at least once a week. It might be slightly less in winter but life is to be enjoyed at any age.
@dolittle6781
Ай бұрын
Lots of wisdom in this video!! There are so many events I could attend but choose not to. I like people but believe that familiarity breeds contempt. So I have been enjoying my solitude-every bit of it.
@dolphinguam9552
Ай бұрын
I choose my solitude but also miss my family. Gossip destroys family ties and friendships; mostly unintentional. I avoid gossip not people. Thanks for sharing. 🙏
@33Donner77
Ай бұрын
Having friends and family, in other cities, is good.
@user-xy1lp8jx2h
Ай бұрын
I'm a 68 year old retiree. Let me tell you solitude is wonderful !!!
@carrolllinda2519
Ай бұрын
These are very valid points, but they are not just helpful for the elderly. These issues are present in most adult lives.
@antonglas7488
Ай бұрын
Don`t visit friends either at all or not often, don`t socialise too much, sounds like a rotten life of being a recluse in old age.
@kimhanh1
Ай бұрын
I used to be an outgoing person now that I’m in my mid 50s, I love staying at home, gardening, enjoying being alone . Peace and quiet. It’s great for my health. Love my life now.
@laurapalo1155
20 күн бұрын
I like your content...I am a retired employee...I live with my children and husband..children are annoying sometimes, but I feel at peace when they are near us...we are born again Christians and attending the fellowships, live stream or face to face, this keeps us healthy and strong, in our old age.....Have peace, keep the LORD in your heart...GOD BLESS.
@davidlaksa
Ай бұрын
I always had trouble when I had one too many (most of the time I had too many drinks). My judgment goes bad while I think I feel friendly. The video has points that I have thought about but I did not know that others know this stuff also. Now I don’t feel that alone. I’m 65, still finding out things about life. Economic security helps also.
@caroldriehorst1165
Ай бұрын
I only have a few good friends, and that's alright. My best friend died, and my close sister died also. They were at one time a lot of my social life. I'm a home body, but I do like getting out sometimes. My husband passed away seven years ago, and I still dream about him. I love Jesus. He helped me get through many tragedies. I just turned 74 and have aches and pains, but it's true that older people tend to isolate themselves, and I totally understand. When I want to be with a friend I cook dinner for them, I would rather stay home than go out. I pray blessings to all the seniors out there and live well until you're called home.🙏
@sleepingcat3983
Ай бұрын
Interesting topic, personally I need at least one person around. I see it this way; if a person breaks the laws it’s put behind bars, if the person breaks the rules while in jail then it’s placed in solitary confinement. Hence it seems to me that being unable to socialize with at least one other person is the worse punishment, my 2 cents
@eleanorsmith971
Ай бұрын
This is so true. I’m 72 and live alone. Few close friends who are always welcome. Words can be missed repeated.😅I need a lot of quiet time. Enjoy my time.
@user-jv4gn9hu1z
Ай бұрын
I have noticed that many people are very critical of others. But have a very thin skin when others are talking even when they're not talking about them. To think that everyone else is disrespecting them when all they seem to do is talk trash. I have distanced myself from most of my family and friends. There is to much drama nowadays. I believe that the Internet has made people lose their social skills. It's to late to go back to the time when people had peace in their lives. Computers have made us less human and more aggressive.
@Raul-nv7rr
Ай бұрын
I’ve noticed this , too, but hadn’t put two and two together. It does make sense that technology has somehow eroded our social skills. A great many more people have become far more confrontative and ‘ in your face’ for little or no reason whatsoever 😮
@memehamp6006
Ай бұрын
That the purpose. By design for what’s to come.
@langjr0
Ай бұрын
@@memehamp6006?????
@nashtoolz9543
Ай бұрын
I am 71,still working .looking forward to see my customers every week. U have to have a balance Life .A little sex in old age is very good for your health. It's a good work out. Beat going to the gym.❤😂😂😂
@Advicefortheelderly
Ай бұрын
As I'm getting older(79) , I hate empty conversations, answering questions,putting on shows ect. Most of important peoples in my life is gone, so I basically learned to be alone. It will be nice to have a lady around now and then.
@TinaRossetti-ty6zy
Ай бұрын
I visited my elderly mother every day out of love and concern for her well-being. My brother told me that she said, "I interfere with her tv viewing, afternoon nap and only visit her because I've nowhere else to plonk my arse."!..... says it all really, dont you think?
@robynrobyn7070
Ай бұрын
@@TinaRossetti-ty6zy maybe she just needs more space x
@TinaRossetti-ty6zy
Ай бұрын
@robynrobyn7070 Yes,I agree. But my intentions were good but she obviously was put out by them. ❤️
@sandycares2995
Ай бұрын
Oh dear - well it's the thought that counts.😮
@karoshibb9357
Ай бұрын
I feel for you!!! What a cold thing for your mother to say. How did you turn out to have such a lovely side to you?
@tallowturq
Ай бұрын
The cranky old thing! 😂
@amycatalan1
15 сағат бұрын
I love being alone. I enjoy my own company and can do so much, like writing poetry and essays, recording my voice on the materials that I make, reading books, and most importantly, meditating.
@pneulab
Ай бұрын
This advice is counter to research done in this field.
@fredalqueza4822
Ай бұрын
I have been alone for 15 years when my wife died. I take care of my self to maintain good health. I enjoy it by doing my daily chores, keeping my self busy and doing research everyday to sharpen my mind. I'm now 77.
@judithgallegos1748
Ай бұрын
No wonder there is so much depression among the elderly in the United States .No man is an island.
@LM-qb6fu
Ай бұрын
So glad to see your comment! All my life I have disliked living alone…and don’t tell me to get a dog…I have 9 of them, 2 cats, ducks, chickens, horses and cows! I am lonely, sometimes feeling like a ghost and other times feeling like the only human exhibit in a zoo! My best friend died 6 months ago. Now the only phone calls I get are from telemarketers!
@mrs.manners6344
Ай бұрын
@@LM-qb6fuGet rid of those dogs. They are a one way ticket to poverty and ill health. Take the money you save and visit a church, senior center, homeless shelter or bring your neighbors flowers. Dogs are just work and cannot be left Alone. They will eat you when you die alone . Plus you can get some new clothes, new hairstyle and have money to take someone to dinner or for a treat. Don't let the rest of your life go to dogs. You have too many dogs for good mental health. God bless you in Jesus name. Amen
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
Got my depression relieved when i learned not to depend on relationships for fulfillment in life. They come and go. Friends will leave or pass on. And besides hardly anybody likes a clingy friend. Find oneself first before being able to find others.
@vitajuby4611
Ай бұрын
The loneliest people on earth are usually in a crowd.
@helenkentwell5042
Ай бұрын
@@LM-qb6fu yeah I get you. It’s a very hollow feeling. I have a handful of lovely friends and two nieces but nobody is there to say good morning. It’s lonely at night eating by ones self and watching tv or you tube for company. I dislike living alone also.
@zenaslarosa5930
Ай бұрын
It’s true. Solitude is a blessing.
@belamoure
Ай бұрын
The last time I gave a party was in 1984 and the stress and the no fun time for me was enough to encourage me not to give party for bs-ing people about being sociable. My true nature is solitary my old age time is wonderful, free to cook what I want, to eat it when I want and to get a nap if I want are luxeries that have no price. Once a month I see friends at a restaurant and this is a plenty for them and for me.
@leftykeys6944
Ай бұрын
Something about the heading of this video grabbed my attention, and sparked my curiosity. I'm glad I checked it out. It is thought provoking and has great advice. I'd like to add my own perspective to the mix here. I love solitude, and always have. My husband & I both thrive on it, and spend most of our time in solitude. Neither of us has felt lonely, post retirement; we've found our "tribe" here in southwestern Oregon and are loving our social life too. We've also recognized the value in visiting family and friends back in California, where we're from, which we'd like to keep doing maybe once a year. It reinforces bonds that may otherwise have atrophied. It leaves everyone involved with pleasant memories. We take great care in making sure we are not a burden, that those we see are as enthusiastic about the visit as we are. The duration of these visits vary from two-hour coffee breaks to three-day stays. Before engaging in any visit lasting longer than a day, we make it clear that we've no problem sleeping in a motel when staying overnight is too disruptive or inconvenient, to whoever we're visiting. We hadn't seen my brother-in-law in many years, or had much contact, before spending an evening with him last October. He said he hoped our next visit would be longer. And I know it meant a lot to my husband to re-connect with his brother. I guess the point I'm trying to make is that moderation is key. Long as we don't overdo it, or overstay our welcome, it's a good thing. I'm always careful to pay attention to any verbal or nonverbal signals that might indicate boundary issues. Because too much of a good thing isn't so great. It's always better to leave them wanting more.
@berthlubny5634
Ай бұрын
To be healthy, happy, and peace!!!!!
@mamalittle9851
Ай бұрын
I truly appreciate solitude, I love myself and find a blessed friend in Christ Jesus, peace perfect peace.
@patricedeltoro4251
Ай бұрын
Some of this is weird. To each his own. Different people have different likes. Some people like to cook & have friends over or have family over. I don't think we have to try so hard to not have interactions with other people.! I'm 75.
@InsideBuddhism
Ай бұрын
*I loved how this video delved into the nuances of maintaining harmony in relationships as we age. The real-life examples, like Uncle Chu’s experience, really resonate and remind us of the importance of understanding unspoken social cues. The advice on finding contentment in solitude was especially touching and relatable. Great content!*
@user-xp7yy3py5o
Ай бұрын
I’m almost 75 male hermit who has had the good fortune to make it to this age without any known health issues. On the other hand I fail at all the other markers to happiness. I planned to work until death but five years ago I made a serious ethical mistake leading to four months in jail and losing my profession. Now barely getting by on government benefits with no purpose in life but to care for my animals. Hard to see a bright future keep thinking I just need one bullet. Too late in the game should have could have done better but failed.
@davidlaksa
Ай бұрын
My cousin went to jail for two months for an ethical issue. He was wealthy remarried to a young woman. I think money helps.
@user-xp7yy3py5o
Ай бұрын
@@davidlaksa no question and I don’t have it.
@ZenavitiPurcell-eh3zh
Ай бұрын
Never to late or too old, call out to Jesus Christ and be saved.
@Pommygirl55
Ай бұрын
@@ZenavitiPurcell-eh3zhJesus is lord 🙏
@HectorGarcia-ov3lk
Ай бұрын
Caring for animals can not only provide purpose but also joy and satisfaction, no matter what your situation is. Don't compare or measure your situation against the standards of this clip. Live in the moment, don't loose sight of the positive things in your life. When I help an animal it gives me a sense of being part of something bigger than myself because the action is compassionate and selfless.
@preciouspahuyo6664
15 күн бұрын
That's how I feel. I feel comfortable when I'm alone.
@susanneashton1340
Ай бұрын
Selfishness, self-centredness, self-absorption, self-serving views. The recipe for loneliness.
@kathykonkle1097
Ай бұрын
Yes. The message is you are so imperfect you should not speak much and stay home because you're old and useless. Also, it's too much trouble to entertain. I guess these people never enjoyed throwing parties.
@edgardovillacorte7012
Ай бұрын
The lonely are the ones who expect other people to be their source of happiness. Clingy people are shunned. Finding oneself first is the prerequisite to being able to find others.
@robynrobyn7070
Ай бұрын
Fill up your own cup first
@AngelleSL
Ай бұрын
Humans are too unpredictable. That’s called a Liability. No Positive Outcome can be successful with that around. If you’re curious, you’re not going to be bored, especially in this new century.
@debrapaulino918
Ай бұрын
Curiosity with companionship is healthy. What has gone so wrong that it is not valued as desireable.These comments echo a correct narrative we are being told to think. @@AngelleSL
@coravalera5023
26 күн бұрын
Now at this generation,I found it really something to take time to carefully admit that as senior,we bound to consider and accept changes that will make us comfortable..Very relevant information 🙏💕😇
@coravalera5023
26 күн бұрын
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@namerah.sambitory5385
Ай бұрын
Am 69 yrs of age and you are right frequent socializing at this age even to your relatives is not advisable.. i had experienced what you have discussed its a fact based on my experienced.. am from philippines..i like your channel.
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