He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself.
@candicesalazar5383
9 ай бұрын
I was having severe health issues for years until he finally told the truth. Now my health is better. It felt like I was cursed living in his lies.
@SueAnderson-d3s
8 ай бұрын
It makes sense
@JESUSSavesWAKEUP
7 ай бұрын
Same
@grace52775
6 ай бұрын
This is me. I was healthy before getting married. I was even put in a special member class by my health insurance after a health exam showed I was in perfect health. After just one year of marriage, everything began falling apart from the stress and his lies. Nine years later, should I numerate my health issues? I have a heart issue from stress, i lost my hearing from stress, i developed diabetes from hormonal problems due to stress, I'm losing my ability to remember and learn which is leading to dementia and it's due to stress.
@vanessarenae5169
5 ай бұрын
What kind of health issues?
@lonniewhite4262
Жыл бұрын
Your partner needs to know. If you don't tell them you have not repented.
@strawberriesblueberries2258
10 ай бұрын
I disagree
@ItsNicola
7 ай бұрын
@@strawberriesblueberries2258 I agree. It's taking your own pain and transferring it to someone else who doesn't deserve it. You need to live with the pain of what you’ve done
@gregstuart9783
6 ай бұрын
I AGREE, she denies all, with 2 separate partners, possibly 4 more! She refuses polygraph, so once all 4 kids are over 18, I’m gonna sit her down and ask her all the tuff questions in front of them! I think she will break down 😢, you might be able to lie to your husband and beg for forgiveness, but then lying to your 4 babies too!? Yeah, nahhh… she’ll be cooked!😅
@awomansstory.2019
Жыл бұрын
You have to tell them the truth.
@itsafantakis
Жыл бұрын
I told my spouse after he promised I can tell him anything and I love you…. I confessed and he divorced me…. I repented to God and my husband but later after he divorced me and admitted he played a part in it. I read in book of Jeremiah “ Not to trust man just trust God”…. I would’ve never told him and left it in Gods hand instead… I will always regret it …..Later studying on KZitem I discovered he’s a covert narcissist and I was suffering from his abuse for him to confess he played a part in it …
@Clf5796
Жыл бұрын
Don't fall for that Narcissist bullcrap. Its victimizing yourself. Just be accountable.
@mars188
Жыл бұрын
when you get married for better for worse so when someone cheats i would think it would go under worse- death do us part. but most all go for the divorce
@lonniewhite4262
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you are still trying to blame that man for what you did. That's narcissistic. Take accountability and stop blaming others. He may have forgave you but that does not mean he wants to stay with you. Take accountability and do better next time. That's it.
@YeshuaIsTheTruth
9 ай бұрын
He played a part in what?
@grace52775
6 ай бұрын
He admitted fault, therefore he's not a narcissist. Maybe an a-hole or neglectful or even abusive, but not a narcissist.
@itsafantakis
Жыл бұрын
😊Not only that I had a friend tell me how people trick their partners into confessing (“Girl, that’s the oldest truck in the book”) to divorce them later …. That gives them the biblical excuse to divorce but no one talks about this trickery …
@lonniewhite4262
Жыл бұрын
The real trickery is your adultery.
@gregstuart9783
6 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY and thank-you…
@vivisvensson2747
11 ай бұрын
Thankyou for this very good video. 😊
@frankwhite1928
Ай бұрын
I went thru this, and talk about a loving God after I found out how bad it really was He immediately began asking me to forgive her, it took me, no took Him a few days but I finally said yes. The thing was she didn't have to tell me, her cheating on me didn't destroy me, her confession did !!! ..and I didn't need to know details about it stuck in my head forever
@josephuwakmfon7693
Жыл бұрын
Good work. God bless you
@AntonioPena-vs2sg
3 ай бұрын
Psstor good answer some pastor tell them that the victim doesn't need to know that crazy . I bless you pastor for your answer
@claudinepanna6233
19 күн бұрын
Hello my husband has committed adultery and he has his girlfriend living with him and we are still legally married and working on getting a divorce
@eliara-thevoice8430
Ай бұрын
Its easy NOT TO CHEAT. Never understood how or why people cheat. If you don't place yourself in positions where you might cheat....you won't. There is something to be said for being alone with members of the opposite sex....etc. There are many ways to avoid it.....not dressing seductively.....not flirting..... remain prayerful.
@carmenfonsrevilla8330
Ай бұрын
It’s not just about being in the wrong situation. You can also be tempted if you’re not walking well with the Lord and your marriage is no longer a happy marriage. Then you add temptation and you’re in for trouble.
@SjKansasCity
6 ай бұрын
What if they are separated, living separate for several years - does the other spouse still need to be told ?
@vanessarenae5169
5 ай бұрын
Why stay in a separated state for that long? Amd yes. You need to be honest.
@DevieAnderson-ve7tx
7 ай бұрын
I'm not disagreeing but How many wives did Jacob have?
@JESUSSavesWAKEUP
7 ай бұрын
Description NOT prescription
@grace52775
6 ай бұрын
You do realize that's a story about why polygamy is bad, right? 😂
@JoeApologetics
Жыл бұрын
What if you aren't married yet?
@TKBNetwork
Жыл бұрын
Then you aren’t in covenant, it’s not adultery
@TKBNetwork
Жыл бұрын
So no…
@sara-kailwallace2183
Жыл бұрын
"What if you aren't married *yet*?" Does your future spouse deserve to know? Yes He/she should be given the opportunity to decide if they want to move forward with a lifelong commitment to you having absolute knowledge of the truth. Giving him/her that respect may very likely end the betrothal. However, not confessing for your own personal gain is selfish and deceitful. It WILL negatively impact your partnership and most likely will come out at some point anyway. Better sooner than later. If you genuinely love this person and are committed to being a Godly spouse then repent and live your life accordingly. If you don't, get out of the way of the spouse God has set aside for them to be loved, honored, cherished and protected by. True love is selfless. Secrecy is self centered and self serving.
@4.0gpa44
9 ай бұрын
Then it's the sin of fornication and not adultery. All sex outside of marriage is the sin of fornication.
@grace52775
6 ай бұрын
Any sex outside of marriage is adultery, even if that person is your future spouse.
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