Our voice is a vibration, a frequency. We can make recordings; a print, if you like. But your parents' frequency, their voices and love for you, is a vibration that still exists in the universe, and will always exist. Love is recorded in our hearts, eternally. And no-one and nothing can ever remove it. Love is stronger than any other force. It simply cannot be defeated. Let the prints go. You have the original. xxoxx
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
Thank you. D
@amanitamuscaria7500
22 күн бұрын
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@tishdish1824
22 күн бұрын
I’m sorry you weren’t able to keep your Parents recordings Dee 😚 I often reminisce about happy Family Times when my Dear Mum & Dad were here too. Miss them so much xx 💝💝
@ladyyaya6782
21 күн бұрын
There are little snitches of time that I would love to go back to and change also. Yes, some of us didn’t have good what I call a pickers when we were younger. My ex husband was no walk in the park either! Big hugs to you ❤
@Cheshirelass
21 күн бұрын
Even when your younger years were not the best, it is good to be be able to reognise those little snitches ... I hope you have lots of snitches now that you will look back on in days to come. D
@sunnythesigma7043
22 күн бұрын
❤
@MoneyMichelle777
22 күн бұрын
❤🎉
@aaaronjayD
22 күн бұрын
Oh Dee I wish you still had those recordings. I wish I had some as well 🌹
@BooBearuser-bk8gz4ku3w
22 күн бұрын
Oh gosh, Dee, I would so love for you to have your recordings. I never had any, but I would so love to hear loved ones voices again. Your description of a child on holiday in Llandudno was really evocative too. I would go back to childhood seaside holidays with my grandparents too - trying to surf the waves in the shallows wearing a rubber ring, before I could swim. Sandy sandwiches for lunch, and a 99 ice cream before we got the bus home. It just all felt safe, no worries, living in the moment, and with the unconditional love of my grandparents.
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
Absolutely. To feel that love again - that we took so much for granted - would be so wonderful. D
@Life-ingwithEli
22 күн бұрын
I don't think I've ever been this early. If I could turn back time, I'd go back to the last time I saw my dad and hugged him a bit longer. Looked him in his eyes and thank him for being the best dad he could be and that I love him. In my head, that wouldn't cause a huge butterfly effect because it's just a longer hug.
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
I imagine many would echo your feelings. I know I do. D
@bubbleculture
22 күн бұрын
I believe you’ve mentioned the old reel with your parents voices a few times and this time I had tears in my eyes cause I really felt sorry that you had to leave that behind. I don’t enjoy reminiscing about the past very often because I have a problem with addictions and I have since I was a teenager and therefore most of my memories are fake or made up? I believe through this experience of thinking about a past time I went to where I was before I started my addictions and it helped me realise how good life was before I put myself into those positions. I’ve been clean for one day, thanks Dee I only stumbled upon your channel recently and totally by accident, but I think it was God telling me to listen to this wise woman and run with it thank you again xx
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
Hold that memory in your mind - and use it as your drive to keep clean. That child is still within you - let them surface and flourish again and make new - true memories. I hope you have support for moving forwards. You can do it - that inner child and you. Take great care. D
@amanitamuscaria7500
22 күн бұрын
I also believe we run into people either virtually or actually, for a reason. Either they are to help us, or we are to help them, or both. Don't forget that YOU also contribute, and help others, too. xx
@danielbarrero2815
22 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video ❤
@sandella11
22 күн бұрын
This one is easy. To the year or 2 before my dad passed (I was 15/16 yrs old. I was just beginning to socialize with a few classmates. Beginning to feel more confident To the moments i spent with my grandfather. I was very young and just remember he was very kind. To that moment my grandfather brought home a little white puppy for me when I turned 4 yrs old. There were some joyful moments in my life after that….but also some more traumatic, sad moments (actually I wish I’d never met my ex..and that my youngest daughter hadn’t inherited some of his genetic mental issues…and that she passed so young, just like my dad, from heart issues). I’ve not had an easy life…but maybe I’m a tad wiser (since surviving for over 76 yrs) …..even tho my heart still seems to lead my brain. Wish I knew how to turn off the ‘caring too much’ part of me. 🤦♀️ I wish you still had those recordings, Dee. As always, your gentle ‘aura’ calms me, and your video causes many different emotions to arise within me. It’s ok…I’ve, thankfully, come to be aware of most of my thoughts/emotions arising and passing., yet I’m not sure how helpful that is. Always nice to see you, Dee. Hugs to you and Myshka. 🩷🫶🩷
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
Hugs back to you.. if you were to turn off the 'caring too much' part of you - you would be being so untrue to yourself. D
@sandella11
21 күн бұрын
@@Cheshirelass But maybe my life would have been less stressful and less traumatic…if I cared less. Sounds nice. But at my age…it is what it is. I am who I am. Getting a bit better. Grandson sleeping in his jeep outside. I’ve had enough. 🤨. But one of my cats hasn’t eaten in 3 days…and my heart feels very fragile. 🥺
@jesusislukeskywalker4294
22 күн бұрын
❤ my goodness yes
@cee7105
22 күн бұрын
I have fond memories and some of which id like to erase. However if i went back, then i wouldn't be the person that i am today.
@MrJBest78
21 күн бұрын
Cher couldn’t turn back time so neither can I. The past is the past and I can’t change it. It’s what makes us who we are. I try to treat everything as learning experiences now. I think of the tree sometimes: 1) sometimes you won’t get answers. 2) sometimes you won’t get closure. 3) sometimes you just have to MOVE ON.
@Cheshirelass
21 күн бұрын
Well said. You do realise I will be having Cher's words tumbling round my head now. D
@MrJBest78
21 күн бұрын
@@Cheshirelass 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@amanitamuscaria7500
22 күн бұрын
Morning Dee. Neither of my parents would have won "Parent of the Year" awards, but I've met worse. And it wasn't all bad. I had my three older sisters. I have many memories of us as youngsters. I remember my sister dipping my brown rubber dummy in the sugar bowl, and shoving it in my mouth. And standing with my sisters in the kitchen as we pilfered condensed milk out of the safe (pre fridge days), and my sister and I looking at each other, grabbing hands and shouting RUN when we'd done something naughty. We played outside, in the street and were free to just be, by today's standards. I've often wondered if I could, whether I would tell my 23 year old self, Don't marry him, love. But then, I wouldn't have my beautiful boys and their equally beautiful children. No, I think it is all as it should be. I might try to undo any hurt I've caused.....but then that has been part of their journey, and it should be as it is. I might whisper to my little self, Everything's going to be alright. Take courage. xxx ps I love that song, too.
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
Thanks for that - I have a wonderful mental picture of you and your sister 'legging it' when you had been naughty! Take care. D
@amanitamuscaria7500
22 күн бұрын
@@Cheshirelass oh but we were something, the four of us. We really were. Now only three. But I am hers and she is mine forever xxx
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
@@amanitamuscaria7500 Lovely. D
@theriverberrypoet
22 күн бұрын
This going back in time! I understand the ex husband but but I do think of my lovely children! I’m so very sorry about your tapes of your parents. That would have been very hard to let go and forgive! How much we’ve had to learn over the years! To learn and grow! Bless you and the beautiful love you share😂😂❤️❤️
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! D
@theriverberrypoet
22 күн бұрын
@@Cheshirelass 🙏🏻
@CathyParker-nk5dt
22 күн бұрын
💐🙋♀️Hi Dee UK time 10.30am. Re: Turn back time. Can’t do it Dee. Our parents had a toxic relationship, they left, everything was ripped away from us kids, no-one ever really explained it all. We were all so young. But don’t worry, we the children are all more or at retirement age now, have survived in our own way. Amazing what one’s spirit can do. One day , spiritually, it will all be explained. ❤️🏡🐱🌸😊
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
Take care - maybe turn back time - memories - to more recent happenings. D
@CathyParker-nk5dt
22 күн бұрын
@@Cheshirelass Yes Dee, yes 😊. Everything belongs to its own time. I have plenty to be grateful for, and I am. ❤️🙋♀️
@julespritchard
22 күн бұрын
So sorry that your precious possessions were thrown away, I know you’ve mentioned this before. Hmm, but your ex-husband’s possessions were brought with you?! Speaks volumes. Isn’t it funny how songs on the radio can send us on a different path? Or they mean something more to us, when we need them to. Memories. Mostly happy tears. You’re amazing, Dee - loved and appreciated by us all ❤❤❤
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
I will have to take care about repeating stories - hard as there are now over 700 videos - and this was a replay. Music and songs really can hit the spot can't they? I ended up playing a piece several times over yesterday - as I was 'singing' along - could explain why voice is a bit croaky this morning! D
@julespritchard
22 күн бұрын
@@Cheshirelass You could repeat the same thing 100 times or more and I’d still listen!! Well I do re-listen to your videos. 😊 What were you listening to yesterday, if I may ask? xxx I love “Absolute Beginners” - the fabulous David Bowie. Love most of his work.
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
@@julespritchard Sound of SIlence! With a couple of Hollies numbers thrown in for good measure afterwards! D
@julespritchard
22 күн бұрын
@@Cheshirelass Fab. I’ve been blasting the Disturbed version, thanks to you 🥰
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
@@julespritchard Be rude not to!! D
@Momoyaki_
10 күн бұрын
I would have taken myself to my childhood when I was 7 or 8 when worrying about study wasn't a thing but mostly because I miss my childhood friends. Playing with them was truly an honor. Sad that I moved from away when I was 10 but I do keep in contact with them but the connection we once had is just not there. And even if it's sad I think its a part of life. haha. Love you though.
@Cheshirelass
10 күн бұрын
It is sad - but people move on and change - and we imagine them as when we knew them. D
@charityferguson5990
21 күн бұрын
I never got to meet my Daddys mother . But I've always believed my grandmother Reba Faye was always my guardian angel ❤🎉🎉🎉
@charityferguson5990
21 күн бұрын
Have a blessed wonderful day ✨️ My childhood wasn't perfect but the angels always protected me
@emmajane7299
22 күн бұрын
I think we all need to show the inner child once in a while. In a crazy world it brings many smiles and laughs and joy. Thankyou for sharing x
@Cheshirelass
22 күн бұрын
ABSOLUTELY! sing, dance, and laugh like you used to do before this old world of ours heaped negativity on our shoulders. D
@Redsnapper123
14 күн бұрын
0:43 you would not have had your son’s if you had not meet your ex! 😅
@Cheshirelass
14 күн бұрын
True. D
@thomasdalby9031
17 күн бұрын
if i went back to any point id do it all the same thing over again
@Malithi-P
22 күн бұрын
So sorry about the recordings Dee. ❤
@Redsnapper123
14 күн бұрын
Defo back to the 90s in my childhood. Free as a bird. Disappeared off for hours on end my parents did not worry. We played in the woods, played football. No fear of criminals. I hit a little sweet spot where we had some technology- but not the crazy tech they have today. Teenage boys today stay in their rooms forever and watch horrible videos!
@Cheshirelass
14 күн бұрын
Not just teenage boys it seems! The freedom you had sounds great - D
@Redsnapper123
14 күн бұрын
@@Cheshirelass indeed. One year Christmas 93 I think my sister and I got a joint present the sega mega drive games console. For the first time in our lives we had a white Christmas. My sister and I went out to play in the snow first ❄️ rather than setup the console. My parents were quite touched by that. Nature won over tech!
@libbyserna4550
21 күн бұрын
I think the present is the best time, although I'm not enjoying it as I should or could be. I'm trying to change my perception and manage the process
@Cheshirelass
21 күн бұрын
In we ought to enjoy the here and now as it is the only certainty that we have. Sadly, there is so much angst around for so many that we feel we cannot do the best we 'should/could'. We can only ever do our best. D
@AishaRivers-r5b
21 күн бұрын
If I could go back in time i dunno what I’d do if I turn back time
@sailarizkika7699
17 күн бұрын
watch your channel cause i miss my grandma and miss our moment, thank u dee and hope u always happy!
@Cheshirelass
17 күн бұрын
Thank you. D
@AishaRivers-r5b
21 күн бұрын
Just found your channel today I’m so happy😭😭😭😭❤❤❤
@Cheshirelass
21 күн бұрын
Welcome - plenty of videos for you to check out. D
@divinelyguided1144
22 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤ the song and the message!
@kathymarton2411
22 күн бұрын
Hi Dee, Thank you. There is a lot I wouldn’t want to,repeat in my past life, sadly. Choices made would be different if I could relive the past and start over. Too smart, too late. I enjoy your honest perspective.
@Cheshirelass
21 күн бұрын
Thank you - it sounds as if you have used parts of your past to learn how to move forwards in the here and now. D
@EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus
21 күн бұрын
This. I needed this...thank you Dee.
@annlevack8220
22 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤
@debrawright9275
21 күн бұрын
I so enjoyed this one Dee! I had forgotten that sandbuckets used to be metal! Oh, and the memories! If I got started, it would take all day! Thanks for sharing!
@Cheshirelass
21 күн бұрын
You are so welcome! For me, it is those little differences that allow me to think back. Banging the bottom of the metal bucket with a wooden handled metal spade - it must have made a bit of a racket trying to get a sand pie out in one piece. D
@CarolineSmith-m8n
21 күн бұрын
Good Afternoon Dee. I enjoy watching your videos. I am one of those who had a challenging childhood with a narcissist father who divided his time between our family and his mistress and her family. Sadly I am experiencing challenges once again as i entered into a relationship with a colleague, who i believe is a narcissist, and who I was trauma bonded to. He cruelly discarded me in May after 3 plus years together and now Ii need to find the courage to work alongside him. If i could turn back time i would have just remained friends to avoid all of the heartache. Keep producing the fantastic videos.
@Cheshirelass
21 күн бұрын
That isn't an easy ask. Stupid question, but is there any way that you could change your job, or at least not have to work near to him. Take care - and thank you for the compliment. D
@CarolineSmith-m8n
21 күн бұрын
I really enjoy my job as a college tutor. I am now working at a different campus but we work in the same team so inevitably our paths will cross at meetings etc. There is a meeting next Wednesday which I can attend online. For me I feel rejected and humiliated as I suspect he has new supply and that is why I was discarded. My love for him was real but now I am not so sure if his was. Anyway I will work things out. Enjoy the rest of your Sunday.
@Relly_17
21 күн бұрын
Went back to make mud pies you just get the hose and water the mud and mix it
@suzy2746
21 күн бұрын
I love your videos Dee. If I could turn back time knowing things that I know now I would appreciate more things and people than I did then. I would also not believe the horrible things the bullies at school said I was, because it has stayed with me all my life into my later years making me feel totally inadequate and unconfident with whom I am, what I look like etc. I look at old pics of me now thinking all those years I didn't see my true self because I realised there was nothing wrong with my looks at all. So sadly I grew up not loving who I was. Unfortunately in the 80s bullying wasn't taken seriously like it is today so although my parents tried to get it sorted it still contined without any support for me, I ended up so unhappy at school I learned absolutely nothing I literally counted the minutes to home time. So if I could go back I'd love to have another chance at education and a career. Thank you for your enlightening videos Dee. 💕
@Cheshirelass
21 күн бұрын
Suzy - I really don't like the word bully - It diminishes many people's opinion of what it really is - abuse. Those words and feelings - as you know - stay with us and affect us way beyond school years. Do check out a previous video of mine - kzitem.info/news/bejne/2Juuz4CvnWJlY6Q and never lose sight of the fact that you are a strong woman - the lack of qualifications can take nothing from that. D
@suzy2746
21 күн бұрын
@@Cheshirelass You are so right the bad treatment I was subjected to for years was no less than abuse at school that has left it's deep scars. So much that from pics of myself I realise now I couldn't see my true self anymore because of the way these other teens had messed with my head. It's affected so much of my life. I will watch the video you have recommended. Thank you for taking the time to reply to my comments. 😊
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