Deep down, you already know where you stand with someone. Unless it's a euphoric and unequivocal 'yes', a guy is better off cutting all contact and letting go. Pursuing will only cause more heartbreak.
@spencerdobkin9479
3 ай бұрын
100%
@craig8304
3 ай бұрын
You can keep her number and just not pursue. Coach did a newsletter on here a few years back. A success story. This guy was out with his friends when a smokeshow walked in the bar, a 10/10 in his eyes. Having read the book, plenty of times, he was ready. He approached her, told her she was sexy and said they should go somewhere and talk. She said she wasn't interested, so her told her that "he will be over there if she changes her mind." When she left, she threw her number at him. Anyway, over the course of a month, she flaked 2 or 3 times and gave him the cheek on their first date. I don't want to go into detail about exactly what he did, but the way he handled it all perfectly with indifference, emotional self-control and letting her come to him eventually led to her inviting him over to her place, making him dinner and ripping his clothes off. I think they had been together for 2 years in a successful relationship at the time he sent in the email. I think they had gotten engaged and were expecting a child. He said she is a great woman and they support each other and have a great relationship. The point I'm making here is that had he just deleted her number when he got anything but a euphoric and unequivocal yes, or got flaked on etc, he may not be with his perfect 10.
@zeeshanrazvi201
3 ай бұрын
Guys need to understand If a girl tells you from the jump she only wants to be friends that means she dont like you. Stop taking her out and leave her alone and move on. Alot of women will use you for attention and dinners because of poor character - if you cant see that as a man then youre the problem Bottom line is get some game and learn to respect yourself first.
@blahblahblah-uw4uf
3 ай бұрын
Exactly. You’re starting out in the friendzone. It’s dumb as hell and makes no sense to put any effort into that type of situation.
@franklinnose
3 ай бұрын
KUDOS!
@DevsScents
3 ай бұрын
How can men let a female say, "I want a man that's this specific race that you are NOT" and keep chasing her?... That would turn me off a little too much personally. I wouldn't ignore "harmless" comments like that....
@johnq4520
3 ай бұрын
My response would have been "Go find him then, nice knowing ya"
@JohnADuerk
3 ай бұрын
If someone doesn't reciprocate, then you need to move on. Only put your resources (e.g., energy, money, time) into someone who is worth the investment. Never be someone's social outlet. If you have to wonder, then you have your answer. Respect yourself.
@fredc3543
3 ай бұрын
LOL, if she's interested you'll know. Lukewarm behavior from a FEM is a NO SALE.
@Champ1988
3 ай бұрын
"I'm looking for friends and fun." That was his signal to get to the point. I'm not into hookups. But I'm adept at picking up on clues. He was trying to court a woman; who would've hooked up with him if he had his logistics together. He didn't have to take her on any dates. Her interest level was mid from the start. But she left it open for him to take the lead.
@siegfriedo
3 ай бұрын
Been there, done that. Run, Forrest, run! 😉
@bobbyzeiger5760
3 ай бұрын
Coach Corey, I can’t thank you enough for how much you’ve changed my life. Also your work ethic and the amount of content you’ve put out is amazing
@chriswensink7436
3 ай бұрын
A case of "the princess on the pea"? What is she doing in Dubai anyway (ask yourself)
@spencerdobkin9479
3 ай бұрын
Cut all contact. She's not into you. After a few dates if someone is into you they'll be real excited to see you and contacting frequently.
@sliggoon
3 ай бұрын
it’s amazing how many people send an email without reading the book
@Orgizo08
3 ай бұрын
He must be new to your work.
@JoeMNPT
3 ай бұрын
Most are
@Orgizo08
3 ай бұрын
@@JoeMNPT sadly he’s not. Following coach for several years and he only read the book twice smh
@legioner9
3 ай бұрын
Men should be way more natural in general and stop using dating apps and "social" media to get dating women. Online dating ... not a very good idea. Live action is the real deal, live making dates. Literally.
@Ben-ve8js
3 ай бұрын
i love you corey
@coyotiewolf
3 ай бұрын
What if she ghosted me, then she came to one of my events, we talked like nothing happened, we danced, had fun and everything felt natural, I felt the attraction and chemistry and the night was great, but after that we still didn’t talk through text, she hasn’t texted me and I also didn’t want to double text, should I wait for her to get in contact with me or I’m I exaggerating the whole double texting situation and should get in contact with her to plan a date? My problem is that in person everything’s great but through text I just can’t seem to figure her out.
@4ceosp4des76
3 ай бұрын
“i am also referring to friendly fun” 😝 2 steps forward one step back.. who thought me that… hmmmm
@davidjofficial1
3 ай бұрын
Perfect timing coach!
@kristoonz
3 ай бұрын
Okay thanks for the clarification ha.
@AkosM
3 ай бұрын
Reading and listening to any kind of book, is not the same. Reading has a much better influence on your brain than if you are just hearing something. People who don't read are just lazy.
@johny8113
3 ай бұрын
Now I am on the 22 read of the book.
@leweez2500
3 ай бұрын
Do you pick up on anything new after reading it that many times? Or is it just to refresh the info
@johny8113
3 ай бұрын
@@leweez2500 Yes, and I underlined them.
@daveblackman816
3 ай бұрын
9:05 actually that may be it. That explains why she was so uncomfortable being seen in public and she went out with him to test the waters, but ultimately wants to go with her own for her own sake and social interaction.
@mrsthatcher9815
3 ай бұрын
harsh but fair
@earthlylord
3 ай бұрын
1st person 😂🎉
@CoachSteveJandS
3 ай бұрын
Definitely could get old fast. Reciprocating is essential to see
@manup999
3 ай бұрын
Dude I'm 31 living in Dubai and went on a first bumble date ever and hooked up last night on the 3rd date in one week,I know it's fast but she texting me almost everyday and I set the next date,so it's her idea.
@jroll5858
3 ай бұрын
He’s confused. She’s not looking for a white boy. She’s looking for a white man
@jroll5858
3 ай бұрын
@WorldRunner444Yep. He’s delusional & refusing to see reality
@daveblackman816
3 ай бұрын
Exactly. That was my takeaway too. Looks like she gave it an effort but ultimately can’t do it.
@VoiceOfThe
3 ай бұрын
Just back from a first date. Got the cheek at the end, but, then took her chin in my hand and kissed her. Broke off. And kissed again. Few hours after she’s texted saying ‘Nice to meet you blah blah’ Should I set the next date from this point? I can’t remember what the book says.
@vanetheone8101
3 ай бұрын
You're golden. I think you should follow the once a week rule until she starts reaching out more. Then you set a date whenever she reaches out
@VoiceOfThe
3 ай бұрын
@@vanetheone8101 So I’m supposed to set an exact date a week ahead right now in my reply, or say ‘Nice to meet you too’ leave it at that and wait for her to reach out again, at which point I set a date seven days in advance? It’s so confusing this. Lol Not interested in a relationship with her, just fwb and feel like just saying this… The other issue is, although living just 7.7 miles apart there’s a border between us which she can’t cross, she also has a housemate, so I’m not in control of the logistics to make sex happen.
@dpcgamer101
3 ай бұрын
Wait to reach out again in 4 days. Don’t use her reaching out the same night as the date as a way to set up the next one. Just wait 4 days then hit her up. If she texts u in between those 4 days THEN u set up the next date. Trying to set it up based on her “it was nice meeting u.” Text message on the same night of the date will communicate that you’re eager and needy to hang with her again. Give her time to miss you. If you wanna be just FWB on the next date apply the 3 H’s rule and when yall making out and stuff ask her to come back to ur place and then apply 2 steps forward, one step back until you reach the promise land. From then on just keep repeating that. But if ur bold you could just tell her straight up you only wanna hookup nothing serious and if she finds u super attractive and ur good in bed she’ll agree but still might catch feelings but yeah. Hope this helps.
@VoiceOfThe
3 ай бұрын
@@dpcgamer101 Mate, thank you. You’ve covered everything and been clear. 10/10 that dude. Will follow this. Very helpful. She did say mid-way through date we could meet again. I should know the book as started reading it in 2019, but, I think I’ve watched so many videos over the years I’ve started getting confused with it all. Also, it’s the first date I’ve had in 18 months by choice, so rusty with it, as not wanted to date since ex cut me off. Heart still not really into it to be honest, but forcing myself to put the reps back in.
@donovanjr284
3 ай бұрын
@@VoiceOfThecontinue to read the book 10 to 15 times more
@virriquin
3 ай бұрын
we're still having sex, i pushed too hard at the beginning for a relationship. I backed off and let it go and kept seeing her and now shes pushing for a relationship. But now i dont want one since im getting the milk without buying the cow lol
@sergio_ra
3 ай бұрын
8 hours for a date? Geez, got nothing better to do?
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