The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized
@user-er9hv4pl2u
3 ай бұрын
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
@peterwilliams6361
3 ай бұрын
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
@user-er9hv4pl2u
3 ай бұрын
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
@peterwilliams6361
3 ай бұрын
You wont regret it
@RandomTrinidadian
3 ай бұрын
Story 1: OP is super entitled. So glad Miranda cut ties and is off to live her best life.
@juanhaines7295
3 ай бұрын
Story 1 I heard this one before. Op burned the bridge with her.
@marisaJ1
3 ай бұрын
OP1 sounded like an ahole even before he said "this might be where I'm the ahole". The OP seemed astounded that his sister should spend her own money, the money she earned for herself. It really wasn't her responsibility to look after her sister's kids. He loves his sister but he doesn't know what she does at weekends because she doesn't have kids? So she couldn't possibly have hobbies because she's female? He was so dismissive of her life and achievements as though it meant nothing because she doesn't have children. The misogyny is disgusting.
@SpencerMckenithWilliams
3 ай бұрын
NGL you might be right. Who tf raised OP? Makes my upbringing make more sense 😂
@Olimar92
3 ай бұрын
"Loves" his sister. If he really did, there would be empathy.
@CG-yb6zj
Ай бұрын
@SpencerMckenithWilliams he said he wasn't. Miranda was the only adult that wouldn't spoil and coddle him and instilled rules and boaundaries while the others let him do as he pleased and he always resented her for it. Ironic, she was more a mother than his own bio but said she'd be a bad one😠 wretched boy
@the83rdtrombonist60
3 ай бұрын
At least OP learned a lesson
@brianaschmidt910
3 ай бұрын
Did he?
@the83rdtrombonist60
3 ай бұрын
@@brianaschmidt910 Yeah, she did. She learned to not open her mouth and say stuff like that again. I took her completely burning the bridge and polluting the river beneath it but she owned up to it and is accepting the reality of her actions.
@jackchop1576
3 ай бұрын
everyone in that story seems like an AH though.
@sliqyplayz8072
3 ай бұрын
How.
@rubymeaddle
3 ай бұрын
@@the83rdtrombonist60 OP's gender is in the title and in the video, OP is a man.
@scepticalhyenas5750
3 ай бұрын
First story, I want to know who was whispering that kind of stuff in op's ear. There's no way op just out of nowhere came up with that whole diatribe on his own
@lindah3803
3 ай бұрын
He's 17. There's a lot of that type of rhetoric around. That combined with his hatred of his sister and Boom, you get one stupid, ignorant 17 yr old that has the comprehension of a 10 yr old.
@avrilavigne21
3 ай бұрын
You're underestimating how much teenagers think they understand the world
@rubymeaddle
3 ай бұрын
Teen boy so probably on the redpill side of the internet.
@Queen-Blue
3 ай бұрын
#1. YTA!!! I am Team Miranda!!! She IS NOT responsible for her Sister OR her children!!!🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️ Her money belongs to HER!!! Life is about the choices YOU make!!! Alice made HER choices!!! She NEEDS to work! I wouldn't forgive OP either!!!
@virtualatheist
3 ай бұрын
The fact that Alice and his parents roasted him should have been a clue. This could have ruined Alice's relationship with Miranda too, so it's understandable for Alice to be furious!
@zan8289
3 ай бұрын
Story 2: thats rough, a brain tumor can screw up your perception, make you act ways you never would otherwise, and of course end you, its sad.
@kgomotsosekonya9435
2 ай бұрын
I hope that kid actually learned a lesson because what he said and the entire thought process behind it was vile
@hopelessromantic3786
3 ай бұрын
I immediately thought brain tumor or early dementia in the second story. If someone goes from normal to completely unhinged in such a short span of time, it's either that they were never normal, started doing drugs, or have some kind of medical condition causing it.
@brandonwoeldike2084
3 ай бұрын
Story 1: Someone ought to give OP a lesson in manners
@boneymeroney2674
3 ай бұрын
Im already giggling with anticipation 😂
@momoangel9243
3 ай бұрын
Story 1, op was not only a ahole but a dumb one, Seriously her bills, taxes and unexpected expenses don't just magical disappear when she or anyone doesn't have kids, not to mention her or anyone can do whatever they pls with their money they work for, Nobody is obligated nor entitled to someone else's money they worked long and hard for, And if op really cared about the other sister that much why didn't op get a job and give her money for her multiple children then? Instead demanding money and gifts from miranda and being disgusting towards her, And op's excuses was just plain ridiculous like really fam "I resent her because she made me say thank you as a kid etc" are you kidding me?!? and the only reason op is claiming their sorry is because people on both reddit and their family was rightfully pissed at op and their behavior and gave op a earful.
@CG-yb6zj
Ай бұрын
Exactly, "She was an actual adult in my life and wouldn't spoil me, and now won't spoil my other sister and her kids, she's HORRID." The boy clearly was never popped in the mouth or thwacked at the ears for his insulance
@benrussell-gough1201
3 ай бұрын
Story 1 - Speak in haste, regret at leisure. Story 2 - You hear of nightmare experiences of brain cancer like that: People not recognising their closest relatives and friends and believing that everything is malicious or a plot against them.
@amyyaku5022
3 ай бұрын
S1: I hope Miranda never talk to her parents and especially OP again. OP clearly didn't value Miranda simply because she doesn't have kids and bruised his fragile ego growing up. Why is it child free women are expected to care for other people's children and buy them Christmas gifts while people like OP feel so comfortable to talk crap to them for "not doing more"?
@mill2712
3 ай бұрын
Wasn't it all OP who messed up?
@HWDragonborn
3 ай бұрын
Why would Miranda not talk to her parents? Her parents actually stood up for her?
@sadiewashington2855
3 ай бұрын
Did I miss the part where Miranda’s parents were jerks?
@brandinicole1372
3 ай бұрын
@@HWDragonbornher sister stood up for her too. The whole family was pissed
@ChrissaTodd
3 ай бұрын
Her parents didn't take ops side so why are they bad?
@HomeMain
3 ай бұрын
It is incredibly sad and disappointing to hear that a 16 year old girl is perpetuating misogyny at that age and going as far as telling someone they supposedly love that a woman's inability to have a child makes her less than, unlovable and selfish for spending the money they work hard for on children they had no hand creating therefore under no obligations of any sort of financial contributions just because they are related? As one of the many, many women that can not have children even though we long for that, I've contemplated "self deletion way more than once after having miscarriages and one still birth. It's one thing to actively decide not to procreate vs not having the ability. Not that someone refraining from parenthood is under any obligation to support anyone who does have children, the difference is one has a choice and made it, and one did not have an option. Women, in general, need to grow the EFF up and stop beating each other down and acting like having a vagina makes you special or something. Yes, i am a woman. Doesn't mean i have to like the vast majority of my fellow women.
@stephanienoblet8503
3 ай бұрын
The OP is a boy
@dontaejones7419
3 ай бұрын
Story 1: Not to shift away from how disgusting OP was in even thinking about saying that to someone else - let alone their own sister - but this is why communication is so important and you need to watch what you say around your kids. OP clearly was INCREDIBLY misinformed and uninformed about multiple topics (their fault again for jumping to conlcusions), and some of it would have been helped by OP actually asking questions and OP's family making sure things were clear. Story 2: I DESPERATELY hope she can get treatment. The behavioural switches you can get from brain tumours are honestly terrifying to me, and I hope whatever she has is treatable, and she lives many happy years after said treatmen.
@kirby-luvr
3 ай бұрын
I knew it was a tumor or dementia, especially since she was perfectly nice and normal beforehand. This is so devastating. RIP MIL.
@thespider2566
3 ай бұрын
It's such a sad story.
@nidiagarcia8411
3 ай бұрын
Story 2 ) sorry for your family loss.
@miarbnsn
3 ай бұрын
Op may have been the AH!!!!! He's king of the AHs!!!
@Tekirai
3 ай бұрын
1: OP is a massive AH shame on him
@Snappy729
3 ай бұрын
Story 1: dude, her money her choice.
@huanitahuanita7028
2 ай бұрын
i don't have kids but guess what :I have bills to pay ahouse and a car to maintain . A coworker who has 2 kids asked me if im helping my brother who also had 2 kids . When i said no she was surpised and asked why so i replied they aren't my kids they have parents who work own their house and have sil's family to help.
@blueparadise126
3 ай бұрын
Story 1 OP is entitled and on top of that your sister is not obligated to pay for or do anything for the sister that has four kids and is pregnant she knew what she was getting into when you kept popping out kids so therefore you should not expect people to help you take care of the kids that you popped out just because you and your parents feel like your other sister should help does not mean she’s obligated to help.
@Stryker_-qd4nq
3 ай бұрын
I hope op in story 1 remains single for ever, if he deems a womans worth is only their ability to have or provide for children
@VetaRoberts-sj7sw
2 ай бұрын
Do let her come to the wedding, look what she did. Let people at wedding know.
@lisaclark7810
3 ай бұрын
S.1. Sounds like you obviously are generally very sorry about that. And I can feel you are. You have reached out to her multiple times, she's not ready yet, and she may or not forgive you. But, remember this lesson forgive yourself and move on.
@CG-yb6zj
Ай бұрын
Story 1- Who tf is OP to tell Miranda what to do with HER money?? If he was so worried for Alice, why didn't HE pitch in to help her more then?? Alice made her choice and has to love the consequences and is fine with it, so what business of it was his?? He's a POS and knows it, idk why he even opened his mouth other than to just feel justified and promptly reminded that that wasn't the case but too late. He says he resented her for being what he parents werent, and actual parental figure instilling rules and boundaries, and he never got over that?? But had the gaul to say SHE would be a bad mom?? I rather karma strike him harder in the near future
@annnichols3091
3 ай бұрын
Story 2: Doersn't OP mean that she hates her future MIL because Karen is so hateful (arousing hatred)?
@VetaRoberts-sj7sw
2 ай бұрын
Not her responsibility
@lucyw6397
3 ай бұрын
Okay secretvoices pls pls pls tell me what is being built because I’ve been watching this project for the past 2 weeks and I still have no idea what is being built
@VetaRoberts-sj7sw
2 ай бұрын
She got busted
@VetaRoberts-sj7sw
2 ай бұрын
All of a sudden
@jackchop1576
3 ай бұрын
Everyone in story 1 seems like an AH.
@doubleedge2422
3 ай бұрын
What did the sister that pays for everything do wrong
@rubymeaddle
3 ай бұрын
@@doubleedge2422 She's childfree and happy, how dare she
@ChrissaTodd
3 ай бұрын
Then you read the story wrong :)
@mylifewithautism3958
3 ай бұрын
I agree, that remark Miranda made about ‘being too young’ was very dismissive and would have pissed me off too, and then she turns around and gives him long term adult consequences after saying he’s too young? Like be consistent will you! Not justifying what OP said but she isn’t just some totally innocent victim either
@devid.7511
3 ай бұрын
Honestly, I don't understand the OP's sister on some points. Yes, OP is the ahole, but clearly his sister isn't unhappy with her infertility and isn't unhappy with being childfree, it's not like being infertile is a sensitive topic for her. I completely understand her feeling offended about the horrible comment about her ex husband being right for leaving her, but not about whether she would be a bad mother if she could have children or if she didn't deserve children. Still the ahole, but OP's sister overreacted to the infertility comment, clearly not a big deal for her, but I understand why she cut off contact
@mylw4387
3 ай бұрын
"Clearly not a big deal for her" like you know her? she might be unhappy with her infertility because it is something she has to live with. maybe she isn't unhappy being childfree but that doesn't mean she isn't unhappy with her infertility, it just means she deals with it and moves on with her life because life isn't all about children. Even if she isn't unhappy being childfree, or infertile, doesn't mean that infertility isn't a touchy topic for her, she's the one that gets to decide that. Just because she doesn't complain about it forever doesn't mean she is happy with it. You can't say that she overreacted because you don't know her, you don't know how her infertility affects her, and it seems neither does OP very well
@lindah3803
3 ай бұрын
How in the world did you come to this conclusion. Did you listen/pay attention to the Whole story.
@rubymeaddle
3 ай бұрын
She didn't overreact. Having a sibling come into your home as a guest, demand your money for another sibling, and then drag your infertility and divorce into an argument he has *zero business* being involved in is definitely cut off worthy.
@ChrissaTodd
3 ай бұрын
How do you know how she feels, the post is from OPS pov, and she's not gonna dwell on it forever. This is a weird comment maybe stop talking for people like you know them
@cujo1786
3 ай бұрын
2nd story.... Sure the brain tumor was the issue lmfao it is an excuse why was she able to function all that times then suddenly relaspe last second near the dress.... The tumor is a scape goat
@mylw4387
3 ай бұрын
"function all that times" what are you on, buddy? the brain tumor was probably a recent diagnosis, and when people have brain tumors they can have psychotic episodes. They are called episodes because they are usually temporary confusion or hallucination. "Suddenly relapse" this probably isn't a thing that has been going on for a long time so she didn't "relapse", she had a psychotic episode which happens when people have brain tumors. Of course I don't know all the details but this most likely is a new diagnosis. Clearly you don't understand how psychotic breaks work, or brain tumors
@lindah3803
3 ай бұрын
Do research on brain tumors and their effects before spouting such a naive statement.
@virtualatheist
3 ай бұрын
You are an idiot! My dad died of brain cancer and did several things similar to this. I remember once he turned on a telly in the middle of the night and because there was nothing but white noise (this was in the 80s). He decided that. the telly was broken and decided to mend it, by pouring a jug of water over it. Luckily my mum woke up and stopped hm in time... The next morning he had no idea about what he had done.
@Emil_LLscpfan
3 ай бұрын
Day 182 of commenting to help secretvoices
@SecretVoices25
3 ай бұрын
Day 182 of commenting thankyou for your support ❤️❤️❤️
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