What a fantastic young woman Sarah is. She has risen above all the challenges and more. Dave's help will be invaluable.
@richard1113
7 жыл бұрын
This comment is so dead on I have nothing to add. :)
@bradthebluefish
7 жыл бұрын
For Sarah to face all of this adversity and take the steps to overcome it - to cut the bills rather than go in debt - is absolutely amazing. She should do well in life, especially financially, if she keeps up this mindset.
@CeeLiberty
7 жыл бұрын
So sorry she picked so wrong in men!
@nameinaframeindy
7 жыл бұрын
Well, women do love the bad boys. She'll be fine
@omarbagent9829
6 жыл бұрын
Dont seen so fantastic to have had kids with someone so careless. She put herself in quite a situation!!
@blackmesa232323
7 жыл бұрын
"I'm in a little bit of a situation." Understatement of the year award goes to Sarah of Sacramento.
@delilah6390
7 жыл бұрын
blackmesa232323 When she said that for some reason I knew it would be very bad. Lol
@isaacmiraldi9168
5 жыл бұрын
Delilah S the title says pretty much the worst possible circumstances
@heatlifer3640
4 жыл бұрын
He asked how she was doing.. She said “I’m good” That’s the understatement of the decade 😂
@shanissofreshandsoclean3499
6 жыл бұрын
Prison, cervical cancer, pregnant, and in debt? I am praying for Sarah.
@nanawordie7967
5 жыл бұрын
ShanIs SoFreshandSoClean yeah that’s too much
@worldwideperfect2661
5 жыл бұрын
ShanIs SoFreshandSoClean .. forget Shara! I am praying for those poor kids future!.
@IdkIdk-pv1mx
5 жыл бұрын
ShanIs SoFreshandSoClean your prayers will cure her cancer! Lolol
@erin8133
5 жыл бұрын
Same here. Poor thing.
@danieldoucet9121
5 жыл бұрын
Do something that will actually achieve results, like random acts of kindness. Indulging in fantasy will only further delusional thinking. This woman doesn't need any prayer because she takes responsibility for her life which religious people tend to be very thrifty with. Dave Ramsey may be smart with finances but he's not very good with critical thinking which he often demonstrates when he rants about statistics and thinks it's evidence. Correlation does not equal causation. Male Bovine Excrement
@mesidye
5 жыл бұрын
She’s 27 and sounds like she’s lived 9 lives already. She needs a miracle !
@stew7479
4 жыл бұрын
She could also make her life easier when she starts making better decisions.
@Simon-oy7kf
4 жыл бұрын
She's lived 27 years
@Richlucch
Жыл бұрын
Married some felon, had kids too early and has no family around. Bad decisions all over the place
@beautifulisadreamer
7 жыл бұрын
This poor girl. She sounds so positive. I hope she can endure.
@mopar21
5 жыл бұрын
Poor choice in partner lol
@ESponge2000
5 жыл бұрын
If Sarah makes a go fund me I will give what I can to it and tell others to do the same. I want to see her situation improve
@johntucket9221
5 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, I just have tears for her.
@pinkgal206
5 жыл бұрын
Cuteeeee kid
@davidw2433
4 жыл бұрын
Her decisions has lead to where she is.
@AaAa-ri4uf
7 жыл бұрын
this is probably the worst story i have ever heard
@MrWarrenRB
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, easily
@stew7479
4 жыл бұрын
She keeps making bad decisions, though. Most of her problems were created by her poor judgment.
@auntyuber5127
4 жыл бұрын
@@stew7479 best
@raqui174
4 жыл бұрын
even stevens she’s married with kids her husbands illegal activities have nothing to do with her
@judycoulter4556
4 жыл бұрын
Aa Aa this is so sad
@jesseknox9322
7 жыл бұрын
Sarah is awesome! She's kicking butt, $17/hr almost out of debt, raising kids wow!! Good job!
@vinnidavinci3932
6 жыл бұрын
Jesse Knox lol
@roserevancroix2308
5 жыл бұрын
Yea wow, having kids with a criminal! Amazing, how great will that be for her kids huh? She's an idiot and so are you.
@wizardrhyme9597
5 жыл бұрын
@@roserevancroix2308 You're the only idiot here. First of all she might not have known that he was a criminal. I grew up in a family and family tree with alot of members in the Italian mob and some bikers in bandidos and I didn't know until I was in my late teens. Second the kids will not be bad just because their father was a criminal with have plenty of criminals in my family's past and im not a criminal and neither is my mom or dad. My dad was in the army and my grandpa in the mob so it's not like the whole family will go crazy just because one decided to
@jens8223
5 жыл бұрын
Wow 17 an hr 😲
@jens8223
5 жыл бұрын
@@roserevancroix2308 she likes the bad boys
@StunningTransformations
5 жыл бұрын
27 years old, pregnant, 2 small kids, cervical cancer... husband is in The Gated Community... not even a tear. Paid off close to $25,000 worth of debt! God love her. I need to meet this woman!
@musicfanatic4641
7 жыл бұрын
Wow this woman has SO much against her, but she is so positive! God bless her and I hope that everything works out for her and the boys
@mikec.4343
6 жыл бұрын
"It could be 2-3 years best case, or he may never come home" Plus, they're not even letting him out on bail? This guy killed somebody. She doesn't need financial advice. She needs to run!
@AuroraIsBeautiful
5 жыл бұрын
Yupppppp!
@jeffbrylinski4147
5 жыл бұрын
You don't get 2-3 years for killing someone.
@oneeyedman99
5 жыл бұрын
Well, I think we can assume they're already separated.
@JesusisKing03
5 жыл бұрын
It could be something else like if he has a criminal history and all that applies. And sometimes the judge just doesn't feel like giving bail just because. I pray Sarah and her family make it through this is very tough and sad.😔
@RochelletheRealtor
5 жыл бұрын
I’m betting someone died but I’m wondering if it was something like vehicular homicide. That would possibly explain the big difference between possible sentences.
@thehappycamper6610
6 жыл бұрын
She should get a woman to rent that room , not her incarcerated husband’s friend. That’s asking for trouble.
@thecatnextdoor12
4 жыл бұрын
That was my instant thought as well.
@andrew8168
3 жыл бұрын
He could be the babys dad
@FSEVENMAN
3 жыл бұрын
She's obviously not very bright I was thinking the same thing..
@eckankar7756
3 жыл бұрын
Something tells me some women will be showing up in that man's rented room any day now.
@criktun3346
3 жыл бұрын
exactly
@bigmatt504
7 жыл бұрын
sitting here thinking about my problems and then I watch this video. it's amazing how life can smack you in the face.
@danibathalier6839
7 жыл бұрын
bigmatt504 exactly 😀🙏🏻
@stew7479
4 жыл бұрын
Nah. She did all this to herself. The only thing that wasn't in her control was the cancer diagnosis. She keeps getting knocked up by a jailbird and allows another one to live with her and her vunerable kids.
@thomas3340
7 жыл бұрын
Did she say one of her jailbird husband's friends moved in to help her with the rent? I feel like that one won't end well.
@Kharmatos13
6 жыл бұрын
that's what i was thinking, baby number 4 on the way.
@TruongMtgArenaHearthstone03
6 жыл бұрын
Kharmatos13 or 5
@roserevancroix2308
5 жыл бұрын
She is not so smart=)
@bigpicturethinking5620
5 жыл бұрын
That’s what caused her cervical cancer. Too many hot beef injections from different breeders.
@LovelyTranquility
5 жыл бұрын
@@bigpicturethinking5620 That's not funny and is disgusting of you to say.
@nickb3463
7 жыл бұрын
I like how apathetic Dave Ramsey is with her.. he seems to know when to give a person a tough talk when they need it and when to hold back from someone who doesn't need that at that moment. Much wisdom
@sunitastone3939
7 жыл бұрын
Nick B Dave is empathetic. to be apathetic is to not care. maybe you use talk to text.
@carmenortiz5294
7 жыл бұрын
Sunita, I would give you a thumbs down IF KZitem allowed it. He's saying something nice and you are being nasty. Nice going, I bet you are 'great' to be around.
@nickb3463
7 жыл бұрын
yes Sunita that is what I meant. auto correct when I'm swiping .. no big deal thank you for your correction
@MicahChoquette
7 жыл бұрын
Carmen, I didn't think Sunita was trying to be rude, just correcting him. In contrast, your comment was clearly meant to jab, and was rude.
@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
7 жыл бұрын
Tough talk isn't required towards someone who has done nothing wrong.
@AdamLoSuccess
7 жыл бұрын
I don't even feel bad about my situation anymore.
@danibathalier6839
6 жыл бұрын
Adam Lopez same here😎😀
@erin8133
5 жыл бұрын
right? ugh.
@StunningTransformations
5 жыл бұрын
YOU AND ME BOTH!!!
@user-hd8ej8yx9p
5 жыл бұрын
yes, but keep your eye on the price
@mistercrockett
4 жыл бұрын
Right
@jimroscovius
3 жыл бұрын
She's fantastic!! No whining, no begging, no entitlement. She deserves help.
@Theoriginalgreenring
4 жыл бұрын
There’s a lot more here going on. What I hear is a convict has moved you away from family, burned bridges, isolated you to break you down and has discouraged you to go back, stick you to him with multiple children so when he gets out, he’s all you got. RUN NOW! Directly to family, get therapy, get strong and heal!
@raqui174
4 жыл бұрын
Candice Lambert that’s a lot of assumptions she has free will you know
@thecatnextdoor12
4 жыл бұрын
She made the choices herself, he didn’t force her at a gun point.
@SC-gp7kt
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@GiantsWS
3 жыл бұрын
Lol do you really think that lowly of women? Is she not in control of her own choices, her own decisions? Women have 100% agency in what happens to them. She knowingly participated 100% in her situation and is 100% the cause of where she is today. Why do you hate women so much? Probably should seek help for that...
@jones2277
3 жыл бұрын
probably also gave her the HPV that led to cervical cancer.
@loumcnabb2819
7 жыл бұрын
Her old man is getting three square meals and free cable every day. He is living the life! Baby step 7-stay out of prison.
@oneeyedman99
5 жыл бұрын
If prison sounds so great to you, getting sent there is quite easy to arrange.
@drummaboi5879
5 жыл бұрын
haha!! nice bro
@Ces999919822
4 жыл бұрын
That’s hilarious.
@xumacislost9144
3 жыл бұрын
@@oneeyedman99 he literally said stay out of prison, no need to be passive aggressive unnecessary
@vforvendetta8176
2 жыл бұрын
Clearly, you've never been to prison and away from people you love....
@jasoncurtis6105
4 жыл бұрын
These are the kind of calls that make you want to hear a successful follow-up call.
@joslinnick
7 жыл бұрын
I understand that this sounds abrasive and callous, but women need to be very conscious about the type of men they bring into their lives. This guy going to prison has negatively impacted both her and her children's chances of success.
@yeahisaidit6184
6 жыл бұрын
Nick Joslin I agree. Unless it came completely out of the blue I don’t feel too bad.
@cateyes2103
6 жыл бұрын
And men need to be very conscious about what kind of people they become.
@arazoisabelladoyenne2888
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I said it she probably knew the exact type of man he is/was before marrying him and before getting pregnant
@romariosmith422
6 жыл бұрын
Your bs comment is not necessary here.
@sarahburggraf861
6 жыл бұрын
Nick Joslin actually your comment was spot on. I wish id hv paid better attention when selecting my ex. There were red flags, but i chose to ignore them. Im definitely going to help "guide" my daughter when she brings home her 1st boyfriend. No more bums/ loosers for this family!
@elsadavidson160
7 жыл бұрын
Interesting how she says her husband gets 3 years minimum best case. She knows he's guilty no doubt there, no protestation of innocence.
@yuliabrynskikh6668
7 жыл бұрын
right after the call, I scheduled mu ob gyn check appointment. scarry
@TheStrawberry9936
5 жыл бұрын
Yes please keep up with the paps
@ken45y
4 жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@LilMermaid28
7 жыл бұрын
For the first time i disagree with Dave. She cant just find another job, while 7 months pregnant and has cancer she needs to wait it out. Wait until the baby is born and until she gets her treatment. Once she gets the all clear from her doctor and depending on her husbands situation at that point she can look for another job closer to family. She is too pregnant to be trying to find a new job, move and get cancer treatment. Its just to much in a short amount of time plus no job is going to hire a women who is getting ready to go on leave. She needs to wait until she is medical clear from everything to even think about another job and moving. this may delay her a year or 2 depending but at least she wont miss any days at her new job.
@harleyquinnloves
6 жыл бұрын
Lil Mermaid it's actually ILLEGAL to not hire her for being pregnant.
@joey9511
6 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately your money doesn't care if your 9 months pregnant or if you have cancer with 3 kids. You will be homeless staying in shelters if you can't afford rent.
@evegreenification
6 жыл бұрын
Employers will “find” another reason not to hire the heavily pregnant. A job hunt now is the last thing this gal needs
@gomasonpatriot1
6 жыл бұрын
Eve Green "heavily pregnant"...might be better to just use the medical term ie 3rd trimester.
@evegreenification
6 жыл бұрын
duly noted
@ProChaos514
2 жыл бұрын
It would be cool if Ramsay's team updated these videos with follow-ups, see how they did for themselves
@samanthasmiles9112
4 жыл бұрын
Sarah NEEDS family. How her husband got so lucky to find someone like her, is incredible. She is the provider, the mother, the cleaner, the everything. Based on her response, her husband is guilty which shows her Husband is a bad guy. She needs family. I agree with Dave.
@lexgrrez
7 жыл бұрын
This poor woman needs to go back with her family. She needs God's help right now and her family's support.
@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335
6 жыл бұрын
Lex Grrez god did this to her. God is a pos
@magustx
6 жыл бұрын
if god was merciful he would have finished her and her family in one quick strike
@omarbagent9829
6 жыл бұрын
What? People put themselves in situations
@junbh2
6 жыл бұрын
It's possible that her family is not entirely healthy or functional. The fact that she was so reluctant to be nearer to them made me wonder that, and so did the fact that as soon as she left home she married someone who doesn't seem that great, at least from what we know of him. Of course he hasn't been convicted and who knows what the circumstances were, but there's at least a solid chance he's not a very functional or responsible or kind person. And sure, anyone can end up with a bad partner, but people who come from families that aren't very healthy themselves are particularly at risk of it. But who knows, maybe it's something small like her parents are a little pushy but overall OK.
@thereisnopandemic
5 жыл бұрын
Lex Grrez Poor? She is not a victim. She chose a man with many red flags to begin with.
@allispossible8447
5 жыл бұрын
Sarah at 27 is on top of her game being a mum of 3. Her positive disposition will get her through this bump in the road. Btw...She only has $500 in debt...why is everyone saying $15K...?
@RicciOlson
7 жыл бұрын
her husband must have did something really bad...2-3 years to never? she needs a divorce. also here husband's friend is living with them??!! birds of a feather flock together! she needs to take her kids and get out of that situation asap...move back with family. this girl is a hot mess!
@arazoisabelladoyenne2888
6 жыл бұрын
It's A Mom Blog Sarah is ratchet and ghetto. Wow the situation she is putting her children through is disgusting
@mindit808
5 жыл бұрын
@@arazoisabelladoyenne2888 you're unbelievable.
@internetname9102
5 жыл бұрын
Drug crime. Drug laws hurt more than they help.
@nhgriff1
5 жыл бұрын
And get fixed!
@strcd
7 жыл бұрын
This is an example of someone who needs welfare, at least until the baby is born and through chemo, subsidized housing, WIC, TANF she needs to talk to a social worker.
@yeahisaidit6184
6 жыл бұрын
strcd I agree but she might make too much.
@Kharmatos13
6 жыл бұрын
if she goes that route she'll never get out of it. welfare and all those entitlements are built and designed to keep you on it. she's better off without it. it's a garbage system.
@HyperDrive45
5 жыл бұрын
@@CedarMountainsnow well put
@JohnDoe-gc1kt
5 жыл бұрын
@@Kharmatos13 when my daughter was born we got food stamps, medicaid, and a daycare voucher. A year or so in we lost the food stamps due to making too much money. A couple years later we lost the daycare voucher due to making too much money. A year after that we lost the medicaid due to making too much money. We now own our own home have 4 cars without payments and we have 3 rental properties. It's all about what you're made of my friend.
@libertybelle1837
5 жыл бұрын
Truly , I love hearing success stories like you ! Congrats ! However, it seems like ur the rare exception . My former bestie from HS has 4 kids & wants another 1. Once she got on welfare , she was hooked & now makes all kinds of excuses as to why she can’t work , even tho she’s only 45 & totally ablebodied. When her current hubby was in prison , she was taking the cash she could get from her benefits & from dummies like me who was none the wiser & putting them in what she called “his books/commissary bc he lost wt in prison & he needs to eat !” Ugh - taking from what should have went to her kids ! Anyway, he’s out - he works , she won’t , still bumming others for kindness of others & knows she has it too good . Thanks for sharing ur success story :) I wish shiftless perpetual self made victims can learn from u.
@dabnailz5805
7 жыл бұрын
Dave cracks me up... "how long will be he be away" lolol. your so nice Dave!
@mesidye
5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 like he went on work travel or something
@rickm.8303
7 жыл бұрын
I worry about $15,000 in debt. GEESH! I'd be heavily medicated in her position. GOD BLESS HER!
@violettippet5246
7 жыл бұрын
I worry about 7k in debt, but I am low income.
@Yugiboii
3 жыл бұрын
She said $500 in debt
@cassandragarcia2581
5 жыл бұрын
Over two years later and I still remember her.
@reginafromtexas2314
4 жыл бұрын
I realize this is over 2-years-old and I hope the caller is doing well and this is all behind her. I don't agree with telling her to change jobs and move at 7-months pregnant. Her family only lives about an hour away. That would be just across town in some places (such as the Houston area where I live). If she already has insurance at her current place of employment, why should she give that up and possibly have to find new doctors with only 2 months until delivery? She's also in California where the cost of living and rent is astronomical. I would at least wait until after the baby is born and cancer treatment is done to make any big changes. IMHO.
@abark
4 жыл бұрын
She died. The husband got out of prison and found her with his friend and killed them both.
@Matzes
3 жыл бұрын
@@abark for real?
@shaundas12
3 жыл бұрын
1500 for rent isn't even bad in California. I would stay put.
@eckankar7756
3 жыл бұрын
It's been three years, I wonder if the cancer ended up getting her. did her husband ever get out of prison, where are the kids?
@desireefoster1597
7 жыл бұрын
As someone who lives in an area of CA that she lives in, 1500 in rent for a home is nothing. If she moved back to Fremont that rent is only going to go up for a smaller place unless she moved in with family. Even then she wouldn't get paid family leave covered from a different job. Sorry I have to disagree with Daves advice on this. She should stay, also the fact her work is a mile away from her home means she doesn't need her car to commute which is a high possibility she would if she moved. Maybe she really just needs to reach out to her church for help or ask a family member to move up there. She could also ask her husband's friend for help with the tent while she goes through this next few months to years of treatment.
@xochblue
6 жыл бұрын
Desiree Foster Agreed, I don't think Dave has a clue about the reality of renting amd current rental markets. $1000 is a great deal.
@thecatnextdoor12
4 жыл бұрын
Right, he always tells to find something cheaper but those $1,500 places are already the cheapest.
@bestly802
7 жыл бұрын
to all women: don't date bad boys unless you're rich and can bail them out/hire a lawyer and take care of your kids at the same time while also dealing with your own health.
@TheShowOff2I
7 жыл бұрын
Viet PopLove Women will Never learn, the cycle will continue forever.
@sarahbucket8037
6 жыл бұрын
Lolz
@roserevancroix2308
5 жыл бұрын
Hehe, great advice. Don't date bad boys unless you're rich; Because then nothing bad can happen; My god...always amusing to hear low IQ millennials give advice =)
@mesidye
5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha I stopped at “unless”
@thecatnextdoor12
4 жыл бұрын
It’s fun only until something happens to you and you then realize you’re on your own and he’s gone.
@mysticaltyger2009
7 жыл бұрын
The problem with moving from Sacramento to Fremont is Fremont is much, much more expensive than Sacramento. Unless she can move in with family or gets money from them, Fremont is just not going to work. People move to Sacramento from places like Fremont precisely because it's so unaffordable.
@Csoriano14
7 жыл бұрын
I'm from Fremont. I agree. it's a lot more expensive than Sacramento. I wonder if she could live with her family while she goes through this stuff. Her situation is awful and it seems as if she has no support system in Sacramento.
@mysticaltyger2009
7 жыл бұрын
@Charlene...Yes, exactly. I live in the Bay Area, too and we both know all too well what the rents and home prices are like here! Moving in with family would probably be the best option, if possible. If not, she's probably better off staying in Sacramento.
@desireefoster1597
7 жыл бұрын
mysticaltyger2009 yep, my thoughts exactly! If she doesn't move in with family and have their help, she's better off where she is.
@Empathy-and-resilience
5 жыл бұрын
Completely agree. Fremont is hella expensive-I wish I lived in Sacramento!
@Roxality
3 жыл бұрын
Sarah if you’re reading this, you’re a rockstar! God bless you and your family.
@willbrogan2284
4 жыл бұрын
There are varying degrees of toughness, but this woman is an exceptional example of the best degree of it. Wow, what an inspiration she is!
@classykisses9654
7 жыл бұрын
She can't just move her job is providing her with paid leave/fmla and insurance to cover her next 2-3 months when she delivers the baby & cover cancer treatment costs. She has 2 pre-existing conditions. If she takes a new job it won't be protected.
@findingaway5512
7 жыл бұрын
That is what I was thinking. she would have a tough time getting hired 7 months pregnant because obviously she will be having to take leave.
@bestly802
7 жыл бұрын
depends if her job even gave her health insurance.
@richard1113
7 жыл бұрын
I'll admit it's complicated with her due in just a couple months but I think she could follow Dave's advice and go on Medicaid. It's actually easier for her to get if she's unemployed.
@augustuscaesar9995
7 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. She's better off staying with her job in Sacramento if they are going to give her paid maternity leave and cover her medical bills. Sarah should turn to her church for help in this difficult time. Even with family, she may be worse off in Fremont. Fremont is located in the SF Bay Area which has one of the highest costs of living in the country. The average cost to rent a studio apartment in the East Bay ($2000+) makes her mortgage on a 4BR house in Sacramento look like a bargain.
@desireefoster1597
7 жыл бұрын
well said, I agree with you.
@blackdaria7832
6 жыл бұрын
So he was obviously doing something illegal to support their lifestyle. Who just "gets incarcerated"?
@Simon-oy7kf
4 жыл бұрын
She had a bad taste in men
@travisclifton1581
4 жыл бұрын
I couldn't imagine being in this situation. Out of all the callers I've heard, this woman deserves support. I hope she's doing better now, and hopefully dad is out of prison now and working HARD!
@NB-ky5ol
4 жыл бұрын
My advice is to move on from the dude. 3 years or life!? He’ll be of no service to you and your children. He made choices that are negatively impacting your lives. Don’t be foolish and stick around for him. Move on and if he’s got any decency in him he’ll tell you to do the same thing too. I stuck around for a guy in jail and I regret it.
@thecatnextdoor12
4 жыл бұрын
Of course, send him a nice card with birthday wishes once a year.
@mdooms76
4 жыл бұрын
She can't move while pregnant with a steady job and 2 kids. It's expensive to move. Renting a house for $1300 is good. Apartments are even more. Family is probably not too helpful which is why she's so independent and strong.
@jonathanblack4300
6 жыл бұрын
You can tell when Dave is getting emotional when he gets all quiet. What a load to have on her shoulders...and she's actually doing quite well all things considered!
@minutemansmonitor
7 жыл бұрын
She mentioned her kids have their own rooms and unless she's sleeping with that "husband's friend" she mentioned, that means that her place has 4 bedrooms. At $1500/month, that's good for CA, but she's definitely got to to downsize. 5 minutes on Google brings up 2-bedroom rentals in her city for as low as $600.
@rhoadestraveled
7 жыл бұрын
minuteman madison She just doesn't see that yet. As a mother we care about our children's hearts always, first. That's why we are the ones to rush to dad and ask him not to be so harsh on our child. All she can see at this point is they've lost their father (figuratively), and she doesn't want them to lose their home too. She's fearful all of the instability will flip them completely upside down. She'll get there she sounds smart. I really do wonder what he did though 2 years to a lifetime sentence sounds severe.
@wmurray003
7 жыл бұрын
Buahahahahaa .....I knew someone would bring up the Husband's friend.
@annavideoediting3180
5 жыл бұрын
Check your pulse because you might be lacking a heart
@eileeneclark9011
4 жыл бұрын
2/26/20....She mentioned wanting each kid to have his own bedroom. Isn't that Hollyweird unicorn rudiculous making $17./ hr...with 2 boys 1 pg...+ having cancer....+ having hubby in jail waiting for trial. Not to mention hubby has "friend" living there to "help pay the rent".... BUNCH IF BAD CHOICES!
@gclinton85
6 жыл бұрын
And I am worried about 20k of debt being single and no kids
@thecatnextdoor12
4 жыл бұрын
You should. Someone having it worst doesn’t mean you’re in a fine situation.
@AnaxofRhodes
7 жыл бұрын
Why You Have An Emergency Fund And Stay On Top Of Your Finances: Exhibit A. Lady did about everything right up till this truck dumped a whole ton of disappointment on her. She's in as good a spot as anyone could reasonably hope for given these circumstances. God bless her. Hope her family and congregation can help her out.
@blackworldtraveler3711
7 жыл бұрын
Anax of Rhodes I think that dump truck was already at 45 degrees and the gate half open way long before this.
@wingmangut1
7 жыл бұрын
Kids don't "need" their own room. My parents had 5 kids. We have always loved in a 2 bed/1bath duplex.
@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335
6 жыл бұрын
jessi gut 5 kids Jesus Christ.
@ilikeboost4764
6 жыл бұрын
jessi gut 5 kids in one room is kinda tight.
@FreedomNurse
6 жыл бұрын
dog person 😂😂😂
@junbh2
6 жыл бұрын
+Robert Bell Yeah, giving a child their own room is a totally modern invention in the last generation or two, and even so doesn't exist in most countries. And I don't just mean poor countries - most of my European cousins shared bedrooms even with parents who were, e.g., an engineer, and even when they had the money to do renos on their kitchen. They just thought it was silly for a child to have a separate bedroom.
@roserevancroix2308
5 жыл бұрын
They need two good parents. Roof over their head and a place to sleep. Food and water. Some clothing. Everything else is optional.
@JonO387
7 жыл бұрын
Ladies, if your man goes to jail, leave him. Especially if he has kids because he obviously doesn't care about them.
@ProfessorFickle
7 жыл бұрын
women love bad boys, you know this!
@AmberU
7 жыл бұрын
JonO387 Good point bc he clearly didnt think about the consequences of his actions. He may never get out? Thats done.
@SolsticeBeautyByJessica
6 жыл бұрын
JonO387 not true. Anybody can change
@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335
6 жыл бұрын
Jessica Brown change for the worse.
@dantheautoman3821
6 жыл бұрын
What did he do? Almost anyone can get a dui.
@joepic85
5 жыл бұрын
If i had an immediate family member going through this. I would be running through a wall for them. Helping them out a much as i could
@positvelyexpectant1383
7 жыл бұрын
Wow this is tough, thankfully she has some of her stuff together. Good luck Sarah praying for you and your family.
@cpaul57
5 жыл бұрын
Quit dating bad boys
@EdBball99
7 жыл бұрын
It's really hard to sympathize with her when she pushes back on Dave's advice by countering "I've always been independent".. independence is great but it's also more expensive than being dependent. With a 35k salary, which is barely enough to feed 1 mouth, and her about to have 4 mouths to feed on her own she needs to face the reality that her situation has forfeited her precious independence.
@gigi8528
7 жыл бұрын
Geez, I feel so sorry for this woman. I pray she gets through this. The only thing I want to worry about at 27 is deciding where I wanna relocate to
@davidw2433
4 жыл бұрын
Her decisions as lead to where she is. Making excuses for poor decisions is why girls have been making the same poor decisions for generations.
@kelb6073
5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like the husband has a drug/burglary/assault charge. If there is a possibility of him going away forever. Sounds like she needs to drop him like a hot potato and move in with family. But I have a feeling she isn't squeaky clean either honestly.
@jessicamoran5752
7 жыл бұрын
Everyone has a opinion about other peoples lives.............how about we pray instead
@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335
6 жыл бұрын
Jessica Moran pray?
@sgtcrab1
6 жыл бұрын
Thoughts and prayers work like a champion.
@robertbell525
6 жыл бұрын
Unless you are willing to cough up or invite her into your home, what's the alternative?
@cattsmahal1005
4 жыл бұрын
This girl is a Super Woman. Despite what she’s going through, she’s hustling to be/stay debt free. God bless her 😌
@thecatnextdoor12
4 жыл бұрын
Super dumb. Don’t glorify people who make poor choices.
@swgaguy7710
7 жыл бұрын
how many times do we hear about a young lady whose husband or bf is in prison. smh
@MENDLER1
6 жыл бұрын
Beauty and the beast.., women always looking for the bad boy. When will they ever learn?
@AdamAdam-em2op
7 жыл бұрын
For those who think they got it hard. Take note!!!
@user-qr7eb1sf3l
5 жыл бұрын
Adam Adam her cancer was caught early, I think with treatment she will be find. The rest was her poor choices.
@NomastiAfricanWarlord
4 жыл бұрын
@@user-qr7eb1sf3l Her husband getting arrested and being pregnant were somehow her poor choices? How..?
@eileeneclark9011
4 жыл бұрын
2/26/20....This 27 yr old seems to have made some BAD choices in her short life. 1st she got involved with a guy who is now in jail awaiting trial with prob 3 yr to lifetime sentence! So guy also was "bad choice maker" as well.... 2nd she got pg 3rd time & now has cancer....so difficult to raise 2 kids while pg with 3rd & no cancer treatment while pg. 3rd she has HUGE house pmt/rent & hubby's "friend" living there & "paying 1/3 of rent or mtg" is NOT a good situation---sounds "suspicious" to say the least. 4th she is 1 1/2 hr away from her own family & their support--claims she is "independent" which also sounds "suspicious" b/c her family prob KNEW her BF/now hubby was not a law abiding citizen. So TOO MANY RED FLAGS here..... I feel sorry for this young mom but she needs to get to that CHURCH today & talk to somebody who can talk her thru some of this before she has a breakdown &/or loses her kids + home. Good listening skills + advice on this call Dave. I hope she takes it! GOD BLESS!
@sunshinelawfan7693
7 жыл бұрын
She supported three people and cut debt by $20k on a $35k salary....that's the pretax salary in a high-tax state...? Huh? Maybe I missed some key details, like she had extensive savings. The facts as I heard them do not add up.
@adjones87
6 жыл бұрын
SunshineLaw Fan Her husband probably had a job before getting arrested...
@Avaxzs
6 жыл бұрын
He wasn’t in jail when she paid the debt
@josephkent3238
4 жыл бұрын
She needs to protect her and her children first ..... And make decisions based on only that..... Easy to say....
@TheToadChild
6 жыл бұрын
Honey I am so sorry. It has been a moment since this call, and I hope your life has changed for the better. I wish you good health.
@johnsonlive9173
5 жыл бұрын
I saw u in every video
@RenWater
6 жыл бұрын
I love her, she’s so lovely and positive, even in this poor situation.
@Txcowboy80
7 жыл бұрын
3yrs to life??? Hummm wonder what this winner did?
@kevinseveneleven
7 жыл бұрын
Johnny Probably drug trafficking and weapons
@laxmitty21
7 жыл бұрын
Johnny with a big house maybe some shady scamming
@roserevancroix2308
5 жыл бұрын
He didn't pay alimony to his other family.
@allispossible8447
5 жыл бұрын
Johnny He’s in for jay walking 😏
@1p4142136
5 жыл бұрын
Single mom with kids and cancer? There are lots of benefits to single mons with kids such as Section 8 ( low cost rent housing), Welfare, food stamps, etc. About the cancer, sorry to hear that but my understanding is that the hospital will medically treat you for your cancer and yes you will get bills but literally the government will pick up the tab.
@HumbledByYahahwa
7 жыл бұрын
read the comments of all the people judging him and her then tell me who really needs Jesus smh
@blackworldtraveler3711
7 жыл бұрын
CircleCityCurry Heck I was judged when I was 27 by people and told me I was selfish because I didn't have kids. I was even judged for living in my car. I didn't mind it at all. I judge others as well. So I think this woman liked those bad boy types and paying the price. The guy probably not any different before the marriage and she had kids anyway. And I have a feeling she won't go back home.
@Joefest99
7 жыл бұрын
Right! Don't call bad behavior bad behavior. Just pretend it doesn't exist. Didn't Jesus call out the Pharisees and go after the money changers with a whip? We all forget those parts of the gospels. Jesus wasn't preaching to keep living in sin, he faced it head on. The point of the "Judge not" speech - I think - was to tell people to not just call other people out in order to get your own ego boost, but to address issues in a spirit of wanting to help.
@danajo2219
6 жыл бұрын
CircleCityCurry oh well said!
@harleyquinnloves
6 жыл бұрын
CircleCityCurry amen
@Efferheim
6 жыл бұрын
CircleCityCurry Seems like you might be judging them... Judging by your comment.
@Anna-bl9ky
Жыл бұрын
I love how supportive and non judgmental Dave is. The advice to get help from the church is excellent. But Dave, how much do you think rent is?!
@mack_titan
5 жыл бұрын
"2-3 years or never coming home" that rules out all kinds of "silly stuff". He is in on something really big and that's also the reason you really cannot (/ don't want to)talk about his arrest. My lady, we don't need to know more and it's time for you to take care of yourself and move on without this guy...you are awesome to have taken the bull by the horn. Hope it all works out for you. You are better off living in Sac versus Fremont. Rents in Fremont is atleast double i.e if you are extremely lucky (welcome to SFO Bay Area).
@kellenmcelrath678
5 жыл бұрын
some people need to stop getting pregnant and work on themselves
@shelholl4moloweeatwh
5 жыл бұрын
Does she have parents that would really be supportive? I am picking up on some resistance to count on them.....
@folgore1
4 жыл бұрын
It's more than two years since this posted; I wonder how this situation worked out?
@jenniferchiang8759
6 жыл бұрын
God bless you woman , sincerely hope you get through with the situation
@khoado123
5 жыл бұрын
dating bad boys is all cool and fun until they actually commit bad things and break your heart and tear your life apart.... but i feel like all girls should date bad boys at least once just to know the taste of it and learn a lesson. Same thing for dudes, keep going for those social media "models" and you'll go broke soon too.
@alonelychristianmale2624
7 жыл бұрын
at least make $17.00 an hour some only make $10.00.
@natejohnson2766
6 жыл бұрын
Exactly!👆🏾
@roserevancroix2308
5 жыл бұрын
I can see that you got no clue what children cost=) And she has 3. And she's a single mom. She will live in poverty for the rest of her life because of her stupid decisions and lack of IQ.
@joannakapsha4199
3 жыл бұрын
Hope everything improves 5000% for you. I can’t imagine having to deal with all that.
@monicadhenderson8670
3 жыл бұрын
Bless your sweetheart Sarah🤗🤗🤗I pray healthy baby, healing from cancer by blood 🩸 of Yahshua✝️💜& for hubby to seek after God very hard🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼Your wife & babies need you!!!
@tthomaselli2
6 жыл бұрын
What a fantastic & young woman Sarah is. Best of luck to her--especially now because her husband is gonna be (for want of a better choice of words/code-word that I learned from 'The Sopranos') "a guest of the government" for quite some time.
@bettylou3709
7 жыл бұрын
If her job offers health insurance then she really can't afford to move closer to family. Someone needs to move nearby to help and she really will need help when she has surgery and chemo with small boys and an infant. You can't take a baby into cancer treatments.
@bentleyboy72
3 жыл бұрын
Your priority is to not die and to provide for your children, NOT to keep the house you currently live in. Move back home and press the restart button.
@PhilipVels
3 жыл бұрын
"There is nothing wrong with letting people who love you, help you." - Iroh
@OneMamaToAnother
5 жыл бұрын
What hard things to go through. She sounds amazing! I'd love to hear an update on how she is doing.
@pault726
6 жыл бұрын
This just came up as a suggested video for me (Nov '17). I'd really love to hear a follow-up on how this young lady is doing.
@kimbernowacki1988
3 жыл бұрын
Wish we could call her back and check back on her!
@oneandone2744
4 жыл бұрын
Correction: two little boys and an adult child who just went to prison. Financial Peace is a great idea, learning how to make life choices would certainly help. That's not "judgement" that is reality.
@tacticalcrusader3709
4 жыл бұрын
Her husband's "friend " is sticking his pen in her ink. Odds are that baby she's pregnant with ain't hubby's.
@jaypence332
5 жыл бұрын
I wish Dave will do updates because I feel like this is a cliffhanger.
@wowso4
4 жыл бұрын
God bless this lovely lady. I wish her good health and happiness.
@rockingredpoppy9119
3 жыл бұрын
I get the feeling this woman is trying to say, her family is not supportive.
@Jabulani926
6 жыл бұрын
Why recommend church? The first thing a church will ask you for is tithes and offerings. Tithes equals 10% of your gross income. How does a financial advisor recommend church to a woman in financial trouble... jeeez
@aaronarchie7799
4 жыл бұрын
Dhaat Dhood , after my husband and I started paying tithes and offerings my husband got a $4 raise. When we give, God adds increase. For believers in Christ, when we do this, God always makes a way. God paid one of our medical bills in full. It was a BIG a bill. When we give our Heavenly Father what is His, He will take of us. My 10% in tithe was nothing compared to that medical bill. As far as the church itself, she will gain love and extra prayers and support. There is strength in numbers and powers in prayer
@checkhookko
7 жыл бұрын
Any updates on Sarah?!
@roserevancroix2308
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, she had 2 more kids, this time with that "husband's friend" from jail. So 5 kids and counting. GIRL-POWER!
@brijeshmanek6113
5 жыл бұрын
@@roserevancroix2308 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mesidye
5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 she will be starting the single mother gofundme group
@ceciliapreziose3783
4 жыл бұрын
@@roserevancroix2308 wow how did you find out
@dougfoster445
3 жыл бұрын
Really sad that she actually makes ok money and can’t afford a house. The current state of America folks
@omarbagent9829
4 жыл бұрын
The husband should of done better by his family. This is a mess!! Idk what he did but how could he be so stupid when he has a whole family!!! Watch who you depend on people !!!
@ItsRossinator
3 жыл бұрын
This is one of those where I hope/wish there's an update.
@dayumgoon
5 жыл бұрын
This woman will be blessed tenfold. She just gotta keep hanging in there.
@twinny555
4 жыл бұрын
Awww do you keep in touch with people? I’d love to know how Sarah is doing now.
@beckymigdal3140
Жыл бұрын
If my kid was in this situation, I would move in with her to help her!
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