I clearly understand this brothers.personally I have an alcoholic brother whom we have tried much to help him and I can say kubeba mzigo ya MTU ni hard saana. Kuacha drugs ni hiari ya mtu
@missindependent1893
7 ай бұрын
Yah Nikweli
@user-sp5ws6nn8f
7 ай бұрын
use soft and friendly approach .stop using conventional means , violence doesnt work
@violetmagero6683
7 ай бұрын
Ukweli
@kandisphere8828
7 ай бұрын
True... People would never understand until they are in such a situation.
@emem6935
7 ай бұрын
The boy should have been raised by the parent not the brothers.
@Sunshine._23
7 ай бұрын
One old man at ushago cannot Cannot handle a drug addict. The mom died it is so sad it had to end this way.😢
@emem6935
7 ай бұрын
@@Sunshine._23 That's true but the dad left him with his brothers long before he became an addict. Jesse said he's the one who introduced him to drugs.
@kuibilhah
7 ай бұрын
If only you knew how difficult some family members could be, you'd judge less.
@bancymunene3436
7 ай бұрын
I don't judge them at all. They did their best. Having gone through the same with my brother, i totally understand what they went through. I always pray for families going through this, 😢😢😢😢😢😢
@simplybeautiful9021
7 ай бұрын
I knew this was about addiction. People here have no idea how violent your loved one can be when they don't get their fix. Not many people are trained to deal with that in Kenya and blaming the brothers for them his death is cruel and unfair.
@user-sp5ws6nn8f
7 ай бұрын
i blame jesse and abel mutua , KIla familia has a mad person , but we always protect that person .most familia hukua na yule family member msumbufu but we are always working on him , how could they let rafo die?Jesse na abel mutua hag capacity to ensure the young bros safety , they are murderers , they caused him get more depredded and more addicted, eventually death .That is what they wanted, they can now laugh at his burial .NO condolences from me for those 2 murderers >Or they sacrificed rafo to get wealth and money
@nellyrichy
7 ай бұрын
Jesse said very well he's the one who introduced him to that alikuwa Ana expect nn to produce angel after training him how to vuta shisha drink redlabel blackjack name them ooh please.....
7 ай бұрын
Was the violence on him necessary?
@user-to4xx3rj1m
7 ай бұрын
I have an alcoholic uncle ...he steals alot in rhe house.... Dealing with such family members is difficult..... only the inner fam knows the disappointment that comes with this
@amelia-gi3dk
7 ай бұрын
I had a cousin who was alcoholic ,huyo alikuwa anakuja kwako kutebea ukimwacha kidogo kwa hou anabeba meko or tv anaeda kuuza akunyue... and his brothers and sisters wako us,uk& Canada walifika mahali wakachoka,anapelekwa rehab anatoroka... finally he died in a bar drinking alcohol...very young and vibrant,may God help and protect our children
@annitabobo5438
7 ай бұрын
I can't judge them kama hamna akasumbua kwa familia than you know nothing
@TheNaisenya
7 ай бұрын
Such a difficult time for the family 💔. May he rest in eternal peace
@Azulakayes
7 ай бұрын
If your first reaction is beating someone, you are wrong. You are making them fear you not asking for help. RIP Raphael
@nellyrichy
7 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Kasasi0322
7 ай бұрын
You attack your father physically and expect they will give you a hug....when you experience this behavior first hand, please come with your wisdom and share with us. Until you wear the shoe, it's easy to say what should be done.
@kamaunjuguna9919
7 ай бұрын
If it reaches a point of going physically with a parent, we must go physical with you bro..
@deotio2768
7 ай бұрын
You have no idea what families go through. Some members can drive a whole family into a dark hole.Yes you can beat up a sibling who you love to try and get sense into them coz you can see where they will end up if they don't change.Leave this family alone. Even those claiming to know what happened have no idea what they have gone through as a family. So please be quiet and mind your own business
@annewambui4729
7 ай бұрын
Family matters are complicated
@Sunshine._23
7 ай бұрын
Who else did not know that they have a younger brother before the story? Addiction is dangerous I remember Eric Omondi’s brother he tried his best taking him to rehab in and out but it didn’t work until he died. Rest in peace I’m so saddened sorry to the family.
@kandisphere8828
7 ай бұрын
They have many siblings. Abel has always said that they were many kids.. 7 or 8.... so he was among them, of course.
@Sunshine._23
7 ай бұрын
@@kandisphere8828 I mean from her mom the others that you’re talking about are from blended family from their stepdad.
@kandisphere8828
7 ай бұрын
@@Sunshine._23 The biological mother passed on, and the biological father is alive.
@Sunshine._23
7 ай бұрын
@@kandisphere8828 yes ,but they have enstraged relationship with the biological father he was an absent dad.The step dad is the one who helped raise them he’s the retired civil servant. Watch the first episodes of young and stupid Abel explains everything. The mom raised them single handedly before meeting the stepdad who also had his own children and they formed a family.
@Marykitchenke
7 ай бұрын
When a tragedy hits never blame anyone. By blaming the brothers we are only creating more problems they are already in pain let’s not add blame to it. Nothing as painful as being blamed for someone’s death especially if are truly innocent. We can only pray for this family.
@wanjikuomudhohalwenge2072
7 ай бұрын
Looking at things in hindsight will always give people opportunities to see what the better option is or was!
@nellyrichy
7 ай бұрын
Najua si rahisi koz I have been there but violence was never an option koz alijua utapigiwa simu ukuje upige story iishe that's it ,anwez he's gone explanation won't bring him back let him rest in peace
@user-sp5ws6nn8f
7 ай бұрын
the violence approach that jesse used, makofi mbili tatu ndo nini , that is violence .if he used soft and friendly approach , sawa anatumia shash ,WHO DO YOU THINK IN COLLEGE/UNIVERSITY DOESNT USE SHASH.we have it , now you could , buy himone , but reduce each time , i takes 2 years to 5 to change someone who is in druges using soft approach .conventional approach always laeds to death , what you got after you used violence on rafo,I know your beating jesse , its not makofi mbili tatu , but we know you and your anger .so deal with your loss of a brother and know that you are a murderer ,i can only compare you to CAIN in adams story .to hell with your beatings .
@nellyrichy
7 ай бұрын
@@user-sp5ws6nn8f what baffles me is that they had an opportunity to take him to rehab anasema aty alikataa rehab how mmmh only the dead and God knows the truth,
7 ай бұрын
@@user-sp5ws6nn8fhio part ya beatings ina ni bore sana. It was totally unnecessary
@paulinekamau9633
7 ай бұрын
God knows
@user-sp5ws6nn8f
7 ай бұрын
JESSE AND ABEL MUTUA KILLED RAFO, Indirectly though
@wambuirk
7 ай бұрын
Yeah if they failed him i dont care what Abel says
@user-sp5ws6nn8f
7 ай бұрын
exactly, Jesse used violence on the guy , his violence led to more depression and addictipon, eventually causing his death .Jesse and abel mutua indirectly killed their brother .NO condolences , they can just deal with it .
@oldlakeproductions5981
7 ай бұрын
What would you have done, in their shoes
@artysarah7716
7 ай бұрын
We I we don't know the full story of what was going on in this family my take no matter how hard life gets kindly do not kill your self find help from strangers who become our new families kindly may every one talking come up with receipts and evidence otherwise let's keep quiet and allow this family to mourn and let them be all this will not being back Rapho
@salimchege2773
7 ай бұрын
Truth be told his already gone,hakuna haja ya all the explanations.
@nellyrichy
7 ай бұрын
💯
@zakiamohamed2565
7 ай бұрын
My brother akiwa gone sahii hakuna msee atajua. I think they also deserve a chance to say their side hata kama hatutajua what happened for real.
@cestmoitout
7 ай бұрын
We can also say ' he is already gone, hakuna haja ya all the accusations. They have a right to explain and then the public can make their own conclusions.
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