I heavily appreciate you and all that you create, Sean!! Thank you for having me on your channel; your videos are all sorts of wonderful and I am so glad to have had this chance to chat about MBTI and INFPs with you! :)
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for stopping by girl!! 🤗 Was SUPER fun and you were awesome with all your insights🥳 Sean
@cierahayes
3 жыл бұрын
You are a lovely human, Joyce. Thank you for sharing your insights & perspective. Your words are well spoken & inspiring. I smile whenever I see you - your warmth & kindness shines through every time. 🌟💖
@naty6884
Жыл бұрын
The way Sean rambles and zones out when he talks is so relatable as an infp lolll there's so much going thru my mind idk how to say all of it calmly and clearly and directly the way Joyce does
@pausimone2391
3 жыл бұрын
Joyce is the absolute sweetest, you really don't meet people like that so often! I love that you brought up that people can't be put into 16 boxes , in a way it's the broader spectrum they have found, I guess. I feel in between 2 types, the I is what defines me most , hehe.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah Simone people sometimes look at these systems sooooo tightly that instead of helping you with a tool type thing, it hurts them because they feel they can't do/ be anything else. Stereotypes are somewhat needed when we talk about these systems, but one should NEVER sit in those boxes of preferred comfort. Just miss out on so many cool experiences in life that yes, maybe more difficult to go into initially, but you never get to know if you like something if you never experience it.... Nice to meet you! Sean
@Alazsel
3 жыл бұрын
Omg my 2 favourite KZitem creators, can't wait to see how this one turns out!
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Andrew was a fun talk for sure! Hope all is good man 🤙🏻 Sean
@user-jv9kx5hz1z
Жыл бұрын
I’m a 41 year old INFP. I related to so much of what was said. At 40 I just recently told someone that a switch went off and all the chaos that I felt had been my life suddenly became clear. I had been highly success in the business world and seemingly had it all, but I finally ran out of steam living in that world. I suddenly became super charged and changed everything in my life. I got divorced, gave up my business and for the first time moved to a place where I can just be myself, free of anyone’s opinions. I started a non profit and focus on helping others everyday, discovered a love of painting and have felt like I finally embraced the true self. As Sean mentioned, I’ve been watching KZitem for over a decade and have never commented. Understanding who I fully am and eliminating the things that made my life even harder than it already felt, has been life changing. I’m starting to see the full picture of my life and how I’m meant to live. Videos like this have been a big help for me to reinforce what I was feeling. Just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate all the work that content creators put into these videos. I’ve actually spent a lot of time with a couple INFJ’s. We are very different, but as Joyce said, we weirdly speak the same language that the 14 other types will never be able to understand! They have really helped me get over some fundamental road blocks I had placed on myself. Thanks to you both for the chat, I enjoyed it!
@INFPHD
Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed the talk and could relate man. Always comforting to know you’re going through similar things with others, and that you’re not alone (even though we may like to be lol). Nice to meet you 🤙 Sean
@katrinamareen
3 жыл бұрын
OMG, when you were talking about not being competitive... That is so true of me... I was in a competition at the gym to get the most points on a heart rate monitor. We had 3 weeks, and we could see where we were on the leaderboard. When I wasn't the top, I felt like I wasn't doing enough, so I did more... but then I was at the top, and I felt guilty for winning. I felt like I didn't deserve it, and I hated winning the prize that I gave it away... ALSO, I never even gave my name, I was on the board as Anon.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I tend to commonly push myself more than most around me are willing to do, but if there is a reward / spotlight available that is not something I’m generally interested in. The reward is just gaining the first hand knowledge that I “am” capable to do that said task. So yeah, it can be construed that I’m very competitive but it’s not in a defeating other people with dominance type competitiveness - it’s just the thrill of the journey to pushing oneself at a high level. The fake name Anon part cracked me up...soooo how I would attempt to divert attention from myself as well 😂 Sean
@susanclow3173
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP and I don't think they all react exactly the same due to their horoscope, upbringing, trauma in their life etc. But basically they are similar. The was a good talk together.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah Susan that's for sure how to look at all this stuff. INFPs are especially said to be VERY different from each other within the INFP realm just because we are so focused on having a strong individualistic identity for ourselves. We "prefer" to navigate through life generally the same and where the similarities can come into play, but yeah toss in being from different parts of the world, different Enneagram types, experience opportunities, age, horoscopes, etc. and humans then start to look very different then just 16 boxed categories. MBTI etc. is very intriguing and I personally feel valuable to help us all to better understand where each other is coming from, but none of the systems should be used to define a person - just a home base of preferences kinda thing... Sean
@alexandra9944
3 жыл бұрын
@@INFPHD This is so true! I resonate with all of that. Im not sure if I'm ENFP or INFP, I might just be a more assertive/extroverted INFP like you, Sean. I agree that there are too many variables that can influence people and therefore there will be a lot of variety even within the same types, especially types with introverted dom and aux functions.
@danab172
3 жыл бұрын
I tested as either infp or infj for YEARS. Recently I was typed as ISTJ by Talking with Famous people. I couldnt be more lost and confused now. And unfortunately host Eric thinks/talks too fast and all around the subject in a way that is useless and painful for me to absorb/pay attention. I am someone who feels I am living in two worlds. One is imaginary and dominated by an internal movie by which I form understandings about people and myself. The other is the real world which I have difficulty paying attention to unless I am forced to at work. I am not accentric like an infp. I am more conservative in attire. I do not have a storm of ideas outside me like Infp and intp. (I live with an intp, and it is very difficult for me at times because he never stays on track despite being brilliant.) Infjs are said to not be in touch with how they physically or emotionally feel. Yet I am extremely in touch with both these. I feel like my type session failed me and I failed it due to my anxiety and cognitive disorder therefore was unable to answer questions honestly/accurately/fully and especially on the spot. Therefore, how is it that someone can determine another persons type in one hour. And, everyone takes that video and determines it on face value themselves? The problem is that every single mbti type has aspects that I do not relate to. But, if I am an istj... then where is my Te? I have a poor memory and I dont think that I am a detail oriented person. I do work hard and have integrity and endurance and honesty. And, the career i am trying to go into is more for an istj I think... but... I have had to push beyond severe discomfort in order to keep up my goal with it. Do ISTJs produce expressive artwork and poetry? Like in a childrens book I wrote and illustrated. Are ISTJ's engrossed in their inner movie of imagined scenarios and dialogues with people? If so, I might then be an ISTJ. Are they either in the past or the future and never present? if so, I might be an istj. Yea, I try to maintain my environment and create ruitines but its because I fall off track so easily. I am having dificulty again understanding why is it that none of the types are a complete fit and why there are so many contradictions. And, I am losing my TRUST in it all not to mention the possiblity of getting typed by someone again. Even though I really really wanted to know what I was. :( Advice please.
@JosiahMcCarthy
3 жыл бұрын
This is such a great video. So valuable to me. Sean, thank you for having Joyce on this channel, giving a stimulating interview, and just talking about truly interesting things! Joyce, thank you for opening up, sharing your values and goals and as always, your killer insights. So amazing!
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed Josh - nice to meet you sir! Sean
@immersedinthought3097
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video, Sean and Joyce. I love both of your channels.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for taking the time to comment and let us both know your thoughts🤙🏻👍🏻 Mucho appreciated Sean
@hanjesse31
3 жыл бұрын
I was confused for a second. I thought the structure seems weird.Because it looks like Miss Joyce is the one getting interviewed. I had to look at the channel and it is really not her channel 😄. Great Interviewe Sir!
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
lol I know right! Joyce is typically the facilitator, but I've done a handful of one on one type interview videos to which I do enjoy putting into the content mix. Joyce just helps make the video interesting... Pleasure to meet you! Sean
@hanjesse31
3 жыл бұрын
@@INFPHD I am also subscribed to you sir. I am ''IXFP'' according to 16 personalities.com. Nice to meet you too sir. I was actually looking for that video that you mentioned on the recent INFP video at Type Talks. I was curious about that.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
You find that video? Which one (I know where they all are lol)
@hanjesse31
3 жыл бұрын
@@INFPHD Not yet sir. Maybe i missed it while i was scrolling down
@jennifert7212
3 жыл бұрын
This was a really great video! Thank you both for sharing you're wonderful wisdom. Coming from an INFP, this made me feel needed :).
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jennifer - our pleasure, and glad you enjoyed! Sean
@Softening.into.His.Glory.
3 жыл бұрын
Good chat! Thanks, Sean and Joyce!
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ms. Harmony glad you enjoyed 🤙 Sean
@icanrelate
3 жыл бұрын
Your creativity/editing is truly 1 of my faves. It's so freaking good!! So fun!
@ga5957
2 жыл бұрын
I loved this ♥️👍
@Mimi-wz4wi
3 жыл бұрын
Related to both of you in this chat. Its actually the second time I've watched this video now but I'd forgotten things I learnt about INFP vs INFJ from the first time round so it was handy to re-watch! Shame I can't like it more than once lol It's nice to know why I often feel quite different to others or like I don't want the same things as other more extraverted types who seem to be in the majority and appear to fit in to what society says is the "norm" without any trouble or confusion. It's nice to know we are not alone in feeling/wanting different. :)
@fatmahamdi3467
3 жыл бұрын
First time here and clicked coz of Joyce 😃
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Welcome Fatma - nice to meet you 🤙 Sean
@Dgn404
Жыл бұрын
Chores are so hard for me! I'm jealous that you got the attention of that circle of content producers. I am invisible to them ._.
@Alazsel
3 жыл бұрын
That was the worst ending ever, but I loved it anyway. I guess life is Ok, I just go on social media and talk/help to people but it still gets pretty lonely. This video was especially therapeutic about being a stranger's free therapist but enjoying it and getting nothing in return. Maybe I should be a counsellor but I enjoy being a research assistant, so I'm kinda happy with where I am right now.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Dude all my endings are typically bad...this one was pretty fun! How is one supposed to end it?? Yeah helping people is a great avenue for types like us, but if you are enjoying the Research Assistant stuff then just keep doing the free therapist stuff on the side. Never know where life will take us wandering types....
@Alazsel
3 жыл бұрын
@@INFPHD thank you Sir!
@4juan8
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INTJ but it's really great to know more about INFPs and their unexpected charisma and I think Fi can also be a creative tool for INTJ when we overuse Te or Ni...great video
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
What up Juan - pleasure to meet you sir! Yeah totally agree, and also why I thoroughly enjoy all things psychology. If you use the systems in a “healthy” way and not super box yourself in to be like “well I’m an INTJ..I can only do these things and my way is the best approach” then we have the ability to see further with other peoples perspectives. My main goal when interacting with people I come into contact with is to get past the surface level wall as fast as I can to a more interesting deeper level for myself and them to play in. However, if I talked to an INTJ the same way I would an INFP etc. that deeper level would be more elusive. INFPs are very skiddish and like to stay off the radar, but for those small few who they come to trust it’s a whole other world they are willing to show you. It’s funny, one of my peers at work is an engineer who I always enjoyed the company of for many years. He’s very monotone, and has a calming demeanor to him which just is a stark contrast to me - probably why I like him so much to balance me out. Well anyways, I don’t commonly throw out MBTI or my fascination with psychology cause people will commonly act weird after ( “oh what you’re reading my mind now!?!!?”), but we were at Applebee’s for lunch and I typed him INTP. He took the test and got INTJ (J % was pretty close to the line). Obviously he didn’t know what any of it meant, but I said “so here is we don’t understand each other so much - I’m a deep feeling person and you don’t care about people and their feelings (obviously you guys do, but you know what I mean). Without any hesitation from him he said “yeah I don’t give a crap about your feelings, just how to make more money” lol. But, yeah he’s one of my work favorites 😬 Sean
@4juan8
3 жыл бұрын
@@INFPHD Hey man thx for replying, you're right about not using mbti as fixed models because I always find more interesting and useful to see other person's perspective to learn about their mistakes and/or success and be able to "improve" ourselves I have not met a lot of INTJs but in my case I can say that I do care about feelings but I prefer not showing them at first but only for a few people that I know can understand, so I don't waste my time with everyone else Keep it up with this great content, Juan M.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah everyone does take into consideration feelings (unless a very unhealthy individual) so I wasn’t trying to say you don’t. It’s just like us INFPs with lead Fi to where we are automatically selfish people - not the case. Again, just depends on the level of “healthy” any type has within themselves. I knew he was completely serious in a bad sense, but was just funny how he kinda blurted it out. If he truly didn’t care about my feelings and stepped all over them I would not be talking about him so much in a positive light like I am currently. It’s just the intrigue with how people are naturally more driven - Lead Ni Te is no better or worse than Fi Ne - just different, and can be utilized in great, but different ways...
@4juan8
3 жыл бұрын
I think that because Fi is such an intimate part of ourselves and a very valuable one (at least for me), it is easier to pretend detachment from our emotions...but later you realize how useful Fi is for accomplishing your goals and connecting with unique people/moments
@TreasureSeasons
3 жыл бұрын
Perfectionism conversation resonated, this was comforting to hear.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
What up LIZA?! 🤪
@TreasureSeasons
3 жыл бұрын
@@INFPHD everything and nothing...I used to say that at work to ward off specifics 😂
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
You’re weird 😳🙃
@TreasureSeasons
3 жыл бұрын
@@INFPHD totally 💜
@TreasureSeasons
3 жыл бұрын
@@INFPHD Takes one to know one weirdo. Love to you. Always and in all ways ❤️
@JosiahMcCarthy
3 жыл бұрын
50:50 whoa, Sean, this is such a real difficulty in my life right now. Having to find and own my own interests and values, because if I don't it's like death, but then finding that "the tribe" or the people around me don't like those things, or realizing that I'm making myself lonely or cutting off potential friendships or life possibilities by "being true to myself," is a really difficult problem.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
100% Josh! Yeah man, for me I'm at an age now where I look back and "know" I gave up too much of my own personal individual happiness due to others opinions. It's easier to follow/ do things where many around you are also doing those things. However, to really chase individuality / authenticity that typically INFPs desire there is going to be many times where those around you in your everyday life don't understand (because they don't see it for themselves). It's like all those years of dabbling in things here and there, getting criticized, and giving up because of not wanting people to dislike me etc. I had like a long-term buildup to where around mid 30's I just was tired of it all and wanted to try the other route. You do face more judgment, you do need to more separate yourself from friends/ family who are downers etc. just to give yourself a chance. I wish I would have had the clarity and know how earlier to mentally overcome the critics and have better boundaries like I do now, but yeah for me I turn 40 next month and more excited about that decade of my life than any other one so far just due to continuing more consistently towards "what I want" and not what others want me to be doing with my life. It's not some clear planned out thing where I'm striving for some hard goal, but just following my gut with confidence and better ignoring the peanut galley is super exciting *do it sooner than later.... Sean
@fatmahamdi3467
3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys 💖😽😽😽😽💖💖💖: from an infp 💜
@turquoisepaws
3 жыл бұрын
That's cool wanna know what is u wearing
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
....backwards hat, blue shirt, zip up hoodie, and sweatpants
@matilda4406
3 жыл бұрын
you guys so cute
@sandradibiaso7316
3 жыл бұрын
There is no way this guy is an introverted personality type. He is loud like an ESTP.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
Introversion/ Extraversion has absolutely ZERO to do with how talkative, loud, or excited a person is as well the hardest letter for by me to type on a person initially. It’s the after time with how one recharges their batteries (alone or with more people). I assure you, I am actually heavily introverted... Sean
@sandradibiaso7316
3 жыл бұрын
@@INFPHD If you are an introvert then you must be loaded up on caffeine which brings out your ENFJ unconscious/shadow because INFPs are only loud when they are in their shadow/unconscious or subconscious or superego. Carl Jung explains the four corners of the mind and the four personalities of the mind due to the ego (who we are most of the time growing up) the unconscious which is our shadow (who we are when drinking alcohol or drinking caffeine and will make an introvert extroverted and an extrovert more introverted(), the subconscious (which is our aspiration and our polar opposite) and the superego is our demon which comes out when we are angry, fed up and not able to deal with a situation in our ego, subconscious and unconscious. Carl Jung's explanation of the four sides of the mind and Linda Berens's explanation of interactive styles are the only things I believe in when it comes to personalities.
@INFPHD
3 жыл бұрын
yes Sandra I am loaded on caffeine prior to all my videos (which I commonly make fun of myself for) which again, before making a judgment, there are other sides to watch for or take into possible account with this stuff and not knowing the other person. Video editing, sharing, helping other’s etc (KZitem) came to be a passion / creative outlet for me the past 3 years. I’ve studying MBTI, psychology, etc for the past 15 years or so. Yes, I know who CS is amongst all the other big MBTI KZitemrs as that’s the niche I am in. CS is knowledgeable but it’s just one perspective. There are others who I flock to more for knowledge as his delivery style isn’t so much for me. Also I talk very much of my work life which I’ve led more stressful ESTJ roles. As INFPs (or any type) we can do anything anyone else can do. It incurs more stress from the preferred INFP preferences, but it doesn’t mean an INFP can’t talk in front of people or again…do anything anyone else can. I’m also 40 years old where I have had a large part of my life to harness / understand the craziness that comes with being an INFP to where most who are younger (including my younger self) will lack confidence etc to do the harder / scarier stuff in life. Since being on KZitem for 3 years I have been typed 10 different types which in my opinion is “a good thing” because it shows how much hard work I have put into my shadow functions etc. I one presents very stereotypical to a type to me it shows they like comfort which is not the best way to grow oneself. So everyone is obviously up for their own opinion, but after a video is filmed there is much more time people do not see with how a KZitemr navigates their life. When an INFP is inspired they tend to get excited and very chatty. When we are not inspired generally we are pretty dull and go into low points. KZitem is simply “my creative passion” for which the excited / yelling transpires from for short bursts of time while filming. I am personally confident with the years of trying to understand myself (my whole life) that within the MBTI system my preferences lay with the INFP personality type. Do I go through my days and work requirements as a stereotypical INFP….no, as I would not be as successful in things. When people use MBTI to sit in the preferences tightly they limit experiences they will have in life. “Do what is hard, your life will be easy. Do what is easy, your life will be hard.” *one of my favorite life quotes that I believe to be true. Sean
@sandradibiaso7316
3 жыл бұрын
I am going to have CS Joseph watch your videos. CS Joseph is an ENTP and he knows a lot about the 16 Personalities, Carl Jung's theory on the four sides of the mind and Linda Berens' theory on interactive styles. CS Joseph has a KZitem channel. CS Joseph will be able to tell that you are in your ENFJ unconscious due to caffeine consumption to be this loud and boisterous as an INFP. Caffeine like alcohol alters our personality.
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