This guy is so cool.... He even making the stranger comfortable while talking
@stockyguru
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like Jon Jones
@ghamouriamine2186
2 жыл бұрын
@@stockyguru man, I was about to say it.
@ancientbehemoth6448
2 жыл бұрын
That girl was hilarius "Do you sell girls on the black market?" and she kept going... :D :D :D Killing it every time. :D :D :D
@ChicagoScorpion
Жыл бұрын
She wasn't really feeling him tbh. Her one armed hug and her shit testing him was proof of that.
@flake6057
Жыл бұрын
@@ChicagoScorpionbruh what are u even saying
@deancampbellwinchester4910
10 ай бұрын
Racism, bro :/
@elim02
7 ай бұрын
@@ChicagoScorpionshe was wary of him. She seemed to be questioning his motives, which is understandable. It doesn’t mean much.
@andrebaxter4023
2 ай бұрын
She was testing him and he passed. She definitely liked him. Even complimented his chest.
@BigIIndo
2 жыл бұрын
The one girl is hilarious giving him a whole interview she was really interested trying to make sure he’s a good do giving him all these FBI questions😭😭😭😂😂😂💀
@epicgameryt4052
2 жыл бұрын
19:37 this guy was so cool!! he was helping him out, asking him very genuine questions and everyone just got more comfortable. let's go!
@triplemoyagames4195
Жыл бұрын
It's a universal bro code
@anouschkatsk1
Жыл бұрын
Ikr. You can literally see them changing
@SoLaRiS123
3 жыл бұрын
You are genuinely a gem to this platform. I am actually kind of surprised you don't have more subscribers. Anyway Keep it going man!
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support, means a lot and is very encouraging to hear :) thank you!
@mahyargharehdaghi9383
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree! :)
@slyfurz
2 жыл бұрын
Super underrated, this channel will be big one day!
@IamINERT
2 жыл бұрын
@@slyfurz He is definitely going to blow this year
@truealpha718
2 жыл бұрын
yhh
@martinnicolasjuan
2 жыл бұрын
Ruben is the Hitch in a society where dating apps and social media has taken over
@mahirg4762
6 ай бұрын
So spot on man. They both really fill a huge void in society.
@SpiritualMain99
Жыл бұрын
As someone who has high levels of social anxiety(disorder), I would really like to participate in this. This channel really motivates me to face my fears of approaching beautiful women
@fchopin9043
Жыл бұрын
I totally agree I really want to do this but it always seems so intimidating, with just anyone in general!
@sashaman1234
Жыл бұрын
Expect it to be, then tell yourself the more nervous you are doing it, the greater the accomplishment!
@deagle7602
Жыл бұрын
it's intimidating for everyone. I'd say go for it. I've seen many other videos on this channel. Some people have stutters and they don't let that stop them from trying.
@musiccreators6683
Жыл бұрын
Imagine them as a sibling or a friend u talk to comfortably whenever ur approaching
@mrpsycholeojoey87
2 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite dudes who is relatable by being down to earth. After a few rough starts, he finished the video very strong. I like when he talk to the cute big eye girl at the bench who was testing him, but he handle himself quite well around her. My favorite interaction is him being the life of the party by talking to the dude with the ladies. If he didn't get in good with the dude, it could have went left where the dude might have said what you are doing talking to my girls. I like how he showed respect to the big group by making everyone feel included. I hope he comes back because he was one of your best students by being receptive to your feedback. God Bless.
@thim0
4 ай бұрын
The dude at 18:00 was really chill. Respect to him for handling it so well.
@BlackEra
2 жыл бұрын
When she was asking him all those questions whether he’s a creep, does human trafficking ,has kids , married etc. i personally would’ve said “All the above” lmaoooo
@Paveldude
3 жыл бұрын
One of the best ones yet! A lot of wisdom in this video
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
:) thank you, anything you liked in particular?
@jasond626
2 жыл бұрын
@@socialanimal there were a lot of take away things.. talk like they are a friend, don't try and use some line and dress things up etc.
@elim02
7 ай бұрын
The girl with the tattoo was cool asf. Those are the kind of social interactions I look forward to getting but never get smh.
@AramideSalako48
2 жыл бұрын
Can totally relate! I've always been an introvert. I don't go out much, except when it's necessary. I've been working my confidence up the past few weeks though. I asked a girl out at my workplace and she ended up reporting me for it. I didn't want that to deflate me, so I asked for another lady's Ig, and she gave me. I've been sent off for the first incident though, and I kinda feel like a badass. I am only waiting to get back to school to get girls digits. I already understand that being rejected doesn't mean you are a loser. You just gotta keep going till you get your first Yes.
@planetxtk7567
2 жыл бұрын
Yea that sucks that you got fired. But the yes was good. Keep doing it! Unless you find one you really like and want to stick with only them.
@martytrades7362
2 жыл бұрын
Bro you don't shit where you eat. Getting girls at your workplace is never a good idea because that puts you in a vulnerable position. You should learn from that since you got fired. I suggest you subscribe to the channel "THE MAN MINDSET" He helps so much with game
@rrsp7148
2 жыл бұрын
Yo mate, never date someone who is in your workplace, like school, workplace./or someone who has personal business link with you.
@mexican_wbc9946
2 жыл бұрын
@@rrsp7148 what if u naturally connected with them while working with them
@DededeHero
Жыл бұрын
Dodged bullet. This is why Men are afraid to approach women
@rickyanderson6101
2 жыл бұрын
Hes literally a Dababy lookalike😂
@wiikends
2 жыл бұрын
Liked the group interaction. Do have to say that when a girl mentions social instead of a number don't argue it.
@yaboikillermemestar5665
2 жыл бұрын
21:46 Bro got the squad wipe hahaha
@heinrichvonkleist2801
3 жыл бұрын
Really liked the thoughts you shared! Next big challenge: Approaching a big group of only guys
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
Soon :) maybe it will be you :) I don’t know if I already asked you but where are you located ?
@davidquintanilla9330
2 жыл бұрын
Lol for some reason I think approaching guys is wayy harder
@jutsu712
2 жыл бұрын
@@davidquintanilla9330 nha guys its easier , we know how rejection is like so we are more open
@sixtee9cancer
2 жыл бұрын
I think this is a good platform to encourage more social interaction in person. There is a few things this shows about woman, 1. They are dying to be approached 2. The internet has made humans socially awkward and 3. Although I grew up in the era when we had to cold approach it has its pros and cons. The cons being when you ask a girl for her number your basically asking to be put on her roster. I like the suggestion of asking her to hang out
@johnsampson6387
Жыл бұрын
Literally like 99% of the people on these videos are software engineers I've noticed 😂😂😂
@keysersoze5032
Жыл бұрын
nerdy guys without social skills. They have enough money to support the girls tho
@samar1462
2 ай бұрын
wow the end conversation was just so wholesome dude!!! love it!
@stevenking4617
2 жыл бұрын
Ooooh what he said at the beginning is so relatable, the impulse of "don't be like other guys" or "don't be a typical guy." That's a big deal for me, always needing to be the polite gentleman who doesn't go for it. Makes me sick lately. And ladies, you ain't gotta be like that. If there's no threat, do society a favor and take the compliments. ❤️❤️
@v.dafool8603
Жыл бұрын
The chick in green was LOOKING at broo
@malik2363
Жыл бұрын
Surprised no one else caught on.
@amccarroll
Жыл бұрын
Rubens jokea always crack me up 'you can be dressed sharp looking cool.. or you can be wearing a crappy outfit' I feel this comes back to his theme of treating someone like a friend, you would only make this kind of comment if you knew someone well and felt very comfortable around them
@socialanimal
Жыл бұрын
:) can you remind me the timestamp on that one?
@jeliaroischers8983
3 жыл бұрын
he killed it!, 21:46 can't believe he got all their numbers
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
He did ;) what a beautiful moment ;)
@ravem302
2 жыл бұрын
In the last conversation the girl in lady dress was interested since the first sight. She was like "oh my!" looking at him when he arrives.
@stockyguru
2 жыл бұрын
I know lol he went for the wrong girl 😅
@mackblack5153
Жыл бұрын
This guy just needed a little push. He has everything. The look, the charisma, the physique, etc. He simply was a victim of how feminists destroyed the mind of girls when it comes to guys approaching them. Happy he found the courage to go get it instead of overthinking it.
@saltator8565
Жыл бұрын
They made it a bad thing to even interact with women you don't know
@bdndella69
2 жыл бұрын
his energy is something else man may God bless him
@beemmeupscotty5993
3 жыл бұрын
I like his vibe a lot!!
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
;)
@__Trut.h__
2 жыл бұрын
The way he finesed it from instagram to the number# is insane
@DominickSpano
2 жыл бұрын
I have to say Ruben's feedback and tips are great. As what I would call the host he makes this show.
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
I would hope I am not useless :))))
@DominickSpano
2 жыл бұрын
@@socialanimal Far from it. Just finishing up basically all of the videos. Such a good find here.
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
@@DominickSpano I was joking :) I can see you are enjoying the videos, thank you for commenting and supporting bro ;)
@paulshelkov7956
2 жыл бұрын
Wow the way he vibed with that group was stellar.
@michaelbeasley1386
Жыл бұрын
i absolutely love this guys style where these broads are like i'll give you my Social Media and hes like nah fuck that give me your number. I like it dude!
@unknowndummy9387
2 жыл бұрын
Dude I have been inspired by this series! I definitely wanna start approaching women I find interesting/attractive from now on!
@jakehamilton9247
2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. Definitely going to start working on that.
@MaddenStar07
2 жыл бұрын
Start treating it like a video game 😂😂😂
@POWERMINDS747
11 ай бұрын
The Nigerian version of DaBaby! 😂😂😂
@MastaSplinta
2 жыл бұрын
That ain't Da Baby thats my baby 🤣
@neoreign
2 жыл бұрын
eyoooooooooooooooooo hahaha the nigerian dbaby
@joebond545
2 жыл бұрын
That group interaction was pretty specialist
@vonkunstler884
10 ай бұрын
I love to see the awkward energy in the group change into a friendly convo where everyone is vibing 👏
@jordanscott6204
Жыл бұрын
At first when I heard them say “The boldness is really cool” I thought they said “The baldness is really cool” 🤣
@jn5171
2 жыл бұрын
Nigeria nor dey carry last.. The confidence is in-built!
@CoachCee
3 жыл бұрын
Good to see him taking action!
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
:)
@oceanntye5678
Жыл бұрын
Honestly the girl with the green plaid dress seemed super interested in bro 😂
@mohammedsadeysalmi
2 жыл бұрын
Delete those fkn apps and revert back to the ways of thousands of years where people just talked. Nobodys parents ever met through a dating app. Dating apps and social media are killing human interaction and props to coach Reuben for the resurrection.
@obeyhansolo
2 жыл бұрын
This video deserves way more views ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
:) thank you for the support!!!!
@nailuj237
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤨check out 21:29 . Who else did notice the magical connection of these two girls? They communicated wordless about the camera filming them!! Everytime so magical what women are capable of. Crazyy. Cool video by the way. I love this channel. I think it's helping me. Lots of greetings from germany!! 🥰😃
@jasond626
2 жыл бұрын
Great video man.. Over of my favourites.. this guy after the first intersection was flying.. he was very calm, natural, listened to what you said.. there was a lot of great advice and wise words from him at the end.. I think he said think after and be present now.. Powerful stuff man. I like how her noticed something genuine about them, gave a compliment, nice blouse, pink clothes, that girl was hot, just my type but too young really for my age.. The interaction with the group order people was actually quite touching tbh, how you all connected and you got an invite to the music, plus all there contact info and the guy giving you respect.. I did think the girl was his gf and I was thinking, Woh, how's this going to go.. But it all worked out well. I feel like me watching these videos is like its seeping into my brain that it's ok and do it.. like osmosis or being Mr meeyageed (from karate kid, wax on wax off)..ie it got into your brain without you realising it trying to. Nice one guys
@rt_gng
2 жыл бұрын
My take-away, treat them as you would your friend(s)✊
@polar5631
Жыл бұрын
Exactly this! You treat your friends as equals, and that is how you should approach a girl!
@riptomydeadhomies
2 жыл бұрын
The girl with the pink was really cool I hope you hung out with her
@humptydumpty6411
3 жыл бұрын
I would love to do a coaching session with you. Shame i’m in London. For now I shall just enjoy all these videos that you’re putting out. I appreciate you, thank you for these great educational videos.
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
bro :) I am gonna be in London by September, shoot me an email at ruben@socialanimal.us and lets make it happen :)
@BlackDRagin21
2 жыл бұрын
The one thing I notice when the girls or just from my experience as well is when you walk up and just start talking rather than introduce yourself. This again could just be me. Just what I've found works well is saying hello insert name. Get there's and allows to break the touch barrier as well. Honestly really great seeing guys break out more and approach women. It is hard bc of all the things you here. It makes guys standoffish and for good reason, but it can be done and many ppl actually like someone to talk with them in person.
@KhalidTahour-ig7mv
3 ай бұрын
The Chill version of Dababy😂
@Goonroon23
2 ай бұрын
😂
@alvindhlamini2953
2 жыл бұрын
One of those rare KZitem channels 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Melo7_Melody
Жыл бұрын
This guy has a masculine voice naturally 🔥
@Vestu
Жыл бұрын
In the middle of catcalling and not talking there's genuine, considerate communication
@advicewithbryce4902
3 жыл бұрын
Hopefully he went with them for the live music!
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
:)
@axkkxa2252
2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this guy
@ph1265
2 жыл бұрын
Shawty at 8:10 had great energy hahah
@zbridgjpxupzm
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks to your videos I got over the approach anxiety quickly. the real challenge is texting and going on dates...
@cosmoscloud121
Жыл бұрын
Real Talk. Feels like it needs a situation to approach to gain trust to hop in and interact w/o being akward. If u r abroad its always much easier imho, cuz u get the foreigner bonus. Challenging is to continue after rejection. But missed opportunities feels much worst, so always go for it and try- nothing to loose! Even if it feels like loosing confidence at first, it feel strenghten it.
@jujuinator
2 жыл бұрын
16:43 that car pulled up like FBI
@abhimendhe6785
2 жыл бұрын
Hey Ruben, how is it going man.. I am from India. I have recently started watching your videos. I'll have to say, this one is one of the best. The pieces of advices that you gave after each interaction were like gold-dust. It has completely changed my perspective of looking at a conversation, specially the one that you gave at around 6:40 minutes in the video. I am going to apply that going forward and I am sure its going to yield good results. I'll keep you posted.
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro ;) happy you enjoy it, and if I come to India would you be down to do the challenge? :) where in India are you ?
@abhimendhe6785
2 жыл бұрын
@@socialanimal I live in the city of Bhopal, the capital of the state of Madhya Pradesh, right in the central part of the country. Yes ofcourse bro, I am all prepared to take up the challenge, your physical presence is going to take my confidence level sky-high. Its a matter of great honour for me that you have responded to my post and I am really excited to learn that you have put forward this proposition of coming to India. I heartily welcome you brother 😊
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
@@abhimendhe6785 I would love to come :) shoot me an email at ruben@socialaninal.us and we'll make it happen. Might take a few months but lets do it :)
@g.ksiwiti7262
2 жыл бұрын
Nice, you know I watch this and think to myself that I can do it , but when I get to go out it’s a different story, I just can’t the anxiety
@michealrecebba8559
2 жыл бұрын
I see how he getting everybody's number, he looks a little bit like Da baby but with no hair with 🕶️😎🤣
@slyfurz
2 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favourites, always a great experience for the subscriber, and quality content
@timmsatori9330
2 жыл бұрын
bro this takes more than just balls. awesome :)
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
lol, where are you located? Come on the channel :)
@durodesduvo8424
7 ай бұрын
Watching him become acquainted with that group was actually _climactic._ Why am I impressed by a _human_ socializing with other _humans?_ 🙄
@magman93
2 жыл бұрын
wow enjoyed this, the man is so genuine and down to earth
@authenticlines
3 жыл бұрын
Great video. Loved the vibe he brought to the group at the end!
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
yea it was so cool :)
@bigdrip270
2 жыл бұрын
5:15 her friend is interested
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
that look :)
@diegonor4556
2 жыл бұрын
this is a nice perception, better try to talk well with all the friends because in these situations you could have gone out with the friend
@stockyguru
2 жыл бұрын
True 👀
@vivi-ni4fs
2 жыл бұрын
Dont stop man, if ever you have a chance to go to the Philippines. I would love to be a part of this challenge
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
I would love to come, shoot me an email at ruben@socialanimal.us, let’s make it happen :)
@n1jozi
Жыл бұрын
I clicked on this vid, cuz' I thought dababy was in the thumbnail lmfao🤣
@chibuezendiokwelu63
Жыл бұрын
Big ups man to what u are doing for guys. I myself have real anxiety talking to strangers especially pretty girls but watching this video made me realize that it isn't all that big of a deal. And I love the feedback you gave chuma was real helpful, I would apply them when next I meet someone I want to talk to.
@riptomydeadhomies
2 жыл бұрын
You should take a guy with anxiety disorder and try this. Would probably motivate a lot of your viewers. Dude seems nice though.
@ajay-pq8tg
Жыл бұрын
Watching these vids kinda calibrate my social compass. Like i have a (percieved) bad interaction and this just sorts it out a bit
@MrXxMafiaxX11
Жыл бұрын
Chuma know that coffee ain’t have no milk & sugar😂😂 . It was black just like how she like here men lmfaoooo. Hella props to you chuma!!💯
@emaan7023
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone on here is a software engineer lol
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
Lol just a few out of about 60 people, pretty wide spectrum of background actually
@emaan7023
2 жыл бұрын
@@socialanimal okay :)
@BigIIndo
2 жыл бұрын
He should’ve gone for that one brunette in the group of friends you could see as soon as he came over her eyes went straight to him and she immediately snatched up for dat drink and started sipping while staring at him checking him out
@stockyguru
2 жыл бұрын
I know lol the brunettes are into him.Just like the first convo lol 5.15 part
@orlandoflores72
2 жыл бұрын
He got charisma and womans pick that quick.
@ryanchipir2884
2 жыл бұрын
lm also shocked you dont have more subscribers your channel has a different vibe. STAY COOL!!!
@AmanullahPhulpotoVlogs
2 жыл бұрын
from the first interaction to last,this dude turned into a beast 😍😍😍
@mamadoubah5690
2 жыл бұрын
I love watching your KZitem videos because i am having this same problem. Eg i will go out for a day without talking to anyone one for entire day.
@Ed-fj6yz
3 жыл бұрын
Great video man, keep them coming!
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you :) anything you liked in particular ?
@Ed-fj6yz
3 жыл бұрын
@@socialanimal The whole concept itself, I think it’s amazing to encourage socializing. Do you have instagram?
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
thank you :) no I don't have instagram
@Ed-fj6yz
3 жыл бұрын
@@socialanimal Aw man, it would be nice to contact you some how
@socialanimal
3 жыл бұрын
Shoot me an email at ruben@socialanimal.us
@antonirabkowski6508
2 жыл бұрын
Good energy
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
:)
@nicholasnewman4572
Жыл бұрын
im so addicted to these videos
@OG_Rider
2 жыл бұрын
That girls’ questions were crazy.
@maddgun
2 жыл бұрын
A little bit more polish and this dude will slay it
@chigozieokoro1833
Жыл бұрын
omg is that my brother lmaooo
@Fyrecide
2 жыл бұрын
If you ever come to Florida, specifically the Tampa area, can I help you help people? I dig what you’re doing and I’ve definitely been there when I was a teenager but I’ve long since learned to ignore all that nervousness or awkwardness because they’re just people like you. They have no power over you.
@neoreign
2 жыл бұрын
How does this channel not have more subs?
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
you are here now, everyone else will come
@luvmuzzik811
2 жыл бұрын
I love these challenges . Ruben man, this is awesome. Opportunities r presenting emselves n this introvert is turning into cool animal.
@godfreychitosik.3148
2 жыл бұрын
Was amazing watching this....I think I should jump into it
@bryan5327
2 жыл бұрын
I commend all of these guys because they're at least trying and going for it. Better than the ones too scared to do it (including me 😄, but i want to shoot my shot as well)
@cryptofierce7431
2 жыл бұрын
Undercover Tyrone
@tidepodchips244
2 жыл бұрын
From Jidion
@hornyxanax7699
2 жыл бұрын
This guy is a beast….
@delay6160
17 күн бұрын
The guy on 13:28 looks so alike robert california from the office lmaooo
@giants73568
2 жыл бұрын
I’m tryna see Ruben get out there 💪🏾
@socialanimal
2 жыл бұрын
:) I am in all the earlier videos of the channel and most recently in the first episode of the last Miami series :)
@philipskabelen5333
Жыл бұрын
Pingky girl was amazing
@alantoney7005
10 ай бұрын
Which why i don't get incells they don't take chances to talk to women in life if you' want something gotta go for it
@tiki4rafiki390
10 ай бұрын
19:45 Wow... The brunette is my dream girl type, seemingly conservative, absolutely beautiful! She reminds me of Linda Cardellini in her youth, in Freaks and Geeks.
@tiki4rafiki390
10 ай бұрын
IG?
@planetxtk7567
2 жыл бұрын
Bro when sexy music like Partynextdoor is playing in the background you have an OBLIGATION to approach the girls you want. No matter how much of a chance you feel you have. It’s the right thing to do just for the experience. Almost like dancing when music comes on. You HAVE to.
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