*She wanted to be the first one to post any content so she'd get views. That's the truth. She didn't want to post after because she feared people wouldn't click hers once others posted whatever content they had. It was tacky. Glad she got called out for it. Zero respect. Her excuse was literally "well other people might be doing it so why can't I?"* 😂 *What an absolute joke.*
@IMFJP82075
3 ай бұрын
Absolutely. She's so thirsty for views/attention/ clout that she made sure to post her content, even before the bride & groom could post theirs. She also made the whole day about HERSELF - eye f*cking herself while standing in the middle of the aisle filming a boomerang for IG 🤨🤬
@ms.anonymous5323
3 ай бұрын
its like saying others are klling others why can't i like the excuse wasn't excusing
@zoolayuh3637
3 ай бұрын
@@ms.anonymous5323
@AM-gt1yt
3 ай бұрын
100%
@nealaxr2000
3 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯 never heard of her before so it worked
@VictoriaGonzalez-v5y
3 ай бұрын
8:55 she kept saying she drove 3 hours like they should be appreciative of her coming cause she drove so long 💀
@Mariah9_
3 ай бұрын
I’m sure she couldn’t have been the only one that traveled far just to attend their wedding 🤦🏻♀️
@kimmyt1024
3 ай бұрын
It’s giving “I did you a favour” vibes
@funnymonkey012345678
3 ай бұрын
3 hours aint nothing either
@elleash3040
3 ай бұрын
Driving 3 hours is literally LA to Palm Springs with traffic. 😂
@cptemilie
3 ай бұрын
Right. I drive 3 hours twice a week and have for 5 years now just to see my bf. It really isn’t that much of a hassle to drive lol
@japansace
3 ай бұрын
Referring to a wedding as “content” is wiiiiiiiiiild. Some people’s brains are truly broken.
@ashleycouncil
3 ай бұрын
Why does the drive time matter? She brought it up twice
@biblestudybaddie
3 ай бұрын
it doesn’t tbh she’s just trying so hard to excuse what she did just to make herself feel better
@sir.snuggleton
3 ай бұрын
Narcissist behavior
@ashleycouncil
3 ай бұрын
@@biblestudybaddie right….it went from 4 hours to 3 hours haha…silly.
@toffiet3347
3 ай бұрын
Cause she was inconvinceinced so she needed to make money off them and why is everyone mad shes right pathetic /s
@elleash3040
3 ай бұрын
3 hours in LA traffic could be 5 miles
@lillsann5948
3 ай бұрын
It’s really disappointing that she couldn’t even follow their simple rule of it being an Unplugged wedding. I don’t understand why she couldn’t wait a couple days until Kouvr and Alex were able to post their OWN wedding content first.
@frankief1142
3 ай бұрын
Unfortunately many people do not follow that rule. I got married in November and made it clear to our guests multiple times leading up to the wedding and at the wedding (had a sign and our officiant made an announcement before we started) and unfortunately there were many guests I saw as I was walking down the aisle with their phones out. I was so upset.
@lydia4179
3 ай бұрын
It’s not that disappointing when you already expect this from Lilah, this is literally who she is. I’m not entirely sure why they invited her and didn’t expect this.. Then she gets called out and blames It on people being transphobic.
@pettybee3860
3 ай бұрын
Her ego is MASSIVE. Everyone else followed the rules. You want the bride or groom to TEXT YOU? What the hell is wrong with her?
@Starbuxlvr1313
3 ай бұрын
She’s always all about herself
@katelynholmes9504
3 ай бұрын
Right they’re on their honeymoon wth
@anitavee659
3 ай бұрын
“I’m sorry, but I also drove 3-4 hours to be celebrate you guys… “ girl that’s not an apology 💀
@katelynholmes9504
3 ай бұрын
FR. “How I show my affection” but the person didn’t give a whit about what the couple wanted
@marcoagorozco
3 ай бұрын
She drove 4 hours to recode it. She knew better and her bs about no rule book is just crazy. Its normal wedding etiquette to note make someones wedding about themselves. Oh and f her for trying to shift people to trans rights and use them as a way to take the heat off her. That was pathetic.
@jordynniccole7434
3 ай бұрын
I agree! I'm all for trans rights, but that was a slimy intro to that. You wanna talk about trans rights make a separate post about it, nothing to do with this situation or brushing off the criticism. That isnt the time or place. And as a trans person herself, she should be ashamed. She's taking away from both conversations by trying to change the subject. You cannot combine those topics in one post, its not right and comes off badly. If you truly want to make a difference with trans rights, use your dam platform correctly.
@SeethingSimp
3 ай бұрын
"she" hahaha
@m.z1256
3 ай бұрын
@@SeethingSimp wtf
@des1993
3 ай бұрын
@@SeethingSimp living up to your username
@98dannyj
3 ай бұрын
She is pathetic
@honeyg1018
3 ай бұрын
She didn’t respect the couple. She isn’t a friend.
@Moni31909
3 ай бұрын
As soon as she said "yes I drove 4 hours to get there" like why? I already knew this was not going to be a genuine apology
@jadeemen9105
3 ай бұрын
jeez, to be all "you cant hate me im trans!" is insane
@JessicaJmoney
3 ай бұрын
Yeah the fact that she just randomly threw that out there …like girl bye.
@jadeemen9105
3 ай бұрын
@@JessicaJmoney its the same mentality of "there are starving children in africa!". just immature manipulation meant to make you feel bad
@Mn_catmom
3 ай бұрын
“I’ve always been self absorbed.” 🤣
@charmcatcher5806
3 ай бұрын
“12 years old with my big ass iPad” WHAT does that have to do with anything
@BrandonJames2016
3 ай бұрын
Influencers not being able to clout chase impossible challenge. Like that is so disrespectful there were clear rules about no phones or cameras but clearly she didn’t care. Cause she wanted her content and make it all about her experience at the wedding like it’s not about you it’s about the bride and groom that is wild. Best believe I would’ve have the argument with this person if I was the bride or groom. The way she says “UnForTunAteLy i VlOggEd iT” like no you chose to do it and ignore the rules.
@Peachiie_Keen
3 ай бұрын
I've never seen someone take a picture in the actual aisle. That's just wild. And it's an influencer wedding, so you know they probably had these cute little setups for pictures around the wedding venue..
@xett404
3 ай бұрын
how can someone possibly make a wedding about themselves im screaming
@KK-jl9sz
3 ай бұрын
My mil posted pictures of mine and hubs wedding before we did. It was just as unacceptable as this! Is it not COMMON SENSE that you don't post somebody else's moment?????
@thebumpercar1344
3 ай бұрын
LMAO one of my aunties posted pictures of a cousin's wedding WHILE THE WEDDING WAS GOING ON. She was so surprised pikachu when she got snubbed at the next family reunion.
@cicadabreath
3 ай бұрын
All she had to say was she's sorry and she should have waited until after the bride and groom posted their wedding to post her point of view. Her explanation was so long and unnecessary.
@sweetlove3391
3 ай бұрын
Even if they weren't upset. They told the guests to put their phones down. How could they ever agree to have put it on internet (without filming them)
@Vesperrv
3 ай бұрын
She quite literally did not even have drag trans issues into this.... Like apologize and move on but like as a trans person myself that felt so like red herring. I dont know anything about this lady if she is trans or not, I won't assume. But it's just like idk, just yea it is an issue, but, it's not THE issue that you set up your camera to talk about.
@ladyhexton3773
3 ай бұрын
That’s her go to in every situation. Anything that doesn’t go her way or anyone who questions her actions she claims is transphobic. It’s so annoying
@Vesperrv
3 ай бұрын
@@ladyhexton3773 ah, I see...so she is one of those types of people. Sounds like she is a perpetual victim.
@dreamourdestiny
3 ай бұрын
she was reaching for any defense she could because she knew she didn’t have anything
@paoosorio9997
3 ай бұрын
She kept saying she drove 3 hours during the explanation/apology?! as if that makes up for her behaviour during the ceremony
@TheSupart91
3 ай бұрын
Only way to fix it....... She share her revenue from those vlogs
@kaylabecker13
3 ай бұрын
that "apology" sounded very similar to jeffree star's couch "apology" trying to redirect the audience
@brienamarie
3 ай бұрын
Lilah looks so much like the other mother in Coraline. Fitting for a villain.
@someonesgoat9011
3 ай бұрын
It sounds like she didn’t even apologize to them directly via text or call.. thats so strange. Why would you not do that?
@amy_dsc
3 ай бұрын
Im sorry but I drived for 8 hours for a wedding, that means nothing when u care for someone. Shes just disrespectful
@ashleyesparza895
3 ай бұрын
The moment I heard Brooke talk about Lila being disrespectful to the jet crew and how they had to teach her that you can’t just talk to people in a disrespectful manner is when I came to the conclusion I didn’t like that girl.
@jorjadeath1472
3 ай бұрын
a) no public apology to the bride and groom who expressed they weren't happy only "i wish they'd text me" and b) "I drove 4 hours" okay? you could've walked 2 mins to the wedding you still did the universally disrespectful thing of POSTING THE ENTIRE WEDDING BEFORE THE BRIDE AND GROOM
@jordanbraidwood
3 ай бұрын
there’s no explanation that can justify posting that wedding vlog. none.
@sydniet8406
3 ай бұрын
they definitely should’ve had a wedding for family and close friends only not literally every tiktoker/influencer.
@qxxnvlog2685
3 ай бұрын
Also bro who cares if you drove 3-4 hours?!? We had people from different countries and across the US to come to our wedding its not about you its about the bride and groom.
@theducksass5614
3 ай бұрын
“my way of showing gratitude and love for anybody” is by punching people in their face and that is something I’ll never apologize for, being myself! Now don’t worry about me, look at all the other fucked up shit in the world! It’s worse! Ok bye! Solid logic.
@katq1380
3 ай бұрын
Shes giving Coraline other mother
@NaughtWrite
3 ай бұрын
Maybe we need to start teaching etiquette again because dear god. Plus the amount of gaslighting in this “apology” is crazy. Definitely pick me vibes
@ayleeebvby
3 ай бұрын
1000%
@karlyndeberry8991
3 ай бұрын
I think her response made it so much worse!! Sooo much gaslighting woah! To then blame the couple and say you wish that they would have privately messaged you😅
@laurens1002
3 ай бұрын
3:05 her nose job tho... 🥴
@HalfNHalf.
3 ай бұрын
Not surprised the trans person made someone else’s intimate moment all about themselves.
@isabellsauce7320
3 ай бұрын
The friends nose is giving Voldemort
@zoekrishel6677
3 ай бұрын
“EPISKEY’ 😂😂😂😂
@Catbeantoes
3 ай бұрын
It looks like it’s collapsing :(
@jray5907
3 ай бұрын
I have no clue who any of these people are but that's the biggest clout chaser I've seen lol I would be soooo mad if anyone posted my wedding before I did.
@Rexyyrex
3 ай бұрын
Well she won't be invited to another wedding again lol
@rxfaella
3 ай бұрын
the way i was watching their wedding tiktoks when i got this notification…
@moongoddess5550
3 ай бұрын
I was literally just researching the drama on TikTok LOL
@sarahm8657
3 ай бұрын
I don't have any kind of following online other than friends and family, and when i got married last year, and I even had a friend ask if i was okay with her posting pictures since I hadn't yet. I didn't even care but it was literally a basic consideration.
@Knouk25
3 ай бұрын
I can’t be the only one that’s tired of this perpetual victim complex that some people in this generation have, she didn’t have to mention the anti trans laws and only did so to deflect from taking accountability it’s so draining…
@vermon1112
3 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but that chick gives off the other mother vibes both inside and out.
@Banghai_ZA
3 ай бұрын
There is a difference between taking a couple photos & videos at a wedding to enjoy it, but a full documentary is not cool 😅
@wolfordclay
3 ай бұрын
I literally said out loud, “of course it was Lila” she usually waits months to upload her videos after she films them.
@AKbaby89
3 ай бұрын
Why would anyone ever do that to their nose😮 can she even breathe?!
@mychannel8809
3 ай бұрын
Not surprised to hear this about lilah..
@serenideehope
3 ай бұрын
Lyla doesn't look well...idk how to say it nicely but she looks really thin. Also if TANA unfriended her.... I also hate it when influencers use the old "there's so many other things in the world to worry about " like there's room to be mad at many things. 😂
@pinkblossom1516
3 ай бұрын
She is like Jeffrey star daughter or something 😂🤣 I don’t know why I remembered him when I first saw her
@thebumpercar1344
3 ай бұрын
If she really thinks that talking about trans rights is more important than talking about a wedding, WHY ISN'T SHE MAKING CONTENT ABOUT TRANS RIGHTS???
@Knouk25
3 ай бұрын
She only cares about those issues when it’s time to deflect and avoid taking accountability 🤷🏽♀️
@jjj9095
3 ай бұрын
He wants people to forget hes a man.
@hair.goblinnn
3 ай бұрын
"That's how I show my love, monetizing special occasions." This is like taking their wedding video and posting it before them, and saying it's a gift or on their behalf. Just wait to post (figured that's common courtesy) or even better (like the sign said) live in the moment!
@claireandclaws
3 ай бұрын
Entitled raptor.
@darthvadersmom1192
3 ай бұрын
skeleton hun scared me
@ClementineShmementine
3 ай бұрын
9:06 woah- no idea who she is but canning valley- and why is content creator has to be the only job they can work through someone else’s wedddinh
@ms.anonymous5323
3 ай бұрын
i would take pictures but then if there are photographer i wouldn't even take a pic because i would be too busy enjoying my time there.
@avshrader
3 ай бұрын
Ok I haven’t seen Lyla since she was hanging out with Tana and I certainly don’t want to body shame but is she ok? She’s so much thinner than she used to be and she was very thin then. 😬 It’s so ridiculous that they even had to have a sign and even that couldn’t be respected.
@SABRINALUTION
3 ай бұрын
this is so sad :( their wedding looked so sweet, it's so disappointing that a "friend" would do this.
@petergriffiinbirdistheword
3 ай бұрын
I wasn't planning on watching this but when I scrolled, you started sipping tea and I knew I had to watch. 😂
@Tamara_rs45
3 ай бұрын
Why did she said how much she drove until she got to the wedding? It sounds like she's saying - well, since i took my precious time and money to be there, you have to repay me with content. Sociopathic behavior...
@CSunflowrr
3 ай бұрын
Seems like a narcissist. 👀
@amabbie6
3 ай бұрын
"if Alex and clover think i messed up, i'm sorry" she better be blocked and have no way to contact them and apologize personally to them
@rashidareeves78
3 ай бұрын
Um. With all due respect, my intentions are not to body SHAME at all but she doesn’t look very healthy which may affect her way of thinking. 😔 *I never heard of her*
@jessicapurdum5084
3 ай бұрын
It sucks that they had to spend the day after their wedding responding to this. It’s also weird to refer to taking pictures/videos at a wedding as “content”.
@kennawap
3 ай бұрын
Ofc it was Lilah lol
@husyadaedee6475
3 ай бұрын
Excuse me what did these two clout chasers think would happen when they invited so many influencers? Like i dont know the girl but i remember these two from back in the day, they love the attention and im sure they’re enjoying the drama / victimizing themselves. Its just a 5 minute vlog people wtf?
@Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm666
3 ай бұрын
These weddings need to start having phone lockers some people are childish
@jenniferperez1473
3 ай бұрын
Not me realizing I’ve seen all of these TikTok’s on my fyp and didn’t know these people or that it was all connected 🙃
@matd
3 ай бұрын
im suprised a influencer relationship actually lasted usually tiktokers are always cheating//in drama n they always end. congrats to them tho
@Ashley-qu1bc
3 ай бұрын
The middle isle shot is CRAZY
@positivite.vibes.looveee639
3 ай бұрын
Now people know who to not invite 😭🤣
@alexandriagriego3101
3 ай бұрын
I hope they edit her out of pictures and videos they post. I feel like that a hilarious way to deal with people like how she behaves
@ammalualways5403
3 ай бұрын
I think an amazing example of having content from someone else’s wedding while also being respectful was LaurDIY’s wedding in April. Many guests were content creators, but they didn’t post ANYTHING about it until Lauren put out the official instagram post. She also told everyone to not vlog/take pics during the actual ceremony, AND EVERYONE WENT RESPECTED IT. Then at the after party everyone was allowed to film and stuff, and then posted their stuff like a week later after Lauren. AND THAT’S HOW IT’S SUPPOSED TO BE. Even ppl outside of the social media field will know this…
@tellyheatley123
3 ай бұрын
they should’ve just took everyone’s phones at the door lmfao
@Ash_beep
3 ай бұрын
I have a pretty good friend that was so overwhelmed at his wedding that he didn’t even recognize me. I was surprised and a little hurt but not in the least offended because someone else’s wedding isn’t about me 🤦♀️
@traplordskywalker6361
3 ай бұрын
"You know me" but then goes on to say "you don't know me"........ girl what ? But its CRAZY that she went from talking about her at their wedding to you need to worry about trans rights... Again, girl what ? 🥴 Also, I hate to say this, but what do you expect when you invite a sht ton of influencers ? This was bound to happen. Disappointed but not surprised.
@noneyab7011
3 ай бұрын
She has like 3 or 4 videos, of their wedding, still up on TikTok. Smh
@kayd828
3 ай бұрын
Aside from the drama Kovr looked absolutely stunning
@Sarah-LynnOssont
3 ай бұрын
okay but i didn’t know who this was till this happened -
@selindavis7389
3 ай бұрын
No influencer rule book????😂😂😂 oh my god. I cant. Its called respect and etiqette
@LaJazzyBelles
3 ай бұрын
Can’t stand when someone does something stupid they try to then bring up something about the world like bringing up trans laws or whatever they said. Like stop, this is not that.
@WhiteRaven696
3 ай бұрын
There’s no one messier than a member of the LGBT community. 🤭 Of course Lila is one of us.
@shelby6
3 ай бұрын
LGBT doesn't make you messy. Being a shitty person does.
@shelby6
3 ай бұрын
LGBT doesn't make you messy. Being a shitty person does.
@jessi5856
3 ай бұрын
i mean ya this is what happens when u make ur wedding an influencer social event
@grace7988
3 ай бұрын
having fellow influencers attend has nothing to do with the issue. notice how quite literally no one else posted about it.... it was a single person's lack of respect thats the problem.
@lillianabright03
3 ай бұрын
no??? being an influencer doesnt fucking mean you have th eright to do this. do you think that soemone becoming an influencer takes away basic manners and sympathy? You're a sad pathjetic person if you see people like that because of their JOB. you seem like someone who would defend an awful person because "what did they expect" NO sympathy to others.
@jessi5856
3 ай бұрын
@@grace7988 thats what i don’t understand is why she was even invited at all, she cant be that tight with them if she’d disrespect them like that and see nothing wrong with it, im sure there was a handful of people who were only there as an influencers, genuine close friends
@emily-yn6ny
3 ай бұрын
not her comparing their wedding to sbux & lax
@BrandonSurfsNow
3 ай бұрын
Inviting a ton of influencers to a wedding with a disclaimer for them to “be in the moment” just feels ironic.
@HalloweenSpookyDookie
3 ай бұрын
Im not entirely sure how true it is (also i couldnt find any vids) but apparently lilah snatched the bouquet from someone else. Judging based off of the stuff she posts, i wouldnt be surprised if she did
@Seventeeneyedrops
3 ай бұрын
It’s giving the toxic mother in law posting your baby announcement on their Facebook before you do 😂
@NicoleCinnaroll
3 ай бұрын
... the way she brought up trans laws is so strange. you can't say people being upset over a wedding isn't important because there's political stuff happening in the country right now... like how does that even correlate
@Twirlingbarbie
3 ай бұрын
My friends don't need a sign like that, it's common sense
@teeeesh4420
3 ай бұрын
lol this is a silly thing to harp on. I can’t imagine getting married but then being upset they posted pics?! I cannot think of a more ridiculous thing to be upset about lol
@realpixiestix
3 ай бұрын
This reminds me of Nikki Phillipi did this after Carly Cristman’s wedding. She posted a whole ass vlog the next day while Carly and her husband were on their honeymoon. Carly didn’t ask people not to film because she never thought people would be rude enough to do so. That is why she hired a videographer.
@slinkywhippet
3 ай бұрын
Well that was a dick move!
@whitykitty2651
3 ай бұрын
"I will never apologize for myself" next sentence "sorry if I offended anybody"-- is the most clear non-apology.
@brisenocturne1441
3 ай бұрын
they always play the T card.
@BerrySD
3 ай бұрын
Not lilah in the AISLE 7:22
@Kat-qb1uj
3 ай бұрын
That’s not gaslighting that’s manipulation
@coolbethboo
3 ай бұрын
Influencers are so out of touch with reality and lack so much common sense its concerning.
@Honeybeautybyb
2 ай бұрын
Her apology is giving “other mother” from the movie Coraline
@milkachugina
3 ай бұрын
His apology is atrocious
@jojobalcius190
3 ай бұрын
No because now whenever they think back on this beautiful day, they’ll think about how much drama that was created around their day, and it’ll be bittersweet. Nobody should have bitter memories of their wedding day. Shame on Lilah, it’s crazy that she even has friends.
@SoosLives1
3 ай бұрын
Social media made me super depressed. I was comparing myself to everyone on there and wondering why I could’ve have their life. I gave up social media for lent. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, I’m only on Snapchat, but only really use that for messaging, and I can tell you I feel RELIEVED. Had more time to focus on myself, my loved ones, and just being in the moment of things. I take pictures for the memories, not others. I think lots of influencers have learned to live in the moment and others still need to learn..
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