I'm a femme lesbian. I remember being in middle school and all the girls were boy crazy. If i got a "crush" on a boy, it would be because they were nice, funny, etc. It never had anything to do with looks. Then I went to girl scout camp the summer before freshman year. I saw this tomboy at the camp. This sensation happened in my body that I had never felt before. I was instantly infatuated. 25 years later, I've never had that sensation for any man. Compulsory hererosexuality is so programmed in people that they can't grasp that homosexuality is just as normal and requires no explanation.
@queen_jaylo222
5 ай бұрын
Yes! I’ve never had intercourse with a guy and I knew from a very young age that I was attracted to girls/women. And I don’t like when people say “Sumthin must’ve happened to them” and my question to that is so what about the ones that something happened to them fa real who are straight? 🤔 They be stuck without a answer 😂
@ashleyCu379
5 ай бұрын
😅😅😊😅😅😅😅😅😅
@tatinaanderson8035
16 күн бұрын
I've given someone the tantric experience but I myself has never had someone return the favor. It is not something easy but it Is very much so true.😊
@dyshemaross
5 ай бұрын
It’s something about the dynamic that you all that makes these conversations so interesting to watch. Thank y’all for being so open and vulnerable. I learn so much from watching y’all.
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for that observation!!! We have been friends since the 90s 💪🏾💪🏾❤
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@sophienalubega2856
3 ай бұрын
I was thinking exactly this. I love their chemistry.
@chunter7782
5 ай бұрын
Yes.. it’s important to communicate the levels of comfortability because we are all different. I don’t like to be licked like a dog or sucked like a vacuum.. It’s a turn off to me but your ex may have loved it!
@Latashalawler
2 ай бұрын
Talking about 🥵 listening to the one in grey talking about tantric intimacy.. something about true vulnerable intimacy so perfect..
@chunter7782
5 ай бұрын
You should have asked him how does he know he doesn’t like men if he’s never been with one 🤷🏾♀️ .. It’s mental for me. I knew the first day a saw a masculine presenting woman that I was not attracted to men. Everything about her was flattering.
@kellirai35
5 ай бұрын
I love the connection between the two of you this conversation was so vulnerable it makes me miss that spiritual connection I can only have with women. Bravo ladies😂😂❤😊😅
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
We appreciate your support!
@goldengoddessguidance2783
5 ай бұрын
Not spirit legs 😂😂😂😅
@mynk7329
5 ай бұрын
So thankful for yall… clear communication is key! Talking about sex is not always easy y’all made it effortless.
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Effortless??? Ok bet 💪🏾 thanks for watching!
@NyrishaThaA1singer
5 ай бұрын
Ok I would like to pose a part 2 of this and add different toys or interesting ways to introduce different type of sex or how to be more open to evasive things just to throw some things out there. Rope wrapping, shifting control, role play, spontaneity, what level do you open up Pandora’s box, like how deep does it go for the both of yall and or how closed off can it be. i always thought to give up control and trust in a sexual situation is such a sexy thing to me… 💁🏾♀️ I guess that’s tha Scorpio talkin 😌
@goldengoddessguidance2783
5 ай бұрын
A lot of masculine women I dated wouldn’t allow me to explore anything.
@ayepee9775
5 ай бұрын
That’s wild , I’m a stud and i love women , we can explore each other and more
@Urhiness415
5 ай бұрын
That’s the real problem
@drika..7611
5 ай бұрын
This is definitely the real problem masculine women not opening up in the bedroom!!!
@kellirai35
5 ай бұрын
@@JustObserving313 It’s a problem being in an intimate relationship with someone who is guarded, it becomes very challenging to grow
@kellirai35
5 ай бұрын
@@JustObserving313 Then how do you get through hard times with your partner if your only solution is to leave. It’s not about changing someone’s personality it’s knowing when situations from your past are not allowing you to grow as a person. Think about it, if you can’t allow yourself to be touched, you won’t be able to maintain a healthy relationship with anyone. Is holding onto fear more beneficial than dealing with what’s holding you back? The alternative is a life alone. In the end is it worth it?
@chanell_le3
5 ай бұрын
I really like this new dynamic…. ❤
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@SierraShante-S
5 ай бұрын
Aina was fighting for her life this episode lmao! I swear I feel that all the way tho im outside with y'all too! great episode as always great conversation and I never not laugh I be waiting on these episodes !
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for tuning in!
@tatinaanderson8035
16 күн бұрын
You have to be really connected to origasum from someone else's origasum.
@latashajordan2893
5 ай бұрын
I Enjoyed Watching Y'all Episodes. Y'all are Beautiful, and we are who we are. I Love, and Respect everybody's Lifestyle❤️❤️
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@latashajordan2893
5 ай бұрын
@@TheShellaSpherePodcast You're Welcome!❤️
@phenomenal5537
5 ай бұрын
Tantric 🙌❤ ... Yes, the 90's blended with tantric sounds playlist ... but it has to be experienced with a mature partner. Synchronizing your breathing is a great experience as well as a "prequalifier" to see if you can connect on a deeper tantric level. Once you experience THAT level of security within your sensuality as a woman, your energy is recalibrated to a different level.
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
A pre qualifier?? Ok bet! Thanks
@tianastephens8225
4 ай бұрын
This conversation had me parched🔥 💦 😂
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
4 ай бұрын
😩😂
@birdma108
5 ай бұрын
This is me and my cousin all day 😂😂😂
@faithmusser5219
4 ай бұрын
There are different types of organisms as well. 😮
@puseletso9776
5 ай бұрын
This topic needs part 2
@GoddezzTe.TravelerOnGoooo
5 ай бұрын
I really was intrigued with this episode and couldn’t wait for it and I enjoyed this episode so much very satisfied, keep up the good discussions ☺️‼️
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!
@ieshialeverette
2 ай бұрын
My partner & I are cracking up at those over 40 movements and rubs of those knees and shoulders! Girl it’s ok to stretch mid episode 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
Күн бұрын
😂😂
@tiffanytaylor45
5 ай бұрын
Just found this space but gotta say, I feel like I found my tribe! OMG You are ripping thoughts literally out of my mind. I thought I was the only one thinking how I think on a lot of these topics. I have literally binged all the videos leading up to this one. Keep doing what you do and bringing what you're bringing! I love it here.
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Welcome aboard! We appreciate you!
@1979MissMichelle
5 ай бұрын
Talking about sex and all its intricate details is never easy. I truly appreciate you all for being so transparent and vulnerable with us about sex and exploration. The dynamic is great for discussing such sensitive topics. I appreciate you all so much and this discussion is very helpful for those of us trying to improve our relationships with women on different levels. Love you all.
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
We love you back!
@kandi895
27 күн бұрын
It when in like i was fkkn😂😂😂
@london4447
2 күн бұрын
Nelcia cracks me UP!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am her and she is me on many things. 🤣🤣🤣
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
Күн бұрын
We are one lol Thank you 🙏🏾
@NanaTheDon
5 ай бұрын
Ayy love the vibes ladies keep it up😊
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@XRESET.AND.FLY555
4 ай бұрын
MARQUITA was definetely suffering !! oh Leo , leo ,leo with their dirty mind hahahaha.... you guys should do a pod on astro sign you dated
@luvdastuds
5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 I can not stop laughing ❤❤❤ and I'm like yup yup yup 😂😂😂
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
We appreciate you watching!
@becominglala9365
5 ай бұрын
Y’all have me cracking up 😂
@GiGiDupris
5 ай бұрын
Great episode 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I was thoroughly entertained
@LinuxHurts
5 ай бұрын
Anyone should talk to their partner BEFORE the sex. If you do it BEFORE, everything can be worked out. It's that simple! ; )
@BrookeWilson-tp8mh
Ай бұрын
This was the most informative episode to date (8/19)! Thank yal for being so open and educating us willingly. Please keep up this awesome safe space!✨ ~Blessings🙏🌹
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
Күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@tarahhhj
5 ай бұрын
I’m curious to know how often is too often when it comes to libido for you both? You said you like to miss it, so what’s a time range?
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
We’ll add this as an ending question to a future episode.
@BVsaceswz
3 ай бұрын
Where can I leave some questions for the show? Is there a way we can speak on upcoming topics?
@faithmusser5219
4 ай бұрын
How often have you ladies experienced your partner's surprise at being able to have multiple organisms during love making? It seems that women don't know what they are actually capable of in the bedroom. But when they discovered that it was like taking it to a new level. There was a happy shock and surprise!
@YondiasHill
5 ай бұрын
I love y'all sooooooo much!!! Spirit legs huh.... 😏
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
We love you back!
@chunter7782
5 ай бұрын
Wait am I late to the party..
@2mrsnenajess
3 ай бұрын
Damn... This Conversation Is Not For The Singles Sleepin Alone 🔥 😅 🥴 Yes To Frequencies Playin 😋 Yes To Masculine Centered Women With Little Femininity 💯 Yes To That Descriptive Fantasy From A 🫦
@theselfcenterllc
5 ай бұрын
I'm in my voyeuristic bag today 😅 I don't have any comments except this one 🍵🍿 Edit: I straight lied to myself and yall 😅 I tore that live chat up honey! 🤣🤣🤣 **sips lemon water**
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Lol I love your comments 💪🏾💯
@Musiq3031
5 ай бұрын
I am a verbal person I enjoy leading sometimes a person that can let go and just let me enjoy they is an extreme turn on if you’re uptight or in your head too much it ruins the mood . When it comes to me being with a masculine presenting it’s a must that you can relax and trust I will respect your boundaries but at the same time take you to a place you haven’t explored
@DJLisha
5 ай бұрын
Aina must be a Leo 🥴
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Yup lol
@lovelyval4397
5 ай бұрын
I have definitely faked it but at this grown age I would just stop the woman and tell her it’s not it. 🥴. Communication is the key. Learning her body 💪🏼
@allahshas4498
5 ай бұрын
I'm so happy that I'm watching this after work. Bc ya'll definitely had me lmao in this...
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 Thanks for watching
@herwhirledvue
5 ай бұрын
Just wanted to say I appreciate your podcast and look forward to yall's new episodes every time they drop. Thanks for creating a space for discussion for the Shellas
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for tuning in 💪🏾
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
We appreciate your presence here!!!
@Musiq3031
5 ай бұрын
This episode definitely needs a part 2!
@dferg9320
5 ай бұрын
Communication is a MUST!! Side note…. 2 guest I highly recommend. Candle Bae and Damn Mindy.
@drika..7611
5 ай бұрын
I say yes if it’s together!!!
@sherinathorpe
5 ай бұрын
This was Dope I really enjoyed the conversation ❤❤❤
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@marsha_rose
5 ай бұрын
Loved this episode. You two being open and honest about your experiences was great to watch.
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@888beloved
5 ай бұрын
Can someone please tell me what the hell “Pokémon” is??? In all of my lesbianism I have never come across such terminology I’m so confused & thrown off.
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
😂 Pokémon is a term myself and a college teammate made up for fingering 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ we had clique 😩😩😂😂😂 and a handshake
@888beloved
5 ай бұрын
@@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast wow. & after all these years, you guys let that live like it was in the dictionary 😂 that’s the word that stood the test of time? An unsexy anime born term. That’s great.
@YoHLaNG
5 ай бұрын
This was so good and entertaining 😂❤🎉
@Bellalovelola
5 ай бұрын
This was a great conversation
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Promise_Faith_love
4 ай бұрын
Skin glistening 😊. Love the glow
@allahshas4498
5 ай бұрын
That still line... 😂😂😂😂😂🤐
@tdsiva9051
3 ай бұрын
Awesome sauce
@crystalrios3192
5 ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@Rita30rage
5 ай бұрын
👂👏😊❤❤
@chunter7782
5 ай бұрын
Ok moneybagg yo 😂😂
@queen_jaylo222
5 ай бұрын
I’m trying to donate to the Cashapp but the profile is not poppin up when I type in the name.
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
It’s $theshellas 🙏🏽
@queen_jaylo222
5 ай бұрын
Can you post the link in the description? For some reason it’s nothing popping up when I type in that name.
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
cash.app/$theshellas
@queen_jaylo222
5 ай бұрын
@@TheShellaSpherePodcast ok that worked
@themadamizm2558
5 ай бұрын
Ohh this dope🔝
@ladyant73
5 ай бұрын
😉🫶🏾🔥
@TheAndromeda24
4 ай бұрын
This is thee best conversation!
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching!!
@MsNastasiaB
5 ай бұрын
👀 👂🏼
@bonoloferim2259
5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@angelabrockington4817
5 ай бұрын
I love it here ❤
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@TheClosetRatchet
5 ай бұрын
Aina so fine. Damn.
@SCISSORINGQUEEN
5 ай бұрын
New subscriber here ❤
@TheShellaSpherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Welcome!! We appreciate your presence in this space!
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast
5 ай бұрын
Yoooo! This @ is crazyyyyu!! 💪🏾💪🏾 Thanks for watching!
@JuscallmeRobbie
5 ай бұрын
Great episode! Keep them coming 😂
@nikag8666
5 ай бұрын
This was a great episode and I related a LOT. I am glad you covered a subject that we shy away from because sex is powerful and communication is key. 🫶🏾👍🏾
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